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How A Southern Belle Jumps The Broom

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How A Southern Belle Jumps The Broom

The transcript is a candid, opinion-driven commentary on pop culture, celebrity behavior, and personal accountability. The host critiques Beyoncé’s billionaire status and recent actions, arguing that her public persona and emotional priorities—such as prioritizing a moment with a white woman over her career—reveal a lack of integrity. A major point of contention is Nicki Minaj’s on-stage statement, where she claims a personal connection with Erica Kirk surpasses her achievements, which the host sees as deeply disrespectful to fans and marginalized communities. The host also examines the growing number of legal cases against celebrities, including Drake for promoting gambling via "Stake" and Tyler Perry for alleged grooming and inappropriate contact with minors. Donnie McClarkin faces similar accusations, with claims of grooming and emotional manipulation over two decades ago. The conversation extends to Cardi B, whose public defense of a baby daddy and emotional involvement in a legal dispute is criticized as immature and damaging to children. The overarching theme is that fame and wealth do not absolve individuals of personal responsibility, and that emotional maturity, self-reflection, and accountability are essential for public figures. The host urges listeners to question not just the actions of celebrities, but the values they represent—especially in matters of race, gender, and power. The tone is critical yet empathetic, calling for growth and deeper awareness in the face of modern celebrity culture.

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[Music] Hot damn horror. Here we go again. Light as a rock, bitch! What's the next part? I have no idea. Hard as a cock, bitch! Welcome the fuck back, ladies and gentlemen. I'm that 2026 girl. I'm the 2026 girl. I'm the new year girlly. I'm that girl that you're gonna wish you did not cross in 2025 because she's upright and she's bloodthirsty. And I was right. I was right. Everything I say is right. You'd be better off if you did what I said. And this is the raid. Thanks for coming back. Welcome to 2026. It is. And welcome. Here we are. In this joke. Laughing. How's your mum Donnie? It's pretty good so far. He's already pissing off the land lords. So, you know, great sign. Wow, like first. You know what? Let's not even waste any time. Straight off the bat. But yeah, it's feeling good over in mum Donnie's thumb. Did you see that trying to compare his him waving at the inauguration to Elon Musk? No, they did not try. It was the lamest, most perfect. It was like, girl, you can you, you should have just, hey, eyed this like no one. It was like he was not only just obviously waving. It was like a wave where the finger. Okay. Okay. So not even like a top way. Like a cute baby. Exactly. Like a one-year-old boy is explicitly away. You know, they're desperate for something to say about the girl. But mum Donnie likes Jewish people more than Elon or Trump does. And I don't know how y'all don't see that. Like, mum Donnie's not even at his submitted like, okay, strange. But yeah, we're doing good. Mashallah. How about you? You know, we're just scratching. We're surviving. It's warm. It's warm. I was about to fucking say because let me tell you one thing about New York City. It's not. You'll have to. Baby, what is it? It's 36 degrees. And I'm like, oh, thank God. A little warm finally, a little reprieve because it gets to like six. The windshield and everything. It anyway, it gets bad. I'm quite jealous. We're currently coasting at a nice 59 or highs or 62 or lows or 50. You know, it's just a little bit brisk. In the evening time, maybe a jacket when I walk lengthings of that nature. It rained yesterday. That was really, really awful. So the weather here is, you know, we're making it. It has snowed twice in the last two weeks. I do not care about y'all's little rainfall. Well, let's not waste anymore of Beyonce. I'm left into every birthday blue. Oh my God. It's today Wednesday, the seventh. Happy birthday. Miss Tina posted the cutest thing on her Instagram. You should go read the whole caption. It's so sweet. But she ended it with saying, you know, happy birthday to my manager. And we were like, correct, correct. We all knew it. But yes. We have hoodies that say it now. I should forgot to buy one. Everybody's just leaning into it because she's always been that girl. And you know, we clocked it early. But yeah, she's a Capricorn. Please. With a Capricorn grandmother and a Virgo mother, like she was, she just is doing what she was born to do. Happy birthday, baby. Look at this. I see the post. Yeah. It's so sweet. I remember this first picture. Like it was yesterday. Right. All of them. I remember hello blue ivy dot tumblr dot com. Jesus Christ Jesus. We are old. She's 14 now. Super tall. One of the highlights of my life was when she looked at me and kept walking. I was never been monitored. I've been in the same room as her. Yeah. And she looked dead at me and was like, yeah, don't know who that is. Oh, it was great. Holy shit. Yeah. You know, some things I forgot about happened. Yeah. This is adorable. Yeah. I feel like they have made red. Such a mess. Yeah. Wait. Raven's on the dispatcher. Raven's Simone. Yeah. Is she. Yeah. She directly. That white woman. Oh, on the show show. Oh, I thought you meant like a podcast. Okay. I'm not sure if she's not. No. No. No. No. No. She's on the dispatcher when she got a blonde bar. So she's acting. Okay. She playing the daughter's girlfriend. I wouldn't be shocked. I'm going to watch this. I love the miss patch show. It's so great. It's so funny. And she's I can just see by this clip. She's already doing physical comedy. Okay. She's like. Like. Yeah. I will be checking this out because I'm sure I'm going to crack up laughing. All right. Blackhecks of this week is going to go to a young man on the south side of Chicago by the name of Alex Anning. Because late last year, he decided for his birthday. What he wanted was to provide food to people, families in need in his community. So he organized a food drive to feed 150 families specifically in Chicago. He reportedly got this idea from kindergarten student, classmate of his, who says he wants spent. Oh, she wouldn't spend her birthday feeding the homeless. And so Alex told his mom, Kimberia, that he wanted to also get into the philanthropic lifestyle. And so that's what they did. November. They partnered with season to store on on profit. And they had the food drive at Kerry Jacobs Bond Elementary School. And yes, it was a mighty success from groceries to clothing, whatever your heart could give. It was gave. And so shout out to the young souls and the young hearts, yet to be a scarred by the evils of this. And who will in the light of God's mercy and grace. Continue to walk in this divine order because they aren't lying to you. Let me tell you what I wanted for my birthday at eight books and action figures. A little of that toys, a doll whose hair you could perm. I think her name was Kenya. Yeah. And it came with a little perm. Those are fierce. Like they were really were fierce. Why wouldn't you want to be a hair stylist for the damn dog? I mean, and the whole point because normally you get a dog and your mama's like, I swear if you cut that doll's hair, we're not getting you another doll. But the whole point of this and she came with bundles like you could purchase bundles. Oh, you remember. I'm afraid. I was. Hello, girl, what are you talking about? Child, me and my cousin was obsessed with that doll. That's what I wanted. So this is a what a beautiful child, what a beautiful spirit. Yes. So shout out to you and two mom can be young for birthing and raising. Shout out to you doing God's work. Indeed. So what's transition into a second of the show that we surround and pop culture is called. You know, we took the last couple of weeks off and quite a bit has transpired. Quite a bit. Jesus Christ. So listen, I don't even take your time. Just take your time. I'm going to get through. I just I don't if I didn't talk about whatever the fuck happened. Something if there's a missing link puzzle piece here. Charge to the game, bitch. How was I supposed to there's like are you all okay? Yeah, like the pop the celebrity girl is what's going on? What's going on? All right. So Forbes does the Beyonce's ability now. So she's building their fifth musician to obtain the status. Longsider has been around a Bruce Springsteen Taylor Swift. Yes, it says that obviously she has a million bajillion. businesses and companies and things like that. Most of them we obsessed over on this podcast so if you listen to it then you know this. But I'm reading that her music and dentures as a musician is really like the main source of this. Okay. So yeah, I mean duh, Beyonce. This isn't really surprising to me. I understand like she's a black woman and we, I guess eat billionaires now. So we're not supposed to be happy about this. Silentaneously, I also know that this person has been working frequently hard since they were in a literal child. So yeah, I also believe that it's impossible to be a billionaire without exploiting somewhere undercutting, exploiting someone, undercutting someone somewhere at some point. So do it that way. Yeah, I mean, I think Beyonce has been a billionaire. I have those same feelings about billionaire status. And as I've said many times on this show, black people are the last ones that I'm criticizing for aspiring to make a lot of money because most of us were literally taught to do that. This is the United States of America. There's no country that encourages you to accumulate wealth more than this one does. So you know, feelings about billionaires or whatever aside, like y'all not gonna don't bother me about Beyonce until she starts acting like Nicki Minaj. Okay, until she starts doing some mega shit, I don't care. If your critique of her is she's very wealthy, I already know that it's not gonna get me off of that lady's music. It's not gonna keep me from her tours. So okay. And I'm still buying sacred. Sacred, Sir Davis, Ivy Park, all of the, it's me. It's me. Okay. I gave her the money. So be mad at me. I gave her the thing. Like, do you know how much money I've given George fucking Clooney when it comes to alcohol? Oh, baby, that comes with me. And nobody blinks twice. Oh, and I still do it. Oh, yeah. I like Sir Davis. It tastes good. I like sacred. It works. So I'm not going to defend, but I don't know why people keep coming to me about, oh, well, what are you going to say about Beyonce? No, I like fancy beauty too. That's why Rihanna is the millionaire. She's the one for me. I mean, billionaire, one for me. Like, when she starts going on stage with Erica Kirk, talking about how nuts. Let's talk about her. Okay, wonderful. Let's do that. Man, you can bother me about that lady, but in rich, I don't care. Okay, so two things about O'Neal, Tonya. And I'm going to just like, and then I'm going to just leave it alone. Three things. One sick. Two shut in. One sick. Two shut in. Three. The current chapter of the shenanigans, I'm going to be perfectly honest with you. You know, the squid remain where he's out sunbathing and he takes a look to the side and then he goes right back to sunbathing. That's me. I looked at this and I was just like, okay, this is so far outside of my business and concern. I'm also not very surprised. So we'll just see what the streets say about it when they have something to say. They will, I guess, entertain or engage me. So that's the third. Fourth, what the streets have been saying has entertained me. They're booing mama in the club. Or in pain. They're over it. The girlies, the girlies are on change.org calling for this lady to be deported. They hate this bitch. They want her gone. Yeah. And they are over it. They are finally, finally, finally, the barbs are like, I guess you niggas had a point. I guess y'all did. Because look at what she's doing now. So I also, I'm like, fuck is wrong with her. Oh, it's a lot of things, you know, it's a combination of issues. I'm going to say mental illness, drugs, and wealth are her three top problems. Why did they come out like they were about to fight stone cold Steve. Fucking honest. And why are we still doing this? That whole turn and point USA thing was so ridiculous. Sit down with Erica Kirk, who your husband that got popped made it clear. He did not like her. Did not think she was a good role model. None of that shit. So whatever. Nikki needs a grift. She needs she is over here doing mega shit. I didn't knew that. I didn't expect her to do this though. And what really got me. I know a lot of y'all going to be like, oh, the part where she said, you know, black girls don't have to put down white girls. And I don't need white girls to denounce their blonde hair and blue eyes. And they don't need to denounce their beauty because that was stupid enough. What got me was when she told Erica Kirk that that moment being on stage with that white woman who's pretending to be sad about her dead husband meant more to her than all the things she's done in her career. And she explicitly said, I've done all these shows across the world. All the moments with my fans, all the things that I've done and accomplished. It just, you know, it just doesn't mean as much as this moment here right now. And I said, I refuse to believe that you heard of Erica Kirk before three to four months ago. Absolutely. She didn't. Absolutely. She did not. Now, why she is going so hard on the mega dick. I don't know. I wrote Nikki off years ago. We know this about me. It's been so many times of dragging her on this show. There's really even nothing. I just thought, wow, imagine being a barb, right? I mean, you can remember. And for years, you have pretended and looked the other way or tried to justify it when this lady did all kinds of terrible shit, treated other people horribly. Right. Especially in the last few years, you know, the mocking uh, mix dead mama and all the shit she's done. You've tried so hard because you love this lady, okay? You've been down since day one, pink wig, thick ass and you, you go to all her shows, you buy all of her music, you and you clock in on Twitter and TikTok every day to defend her. And she got up there and told that white woman that you and your devotion to her mattered less than the chance to get on stage with that bitch. I said, could you disrespect the barbs any more than you already have? Let boys be boys. These homosexuals in skirts and makeup at your shows. Really? Uh, these