Happy Hour ~ how and where to meet rich men

Speaker 1 Hey Speaker 2 y'all. How are y'all doing? Welcome. Speaker 1 Welcome. So Speaker 2 Thank you all for being here. I see if you've members and a few subscribers in the house, how y'all do in Sparkle Sparkle? So today I thought we would talk about happy hour since. So many people are unfamiliar with what happy hour even is, I did not realize so many people didn't know what a happy hour was but I guess And the I mean in this day of technology and things like that, people probably don't socialize and person as much as they used to. So if you are younger, you probably don't realize what happy hour is. So I'm going to explain it and happy hour is where people go after work to get a drink, get a bite to eat socialize with other people so they don't have to sit in traffic. And it kind of little wait, a little bit until the traffic dies down, then they go home. So and you know, this is a great time to meet professionals and socialize and, you know, freestyle. So that's what we're going to be doing. So I have a little drink, a little wine here. I don't really normally drink but today, we're going to be partaking in some Speaker 1 Wine. Speaker 2 So this is a red blend from Speaker 1 Chile. Speaker 2 And it's called Amigo Speaker 1 secret. Oh Speaker 2 so I'm going to be opening it. sprinkle Speaker 1 sprinkle, Oh, shoot. Speaker 2 If I knew from Tip-Top, I don't have a tic toc Speaker 1 Jolly. Speaker 2 No I got it. Like open this with the Wine opener. So hold on I'm trying Speaker 1 to Speaker 2 open it. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 2 Alright, so yes, how many are y'all are on your way to happy hour now? Because this would be the good time to be there. Alright, so here we Speaker 1 go. We're going to get over this. All right. See if I can do this. all right, so Speaker 2 one of my lovely subscribers sent me a glass, it's a wine glass and it's me on there. So I want to shout her out real quick. She sent this to me for my birthday. And I'm just now being able to pull up a drink because I don't really drink. So she sent me this, isn't it cute? It's my face and, and look at my feet. And I have like this little tutu on, I guess. Okay. So this, this person has an Etsy store called classic Choice, store dot etsy.com, so it's just classic Choice store. . Etsy.com. So she could personalize a glass for you or she already has selections on there with just like, you know. Her Arch and like drawings of other women. So here we go. Let's pour it up. Pour it up, pour it up. Watch it all fall out, pull it up, pull it up. That's how we ball. Still got my money. All right, so that's Speaker 1 enough. Cheers ladies. It's kind of blood. It's kind of good. All right, so y'all look up. Speaker 2 if you want to be a little bit more inconspicuous, Speaker 1 Utility cup. Speaker 2 And no one will ever know you're drinking Speaker 1 ways. Speaker 2 This is my Versace clip. Speaker 1 Hi. Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 So happy hour. Okay, so when you get your happy hour, you got to want to be dressed. Like maybe you just got off work, but still a little bit sexy, you know, librarian office, Chic, whatever. Cute pencil skirt, fitted top, whatever. You know, just looking cute, something to draw the attention from me with money, okay? Speaker 1 But you don't want to be ratchet. Speaker 2 This is what I always use to order when I went to the bar, especially if I was alone. I don't want to be drinking heavily. So I always got red wine, or low or Cabernet or something like that. It's a classy drink and it's not ratchet and it does not. It's not that expensive. So if you're on a budget you need to buy your first drink, just get a red wine. and then, It looks more feminine than just a, you know, a bar glass. So it gives you a little bit more femininity. If you're holding a wine glass, you'll look, you know, a little bougie and whatnot. So, Don't get no Hennessy and don't get no Crown. Don't be drinking them. Those men drinks. Try to trick women drinks. So she drinks, you can drink whatever you like darling but this is my preference. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 That's what I meant. I mean, that's what I was drinking. When I met James I'm just you Speaker 1 know, Speaker 2 Drink it every Dwyer. Speaker 1 Yes, Speaker 2 I was trying to match my drink with my outfit, literally. I had a black and red, and a little bit of gold on And I was trying to match my outfit to my drink so I got red wine and I had on red lipstick, prove it so basically yeah that's what I was that's what I was doing. So I did meet my husband at a happy hour it was a little bit after happy hour but it was around that time. Okay. Speaker 1 And Speaker 2 We always used to go to happy hour and there would always be lots of eligible and some not so eligible man who are willing to spend money on you, buy you drinks, buy, you food, take you out and all this kind of stuff. So that's definitely a place where you're going to have more luck and happy. Hour is usually only on the Speaker 1 weekdays Speaker 2 between 3:00 and around Speaker 1 7:00, Speaker 2 but it lingers on a little bit longer after that. That. But still, that's the main hours. Okay, so you want to get there around, Speaker 1 you know that time. Speaker 2 So when you get there people are asking me what I don't know what to do. While I'm sitting there, you get you Speaker 1 a drink. Speaker 2 And you seductively sip your drink. This is how you can learn many and you got all the tools you need ladies. You just don't Speaker 1 know. sprinkle, sprinkle do I think having Speaker 2 a Speaker 1 Braids or twists hairstyle. Speaker 2 I guess it depends on where you're Speaker 1 at. Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 2 and like you know, it guess it depends on where you're at and how you look and how you're dressed. But it's up to you, I say do an experiment, try both braids and on break and see what you have better luck with. Okay, so you use your props ladies. So, let me show y'all, we get a glass of wine and I can't hold this the way that I would normally hold it because it has a little too true here. But I'm going to hold it like the best I can. So make sure you get the side profile. So there's a guy over there that you want attention from. Make sure this is the peripheral he's getting so he can see old lips, you know, but it's cool. I else. All right, so so here's the profile you need. So say your man is right here, the guy that you're trying to get to cross the room for you. He's right here. So instead of drinking like this, turn to the side and your bar, stool, flip your hair. And you take a slow sip. so you see it like you enjoying the most Divine glass of wine that you'd ever had and then you close your eyes as if it's a taste of ecstasy and then you when you open your eyes, try to make contacts, And then look away and continue your Speaker 1 skip. Girl, who's Speaker 2 that wine? Good. You gonna keep going to rush over Speaker 1 there. Speaker 2 What are you drinking that? Speaker 1 Good. Well, why is Speaker 2 that? You look like you're really enjoying Speaker 1 that. That's Speaker 2 what you do at the bar. You don't need ons, ladies, this is not what you Speaker 1 doing. Speaker 2 That's not how it's not how you bring them in. Speaker 1 That's not how you do use all these rules. Speaker 2 Now, since y'all want to talk about how I met my husband, he was over there talking to another girl across the bar when I was sitting down sippin on my wine and he up and left that shit and came running over. I wouldn't try to get them either because I couldn't even see that far and he had my contacts on, I wouldn't even try to learn him and it was just something natural. So Speaker 1 it's just like You know. So Speaker 2 sip your wine slow. Let them see your peripheral, your profile. Close your eyes. When you take a sip as if you're enjoying the most Divine glass of wine you ever had and then open your eyes and then make Speaker 1 contact. Okay, you do that. Speaker 2 They going to rush over there, gonna come over real quick. All Speaker 1 right, Speaker 2 make sure you look. Make sure you look sexy though. Okay. So you look sexy, make sure you ain't drinking. Look looking crazy while Speaker 1 your drink. All right, here you go. Speaker 2 Then after that, you know, you'll be more relaxed because you had your wine. You like, oh, I'm so you won't be as nervous when they walk over because you didn't have a little drink. So you'll be very relaxed and calm and a little bit flirty perhaps. Speaker 1 When they come Speaker 2 over. You know what you want to Speaker 1 do? Speaker 2 Ladies, y'all want to know how to flirt? Let me show you how to flirt without talking at all. So you have to look them up and down as if their Speaker 1 food, Speaker 2 okay? So let me show you all how to look a man up and down, like, Speaker 1 you some food. Alright, Speaker 2 so this is a man here, Speaker 1 all right? Speaker 2 Hopefully he's tall, so you can look them up. Look him in the eye, then glanced at a shoe, and then looking back up at the eye. So he think you looking at his shoe size, okay? Then he knows what you're trying to do. You know what I'm saying? And so, especially if he has money this way, he knows that you're sexually interested in here because some old man think usual mom hoodie you just want my money. Look up and down. Look at it. Look at his face. Look at his shoe. That way, he's always checking out my shoe size. Okay, that's what you got to do. That way. He thinks you won't you ready? So he's going to do anything to get to that you know that point. So you can buy you whatever drink you want. Pay for your food, all of that, okay? You going to ask for your number, you got to make them work for the number. So let me show you how to make a man work for your number Zhao, don't notice. Speaker 1 Can I get your number? Speaker 2 I got to be heading home soon. Oh, really? Well, look at the speed Speaker 1 again. Well, Speaker 2 what should I give you my number? I mean, I had a really great time sitting here talking with you keep looking at his feet. Speaker 1 But Speaker 2 what are you going to use my number for you? Going to use it to call me late at night. Are you going to use it to take me out and show me a good Speaker 1 time? Speaker 2 Because I don't just give my number out to just any backing. That's how you make a work. Do you got explain himself? Oh yeah, I'll take you out wherever you want to go with the latest. I can Speaker 1 call. Well, Speaker 2 I like to get my beauty sleep. Let's say 8:30, anything after that, you have to really like Speaker 1 you. Speaker 2 So, we gonna be calling like early? Checking on you going, you know, all that kind of stuff. Hey, how about that too? I bought that one. You was drinking this good when I went pick me up a bottle. I got some at the house so he's only like trying to tell you. He got your favorite wine at the house. It's like, oh really. Good to know. So this is how you flirt, ladies, you got to be like extra but not obvious. Like the less you speak the better. See, I have barely used any words, you know, and I was all looks body language and mystery. So that's how you got our. Do it. You can't be blabbermouth nobody cares. All he wants is to sleep with you and so if you make him think that it's possible, he will give you whatever you want, okay? So no matter what y'all are talking about in between the time where he buys you your first drink and get your number, make sure you let him speak the most and you just listen nod and keep looking looking at him and checking them out. Speaker 1 The whole time. Okay. Speaker 2 That way, he feels like you're very interested in him physically. And so the more the more he thinks you're interested in him. Physically the more he's going to try to impress you with everything else, okay? Especially if he's not super attractive but he knows there's something about him that you do find attractive. So he's going to work that Speaker 1 angle. All right Speaker 2 and you may give him one compliment but not about his looks but about something that he's talking about or you know his intelligent level or whatever whatever you want. Him to think that you think he's attractive but you don't want to tell him you just need to look hit look at him like you. You feel like he's attractive and some some form or Speaker 1 fashion. Yeah. Speaker 2 And if you have a problem getting because you're young and you never dated an older man before if you, if you seem a little bit more mysterious and Seductive. They're going to take you more seriously than if you were innocent and you know, inexperienced. So you have to practice that seduction, the drinking the looking him up and down the making of the eye contact, the making him work for the number and all that type of stuff. Okay, This is what you do at happy hour. Now, let's say he ain't coming across the room because he can't see, he ain't got his glasses on, or he's talking to his friend or whatnot. So, this is what you do. And you go, you going. You're going to go bump into him, okay? So let's say you did your drink and he saw you do the little wine eye contact thing, right? And he kind of like smiled or maybe he didn't see you at all. So this is how you do the Speaker 1 bump. Through the book Speaker 2 so you walk, you're walking around. Make sure make sure you're looking behind you, when you bump into him. So that it's not obvious, okay? Like make sure you're looking behind you, so it doesn't looks like fake. So get a couple steps close and then you like pretend like you hear something or notice something behind you, but you keep walking, okay? So you're going to be Speaker 1 like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, Speaker 2 that's my drinks bill. Out my God. I just got this to. Hmm, what a shame. I'm so sorry. Oh no, it's okay. It's okay. Well, this is just red wine. Yeah. Are we going to get me another one? Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 Oh well, I think we'll my name such as such nice to meet you. Okay, it looks busy and here, I guess I'll just stay here for a second until the bartender gets my drink. So now you have time to chat while the bartender get your drinks. And so what are you doing? Where are you from? Will you come here often daughter? Ah, la la Then when he gets you your drink he gonna be all proud you want. Oh, what did you get? This is a good. Is it Speaker 1 tasty? Speaker 2 Then you do too? Then you do the sexy drink you turn to the side. Speaker 1 Yeah. Speaker 2 Then he gonna be hooked Speaker 1 over. All right, Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 You're middle aged. Look younger. Pretty moved to a rich Dusty crusty cheap. Man, dud. I want a big cash sugar daddy for virtual thing. Only don't want in person, contact, how to do this girl? Find somebody to wheelchairs Park Sparkle. Thank you, Anna. Hasselblad who to sue a company because they injured, and they would in a wheelchair. And all they can do is virtual, if you ain't gonna touch me, don't ever matter if they got legs Sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle, Okay, Speaker 2 we make it easy on yourself, Speaker 1 man. Let's Speaker 2 print, plenty of men out here with money to spend in a wheelchair. And if it's only virtual who cares, right? You ain't never going Speaker 1 to touch them. Give you happy to have him a virtual girlfriend. I mean, seriously. Get you a wheelchair. Sure that it works for you. Okay, moving on. So we'll get a little hot from, you know. I don't really drink alcohol that much, but it's a little hot in here. So, yeah, if you look good, they don't be hooked. It's over, it's over. And especially if there are, you know, they are with friends or just co-workers, and they notice that you're attractive. You're going on. Yeah. So if you get, if you see that you're getting the approval of their colleagues or friends, you know that they're going to pursue, okay? Speaker 2 So that's how you do happy Speaker 1 hour, so you do have error. Speaker 2 Or if you don't, if you're too embarrassed to bump into them or if there's not enough crowd for you to bump into them, then on your way to the restroom or on your way to the other side of the bar, you walk past them and maybe drop something or just walk past them slowly. And maybe pause for a second. To look at your phone and then put it away. And then look around and maybe keep going, or walk up to a seat, you know where he can see you on the other side of our. So if you're switching positions or you're trying to find a easier place to order your drink from, or you're headed to the ladies room and then on your way back, sitting a different seat. And he made come over to you because he's noticed you, you know everything. So that's how you conduct happy hour. You don't just sit in one spot and scroll on your phone, okay? You got to be seen heard, you got to seduce everybody in the room almost and then they will have a lot of you know, people trying to talk to you. Okay. How you flirt when you are not at work and man keep When you are at work and being keep staring at you, but you don't say anything. You. Don't flirt it work baby, sparkle Sparkle. I would never flirt at work. I mean, I have dated guys that I've worked with in the past, but we were young that I don't think that count If you work together is going to be impossible not to flirt of y'all are attracted to each other, you know. They're supposed to be doing most of the flirting anyway. You know what I'm saying? So if you're doing most of the flirting at work, it's not a good thing. So you need to let them flirt with you, it happy hour, you know, there's a lot of distraction and people. So you're literally flirting with the entire room and seeing who's going to come over and You know, talk to you. So, Everybody's watching you, if you look good anyway, right? Everybody didn't noticed you people. People will see you hear people. See their faith in me, looking out of the side of their eye, but eventually, they don't see you. So, make make it worth. Make yourself worth looking at when you are sipping, your drink, okay, Ally, it's like all eyes on you, okay? Just make sure that you're worth you're worth looking at you from across the room. Okay. And some men don't work, they just steal, go to happy hour because it's a social Place. Yeah, that's where I met. A lot of people in some people are at lunch and happy hour and they don't have a job, you're right. It just go out to drink because they don't have to go to work or to go out to eat lunch at the bar. And since they're alone, they're not going to sit at a big table if it's like a bar restaurant. So they usually go. So you're going to be all types of people, so that's what you need to be doing. When you go to happy hour. And don't go with a bunch Speaker 1 of people go alone Speaker 2 or if you do go with someone separate so that it doesn't seem as if you're together. All right? That's, that's the best thing I could tell you. You said how to date a man when I work 825 go to happy hour. Telling meet you at happy hour. Go to happy hour. This is the whole video. Do y'all not know what? Time? Happy hour starts? It starts at 3 ends at 7 or 8. Speaker 1 Six or seven. Okay, Speaker 2 I know this is the new generation and stuff. You all know what happy hour is, it's where you go after work. So you don't have to sit in traffic, you drink and socialize at bars bar restaurants, the bar section of restaurants, okay? They always have specials discounts on drinks, so that's where y'all need to be going. It's that's what happy hour is, all right? So if you don't have time to date, hit a happy hour You're going to meet people, okay? Sparkle Sparkle, right Speaker 1 after work right after work. Speaker 2 Men do it all the time. That's why they say they working late because they ain't really working late. They had two happy hours. Okay, sprinkle sprinkle, when I may say, you got to work late. What do you mean? Is he got to go to happy hour? Speaker 1 So Speaker 2 go to happy hour Speaker 1 Ram. Okay, Speaker 2 it depends on what happy hour you're going to now. Okay. So you need to look up in your city with the best happy hour is the most social happy hour. So you know, y'all need to get y'all's research on. Okay, y'all y'all got to do research. Y'all can't just Hope for the best, you got to go, do your research, okay? And then you'll get a list of the best happy hours in town, then you could look up pictures from that bar and that place. And you can see if it's crowded or not, you can look on Yelp and all that kind of stuff. So y'all just y'all have to use technology fluids for to help you. All right? So y'all do, y'all research? Don't just go walking in blind. Don't just do you know stuff because you think it's a good day. You need to be strategic in this. Okay. Sprinkles Sprinkle the guys, I see for money, get very emotional and watch girlfriend experiences. What to do? I do when they get needy any motions charge them or sprinkle sprinkle You say you feel bad for taking a money? Well, then you're in the wrong business. Ma'am. Are you, what are you doing the wrong thing? If you feel guilty? Why are you even doing it for me? I'm charging more Sparkle, Speaker 1 Sparkle. It's like okay, you want to be all emotional? All right, well I'm gonna need some extra stuff. Okay, well I was just thinking, you know, some new tires Speaker 2 You start crying and being all the motion. I'm gonna need some extra bag sir. Speaker 1 All right, Speaker 2 if you want to, if you want a girlfriend experience, I'm gonna need some extra to pretend I Speaker 