Groomed Online By Roblox Predator & Lured From Her Home: The Devastating Case Of Hailey Buzbee
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This episode of True Crime with Kendall Rae discusses the tragic murder of 17-year-old Haley Busby, a high school student from Fishers, Indiana, who was groomed online for a year by 39-year-old Tyler Thomas. Haley, a bright and driven teenager with dreams of studying journalism, disappeared from her home in early January 2026 after leaving willingly with Thomas, whom she met through gaming platforms like Discord, Roblox, and League of Legends. Despite her parents’ immediate concerns, police initially classified her as a runaway, delaying an alert; her case was later upgraded to endangered missing juvenile after Thomas’s inconsistent statements and evidence emerged.
Investigators discovered that Thomas used an anonymous app called Session, which lacks age verification and metadata tracking, to communicate with Haley and evade detection. They also found sexually explicit material of Haley and another minor on his devices, and traced his movements to an Airbnb and Wayne National Forest. Thomas was charged with pandering sexually oriented material and tampering with evidence, and police concluded Haley was deceased, prompting recovery efforts.
The case sparked advocacy for "Haley’s Law," which includes a Pink Alert system for high-risk missing persons, expanded definitions of missing children, and stronger online protections for minors. Indiana passed related legislation in 2026, including parental consent requirements for social media use by under-16s. The host emphasizes the importance of educating children about online grooming, maintaining open communication, and using resources like the Child Rescue Coalition. She also highlights fundraising efforts through Haley’s Army and her foundation, Higher Hope, to support victims’ families and promote systemic change.
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Hello, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of True Crime with Kendall Rae.
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So today, you guys, we're going to be talking about a really difficult
and very difficult situation.
And very recent case that I'm sure many of you have heard of.
And I think there are some very important reasons to discuss this case.
Now, when I was a kid, I was born in 1993, and things were very different.
I mean, first of all, when I was born, there was no social media.
I know a lot of you probably had the same experience.
I lived in a world I wish I could raise my kids in.
And the internet really, really scares me.
And it's more important than ever that we talk about the dangers of the internet,
especially when it comes to minors.
When I was a kid, you know, my parents definitely talked to us about stranger danger.
And I had some VHS with this.
I know some of you are going to know what I'm talking about.
But this, I think he was called the Yellow Dino or the Yella Dina.
Dino?
I don't know.
He was all about stranger danger.
He had songs.
He had songs about taking a step back.
And there was like little acts about people in white vans, creepy white vans coming up.
And like, if they offer you candy or to look at a puppy, you know, it was mainly surrounded
on in-person events, not to talk to strangers at the park.
If someone tells you they're a police officer, you know, don't believe them.
That's the kind of thing that I was taught about mainly as a child and about, you know,
not being out by myself at night.
Things like that, you know, come home before the streetlights turn on, that kind of thing.
But it's a whole different ballgame now for parents of young children and teenagers.
And I mean, with the rise of technology, we're all being exposed to more dangers,
more and more every day.
We're constantly being exposed to strangers online.
And while there are, of course, millions of innocent interactions every day,
there are also countless predators out there.
We're taking advantage of the internet completely anonymously.
And in today's case, we are going to discuss the absolutely devastating murder of 17-year-old
Haley Busby.
And it's really a prime example of how important and necessary it is that we educate not only
our kids, but ourselves of the dangers that lurk online.
Now, Haley was a beautiful, smart, very driven young woman, and she fell victim to the sickest
kind of criminal.
And she's not alone.
Children all over the world are being victimized by these predators.
And something has to change.
And it really, it starts with us because our governments and corporations don't really
seem to care that much.
Haley's case terrifies me, truly devastates me as a parent myself.
It's almost too difficult to talk about.
The idea of my kids getting on the internet.
One day or having access to the internet is so, so scary.
And I'm trying to educate myself as much as I can.
Although by the time, you know, my kids are old enough for the internet, which who knows
if I'll ever let them on the internet while they're in my house.
