HOW TO ACT WHEN MEETING NEW WOMEN

So I just got a message from a member of AlphaZolin Club. He DM me on Instagram He said, "Hey, can you make a podcast on approaching women in the right mindset to have etc?" So let's get started with a quote that I wrote and is when it comes to approaching a menu people it all comes down to the vibe tone of your voice body language and genuine interest to learn more about the other person and any relationship You should be looking to give but also be aware of how much effort the other person is giving and reciprocate that same level when it comes to meeting women it should be with the intent of giving her a great fun and exciting experience At the end of the day, it's your fun bus You're gonna have fun with or without her and you will not stop your fun bus for anyone Be yourself as the catch and she will too those who don't will simply miss out on the great opportunity to meet a great human like you So with that quote The basic ideology of that quote is to have a self loving mindset towards yourself and you also have to understand what women want Okay, and women just want to have fun. It's very simple. So when it comes to being out in public anywhere at parties at events or just simply walking around and you come across A cute girl right and even guys as well. You think I think you should be treating all girls and guys exactly the same Especially when it comes to introducing yourself to them and meeting them and talking to them It is very important So with number one is the vibe the vibe and energy of Your guys is experienced right so when you are talking to someone How are you feel in that moment is exactly how the other person feels as well and? You could sense it if it's awkward or if it's weird or if it just feels unnatural That's not the vibe you want has to feel natural has come from a place of Authenticity and shouldn't be coming from a place of I'm gonna walk up to this chick so I can You know get something from her. I'm gonna walk up to do so I get something from him You know, it's very inauthentic. You should be coming up to people with the genuine interest of Want to learn more about the other person and the genuine interest of figuring out who that person is what they believe in and Other things like that and that's how you automatically build an authentic vibe and I think it's it's super important because it really does come down to the vibe but then a day You get a vlux money, but if she's not feeling it and you're just a weirdo It doesn't matter if you can't turn her on and you are saying all the wrong things It's not gonna be right. I was at the I was at a party yesterday and One girl is talking to right behind the bar as two girls one and her friend You know, I sit there with one of my buddies. I was talking to and You know these two girls come around. He's talking to them. I'm just letting him talk to them They stop talking to him. I tell one of the girls. Hey, can you make me a fucking Martini and then You know, I told her Stirred not shaken and she started laughing and then she pretended to make me a drink because there was no drinks back there But she pretended to make me a drink She gave me an empty white claw and I said thank you and then I pretended to drink it And I said this is dog water the fuck did you make me start laughing her friends are laughing and It automatically clicked from there and I wasn't looking to get something from her. I wasn't looking to You know try to make her laugh is coming from a place of Making myself laugh actually it came from a place of you know self- entertainment this is one thing Austin Summers talks about as well. I want to do a podcast with Austin Summers very soon He reminds me a lot of Corey and he talks a lot about the vibe and energy and His wideology is self- entertainment when it comes to talking to girls The biggest thing he talks about is you should be doing insane things not caring about what other people think But you should be coming from a place of How it makes you feel and because however you feel it's the women and other people around you are gonna reciprocate So if things are making you laugh and you find things funny or interesting, guess what other people are gonna feel the same way as well I guess as especially if you're controlling the room right and that's the one thing I love about This guy that's recently started watching Austin Summers His videos are great. I highly recommend you guys go watch his videos and He's a very genuine authentic guy and he's a great dating coach as well and him and Corey Wayne have a lot in common Which I definitely like and he has a lot more experience than me as well when it comes to this stuff But I started watching a few of his videos because Paulo recommended me to his videos and he talked about a lot of things I was already doing naturally from just learning about Corey's book But he kind of explains it in a A step-by-step process, which is nice And one of those steps is self- entertainment. So I was just acting like James Bond I was pretending to be James Bond and the girls were loving it and I was loving as well because it's just funny I was just saying the same the girls asked me, you know, what's your name? I don't even know these six names, but they're asking for my name and I was like Logan and Yeah, there's it there just kept asking me a bunch of questions and it was very genuine and authentic Vib and my buddy just sitting there watching me talk these chicks one of her friends the girl that wasn't really talking to the one that wasn't making me the fake drink comes around and Yeah, we just started Getting off from there, but you know she just asked me some questions. I was asking her questions She said where are you from? I'm like, well, I can't tell you if I tell you I'm out to kill you I wouldn't want to have to do that, right? I was just easier making fun of her making jokes Acting like James Bond and it was funny. I was laughing. She was laughing and she enjoyed it I was enjoying it, but I didn't come from a place of oh, I'm trying to get something from this girl