Hawaii Couples Vacation Recap with BFFs Aubrey, Wood & Max!

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We can get into it more and you'll hear more. Okay, we're going to get into it. I love that little cliffhanger. Wood, it's been a while since you've been on the pod. We've missed you on here. I know. When was the last time? I remember I said long-time listener, first-time caller last time I was on. I think it was when we went to that wedding. We were in the same hotel room to have a better bang for our buck in separate beds. It was close quarters. It was the day after. It was a mobile pod studio. That's it. Like I got like 20 words in that episode. So I've already reached more than the bedroom episode. I need to go back and re-listen to that. But okay. So I have a little list of like, you know, some questions we're going to go through today. We're going to talk about our trip, who planned it. There was a little Mike White sighting. We're going to talk about funniest moments. We're going to talk about if there was a trip couples fight. Stay tuned to find out about that. And then we're going to answer questions from our audience. So does that sound good with everyone? Dude, I can't believe that there's actually an episode to recap this trip. I'm so stoked. No, it's the way that like I'll slave away to get like mental health experts on all month. And this is going to be a lot of fun. So I'm going to talk about it. I'm going to talk about it. I'm going to the one that people enjoy the most. Okay. So how did the trip come about? Obzy G, you want to take that one? Max and Wood were on a golf trip and Victoria and I were left unsupervised for far too long on FaceTime and booked this entire trip without them knowing or consulting them. And then they came home to a beautiful PowerPoint presentation that we had put together for them. And the ending slide kind of just said, okay, cool. I'm glad you guys are on board because it's already booked and paid for. So, which we were grateful for. It did catch me by surprise a little bit. I was tired after that golf trip. And then I got home to a full, Hey, can we FaceTime Vic? And I'm like, sure. Why not? Well, you guys like loaded it up where like, we had no idea what was coming. Like I was thinking there was a world where like, you know, it was like semi-serious or like something was about to get dropped. And then it was like, Oh, vacation. I was like, hell yeah. Could you imagine if we told them about our pregnancies at the same time? It's kind of, that's what I was thinking. That's what I, it was something like that. I'm like, we have devised a plan and a timeline that we're going to adhere to. No guys, that's coming in the next couple of years. That'll be the next podcast. And also Wood, was it a little shocking to you? Because we always joke, everyone listening that in our relationship, I'm more of the type A, Max is more of the type B and in their relationship, Wood's the type A and Aubrey's the type B. And we'll frequently find ourselves in situations where me and Wood are in complete agreement and Aubrey and Max are in complete agreement. So Wood, what was it like when Aubrey had said, I planned a trip? All I had to hear was I was on FaceTime with Vic for four hours and I was like, Oh, so Vic planned it. All right. Sounds good. That is so funny, which leads me to the next topic, which is where did we go? Where did we stay? So we went to Hawaii and we stayed at the Westin Hapuna beach. The reason is because Max and I went to the Mauna Kea resort for his work trip a few years ago. And I had never been there. Really a great experience. And so that's actually the first place Aubrey and I looked, but it was fully sold out. And we have since learned that the people who go to Mauna Kea, like it's a cult, like they love it. It's you can't get in. They have like room groups. Oh my God. It's similar to Priest Lake. You have to, you get your next room for the next year, but you have to book it like a year in advance or something for Christmas. And if you don't go the next year, you lose your spot. So they're just running it back, baby. Decades upon decades. It's like a, it's like a frat house. It's like, yo, who do you know a brother here? But then they get, they get squished. Or they get squeezed when the kids grow up and they get significant others. You got too many bodies. A lot of people stressing out during cocktail hour. They got to go down to the Westin. Yeah. Which is maybe why they opened up the Westin. So we stayed there. The reason that I was really passionate about this particular set of hotels is because in Hawaii, all the beaches are public. I'm pretty sure. Fact check me. I'm pretty sure. Yeah. So if you stay at a hotel, you're mainly like staying at a hotel to pay for pools. And I once stayed at like a really nice five-star hotel with Natalie. And I was bummed. I was like, I want to be at the beach. Like I didn't fly all the way here to just be at like this adult pool. So I think what's really unique is that the Westin, Hapuna beach, and then the Mauna Kea have like these lawn chairs on the beach. It still has public access, of course, but you at least get to lay on a lawn chair by the beach that you