1 care Speaker 2 If you give me a lot I might really start to care. Okay, sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 1 so Speaker 2 Thank you. Yes. One of my subscribers made it and sent it to me. And I'll link her information in the description bar. Classic Choice, store dot Speaker 1 etsy.com. So Speaker 2 You said therapy is not free. Exactly. So, happy hour is a place where you go to, you know, unwind, relax and socialize. So I'll tell you some stories because I said I was going to give you all a few storytimes about happy. I've met so many guys that have money at happy hour. Oh my goodness. And that's where I'm at. Most of the men with money is happy hours, or after hours. So that's where the money is. Okay, let me see a story time that I can come up with. Let's see. Okay, ladies, let's see. Let's see. A good one. A Speaker 1 good one. Speaker 2 Okay, well, I have so many because I'm nice. Speaker 1 To me. Speaker 2 Okay, I'll tell you about a cute guy. This is because this is my youth. So, There was this guy and he was probably a little bit older than me, but not too much but around my age a little bit older and he was cute and he had a little Range Rover, you know, Range Rover. Speaker 1 And so Speaker 2 Y'all. This is this story is terrible. He wasn't married. Don't worry. Pick me shoes. He wasn't married, but he was dating a nurse. Speaker 1 so, Speaker 2 This nurse was a pic niche of course as she was paying for his car, Speaker 1 note. But I didn't know that. Speaker 2 I didn't know that till like a long, long time after I had even stopped seeing him, you know, Speaker 1 and Speaker 2 this lady was so, okay. So the funny thing is, James knew, this Speaker 1 lady, and, Speaker 2 Years later, right? It was years later that we ran into this lady and so She was way older than him and he was way too good-looking for her. So, you know, the deal, she was paying for him, right? So this is before I met Speaker 1 James. Speaker 2 And so I met James shortly after this. So I was at the bar who buy me drinks and all this kind of stuff took me out to me to another place to drink. You know, we had like a night out and he spent all this money on me, right? And he had a nice Range Rover and he's cute and so it's like, oh this is nice. And then I said I would always see him in the bar. So every time I saw him in a bar he will buy me drinks, whatever. And then one time I was out with my sister and he saw both of us and he was like, oh I'm going to take you all to this other place so he took us to this other place where twenty dollar drinks, he paid for everybody the whole night, right? It's like oh, he was nicer out. So I ended up meeting James like a couple of weeks later and but he was still like a friend to hang out with like I would he was too young for me so I told me so he was like a cool friend to hang out with we never really did anything we made out a couple times but so we started hanging out and we would see him around and me and James would see him around and then one day We were at this other bar and he, the cute guy walks in and his pick me, should girlfriend, is there? And it was this lady. That's always at the bar that new James and his friend group and she was like, Oh, this is my man. This is my boyfriend. And so now I'm getting introduced to this lady's boyfriend that I've already known because when you didn't bought me, everything drapes and stuff for months and months now and so I had to pretend like we ain't never met before y'all ever have to do that pretend like you've never match some more. So I was in that predicament, I had to pretend like I have noticed, never seen this man in my Speaker 1 life. Speaker 2 So it's like, oh it's so nice to meet you and he was just like nice to meet you too. Looking crazy. Right. Because he's supposed to be single and his lady looking crazy like computers and quiet. Okay. Speaker 1 So it's very awkward and Speaker 2 so he looked embarrassed And I'm sure he was looking at James and he was like, okay, so you got one, two, and I got one too. We know the bill don't say nothing and keep it a secret you know. So this is why I tell y'all ladies, we all dusty man that y'all are paying bills for especially pick me. Chanel, they spending it on other women, okay? A lot of them are falling on your dollars. Speaker 1 But I met him at happy hour. All right, so I'm trying to tell you, man are just going to cheat, so you might as well just do what you got to do. Okay. Speaker 2 I have another story Speaker 1 time. It's called mistaken race. Speaker 2 So, I had just gotten highlights in my hair and they were like this color highlights, but my hair looks like darker. So, looks like highlights like this, but my hair was darker like black. And so, I walked into this restaurant bar, and this guy is this guy. Came on to me, he was Latino right? I guess. He thought I was Speaker 1 too, Speaker 2 I guess I fooled him with the highway Speaker 1 but Speaker 2 you know, we went out a couple times and he had a nice car. He was reaching here at that. You use all bougie and extra, he was like one of them extra bougie, ones, the thought he was like all that he's a little older than me like what 10 years older. And so we went out like three or four times, he took me to all these cool places I had never been bought me drinks and it was fun, right? We never really did anything. So we kissed a couple times but our fifth date. I don't know how it came Speaker 1 up but put a, Speaker 2 I don't know how it came up, but he assumed that I was 100% Latina. And then when I told him, I said, no, you know, my mom's black, I'm half black. He all of a sudden was like, well I didn't know that and I'm not gonna be able to see you Speaker 1 anymore. I said okay and I turned right Speaker 2 around at the same bar and set over on the other side. And somebody automatically just already came up to me and started buying me drinks. I just move right on like it right. Literally right in front of his face and so Some people are like weird like that, they're like, really particular about who they're dating and what race you are and which lineage you have, I guess. And so I literally just got up and the same exact restaurant bar and just want to the other side of the bar and continued on my happy hour getting the attention of other guys, and buying me drinks all of that stuff. So that was one of my other stories. How do you escape? When one man hijacks you and a clown comes, you gotta go pee, Sparkle Sparkle. That's what you gotta say. I got to go to the restroom. Oh my gosh, I have to go to the restroom. Didn't go escape, baby. Speaker 1 Also know how to Speaker 2 fake like a bloated bathroom. Okay. So That was one story that's like I am highlights is folding folks. All right. Oh, day in Sparkle Sparkle. Thank Speaker 1 you. All right. Oh Speaker 2 how do you tell a man that you want to be provided without telling him that you want to do or say? I'm so glad that you're so generous. I love the fact that you want to take care of me. And I don't, I'm not exclusive with anyone. Unless, you know, they can take care of me. That's, it's just, you have to just say it just like that because if you beat around the bush, they're going to think you mean take care of you in another way. So Just say it in a relationship with a man that doesn't pay bills. Another man offered to take me on a luxury holiday, should I accept the guilt is eating up? Well, that's up to you, you know? The guilt should be eating him up that he don't pay your bills, especially y'all live together. And remember, you're not you're not, you know, if you're not married, you're still single. So technically you're single Sparkle Sparkle. Do you think the man that you're with would pass up? Some opportunity that was, you know, really good for Speaker 1 him from another woman. Maybe not. Speaker 2 You're 18, trying to get over your first love, any advice. Girls. Go date a lot of gold at about four other people at the same time, you'll be over it Sparkle. Sparkle, just got to get back out there. Your boyfriend is trying to move me to California from North Carolina with a promise ring. Girl, don't move across the country for no promise ring, or are you better have some carrots? Sprinkle, sprinkle, Carrots like lots of diamonds. Make sure the ring is worth a lot. If you going to move across the country that way you can keep it, if it don't work out, nothing Speaker 1 lost Sparkle Sparkle. So yeah, Speaker 2 so when you're at happy Speaker 1 hour and Speaker 2 somebody is taking up your time that you don't want to take up your time. You just excuse yourself to the restrooms? Oh my gosh. I have to go to the bathroom. Speaker 1 Excuse me, I'll say I'll be Speaker 2 back. Just say, excuse me. And go stand there for a while, and then when you walk out, you know, make sure like you just walk in the other direction and go like somewhere else and like to the other side of the bar. And if he's like, if you don't talk to him or stay over there, that's it. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 Go over there younger, man. I think he has provider mindset, dated paid for Speaker 1 nice Speaker 2 dates, gas up card. Does Real Estate fix cabinets and house. Keep him or get more? Speaker 1 Well, Speaker 2 I mean, Why don't why can't y'all didn't want one? Like y'all keep asking me the same questions. Give keep him and get another one. Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 Y'all act like y'all can only have one y'all can have more than blood. Keep him get another one at the same time. Why do you have to give all your focus to one person? Speaker 1 You know what I'm saying? Speaker 2 And if you if you can find better or if you can, if you have one with money and one that does you know, nice things for you great. When that one's not available, it's what it is. That's how you gotta do. Because if you, if I say, okay no, stay with him, and then if he gets busy, you're going to be like, well, he's not texting me back. What should I do? I'm going to vomit, just going to the same thing. Go get another. You need to have more than one. And if you like one more than the other one, then you can let one go. But you know, in the beginning you definitely need to keep your options open. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 How do you maintain having so much boys though? The same way, they maintain having so many women, Sparkle Sparkle, good memory know how to lie and looking good or being or you know and their case having money. And you don't get too personal with any of them. Okay, just tell them what they need to hear to get what you need out of that. And the reason why I'm saying that until you find one that you really like, that's what you have to do. You don't fall in love with everyone who beat you don't think everyone you meet is the one they have to prove Speaker 1 themselves, okay? Speaker 2 That's the difference between men and women women 51 and think that's the one men date several women and then he sees old that's the one you see y'all be doing it backwards. If a man and you make the plan to visit him but he doesn't message you all day but you still go see him. I won't be going over. No man's house. Anyway, Sparkle Sparkle, you going to come to meet me out and pick up some Speaker 1 stuff. Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 Kuwait all day if you want, but I'm, he needs. He needs to invite me on a date to go out and pay for some pay for me, some Speaker 1 stuff, you know. sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 Dusty's in the chat sprinkles for wrinkles. Whoo-hoo, I don't see any justice. So yeah, if you can only handle two, guys. And just date you guys, you know, You don't have to sleep with any of them, unless you choose true, okay? You could date like, several guys and never have to stick with Speaker 1 them. Speaker 2 The last two stories. I just told you, I never slept with any of those guys. Okay. It had good old time. So just make sure that, you know, a lot of times men, don't even care about sleeping with you right away. They just want to be seen out in public with you if you look good because it makes them look better. Okay, so you ought to think about that. What happened? When two guys in a friend group found out you're seeing both of them and they prefer I wouldn't be doing that sparkles from. That's why you don't need to do that. If you didn't know that they were friends. They say oh my gosh, I didn't know that y'all were friends. That's so funny. I guess I got to break up with one of you guys and plus you're in college it happens. So who cares? You're Speaker 1 young? You know, Speaker 2 just like oh I guess I'll have to stop seeing both of y'all and see who will fight Speaker 1 for you. all right, so Speaker 2 yeah, you have to sleep with him. They have to earn that anyway. So they got to spend a lot of money. But you can't see more than one you can Court more than one man. At once. That's not a bad thing, they used to do it all the time in the old days when a woman was you know, single and in the old days they should Court several guys at a time and whichever one she fancied more, that's the one she would like but they all had to spend money. They are that put in ever? Okay. So today, you know, men call that Oh that's oh that's not right. You shouldn't be doing that but they did it back in the day. That's how women keep their options open to find the best shooter or the best husband, okay? So that's what we're supposed to keep doing. We're not supposed to find the first guy that like to us or talk to us is Dusty. We not contain just stick with that. We got to keep our options open to see what's best for us. Is it there to me a sugar daddy online or in person and person Sparkle Sparkle? Speaker 1 So Speaker 2 you can meet them online if they're going to give you money. But if they never want to meet in person and just want to keep giving you money online, then he taking a girl. You would have found one in person. So I wanted person is wrong but it doesn't matter as long as you get the money. So yeah, so make sure you're keeping your options open. Stop. Trying to be exclusive to one, man. When you don't even a couple, he's not even promising you anything he's not, he may not even be his material, but you acting like wife, You have a guy who wants to be exclusive so bad. I accidentally mixed up his name with another guy's name. Now he wants to talk to stop Speaker 1 talking. Speaker 2 See, I could have fixed that for you. You all you got to do is lie. All you have to say is you know what? You remind me and my high school boyfriend, you look just like him. May may he rest in peace and I am so sorry. I couldn't call you his name, then start crying or like, saying pretend like you're getting depressed. Okay, Speaker 1 y'all got to learn how to lie, Speaker 2 okay? I gotta learn how to get out of here. Why? Y'all don't just sit there pause and look crazy. Like oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. You look just like my high school boyfriend. May he rest in peace and I accidentally called you him. I'm so sorry. It took me a while to get over that Speaker 1 desk. You see what I'm saying? So Speaker 2 don't need to learn how to lie if y'all don't know. Right? Mind, I don't care. I come up with lies on the spot like nothing. Actors, call it Improv. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 Sprinkle sprinkle, thank Speaker 1 you, girl. All right, Speaker 2 maybe he did because he never existed exactly what do I say. When a potential sugar daddy asked about sex, you only learn how to love. I told him maybe and I left it open but he wants it to be short. Answer. Then Speaker 1 lie. Speaker 2 You could say you and you can change your mind later. Don't, you know, this is how I would answer that question Speaker 1 with a glass of wine. Speaker 2 Are you sure you're ready to experience all this? Because once you do you going to be Speaker 1 hooked? Oh yeah, I'm ready to experience. Speaker 2 All right, I'm going to tell you what you have Speaker 1 to do. First. I want to know, I want to feel comfortable with you, so got to get to know each other. Speaker 2 I'm going to be able to trust you and feel comfortable and I have any stress. If we're going to be seeing each other and that capacity. So I, you know, it would be nice if you could you maybe help me out and take care of me a little bit. Will you help me out with some bills? Because I just don't sleep with everybody, you know, I have to know that you're truly interested in being invested in me and you know, want to get to know me a lot better. And that's just not like, Speaker 1 you know, Something casual. Speaker 2 You think you can handle it? All right, let's go. Let's, let's see Speaker 1 how to punish and challenge. Speaker 2 Whales that give you real red flags on purpose, without scaring them away. Act. Like you like the red Speaker 1 flags for the sparkles Speaker 2 every time I meet someone and I tell them, I love I live alone, my own apartment. They always want to come over. That's why you never tell him. You live Speaker 1 alone. Sparkle Sparkle. Always have a roommate even if they're not real, all right. So that's how you get your money. Speaker 2 Thank you. Sprinkle Speaker 1 sprinkle. How to punish? Okay already answered that one. Okay, alright so Speaker 2 and happy hour can turn into daytime. If you really like each other, you know y'all can go somewhere else after y'all go follow each other somewhere else. After, you know, and continue on the evening. I just have to stop there if you don't want it to. So if you're meeting someone that you really like or y'all get along well it can turn into dinner somewhere or you know something else Speaker 1 somewhere else. so, you know, unless you all have to go home, How do you respond when a man Speaker 2 ask? If you're dating someone else, you always say, no Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 1 You always say no. You always lie and say no. sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 The reason why you always lie and say no. It's because a man will always lie and say no unless he unless he doesn't think that you would mind, you know, or unless you already know so you always lie and say no. Speaker 1 Okay. All right. Speaker 2 Thank you. Sprinkle sprinkle so you always have to Speaker 1 lie. Speaker 2 Never ask this question again because just lie. So you Speaker 1 know, okay, Speaker 2 if you tell someone you're dating someone else or you're married, it's only because, You want them to know? Because they don't have to deal with it if they're interested, okay? If they're if your boyfriend is not going to be a problem. Or there's not going to be anything stopping you from seeing each other or talking to each other or, you know, whatever, whatever then you don't need to tell them. But if everyone knows and, and they know him and all this kind of stuff, or it's too obvious and they can find out. Anyway, you just go ahead and tell them the truth, but if there's no way they're going to find out, you don't need to tell him the truth, okay? That's that's my best answer for that. You don't need to tell the truth, you know, they're not going to find out. Okay. Because you don't know where that's going to lead you all might have two dates and that's it or y'all might end up together and he'll tell you to leave y'all man. Okay, whatever. So If your boyfriend don't have enough money to make you Faithful who cares. Exactly. Y'all being faithful to Brokenness? Y'all being faithful to Speaker 1 dust. Speaker 2 Okay, how do you get women to jump on this? Speaker 1 What is that? What? Is Speaker 2 that cucumber? Oh my goodness, what happened today? It Speaker 1 plans. Speaker 2 How are you getting? How do you get a woman to jump on this Speaker 1 real quick? Speaker 2 Well, she got a if you want it real quick, she got to like how you look Speaker 1 walk and talk. Speaker 2 Look at that walk and talk. And you can, if you could turn her own, she can jump on it quick. But you got to have some money to just. In case y'all make a little one that has some money. She gonna jump on a quick and if she liked you and you got some money, all right, how long do you stay? And it happy hour before, moving on to the next. Okay, the whole happy hour the whole time. Unless you try to hit another happy hour then go to another one. So Speaker 1 It just depends Speaker 2 however, long you want to stay. Sometimes I say the whole time, or if there's nobody there and I'll give them to like 536. If nobody are going to hit another one, or, you Speaker 1 know, Speaker 2 it's a straight man or here. Speaker 1 All right. Well oh so you guy that gives you. Money is so emotional over me. Do I lie and fake that I liked him back? Or do I tell him? I don't want a relationship and treat him like friends. I don't want him to be get attached, crazy excetera, okay? Okay, he likes you a lot. He's emotional. He gives you money. You don't want him to get attached, why not? Speaker 2 That's my question, is a man, like, you way more than you like him. You can get whatever you want from him. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle, that's so Target. Ma'am, Speaker 2 should lie about having an ex-boyfriend? Never had one. You lie about everything everything that makes you look better. Okay, if you, if you say, if you go up to him and say you never had a boyfriend, he gonna think something wrong with you, okay? Especially if you old. So yes, lie Speaker 1 always lie. Speaker 2 You're over. 35 and seem to only attract younger or my age. No money to pay my bills. I want a ring and a spoiled lifestyle. Okay, well then you got to go. You got to go where old men Speaker 1 are Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 We get out there with them old man. Sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle? Speaker 2 All right, and you start making eye contact with older man, Speaker 1 ma'am. Speaker 2 Yes, they have their be at happy hour to just go find a gray hair. Or they might die. I don't know whose go find them. One, it'll go. Speaker 1 sprinkle sprinkle, all right. Speaker 2 You know, don't be faithful to Brokenness keep options open when they broke Speaker 1 down. Speaker 2 I never been, I've never been faithful to broke ass Speaker 1 or, Speaker 2 you know, I feel like it's not right? It's like doing yourself a disservice and always keep your options open because it's Speaker 1 like It's called courting. All right. Speaker 2 Best day to go to happy hour. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. Actually. You can skip Friday. But Monday Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, purple, Sparkle. All right, all those days. So make sure you go a lot. Don't just go once a month or once a week. Go several times a week, okay? That would not doing enough. That's why you aren't meeting people or finding it hard to not even go more often or else. You just, you might miss the guys that might come on a Tuesday or Wednesday or Speaker 1 whatever. Okay? Speaker 2 And if the bar if there's windows and you can see the parking lot, make sure you're able to view the parking lot so you can see what kind of cars these men pull up in. Okay, that's what I used to do. I used to sit where I see everybody drive through, I can see through the car window, so I know who you're not a hood, who I need to make eye contact with and who I need to avoid. Sprinkle, sprinkle you're at the You're at the happy hour right now Shira freestyling. No one is approaching is because I'm wearing a work out clothes, probably girl. Go, why would you go into a happy Speaker 1 hour workout clothes, man? Sprinkle sprinkle. All right. Think. Speaker 2 You're not even think about that. Y'all know the answer to these questions but thanks for the money. Sparkle Sparkle. I don't have a chip talk. I don't have a tick tock, I don't have a tic toc for the million and gazillions Speaker 1 time. All right. Speaker 2 You're 25 and live in something, something area you want to find a man who spends, but it seems like the men are so stingy. What should I do? How should I lookin at right now? Okay, you got to be seductive to get money. Men to spend money baby. So you go find go through the richest area of where you're from the town that you're from the richest area, Okay? Speaker 1 And like I said, go to happy Speaker 2 hour. They got to start buying you things at the first day. They can't you. So a drink at happy hours, Perfect. All right, because if you stay there and have a few drinks that adds up. And once they've invested a few drinks and you're going to want your number if that's maybe if you're interesting. Okay, then you make them work for Speaker 1 that number Speaker 2 but, you know, go to the, go to the wealthier side of town, or go out of town to the outskirts of every live, if there's no wealthy people in your Speaker 1 town, okay, Speaker 2 and usually men are stingy with women who aren't entitled If you aren't entitled, men are going to be stingy because you're not working their ego. Okay, how to work on? Manny go and get him to spend. You got to start, you've got to start off. Thinking that he got money assuming that he has money acting like Assuming he's going to pay. So you go up to like you're sitting at happy hour and someone and he says, Hi. How are you? I'm great. How are you? He's like, Oh, I'm great. What's your name? My name is such a special morning, social search, and then he'll say, so what are you drinking and said, oh, It's just a cheap wine. I'm sure you're used to much more expensive, you know, wines and have better taste. So you're already assuming that money, right? So you've loaned him look like he's Rich already so he gonna have to keep the facade. You see? So you play him up like he's already rich that way. He's going to spend because he got to keep up the facade because he thinks you think he's French. You see what I'm saying? So he's more likely to spend on you versus blah. Regular Operation. Whoo, you got it. And you have to think like, okay, well if I think he's already rich, he's going to start acting like that. Ain't going to start spending money. And then you say oh you know I would I would like a nicer glass of wine but you know, it's been that much money and if he wants to impress you, what kind of wine do you want? I got Speaker 1 it. Speaker 2 Now, you know how to heal. All right. Oh really, oh my God, thank you so much because this is leaving a really bad aftertaste in my Speaker 1 mouth. I would Speaker 2 like such a center social position. Okay, did you hear that bartender? Yes, I do you. Thank you so much. Oh my gosh, you're so Speaker 1 generous. Speaker 2 You must have really good taste. So you pop them up, like they already gone spend money like they already got money and they go spent, what they, what they can, okay. Speaker 1 And then you can be like okay yeah, okay, you know, I could tell you have really good taste. Speaker 2 So they're going to try to impress you from that moment on. All Speaker 1 right. All right. So the entire child Speaker 2 don't be afraid to say stuff and already assume. He's got money, he's going to spend Speaker 1 that simple. Speaker 2 It's kind of like you're delusional, like, you live in a world where only man have money and they all are generous. If you walk around in that energy, they're going they're going to match it. Okay, especially if they like you, they think you're pretty. If they are interested in you and your heard in this delusion, they don't really know you well enough to correct you. So they're going to go along with it. So you just live in an illusion like, oh my gosh. Yes, you have such good taste. Thank you for buying me this expensive glass. Of wine. Oh my gosh, you're so generous, thank you so much. By the way, what are you doing? Oh my gosh. You know, you look so smart. I bet you have a really good career. Wow, really. That's impressive. Yeah. So you must make a lot of money, huh. I could tell because you're dressed really nice and you smell really good with that you have on hand. Thank you so much for the why? You got a sport you on you. Can you spoil me? You spoil me. Speaker 1 I could do more than that. See. So Speaker 2 you got to put it out there. Don't be scared if you scared, it's because you don't think you deserve it. You got to live in a world of delusion to create the world you want period. People say I'm delusional. That's right. That's how I get what I want. All right, I'm so delusional. I'll drag other people into my delusion and and get what Speaker 1 I want. Speaker 2 That's how you got to do. What? You got to drag them into your delusion. All right. Did they come Speaker 1 luck? Wait a minute. I'm red pill. What am I doing? Speaker 2 Bonnie, lady expensive wine. King Auto, you know, that's what happens. Okay, you gotta drag them into your Speaker 1 delusion. All right. Speaker 2 Give them subliminal affirmations, tell them they all that they haven't heard it in a long time. So they're going to keep the act up. They're going to drag your they're going to let you drag them into your delusion because it's fun there there. The man there, they feel good there, they feel rich there, they got a pretty woman. They're already got to do is spend money to stay there. That's it. That's all you got to do. That's literally all you are doing. If they got a little tipsy, they look hips. You can drag them an Speaker 1 easier, all right? Speaker 2 And if they think you're getting tipsy they don't keep buying your drinks trying to impress. You talking you know all this stuff and then try to get your number. You got to make. You gotta make it work for it though. They gonna use that number because as soon as you leave them the delusion is over. And now they feel right back to being whoever they are and only around you do they feel like that because you drug them into your delusion Or you thought that they were all that. See, so they're going to be looking for you next time and you may just Inspire them to do more with their lives so they can stay in your Grand Illusion. sprinkle sprinkle, Of potential sugar. Daddy asked you for dinner? I told him. I'll think about it. I want to make sure I get money for it. Just showing up. How do I do this? Well, if you're flirty you could be like Speaker 1 well. Speaker 2 I really need to make, you know, I really want to come see you. I really want to have dinner with you but I'm just trying to figure out some things right now, financially. So can we postpone it? Because you know, I'm trying to figure out how can I help my grandma pay her rent without having to tap into blind? You know, rent money. And so, you know, but I really do want to see you. So I'm just let me call you back and I'm trying to figure this out. But what day did you say again? Because I have this really cute dress that I bought for our date and I really wanted you to see it. But yeah. So let me, let me figure out how many get this $300 real quick. I'm going to call you back. All right. Bye. So now he's waiting you can go check his bank account. Hopefully you don't have to cuz he got real money and he was going to give her $300. She's gonna be impressed. She might give it She bought me a new dress for me. All this kind of stuff. I have the bath water going in the background too. At the same time, am have the bath water going. I'm getting ready to take a bath and try to figure this out and distress and call you back and let you know what I Speaker 1 can do. Splash splash splash. Speaker 2 He thinking about you, naked, you only need three hundred dollars. You bought a new dress, you want to see it, girl, he gonna go run to that ATM. Cash Japanese something. Why you was in the bathtub, then you call him back all like sexy sounding. Speaker 1 Hey, Speaker 2 I'm so relaxed. Now, I just got to look down. So Speaker 1 how are you? I'm going for. Speaker 2 So, what have you been doing? Oh, you know, you asked thinking about you and you know you need some help. I got you. Speaker 1 Oh really? Oh you don't have Speaker 2 to, are you sure? Oh my gosh. I was just just wondering how it's going to do this in order to thank you so much. You all your life saver. So you're going to bring so you, okay, so I can meet you in that way, I can get the money, then at dinner, it'll be perfect. And you can see my new Speaker 1 dress. Okay, Speaker 2 that's how you get the money Speaker 1 baby. Speaker 2 Looks good. I cannot you better do it. If you want someone here. That will he have your envelope on a first date? Speaker 1 Ma'am. Speaker 2 She got to start building up, the story on the phone and seducing him at the same time, on the phone where he can hear you. All right. Okay, I hear that Speaker 1 voice. Speaker 2 You say you officially just subscribe after that call me. All right answer. Speaker 1 Uh-huh. Y'all silly. All right. So Speaker 2 if you try money, ladies, you don't meet rich men anywhere, if you look good with Speaker 1 him, God look good. Speaker 2 Who told him about business issues? I would never talk about it, business, with no, man, Sparkle Sparkle, they don't hear that. They want to be seduced and dragged into your delusion where the man and the hero. Okay, don't don't talk about no business. That hit that he can talk to business with men. He wants to talk about other things, ma'am. You don't want to talk about no degrees, he don't want to talk about a business, won't talk about the work, he want to hear that you finna get in the bathtub naked and that you need him. That's what he want to hear. Okay? And that he's the man, that's all he want to hear you. The man, he's smart. I need you to get in the bathtub so you can think about giving me this money when I call you back. We going to see. So they want to help you they want, they want to do all these things, especially if they got it and they want to impress you they're already going to do it. So you might, as well just set them up so they can just go ahead and do it. All right. Sparkle Sparkle. Don't be trying to talk about business, who cares about business, get your money. I mean, they might give you the money, if, you know, if you're cute and they're not even really caring where the money goes. But if you want to keep them hooked, you won't really talk too much about Speaker 1 business. Okay. Speaker 2 Oh, thank you girl. Sprinkle sprinkle So you got to get them obsessed and hook, Speaker 1 you Speaker 2 can't just talk about boring stuff. Okay. Yeah I make a use their imaginations. Should you date online as a college student targeting older students? I'm pretty and taking science classes have met a few but not. Yeah girl have fun in college. Sprinkle sprinkle on do whatever you want. You're still young. You don't really have to get a real money. Tell you I can at least in your 20s mid-20s you shouldn't be dating for you should be getting for fun right now. Now, you could date, however, you want and college doesn't matter long as you don't get pregnant and you don't pay for anything. All right. Hmm. You said old man on apps just want to talk about boring stuff. Like what I do for it because they're broke its final sparkling got it we try to find a roommate Speaker 1 material, all right? Speaker 2 Or if you a stripper, so then comes to you for free. All Speaker 1 right. Speaker 2 So, remember that. Somebody said bedtime, don't nobody go to sleep this Speaker 1 early. All right, Speaker 2 I wish I found you when I was in college customer wrong. You said what if you told him you want to go to a concert but he still has not bought tickets, bought me the ticket. Okay. You want to go to a concert without him and you want tickets for yourself or do you want to go Speaker 1 together? You know. Because that's probably why. I don't know. He ain't trying to go. You got to go in there with him and booked the tickets online with his credit card with him. Okay. Oh, Speaker 2 y'all are so silly. So he's trolling here. So silly. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 Go on. Go sleep with your neighbor trying to hook up with your neighbor. This no Date far away. They somebody don't know live on your street ma'am. Or Speaker 1 Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 2 Unless you just going to be a one-night-stand girl. Or unless you're planning on moving in together. Eventually boyfriend. Pay for everything but he wants me to move in. Should I do it? If you ain't got to pay for them if you want to go ahead and starts working out whatever you want to do, it depends on how old you are and what you're going to have to do. I'm not cooking and cleaning don't be too mate. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 You move in, you know, that's not the deal. So, what do you talk about? On dates, whatever you want, whatever he's talking about, Your ex pays rent bills and everything that I find, he offered to put me on his insurance. Should I do that? Or is it too personal? Since its medical, girl, if you ever got to go to the doctor or some, don't you think you need to be on the Speaker 1 insurance? Speaker 2 If you want to be on to be on, if you if you need it, get it. If you don't, don't Mmm. Maybe he can write you off on his taxes or something. Oh, Darryl sent me some money. Thank You, Darrell. All right. All right. Thank you. He said he can get your medical. He can't get your medical records until you sign for it. Okay, that's good. But he could no longer information. No, so could be a scam. So unless you are serious and y'all have been knowing each other for years and it's a real real relationship then maybe. But if it's just something new, I'm not doing it. Sorry. She don't care about the clock apps. She's a widow. Yeah, I don't care if I don't teach a girl. Sparkle Sparkle, thank you for posting me on there, but, you know, I'm not really on there. I don't have no Speaker 1 accounts. All right. Speaker 2 What do you think about those apps that men pay women to talk to them? I think women getting paid as far as far as long as you getting paid. I think they all like if they're willing to pay you to talk to them and you talking to a Dusty for free, you Speaker 1 winning. All right, so happy Speaker 2 hour. Because it's still happy hour. It's almost happy hours almost Speaker 1 over where I am. But Speaker 2 happy hour is good social hour after work at restaurants bars are just barf, no need to heat them up. Y'all got to meet some men with money, especially if you're on the nice side of town or by a nice office building going. They're cute. Watch the beginning of this video for more flirting tips. But in the meantime, you know, Don't go with anyone. Go alone. Because you can't be seductive sitting next to your Speaker 1 friend talking. Stay off your Speaker 2 phone. And use your props, your drinks, your glasses, your eye contact to learn guys over to you bump into him, if you got to by accident. So they can notice you and buy you a drink and then you can start a conversation, but don't just sit there, like, woe is me. You got it, you got it, you got to bring them in baby. You got it, you got to seduce the room and see who, you know, walks over. So think of it like this you walk in, you're not, you're not just sitting there, you're seducing, the entire room and whoever is brave enough to come over to you, or whoever is seduced enough to walk over to you. That's what it is. Okay, so you walk in so deuce, the entire room Sparkle Sparkle. Thank you Regina. Appreciate your girl. All right so with you even when you walk through the door you need to be walking. like, you know, you sexy even the way you sit down in your seat you need Pull the seat up. You know, do extra little movements like you getting a seat wiggle a little bit and blank. Make everything about, you touch your touch, your ear, your shoulder, your Fabric, and like you take your purse off your shoulder. You like, Speaker 1 so all eyes Speaker 2 are looking and she going to Speaker 1 round Speaker 2 it all extra sexy. and when you get Speaker 1 your drink, Speaker 2 not knowing that when you get married, 20 years later, you going to be doing Speaker 1 this. They don't even see. All right. They need to see this. Speaker 2 They gonna come running over okay y'all know how to Speaker 1 flirt with no words Speaker 2 just by sit down and sipping on a drink. Okay, no phones no phones! Seduce the entire room, that's it. You can't do it. Then why you out? It's all you got to do. That's it. Walk in like you best thing there. The extra will you like walking and sitting down and you know moving around and drinking your drink. That's men are going to notice those feminine gestures. Especially if all the way around you or masculine or you know not as extra as you are and your delivery. And you're going to notice you Speaker 1 obviously Speaker 2 how Stone into the relationship should you be paying? Should he be paying your bills when he asks you to be exclusive? That's my that's my that's my standard like I'm not being exclusive with any man unless he's unless he going to pay bills anyway. You know, though, that was my standards. I can't be exclusive with somebody who ain't a bill payer because I'm not taking myself off the market. When there's Bill payers out here, left and right, you know what I'm saying? Speaker 1 When what do you do? Speaker 2 So that's when that's when he's to start paying your bills when you become exclusive Speaker 1 or Speaker 2 if you need him to pay bills sooner, if you just ask them, come up with a fake scenario. Like I did a little bit earlier Speaker 1 about paying your grandma's rent. Speaker 2 All right, so you can get you can get money. Just depends on Speaker 1 how soon you need it. All Speaker 2 right. What you wear to happy hour? Well, you're supposed to be looking like you're just getting off work. So something classy sexy. Not classy boring, but classy sexy. So keep some extra in your car. If you don't work somewhere where you got for, you can dress classy sexy change before you go and maybe like Some you know, do a little bit extra on your lipstick and perfume and stuff so you don't look like you just came off of work but you're still appropriate enough to look like you got off of work. Okay. Do you feel guilty when I take their money then leave? No, because no, they gave it to you as a gift. Sparkle Sparkle. There was no wedding ring, we didn't exchange nobody Speaker 1 else. Speaker 2 He didn't ask it out. He don't if you Speaker 1 leave Speaker 2 and you took their money, they gave it to you. It was a gift. You know if they would have gave you enough, you might not Speaker 1 leave Speaker 2 because a lot of women ain't going to leave that man giving him a lot of money like okay you know this is nice. I ain't going nowhere period, you know he didn't give you enough, you might just be Speaker 1 gone. Speaker 2 So would you wear a tight dress to Speaker 1 work to happy hour? Speaker 2 Would you, I mean, depends on where you work, I guess. Would you wear a tight revealing dress to an Speaker 1 office? Or Speaker 2 whoever you're working. You don't want to go in there looking Speaker 1 like you at the club, am Sparkle Sparkle, Speaker 2 just men will get the wrong idea about you. Speaker 1 Now you Speaker 2 want to fit in with the crowd which is the after-work crowd. You don't want to look like you're the club crowd. You're going to look like you too early. Okay? So you don't want to look like that. If you're going to wear a tight dress, wear something over it, that looks off is appropriate or like you just got off Speaker 1 work. All right. So yes Speaker 2 and put sauce phones and yells purses. So y'all are not tempted. Scroll on your phones. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 Is that her advice works. I went on a date with a plan and left. We're two thousand dollars and never slept with him. Sparkle Sparkle. All right man. Sparkle Sparkle Speaker 1 gasps. Speaker 2 So, you know, that's, you know, I told the store all the time. So if y'all wanted to the channel, I met my husband at happy hour, got him to spend, you know, over a thousand dollars. The first night, we Mitch very easy to do. So it is very possible. Speaker 1 So I have to, Speaker 2 you know, be confident in yourself and not be afraid to speak up. Because, like, if I used the entitled, Angle I'm entitled and I know you got it. And I wasted my time unless you spend it. Basically, that's the kind of angle that I came from, you know? Like okay. and he spent, because if you make him think that he Is perceived as having money and a spender and is very generous. That's what he's going to act like to impress. You if they like you because some women, okay? Like for example, let me, let me give you an example. If what if what would have happened like if I was a girl, who's afraid to be entitled and ask for things, he would have never offered to take me anywhere to buy me, a drink to buy it. Anything I wanted you know that store or anything if I would have just been like to Care to talk. I would have never gotten him to spend money. And when you get a man to spend money, they invest in you and they want to see you again because they've invested a lot of money and you. So if you're too afraid to ask me for money, they're not going to feel invested in you. They may not even ask you for a second day or third date, but you don't need to ask them for money on the first date, if y'all didn't meet that same night, but he does need to spend money on the date. So order order that why order Whatever you want on that date. Don't try to be cheap on the day. Speaker 1 Yeah Speaker 2 it was you watch be Speaker 1 entitled. Mhm. Speaker 2 Because if you're entitled they feel like they can impress you with, you know, those type of things and that's what they're going to keep doing. Because that's what you're used to. So if that's the bare minimum for you, they're going to have to do Speaker 1 it. Okay. Sure. Speaker 2 Ax boil to be spoiled. Yep, that's one of the titles of my videos. So yeah you already asked spoil their naturally just going to continue to treat you like you are because how else are there supposed? How else are they supposed to treat you? If you're already acting spoiled, that's just who you are at that moment, right? So they can't treat you any type of way. They can't treat you as if you don't deserve something, that's all you'll do is turn around and ignore them. You'll be like, okay, And then conversation over. So in another man will come up and get your attention, so they have to do it, you might as well make them work. Okay, what does a young guy approaches you at happy? Hour is long as he's buying you drinks and try it in after you find out if he's got money or not, you can go to the bathroom dismiss, yourself, whatever he got to buy you, a drink, if they're sitting in your face, they got to buy you something, they got to spend money, okay? So at happy hour Usually gospel. Wait to watch to see if you buy your drink and then they'll try to walk over after you buy your own drink. So the first drink should be non alcoholic or you could buy alcohol, drink if you drink fast but the first drink should be non alcoholic and cheap, right? So when they walk over after you buy your drink, if they're broke and young so they don't have to buy you a drink. You can you can like drink it up real fast and if they want to continue the conversation they gotta buy you a drink. Or else you got your eyes gonna start wondering for a drink buyer for the bathroom. All right, what, what's the difference about your husband? That made you marry him? He paid everything. He bought me, everything I wanted, and he pretty much spoiled me. All right. Thank you, Christina. Sparkle, I mean thank you, Christian. Thank you. Jesse Sparkle Sparkle. So, basically, he spoiled me, whatever, I want to. Okay, whatever I want. Like, it was crazy, y'all. I mean, I was 22. Whatever I wanted he took me on trips here they're gave me money to go shopping every time we went out, you know, paid all my bills, paid my bills off, pay. My car note on bought me a new car, didn't have to work on my own so it's he did everything. I needed him to do with no problem and happy to do it. All right, if a man asks you for a pic, should you ask for money first? No, because that's kind of Speaker 1 weird. Speaker 2 I would send them a pic that's already online or something or that he's already seen before and just of your face. A professional-looking picture. That's it. You have a lot of facial piercings and tattoos do you should you cover them up and going to happy hour of, isn't it? Well, it depends on what kind of happy hour, you're going to. Some people might be drawn to that. So, it depends on how you feel most attractive. Yeah, because confidence is everything. I like I said, Go both ways and see which one you get better attention with. Okay? Sparkle? Sparkle, do the experiment. If you have the if you have, if you don't know then try both ways. Speaker 1 So yeah, that's why Speaker 2 I went with drain because he did everything. I need him to do. There was no Speaker 1 issue. All right. Speaker 2 No picture this and learn don't do Speaker 1 that. Yeah. Speaker 2 So I think, you know, I think a lot of times like when you're spoiled by a man, it makes it hard for another man to take you away or make you leave your other man. Because if they're not doing the exact same thing or better, it's not worth Speaker 1 going well, thank you Speaker 2 Sparkle Sparkle Speaker 1 candy. You got. Okay. All right, that one. So yeah I think he made sure that I was going to go nowhere. All right. because I think if they think you have options, they have to do the most Speaker 2 If you already have a child, is it possible to get you a dreams? Sure. I'm sure if I had a child who took the people took me with the child because he liked me a lot lot more. They got to like you Speaker 1 a lot. Lot lot more sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 what if they ask about my previous Arrangements you ain't got none. Sparkle, Sparkle ask him what an arrangement Speaker 1 is. Ly o, what's an arrangement? Speaker 2 Oh, okay. Well okay. The last man that I dated was my ex and he pretty much paid for everything. That's it, that's it. Make sure everything was paid gave you you know, paid all my bills which you're not spending money and you Speaker 1 know, Yes. So, you know, the norm, Speaker 2 how to feel better. After guy said I was back at six and awkward or weird, but he didn't make me comfortable. Was it free sex? He can't complain if it was free man. Sprinkle sprinkle maybe it was awkward because you ain't get no money. Or nothing spent on you. Speaker 1 Sprinkle, sprinkle Speaker 2 is supposed to be awkward if he ain't give you no money Speaker 1 man. Speaker 2 All right, you guys supposed to be doing no extra, you ain't supposed to be putting the work in. He ain't paying you he ain't spending money on you, he ain't take you shopping anybody. You know gifts. What was the six folks to be like? You only put in work, 40 going to put in work. No gifts and oath. Nobody spent. Why are you going to put in work for that ma'am? Speaker 1 All you, Speaker 2 you just need to lay there and let him do all the work. So he ain't give you nothing. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle, can you, please Speaker 2 look Marge, Arnie and the Speaker 1 check Don't. But okay, I don't know what that means for his work. Speaker 2 Why did I break up with dreams? Man who paid or why did you break up with him man who paid? Okay, I don't know who you talking to you and you're talking to someone Speaker 1 else. Sparkle Sparkle. Hey, Speaker 2 Shira love me. Girl, keep being. You are you putting us on? Putting us on we appreciate your game Parks. Horrible, thank you, pink, appreciate you. Speaker 1 so, You. Speaker 2 If you give you a number of way too easy, ain't nobody gonna call you? Girl, you got to make them work for your number. Okay. Oh Davis. Thank you. Sparkle Sparkle. If you got 20 numbers from a girl, at from every girl at the club that night, you going to call the one that probably made you work. The longest for the one that you was most attracted to you and a clue. Everybody getting numbers. Speaker 1 Okay, Speaker 2 your luck is going to be a better at a happy Speaker 1 hour. because, Speaker 2 There's less people and people actually conversate more and get to know you a lot better, Speaker 1 all right. So yeah. Speaker 2 I said, yeah, like don't let men, don't let men bait you into thinking your sticks was that. If they haven't spent any money on you, man, it's supposed to be Speaker 1 bad, Speaker 2 okay? It was supposed to be, it's supposed to be very non-eventful. Speaker 1 Thank you. But you go learn. All right, Speaker 2 you said her makeup doesn't look too high Speaker 1 value. And neither do you. Who you Speaker 2 talking to? I know you ain't talking to me, but you still owe my channel. You better not be talking to me, you're talking to someone else in the comments and if you're talking about me then you know, I don't really care. And you might have the best looking makeup. But do you have all bills Speaker 1 paid man? All right. Speaker 2 I'm sorry, I didn't go to makeup cosmetology school and high school. Okay. Shearer, I met a guy at a club. And his friends really like me, but no text back. Okay, you just text that 50 times. I would take you back either. There's too many women in the club, he probably got a bunch of numbers. You know what I'm saying? And he just chose the one that looked like he could get something from all right. That's it, you can't yet. He had too many options and he just maybe he going down a list. Maybe it ain't your Speaker 1 turn yet. I don't know. Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 2 he's got to make his, he's got to make his way down to this, Speaker 1 ma'am. All right. Speaker 2 He might get a call a week later. Speaker 1 Ma'am. Okay. Speaker 2 I hope you got your answer so you can stop posting Speaker 1 that. Okay. Speaker 2 yeah, so I think happy hour is one of the best spots to meet people and I've been saying this You need to take advantage of it and stop trying to go out on the weekend at the club. That's not going to work. Are you on? Find are young. Dusty's Okay. Now if you like the club you can go to happy hour. Mutual a man with money and bring him to the club with you and pay for everything. Okay? That's how you do it. You want to go to the club, go to happy hour, get you a man with money and make him take you to the club. That's what I do. Speaker 1 When I met James, I was like, Speaker 2 that's getting late. I'm bored. He kept trying to keep me there. I'm like, what kind of God want to sit here all night? What do you want to go out wherever you want to go? Speaker 1 Let's go. Really, you know, so Speaker 2 do you bring them over there? Really want to go. That's how you make a stand Sparkle Sparkle. He said my ex pay for all what's The Break-Up store? He was never my Speaker 1 ex. Speaker 2 I said we were just dating. That's not an ex just not a committed relationship. You don't count men that you're just dating. That's exclusive Speaker 1 relationships. And Speaker 2 I said, he paid for everything. That means you pay for everything when we were Speaker 1 out. Speaker 2 But if you're talking about a boyfriend, like an exclusive boyfriend, they pay for whatever you ask them for, if they have the money. But what I'm saying is the guy that I was just going on dates, with pay for everything on the date, plus, you know, food and all that kind of stuff. So he wasn't my boyfriend. Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle, Speaker 2 can you tell the girls to start dressing? Like they want a man with long letting okay dress, like, you want to be a long Speaker 1 way. Sprinkle sprinkle. Speaker 2 Do you choose your daughter's your skills? They know they know. They know what you're doing. They smartly? No no. Don't mess with them. Just keep them Speaker 1 chasing Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 They took this part favorite. They probably going to be better than I Speaker 1 am. All right. Speaker 2 She were, how do you say man? That provides for you, who asked you for money. Don't want him to do that again, laughs you just posed to keep laughing as if they're joking. That way. They can save themselves from thinking that you think they're serious. And then if they are seriously, don't ever ask me for money again. Speaker 1 Ella. And just leave it like that. It's a turn-off and it's not a good look. All right. Speaker 2 Sure I was with old man. He paid for everything but he was a womanizer. I let him go. I missed the money and gives girl all matter. Womanizers. If they can afford to be, sprinkle sprinkle. Well, most of them are you can be a man, iser? I don't know. Yeah, I feel like it's only a one-sided thing, you know, this is this is the issue, y'all are getting upset but y'all can do the exact same thing. So why y'all getting mad? If he's a womanizer you back go-go-go date? Somebody Speaker 1 else But he's doing. Speaker 2 You know what I'm saying? Speaker 1 Who cares? Speaker 2 Sometimes if you show them the mirror Bill change their Speaker 1 ways. Okay, or not, Speaker 2 but at least they'll have a chance to see how it feels. Okay, y'all too nice. If you would, if I was dating some old man, he was a womanizer. I I'll be right out when he wasn't there still dating. Okay. He can do it. I can do it, period. Speaker 1 Yes. Speaker 2 So you say who's going to sit there and take it? No, you go out and do what you want to do. Or make him give you money and compensate you for your, you know, having to deal with Speaker 1 it. Okay. sprinkle sprinkle, all right. So yeah, Speaker 2 you got to seduce the room when you walk in make them walk across the room, start conversation by drinks. They're going to buy you drinks. Make them work for your number. Talk about them. And, you know, you've lots of body language and eye contact to get them hooked. And then, if you all exchanged numbers, he calls you, make sure he sets up the date. Y'all go somewhere like on a real date. Because if not, You know, most likely if you had a good time talking with you and things like that, he's going to ask you out on a real date. Anyway, so Speaker 1 Haga. Uh-huh. Speaker 2 Mitch. Speaker 1 Massage therapy. Who provides Rich Speaker 2 enough unless he owns the company. No, it's fine. Girl. Look, do you have Speaker 1 Google? Google Speaker 2 average salary of massage therapist. And if it's a man, he's probably something else on the side as Speaker 1 well. Sparkle Sparkle. All right. Speaker 2 Unless her only is your name, girl. If it's a man he got something else going on on the side with that massage therapy, okay Speaker 1 man? All right. Speaker 2 So he play for both teams. I'm sorry, I couldn't I couldn't date a massage therapist as I could do it because I already know what he'd be doing. How old are you? Ma'am, I know you young. I know. You young baby Speaker 1 first. Speaker 2 Girl, no bypass papers first. If you I mean you can pay for some stuff but don't don't sleep with him. Speaker 1 All right. No, Speaker 2 You said your baby daddy, massage therapist and he ain't Speaker 1 Rich. Okay. Speaker 2 You're Dusty of three years, you love him. But the first time he cash after you $600 he promised more money later but I worry is just empty promises. How do I put him on direct deposit before sleeping with him again? Okay, he already been with you three years in the first time he gave you money or cash after you or $600. Okay. Well, if you have PayPal, you can set up a PayPal account to send him an invoice or request, every month on a certain date, and you can do it like that if he doesn't want to do direct deposit and with your bank or Speaker 1 zil, Okay. Speaker 2 How to keep him chasing Speaker 1 and Speaker 2 how long to keep him chasing forever. Baby. Sparkle Sparkle. Never be satisfied. Only only be happy, you know, every once in a while, whatever he's doing for you, but you know, most of the time don't ever be satisfied, 100% and make him keep tracing working for those Farkle. Speaker 1 That's how Speaker 2 because if you don't somebody else's, somebody else feel, alright? Happy hour once a week. No more than once a week. Ma'am. Look, I don't know. Like if y'all have stuff to do at home and y'all can't go Speaker 1 out. Speaker 2 Then once a week is fine but if you if you don't have to rush home you need to go out least two to three times a week. Okay, because it's a numbers game. If you're having look only going out one day a week. Great wonderful. But if you're not having look going only one day, it's probably because you're only going one day, you go often Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 Mr. Super Chat. Okay, I'm scrolling Speaker 1 it. Hold on. Speaker 2 Sprinkle sprinkle ground want to be on TV but thank you, I appreciate you. She said she'll get my own TV show. No, thanks. I'd rather stay up Speaker 1 here. sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 The author knows something about me like new subscribers. I don't care about being on TV. I don't want to do all of that. My that's not my goals. That's not, that's not why I got on YouTube to Aspire to be on TV. Okay, don't care. Don't want you. I'm happy being right here. Sparkle Sparkle. Besides they'll try to edit me and mold and shape and change me and I don't, that's not what I'm about. Okay. Okay. I already answered that one. Y'all know y'all. I mean, I know y'all don't realize it, but whenever you try to get on TV, they try to change you. It's not even worth it. I think I answered all these questions already. Unless I've missed one way, way, way. Way way back here. I don't see it. Speaker 1 Okay, um yeah, I don't Speaker 2 if y'all really think about what being on TV and Tails, it's too much at that. I don't agree with, you know. Yeah. Try to scroll up. See if what I missed. I don't see anything that I missed. Thank you, Sparkle Sparkle. So yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna get no TV girl. Y'all think y'all realize the whole thing that comes with being on TV you just don't get on there and say hi, don't you got a signed contract they going to edit you. They don't tell you what, you can say, what you can't say. Then they going to talk about you and I like when you're not even there like it for the preview aspect of it. You know if I'm not in control of that, I want to be a part of it, Sparkle Sparkle. Advice for 20 year olds, don't get pregnant, have fun. Don't pay on dates when you get to 23 or 2024 start dating for lifestyle and money. That's Speaker 1 my advice is from Sparkle, Speaker 2 but day for fun. Now, don't get pregnant and don't pay on dates. All Speaker 1 right, that's my advice. I'm sorry. This Speaker 2 is you need to have your fun Speaker 1 in life. Speaker 2 So yeah. We We don't need to be on TV. Speaker 1 Ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 2 sure if a guy disappears after you making him Chase and never exchange numbers or any information, he approached you, your chat a couple times, but I wasn't ready. But now, I am. How do I make him? Chase him, huh? Speaker 1 What I'm not worried about some dude. I'm not worried about any of that. If you want to he'll come find your baby sprinkle sprinkle, right? But you don't want it. You don't want to care if he really wants you, he will find you. Okay, Speaker 2 that's it. That's it. You don't want too much. Let it be because if he's not looking for you, if you don't Speaker 1 really want you how to Speaker 2 approach going to happy hour awareness, a anxious, just go anyway, and have a drink, and then you won't be anxious. Sparkle Sparkle, get you a glass of wine and calm Speaker 1 down. Y'all. Speaker 2 Y'all new generations is weird like we never had these problems because you're on social media too much. That's why y'all Speaker 1 anxious. Speaker 2 Y'all are online too much. That's why y'all ain't y'all keep looking at all these Instagram batteries and what these red pill, dudes are saying, and all this negative energy and stuff like that and then when you go out, you're feeling all this negative energy around you because you keep looking at it all day and feeding it to yourself. So stay off your social media and stay off your phone. If you always anxious just go out, relax have fun live life in the real world. You know what I'm saying? Because a lot of you guys are like I'm trying to tell you in the old days, nobody was anxious to go out. Nobody had social anxiety because they had to be out. They had no choice. They would not know this stuff. All right, so just suck it up. Have you a drink and go out? 43 year-old, same thing, Speaker 1 look good, Speaker 2 go out with confidence. Don't tell nobody, you got kids. But if you're older, they probably already think you have kids but you know bypass it real quick. Change the subject and you know lead with Speaker 1 seduction Speaker 2 be very