or You know, I want to hook up with her it later came from a place of having fun and just Self entertainment really so the whole vibe was very natural in it and we clicked instantly And in that situation, you know, we were already sitting down. They came to us. So it's perfect Right in those situations. That's when it's best to start communicating with the girls who come sit by you and come into your into your frame and When it comes to walking and approaching women, it's very important to have a Great body language and the tone of your voice, right? The tone of my voice when I speak you guys can hear I'm not very I'm not very robotic When it comes to very to things that I'm very passionate about right? So when we're talking about things you have to be very passionate about the things you talk about because when you are passionate about the things you talk about The tone changes the vibe changes and everything else changes your genuine interest changes And it's just like when you're in fucking class and your teacher makes you presentate some shit like you're not gonna be all excited and Fucking happy to presentate that shit like you're just gonna be like, all right. Yeah, so this is that shit That's that that's what that does photosynthesis bullshit whatever whatever whatever right and Yeah, that's pretty much it and when those girls were talking to me I was on this stool leaning all the way back just chilling and she was rubbing all of Bami touching me everywhere So her J&M interest was very high But you know, I was just there to have fun meet people to connect with other people Other promoters other People who throw these parties and I was just talking with these dudes mostly But yeah, these girls were very interested in me and I didn't really make it my whole intent to get with these girls Which if that is your intent you could easily do that and it is what is but these girls Not really my type so that's is what is and it's usually that way It's the girls that you're not really interested in seem to like you the most and that's why I say it's very important to treat all girls the same Because if you treat the hottest chicks in the room just like the girls you aren't that interested in you're gonna have success always That's exactly how I was treating it. I wasn't treating it of oh my god I gotta say or do something to attract this girl or I say the right thing I was saying things to just entertain myself. I was saying things just to make myself laugh Because I thought it was funny. I was just acting like James Bond. I thought that was hilarious Because I don't think these girls picked on to what I was talking about but they were slapping they they had no idea But I did so it's kind of inside joke towards me and my buddy. So it was funny and Then the tone obviously is very important how you say things and How you word it is very important and When it comes to being seductive it's very important to talk slower and softer the one thing I love to do as well is I Just point the girl and I tell her to come in right with my fingers and I usually tell her how I want to whisper you something and I just talk to her right? That's the easiest way to tell her level interest and you can do this all girls You know if they have you know not extremely high interest but girls are gonna be okay. Yeah, tell me right it's a very Interesting thing to do that they're sitting and It works all the time and also you break the contact bridge as well when you put your hand behind their back Um, whatever behind their neck, touch their hair, you know, touch behind their ears, those things like that. Very important spots to touch. And especially when they're touching it back, it makes it much better. And that girl was extremely interested because she was just touching me all over, asking me all the questions, trying to figure out who I was, and I was being very mysterious, not telling her anything, and I was just teasing her and being playful with her. And uh, you know, I also, at the same time, I was telling her, you know, you're not the girl for me. I can't talk to you. You're too, you're too good for me. I'm, I'm too much of a bad guy for you, you know, saying things like that, telling her no, you know, you don't want me. I try pushing her away as well, right? Which is another thing that girls and I very used to is guys pushing away and creating that, that sexual desire, right, is creating that, I don't know what the word is called exactly, but it's creating that whole experience of wanting, making people want you even more, right? So when you're kissing and grow, you kind of pull back. You pull away for a little bit. The same thing with your attention in your time. You pull away for a little bit to create attraction. And it works all the time. You know, she's getting very close to you. You know, you guys are all over each other. Take a step back and walk away. She might want the fuck because most guys don't have the self control to just walk away and never see the girl again. But I can completely just make out with the girl and never see her again. I can completely get with the girl and never see her again, right? But obviously in some situations you don't want to do that. But in this situation, we're hitting off super well and I decided to just slowly push her away after she got so close to me. She kept trying to come towards me, even closer and closer and closer and build that sexual desire, right? And that's another really important thing to do is to do that. But when it comes to approaching and meeting women, you should always have a self loving mindset towards yourself, right? You should see yourself as a catch. You should see yourself as giving her such a great and amazing experience, which you should if you are doing that for everyone, right? Because at the end of the day, it's your fun bus. You're the driver. You get to decide who's on your fun bus and who's not. And when you invite people on your fun bus, you know, you are giving them a great opportunity to have fun with you. There's no other guy like you, right? And it is what is. And