didn't have to bring yourself. And so that to me was like the deal breaker. Let's, uh, let's talk about the lawn chairs and the strategy there. Oh, wait, the one that found out first that they go down to reserve them at like 4.00 AM. Who told us that? I think one of your friends that you had run into there said they do that at the Mauna Kea. Yes. That's crazy. They wake up at like 4.00 AM to put shoes on beach chairs to reserve them because it's, it's that much of a hot commodity. So then the first morning of the trip, Max and I woke up kind of early. And actually I will say I had put this on Max after doing all the work that we did. I was like, tomorrow, I want you to wake up, please reserve the chairs. I happened to wake up at the same time as him. So I was like, I'll go, but you got brownie points for being willing to do that. You were just up and at him. I was like, Whoa, what's going on? It was like, what a 6.00 AM alarm or something like that, but it was unnecessary. Like we were by far the first people there. It was not, we were the first people there. I will say, wouldn't I were dead weight. So thank you guys for reserving the chairs every single day. We all carried weight in different ways, but we were awake anyway. So I go down and I reserve the chair. And then literally like 15 minutes later, a guy comes down. Wait, what was his name? What was his name? Vinny. No, it was like, it was like bill from New York. No, it was like Dale from New York. Yeah. It was like Mike or it was a quintessential New York name. And he just puts out his hand. He goes, yo, Mike from New York. I got to say, no, one's ever beat me to these chairs. I'm really impressed by you. I'm like, this was like, you could tell the night before, like, this is this dude's job for his family. It's like alarm front row chairs. I've done this for the past 15 years, seven years ago, I had to fight Karen on the beach. Cause she tried to drag my chair and he was impressed. Every, every time I do this, the Yanks make the world series. So I got to keep literally, he verbatim said, no one's ever beat me to these chairs. Where are you from? I'm like California. He's like, oh, I knew it had to be California. So anyways, that was funny. And then I was like, are your kids going to give you shit? Like we can switch chairs. And he was like, no, no, no, it's fine. And then his daughter later in the day was a fan of Aubrey's. So that was a fun. She said, hi. Yeah. She said, hi. Did I not tell you that? Yeah. It was very sweet. Felt, felt serendipitous. Yeah. Great chairs guys. It was a full circle moment. She was like, I love you guys. And I was like, we love your dad. No, something in common. We've heard the law of your family. We love them. So, okay. My next question says, who's the most high maintenance traveler of the group? Ooh, I might raise my hand for that. I might give it to Wood. Wood is like so particular about sunscreen and it like, it like ruins his trip if the sunscreen is not clear. And since we did not check bags, Wood couldn't bring his own sunscreen. So we purchased every sunscreen available. I bought two. I bought two different sunscreens and they were like. Two available. Yeah. They said, oh, this will dry clear on your skin. And I was like, perfect. That's all I heard about the whole trip. The sunscreen wasn't rubbing in. I looked like Aubrey took a white paintbrush to my body. Wait, in hindsight, that's actually really funny you address it because why do I feel like Wood was always like 1% out and it was the sunscreen. It was the sunscreen. No, truly. He doesn't like the environment. Sunscreen is supposed to be a protected environment and he's a Yeah, I know. You know, I know the Hawaiian, the Hawaiians, uh, take care of their ocean. No, he's an aerosol only guy, which just isn't environmentally friendly. I can do a cream that dries clear, but when it starts drying white, I'm out. He takes my unseen sunscreen for his body. I'm like, that's like $40 and it's for my face. What's unseen sunscreen? It dries invisible. That's the whole point. I want to just say I validate this Wood. And if there was something annoying me, like someone chewing behind us all day, or if we were slightly in chairs facing something weird, I would have been hyper fixating on it. Yeah. Is that the only high maintenance thing we had? What else? I'm not an ocean person. Is that how? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Aubrey went on a beach vacation and didn't tell me she doesn't like the beach. Yeah, it's wild. She likes the idea that there's a beach close by. Love that. Yeah. Palm trees. The sound of the waves. The sound is lovely. What is it? Is it the water? and the potential sharks is it the sand is it i don't like when sand dries on my feet it's my biggest pet peeve i don't like the feeling just miss me with it i like being in the in the pool what about water shoes yeah get you some i look i literally say they should make beach socks make beach socks for me wait but can you just go into the ocean go back and like wash your feet with like the little like you know hose situation oh there are plenty of solutions so many solutions none i'm willing to take though yeah unfortunately and if she wore