are my trans women. Who wants trans kids? Oh, I'm sorry. Those are your, did you know those were your fans? Did you know that when you acted like you were a supporter of the LGBTQ community? They took that seriously. Like, who do you think goes to your shows? Who do you think is defending you? At 90% of them are homosexual black men. I wouldn't be surprised if she's resentful for that. She probably want like, I wouldn't be surprised if she wants more accolades from street niggas or just like hetero said, you know what I mean? She has a homophobic, transphobic person. I wouldn't be surprised if she looks out of this sea of women and faggots and trans women. In, in, in, kids, and glitter and rainbow flags on it. And she's just like, it just been one felon in a tech suit. God damn. Like, this is right. You know what I mean? Yeah. And so Erica Kirk gave her, you know, she already emboldened by Trump and all these other white people who are begging her to be stacey dash. Right. And so now she's like, okay, let me just full dick out because the white people and maybe these white kids, because turning point is children. Like the, like they, it's truly, it's for young people. Yeah. So it's like, maybe I can shift this to an audience that is as, is as reliable when it comes to spending the coin and coming out, because they're still the girlies that are buying the tickets, wearing the merch and getting into a home or screaming your name out of the window down a boulevard. Like that age group does it. Yeah. But if they hate sissies and punks, you know, all the better for me. That's what is giving. Yeah. She's like, I do exactly. She can't believe she ended up in a space where I'm so sick of sissies. I don't know what the did. That's what's giving. She's a flop. And she's been nothing for what she really sucks bad. But everything but right actually did feel bad for the barbs who are still holding on for her to get on stage with that white woman to be like, yeah, all these moments that I spent touring worldwide with my fans ain't shit compared to meeting you, Erica. I said, no, Shay, no, Shay, I can't imagine how like your fave that you have really been scratching and clawing at for years, regardless. Even if it wasn't some more Shit, it's like oh this her versus Meg or party or whatever like you always Scratch it and trying to defend her for whatever so you you trained to go at that and she has deployed Unig as to go do it Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you've done it willingly and asked is there anything else you need? Just for her to go get up on stage and be like I H.O.G.S. I hate you this just be a boy just be a girl and blah blah blah like that sucks I don't give a fuck how many times I fried his lady or make fun of her or whatever my opinion is that sucks that sucks for people take it however you want to write a thing piece about it some people being a barb is their identity Yes, it is being a Taylor Swift fan is their identity being in a beehive is their identity Right. Yep. So for whatever that is That's what it is it's different. I was like it is I just can't Hell but just feel like god damn like right directly in the broad sunday. Yeah, like daylight You like you did you did you absolutely did said that with your whole fucking chest So now I imagine only the only ones who are still standing I'm sure have their own very deep seated issues because it's just a no way like There's some oh yeah, it's something and it's been something wrong with y'all but at least a lot of them and not just the barbs But also the more casual nicky fans who just try to ignore it and focus on the music All of those people are like, okay. Yeah, this is where I'm out like it makes her I'm like, okay. Yeah, it gets to a point right so those of you who are still on her ass Just trust that we all know there's something wrong with you and I genuinely hope that you get the help that you need but like No shade. Oh, no, it's no shade because I grow If you were a part of this community If you wanted the Liga or the Bigger or the Tigger or the plus or the one two three And you're like girl. So I live Pink wig pink Friday. There's legitimately something wrong There's just is yeah, now you can evaluate that you can look into it or not, but this is wrong. Yeah, it's not wrong It if you are if you're not a part of the community and you're like, yeah, it's a wrong with you It's a wrong with you if you agree with us. Yes And that's why I said don't bother me about Beyonce When you're only critiqued as that she's wealthy. I know that the way I feel about billionaires hasn't changed But come come bother me about her when she acts like this when she's actually a problem Yes, I'm biased This is in journalism. I think I'd be asking me features from T.S. Madison Kevin Brought to G I mean when Beyonce turns on the gaze. I'll be the first one to cut that bitch out I'll be the first one y'all and y'all will be tuned in here. I know Oh, I'm a cry. Oh, I'm going to fucking week. I'm going to be upset But you can laugh Until the Anyway, the girls are suing Drake they're calling it a Rico. They say the dollar's racketeering Young money what? Yeah, no, I'm sorry. I'm not laughing two consumers in Virginia are accusing Drake that streaming boy and someone in Australia named George New Ann Oh, win Okay, win I've never seen it there. Oh, I had a friend with that name in middle school It's like a very common Vietnam Vietnamese last name. Oh, yeah, no, I Have seen it Never remember how to fucking say it. Yeah So they're suing These three people specifically overstate the online casino that Drake is infamously known to be promoting especially on streaming services and Including some I think that he has done with it in us. So this lawsuit claims that they use steak to prey upon consumers Quotes substantial risks of gambling addiction. They say people are unlawfully exposed to that part is interesting to me someone who doesn't know the law I'm like Isn't every casino then unlawful Exposed unlawfully exposing people to substantial risks of gambling addiction. Isn't there a place where no because this is This is illegal because it's online and I think steak had already been shut down before for gambling And then they just kind of like tried to rebrand it and be like, oh, it's steak coins or whatever But it's still real money that you can use to Cryptocurrency or whatever like right. I didn't see that in here too. Yeah, that explains that Okay, and jeopardized financial well-being or rings on Rolling Stone. They say they were influenced to participate in steaks Predatorial gambling environment After viewing Drake's promotion of the site, which is paid Yes, yeah Including gambling online. So I mean if you haven't seen this before a Drake will usually hop on a stream Like I said before talk about steak. How great it is and how your four-year-old should use it and essentially like Use it on the streams be like see it's so easy and if you start today, we'll give you my handles and other postcard Like a for all the dogs t-shirt And it is like I've talked about this. We've talked about this. It is like so So this is the shocking to me. Yeah, there's just two people. What are their names? Lashana Ridley Burke and Tiffany Hines Love that these two have filed this lawsuit with Rico attached to it because they say that the girl these are Trying in the complaint characterized the program as And unlimited and wholly unregulated money transmitter that appears to exist outside the oversight of any financial regulator There you have it. There we go. There's the unlawfully. There we go. There it is And then also legends that there we go You was getting to it. You was getting to it. I love this Also legends at the funds were then used to finance fraudulent streams of Drake's music and Broad asked campaigns that were at the time meant to Target and disparage his compare his competitors This is crazed State or representative of said the company quoted does not have a tipping function that could be used in this way I'm talking about the user user tipping feature that allows people to directly transfer money I don't know if this is true or false because I've never used stake. I literally only Maybe it was like the second or third time that's that Drake was talking about it somewhere And I at the time didn't know what it was. I knew it had probably something to do with gambling They know how work so I literally just typed in the website to go look at it And I was like, okay, this will like Netflix for losing your money. All right, bye. So I don't know the features of it but Stake is apparently calling this a nonsense claim and apparently they're claiming they're not concerned with it Okay, well But yeah, they're so we're gonna go for racketeering and Not only praying on people using gambling and the possibility of addiction to gambling But also then using funds to go back run up Spotify and try and shit on anybody who listens to not Like that's what they talk about. That's what yes. It's just what they're saying. That's what's here on the on the paper um Thoughts Well, I mean obviously I don't know because gambling is so far outside of my business I have no idea what is really going on over there, but I wouldn't be surprised by any of it especially the Using bots to artificially inflate Drake streams while he was going toe-to-toe with Kendrick like I just Would not be shocked by that at all because I'm sure the beef with Kendrick and the fact that he lost as bad as he did I mean he got his ass so soundly and thoroughly whipped I would not be surprised at all if he decided to do something like this and accused Kendrick of doing it remember Remember when he was like oh no, I know I know how y'all do Y'all lie about things because I lie and we literally were like yes We were like yeah, you wouldn't know because this is something because this is because we laughed about it. We did And then But the the larger issue of the gambling and you know stake Trying to get around the fact that they're not allowed to offer As an online gambling company with you know the the state coins or whatever that also sounds very plausible to me I agree that these the whenever the loss changed and all of a sudden you could gamble anywhere and all that That was such a huge problem like it created such a massive issue in this country with gambling Um, and we don't run gambling ads on this show for that very reason because they target regular regular broke-ass people and Try to convince you to all with five dollars here and will one hundred time year or however the fuck it works So I mean I it's all plausible to me, but I guess we'll see how it shakes out in the court a lot on no one where the other but I can easily see it Yikes You know, I've listened to Scorpion the other day. Well, listen like three songs from Scorpion the other day randomly I was like this is the last really like this. That was good. I didn't I like it You didn't like Scorpion, mm-hmm. Remember it's only that one song with the city girls, but I was like, okay But that one song just listening to the no key has been in my head heavy lately. Who's calling my phone? That has been see I don't like that. I love that isn't Keisha Is that thank you? I do like that. What made up my mind because a tick-tock the tick-tocks within our cute But I yeah, I would love for Drake to get back to the music and stop being a shithead, but I'm fine. Do you are you are you? Yeah? What do you have to go on that like the music he's gonna get get back to is gonna be yeah, so you're gonna like right? It's been a very long time. How was it more life? It might have been more like I didn't like timey talk. I didn't like certified lover boy either, so no I didn't like that of me better. It might have been more last one. I liked with Scorpion Let me look at the track list and for Scorpion now I'm saying Scorpion like why my you're welcome. You're welcome Because that's how it's said Yeah, oh God's plan was on Scorpion I'm telling you Yeah, that's the city girls one nice for what is not the city girls with That's very happy birthday. No, that's in my feelings. Oh Yeah, in my feelings as a city girl nice for what is the is one of the Drake's best songs of all? I think it is literally one of his in his whole catalog nice for what I agree really really good It's so good. Yeah, yeah, so yeah, no, no, no, I like overall. I don't like that album. That's how you feel Is there something they're called that's how you feel? I literally just closed it out, but I'm gonna pull it back. It doesn't matter. It's something about feelings Take my brats in lots of music. That's fun. It's with Nikki It says Nikki's it's just a clip of her doing I can't remember the name of the song. It's just a clip of her performing one of her songs got you. Oh good Take my brats as she wanted an apology over men DCs and the rumors around her and men DCs from some latest clip that she did I think we talked about that. Yeah, because there's a clip now of men DCs on I think young jock's radio show Talking about how he and Yandee are a couple anymore. They I guess been separated for a little bit and when asked if they if it's like official if they're going to get a divorce Men DC said unsurprisingly that they were never legally married in the first place. So there's the nature. I love it And Yandee Not long later posted on her Instagram story one of these little quote mean thingies Now I finally understand the difference to me people who love me people who love you around me and people who love what I can do for now I never take these seriously because a lot of y'all don't stand on it anyway Like two hours later you'll be like all that was about the mailman graffiti on get out my face But yeah, I do believe that they're separated good for the both of you and god bless the children They are beautiful children at that right So why does Tamar want an apology because people say she was fucking you tell me Oh Yandee you did all that life of a wife and put in that ring in the camera when you was never legally married to this nigga Yeah, I mean she did what he said on the thing wasn't New she said that on loving hip-hop I feel like forever girl. So I don't know if young jock that forgot right But she confirmed that they weren't married to get now. She didn't confirm it at first. She did try to lie Like a wow it's out there ring around like wife wife wife wife Yeah, and it was until everybody else. I remember this forever go until everybody else on that show was like girl What wife don't do that eventually she just told the truth she was like that nigga was locked up He had all kinds of fuck fuckery going on in his legal life And I wasn't going to attach