that's how I view myself. I view myself as a catch. I view myself as the leader of my fun bus, right? I see the driver and I lead it to wherever I want to go. I drive it to wherever I want to go. And I don't stop for anyone. And that's the mindset you should have for any relationship when it comes to meeting people and approaching women or even guys as well. You know, you should also be looking at the other person's level of interest as well. And so I'm always reading that. So not only am I saying and doing things to build her interests, I'm also consistently reading her level of interest and desire, her body language, things like that. So once you master yourself, it becomes much easier to not stop thinking about what you're doing. And now you can start just looking at what the other person is doing. Because in the beginning stages of talking to people for the first time, you're very self-conscious of, oh, what do I look like? What do I sound like? Am I walking weird? Am I talking weird? Am I looking weird? Guys are very self-conscious getting their head and then guess what? That same vibe and energy reflects onto the other person and the other person starts thinking about the same thing. Like why is this person so self-conscious about himself? Right? You should not be self-conscious. You should not be in your head. You should be thinking and trying to figure out the other person. That should be your main focus. You should not be thinking about yourself. And it comes naturally over time when you start to just master yourself. That's why it's so important to master yourself. Because master yourself is powerful and it's great. But imagine when you have the ability to master others. That's true, true power. Right? So that's why it's super important to practice. Practice talking to people, walk up to people saying hi. What's up? Hi, guys. Nice going. Are you guys having fun? You know, what do you guys think about the music? Right? And it is what is. And girls are either going to talk to you or they're just going to ignore you. They're going to be dry. That's OK. You know? It is what is. You walk away and it is what is it. There's plenty of girls out in this world. Like, even if you live, bum fuck, nowhere, there's plenty of girls everywhere. As long as you are going out and having fun, you will just attract those people as well. So body language is super important. I have a full podcast on body language. But basically chest up, head up, you know, very confident in yourself. And it is what is. Right? Legs spread wide open. Be very open. Don't be so closed off. Guys who are very closed off show that they're insecure and they're trying to protect themselves. For me, I'm open. I'm very open and I'm showing that I'm open to receiving and accepting other people. Right? So they get sense that. They get sense that, oh, I can talk to this person and I can show them who I really am and they're going to accept it. It all comes down to business. All comes down to body language. And if you understand sales as well, this is very important. All these things come down to sales because when it comes to women, you're selling yourself. Right? So if you understand sales, you are the product and you're trying to sell yourself to the other person, right? You're trying to get the other person to buy it. And you also consistently have to be trying to show her the world. You have to be showing her a fun time. Guys, they get too serious and I remember seeing one do last night just absolutely just ruining it. Like, walk up to girls telling her how much she's beautiful. Oh my God, you're dressed so beautiful, just like you and I'll be like, holy shit. I was much cringiest shit I've ever heard. But this is what guys think works and these girls, oh, that's so funny. And then I'd walk up to the chicken bag. That was adorable. What that guy said was adorable. And then we both laugh and walk away later on and be talking to the chick later, right? So it is what it is, right? But that's why it's super important to not be so giving and looking at what the other person is doing as well. Because these guys are just giving out free tension, free validation and compliments to these chicks who simply don't even know who the fuck they are. Like, bro, she's gonna ask for your name and you're giving away all these compliments. Like, the girl who's all over me, I didn't say she is cute, I didn't say she's attractive, I didn't say any of these things. I said the complete opposite. I told her she was not for me. I disqualified her. Which girls do this all the time to guys. Oh, you're too short. Oh, you're not my type. Oh, I like tall guys. Oh, I'm not into Asian dudes or I'm more into black dudes or white dudes or whatever, whatever, whatever they say. It doesn't matter. It doesn't affect me. It doesn't affect my course of action. And then a day, I'm gonna do and say whatever the fuck I wanna say. Because I find it funny, I find it interesting and that's it. That's all I care about, right? And it's a simple test. And girls do this to guys all the time. It's a test of your strength. It's a test to see what you're really made of. Because guys will automatically look at that and be like, oh my god, oh my god, she doesn't like the way I look, she doesn't like my hair, she doesn't like how I dress. I don't give a fuck. I do not give a fuck what anyone thinks of me at all. But guys become so self-conscious when they hear things like this and they think, oh my god, I'm not good enough for her. I'm not good enough for her, right? And that's why it's super important, especially if you are controlling the situation to disqualify the person. I remember as well, in the one thing about Bugatti and all these higher end cars, their salesmen disqualifies people right away. Like when Andrew T. tried buying a Bugatti, the first thing they said was, no, no, you can't buy this car. It's not for you. And it made Andrew be like, no, no, no, trust me, I want it even more now because you told me I can't have it, right? It's the same thing. Women want what they can't have. And this is with