seductive looking and you know but classy in a classy way watch the beginning of this video for more tips but yeah. 43, your age, doesn't matter. As long as you look good, Sparkle Sparkle and date, older. Speaker 1 Yeah, stay off your phone. Get a drink. And pretend, like, it's the old days before they had social anxiety from scrolling all day, okay? Do you have any movies TV shows you can recommend? I don't know. Y'all have any inspirational TV shows with High. Pergamus characters. Put him in the no Heartbreaker. Speaker 2 Heartbreakers is one of them. What's another Speaker 1 one? Speaker 2 It's a pretty woman. How to Marry a Millionaire that was, you know, so I say Gossip Girl, bridger-teton Speaker 1 Hustlers, Speaker 2 watch African Speaker 1 movies. Okay. Speaker 2 He pays you're saying he's my same age lives in different state, pays your rent trips, my weekly Nails. He recently started talking about kids and marriage but no title we me no title. Okay, make sure he don't need no green cards, right Sparkle. If he needs a green card then you know why he's talking Speaker 1 marriage but Speaker 2 Maybe he just already assumed that you thought, you know, that y'all are a couple. Who knows, is he paying for you? What if your provider calls, you masculine and manly because you get your way and don't allow him to boss me into accepting less. What's a good comeback? What do you look good? When you're bossing him around and trying to get your way. If you look good you look feminine because we got to look feminine when your positive Speaker 1 aura. Speaker 2 Okay. So say you do look today just like, you know what? I'm just trying to get my Speaker 1 way. Speaker 2 Smile. Look, I'm just trying to get my way. Play, ignorant and dumb. Bam. Don't don't even explain yourself just smile like an innocent Speaker 1 child. I'm just trying to get my way. Speaker 2 There you go. Now you don't care. Speaker 1 All right. so, Switch it up. You just trying to get my way. I do what I gotta do. Hey, nobody said the nanny. Oh yeah. The Nanny. Boomerang that movie. Yeah, so you got you got to make sure that Speaker 2 You're not afraid to act entitled especially if you have the looks. If you got the looks, you shouldn't even be Speaker 1 nervous. Speaker 2 If you if your average or you don't have enough looks or whatever, let your sensuality work for you, let your seductive movements and body movements work for you. You know you can still be sexy. If you're not the best looking woman in the room, you can still be the most sexy sexiest woman in the room. You know what I mean? So for example, you might have a really pretty girl over here and she's just you know, but you can have you know, just a regular looking woman who's not as beautiful as this woman over here. But her body movements her the way she sips her wine, you know, how she, you know, caresses her weave we or her shoulder. It's more seductive than this other lady over here. So you're going to draw in that sexuality. Attention or that sensual attention to men. Anyway, so you just have to use what you got? What's a good way to ask a man to pay your rent? Grandma, you pay Grandma's right now. I got to figure out how to pay yours. You don't know what to do. You're so stressed. Oh my God. Hold on my bath water. Splash some water. Oh my gosh, I'm sure I'm getting in the tub right now. I have you on speaker, so we last thing I need to stress. I need to do stress but let me figure out how I'm going to get this, you know. Two dollars or Speaker 1 eight thousand Speaker 2 dollars, I don't know how much Iranians but $500 $1000, two thousand dollars before Speaker 1 next week. Oh my gosh, I'm so stressed Speaker 2 so I can I call you back after I get out of the bath. All right. Use your phone sex voice, girl. Then you going to be thinking about that money. I got enough. So I already said that earlier in the video because they've asked me this question like so many times. Speaker 1 So bathtub, grandma. Okay, there you go. He doesn't need Speaker 2 a green card. He provides for my experience experience expenses but we don't have a title. Okay. So Y'all see y'all women Speaker 1 just Speaker 2 he paying Speaker 1 your bills Speaker 2 you know, it Dusty will get picked me so that I know if he ain't got to pay no bills but he taking care of you but you ain't have no title what you want, Lady Duchess. What kind of car do you want madam? Girl, he paying your bills and talking about marriage. When you get married, your title will be wife. Am Y'all see, this is why y'all lose relationships because guess what? Y'all looking at the stupidest things Give yourself a title if he ain't gave you one, all right? Speaker 1 Say I'm Speaker 2 if you want to give yourself a ton of say you know, I'm his Speaker 1 woman I'm Speaker 2 his woman, he paid his bills. He mom and period. Does it take a man to pay these Speaker 1 bills? That's it. Stop Speaker 2 stressing over stupid stuff. This is why y'all are like, oh my Speaker 1 gosh! He Speaker 2 did one little wrong thing and I'm going to ruin everything because I don't have a title. Okay, we'll give yourself a title woman. I'm his woman. He paying these bills. All right? Yeah. Who you gonna tell you? You just want to go rush and tell somebody. You got a man. You got a boyfriend then say it. My y'all actor, too Speaker 1 immature. Tick-Tock late ass. That was a pygmy show. What? oh, I don't care what them people on tick-tocks talking about if they're talking - your I even don't teach our experts working. Who cares? All right. Speaker 2 I don't care y'all I've been on here for 10 years if I care what people think, you know by now. Speaker 1 Okay. So Speaker 2 This is stop stressing this lady. All right. It's not stress off of doing this for 10 years. I'm just, I'm just like, you know, y'all need to do better. Y'all need to think about what's more important. A title. Or all bills paid in a marriage proposal. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 You need a title makeup on baby. Y'all keep trying to tell me about somebody that's talking trash about me. Don't you all Realize by? Now I don't care. They can talk the most trashed. It's just bringing more people to my channel. I don't care. I really don't. I don't care what some lady got to say about me. She can say everything that I don't care. I'm still going to be me. Do what I do. Every day, all day for the rest of my life with no and lose zero. Sleep about it, okay? I don't care what she say. It's not my problem, that's her problem. Whatever she feels about me is literally her problem, her opinion and she's entitled to it. I do not hear, I don't even know who that is. Speaker 1 Okay. All right. Speaker 2 You married a Dusty and you really do love him. We're 50/50 but have been fighting because oh my goodness because what? He won't help me around the house, I downgraded my lifestyle and regretting my choice. Okay, so don't do nothing around the house. Go on strike, 100% ma'am. So if you don't want to help you around the house, don't do nothing. Let it get disgusting, but it gross but it get filthy. Don't give them. No sex don't wash our clothes don't wash them dishes. Don't cook no dinner. Get you something to eat, get your kids. Some of y'all got kids before y'all get home. I like to eat it, whatever. Whatever. And don't do nothing at the house anymore, go on total strike. Then he going to him, okay. She got, sometimes you got to go extreme to get any results, don't do nothing. In fact, make it even more messy on purpose, sprinkle sprinkle. So, that's how you want to live. You don't want to have nobody out this how we gonna get period. You know, he gonna do, we're gonna go buy some paper plates and plastic forks. That's the first thing he going to do. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 Did he go start helping you out? Speaker 1 Bam, you got to put your foot down. Mhm. Who trained? You? Speaker 2 That's two got to do. Could it Speaker 1 all Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle, Speaker 2 what advice would you give women to maintain the relationships? They were there getting provided for. Stay cute. Keep your options open. Sprinkle sprinkle steak you keep your options open. Don't forget about yourself. Make sure you have hobbies things, you like to do and you're not always up under that person, okay, don't lose yourself. Always look good, never 100% be satisfied with that. Ryder as far as, you know, praising him and like okay, you could be happy, you know, maybe once a week with something that they do for you, but the rest of the week. It's okay. It's okay. Thank you. You know, but then one time be super excited. Oh, this is perfect. Thank you so much. You always know what to do but not every time. Every fifth time do that, keep them chasing. Keep your looks up and make sure they know you have options open, like, you don't have to Young to date other people, but if you want to, don't tell them but They need to know that you can if you want it to that means you need to look the part and you're able to get out and do more if you chose to, you know, it's hard living in a dirty house. I see this is what they always say. I don't it don't matter. Do you want to change? Do you want him to change or not? You're going to have to you going to sacrifice living in a dirty house for a little while. Don't go half on know. Me ma'am. Just let it get filthy until he can't stand it. No more until he helps you. Do you understand? So this is called, this is how you train him. Okay, listen to me. I'm just calling you. Let it get nasty and filthy and dirty. You go out to eat, take your kids out to eat, don't bring him no food home, go home, bypass all the fields going to your room, get you a onesie. That means one of them holds dip of things, so he can't try to sleep with you cut him off. Six. Don't do the laundry. You can wash your kids clothes. Wash your clothes. Don't wash his clothes. Okay, don't clean anything up behind Uncle? No Dusty man. And if you can't live in a filthy house, or whatever, whatever he can't either. So, he's going to try to help you. Okay? Sparkle Sparkle, you need to act like you don't care. Because he's depending on you to say. I can't live in a filthy house. So I'm going to clean it up. Anyway, that's what he's depending on when that doesn't come through, he got to help. All right, so don't let it come through. Live, filthy, for a little while. See what he gonna do? Sparkle Sparkle, you gonna come with all the money for the maids. Or he's going to pitch in but if you don't stand your ground, he's going to depend on you not to stand your ground and guess what? You owe me in there. Cleaning a dirty house by yourself period. So you need to do what you got to do, otherwise, don't ask me, no more because I'm telling you what to do. You got to go, all you got to go hard or go home fam. I even said, make it even more filthy, if you don't want real filth, make fake feels. Okay. So put a bunch of dirty dishes around the house, like you can put some syrup on one plate. Some ketchup on another plate, put it over here, put it over there, make fake skills, so it's not super real so it doesn't feel so bad, you know. Speaker 1 And don't do that. Let's see what he gonna do. Speaker 2 Act like they don't even bother you just keep walking by like you don't even see it. Well, you can help out if he says oh y'all you ain't gonna play the house. Now you can help. You're not gonna help so I'm going to clean it when I feel like it since I don't get no help, I'll clean it when I have time didn't ever have time and when he start picking up stuff now, you got him, Speaker 1 okay? Don't sleep with him either. Speaker 2 How can I break it to my mom that I my dad is a Dusty and help her Speaker 1 out Speaker 2 in the long run. Say it in front of both of Speaker 1 them Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 So Dad you really should help Mom out a lot more. You know, she's really pretty. She can go get another rich man. She can get a rich man or if she you know if you don't think that's possible, you can see that. You need to help my mom out more. You need to pay for more stuff. Call them out, it Bears them right in front of each Speaker 1 other. Speaker 2 You know, there's a most of, you know, my friend's dad, be paying for stuff. You're 18 and know what I want to be provided for you know, you want to be provided for a king, you're very attractive. Just simply have a slight discussed for all men. Then you probably get, go get your sugar Speaker 1 mamas, right sprinkle? All right. Speaker 2 How to deal with this toxic mother? His toxic water. Ignore Sparkle Sparkle. Just ignore, I don't deal with talk to people. I just ignore baby. They don't exist, spark spark, they don't exist to be. I just pretend that, you know, they're not there and I go do what I want to Speaker 1 do. Okay, okay. so, Speaker 2 You said you're not gay. Well then then you say you find men disgusting what you're not gay You got to find some good. Got to like something about them. What should you ask for during happy hour to rack up money drinks, food, appetizers. Sprinkle sprinkle You are so right. Everyone in the comments are right. I was pick me show after all, after watching your videos, be really open my eyes for a little girl gets make your husband do some work, speaking French, all right, should I tell potential sugar, daddy? I need to pay off for take heart rate. Rental debt. No. You don't ever tell about you got to get this grandma, grandma, grandma. You always helping other people. You're too nice. You're so generous. Just have a kind heart, so don't tell him about no debt telling about how you're helping people, especially if you're, if you're a little older, that's shows. Irresponsibility if you're very young, it also shows irresponsibility so lie. Live for the debt. Unless he really, really likes you way way more and he's going to pay anything. You ask him to pay for. You need to lie. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle Okay. Okay, so I don't know if you gay or straight but you know, if you don't like me and didn't don't date Man baby. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 There are lesbians out here with sugar daddies who don't like, man but they still taking any money. Speaker 1 Ma'am. Speaker 2 There are dust. He's out here that don't even like women, but they still sleeping with them for shelter and Speaker 1 Jordans, okay, Speaker 2 so do what you got to do. all right, so make sure you know y'all, if y'all are serious, about you know, getting what you want, then you got You guys suck it up, man. Yeah, yeah. So get up. sprinkle sprinkle, He said we're white and they'll see you as a wife. Speaker 1 What? I never wore White. What what Speaker 2 what if he only wants unprotected sex? Then he can go have with whoever else would like to have unprotected. Speaker 1 Sex. Speaker 2 She ran for president. Yes, thank you girls. You met this man and all he and all we do is talk over the phone because he's always busy. I told him my time is no longer free and he has to pay to talk to me and he responded by saying he needs any return. He needs and return. Should I just drop Speaker 1 him? Speaker 2 Why are you asking me, are you getting money out of him? But you got to be more seductive to get money out of bed. Hey, you don't have a reason. He doesn't have a reason to give you money. You haven't come up with no reasons for him, to give you money. At least I don't think you have, you haven't talked about your grandma, you'll on Ethel, you know, you haven't, you haven't talked about how you are stressed about paying your rent, because you paid your grandma's rent this week. You ain't running no bath water in the background and making him. Imagine you naked. So, why would he pay You got him, you got to make them pay, you got to make them want to pay, you got to get them ready to pay. You got to make them excited to pay. All right. How do you explain to us? He's that sleep with so many women at what is making these women over. Ten be addicted to my Dusty baby. Daddy, girl. They just want some sex Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle. They're young. They just want to sleep with a man. Speaker 2 Not the Emojis. okay, they just they, you know, Sometimes when you don't have a lot of money to go out and spend and go travel and stuff like that, you just roll around on a mattress. And so it's a low-budget way to entertain yourself, sprinkle, sprinkle You say you boss you were bisexual. Please tell that. Girl she can date me. Love spoiling women. Okay, well you just going to be buying things, the only type of by some of the women only mess with. If you're only buying things, sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you seals, for Speaker 1 Sparkle. Speaker 2 The, you know, I'm from the old school, we don't like a lot of women won't date bisexual, man. Darling, just let them buy them stuff and I'm going to tell you all the reason because a lot of people feel like you need to pick a side or you know, I'll help you find another woman or another man Speaker 1 but Speaker 2 you know, we did not grow up in the age where we like to share. You know, from across the board, either you either you either you a Serial cheater with women are you gay? Right. I always just considered bisexual man, gay. But that will sleep with a woman. If they're horny, yeah. All right. No offense though, I'm like you know you gay, you gay. Or you'll just sleep with whatever. But you just horny Sparkle Sparkle. Thank you, Jade. Sprinkle sprinkle He said, agreed, I don't know. I just just put like, you know, Those who say, you know, you see, I know who you are Chuckles Frankel. What if you do actually need to help out with a family member Bill's, my mom has a lifelong. Okay, so then help out but double what you are supposed to be paid. Yeah. But say it's for your grandma. Because let me tell you something, let me tell you why, I don't know how old you are. But if you're young stays for your grandma, if you're older, you can see. It's for your mom. But if it's for your grandmom, There's more sympathy there. You know what I'm saying? Cause she's older, sprinkle sprinkle. So you can slightly tweaked it. All right. What if you do? Okay, yeah. Face your grandma, not your mom. You're a girl. I meant for the lady who says she's disgusted by me. Okay, I'm sorry my bad. Thank you, thank you. See you. Thank you, Speaker 1 Alex. Okay, so do it for Speaker 2 Ethel. Yo, it's situation is famous singer. Getting ready to make a comeback. I heard from friends, he's trying to get me back soon. How what can I do to get the most out of It, he took me for granted before. Okay. Well, If you try to get you back you can come. Get your sparkle Sparkle. You all you got to do is sit there and wait. Everything taken care of, right? Sparkle if not keep your options open, Keep your options open anyway. You know what? Because investigator is nothing here achieved. Don't sit there and wait for nobody gear and be gone. Looking like Booboo, the fool. All right. Somebody say is it Tyrese? Thank you g. Sprinkle sprinkle, thank you. Speaker 1 Titi Titi and a house. All right. Somebody save Drake, we all are silly. All right. so anyway, thank you for the smartphone. Can I ask my sugar, daddy for money to pay for student below? Sure. I mean, I come up with more creative stores because they give faster and more, but you think that's gonna work, How to compete with women who have better bodies? Have better. Everything else? Sparkle Sparkle? Speaker 2 I have better. Everything Speaker 1 else. All right, that's how you do it. Speaker 2 Here you go. How much do you make on these lap? I don't know. Sparkle Sparkle. Y'all are so silly. I'm reading some of these daily Speaker 1 comments. and, Speaker 2 PayPal and you send me PayPal Speaker 1 GE. You said your, Speaker 2 your partner took bank account away gives you 1 k a week. You act broke but have more cash. Now I've taken six away now looking for a new provider your 46 too old. I look in my early 30s. No, it's not too late during its somebody expresses Speaker 1 perfect. Speaker 2 You could definitely get somebody. Just go out to happy hour. Girl, go to happy hour. After work hit up at happy hour. Look, look a little classy sexy smile, most people at happy, hour are going to be, you know, Young professionals. So you're going to have a whole different age range. You can have young and old so you get, you know, the pick. So you know just be out you got to be seeing you got to be confident within yourself. You got to you know look cute and man, it will approach and spend and ask you out, ask for your number, you just got to be out there for them to see you. So the gas, it's literally it. Speaker 1 So yeah. Speaker 2 make sure your happy hour is where people go after work. They go to a bar or a restaurant bar. And socialize and hang out. Y'all need to look this up online y'all. How can y'all not know what happy hour is? Just weird. This is unless y'all too young and can't even drink, I don't know. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle, thank you. Dominique, appreciate you. Thank you. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 You mean how not to get taken for granted? Again, I put up with all his BS before keep your options open. That's how sprinkle sprinkle you're not going to be taken for granted if you always have options and you're not going to be taken for granted. If you don't do too much yeah make them do more this Speaker 1 time. Speaker 2 Okay have higher have higher standards and make them do more of this time. If they if they want you, they will. If they don't, they won't correct. Speaker 1 Is that simple? Speaker 2 Look for reviews on best happy hour. Thank you. Yes. They never too young for nothing. They do everything at a young age now. Okay. Yeah. All right, make sure if people take you for granted, then you know don't take yourself a branches. Keep your options open. Mmm-hmm. You're 20 and barely go outside. But this summer. They need to go outside her. Don't be different. All right, then How do you change for 50/50 woman to anti? Once you present yourself as a 12 occurrence, boo, your advice has changed my life. Okay. Well, you got to level up. If you already leveled up as much as you can get, if you already beautiful and you could get a man to pay all your bills. If you can walk up there and get a man to pay all your bills, then you can switch up real quick. But if you can't, then you need to like level up, your looks enough to where somebody will want to pay all your bills and then you can tell your boyfriend. You know what, I'm gonna need you to pay a little bit more. Can you pay cut? all of my bills this month, because I had to pay some of my grandma's rent, so see if he steps up to the plate to help you. You know, you use the same excuses. And then the next week, say well Grandma needs this, this is not so I'm going to have to contribute a little bit more to grandma. Could you get all the bills? So you can use fake Grandma, fake gun and for whoever you got to use. to get him to switch over to pay all their bills, if he can So if he can't that meets your only roommate and not you know he can't afford you to pay all the Speaker 1 bills so Speaker 2 if he can afford to pay all the bills and you know he can afford to pay all the bills. It's not going to be so hard, but if he can't afford, he's going to have to either get a second job. Ask for a raise or find a higher paying position. Speaker 1 In Kearney. sprinkle sprinkle, So, get your money girl. Get your mind. You're basically, it's very easy. Just lie. Make up stories and see what they gonna do about it, and don't give them no sex. And that's it. It's literally the formula I make up store, see what they can do about it and don't give me no sex. All right. How do you avoid getting manipulated? See red flags and advanced learn the game don't fall for the okeydoke. Start off with your standards high and you can't get manipulated if you don't lower your standards have standards. If they don't meet the standards, they can't manipulate you. Speaker 2 Here's pay for everything. Took you long trips across the world? Constantly showers you with gifts, says he loves you, but is scared of committing and has unfinished business with ex I love him. What do I do? Keep your options. Open them. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle. Speaker 2 Okay, because it sound like he got issues. Always keep your options open because you know what, if you don't keep your options open, what will happen is. You'll be sitting there waiting for Speaker 1 someone. Speaker 2 And they might have just told you a story to keep you waiting so never wait, always keep your options open and keep it moving. They want you to go. Come, get you baby sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle. Oh yeah. That sounds like manipulation right there. Yeah. Wait for me. Okay. Okay, I think I read that one was slow down. You went out, you say all your shoe training, went out the window, your date last night asked for what makes me happy. I said, Peace and nature, I forgot to say shopping, money and gifts. Speaker 2 Must keep practicing. Okay. Well next time do better, man. I say it on purpose just to get their Speaker 1 reaction. Speaker 2 Sure. What are good? Outfit ideas, clothing options, that are anti Dusty, anything that's not super tight or ratchet. Something high Speaker 1 class. I mean Speaker 2 if you don't hang out with Dusty's are you're not going to be able to track it anyway but I would just say something classy, more classy, you know, list trashy, more Speaker 1 classes. Speaker 2 More link, more coverage. Not skin typed. So whatever that is Speaker 1 maybe Speaker 2 also hair and makeup, you need to also be more classy. Speaker 1 All right. Sprinkle sprinkle. Speaker 2 If you don't want to try it, no Speaker 1 dist, okay. Speaker 2 Have you, okay? Sparkle Sparkle. Y'all keep asking about some people. I don't watch other people's videos, I don't care what they're doing on to track. Like if they're talking - about me I never look. I've been on here for 10 years. I don't care. You know, it's like this. I'm gonna tell y'all one more time, I don't care. They can say whatever they need to say, they're obviously you know, getting attention from my name and not their own name. So I don't really care when you find other women in their phone on, what is the best formula to manipulate? Okay, they need to take you shopping or to the car dealership man, scratched Speaker 1 Sparkle. Speaker 2 so all you got to do is get mad pout, but then when I say, what can I do, Then you talk about that car dealership or that shopping spree, or whatever that upgrade you want start talking about that, Speaker 1 okay. What's some of the red flags? We should look for when it comes to manipulation from Richmond, I think the best red flag is when they not giving you no money. Okay, we're they say they got some it but you ain't seeing it. Okay, so you need to see some money first ma'am, they need to put their money, where their mouth is, or their mouth, whatever money is, that means, show me. Don't talk about it, show me, you can't manipulate someone that wants money from you. Speaker 2 Okay, so be about your money, Sparkle Sparkle. Always talk about something. You want instead change the subject? You think they're trying to manipulate you or they're not trying to give you what? You want. Start changing the subject. Like you know what? Okay, well I saw this really nice purse yesterday and it was so cute. I really want it or, you know what my grandma is having trouble, and I need to pay her rent. So I'm going to be a little bit short this month and I'm going to need your help. You see talking about money, ma'am? They can't manipulate you, if you always talking about money, trying to get some money out of them, okay? Or ignore what they're trying to say and change the subject. That's all you got to do if you fall. Don't ever listen to trust them, 100%. Then I was just trying to get in your pants and you always, women are always trying to get into their wallet. So if you get in a Twilight before they get in your pants, you win, okay? Squirtle, Squirtle. Speaker 1 There you go, that's it. Speaker 2 If you already got money and he already got in your pants, continue to try to get money and stick it in your savings. He was in love with your provider and then I found out he was cheating but tell me why after I've dumped him. I got even more money and gifts from him. Haha, great. That's how you do it. Sparkle Sparkle. Thank Speaker 1 you. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay. Yeah. Speaker 2 Get your money girl. I like how you put in love with in Speaker 1 quotes. So yeah. Speaker 2 Young women all made are going to try to manipulate you and get something from you. You got to know that going in Speaker 1 so Speaker 2 get more out of them while you can. That's just Speaker 1 it. Okay. Coloring. Get some money b or vintage old people, right? All right. Get your money ladies. Yes. What were, what words would you use to get a car? Speaker 2 Let's go to the Speaker 1 dealership. Speaker 2 I need a new car. Let's go look at cars. Especially if you in a relationship, that's that's normal. Let's go look at cars. I need a new car. Just say it. If you're not in Speaker 1 a relationship, I'm having car Speaker 2 troubles. That's all you gotta say. I don't know what I'm doing. Speaker 1 I'm stressed. Speaker 2 Cost more to fix the car to get the down payment, to a new one. Start putting out the information and let them gather the information and then it's not going to be so harsh when you ask them. Speaker 1 Okay, is that easy? Okay. Speaker 2 I'll tell you how I got my Speaker 1 bins Speaker 2 my first beans. So when I was younger and being James live in this really nice, high rise. And the nice part of Speaker 1 town Speaker 2 and it had like a parking garage and stuff that you had to park and shoe and I was still driving. The car that I had when I met him that he actually paid off. Speaker 1 And there's a lot of Speaker 2 people that live in the building, there's a cost year and then they had like a little happy hour every every Thursday where you go down and mingle with all the people that lived in your building and they would have wine and music and stuff like that. So these were like you know, bujji people with money and so we would go down to the happy hour and sip drinks and stuff and people with the people in the building and there was this one guy he you know he was kind of cute. He look like Elvis. Loyalist. And he drove this like what you call it antique or vintage looking Mercedes and James had Mercedes. So the oh look, your car look like your car and it's like, oh yeah, that's nice. So the Elvis do used to park very close to my car. So whenever he saw me, he was like, oh, is that your car? It's like, yeah, it's like Your husband's driving a Benz, why doesn't he buy you one. If you with my wife you be driving to bed. As I said you know you're right Elvis and he was like, you know, Next time I see him. I'm going to tell him that I said, Thank you. And so So, the next time we were at happy hour because we always like pass each other in the elevators and stuff. So we're going down to happy hour, he's like oh you know, you should buy your wife, a nice Ambience too. I think yeah you should buy me a vs2 and so he was like okay that's not a problem because you don't men he goes around other men so we was at the dealership like the same Speaker 1 week. Speaker 2 Why do guys go crazy over and willing to do anything for Russian women? Even if they sleep with them right away, what special because they don't care and they be talking trash and they tell them what to do and their me and they don't Plus, they got an accent, you know? Did you like if you don't buy me shoes, I'm not going to be in public with you, no more. I go find other man. That's why they because they need it. They don't care and they will do it. Takes you with no weakness? They bite, they money. That's why they ain't afraid. They don't have no low self-esteem. They know what they want. They ain't afraid to talk. They ain't afraid to ask either. You get it or you ain't get out the way. Somebody else waiting. That's what it says, because that's what it is. You got to have that confidence ma'am. Get out the way if you ain't trying to pay. You said that was a good impression. All right, entitled just they act entitled and they got options. That's how they act entitled with options. So you want me to do that. You got to be a title with Speaker 1 options. Hey. so, Speaker 2 This is how we raised Back Bay, all Speaker 1 right? That's right. Speaker 2 Get out the way if you want. Find a pie. So yeah. So that was my that was my other happy hour Story. How I got my first beans Elvis Elvis. Looking do that James to realize the error of his way. And that I should be driving a nice car show. I had to do some car. It just wasn't a bins and he had literally just paid that other car off. So I wasn't like, trying to say, well, can you buy me a new car? Now if you just paid my car off, A couple of months Speaker 1 ago. Hmm. Speaker 2 The others do had a crush on Speaker 1 me, though. so, you know, Speaker 2 we were like closer to Speaker 1 in age. Okay. Speaker 2 Sprinkle sprinkle How do you feel about all these random people starting to call you evil, and a witch? That's a compliment. It's better than being a doormat in a pygmy shrew. How would you, what would you rather be? What role would you rather play in a movie or evil witch or doormat pick Nisha. Which one got more main character energy? Which one always get the van, which one get the one to spend. Which won't be living healthiest life. All right, I'm taking either which over pygmies your doormat Sparkle Sparkle, I'll be Maleficent, anything ma'am. All right. So yeah, I'm still getting what I want. I've been an evil witch from any Halloween's in a row. I don't mind you know who like evil witches men. With money. you said you say Speaker 1 all's Speaker 2 never had a problem with it, maybe even more turned on when they find out you evil. Left. Speaker 1 Okay, Speaker 2 maybe even more current on your interesting. I never met a woman like you Speaker 1 before. So like I don't need to appeal to pick me shoot him. That's not my Target. You know I mean like if they want to learn they come but that's not who I'm trying to please. I'm not trying to please anybody but me. All right. Sparkle Sparkle. You had a question but I heard your voice in my head telling me to answer already sprinkles for call. Thank you. I am so glad you said that sparkle Sparkle. Thank you, sonny. Appreciate your appreciation. Speaker 2 Yeah, so I don't want people calling me. No evil witch you out. I feel like evil, which many times for Halloween and on this channel, I'll see my old costumes. Speaker 1 All right. All right Speaker 2 said, do they do like it when you are evil to them? I know now. People are even more interested. Thank you for the free advertisement, Speaker 1 ma'am. so, Speaker 2 It is a compliment. Because, you know, like they can call me all they want. They ain't gonna catch me in our church. I ain't gonna be sitting there praying for my Dusty to act, right? I'm not going to be holding on for 10 years, but don't bring ain't gonna be no doormat. I'm gonna be doing what I do to get what I need to get. Bam. Sparkle Sparkle, ain't gonna be watching. No, dirty drawers. I'm not gonna be doing any of those things that they think is good and wholesome, okay, just not, you ain't gonna catch me over there. Lies for win money. They know you already last for money when they know you already your your boyfriend grandma. Your animal needs surgery. Your grandma is short on the rent. You'll Aunt Ethel is die. You got to get a plane ticket to go. See her, you know just come up with normal Speaker 1 lives. Speaker 2 You want to cook his favorite. Feel you. Need some money to go grocery shopping. Then go get all the cheap stuff and take some cash like some, get some cash back. Looks like I need about $200 for groceries, then get pasta. You know that's cheap and get like a couple of packs of like meat and sauce then keep the rest of the money. Oh, this is great. A this this was like important this and I bought this bottle of wine. He don't know how much the line calls during would be like hook. This was a fifty dollar, bottle of wine. Could have been seven dollars. All right. So just lie. Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle. You said I don't know the answer to this but okay, so you don't have anything out there. Well, that's up to you. You don't when you all get to that level to where he's going to have to see them. Speaker 2 He should already be in love with you paying bills body. Speaker 1 You Speaker 2 know what I'm saying? So either way, if he, whatever way he reacts, you still won, if he leaves then his shallow or, you know, he just got going to be able to deal with that. So but at least you have something in your hand and you didn't waste your time, you know? So I will tell him after you've gotten what you want, you got out of the whole dating. Speaker 1 All right? Sparkle Sparkle. All right. Speaker 2 26 and provider, man. 49 never wants to have sex. Good for him. He's got a little Sparkle Sparkle because it's little man, or if he already gave gave it to you. And, you know, it ain't little or whatever it may be. He's going through that problem yet. He can't get it up. Ma'am, Sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle. All right, or maybe he's cheating. Speaker 2 It is little. He can't get it up or he changing brightness or he gave you the beard. I don't know. Sparkle Sparkle. He asked how much money to bring to our on our date so just you know, IMA look, I'ma let you. I'm gonna leave that up to you so you go leave that up to him. See how much he bring. I'ma leave that up to you sir. I know you going to do right. I know you ain't gonna let me down. So I'ma let you just come let you bring whatever you need, whatever you want. I know you ain't gonna let me down whatever you give me. I'm going to be super impressed because I know I know the kind of guy Speaker 1 you are. So I'm just let you come up with that number. Speaker 2 He's gonna bring you Speaker 1 more. All right. Speaker 2 The extra confident in him that he's going to make the right decision, but don't tell him a number say, oh, you know, I think I'll leave that up to you. I think you're, I think you're so smart. I know you're generous so, you know. I'm just going to let, I'm just gonna let you bring bring whatever whatever you decide. so he can go okay, I'll do a little extra You had a morning, be go day. It was sugar. Daddy, lunchtime freestyling. Sugar. Daddy dinner dates shoe? Daddy to always lie about my birthday for bonus gift. God is the sugar daddies are out here today. Ready for y'all? Oh yes God is. Why res Parks working? Yes, get your money ladies. Bingo. Okay y'all get up them. Bingo hall literally went on a big old. A Did you get some money or just get some money? Did you win? Bingo to. That's double very wet. You get a sugar daddy, and you get getting being all money. Speaker 1 Yeah. Speaker 2 You say I love it. Yes, Bingo date. I love gambling low-key Speaker 1 but Speaker 2 they money, not mine. Yeah. Yeah, belong, here my yeah. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 So go to hardware store, early in the Speaker 1 morning, Speaker 2 not too early. All right. Because I don't look crazy while you up this early. Ma'am. Are you in a Home Depot? This early awfully made up Sparkle Sparkle. all right, so let's see how long I've been out here y'all, but I'll here Amanda have a timer on here. Speaker 1 Okay. So you know after Speaker 2 after you learn and get in the habit of going to happy hour after work. You'll eventually start getting more dates meeting more people leveling up, dr. Rockso, make sure that Make it a habit to go out and have fun and after work, hit a couple of happy hours, a couple of times a week and be more social stay off of you know your phone while you're out and you know seduce the room when you walk in. So that more people approach you or notice you or want to you know cross the room to meet you and you know order feminine drinks. Look huge, don't you know, don't try to overdo it by with your wardrobe or Thing is supposed to be like you're coming from work or 50 casual. Okay. Don't talk too much, let them talk, more use your body language and your eye contact a little bit more instead of your words because, you know, talking too much, turns them off. And if they're drinking, they're not going to be really paying too much attention anyway. You know I do my bingos on Tuesday Thursday you met him for your envelopes. I'll cry you're talking loves. That is why res Speaker 1 punch back? Speaker 2 Thank you Tanya sprinkle sprinkle for the super track. So yeah. Feminine drinks wine. Nothing like masculine like you don't know Hennessy and just get you a glass of wine or like something girly. Looking so where are you going seductively? Sip it. Okay, with no Speaker 1 straw. Oh Speaker 2 said, a strawberry, lemon drop. It's a drink. Lemon drops back. And urge a, yes, Glass of wine. Lemon drops, don't get two extra you know it wants. You want to stay sexy, Speaker 1 you know I'm saying? Drink and be sexy to him. Okay. Wow. No beers, that's only when you out with your band, you can you could drink beer and whatever you want to drink when you already in a relationship. But when you try to learn something, you got a drink ticket and drinks. Speaker 2 Unless they beg you to take a shot or to drink this, or drink that with them, call me, I want to do a shot with you, you know. You got to chase it with the beer. I really don't like that but, you know, I'll try. But you always want to have your own feminine-looking Speaker 1 drink. Speaker 2 Even though you probably be drinking it all the same stuff, you know, you don't want to come off like that until later. They then you can act like oh this is really good. This is going to be my drink from now on because we're together. I don't gotta look Speaker 1 extra Speaker 2 feminine and drink this wine or just you know. Let me drop in front of you now and I can drink what I really want, you know I'm saying so just, you know, to learn the van. Or if you really like those drinks and continue, okay. Sprinkle sprinkle other than looking a very attractive and confident, how can you keep him chasing who what actions can I get him? Okay, never be satisfied with anything he does except for once a week. Ben really be happy about something. He does. But every other times like, oh, thanks, you know, you could have done this a different way or, you know, that I always have something for him to do or something for him to bring you give him in the habit of servicing you, Speaker 1 how could you Speaker 2 stop and get something on the way home. Oh, could you to fix this? So could you do this? You know, always have them doing stuff for you and never be Speaker 1 100% satisfied. That's how. Speaker 2 Okay, Sparkle Sparkle? Give them purpose your boyfriend said I'm Not high value because of my past when he made me tell him and caught me in a lie. How to stop