my my name or my coins to oh smart. That's actually pretty smart That was exactly what she explained it was like bitch. Why did you just say to her right? Why would you ever brag about being his okay? Never mind now we get into why are you a bird and y'all can't answer that question That's literally the exact same thing that mdc said in this interview so it wasn't really shocking So Tamar wants an apology from everybody again. I don't know Yes for everybody. I guess who was like oh You fucking in DCs. Why would you have him in this video where he would yin-dee? That is so wrong and did it right on the hills of her being at At the first is right with bird man, right? Okay. Well, maybe you'll get it girl. I don't know But I just thought of Boots from flavor of love with New York. I deserve an apology when I came down those stairs you you're not getting one New York said you're not getting one. You're not let's start the process Shall we that's not feel like you're not getting one Kid for what? Well, I mean you're not getting one from me because I never said this because I don't care Would you or mndc's or yandy does genuinely? You know it comes up as a topic on this show and I'll give my two cents But I never said you were fucking mndc's in the first place. I always assumed he was just in the video for the sake of having him in the video I'd never took it any further than that But maybe those of you who did do it maybe y'all will feel you know convicted and going to give that like a the apology She's begging for highly I do too because y'all are immature as shit, but Maybe Kanye West says that he's working on a new album but more importantly Apparently Northwest is producing music now She made a beat For a little Wayne song Sun oh And Yeah, probably posted on her Instagram. I believe beat made beat made by me now. Here's the thing. I'll be honest I like the beat okay. I like the beat. I see what she's going with me. I actually think that she has a knack for it Now the vocal let's talk about the vocal. Let's talk about Lil Wayne's son's contribution. Okay God bless us everyone God bless everyone um And I actually I can't listen to it What how old is but it's what the kids like do we know is he a child who's 16? Okay, so yeah But that's the other thing. He's on there rapping about my he's talking about Molly's and bitch. Oh no It's all the unc in me is like young man, right? Why? Molly. Oh, no, I don't like that. I need to not like that. What do you mean my? I'm like, excuse me What do you know about drugs? I hope you're not already doing drugs baby. What is going on No, I don't like it. It sounds like a lot of the like Mumble rap is sort of like dancing on the edge of metal It's like this song This song but it sounds like listen to it later. It sounds like what the kids today listen to okay Vocally especially like it's a little too erratic and like Raspian throaty for me and then again, it's like Lil Wayne's baby talking about Molly and girls stuff. You know, it's what they're talking about Well, um Yeah, it's not a song that I will go out of my way, but I was very I was very enamored by Northwest producing a beat okay, and even the beat is I don't love it, but I think It sounds like what kids her age like it's good like I it's not a bad beat. It's just not like and honestly She's what it gave to somebody else. Maybe we could see where how it would stretch it perhaps perhaps Um, well, I but I'm just excited about her piece. Good for her. You know what you your father's Kanye your mother's Kim Kardashian Why not like yeah, we're talking about her. We're talking about music. That's MFA. What about the artists? That's what we're talking about. All right That's fine, I had no interest in critiquing a 14 year old's beat. I'm stuck on, and this is how I know I'm elderly. I'm stuck on this child rapping about Molly. And when he's talking about girls, what do you mean? What about girls exactly? 'Cause I, I know I'm old. 'Cause my thought is who is letting a 16 year old rap about these things and put the music out? Where's your mom and papa? Where are they at? Why are you doing this? - Consider the papa. - Okay, but he's six. - Consider the papa's papa. - You know that is not his damn daddy. - I mean, girl. - Who's this child, mama? - I don't know. I think Nivia's mom. I mean, Nivia's son. - I'm not sure. - Nivia, okay, so what is Nivia doing? I just, I don't like kids. - But don't get me to lying, I'm not sure. - Well, regardless. I don't like kids talking like that. What do you mean, Molly? - It's 'cause we're old. - Okay. - Well, I'll be that. - You're right 'cause I don't like that. You need to be rapping about high school and prom and yeah, you can rap about girls, but not I hope you're not rapping about fun. - Yes, he should be rapping about prom. - Yes, he should, I'm getting a private license and basketball. Yeah, your favorite help, please. - Yes. - Yes. - Girl, no, wait a minute, hold on. Let's just add a little bit of turmeric. Let's get some time. Wait a minute, hold on, wait a minute. Little mere point. - What do you think was about prom? - This is what I'm saying. - Don't talk about years. - Yeah, go ahead and think of a classic. - Coordinated outfits with seven and five years old, performing the prom record. I don't like-- - You don't want to something. - I don't like kids talking like they grow. That bother me. - Yeah, I don't really like you either, but I just listened to them. I was like, oh, this is for children. And I was just very like, oh my gosh, in North is producing this all by and she's so young. 'Cause it's like I did. I listened to it and I was like, oh yeah, this sounds like a song I would hear on iTunes right now and be like, oh, this is for the kids and think nothing twice of it. - Yeah. - So when you really get your knuckles into this, miss girl, miss girl, miss girl, miss girl, miss girl. - And she-- - Apparently she also got a piercing in. The girls are raging. Like, oh, just can y'all shut the fuck up. - Is it she 14? - I think she's probably 14 and 15 now. That's pretty normal to get a, I mean, it-- - Thank you. - Unless it's, I mean, like a nose piercing. - This is when they hate us. This is when he's getting hate millennials. Like, are y'all lost? Do you not remember that y'all were bad? (laughing) - And also, I'm sure nobody pierced Northwest without her parents' consent. Like-- - Thank you. - I don't have a problem with a 14 year old getting a nose or lip piercing or whatever. That doesn't mean anything to me. But yeah, she also is a talented artist. So I'm hoping North, you know, uses her parents money to do whatever makes her heart happy. - Hey. - Man. - Especially-- - Donnie McClarkin going to jail. Especially work. - I remember I said on Twitter like 20 years ago that Donnie McClarkin was the most homosexual, it's homosexual. - Me, yeah. - You've never seen anybody gayer than Donnie McClarkin is skittles in the booty hole levels a gay with that nigger. And y'all talked about me so bad and now look, and now look, never wrong, just early. - Donnie McClarkin is being sued by a formal personal assistant for allegedly grooming him. The accuser named Giuseppe Corletto is unsurprisingly handsome Squidward Chiselface looking beautiful white makeup. Because here we go again. - And he allegedly has, okay, so let's start with the guy. He says that he sought out guidance, I guess from Donnie in 2003, because he was inspired by Donnie McClarkin's autobiography. And overcoming the curse of-- - Oh, that's right. Yes, he acted like he had beat the gay. (laughing) - Right, how about it? - Oh, this is just so Tyler Perry coded. - He don't love men so much, he's next. So, okay, he's basically saying that they met at this church event for this. Donnie talked about a bit about his story, and specifically about being sexually assaulted or molested as a child more than that. And Giuseppe says that that really resonated with him because it was similar to his own story. So they basically, like Donnie took him under his wing and he said at first it was all very innocent and what I thought was mentoring. - Oh, no. - Then he says that he began, Donnie began to molest him during "Pray the Gay Away Spiritual Sessions," which is like-- - Oh my God. - How does that work? - God told me to fill on your dick while we're talking about this, to make sure that you don't respond to my touch. Like I'm sure something bad don't came out of his mouth. - Do you know how? - Okay. - Like Eve, okay. - Eve, okay. - Yikes. - I'm back. - Okay. - Okay, so during this time he says that he was working as Donnie McCorkin's assistant and traveled with him quite regularly. He says he was struggling to process the incidents at first, but as Donnie was both his mentor and employer, it made things very difficult. Speaking out was difficult. And he even alleges that he got an email apologizing. He got an email from Donnie apologizing for his action and the lawsuit alleges that the message reads, "I am the actual epitome of a desperate dirty old man." Pawning and groping a young man. Acceptance and acknowledgement is like first, isn't it? It's like the first part. There's somewhere in the mirror. Pawning and groping a young man who was just looking for a friendship and close platonic relationship with someone he wants to look to for help guidance and spirituality. - No. - I feel so foul, so stupid. They said in this email, which was filed in a State Supreme Court in Manhattan and just like a week or so ago, one of them. - Okay. - Yeah. Of course, McClurk denies it. As Donnie says, the allegations are categorically false. At no time did Pastor McClurk and engage in any form of sexual assault or coercion of the sexual kind. His attorney Greg Leese said in the statement, quote, "The claims set forth in a lawsuit grossly mischaracterized their interactions which occurred over a decade and some accusations over two decades ago. All these allegations are contradicted by the real facts, which are, I guess you'll find those a later." - With that and, yeah. - But yeah, another, I deny it and then we'll see what happens on his rise if it's a settlement. - Right. - But there you go, girls. - So a young man who was struggling with accepting his sexuality, I saw that he was like 21 in 2003. Diane McClurk was like 44 in 2003. So 46, something like that. This is pretty bad. It'll be easy enough to verify the authenticity of that email. - That's, that's, that's where all, that's where I'll leave that. Your attorney can say whatever. If the email's real, then all of that other shit don't matter to me. 'Cause why would you be confessing, confessing, talking about, oh, I'm a terrible person and my homosexual desires just take over me. Why would you even be doing all this? - The actual epitome of a desperate, dirty old. - I mean, I agree. - Why would you be saying that? I agree. - Haunting and groping a young man. Like if this email is real, then girl, yeah. - Then right, then you are good. - I don't know how there is to talk about it. - I feel like if this, if the young Italian has any, if his lawyer is even halfway decent then they authenticated the email before they even agreed to take the case. Um, so, but I'm not shocked. Y'all act. - I thought I was to blame. Carlito said, I was brainwashing my parents, was wrapped up in him. - Yeah, I mean, well, you were 21 and he was 46. - Right, and you were also traumatized. And you were listening to someone who similarly, who experienced similar trauma. - Yep. - So, and was 20 some odd years older than you. So why, you're like, yeah. - You were the perfect victim. you were the perfect, you were the perfect victim. - To feel and feel better. - You were the perfect victim, exactly. - Ah, my head. - I mean, this is so common, and I don't know why we act like it's not. We, this issue of black men specifically, although Jackie Hill Perry is over there too, pretended like she's not a whole honking dyke. Y'all, we have this issue. (laughing) We have this issue black people. (laughing) - I'm so sorry, bitches will not let Niggas be gay. - Honking. - Ah, honking. - Can you like, honestly, 26, you bitches will let, you bitches will let check GPT, write your obituary, write your will for you. (laughing) But you still can't mind your own god damn sexual biz. - I got one too. - Yeah, and so you do all this, oh well, you know, I struggled with it, but I've overcome it and thank the Lord and my faith in God and all that you say all this publicly, and then behind closed doors you act in just like Tyler Perry and countless other homosexuals you do in gay shit, because that's who you really are, and that's what you really want. And if you would simply embrace it, if you would simply embrace it, fuck what the world got to say you are who you are, then maybe you wouldn't get caught up doing weird dirty disgusting despicable shit like this. But you don't. You try to pretend that you're not really that, and you try to pretend like praying about it or believing in God or loving God is going to keep you from having these desires. They're not even unnatural. Homosexuality is seen throughout species. It's nothing unnatural about it. You just are who you are. You're attracted to men, that's fine. But you refuse to believe that about yourself and so now here you are in this exact same position. And it's just, I mean, this is tragic, but completely unsurprising. - Unfortunately. - Yeah. - Colorado did say I listen to praise them, worship music still, and that's what I consider church. So in many respects, I lost friends, community, my religion, I found myself, my family, and my peace. And that's where I, - You just like the rest of us. - A lot of us end up in the end. (laughing) - That's where a lot of us end up. - The rest of us black queers do the same thing. You think I don't listen to Richard Smallwood everyday, R-I-P, to the greatest, like I absolutely, I love gospel music. And when you don't believe that your God hates you, it's much easier to listen to. - That is so true man. - Why would God create me to then send me to hell? Why would God do that? - Okay. - And girl, if you're so broken that you're like, I don't like men's no more. That's your life to live. - Then don't like men's. - Infiltrating somebody else's life. - Yeah. - Praying upon that. And break like, what are you doing? - Right, y'all never say, oh, well, I beat the gay, even though you know you didn't. Y'all never say that, and then just become completely celibate and never engage in any sexual acts with anyone moving forward. Y'all never do that. It's always this sneaky, dirty shit. - That's what you're doing, Steve. - Did Dwight U-Banks denounce his sexuality? 