But I'm sure by the time they're of age where they want to be on online games and social
media and things like that, the whole landscape is going to completely change because I have
a four-year-old and a three-month-old right now.
So I know that telling her story.
Is giving power to save other lives and to educate other parents and other young people
out there.
And if I can help facilitate these conversations, even though it's difficult and truly terrifies
me, I want to try.
Haley Page Busby was born on October 9th, 2008.
And her story takes place in Fishers, Indiana, where she lived with her dad, Bo, and her
stepmom, Rania.
And also she had a little sister named Sabria.
I don't have a super clear picture.
I don't have a super clear picture necessarily of their family structure, but on her obituary
page, her mom is listed as Lindsay Simmons.
And she also has a brother named Elijah.
And let me just tell you right off the bat, it's very clear that Haley meant so much to
so many people.
It's obvious how special of a person Haley was.
She had such a bright and joyful spirit to her.
And she was someone who could really change the mood of a room simply by being in it and
being herself.
And her smile has been described as,
And just by looking at her dimples, especially some of her pictures from when she was, you
know, a lot younger, I can definitely say that's the case.
She was just such an adorable child and becoming a truly beautiful young woman.
And her loved ones say that her heart was just always in the right place.
They noted that Haley could be shy at first, but when she opened up, she was giggly and
quick-witted, and she always went out of her way to make people feel seen and loved.
And it also sounds like she was an amazing big sister, which I think, you know, I think
is such a wonderful quality in someone.
I mean, I can see it through the photos of them together, but I learned that no matter
what was going on in her own life, she was always home to tuck her younger sister, Sabria,
into bed at night, which I thought was just so cool and so mature for her age.
And I'm sure those moments, you know, tucking someone into bed at night is such a special
time.
It's really something that you remember as you go throughout life, you know, who tucked
you in when you were a child.
And I'm so happy that her sister has those memories of her.
Family was very important to Haley, and I know that she was very important to them, too.
It's also important to know that Haley was a very hard worker, a very driven person,
and that was really showcased in two different ways.
One, she was excelling in school.
She had aspirations of becoming a journalist one day, so she was part of her high school's
broadcast journalism team, which is super cool.
And her goal was to one day attend.
Indiana University to study journalism, which was a dream that everyone says she definitely
would have accomplished.
Haley was actually saving money for college, which brings me to the second thing that she
worked very hard at, her job.
She worked three to four days a week as a server at a restaurant called The Kitchen
on Main, which is in Fortville, Indiana.
And everyone there, of course, had nothing but amazing things to say about how responsible
she was and how hardworking she was.
Haley was known for bringing a smile to everyone she served, for her
reliability and her work ethic.
And really, you guys, she was just a normal teenager.
She had big dreams for herself and seemed to have every intention on following through
with them.
And everyone in her life believed she absolutely would.
But that all changed in January of 2026, very recently, after she was lured out of her room
and murdered by a predator who spent an entire year grooming her.
And believe me, I fully realize.
How painful and shocking that sentence was.
But that is the reality of Haley's case.
And it all began on January 5th, 2026.
It was a Monday, and it was the start of Haley's second semester of her junior year.
And according to her family, everything about that day was completely normal, even including
when they last saw her, which was 10 p.m. that night.
But by 6 a.m. the next morning, she was gone.
When her dad and her stepmom woke up.
And didn't see Haley getting ready for the day, they immediately had a gut-sinking feeling.
And that feeling was only made far worse when they checked her room, and she was nowhere
to be found.
Federal court documents would later reveal that Haley had left a note for them, stating
that she had run away and was asking that nobody search for her.
But there was no world where her parents would just let her leave like that.
In fact, as soon as they realized that she was gone, they immediately contacted the Fishers
Police Department.
And filed a missing persons report.
And this is so frustrating and sadly not shocking these days.
Well, since forever, it feels.
You would think it'd be getting better by now, and maybe in some ways it is.