beach shoes i think she'd have to sit like six chairs down for months you know well we did get her in the water i think once maybe twice but once and then other than that max and wood had so much fun boogie boarding i was in the ocean yes we we had the best of both this episode is brought to you by premier protein and i love premier protein so much i feel like i don't go a day anymore without having a protein drink because it's just 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that was like the best morning vacation setup i had get up get a little sweat situation whether it's gym or hike and then go straight to the little buffet breakfast that was big time yeah we'd never been on a trip before with people where we're all aligned i was trying to work on this on the trip it's like exposure therapy but i really am most happy when everyone's doing the same thing at the same time so like i get a little stressed when like the group is divided i almost feel like i'm a dog and it's like my my parents are in rooms and i'm like which room do i go in so it was nice that we were all on the same page of like morning workout because when someone else is like oh we're gonna work out from three to five i'm like great so my three to five now doesn't exist like i will say that max was the solo vacationer at some points yeah i would say that max max is the opposite max would love for me to go do something for the 10 hour day and actually not see me and he would say what a great day that was let's catch up in the solo boogie board sesh kind of bomb the solo solo beer at the bar sesh chat chatted up with the random ohio state fan at the bar kind of bomb you know you get a break from this crew for a hot sec the solo workout sesh you know solid yeah but no me and vick and wood had a wonderful trip we missed you max we went the three of us went on two morning hikes together well that that's my beef yeah true true true like that i feel bad when you like i can see it when you know i'm like like 20 minutes behind you to get ready or whatever and it's almost like your day doesn't start until everyone is like lined up in the beach chairs which is like yo that doesn't need to happen like sorry i love you so much also i know i feel bad though because i don't want her to get gypped at a vacation time no it's on me and i need to be no but that's it's totally normal and i need to be able to like enjoy my 30 minutes without someone and be cool with that so i get that from my mom but we're working through it okay who would be most likely to survive if stranded alone on an island in hawaii without resources victoria you'd find a way you'd find a way i'm first to die for sure i was gonna maybe i'm glad you said it off the island i was gonna maybe say max it's not me like i could see wood getting gritty yeah wood how do you think you shape in that situation you know it's not my preference to be uh stranded on a on an island it depends is there clear sunsets available if i get on survivor one day then we'll test this theory i like to believe that i could be really calm and be like okay we're here acceptance now what's the plan but you never know until you're in the situation i'm walking right into the water just give it up everything okay wait i forgot this question and i do want to ask it who is most likely to pda on vacation you guys you too really yeah yeah all the all the kids at the kid pool were just like i just can't keep my hands on my wife just get vacation mode i feel like it's pretty see there's so much time away during the vacation there's so much time away from one another so whenever we rekindle yeah you gotta disconnect to reconnect i like it don't turn off the jets in the hot tub who knows that's funny i thought it was pretty equal that's what i wanted to ask you seem frustrated you okay with that i feel like no i'm okay with it but i don't want it to seem like i teed it up for them i don't want it to seem like i teed it up for them to say us so i'm oh that's fair i'm specifying that i by the way who do you think is the cutest it's either them or us unless the rose like wood wood vick combo who do you think is the cutest but you just probably wouldn't be oh one of my highlights of the trip was the picture that wouldn't i did get together we were doing so many pictures like rotating between couples that i think on the final night new year's we were like hey get one of me and wood I have a picture saved specifically for Valentine's Day. that Vic may or may not let me post. But then if you're listening to this, hammer her in the DMs to let me post it. It is PG. It's totally fine. Yeah, it's all good. No PDA. It's the funniest picture ever. But it's got to see the feed. So good. So funny. So funny. Okay. So now we're going to move into some questions from Instagram. Are you ready? Yeah. People want to know, how did we balance friend and friend time with partner time? I actually have a good answer. Max mentioned it earlier. He said solo drinking at the bar. But I feel like it was that prime hour between pool slash beach and then getting ready for dinner. And while the girls are getting ready, Max and I would go to the bar and have a beer and just chat it up. So it was like that