'Cause I've, I was about to say, 'cause I've never seen. And it is a walking glitter puff. - So, really quick, when I was Googling, Tyler Perry to pull up this article, I accidentally type Tyler Perry, a R-R-Y into Google, and to my surprise, immediately popped up these pictures of a man I believed to be white, and at Google right here, it said, he's an assistant professor of African American and African diaspora studies at the University of Nevada. - That man is not white. (laughing) - He's not white, man. - No, he's not. - So, I'm sorry, Tyler, for the assumption, and I'm also sorry that your name is Tyler Perry. - Yeah. - Perry. - Yeah. (laughing) I'm sure that's a big joke with your students. I'm sure your students will be like, I got Tyler Perry for Negro Studies. Like, what? - You just day one are like, this is my name. Now, if I hear a fucking heap of down. (laughing) - And just consider yourself ailed bitch. - Welcome to the Black Athlete Spring 2026. I'm Dr. Perry. - Yes, Dr. Tyler, do you, Perry, go ahead and laugh about it now, hoarse, 'cause I don't want to hear. - Let's just get it. - Get else about it. I'll give you a bitch's 10 to 15 minutes. Let's just do this now, I'm in here. - Everybody laugh. Okay, let's get to work. - Tyler Perry got a new lawsuit. I think 77 million, it's all what we're doing wrong. - Mm-hmm. So, there's another accuser that is stepped forward. And is accusing Tyler Perry of essay. And it's not looking good, girls. I believe I read that there could be more to come. But this lawsuit is from a Latin boy named Mario Rodriguez. - That's what you want to see. - The lawsuit. (laughing) That's what you want to see. - Oh my god, yes, oh, little Latin boy. Why are you crying, little Latin boy? - Why? - Oh, you cry. Convent movies first. And a lawsuit. Rodriguez claims that Tyler Perry approached him through a trainer at Equinox. They connected, blah, blah. He was invited to Tyler Perry's home in LA, offered him role in a movie or walks or drinks. Says after drinks, they watched a movie where allegedly put his hands on Mr. Rodriguez's legs, began rubbing his inner thigh right next to his penis. Apparently there's another allegation of an incident at a steakhouse where Perry allegedly on the way to the house reached into my store Rodrigues on the way and grabbed his penis. I'm not going to get taken. It's gross and so on. On hip hop word, it says after Rodriguez managed to flee Perry allegedly gave him $5,000 in apologize. Rodriguez apparently decided to sue him after the direct exchange and bang came out. And yeah, Tyler Perry obviously is not going for this anymore. Having recently failed in another matter against Mr. Perry, the very same lawyer has now made yet another demand for more than a decade ago, which will also be a failed money grab. It's what his attorney Owick Cheryl said in his statement. Samadilla, look, I'm actually gagged by the fact that he's just he'll got these movies and stuff popping up. - Yeah, who can stop him? - And the girl is just like, what are you talking about? I don't care. - Oh no, the church girls definitely don't care. No, the church girls do not care. They know Tyler's gay. They been on Tyler's was gay. It's-- - They love sisters, they don't care. - No, they don't. And you know, Tyler entertains them and sells us enough for them. Like they, this is Donnie McClarkin with more money and more power and probably more alleged victims out there somewhere but-- - And sandals. - Everything I just said about Donnie McClarkin, you just coppied and paced onto this nigga. - More open toes she used to probably. - Why don't you just accept who you are, nigga, and stop doing shit in the dark. You don't have to grope on people and sexually assault them or take advantage of them when you're just out about who you are and engage in consensual, same sex relations. You can just do that. Probably also more like savage, savage wear. - What is that, draws, nigga, gay nigga draws? - We're on a savage pitty. - Oh, I thought it was like a brand homosexual underwear, so I'm, oh my god. - Yeah, it is, I mean, it's just what I think. - Okay, well, good luck I guess, everybody involved. - I guess we'll see what happens with that as well, Medina. - Just like white boy, yeah. - Right. - Unless without Lisa that leads us to Cardi. - You don't have to dance, she's dancing. 'Cause you're dancing. You're dancing. All right. - So. - I'm a chill, I'm a chill, I'm a chill, I'm a chill. - I'm a chill. - I haven't even said anything yet. - I'm a chill, I'm a chill. I'm a chill. - You're doing my accordion fees. - I'm a chill. - You're like, you're in the free video. - No, I'm listening. - Single sex scene. (laughing) - Literally, literally. - I can't believe I'm doing it. (laughing) - Literally that. (laughing) I mean, I feel good, you know it's a good day. - Stefan Diggs, my living god on earth, what is happening? Do you know that I got jumped? I didn't know, I've been minding my business. - You jumped? - Not actually. - No, I know. - But like this information was a job. I saw you post on the I read that everybody on TikTok was saying that she was right. - Right. - And like, this has to be it. - What else could it be? - I went to go, you know, peruse the internet and see what was going on. Okay. Did this may have three kids last year? - Did. - Mm-hmm. - Did, did. - Okay. - Mm-hmm. - Within months of each other. - Okay. All right. So that happened and then, you know, we got that confirmation because he, you know, did a quick stop by to the different baby mama's houses, I guess, and took pictures about a tree with a baby and they dipped and went to the next one and whatever. - Mm-hmm. - And so, you know, that's, that's a lot. And I got that information after I read about him, reportedly strangling his personal shift because she said, "Can you pay me for the work I do?" - Then he told me, "Yeah." - I apparently was like, "You don't have to see me no more because you got a circus." Like, you're described as like his living space or whatever the fuck you got going on there as a circus. They got into it the, I'm not gonna lie. The, the text exchange I laughed at because it was so, it was like so-- - It was in a shit. - I was just like, what? - Nittas. - I'm like, God, it's okay. Cardi's defending him. Cardi's also, she going to the game and vintage Chanel. She's rehearsed in 10 to 12 hours a day. She said for tour. What, five kids? - Cardi? - Yeah, is it five or four? - It's four. - Four. - The baby she just had is the fourth one. - Right. - Okay, yes. Four kids. All right, so Cardi, this is the way I'm looking at it, right? Two baby mamas is not wild. You know what I'm saying? Especially for a hood bitch. Everybody love air could buy do. So I think what you do is, you go have to get into your national hair era. Okay, get you a pack of incense. Matter fact, your own branded Cardi incense. You're going to do a deluxe edition of that new album called Bronxism. Okay, natural hair, Turbans. Okay, Puchuli. And we're going to go fully into our neo-soul hop era, hip hop and neo-soul. Okay, that's going to be our marketing direction as a form of distraction. Now, on the flip side of that, what we're going to do is we're going to work really, really hard on the spirit that we named discernment. We call it discernment. And we're going to use that to make sure that the baby daddy number either remains that too. Or that three is where we're like, no. You have to understand, I ate, I prayed, I loved, okay? Now my stay, I meditate in the mornings, I'm doing my crystals, my sound bath. And you don't understand, look, my actions, they're showing that I'm growing and learning. I'm saying, two baby, you know this. Two baby daddy's for a hood bitch. We're just right on the edge of wallet, okay? And for four kids? Two, let's look on the bright side, right? Can we just have to come up with a plan? Would the Loretta device and kingdom come? You got to come up with a plan? You got to come up with a soon. So here's that's my suggestion. Bronxism, I am the drama, the deluxe, re-release, remake, remaster addition, okay? And you just on the vinyl of it, you're going to have, you're going to be smoking a long pipe, like cruel and devil by the end of it, just going to be a blunt. And then you're going to have candles surrounding you, each of them scented after your breasts. Your breasts milk because the babies are the heart and the soul and the focal point. You're welcome. - I don't really give a shit how many baby daddy's she has. That is the, that's not my number one concern. Well, what the fuck is your goddamn idea? - I've worked really hard on that pin. - No, no, no, I love your work. Love your contributions. Truly. (laughs) But my, where do I even begin with this? It's just so, you and I guess we're small. - So many chickens. - Mad, y'all were small. - Did you never seen it? - Mad. - No, I haven't. - Well, you did see it. - Well, no, you didn't come with this. Like it's chapter one. - It's chapter one. - No, you didn't. There's one part where they get stung. They get stuck in the house. - No. (laughs) - They're so fierce. Welcome to dairy, so fierce. Oh, so fierce. - No, I'm not looking at that. - Cheers. - There's one part where they stuck in the house and there's these three doors that are like painted, these words are painted in a blood. And it's like scary, really scary, not scary at all. So she like, man, they take not scary at all. It's like a girl cut in half. (laughs) It's just like, all three doors are bad. - So when you ask where to start, it's really just, (laughs) there's harbor beyond each. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes, exactly. And so my issue is less with the number of baby daddies and the quality of the baby daddies. It's about the fact that you keep reproducing with horrible people. Why do you do that? You keep reproducing with emotionally immature men who do not prioritize their children. They do not prioritize fatherhood in their lives. I don't know why you do that. It hurts the kids. Y'all were very, very irated me. ♪ Ooh, you mad ass bitches made me trend for weeks ♪ And all this when I didn't do nothing but tell the God damn truth. And do nothing but tell the truth. Stuff my digs and this whole chef situation and then Cardi jumping into it. Why would Cardi tweet about the situation? Why would Cardi post screenshots from the chef talking about, oh, I'm so sorry. With the girl's name and it mined you. So now you've leaked this little net. I guess it's the chef's name. I don't know why you decided to publish that and share that with the rest of us. I don't know why you're jumping into it when this is a legal matter between him and that lady. Why are you even online defending that nigga or talking about it at all? Why are you spending time every day going live to talk to fans about whatever the fuck this drama with this nigga like I don't understand it. - No why are you doing that? - I don't know why I'm doing that. - But yeah, you, I, y'all got mad at me because y'all are also emotionally immature because y'all also choose horrible baby daddies because y'all also need to grow the fuck up just like Cardi does. She, and I'm gonna tell you this, if you don't find a therapist and work on your issues, 'cause you got issues baby. Most of us do, but the fact that you keep choosing these terrible people to reproduce with, even though you know they're terrible in advance, that's a sign something's really wrong. You know offset was a horrible father. You know he didn't take care of him kids and didn't really spend time with them before you came along and what did you do, gave him three more. Yes, because he did it. He had already three or four kids before Cardi was with him. You know that he wasn't really an active father 'cause both of y'all talked about how he didn't really have those kids around, didn't really coordinate with the different baby mamas and all that. And then Cardi came in the picture and was like, "No, you gotta do better, family blah blah." That she pushed him into that and gave him three more. Stefan Diggs, all you had to do was Google him, I'd pray you at least Google the nigga before you let him nuttin' you however many times. I pray you did. Stefan Diggs bin had allegations. Bin called a fuck nigga, bin called grimy. Why you gave these niggas kids, I don't know, but if you don't work on your shit Cardi, eventually you gonna end up just like Nikki. You gonna end up just like that bitch and it don't have to be drugs. It don't have to be a rapist baby daddy and a rapist brother that you defend in. But the combination of extreme wealth and extreme fame and insecurity will be your downfall if you don't work on your shit. - I mean if a nigga implants transphobia and homophobia into her, then she probably will be as bad as Nikki. But other than that, I don't see. Well, and 10 years ago, nobody would have said this about Nikki. - I would have. I heard you could say that it's ages ago. Like are you kidding me? - You're gonna end up in a space where you, because you're not addressing your issues, they're only going to compound. They're not gonna go away. People don't emotionally mature simply because they grow older. People don't emotionally mature simply because they have children. The children and their well being was always the point for whatever reason y'all fixated on calling me mean and harsh. As if the things y'all were saying I was cruel for, we're not Cardi's own direct quotes. It's almost like Unigga's also learned that day that she can also be mean and cruel and dismissive and harsh and all these other things. The shit y'all are mad at me for most of it is Cardi's own quotes. I just could not. So I took my time to really just sit back and be like, "Yeah, I was right." And yeah, TikTok is showing me all these videos and people are like, "Mm, I guess, you know, "I guess Crystal did have a point." Yes, yes I did have a point. Children deserve better than this bullshit. And she going on Twitter or Instagram live or whatever talking about what you bitches want me to do. Y'all getting a little too mean about it. What you want me to do? I can't put the baby back in my pussy, duh. You knew that already. You knew you couldn't put a baby back in your pussy. That's why I said if you don't believe in abortion, you need to believe in contraception. That's not a radical thing to say. Be mindful about how you bring kids into the world. Emotional abuse and emotional neglect are very fucking real. I get it though, only because girl like, she didn't have the fucking kids. Her kids are going to be taken care of financially. Obviously we know that. The cop like, they are still going to, they're still going to deal with unnecessarily negative consequences of