But the fact that we still deal with situations like this, in cases like this, today, is just
infuriating.
But yeah, problematically, the police initially labeled her as a runaway, and an Amber Alert
wasn't activated.
And as you can probably tell, this is a case that's been going on for a long time.
So this is going to be a big point of discussion, in this case, later on.
But yeah.
Off the bat, they made that classification because of what they saw, or rather, what they didn't see.
When they looked around the house, there was no sign of a break-in or anything to suggest that she was abducted, and of course, there was that note left behind, and she had packed up some of her belongings, so they viewed this as proof that she left willingly.
And that is true. She did leave willingly. After her parents checked their surveillance cameras, they saw that shortly after 3 a.m., Haley got into a dark-colored SUV.
Police weren't able to make out the driver of the car, but through reviewing additional security footage from the neighborhood, they were able to get a read on the license plate, thankfully.
And that car was a 2014 Acura. It belonged to a woman who has not been publicly named. However, she told the police that she wasn't even in Indiana on January 6th. She was in Florida.
She did mention, though, that there was someone who could have been driving the car, and that was 39-year-old Tyler Thomas.
Now, if you're wondering what reason, what good reason, a 39-year-old man could possibly have to pick up a 17-year-old girl, he doesn't know. There, obviously, is none.
Tyler was not known to the Busby family, and he was also not known to the police. Based on what Fisher's PD could tell, he had no record.
Because, I'm not sure, actually, I am sure that not all police departments would do this, but Fisher's PD did make an effort to try and find her.
And that happened even with the runaway classification, which is a big problem, like I said, and we will discuss that.
But they simultaneously didn't ignore that her disappearance was concerning, thankfully.
And according to their own press conference, Fisher's police tracked down Tyler within a few days of Haley going missing.
Now, for whatever reason, he didn't seem to have any sort of address listed with his name, and a lot of source materials on this case describes him as homeless.
Although, I think he may have been more of just a couch surfer, maybe?
Court records show that he lived in Hawaii until 2017, and then he moved to Kentucky, and then Michigan, before finally ending up in Columbus, Ohio, which is where Fisher's police found him.
And also, because I'm sure you're probably. wondering, I am unaware of his connection to this woman that owned the car, or how she would have known that he was driving her car.
There's just still a lot of mystery to that part of the puzzle.
I also have some questions that I don't have answers to at this point about the house that he was found in, because from what I understand, at least, he was living there.
So, I don't know why he was listed as homeless, but that's probably because he. you know, didn't own the house, or maybe wasn't paying rent, or. I don't fully know.
It honestly doesn't really matter.
But anyways, it sounds like they were able to track him to that house based on his cell phone data, and the woman who owned the Acura gave police his number, and sources say that they traced him to a house on Hunter Avenue in Columbus.
And apparently, this house is in a super nice neighborhood called Victorian Village, and so on January 16th. Fisher's PD and Columbus PD made contact with Tyler there.
Now, I also wanted to quickly just say that the comment I made earlier about the police's statement that they found him within days of Haley going missing is odd to me, because January 16th is 10 days later, and I guess when I hear days, I think of 2, 3, maybe even up to 4 days, but not 10.
If it's longer than a week, I don't think you can say days.
And I think that is, um. That was done strategically to voice it in that way.
Maybe it's possible that they made contact with him before the 16th, and just haven't shared that for whatever reason, or maybe the verbiage on days just isn't aligned with mine.
Um, but I just wanted to flag that in case anyone else caught that.
Thank you.
Now, when they spoke with him, I don't know what they were expecting, but it sounds like he was surprisingly very cooperative, or at least. as cooperative as a sicko like him could be.
He first told the police that the reason he was in Indiana was because he was, quote,
looking for different places, including the local airport and an apple orchard.
An apple orchard?
What?
But Tyler eventually told the truth, or a version of the truth, I should say.
Tyler told detectives that he did know Haley, and he had picked her up in the early morning hours of January 16th.