was our friend time. And then we'd come to dinner with that energy. And it was just. Yeah. There's positive energy coming into dinner. That chunk is such an underrated chunk of vacation time. The like three to five slot. You know, you guys got to go get ready. Boys just chilling at the bar. It was great. It's such a good slot. Also, I think that it was cool that we like mixed up where we were sitting on the lounge chairs. Like I felt like Aubrey and I were laying next to each other for the during the day and we could yap and talk, which was nice because, well, I feel like we're all close enough that we can like talk about that. Whereas like if I showed up on a vacation with another couple and like the girl was on the far side and the guy sat to her right and then I was on the far edge, I'd be like, okay, well, this sucks. Okay. Might as well be having alone time at this point. Literally, I need to talk to her. So that was nice. And then I think naturally throughout the day. Yeah, I was going to say, I feel like once you live with your partner, any outing is like an excuse to hang out with other people and then you come home to each other. Like I felt like Vic, I was with you that whole trip except for like group dinner. You know what I mean? You were so funny. Aubrey's like, so we're going to room together and the boys will go in that room. And I'm like, wait, I kind of want to room with my husband. I'm like, that's crazy. Okay, I guess I'll go back and it was also easier because we stayed on site the whole time. I feel like the root of this question might be like, you know, if you're doing activities all day and everyone had to do the same offsite activity that might feel like, you know, I might want some time with just my wife. But also genuinely, and I think this is like the insane luxury blessing, whatever you want to call it, of the four of us being so close is like we even had things where like in the beginning of the trip, there was something Aubrey wanted to tell me and Max was like, wait, I want to be there for that and like vice versa. So it was funny because we didn't need like time to just talk without two of the others there because I genuinely consider Wood like one of my best friends if not a brother to me. So it's like, you know, he's a buddy. Everything's a group discussion. No, fully. And I would say like this circle square of people, like I value everyone's opinion. And I think like if I bring something up to Max and Vic chimes in, I'm like, oh, good point. Like, I'm like, oh, that perspective makes sense. It's not just like, you know, I'm telling Vic something and then her weirdo husband chimes in. That's what I was going to say. Like I'm a helicopter husband, so nothing can go through my wife without clearance for me. So that's kind of where I'm at with that. We got some natural alone time and we all four enjoy being together. Genuinely, we don't live in the same city, so it's nice to all be together. OK, someone did ask any trip fights. I had something come to mind. What happened? Think really hard at the thing that was most close to becoming a fight. The percentages. Yeah, yeah. Guys, I screwed up. Guys, I screwed up. Max, you are being called out point blank right now. OK. All right. So there's this thing in our dynamic that Aubrey and Wood being together has improved our lives by three percent. OK, wait. When we were talking about Aubrey and Wood getting back together and I think when they finally got back together, I think I was like, I was like the way that this makes my life like 50 percent better. Like I said, some extreme and Max was like, let's be real. It's three percent. It's a real three percent. And I'm all I know. And so the joke has always been that that's way too low. Like our best friends marry each other. So that's where the conversation was is Max brought up again that Aubrey and Wood together is three percent to which we're all like you're BSing. It's way more than that. Well, if the whole pie and it's like a fulfillment pie of life is 100 percent. And if Aubrey and Wood have three percent, I then said my wife had 60 percent. In my mind, I was thinking I got my parents. I got my brothers. I got other friends. I got football. I got SoulCycle. SoulCycle. Hey, five percent. Easy. SoulCycle is more than your guys' love. But of all the like fulfillment in life, I was like, all right, that's the proportionate pie chart. Which I was just blown away because I was like, are you kidding me? I'm like, you're my 100 percent. Like, well, that is BS. I am not your 100 percent. But I appreciate the energy. I needed to meet you somewhere in the middle of that. Anyways, so that was a funny moment on the trip where we didn't get into a fight, but there was a real like, I'm not going to glaze over the fact that you just said I'm a 60 percent of your life's happiness. Like, I literally I should be. What do you think you are? You're fucking everything. That's what you told me in our vows. He was like, nah, 60. I ran the numbers this morning. It's a D. So that, OK, I guess. Yeah, that was maybe the closest. Any couple got to it. What if we just came out of Love Field? We're like Vic and Wood had the biggest blow up fight in the entire