these decision. Right. And we'll hopefully through their mother specifically, 'cause I don't give a fuck about something, it's personally. Hopefully there are mother having therapy, staying in therapy, then one day having therapy, they will be able to learn from these things, jump over those hurdles and things like that. I'm just like, girl, she is a bird. Like do we, she is a bird. It's love and hip hop reruns on right now of this lady where her old teeth, her old teeth and shit like that. She's not fucking, she's not an Obama, bro. Like, and if Sasha, the Obama was out here pregnant by a fucking nigga, I'll be like, okay, girl, what do we learn from this? Let's let's apply this and move the fuck on like. But that's the, this is what I'm saying. I hope you do call a therapist and I hope you do work on your shit, 'cause you can't teach your kids things that you don't know. You can't teach emotional maturity and how to regulate your emotions and respond appropriately to situations when you don't know how to do that your damn self. So I hope you do go to therapy so that your children do have a shot at learning those skills, 'cause right now it's looking extremely unlikely between Stefan and Offset and you is like 15 children. Just, rich as fuck, but then what? But then what? Money's not all that they need. And this is the, it's just so crazy. It's crazy to be repeating myself like this because this is what I said then. And it's like, now y'all can see it. Oh, okay, okay, don't know why it took this for y'all to be like, oh, I guess it is important to choose your baby daddy's wisely. Yeah, I guess it is. - I don't know either, 'cause I have nothing. - I guess it is. - So the difference is either. - It's just quite strange that this is what made y'all realize that maybe I actually had a point, but yeah, I'm gonna always advocate for what children need and what's best for them first and foremost. So if you were mad, I suggest you either get over it or stay that way. I'm never going to apologize for being correct. I don't know, I can't. - Can't think of a better way. - And I don't need y'all's apologies either because I, one thing about me, I will stand completely alone and I mean by my solo dolo, as long as I know, not just that I'm correct, but I'm saying something that is for the greater good. Again, a lot of y'all felt hit because you're also just as immature as Cardi is, because you also have baby daddy's just as immature as hers. A lot of you, not all of you, but quite a few. Quite a few of you felt hit because, I mean, it's also about you grow up. It's hard work, I've done it myself. I've been in therapy nine years this month. I'm not talking out of my ass. I'm not talking from a place of trauma like so many of you suggested. Well, I actually feel like it's a little bit of projection coming through there. Girl, most people are emotionally immature. Most of you are emotionally immature. Most of you have at least one emotionally immature parent. It's the number, in my opinion, emotional immature is the number one problem on this planet. If everybody grew the fuck up and learned how to manage their feelings and take some space between how they feel and how they react, we would be living in a much better world. And no, it's not your pussy, your choice because your children are affected by your choice. You have minor, dependent children who are affected by the decisions you make and they don't stay children forever. They grow up and become the world's problem. Y'all out here on social media every day complaining about dating, complaining about work, complaining about other people and why do people act this way in that way because they're emotionally somewhere between three and 16 years old. That's why. So yeah, nine years in therapy plus going to get a master's degree in mental health counseling. Yes, I have learned some things about what people need to be happy, healthy, secure in themselves. And abusive father and a neglectful mother ain't it. So maybe you can hear it this time. - Well, on that note, umalia has a freestyle on the radar. - Who? - Monolio. - Uh? Did you hear it, don't you? What's the old boots, where the fuck have I been? Yeah, it's great. - I love it. I cannot wait for she's in trouble mode. - She got, and you know, I just really love a girl who puts it in the music and doesn't go online every goddamn day to clap back at people and read tweets and respond to them. She was on space the other day for hours. Took a break and came back to go back and forth with you, nobody asked Niggas. The tour starts in one month. She does it, J.T. does it, like a lot of these girls get on those group chat thingies. And it's not even always gossip. Sometimes they just are on there being like, oh, which is the favorite song for, which I think are the single and things like that. And I just as someone who don't want to talk to anybody ever find that peculiar, not even, but so like, when it does get to messy points, I'm like, why is anybody doing mess? - 'Cause she's not being one of those all these girls. - No, but that's the, I mean, yes, but my point isn't that everybody does it. Like I said, most of you are emotionally immature. So I'm not shocked that a lot of other rappers also spend their time going back and forth with their fans online instead of working. But you have a tour that starts in a month. Is, do we not have any bigger priorities? I know she spends some time. - That's where we're on the spaces. Not the one that I heard, she was talking about the barbs because the barbs spread this rumor that her father had sexually assaulted some teenage girl. And so she was defending her dad, which I don't even get into that because the barbs will say anything. Why you even let them rock anyway? I would have let them, and oh yeah, and argue with Tasha K. (laughs) Going back and forth with Tasha K again, over Stefan Diggs talking about a bitch who owe me money. Why are you even talking about me, which is true? Go after your fucking money. I don't know why Tasha K is online. I don't know why Tasha K is speaking on any goddamn body. I also don't know why this is Cardi's priority. Why don't you try growing up and focusing on the things that matter? And she said something similar like, oh well, one thing about me, a niggas never more important than my kids or a niggas never more important than my work that comes first, but well, okay. And yet, every day, here you are, on a live or something going back and forth with these nobody-ass niggas. Okay. - Well. - We'll see what that tour looks like. I'm genuinely wishing you the best on the tour. I hope it's good. I hope it's not like I predicted it would be a few months ago when I said you just gonna get up there and, you know, wrap and let everybody else do the work. I really hope it is. - It's higher boots, like you're going to make. - Of course you are. - To be tired. - You have two infants, two babies, wave who is like what, five or six at this point, and then culture who is later non-something like that. You've got four kids. I'm sure they'll be with you the whole time. You'll have all your support and all that and you'll still be tired. So. - Yeah, you would be tired if you didn't have four kids. - Exactly. - Just turn them around. - Exactly. - She's gonna be tired. - And she was on Instagram live earlier today talking about it. I know Beyonce budget for production. So don't be, look, nobody's confusing you, and nobody's confusing what you can do and what Beyonce can do. But are you going to be giving a show or are you going to be up there wrapping and everybody else on stage is giving us the show? That's my question. We'll see. - That's a big one. - That's it for Hot Topsis. - We. - An hour and a half. (laughing) - Oh, I love it. - I want a crown to cover. - It was, it was. been gone for a minute. All right, let's. Let's take your break, we'll come right back. All right, we have returned. It is time for letters to the listing variety. Indeed. Send your questions to [email protected]. We may read them aloud on the show. Our first letter this week comes from Simone, who says, "My fiance and I are facing an impasse regarding the guest list for our upcoming wedding. I want to exclude his brother's wife from the invitation list." The reason for this is that she consistently refuses to engage with me so she lives. And she puts in parentheses the brother is also the best man. She consistently refuses to engage with me socially, going no further than a brief hello. There has been no conflict, she simply does not converse with me. If I ask her about herself or what's going on in her life, she'll answer, but there's no back and forth. I doubt she even knows my name. My fiance, the little dramatic, but okay. My fiance is Hungarian and his family is small. Although his brother's wife speaks English fluently, she is the only family member who never attempts to talk to me or ask me any questions. His brother on the other hand is very warm and always makes an effort to get to know me. They did invite me to their wedding a few months ago, but I believe it was purely out of a sense of obligation. I think I'm being reasonable because I wouldn't let a friend bring a plus one for somebody that they have indated long enough or that we don't fully know or have met, so why should we change this for her? My fiance says that excluding her will create drama, but I feel I'm being reasonable. He has acknowledged our behavior is mean-spirited in the past, but he excuses it as shyness and says she took years to warm up to him. I find this to be a poor excuse for a complete lack of basic manners, and I am unwilling to have a guess that my wedding who will not speak to me. In what world is it okay for an adult to be this rude? I do think that because I grew up in a Southern black household, it was always seen as extremely disrespectful to act the way this woman does. She's not in Hungary. She's in the US. No. Well, Hungary isn't her. You look fuck. I'm talking about that. I've told my fiance that he needs to discuss this with his brother, but he has not done so and invitations are about to be sent out. I am intent on sending a clear message by not including her. And from now and until our wedding, there will not be any more chances to interact since we don't live in the same country. I also do feel this speaks to what she is setting up that dynamics to be for the future. Am I overreacting? Or is it reasonable to save my money while also sliding her? Thanks Simone. Simone asked for our help brother. Simone, this is really how you're starting my year. Our letter year. You sound like that. That's how you want to get the game started. I'll just say two things. First thing, if you're a wedding, I believe that I was, you know, the funny thing, I was just saying this to myself, like maybe two days ago, about Molyo, because maybe it was like our anniversary or something or I don't know, maybe I don't know. He was posting pictures from our wedding again and I just looked at it again and I'm like, this man really got to, you know, dressed up in pink, everything was pink, they look so happy. I'm like, that is exactly what the bride wants. Let's just do that. Love that. So I believe you kind of should respect the wishes of the people getting married as best as possible when they're in it right? That's one. Two, you are tripping. This is so fucking stupid. Are you serious? Who the fuck cares if this lady don't talk to you? You don't even live in the same country? Why do you give a fuck? And if you're the man you're marrying, his brother is the best man. Why would you like, of course, he's going to bring his wife, girl, who cares? If she hikes with her skirt and urinates in your cake, then yeah, who brought this bitch? Now she has to get jumped. It's somehow, oh, I wouldn't even let someone have a plus one. If it wasn't, I'd listen. Maybe it's because I don't care about, like if I were to get married, I wouldn't really give a fuck about a wedding. That would be solely up to who I'm hearing. If he wanted to have a wedding, whatever, all right, great. Let's talk about it. He or she. Otherwise. Right? Bitch. Who knows? Right. I just had to. Actually, a stud could really take my heart. I mean, and I believe that I believe she could. Don't let her have a pretty smile in a backpack. It's over. So, so, this isn't about me. What I'm saying is, I think that there's like, who gives, I just don't understand. Okay. So, she's fluent in English, so it's not language barrier that's the problem. Your fiance is telling you it took years for her to warm up to you, but it's like, it's not his mom. Yeah. It's not your mother-in-law, it's not even your sister in law. I mean, I guess it's just- She is. Yeah. Yeah. But like, not by blood. By marriage. Right. Right. Right. Furthermore, you get along with the brother. The brother is the brother and the brother is the best man. Just let him bring his fucking wife, who gives a shit. And then they're going to go back to wherever the fuck it is that they live. Great. They're going back to Hungary right after this. It's not like I'll have Sunday dinner. What the fuck? Who cares? Yeah. Build a bridge and get the fuck over it. If she's like, now, if she eats you every time you, I don't know if people know what they mean. Like, if she look you up and down nasty every time, she's around, you know, if she's just like, has a stank attitude, then I could understand being like, I don't want her at the wedding. And I would probably ask the fiance to have a conversation with his brother. Maybe, right. But you said that you're all a cordial. She just doesn't speak to you, right? She doesn't engage. And again, if y'all hung out all the time, if y'all, if it was giving like Pam and Tommy and Cole, and they just opened door and walk in and say, what's for lunch, then I can see how this might be bothersome. You have no relationship and you don't know where you go see this bitch again. Right. Who gives a shit? What are you talking about? Clearly not that deep on her end because they invited you to their wedding. Hello. A couple months ago. Yeah. Just a few months ago. I agree with everything you just said. Every word of it. Someone, I think sometimes we as Southern black Americans raised in probably religious households, we tend to take a sort of thing a little too seriously. We tend to take it personally. Hospitality. Yes. Politeness. And overly giving. Oh, what can I do? When we first started going on tour after living in New York for however stretch, and we went to go to do some shows in the South, and we just walk in the Walgreens and something like, oh, hi. Have a good afternoon. Like, like, oh, wait, I forgot y'all speak. Like, acknowledge the