a lot of people, right? We desire things that are scarce, the things that we can't have, the things that are very hard to get. And we value it even more. So when you come when you're flirting with girls, that's why I sue important to disqualify them and tell them, oh, you're too tall for me. I like girls for a shorter. Like, what do you mean? I am short, right? And they'll try to prove themselves to you. So you put them in a position for them to try to prove themselves worthy to your attention or to be even with you. The same thing that guys would do, the same thing that Simps do is they try to prove themselves to the girl. Oh, I can be funny. Oh, I can be a nice guy. I can do all these things for you. And they try to do all these things into the fucking work, right? So that's why you want to be in control of all these situations and conversations. And I was in complete control of all my conversations as talking to dudes. Just me, new people talking to chicks. All the dudes I was talking to were like, bro, bro, fucking what's your Instagram bro? Like, I need to follow you. You know, I, I, at one point, we're all talking about Andrew Tate and, uh, and, uh, like the red pill and all these guys were so interested in what I had to say they're like bro we got a follow on instagram bro like you have to have a podcast or something I'm like dude it would be fucking crazy if I did have a podcast because that should be blown up right and then later the final they see that I do have a podcast so right so even with the dudes I'm I'm being mysterious I'm being playful I'm being funny and I make jokes right um because that's who I am you know I like to mess around and I like to have fun right I make a joke out of everything I make a joke out of anything because I really don't care that much about a lot of things I don't really have that many fucks to give and people get sense that that's like the worst people you want to get in a fight with is the people that have no fucks to give and these these are the guys that are the most attractive to women are these guys who have no fucks to give right they're not fearful of anything and uh I think that's that's really important and but going back to showing her the world is you have to show her a great time you have to show her a great experience you have to show her around even as well even if you're on her first date you're showing her multiple places and new experiences that's why it's so this one they undertake talks about as well as is he values girls who haven't seen the things that he's seen or that most girls have seen right he values the girls who are who are you know not really knowledge of seeing these new these new places right so he takes them to a restaurant you know they're not like oh my god yeah my friends been here they took me here there's been the place right she oh right you are you automatically know these things are being paid for oh yeah I flew there I flew there I flew there she doesn't work so you already know that some of these paying for these tickets right you want a girl who's not like this you want a girl you can show the world to and these are girls that I'm more sure as well girls that haven't been all over the world haven't traveled that much because I want to give them that opportunity to see these places and do these things right I don't want to girls like oh yeah I've done that I've done this I've done that like this shit's boring whatever right you want a girl who's like really interested and you know it is what it's right and that's the types of girls I'm into and it's very hard to find these girls nowadays because some of these girls a lot of these girls have sugar days fucking flying out everywhere it is what is but you know it is what is but that's why it's so important to find girls who haven't seen or done the things that you've done that's why you have to be very creative and you have to figure out things to do that's very exciting and fun and playful and yeah they will appreciate it a lot more especially if they never done these things but yeah it's your fun bus of that a day that should be your mindset it should be a self loving mindset towards yourself it's your fun bus and yeah that's it I don't think you should overthink you shouldn't be in your head thinking about what you look like or what you sound like you shouldn't be self conscious and you should have the confidence of knowing whatever the outcome is it doesn't fucking matter if she denies you great you got her out the way go to talk to her friends great her friends are like cool go talk to the next group of friends that's how you should be viewing it same thing as sales cold calling cool you're not should be hang up you know next person next person next person next person next person next person it's a numbers game at the end of the day especially with women and the great thing is there's just so many numbers there's so many fish in the sea and that's why it's so important to have an abundance mindset and really it comes also another abundance mindset to have is you already have enough women in your life you don't need any more women but you're there to show these girls a great time you know I don't need anyone else but you know you're lucky I'm even talking to you or you're lucky that I'm showing you such a great experience and you're lucky to be hang out such a great guy like me right I have enough women but you know I have room for one more right that should be your mindset shouldn't be extremely cocky it shouldn't be you know push rubbing it and push it in her face and you get so many chicks but it's automatically she's gonna automatically sense that you do talk to so many girls because you're super confident you have a self-advanced mindset you don't mind walking away from girls who you know disrespect you right you have the balls to walk away from anyone who disrespect disrespects you or you know is not reciprocating the same level of interest and there's what is so hopefully you guys enjoyed this podcast and hopefully you guys 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