world. Yes. Or Aubrey and Max just got into it. I don't think that actually going in that direction. There have ever been fights between you and Max or me. No. We've had deep chats to be like, hey, let's align. And like, I want like we've we've had deep talks. We're not like pretend everything's OK, but we don't ever get in arguments. No. When Wood and Aubrey got back together, it was nice for Wood and I to have a conversation. Have a chat and be like, oh, I missed you. And like now I feel like we can talk more freely and whatnot. You know, that's it. Did you guys have any secret fights in your room? No. No. What a fightless trip for all of us. Blush it out. What do you got? We save all the fights for home. You guys woke up really weird on the third morning. Something happened the night before. It was just the sunscreen, dude. That's it. We just got me on a run. I did run my questions through chat to be like any additional things you think I should add. And it literally suggested what's a tiny thing someone did that annoyed you, but you didn't say anything because it was vacation. Stir the pot. Why is it so spicy? I don't have anything, but I was curious if that brought up anything for anyone else. I have nothing. Usually on every other trip, I would have something like any group trip. I feel like you always come out with something. This was the perfect trip. Like it was truly magical. It was so great. I agree. It was so nice. And we, we've never done it before. We'd never, the four of us planned a trip, done it like not involved with the brand, not with other friends, not with family. So it was really nice. Someone did ask Max and Vic, would you move back to SF to be near OBS and Wood or vice versa? Ooh, it's so tough. We're Aubrey and Wood are close to her family. Me and Max post. Oh, what's grabbing the mic? I was going to say, I'm not fucking leaving. I'm not fucking leaving. I feel like this topic or a version of this question comes up on every pod that me and you do where it's like, we're wired where we always like are assessing like, ooh, anything's possible. We could land there. This could happen. We could do this, which I don't always think is the best thing, but like, I think there is a world where we would move up there. Yeah. I do think there is a world where if we were not feeling content in LA in like five or seven years and you guys had this great setup and we would, in the suburbs, Max and I don't want to live in San Francisco, but if when they move to the suburbs, we love the setup. Like your guys' place? No. We hate it there. You guys go suburb. You know what? Fuck LA. Yay. I know you guys do feel that way about LA. So we're just being honest about the different cities, which is funny. To be fair, Vic grew up in the Bay Area. I spent 11 years in LA. I always tell people I squeezed what I could out of LA and it kind of squeezed what it could out of me too. And then this one brought me up to SF. But I think SF Bay Area suburbs is where we'll. I think that's probably where we'll end up. Settle. It's hard when our families are in different places. Yeah. You know? You guys deal with that too. What would have to get you guys to be like, this is where we're going to end up? Aubrey always says she doesn't want to be the first to leave the city. That's what it is. Like, I think the progression of our life is moving a little bit faster than some of our friends here. So I know they won't be out of the city for a while. But like, once everyone jumps on that train, I feel like we will realistically be the first to move. 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And not to be sappy here, but I think there is a difference between our laughter and shared laughter with other people. We laugh all the time, like whatever, but it's like about stupid stuff, you know, whatever. But when we're in either NSF or with you guys, like it is so much more invigorating for the laughter and the joy of other people. Again, not to be sappy, but going to be sappy. Wood sometimes comes out with like the most beautifully said, like eloquent phrases. It's baffling. It's so baffling. It's the clip right there. He just goes, it wasn't just laughter with us. It's shared laughter. It's so true though. Yeah. All right. And I feel like we're all on such a similar mental wavelength that actually for me, it's really fun. It's like, you know, when they say play on the team that's better than you and be the worst player and grow. I feel like when I'm in this group of four, I'm like trying to be really funny, trying to see the joke, trying to get it out before you guys. Like I'm exercising my comedic muscles. Vic, you have your strengths too, okay? But there are times, and this is not like shit on Vic, but there are times where like the three of us are laughing and you can tell Vic's like, should I be laughing? Okay, got it. Yes. Yeah, we're in this laugh. No, Foley, I'm always like five minutes a little too late. Or wait, there was something I did say on the trip that was really witty. And you guys were like, whoa, what was, what was it? It was like, what, written it down. It was, shoot, I do remember it though. I should have printed it out and framed it for you. Super, super