lives of other people with positivity and kindness. Right. Out of nowhere. Like, I didn't even have to say nothing. Y'all just, yeah, I do. And I, I mean, I, I think sometimes we can take that a little too far and we don't allow for people to not perform in that way. It is for so many people who, you know, in the South or whatever, that is sort of like how you're expected to act. And so if you don't do it, people take it personally. But sometimes people are just shy, sometimes they're not chatty, sometimes they, you know, they seem closed off or cold or distant or whatever and it has fuck all to do with you. When your fiancee said, I think she's just kind of shy. It took her months to warm up to me. For me, that would have been more than enough. That would have been enough. Yes, I don't, I don't, I think if you explicitly exclude this woman, you are going to create such a mess that is really, you haven't given us any justification for causing this kind of drama. Again, she lives in another country. They're going to come for a weekend, be at your wedding, give a gift, take some pictures and go right back home and be gone. And then you got to have your honeymoon and a fucker, your Hungarian man and plan out your life. Yeah, whatever. Right. To your point, maybe, maybe if she was also from like your hood, you know, CD, whatever or the south, and be like, what the fuck is up with this bitch? Completely different culture on top of your fiancee saying, she's shy. I had this situation with it. I just wasn't fucking tripping. Right, right. I'm that way too, like when I was home for Christmas, there were a couple of cousins that I'd never met that came over for Christmas dinner or whatever. And I was just like, I don't wanna make small talk and like, I'm anxious. And so I went out, I said my little hello, I had dinner out there and then I went back into like the living room by myself and I was on my MacBook. And one of the boys came in to like charge his phone and he came back up and said something to me. He was like, you're a little shy, don't. (laughing) - I have a little shyness, it's alright, it's alright. I was like, okay, so he understands. - Yeah, everybody's not the same. - It's not the same, right. And I would rather you be yourself than put on some big presentation and act just to appease what you think I want you to do. I don't need all that from you. When I went home, my family's huge, we always have a bunch of family friends, people who are not kin, but you know, it don't matter. And one of the aunties like that, I walked past her to go hug my mama, mind you. (laughing) I walked past her and she was like, you'll see me, where my hug is, hello? And I was like, oh hey girl. - I'm your bro, it's so slow. - But I didn't wanna say, baby, I actually can't even remember your name. Like, what? - Hello. - Why do they do that? - Yeah, I don't know what that is about them. - But, but like, simmer down, simmer down, Simone. I, I, I'm sorry, baby. Of course, it's your wedding. You can go against your husband if you want to and exclude this woman, but I don't think it's worth it. - I don't either. It would be such a bad taste in people's mouths. It would just be, I just think it's unnecessary. - I think by anything. - Yeah, no good. Consider her your brother-in-law's slash best man, the best man of the weddings, plus one. - That's exactly what she is. Like, she-- - Because they're married. - They're married, and they invited you. Is she hated you? I'm sure she would have said that black American bitch not coming in my wedding. - I think it's the Southern part. Like, I think that you kind of hit the nail on the ass by being like-- - I think it's that. - 'Cause we take that so seriously. - You're accustomed to, yes. Like, so what are you trying to say about me, or how do you feel some type of way about me that you act like this, when it is very likely that she doesn't-- - That's just them, baby. - She's a shy. - Or maybe she's just the type to not chat much. Like, maybe she's just quiet. - Me. - You can't be quiet in a black Southern home. You cannot-- (laughing) - Let's talk about it. You cannot be reserved. - You cannot-- - No. - The old brass man. (laughing) - And I guess we'll not let you sit in the coordinator and read a book. - Oh my god. - Oh my god. - No. (laughing) - Like, what is wrong with shutting the whole fuck? - Oh man. - I like it. - Yeah. - Contrary to what you might be, this is for entertainment purposes. I shut up, do you know how many people? Over my lifetime have been like, you are surprisingly quiet in real life. - I don't have anything to say I'm not working. I'm also not good for you. - Hmm, right. In these moments, I am not in front of a camera. I'm not on a mic. My personality on this show is pretty much also what you'll get in real life. But if I don't have nothing to say, I'm not somebody to fill the space, either. Like-- - Thank you. - I will let the quiet rock. - Thank you. - I absolutely will, baby. I will just sit there and be quiet. I don't-- - I'm not a completely different person. But you're, I'm not round the clock going, "Rass on trash on trash." Like, I don't know what the fuck, y'all bitches. (laughing) - I don't know what to say, I'm quiet. - I'm screaming and hollering and divided. This is not a live episode of the read. Every time I come around, like-- - Right. - 'Cause you ain't a living single, shut up. Like, I don't-- - Yeah. - I walk you walking to a room with a, with a catchphrase. - Rushing. - Don't lie. Like, that's what you want that was like. (laughing) Got me in and-- - You wanna see that? - Oh, yes. - Yeah. - Yeah. - That was the thing. - Yes. - Oh, the other was excellent. You know, it was only on one season. - Oh, yes. - God, it was good. - Yeah. - But yeah, I would let this go, baby. I really would-- - Just let her come. - Yeah. Best of luck to you. I'm gonna cut the letters short, but I'm gonna do one more since we spent an hour and a half dragging these niggas. So this last letter comes from Jason who says, "Hey, if you're in crystal, I absolutely love the show. Y'all aren't vets, but you'd be keeping these bitches in check. I'm a 42-year-old gay man in the Midwest, and I'm trying to navigate this messed-up dating world I live in. I met a guy on the apps, and we actually went on a couple of dates before hooking up, which is a rarity in gay culture and for me. As a result, I slipped and fell into some feelings. (laughing) I told him, and he said that he's not looking for a relationship right now. I understood, and we continued to kick it as friends with benefits. - Oh, that might not have been the way. (laughing) - That's forward, and now we've been hanging out often on for eight months. - Oh, Lord. - Yeah. - He's kind of a loof, which is perfect for me because I can't stand a person who's always up under a knee for me like that. During this time, I continually made my feelings known. And while he didn't verbally reciprocate, he did show signs that he was interested or at least not put off by the idea. Like he would hug me extra long when we say goodbye, talk about places he wanted to take me, and shows that he wanted us to watch together. He was also going through some rough times with his job, and always used that as an excuse to not want to pursue a relationship, saying he wouldn't feel like he was contributing in that sense. Now, mind you, I'm perfectly successful in my career, and I did not want or ask for this man to invest one single coin in me. I have always made my own way, and I don't need or want that from a partnership. I offered to loan him some cash for bills to help out. - Jesus Christ. - Now, I never come off money I can't afford to be without, and I wasn't pressed about getting it back right away, assuming that our relationship and eventual could be lifelong friendship was strong enough that a few hundred dollars shouldn't matter. So Christmas came around, and all of a sudden, he's harder and harder to get a hold of. Sex messages went unanswered, and hangouts basically became nonexistent. I finally got a text back saying Merry Christmas, and I went outside of my character and told this man that I miss him. The very next day, I get a text from some bitch saying that she's his girlfriend, and she wants to know the nature of my relationship with him. - Wait, wait, I saw this coming. - She said they've been official since October, and she was concerned seeing my text and he keeps the leading stuff from his phone before she can see it. - This is serious. This is so fierce. This is so fierce. - I told her that he hasn't really been communicating with me effectively since September, so that actually makes sense. Also, that since he clearly chose you, how I know him is no longer relevant, because fuck that man, you can keep him. I gave it a day before I sent him a text with the screenshots of my conversation with his girlfriend, and asked something you need to tell me, no answer. I waited another day, still crickets. I sent another message saying how I'm not mad, but if you considered me a friend at all, you could have just been a man. It told me you found someone who meets whatever you're looking for. Clearly, you've been avoiding me because you knew how I would respond, but once more, I was paid in dust. - I feel like I'm writing a passenger in a car that's about to get pulled off of her DUI. - I'm beyond done with, I'm beyond done with this fool playing me like my name is Sony, a part of me wants to be real petty, and send him a Venmo request for the remaining $500 this little bitch owes me. - If you don't get your gay ass on and out of my face. - I wonder how his new girlfriend would feel knowing he's driving her around in the car that I gave him the down payment for. - What the fuck is, why are you mad at her? - He did pay me back some of what he owed me, but the tourist of me just wants to close this chapter by getting the rest of my money. Do I let it go and count this as? - Damn, astrological. - Do I let it go and count this money as an L, or do I adjust my petty crown and go full Curtis Jackson? Love y'all down and would cherish any advice, keep being you because y'all are out here saving lives. All the best, Jason. - Jason, first of all, I would never compare myself to Curtis Jackson on purpose. Secondly. - You don't wanna act like that, ever. - I like it. - That make it takes it too far. - Come on. - This was a Broadway. - Wasn't it? - All right, let's start from the fact that you gave this nigga money because what? (laughing) - To help him out, he wasn't thinking. - What the hell, what money didn't ask for? And 500 and things. - In God's 20 20s, baby, that was an L from the beginning. - You asking to take it as an L because you find out he got fish. Bitch, it was an L from the moment that you coughed it up. Yes, that money was gone. Furthermore, didn't you say that you weren't hard earned on it? One press about it, I don't know. So now you wanna write a Vemo invoice. You are going to about face out of mind. You're gonna turn 180 degrees and you're gonna walk the opposite direction for me. 'Cause I don't know what you're talking about. What is it that you're talking about? Furthermore, Trey told you that he wasn't feeling well. that he wanted to be friends. Now you pressed it because he got pissing your phone. Now you're trying to give Lil Kim talking about, "Well, shit, bitch, give it to him then." Now you talking about some, "Oh, ring the alarm. I've been through this too long." Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm. You got to get your ass on one of these goddamn apps. Hinge, sniffy, scrub, jacks, grinder, whatever, and go on dates. 'Cause he won't your nigga's gonna begin with. I don't know why you gave his ass money and I don't know why you try to commit to some goddamn life-long relationship with a nigga that paid it. What are we talking about? What are you doing? And now you maddening you want your money back? You should've wanted to keep it. Well. What was it, then? Jason. Jason, I really believe in God. I do. Prior to what, you know, down in Beclurkin and I'm a little bit of talking about and you know what I'm saying? Right, right, right. It's some punks out here that love God. I love God. You don't love God. Look around with you. So, I would just go ahead and say that he has a plan for you and it is leaving this man and his girlfriend alone. Jason, I'm gonna take it a step further and say, you actually lost when you told him that you had feelings for him and he said he's not looking for a relationship and you decided to keep sleeping with him. You actually started taking L's in that very moment. You let that nigga fuck you casually for eight months. You told yourself, oh, he's kind of a loof. That's perfect for me, baby. Guess why? The whole time and this, over the course of this eight months, you kept saying, oh, yeah, I'm really feeling you. Oh, yeah, I really like you. And he kept being like, hmm, well, I'll give you a long hug and we can watch uh, have a little mintries on on Wednesdays. (laughing) Listen to the episode and he derived Orion. So, if he wanted to go ahead and say that. And you said, okay, well, he's not verbally saying it, but he do want to watch movies with me. You deluded yourself, baby. You did, you did, you did. You wanted to believe that maybe he was gonna come around. Some part of you really thought that eventually he would, the feelings would be reciprocated and y'all would be in this place. That's why the woman texted and being like, what's up with you and my man? That's why that threw you off so bad. And that's why you like, well, I wonder how she would feel about me paying the debt. First of all, I mean, she's got her own issues. If you have to go through your niggas phone, I've said it a trillion times. Your relationship is already a mess. You already got issues. If you got to do all that. And y'all just simply the divine. Y'all chew me up every time, but I'm not wrong about that. It's something going on if you feel like you got to do it. But anyway, you sent him. I would do it to look for something funny. You didn't mean. No, like jokes like me. I don't either. I don't think I know what I'm talking about either. Never mind. You just said that to say it. Not a good. But yeah, Jason, long story short, I do believe you played yourself in this matter. You did, baby. A Venmo request for your remaining 500? Yeah, why not? I don't really care about that part of it. I think you're trying to, but it sounds like you're trying to downplay your feelings even to yourself. We're trying to downplay how pressed you really are about it. And you know, I just feel like as a friend, did that mess say y'all were friends? Did he say how old he is? 42. 