caring what for a Dusty that kidnapped me. Honestly, your past is your past, and if you have options, then you can replace him, you know? So what he thinks about you does not matter. What you think about. You is what matters. If you go out and get another man like this, then his opinion of you don't count. You know, if you're paying all your bills then I wouldn't care. Sparkle Sparkle, if he's paying bills, then I still would have here if I can if I can replace them. All right, sprinkle sprinkle no you're worth know, your value level up until you can replace them. Then That should give you motivation enough if you're unable to replace them. Now you should level right on up past him and out of his league and go on to the next man. It's very easy. Women do it all Speaker 1 the time. Okay, I don't ever Speaker 2 call the money. I earn my money instead. Say, the money. I earn to give to women iron so she can spend women are entitled to the money. I earn I just simply work for okay. Sam squirrels Fargo, you most like to be abused. Sparkle Sparkle. Thanks Sam. Appreciate you. Appreciate you. I always order. Champagne. All right. Sprinkle sprinkle you choked your champagne. All It's a you don't ever call them money. My money, you just said, the money. I earned to give to women. All right, thank you so much for go. I'm glad I'm glad you understand Sam. Keep that mentality. It's a Speaker 1 good one. All right. It's Friday. This Friday, no, it's Thursday. Speaker 2 Well, you can go to happy hour on Friday, I mean, Speaker 1 but Speaker 2 Friday and Saturday is like date night, so there may be more couples there, but if you get there early, Speaker 1 like, when you know, Speaker 2 little earlier, you might have little look on a Friday, but I would say go Monday through Thursday. I mr. Super Chat. Hold on, ag ag. Speaker 1 Hold on. Speaker 2 Okay, thank you for great advice to always take lots of selfies, while out by myself, do you think that so slimming? My chances of being approached, probably turns purple, check them before you get in there, or go to the bathroom and take on everybody else or take one and be done. You know what I'm saying? Can the girl is in the comments? Help me out with any restaurants to go to around Palo Alto. Area. Y'all live in Palo Alto. Y'all help us from sprinkle y'all know any good places to Speaker 1 go. Okay. sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 any crystals for attraction, rose quartz I think like, you know, hematologist it. Yeah, Speaker 1 it's real sparkle. ORS. Hold on, let me go back up y'all, this is this year seven channels, sprinkle sprinkle okay, you all are s, I'm Financial undefined change. Okay. I thought I got you. Instead of question. Hey Ty. It's that me something. Thank you. It was a long long time ago. Let me just go all the way back up. You see, who's this? So many. Let's go over there. Speaker 2 But you must have been long, long, long, long time ago because Speaker 1 I don't see it. Okay. Yeah. Speaker 2 This ask it again. I was with Moses. Dusty was sexting only fans girl. I'm hurt the last show. I'm leaving and leveling up now. How can I traumatize him back by getting somebody with more money? Sparkle Sparkle? Speaker 1 You know. Just level up to somebody with more money, that's the best revenge more money. So he's paying and sexting but you're receiving and getting money, you know, there's a difference, so level up and get them in with some money. Then post your trip or you know what he bought you or how you're living on social media. That's the best revenge. Go do. Better level up out of his League, all right. I saw you got out. Always level up out of their league and go do better. That's the best thing you can do, okay. Speaker 2 How to film, okay? I don't ask me about other YouTubers may. I like, I don't feel anything about other YouTubers that, I don't Speaker 1 want Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 And the reason why I say that is because I don't y'all want to gossip Channel, there's plenty of them out there. I don't really care whatever people do is their business. I don't really care. Girl is in the chat. Or are you going Scottsdale? All right. Y'all helpful, aspect Sparkle. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 And here's my thing, you know, why do you all care about what other people are doing? What are y'all doing? Y'all got y'all back? Y'all get y'all bills paid. Well, y'all worry about somebody. I'll never meet or know who cares? You getting all that? You got your bag, you got your shoes that are you got your me in paying their bills and worry about that? No, don't waste energy thinking about other people. That is not beneficial to you. I need to be giving women cash and hand paid Ranch pay bills, paid groceries more cash, car payments and then even more cash. Women have unlimited access to the money. I earn because I only earn money to give money to limit. All right, Sam, Sparkle Sparkle. I'm glad you know, I'm glad, you know, your role, Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 thank you. I appreciate that. This is Sam Speaker 1 is thirsty. Speaker 2 Okay, let me see if I can heal bass line on. You goes my own goes with Speaker 1 water. Speaker 2 Sprinkle sprinkle what's a good non-alcoholic? Beverage cranberry juice. Sparkle Sparkle? Speaker 1 Q, tonic water. Ginger ale. All right, keep it simple. Speaker 2 Somebody can also add some good different drinks that are Speaker 1 non-alcoholic and the comments if you like, but I'm always, you Speaker 2 know, just drinking normal stuff, if you don't know anything, They try to come on. The salmon in the comments Sparkle, Speaker 1 okay? Sprinkle sprinkle migraine spray is missing up a I know nothing about a blanket over there. Okay. Speaker 2 Thank you, y'all so much the Speaker 1 blankets, my notebook. All right. I love a good. Speaker 2 Ginger ale. Speaker 1 Yeah. Speaker 2 Ice to eliminating. All right, you know, whatever drinks it doesn't even matter. Just as long as you have something in your Speaker 1 hand, it look like it's a drink. Okay. So he's supposed to give you some money but you keep waiting girl. He got you gonna keep you waiting for hello, either. He got it or you don't you said not to wear tight clothes or ratchet. Close can't can I I'm sorry. Can I name some clothing stores and celebs that dress in the way you mention? I, you know, I don't really look at people like that. I mean I mean I thought most people understood what classy was like, nothing super tight. Nothing, that looks like your clubbing, something that looks like you just got off. Work, you know what I'm saying? Like Speaker 2 just go to Google and type in classy sexy or go to Pinterest and type in classy, sexy outfits. And that would probably be more helpful so just look at it like that. Yeah. Do your research because everyone has different tastes and what's more appropriate for a happy hour to look? Like you just came for work. Someone says shop, Zara or whatever but Speaker 1 you know just Speaker 2 we have lots of different body types and tastes so I couldn't really tell you just find your body type. What works for you and like put in classy sexy outfits for then your Bodies type and see what comes up. All right. Should I wait till he gives them? What? sprinkle sprinkle, Classy office, attire. Yeah. Six big sexy librarian or 60 librarian. Dominatrix, you know, some to make me across the room but still appropriate but not ratchet or slutty. Speaker 1 Like you got to be more Speaker 2 creative, like, think about this. Let me tell y'all Speaker 1 something, Speaker 2 man. See the same crap every day, men. See the same old pantsuit on a woman. The same old ugly skirt suit on a woman. If they work, come in there with some fantasy but still appropriate looking, you know what I mean? Get you some heels, get you a pencil skirt with a fitted Speaker 1 top, you know, Speaker 2 put some red lipstick on your lips. You know what I'm saying? Get sexy become a character. Main character energy, don't blend into the background. So deuce the entire room and you walk in and have you and have your pick. That's how you got to do it. You're not doing it that way, you're going to have trouble. That's it. That's all you got to do. Is that easy? You said wear lingerie underneath exactly. Going there. Like he's posted, get all the attention and get the attention and get the money and get the drinks and get, you know, get you whatever you want watching out of it but you got to walk in like you're on there on purpose. Okay, well you can you I come to play. Oh, Jamie. Sprinkle Speaker 1 sprinkle? Speaker 2 When to start acting evil mean to a man? You just met when we went on our first date last week, he spent about 2k, he lead with money. We first when we first met asking, if he should give his granny 1K for her baby. His granny over her birthday, okay. So act impressed that he can give. 100K to his granny and like, oh my gosh, I can't wait to see what you're going to get me for my birthday. So play it sweet for a while but let him know you have an evil side. Like start saying like little sneaky things like let him know you have an evil side but not against him. So for example, psycho I can't wait to see what you're going to get me for my birthday. It better be good. It's not like that. Right? A little bit of entitlement. But in a flirty way and then he'll the more he gets used to it. The easier it is to be able to Speaker 1 do. So start off slow Speaker 2 and then build it you went to happy hour solo at Steak House last week and a manager covered my tab for being a beautiful. That's good. We're going out tomorrow. Any tips. Okay. Sparkle Sparkle, Speaker 1 don't talk about work. Speaker 2 And, you know, act impressed with everything, he's telling you smile, use your body language. More makes lots of eye contact, Speaker 1 okay? sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 and since he's the manager, I don't know if it's let him pick your food, like sickle, you know, since you're a manager at a restaurant, you know, can you help me pick out something on the menu? If they aren't going to eat, then it doesn't really matter. But then him like still like he's all that. Should I wait to get the money or get rid of him fast? If you ain't got no money by now, you should have more options. And if you if you're sitting here waiting on a man to give you some money, you should be entertaining other options and if you come through, you still going to get the money. If you don't, you still got other options. But I'm not waiting on the money from no, man. You know what I'm saying? You should be having other options to get money. So that's, this is why I tell y'all have more than one because if you don't, this is how it's going to be. You're gonna be waiting for one of them to come through and they ain't And when the other one could be coming through and other one, you know what I'm saying. So stop just depending on one guy. You need to get three of them. One of them Speaker 1 coming through. All right, Speaker 2 Sometimes some way somehow one don't come through. Find one that likes you way way. Way more than you like there and they'll come through most of the time. Okay. That is the formula so make sure you follow it. So you don't be sitting here waiting on somebody you some money. A lot of men would tell you, they gonna give you something just to make you talk to them, longer, entertain them longer, and then they don't give you nothing. So What to say when an older guy is starting of staring at me at the bar. I don't want to be awkward. You gurgles my contact see little you don't want them to get somebody like what is the, if he's looking at you just make eye contact and smile. Then if he comes over, he comes over. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 How do you own the room when you walk into a bar and what are the best times of day to go? Happy hour the name of this video it's happy hour look up. Hack best happy hour in your city you know, classy is happy hour and your city just look it up online. Okay. That way, you know where to go, what time to go is usually after work. But from three to six, three seven. All right, we're look classy sexy, business sexy whatever. But you just got off work. I don't know where you work but make it make yourself look appropriate. Not it's not like you're going to a club. So you need to look like you know, More Classic on the room by looking good when you walk in having confidence and using your body language and looking sexy classy. Okay, Sparkle Sparkle. That's literally itch. Watch the beginning of the video. You'll see because I did some little acting for y'all. So you got to walk in like you own the place like Iraq. Like everybody got. Won't you? That's how you got to walk in like I'm here. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 how do you find a man for money online? Make sure they old and desperate and lonely Sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle. Or Speaker 2 crazy, it just want to give you Speaker 1 money, all right? Speaker 2 when I like you way more than you Speaker 1 like them, that's how you'll find it. Hey. Is cleavage. Okay? How much cleavage It depends how younger you and how much cleavage. If it's a lot the answer is no. If it's a peek, it's okay. Okay. You see? Appearance is confident to work out and take care of the skin. You need to get, but you always look best with blond hair. I do why? Thanks. Speaker 2 What if x comes back with money but stingy and cheated, then he ain't come back, Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle? Speaker 2 He ain't coming back if he's stingy. He ain't coming back and listen. Spender, Speaker 1 majorly, Sparkle, Sparkle. Speaker 2 Why are you taking it? It's back that she didn't spend any money on you. That's Speaker 1 your problem. All right. Speaker 2 I like when you do the block side part, it's so cute. Thank you. Sprinkle sprinkle How do you deal with people? Starting with you at work and then they sent like they have money. Well, tell them to take you to lunch. Pick the nice restaurants. Usually really got something. Oh, you know, you know what, I have a craving for such and such you should take me to such restaurant for lunch. It's going to be so good, then we can continue to talk over there. I'm busy right now, but let's go to lunch. Take me to lunch. That's how you get over our man, flirting, with you. At work. Go have an expensive lunch on his dime. Speaker 1 All right, Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 Okay, if you don't work at the type of place where y'all can leave and go to lunch, there's not even really worth it, okay? Sprinkle sprinkle Speaker 1 Hey. So yeah. Speaker 2 Get you all workers. That's what you call a work husband, our work boyfriend, the one to take you to lunch and Speaker 1 spend money. Any sites that aren't entirely. Full of Dusty's, any sites that men have to pay for Sparkle Sparkle? Yes. So the ones that your job got money like that and they're married. No one at my job. Got money like that for me. Okay, well mirror man, take women out to lunch all the time. Just talking about Sparkle Sparkle. But if you don't believe in that then you know, sorry. Speaker 2 You say you tell them your fasting and let's go shopping instead. It's a good idea. What if you're embarrassed to going out with the old rich man, then then don't go out with him leaving for somebody else that I ain't embarrassed and want to get their money. Sparkle Sparkle. Here, you know, plenty of people don't care. You're like, you know what? They see me out with this old rich white, man. They know or oh, rich, man. Whatever color they are. They know all bills are paid and I probably driving a nice car. That's what they know you. I would have killed us if they think you paying bills, ma'am. So Speaker 1 pick pick one. I don't even know what time it is. Speaker 2 You can only be that direct two men at work. Speaker 1 I'm direct to all me like that. I don't really care. I mean, I'm nice to people, but when I want something I can use the power of suggestion and insinuate things. And get them to do it. You just got to be creative and use your brain. It's that easy. It's like literally that easy. If you don't know how to you need to just deal with more man, you got to know how they think the Mormon you deal with. Okay, I'll start conversation with rich, man. They start conversation with you. You got to look good and they got to say Hi. How are you? Speaker 2 Drop something bump into him, do Speaker 1 something. All right. Yeah. Speaker 2 you know, I do have a few, I do have a few interviews on my Channel that I made private only doing like talking and doing interviews with guys, but I've kept in private after they were out for a while and I'll put them back private because there was too many, you know, issues with you know, Gossiping and things like that. And plus, I don't want to hold my, you know, opinions of voice back on my channel and I don't want My Views and my way of thinking to reflect on other people. So I took off a lot of the interviews that are on this Speaker 1 channel Speaker 2 because I'm like, I'm not politically correct. I'm going to say whatever I want. So a lot of the interviews that were on his Channel with me and we're taking off because you know I don't want what I say and what to couple it's coming out of my mouth to affect other people you know I want my freedom of speech. Without being asked, I think you will see my blankets. I don't want my freedom of speech to be like halted because I'm worried about, you know, another person's reputation. Speaker 1 So a lot of my stuff is Speaker 2 private because of that. It's a flex going out. With rich older, man. Okay? Sparkle Sparkle again. But in some of those interviews we got a lot of opinions and you know, information from guys that had, you know, that have money. And so Mmm. That's a lot of guys will let you know. Are you go see, you know, their reactions and things like that to certain questions, but, you know, you just talk to people. Like you're normal people, it's not like that. It's not that difficult. Okay. You said what about? Who has lost her job and turned to the to the dusty old people can't turn into dust. He's after they lose their jobs. They got Social Security 401 k, retirement money Speaker 1 AARP. Speaker 2 Only does his can turn into dust. He's Speaker 1 sprinkle sprinkle Okay. I got I think the Speaker 2 the James video is still up though. All right. Hey. If losing her job, make some dusty, he was always dusting. You didn't have no career. He can't level up. Okay, no. sprinkle sprinkle, Y'all don't realize this, but men are always losing jobs. If you can replace it with a higher paying job, if you don't skip a beat Hey Shira. I know we're talking about bossing up, but I know you're into spirituality to do. You think it's possible to manifest in ex Speaker 1 back? Is it is Speaker 2 it possible for them to manifest you Speaker 1 back? Sparkle Sparkle. That's Speaker 2 going to be always be my answer. Why are we looking for a man? When the man should be looking for Speaker 1 us? We don't go backwards. Speaker 2 I'm not finna manifest. Nothing back that. Don't want me. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 do you think women cheaper than band? Probably not. They cheat but not more than a minute. Can you put the interview on patrol patreon? It's if I can find it. Yeah, but it's it's in the Speaker 1 playlist. Or it's Speaker 2 somewhere, just go type it in under my video section. Click video, all the videos will pop up and then I'll say search for video and just put in like just the word James and any title with James and it will pop up. All right. Okay, I'm bedridden and pain. How can I still make money online? Sparkle Sparkle? No. Clicking buttons. You know life? I don't online job. We just have to type or something or send emails. Speaker 1 All right. Oh, Speaker 2 please. You're talking about a job. Or just you know talked about online huh? I'm going to give Speaker 1 you somebody Speaker 2 they don't have to know everything. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 Alright, I'm gonna go because I don't know how long I've been out here. I can't even see the Speaker 1 timer. Speaker 2 How long have I been out here? Y'all? First timer Act. if y'all want to try to tackle man you want you need to level up your look level up, your wardrobe, level up your speech bubble up where you hang out level up, you know, Your standards, you know? The Libya look. That's all you got to do. It takes time, you can't really do it overnight, unless you can. Some people are able to do that. But most people, it takes a little bit of time to get to that level and then, You'll see a difference. Speaker 1 sprinkle sprinkle, Speaker 2 You say is it okay to date. Another man, Even if you are already married Azkaban, is it okay to date women if they're already Speaker 1 married? I don't Speaker 2 know why you don't need permission. It's up to you. It's free will. Men do it all the time. So Speaker 1 I'mma tell you. Y'all, I'ma tell y'all. Speaker 2 98 I must say 98% of every married man that I've ever met. They all want to cheat. They all tried to cheat. They always trying to get something from somebody somewhere, I promise you. All right, 98 percent 98 percent. That's a lot. And the other two probably just Other two percent, you know, we don't know. They might just have a little peepee. But I'm trying to help you out by telling all the truth. Most men are going to cheat if they're given the opportunity, Speaker 1 most men are. So Speaker 2 remember that it may not be right away, it may not be when you're in your honeymoon stage, it may not be, you know, a month after you meet, you may not be ten years after you, mean it may not be 20 years after you meet. I've seen old men. Try to cheat on their wives. Why are you sick or old man? Cheating on their wives because they wife start looking like they model, So it could take a long time. We would be in a marriage and grow old together and you're mad at you. Why are you at home knitting? You know, so I'm just saying at one point or another, they're going to teach if giving the opportunity. So you must know that All right. so, This is James the 98 or the to girl all men cheek. He was cheating when he met me. He was cheating on his first wife, when he met me. I'm telling you all men cheat. So and so, you know what? I'm not trying to say, women are holier than thou, because a lot of women cheat. All right. But don't act like all men don't cheat and don't act like women don't cheat because when she and man she I think women are better at cheating the bin. but, you know, And I think it hurts more when a woman cheats on a man to a man than when I man, she's a woman to a woman. So you're cheating as a woman. Hurts way more. Speaker 1 All right, so I think Speaker 2 most men cheat in relationships and eventually most women will cheat if they want to Speaker 1 Sparkle Sparkle. Who. He said y'all are missing the point. Y'all are missing the point. Yes, y'all are. Missing the entire Point. Here's the point. If your man cheat, you can cheat period, that's it. Don't sit there, a wine about it, do something about it or get somebody get something out of it or go to back. Stop worrying about it. You're not going to stop people from doing what they want to do. That's it, that's it. All right. Speaker 2 People are not going to listen to you because you don't want them to do something on, figure out how to do it if they really want to. Speaker 1 So you might as well do the same. All right. Speaker 2 That's why you spend his money so he can't afford to cheat Sparkle Sparkle. Exactly. The more money. The more they're busy chasing you and spending on you and trying to please you the less attention that they're going to give elsewhere, okay. That's you want if you want to prevent a man from cheating but you have to keep all his attention and all his money on you. All right y'all can't do that because y'all are afraid. Then you know deal with other other side of things. Most of them in relationships but their self, that's why they don't. Feel they're cheating, exactly. Hm. So let me tell you a lot of men, just get married because they don't want to lose you to someone else. They really don't want to get married most of the time it so it's pressure. I don't want to see you with another man. I want you to have access to you so I guess I'll go ahead and marry you. But there are married men that are in the bar or the club or in somebody's DM, the day. After they get married, ordered it before they get married or a month after they get married. Or a year after I get married, you know? So I don't know why this is a surprise. No one takes marriage, seriously. That seriously want something just most people marry for money and if you don't, you should your dad said, having it, Speaker 1 Your? but, Speaker 2 Having you're gonna be used, you're going to be used and that not true love. Yeah, you know, like y'all keep looking for the fairy tale. Ma'am. Like y'all keep looking for the fairy tale. Look for the money. Then make your own fairytale, okay? And if it turns into a fairy tale break, if not, at least you got your money, you can make your fairy tale. Don't don't lose because you're looking for a fairytale, get the money off, their tails got money. The all the man always got money. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle Exactly. That y'all are missing the point of the fairy tales. Not the true love because you can't fall in love in one day, just get the money. She fell in love with his Speaker 1 lifestyle. All the Speaker 2 princesses fell in love with the lifestyle, not the prince. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 Oh you have an ice Speaker 1 castle. Oh, you're a prince. Okay. Okay, if y'all are still worried about cheating, you know, y'all need to go get in some real relationships and get cheated on a couple of times so that you can get that out of your system and start focusing on his money, okay? Get a wife little up after building a man up before marriage. Yeah, if you leave him and make him, chase you back. Or make him start paying out and bills. So you know, what? Before we has he asked you to marry him. If he's asked you to marry him, then you need to say, you know what, if we're going to get married, I'm going to take over all the bills because I want to be a wife and I want to stay home. I don't have to work. Speaker 2 Or I might want to start a business. so, you need to be able to take care of us, if not, you know, a lot of times when you get into relationships Because they know you're going to go 50/50. That is one of the only reasons that they're dating you. Because they can't afford to pay 100%, so you got to, you got to figure that Speaker 1 out first. If you can afford you, okay? Because some men only marry so that you can build them up. Okay. You don't want to be that person because that person gets left most of the time eventually. Okay. So don't go into any marriage as a barber. The Builder. Go into it as a stay-at-home, fiance and stay-at-home wife. Okay. So my best advice to any fiance's or girlfriends or people that are engaged to be married soon. Don't go into the marriage working. Set the tone for being a stay-at-home. Whatever wife, girlfriend, fiance, don't go into a marriage working. Speaker 2 Set the tone if you don't want to work, said it before. So you don't Speaker 1 be expected to work, okay? That's it. Speaker 2 So it's not a 30-second delay. Okay. We all have to work, y'all worried about the wrong thing. Okay? Look I'm trying to help you Speaker 1 all. Speaker 2 Yellow worry about the wrong thing. We're about some money, we're about your bank account, worry about making yourself happy, because you can't stop a person from doing what they want to do. And so, what you got to do is focus back on you, okay? I know a lot of you guys have an experience, a lot of things in life yet. Maybe you haven't had a lot of relationships or anything, but just understand always be about you and your money that way, whatever happens in the relationship, you always win. You always walk out with something in your hand, right? And it's less devastating when you have more Then what you had when you came into the relationship, okay. You'd rather be in a luxury than a broken. Love. Exactly certain Speaker 1 Sparkle. All right, Speaker 2 so I'm getting ready to go because I don't even know how long I've been on here. But y'all enjoy sprinkle sprinkle y'all have a good rest of your evening. And don't don't say anymore. Super chats. I'm going to stay on for like another one minute so I can see everything that comes through just in case y'all sent one. Before I announce that I'm I'm real. I'm not sugarcoating. Anything. I don't care what people think about me. I've been doing this too long and What I feel is that, you know, if you are a priority to yourself, you take care of yourself. You have standards. If a man wants to meet him, he will meet him if he doesn't. He doesn't. That's literally just itch. Okay. There are some women that are able to do certain things because they put themselves as a priority and there's some women who, you know, you know, are people Pleasers that care too much about what other people think. And so, they live for them instead of themselves. So which one are you? Speaker 1 All Speaker 2 right. Which one are you? Do you care about you or you care about them or who do you care about more? Pleasing yourself or pleasing other people that don't do anything Speaker 1 for you. Speaker 2 The vice two ladies are approaching their 30s. Get money. Don't date. Dusty's don't get pregnant unless you merits from Speaker 1 Sparkle. Okay. Speaker 2 Date older date for money don't get pregnant unless you're married Sparkle Sparkle or unless he's a Speaker 1 millionaire. Al Qaeda, Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 2 Thank you for the donation. Appreciate you. All right. It's better to be single than with a Dusty. Exactly. okay, for the millionth bazillion million child people, I'm not on Tick-Tock, I won't be on Tick-Tock just come here to the YouTube channel and this is where we're going to be. Okay? Thank you. Speaker 1 Sprinkle, sprinkle Speaker 2 you said, you rebuke the dusties, Speaker 1 okay, we to girl reaches. So the next time, Speaker 2 We have a lie. If you've gone to happy hour, make sure. Or if you are gone to happy hour recently, put it in the comments or in the permanent comments and I'll read it later, Speaker 1 make sure, you know. Speaker 2 Okay, let me see what this is this don't say anymore. Supertrash Ops on get rid of shooter is telling the truth. I was engagement his family and friends spent 15K on the ring. And he still cheated, I was confused. Sparkle Sparkle. All right, Mandy, he spent all that money on you, but still going to cheat. Sprinkles purple. I mean, you can't stop somebody from doing what they want. But see the funny thing is you can also go cheat Mandy and still have your ring and your lifestyle as well, especially if you're smart and don't get caught. If you want to a lot of women don't watch you, but if they feel like they should or they want to and yeah, basically. A Dusty asked me once. If I would go if I was sign a prenup that whole time he acted like he had money but he was broke. What should I say if I get that bastard again but you know, yeah I've like this I would like to sign a prenup but I'm going to have my standards in there too. You know, I'm going to have Mark, you know. My prerequisites and whatever they calling it in there too. Yeah, you cheat. I get this much money. You can make a prenup, two ladies. If you get caught cheating, you got to pay this much money. And I get this and I get that. Will he sign a prenup? All right, High Shear. I'm going to meet up with a high-value, man and a week's time. He's a scientist and his 60s and I'm 34 or Linux, should I ask him for money? I want to call me in high value. I just like to call him providers, but I guess you can't really call him a provider yet, if you don't know, he providing. So I guess I need it. He 60, you're 34. Okay. So if All the talking and texting on the phone should already start hitting including that you might need some future help, you know, somebody sick, you're helping someone pay bills, your car needs work. Something you need you to start hinting around but not straight up asking it. You're right, you know, before the date. So you know I'm you know, I'm still trying to figure, you know, off the situation but you know I'm so glad that we get to go out tonight and I just I really need a break so thank you for treating me and taking me out, you know. I really need this that are not so when you get out he's gonna be like oh you okay. So yeah, I'm still trying to figure a few things out so you basically just set them up from the beginning of the conversation on the phone so when you get on the date he's going to offer you something or he's gonna lead up to offering something soon, but you guys start from the conversation of the text in the phone first. And Moans you guys start soon as you start talking, okay? Soon, as you start talking, you start hitting and killing to get them closer to one to give you money, okay? Speaker 1 That's it. Slip it in there. Every couple of sentences, okay? You should use your, use your imagination. You could do it. Speaker 2 I say this, every video, every video I say this, Speaker 1 I don't know if you're a new subscriber, but Speaker 2 thank you for the sprinkle. All right, so get your money start from the text. This is what I need is, what I might be dating. This is what's happening in my life, this is what's financially, you know, happening in my life. This is what I might need, this is what I'm dealing with, but don't go into too much detail, say what you got to say, and then switch the subject real quick back to him. Speaker 1 Oh, you know, I Speaker 2 just got off the phone with my grandma. She needs a little bit of help with her rent this month. So I'm going to see what I have. If I have anything by the way, how was your day? See which it keeps switching it up so he knows that you need some money. Okay, but don't ask, it's just can't include. But my green screen hit include and so he's going to offer, okay? I got to be creative chat. Moving to fast. I was asking if there is a BB L look helps. I don't have one but girl videos is outfront Sparkle. Nobody, nobody is running to get nobody else, no more. Sprinkle sprinkle they trying to get them out. What if I wanted to actually have a relationship? So I can't lie about why I want money. They will eventually know if it lasts. Not if the person dies - the fake person that doesn't exist die. They will never know. Sparkle Sparkle. Speaker 1 But if you want a Speaker 2 realistic thing, then just say bills, Speaker 1 baby bills. Speaker 2 The, the lies were better though. Because the fake person dies, they'll never have to meet them. Never have to talk about them. Nothing. They can eventually die down the line, man, they don't, they don't ever have to really Speaker 1 exist. It's also something about finding your address and details online. Girl, you're this old news for the sparkle? That's old address old news. I told you I've been on here for 10 years, 10 years. Speaker 2 You don't think I've gone through all of that 20 times already. I'm not new here, I'm old here. I've been on here for 10 years. That two, three channels, all of that stuff that y'all are finding is super old. And guess what? I've already been through all Speaker 1 that, Speaker 2 I don't care what people think about me. I'm here to stay. I'm not going nowhere. All right, so listen to me, if you don't know how long I've been here, go back and find my first video. It's probably going to be before y'all was in elementary school. A lot of Speaker 1 y'all, okay. So I'm not new here. I've had her since day one. They don't, they don't phase me. I'm being here, I'ma stay here, I'ma keep helping, I'll get this money and keep exposing the dust. Okay, they can be mad, all they want. Pygmies your name can be bent all day work. Instead of spending all that energy looking for other people, trying to bring them down to their level, they might as well just level up and get, they money. You know what I'm saying? The only thing I want to ask you all to do is I don't care. I've been here. Don't stay here. Always going to be here as long as I want to. Nobody is going to tell me what my message to say. Okay, if I want to talk about a Dusty, I'm going to talk about it. Does, if I want to talk about pig meat, you're going 50/50. I'm a talk about period. I don't care. All right. Speaker 2 I've been doing this. You don't need, y'all need to Speaker 1 recognize Speaker 2 I've been here too long. I'm going to be here even longer. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 I've had people talk about my kids, my husband, my mama, my daddy, if they saw my granddad, my talk about her too. So you know it's some bother me. People are going to talk. They will talk about. What about you. If you're doing good they're going to talk about you. If you're doing bad, they're going to talk about you when you're dead going to talk about with you and you're alive. They're going to talk about you and you're doing good or bad, I just don't care anymore, they don't pay it, I don't care. They're making more off me, you know? Not even know who they are. So all I'm saying is I don't care. I've been here too long to even here. so, sprinkle sprinkle They ain't doing nothing that had already been done x 20 years ago. In fact the people way back then was better than that the people now. It was better troll back then. This ain't nothing Sparkle Speaker 1 Sparkle. Okay? Speaker 2 How do you get yourself out of pain 50/50 once you've already started stupidly okay, when you start to got up you got to level up and look your best. Then you got to give him a one bill at a time so he can handle all of them, Sparkle Sparkle. If he can't, you're just the roommate and you need to go. Speaker 1 Sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you, girl. Speaker 2 It says, she's just jealous. Oh, I don't know who Joe. I don't really care. Who jealous. I'm supposed to. You know, what? If you jealous look at look in the mirror and fix yourself, you know. Speaker 1 Most people choose are jealous because they got to go feed the kitty. Sparkle Sparkle pager. I'm glad okay. You date a younger provider currently both 20. He pays your bills. Y'all are going to Hawaii next month. How do you make it last? Don't give it up Sparkle Sparkle. Stabile, see, thank you girls park. Sprinkle Make It Last by not giving it up, baby. Okay. Don't sleep with Speaker 2 him. That's y'all already sleeping together and then it don't matter. Don't act super impressed, it's real sparkle say you know, we should have went to this place and stay but this is a great, this is fun. Speaker 1 Thank you Speaker 2 Dixon X for this poor girl. Speaker 1 Okay. Speaker 2 What if I create a fake scenario for him to send money and he doesn't after does that signal? He's not excited. Yeah it means he ain't no provider you so I supposed to have more than one. So in that window come through the other one might It means he doesn't like you as much as you thought. He probably did, okay? Hm, all right. Especially if you meet them online as kind of hard to get money out of because they're probably used to women try to do that. But this to meet in person to get money. All right, like meet them in person, not online. Yeah. He keeps saying he will provide once were married. Okay. Well, we ain't getting married until he provide Sparkle Sparkle. Okay, you can't you can't trust that. You can see what you can do before that. Tell you? No. Have you slept with him? You sure say I'm asleep with you. When we get married, tell him that. I see what you till we get married. And how about Speaker 1 that? Speaker 2 They wanted, they want to provide after you even gave him all the goods and done all the stupid stuff. No, I'm not gonna sleep with, you know, more until we get married since you own a Speaker 1 provide. Goodbye. Yeah, don't ask super impressed. Yeah, if when you're there in Hawaii, and then like when you get to the airport, to go back home like Ask him to buy you a souvenir and then act super impressed over the airport souvenir. All right. Some small little stupid. So thank you so much. This is Speaker 2 really cute. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Look, I'm gonna take a picture. Be most impressed over something stupid. All right, that's how you keep them Trace. God, just took you to Hawaii. I bought you this. We stayed in this hotel. You impressed. Over a keychain. Speaker 1 He chained. Yes, Speaker 2 I need help getting more benefits. Your you got a little of your Speaker 1 lips, Sparkle Sparkle. Our level up your game. Speaker 2 All right. What? All right, I've got to go yogs. I will see you all in the next one. Sparkle Sparkle. Thank you everybody for joining and asking some diesel questions this time. Oh it's the last thing I do it. Don't say no more talking to a man for a week Heat. Always wants to see me wants to take me out of town, pays for everything. How do I know he won't stop once he gets it, you make him invest a lot of money and kill him, like the more money he spends, you need to get some cash too. So if he paying your bills, If he's paying your bills. Speaker 1 I don't know because you're not Speaker 2 being specific solar paying for everything. Does that mean he's paying for your date or you just paying your bills to if he's paying bills and you don't want it to stop then before you sleep with him, you need to make sure that y'all are in a committed relationship. and, That you need to you know feel like you can trust him. So get him to give you like some money to put into your savings account. So that if he does leave you're still good because you have someone in your savings accounts, you know I'm saying. So the more he invested less likely he's going to leave. So get a couple thousand, you know, get some thousands in your account. However, however, much he can for our know what his budget is, but yet some thousands in your account before you sleep with him. All right. Sparkle Sparkle. All right, I got to go, y'all. Y'all be safe Sparkle Sparkle. If y'all are at happy hour, let me know how it was, how it went. If you've been to happy hour this week or going or planning to go put him in a permanent comment so that I can drink up. Stop sending super chest didn't have to get off. Get off last one. Well it was don't send them. You got to pay from your potential following your suggestion. Oh, my God. Thank you. Oh, you just got Speaker 1 it. Yes. Speaker 2 What do I tell you to do? I forgot. Sprinkle sprinkle anyway, leave it in the comments. Congrats, get your money girl. Yeah. All right, I forgot what I told you to do that. Was it earlier? And the tracks? I answer to many questions. We just leave it in the permanent comments. I'm a read it. All right, I'm skeleton. All right, I forgot what I told you to do that. Was it earlier? And the tracks? I answer to many questions. We just leave it in the permanent comments. I'm a read it. All right, I'm skeleton.