unmemorable, I guess. No, Foley. Me, what was that thing that cracked everyone up? No one can remember. Just love cracking up. What was your favorite part of the trip? Max, you go. Max, being at the bar by myself. No, when I had a few beverages and was chopping it up with the bus driver. Oh, that was so funny. And just bantering with the bus driver. Wait, that was so funny. I don't remember really what I said. You were just egging him on so much. But he was like playing ball too. No, but he didn't, I don't think he knew. I think that he thought you were his new best friend and you were just totally joshing. I wasn't. Yeah, he was like, he was like, I got a funny story. Do you want to hear it, Max? Like, yeah, tell me. I wasn't boying him, but if he's going to bring that energy, I match it. No, that's why it was funny is because he walks away thinking that was such a great, friendly, talkative guy. He doesn't think anything negative. That's why it was so funny is because we knew you were not acting like yourself. He's like, yeah, I just had a lot of people on the bus. Stack like sardines. And he was like, wow, like shoulder to shoulder. And the guy was like, yeah, man, shoulder to shoulder. And like, he was bringing that energy, though, because it makes me sound like a bully. He had that energy. He doesn't make fun of people. Like, it's not a making fun thing. It's like, oh, that's your energy. I'm going to meet you there. Yeah, we're going to we're going to see where this goes. And then the conversation died and the car was silent for like four seconds. And Max is like, wow, 36 people in here. He just jumped down analyzing the bus. Like, yeah, there's not a lot of space. Wow. That was the one night where Max was maybe a little bit of a liability, but it was fun. And so Aubrey and Wood were like, this is incredible. And I was like, is it? Is it? I was fine. I was fine. We had a loud table and no one else was matching our energy. And you're telling me the high schoolers with their parents weren't matching our energy. Someone's got to bring it at Copper Bar, you know, every single night. I do feel like there are people looking at our table. Every time we laugh, just like yearning to be a part of like this funny table because their dinner was boring. Sorry. My least favorite part besides the sunscreen was on that same bus. I had the hiccups for like three hours. And that that usually would kill a vacation for me. Yeah, it almost killed my night. That's that's just embarrassing. I need to be better. Overall, takes of Hawaii. Why did I hear whispers you were liking it? Where are we at? Hawaii. Why Hawaii in general? I loved it a lot. It wasn't really a negative. It was just discounting the sunscreen and the hiccups. I think it was like, this is the exact vacation we needed. Like I needed to sit at a hotel by the pool, by the beach, whatever it was, and be calm. I think the typical vacation I envision is like going out, you know, like not to the bars, but like just seeing the culture and feeling the culture in the city. And at that specific hotel in that area, that's not really possible, which is totally fine. But I feel like I didn't get to experience Hawaii. Yeah, no, I think you're 100% correct in that we did talk about we we looked into hikes, trails, other outside excursions to which we were met with that will cost you $800. Yeah, no, it's crazy. We're just like, okay, we're good on these lawn chairs, rotating seats between people. Yeah. It was pretty expensive to leave for things, like you said, nearby that we weren't in that area for that. And honestly, like we were craving a really relaxed, do nothing vacation. And I think. Stop complaining, dude. No, if there's a round two, I'm so down. I feel like it's more of a Oahu or Kauai. Maybe every year should go to a new area of Hawaii and then just become like Hawaii. Sounds lovely. Extraordinaires. Let's all critique the person to your right in terms of their performance at the vacation. I love that. I love that. Okay, you go first. Does that mean Vic has to critique me and Aubrey has to critique me? Yes, I already have mine for Max. Let's go. Let me see here. Let me see here. Oh, wait, sorry. Can I pause real quick? Yeah. I want to I want to give flowers and or celebrate something that happened. And this is not a critique at all, but Vic had her booked in balance planner. She had her book launch while we were in Hawaii, and you could have thought that she wasn't on Instagram at all or like didn't have her phone. She had prepared so much for it that like that day, she was so calm and like, Oh, posted and we're like, nice, like that's like cool. Yeah. And like, no one would have known how big of a deal it was, how cool it was, how cool it was that you sold those out. But it was just so like, that was a new Vic that I've seen. Oh, thank you. You're so relaxed. I appreciate that. That's Vic's content superpower is you're able to like crank out content. And so many times I've been with you where people were like, when did she do this? When did she edit this? When did it get up? But like, which is a compliment because I feel like so many people think content creators like they're constantly on their phone. Like it's a