42. 42. 42. He did. Whether he's, you know, download or openly bisexual or closetly bisexual, I don't know, but he's in a Midwest. Mm-hmm. Yep. It's probably not giving, oh, a wealth of dates. It's probably not, probably not, and I get it. Like I, maybe you're gonna trip. Well, you're gonna do a little part of our little tomb. Oh, oh. Get your back, bro. Yeah, go to Brickville. I'm back to our crush. Have a good time, but. Yes. Yes, the gay's being Brazil. Heavy. Heavy, heavy, heavy. Brick, speed, old gowns, both. Okay. Thons out. Yeah. But I, you know, whether you sent him this Venmo request for the rest of your money, I don't think that even really matters. He pays it or he does in it. I don't think that's really a big deal. I, um, but going full Curtis Jackson and adjusting your petty crown is like, for what? This was never your man. This was never even your real friend. Did y'all ever hang out without fucking or kissing or anything sexual ever? Even once? I, I would let it go. I would say to myself, hmm, in the future, if I have feelings for somebody and they don't reciprocate them, I'm not going to continue to sleep with that person. As hard as it is to cut them off at that moment, I'm going to save myself this emotional turmoil, this embarrassment and not being in this position again. That's what I would do if I were you. I was going to say, you know, to that point, it gets easier with practice. Which is why I should hold you are. Well, should have been pregnant. But just because you're 40 just doesn't mean you're day to life. Yeah. Yeah. And there's never too late to learn. So what I think that you should learn is the power in that next bus transit system. There's another one on the way, bitch. You can't hot directly on it. You just got to just go like you vibe with him. You sound like really infatuated with him. And so, you know, you are in your feed fees. And baby, we have all had a clown nose. Absolutely. Oh, baby, I have, I have been in this situation. I've been in this scenario before. So I'm not judging in that way. But I am saying you continue to text them after you heard from the girlfriend was crazy. And then really getting mad because he didn't respond. Hell with her. With a screenshot. Oh my god. Like the girlfriend didn't ever see him ever been in. I think he owned him an explanation. Oh, what? That nigga was just dick. You was just dick or a whole or whatever. That's, that is. And you decided to stay friends with you. But that is a big risk. Obligated you to, obligated to keep you in the loop with whatever he is doing in his dating relationship because you aren't involved. And you need to be very clear about when you're just friends versus you became friends through having sex with each other multiple times. And now y'all are cool and cordial. That needs to be. If y'all, if y'all never hang out without fucking, that's not your friend. Not just your friend. A Ted talk, by crystal. Friendship from fucking like, yeah. And how the mistakes we make and learn from on the way. You better weave. You better weave them together, because that's what this is. Yeah. You got to let that one go, Jason. Jason said this you. I mean, get your money or not. The money is irrelevant. That message, please leave me alone. I'm trying to nurture my relationship. You were legit just a way to pass the time. He was for whatever reason. Maybe he's closeted. I genuinely don't know. But I don't even matter. I understand your feelings. I understand being hurt. Yes. I don't understand. What were you going to do? She's screenshots on like Facebook and tag him and his girlfriend, or like, what, go full, petty, how, make it worse for what? For what? For what? Yeah. Yeah. Did you get the girl? Shut the fuck up. You got it. I have to go back there all the time. Yes, because she too. She did the job. She ate that. She did. She ate that. She did. She ate that. You got to do all that and that man still not going to text you back. And then you just look wild and assuming you're of sound mind. You will eventually be so embarrassed like you are going to cringe. If you keep playing these games, please don't do that. Please try. But I am wishing you the best because again, I've been in this situation and it hurts to feel played. It really does. But you have to realize even all that topped out of, because he said, did he say the top of the email, like, it's not even normal for me to catch feelings or whatever or something like that. It sounded like he is accustomed to fucking getting it off and then moving forward. So you need to go. But you caught feelings for this man. You kept sleeping with him even though he didn't feel the same way. That's kind of how you ended up in this situation, but good. Get back into your old ways and go on some more dates and have some more sex. Yeah. But just leave that man. His wife. I mean, his girlfriend probably broke up with him after finding out that he had been fucking a nigger for the better part of last year, but regardless, you don't even have to deal. You know. Right. No. It is understandable to hate the feeling of, like, damn, I got played, but you have to look get this situation and see how you play yourself. - I'm sorry babe, with love. - Yeah, you duped yourself into continuing this. You have feelings and you didn't want to let it go and that's your right, but this is why we tell you not to continue a sexual relationship with somebody. You really have feelings for and they don't feel the same way because somebody will get hurt. It's not just casual sex because you have feelings. That makes it not casual. So you live and learn. It's like, I don't know about it. You just can't continue to have sex with someone. - No. - Of course. A period of time without catching feelings. I just don't believe it's possible. - Well, I don't know about that, but I don't, what I don't think is a good idea is to sleep with somebody knowing you have feelings for them and they don't feel the same way. - I just don't think that you could have sex with someone, especially good sex with someone, continuously over a long period of time without, like I'm not saying feelings in a sense of like, you're gonna act crazy or be possessive or anything, but I think that you will eventually deeply care about that person. - Well, I think if that was-- - Or even come to love them as a person, do you know what I mean? - I think if that were true, then this nigga that Jason is writing us about would have caught feelings at some point amongst them eight months. I think there are some people who can't have sex without feelings getting attached, but there are some who absolutely can come over and dig you out and go home and nothing else about it, no matter how many times you do it. Which is why we have to protect our own hearts. If you know you to type to get attached to a nigga and it makes sense, sex is very intimate, it's very personal, like it makes sense that your feelings deepen, but again, we've berated you on this point. - It's the journey. - It's the journey. - Good luck in 2026, getting back on the apps baby, but you gotta go ahead and let this one go. - She's starring in a lifetime movie by Mary J. Blige. - Moonst. - Tisha Campbell. I think MacArthur is in it. - So we're gonna go ahead and wrap that up right there. If you have a question for us, send it to [email protected], we'll be right back. - Okay, we're back. It's time to wrap this up with the read. I'll try to make two things very quick. What? I wanna talk really quickly about harassing me Somalian day care workers and Minnesota. - Insane. - So some 23 year old dumbass, why boy, was alleging the dumbass, why boy, YouTube channel, that there was a day care or day care centers in Minnesota that were, didn't have any children present and they were a front to fraud people out of money somehow. He even went with the camera crew. I think even with the news at some point, to go and harass these people at the day care, demand to be let in, to verify whether or not there were children in there. And basically just pastor and encourage other conservatives to pastor, blight people, brown people, who are just working and trying to live their lives, right? Since then, investigators have obviously confirmed that there are children in these day care centers and that these people are just running a business and looking after children because somebody needs to in this God forsaking Hellsake wasteland that we call America. But I just wanna say outside of that, first of all, fuck y'all for even putting these people in the position where they had to then be under investigation and have people come in here with these children and putting them in a position where these kids are probably like, what the hell is going on? Who is this? I'm hoping at the very least of that investigation was respectful enough of the fact that this was a child process. Even me, I'm hoping that they at least had professionals go there understanding their dealing with children and not traumatize them further by going in there like their ice or the military or whatever. But can I guarantee that happen? Would I put money on that fact that you'd be a full hell? No, I'd be a broke fool. So fuck y'all for even putting these people in that position. Furthermore, how motherfucking dare you? Every like bitch, you're the biggest fan of an actual, phallonious, gritting, disgusting, criminal bitch. But y'all always, that's a phallonious. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Yeah. Still chat too. Two times. But you will run, is it? You will always run to go and be like, these black people, these brown people, these Mexicans, these Muslims, these Nigerians, these Venezuelans, they're out to get the white man for all their goddamn worth. Meanwhile, the spedass cracker in the goddamn white house is literally taking the food and medicine out of your mouth and hands. That white boy should be in jail. He should absolutely be charged with something. I don't know because again, as I said, we were talking about Drake and Stake. Why didn't they call it that? Drake and Stake and Stake. When we were talking about that, I don't know the law, bitch. I'm not Maxine Shaw. But there's got to be something in there. I know that she would get it done. He needs to be in the prison. Because how the fuck dare you? Each and every single one of these white boys. And white women, Donald Trump and all his fucking antenna wagling cohorts are consistently destroying your life and your health. And you're like, look at these simoleons. There are no children in there. Meanwhile, children firing squad, lethal injection, electric chair in front of his family. So fuck you for that. Also, not too much on stranger things. Like, I don't really understand. None of y'all are giving me. Now, I would give the finale like a solid eight. Room for improvement, I'm satisfied. I enjoyed it. Highs a couple of lows. Lot of y'all are doing it a little too much for me. With these, like, it feels like some of y'all can't have a show and without trying to find something to complain about. Now, obviously, everyone has different opinions and all your opinions are fair. Well, all your opinions are yours. But see shit like, oh, you know, putting pictures of Millie Bobby Brown and Finn Wolfhard, like screen grabs from the episode like, for Caleb McLaughlin and Sadie Sink who play Lucas and Max. Oh, they don't have chemistry. They don't have chemistry. Just cringy. They'll have chemistry. First of all, I disagree. But regardless, bitch, you get your ass up there and do it. Well, you get your ass in front of those cameras and act then bitch. You can't even retain it like your coworker's now. What the fuck are you talking about? Shut your ass up. Oh, that was, I'm gonna bitch about people bitching about Erica played by V exceptional, immensely talented, gorgeous, phenomenal and groundbreaking stunning pre-affircancement. Oh, Erica deserved Millie. Well, she needed to be a binger. She needed to be a binger, easy. Why did she have to be so sadsy and did the, Erica Sinclair was, was literally like, Chiara everyday black girl around the way. But she also was like a minor character that came out of nowhere and went from just being the delightful cute little sister that was always frying her brother for being a dork. And we just delighted at that to having excellent character progression, being in more scenes, eventually being a regular and evolving from making front of her brother and friend for being dorks to being the baddest dork of all of them saving the day countless times. That was another critique. Oh, why the black girl always gotta save the day. As opposed to what? As opposed to what? If hell is coming to earth and there are even of the monsters that are coming to kill everybody, as she got the recipe, as opposed to what? Furthermore, everybody had a hand in this. There was another thing if people were like, oh, it was too easy to take down Vecna. They were trying to take this man down for like 18 months straight, or this thing down for 18 months straight. They were doing crawls constantly couldn't find them. They had to plot how to break through a wormhole and then jump him after fighting an epically-sized monster. Easyware, everyone saved the day. Why are y'all bitchin' in my kitchen? And I go understand how you'll then be like, just watch Medea's Big Bad Christmas, or whatever the fuck. Like, how are you that, and also the Hollywood reporter? I hate y'all, I hate everybody. That's it, I'm finished. Um, okay. I'm gonna take respect to Minneapolis real quick, because of everything that's been going on there that is just absolutely bad shit with ice and everything. Ice who just earlier today killed an American citizen and tried to say that the woman was weaponizing her car and Jacob shot out to the mayor of Minneapolis, and like bullshit, get the fuck out my state. But anyway, nobody shocked, this is what Ice does. I would like to say, before I get into this Hilton thing, if there are any Venezuelans who wanna come over here and kidnap our dictator of a president, please do. I will not stand to your way. Just come get him, girl, he's a McDonald's, come get him. Please, this shit is insane. This shit is in every day in this administration is fucking insane. But um, so Ice posted, he's hideous, he anyway. Ice posted on Twitter, screenshots and this message of how this Hilton hotel in Minneapolis canceled the reservations of Ice Agents, DHS agents, and said that Ice is not welcome in their hotel. - And- - How about let's do that? - Well, so it is independently operated, but it's part of the Hilton family. So, but it was an independently owned Hampton in franchise hotel. And so the manager of that hotel does not