distraction. They're not living their life. And you do a big time job of that. Thank you. Thanks, Wood. That's so sweet. So you think I've grown? Yeah. You're getting there. Oh, thank you. I appreciate that. And then another thing is I thought. one, I won't speak for myself, but I thought you three, like with all of our jobs I don't think I looked at my phone that often unless it's to watch football you were just watching games but I just said I wouldn't speak for myself and then I did but all three of you were very good about that like everyone was very present uh you guys filmed like two two TikToks maybe I think one I think it was the one Aubrey had his film I didn't film but to your point Wood I actually think that was so nice because if you guys were cranking out like top tier videos every day like I think I would feel anxious like fuck I haven't posted so I loved that we all kind of like unplugged because and we didn't even we didn't even talk about that ahead of time we didn't plan it I certainly had a folder of 20 videos to film with you guys and it just I just forgot about it Gavella was one and done and crushed it that was money I was out I had one idea that came and sparked that was money interest and then I was like okay we're good filmed it in 30 seconds posted it and we're like all right cool obs what was your criticism for max too much alone time max we're on a group vacation what are you doing reading your kindle by yourself uh just enjoying some Matthew McConaughey motivation good stuff criticism Vic guava mojitos you can just get a new one you don't gotta bring a watered down guava mojitos to lunch oh I remember that if you're gonna take two sips I was in such denial that I ordered it and like didn't drink it that I was just still it was it's like when you can't throw something away you know you shouldn't have it loves like five ounces of a beverage and then it melts and then it's no longer good whether it's matcha guava mojitos yeah whatever that's guava mojito for anyone wondering if we shortened it on the trip I shortened it to guava mojitos okay my criticism for wood I would say that I need you to stop withholding the wood that released itself on new year's night I'm gonna need more time with that wood I've never seen him tipsy or under the influence and he wasn't like misbehaving or like crazy or anything but I could just tell he was like light and I was like oh my god this is the first time I've ever seen the drink hit him and it was really fun I love now that I'm not drinking I get to watch wood and I'm like oh I've been missing this all these years because I've been more tipsy than you the whole time it's like you're really fun that is something about the trip Aubrey did not have any alcohol the whole trip so she's on her sober journey you guys know that I think from the new year's pod yes sir sober journey that's my one criticism for Aubrey is that he doesn't drink anymore I'm joking I love that you made that decision and I'm proud of you thank you however hmm we've already talked about it but it's the beach vacation not liking the beach I understand that I was expecting that as a criticism I will take that one on the chin yeah and stand my ground but there's a little behind the scenes here why that is my criticism so for Aubrey's bachelorette party Max and I actually recorded in real pod studio like the you know the the the the the you ask the groom questions about your future bride and see if they know her well enough and one of the questions was what's Aubrey's dream vacation and I'm like oh easy skiing in Japan totally got it whatever Aubrey's friends were nice enough to film the uh reveal of that question at her bachelorette party and Aubrey again was tipsy and didn't know how to answer and said anywhere with a beach and that frustrated me so much he's brought it up I think 30 times because his answer was in fact correct mine was incorrect I hate the beach I did not know that about you you guys aren't even that close maybe not he literally knows you better than you know yourself Aubrey's like yeah my answer was actually wrong wood is correct totally forgot I've always wanted to ski in Japan that's the only thing I want to do ever were you trying to just get like the correct answers or the audience would just be on board I was hammered yeah we actually in Mexico we didn't know if we would make it to that game but I was like we will make it to this game because I made this powerpoint five months ago but okay I think those were all really good criticisms for each other I love you guys so much this was a really fun couples vacay recap and we miss you already and hopefully we can all get together soon oh we're gonna see you in a top of in a month baby top of February for Natalie's bridal shower yay you you this episode of real pod if this hit home or helped you in some way send it to a friend a teammate roomie share the love share the realness new episodes of real pod come out every single Wednesday so make sure you are subscribed to this podcast so you never miss an episode to leave a rating or review of the show head to iTunes and let me know what you think I love hearing from you 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