accept (laughing) reservations from Ice, they want Ice to get the fuck out of their city, the fuck out they stay. Understandably so, if you ask me, but so people saw this on Twitter and across social media and was like, shout out to Hilton, girl, we're giving all of our business to Hilton. That's right. No DHS in our city, no DHS in our state. Hilton said, oh, wait, just one cotton picking minute. (laughing) We ain't say all that. We did not say all that. Anybody with a valid credit card and ID is welcome to stay at Hilton properties. Ice included. And so now they are, and so now they are moving to cut their relationship with this hotel. It will not be a part of Hilton hotels any longer. And Europee hospitality, which owns that hotel apologized on Monday for the manager's right. So it was really actually nobody who had the real power was in favor of keeping ice out of the hotel. It was just that makes way more sense. The people who were right. Hilton right exactly. And so Hilton immediately was like, oh, while y'all celebrating. I'm not surprised. But this shit off right now. But no, what we love ice. We love Trump. I know we ain't hell with it. That is so fierce that people, a surge of people are like, let's go spend our money at Hilton. And they were like, no, not unless you're going to shut your ass up about it. That is cut, cut. That's what to take our money. Keep it. And I even saw comments from people being like, oh, well, if y'all watched Real Housewives and you would know, Kathy don't play that. Paris and what and Mickey don't play that. Those people are watching. Those people are Hilton's. They are catches when our cues are being racist on that show. Nikki Hilton is a rock child now. That's even more money than Hilton. You think these people are not fans of what Trump is doing? Please be fucking for real. Don't think because Kathy had a couple of funny lines on a TV show that that bitch is not totally in line with whatever Trump want to do. They love this shit. I cannot believe who said y'all must not have watched that show. Yeah, I just see I saw one comment that was like, oh, y'all must didn't watch because if you had watched it, then you would know Nikki don't play that. Paris and Kathy don't play that. Yes, the fuck they do. You really thought that Hilton's were going to come out and be like, yeah, no ice in our hotels, no ice in our properties, bitch. They couldn't tell y'all to take your broke ass to somewhere else quickly enough. I don't know what. Wrap it up. (laughs) Because Paris bled like West Hollywood pride and DJed and it was fierce. And she played like a remix and a espresso and you got your life. You don't know that lady. Like, like, and she don't know these people. And what about, she is a white woman, who is wealthy, not just, not new money. They been wealthy, baby. And they only marry other wealthy people and they keep that shit going. I don't care how cool Paris seems on her Netflix show or DJing or the Kathy, whatever Kathy did, that two seasons on Housewives or whatever, I don't know, it don't matter. They are not going against them financial interests ever. So Hilton said-- Y'all keep saying Nicki Minaj, bro, or she got money issues. And she went out with that white lady and said, "Boy, it should be boy, and a girl, and a girl." (laughs) I don't understand why Y'all think. - Right, so as the spicable as I find this, and I will be, and then so people were like, "Oh, let's go to Marriott," and then they were like, "Oh no, Marriott also donated to Trump." - Baby, just stop talking about it. - You're not like, here's the thing. - You're gonna go find a black brand. - So everybody's like, "Okay, girl, hide it here." - Let's go to hide it, and I don't want to spend my money with these people either, but at the very top of all these businesses are hardcore Republicans who don't give a fuck what y'all think. - Period. So I don't-- - I'm sure there are a couple of online databases and stuff that just-- - Yeah. - Every day, here's a list of all the people are all the big businesses. Johnson and Johnson, I don't know. - But, yeah, I'm very surprised that people are getting, I guess the-- - That y'all really thought, "Oh, yeah, shout out to Hilton." - Girl, absolutely not, baby. - That is so funny. - I mean, and I hate it too, but sorry, there was a zero percent chance that Hilton was actually gonna let that slide. They said we are cut in one of Kathy's, as if Kathy did not. I have black friends, some of my friends are black. - Oh, I'm bravo, are you dizzy? - And I'm sure that manager, whoever had that policy, has probably been fired. They probably are. - Of course. - Sure, so, spin on. - You won't be able to stand for a corporation, okay? Now, get that through your heads. You will not be able to stand for a corporation. You could-- - Then only fired in. - You bet. - They could fury cups at the bitch on her way out. (laughing) - It's like-- - Do your best, spend your money where you can be, as mindful as you can, but this idea that any of these corporations cares more about us than they do dollars be for real, this is America. - That is so fierce that the company chose backlash. - Yeah, they were like, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. What, y'all niggas, stop it with on y'all TV. - Keeping any of that liberal money to us, bitch. - Oh, no, no, no, no, don't. Before y'all think we rock with the people. - Absolutely not, absolutely not. (laughing) - Really raggedy, but I expect nothing less of wealthy white Americans, this is who they are. So, that's gonna wrap up this week's episode of The Read. Check us out on social media at this is The Read. Our website is this is The Read.com. - You know something I just thought about? - Hmm. - What's her name, McMahon, from the WWE is-- - Oh yeah. - And the American government now. So, she's probably held-- - Linda. (laughing) - With the pyrotechnics, with the stage people, and all of this, she probably got left over equipment from wrestling anyway. - Oh yeah, our secretary of education. - Why does that bitch keep coming out on stage like she's Iron Man? - Oh, because nothing matters. (laughing) Not one fucking thing matters. But yeah. - And they will try to get Cardi eventually at her lowest, at her lowest, when she's just real sad. (laughing) - Erica Kerz is gonna pop up like this. like Voldemort, I'm like I have something for you. Don't you hate Trin? (laughing) - Don't you feel a little, I mean, Cardi was just a guess on Drag Race. I mean, I would, but Nikki did too. - Nikki was on Drag Race. - Maybe, see a therapist, please. I'm actually literally begging you, hear whatever you got going on. - I really do want a therapist. And if you are in therapy, tell the truth. And that's for, listen, and baby, that's a different one for it. That's a big one for a different day. That's not even a tough one. - We don't even know. - We really don't. - We are already two, 15, we're way over. So, but if you are in therapy, tell the truth. - Tell the truth. - Get to the, get to the answer. - Amen, Amen. Yes, because emotionally mature people don't choose emotionally immature partners. But anyway, - It's just true. - Crystalscage, new episodes out now. Crystalscage.com for links, and et cetera. Any other news from you? Okay, if you're here before we head out. - You can find me at kifferu.com. You can also find me at patreon.com/kidfury. We've got a new monthly playlist that we're doing, going into the New Year and beyond, as well as exclusive videos and upcoming secret treats. - Mm-hmm. - So meet us over there for festivities, including a video of me trying a bunch of wigs on link. - Now what did Nikki say? Let boys be boys. How dare you? - You're right. - And Link is a honkin' dyke. So she was like, Link is a lesbian, been lesbian. Like, but she loves me so much that she was just like, all right, I'm just gonna let you guys do this. She was giving sweet heat. How all the, the lesbian is a sweet heat or just like, oh my God, you're so sweet. You wanna drink? All right, all right, leave me alone, I got something to do. - I think Lenny is straight, but she'll also hump anything. - She'll hump anybody, so. - You put a wig on her for Halloween. - Well, yeah, but she was Wednesday at 'em. She had to. - Right, I just did it for fun 'cause I'm gay. - And we're taking pictures. - A dozen wigs. - And see, that's what Nikki don't like. How dare you, gay boy? - Go purchase these things. - And do this gayness. - How fucking, yes. We're taking, what are the pictures gonna give? - Well, we're taking Valentine's Day pictures at the JCPenney. 'Cause JCPenney let you do it. - Yeah, there you go. There you go. - So we're going to the pennies and we take out our day pictures. - Airbrush hearts, it has to have airbrush. - And it has to have airbrush. - That Kings and Yura dress has so much. - Work. - Getting her that jerk. - Work. - Okay, so it's like jumbo size. It has to be framed like the size of a window. - Absolutely. - Like, three-kish portraits. - Yes. - Like a haunted house size portrait. - We're gonna be like, bye. - That's a joke. - Are you okay? (laughing) - I'm not wait to see this day. - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - You have to do multiple poses. - Got to. - Wallet size. - Oh, yeah. - This is gonna be-- - I love it. I'm pretty pictures. - And I'm sending them to everybody. Get ready. 'Cause you're getting a picture. - She also has little dog shade face. - Oh, yeah. - And my cousins gave her some sunglasses in a chain for Christmas. - Work. - So she is going to be wearing her little nigger chain. We go, you know, I'm gonna see if the photographer. But, you know, now that I know you can go to JCPenney's and take pet portraits, we might go three-fold times a year. - And I'm not playing. - That is really just it. (laughing) - We really play. - You just started now. - Yes! - This is all we play, and she has a baby book. So, anyway, we've yapped for so long. Take care of yourself. - We'll see y'all next week. - Yes, that.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The host critiques Beyoncé’s wealth and recent public behavior, arguing that her admiration for fame and success is misplaced and that she should be held accountable when acting inappropriately.
  2. A viral incident involving Nicki Minaj’s on-stage moment with Erica Kirk is highlighted, where Minaj claims a personal connection to the white woman outweighs her career achievements—leading to deep criticism of her values and loyalty to fans.
  3. The host expresses concern over the lack of accountability in public figures, especially when they dismiss the experiences and identities of marginalized communities, such as trans and LGBTQ+ fans.
  4. A lawsuit is filed against Drake over promoting the online gambling platform "Stake," with plaintiffs claiming it leads to addiction and predatory financial behavior, including using funds to manipulate streaming data.
  5. A new lawsuit is also filed against Tyler Perry over alleged inappropriate physical contact with a young man, raising serious concerns about power dynamics and consent in entertainment.
  6. Donnie McClarkin is accused of grooming a young man in the 2000s, with allegations including emotional manipulation and sexual misconduct, though he denies the claims.
  7. The host criticizes Cardi B’s public involvement in a legal dispute with a baby daddy, arguing it reflects emotional immaturity and poor judgment in parenting and relationships.
  8. A recurring theme is the responsibility of public figures to grow beyond fame and wealth, emphasizing personal accountability, mental health, and the need for self-reflection in relationships and public behavior.

Summary:

The transcript is a candid, opinion-driven commentary on pop culture, celebrity behavior, and personal accountability. The host critiques Beyoncé’s billionaire status and recent actions, arguing that her public persona and emotional priorities—such as prioritizing a moment with a white woman over her career—reveal a lack of integrity. A major point of contention is Nicki Minaj’s on-stage statement, where she claims a personal connection with Erica Kirk surpasses her achievements, which the host sees as deeply disrespectful to fans and marginalized communities.

The host also examines the growing number of legal cases against celebrities, including Drake for promoting gambling via "Stake" and Tyler Perry for alleged grooming and inappropriate contact with minors. Donnie McClarkin faces similar accusations, with claims of grooming and emotional manipulation over two decades ago. The conversation extends to Cardi B, whose public defense of a baby daddy and emotional involvement in a legal dispute is criticized as immature and damaging to children.

The overarching theme is that fame and wealth do not absolve individuals of personal responsibility, and that emotional maturity, self-reflection, and accountability are essential for public figures. The host urges listeners to question not just the actions of celebrities, but the values they represent—especially in matters of race, gender, and power. The tone is critical yet empathetic, calling for growth and deeper awareness in the face of modern celebrity culture.

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The main criticism is that she prioritizes a moment on stage with a white woman over her long-standing career achievements and fan engagement, which some view as disrespectful to her loyal fanbase and inconsistent with her past actions.

A lawsuit is being discussed where two individuals in Virginia and Australia are accusing Drake of promoting an online gambling platform called Stake, alleging it leads to gambling addiction and financial harm, especially through targeted advertising.

A new lawsuit has been filed by a Latin man named Mario Rodriguez, alleging that Tyler Perry engaged in inappropriate physical contact during drinks and a meal, including touching his legs and penis, and offering him $5,000 as an apology.

Donnie McClarkin is being sued by a former personal assistant who alleges he sexually abused him during mentorship sessions and at his home, with the accuser claiming he was groomed and physically touched, though McClarkin denies the allegations.

The issue is that Cardi B is criticized for repeatedly having relationships with emotionally immature men who are not involved in fatherhood, and for publicly commenting on legal issues between her and a baby daddy, which some see as inappropriate and harmful to her children.

The speaker expresses that 'Nice for What' is one of Drake's best songs and personally enjoys it, despite not liking the overall album Scorpion.

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