But he claimed that he dropped her off at the intersection of US-25 and State Route 320 in Eaton, Ohio.
And this is where I just get the chills thinking about it, where my heart just totally sinks every time.
Tyler explained to detectives that he had known Haley for an entire year.
He said that they met through Discord, and I had no idea just how. dangerous Discord is.
I used to use Discord to communicate with a small group of fans years ago until I just forgot the password and never figured out how to log back in.
But I had no idea how truly dangerous Discord is for a multitude of reasons, but especially for minors, and what a tool it is for predators.
I learned a lot about it through a seminar I went to at a conference.
Here in Colorado called COVA last September, and I was shocked hearing just how bad it is.
But yeah, they met through Discord, and then they continued having conversations with one another on that platform as well as through online games such as Roblox and League of Legends.
I don't know anything about League of Legends.
I actually don't really know much about Roblox, but everything I do know about Roblox terrifies me.
And it is something I would highly suggest parents. be. I mean, in my opinion, I don't think you should let your children use Roblox at all.
But if you're going to, I don't know.
I shouldn't give any advice on it because I barely know how to work it.
The only real advice I can give is don't let your children on Roblox.
League of Legends, I've heard of the game.
I did not know it is also potentially a dangerous place as well, or at least a way that you could be connected with predators.
And it seems like there's. probably a very large variety of games where that is the case.
Now, some sources report that they first met on Roblox, and then they moved to Discord.
Either way, they were strangers to one another, and it was through one of those gaming-slash-chat platforms that they got connected and continued talking.
And it was the fact that they had known one another for an entire year that made the police not believe his story about helping her run away.
I mean, come on.
What person with that level of insidiousness is going to spend all that time, a whole year, grooming a child just to then drive her a hundred miles away and just leave her there?
It's ridiculous, and the police knew that that was bullshit the second he said it.
But at that point, they had nothing to arrest him for on January 16th.
So he, unfortunately, was free to go.
And what they could do. What they could do, though, was finally upgrade Haley's case from runaway to endangered missing juvenile.
On January 20th, Fisher's PD released a statement that reads, in part,
Haley did not act alone.
She left her house either the night of January 5th or in the early morning hours of January 6th.
Haley left her house willingly and with a plan, which categorized her as a runaway.
We do not believe she acted alone in leaving.
Based on the facts of the investigation, which we cannot share with the public at this time,
her case is now being upgraded to an endangered missing juvenile.
And listen, it pisses me the fuck off that it took them that long to make that classification.
It just makes no sense to me, and I think most of you will agree.
From the second that Haley went missing, her parents were screaming from the rooftops that she was in danger.
And of course she was. Of course she was in danger.
Whether she chose to leave her house on her own or not.
And immediately after she went missing, her dad Beau coordinated widespread efforts to get Haley's name and picture out there, which. was pretty much all he could do at that point. He spent every waking minute advocating for her,
and with the support of friends, family, and the community, an army for Haley was mobilized.
Local businesses pitched in funds for billboards, people got their cars wrapped with Haley's
information on it, and volunteers were handing out flyers all over Indiana and even across
state lines as well, and the social media efforts were beyond extensive. Plus, Beau very quickly
collected all of Haley's digital footprint and handed everything he possibly could think of to
law enforcement, being like, here, search this, hello. These efforts were fast and intentional,
and I think they go to show you just how many people loved Haley and wanted to see her come
home safely. And I know law enforcement did want to see her come home safely as well, but
the deeper they got into their investigation, the less likely that seemed.
On January 21st, a search warrant was executed on the home that Tyler was living in,
and while that search occurred, a second conversation was had with him, and this time,
law enforcement heard even less settling information. When Tyler was asked about his
communication with Haley, he admitted that there was another app that they had been messaging on,
and this is so scary. I have never heard of this app. It is truly terrifying that
things like this exist, okay? It's called Session, and
oh my god, this app allows individuals to create an account without a phone number,
without an email, or any kind of personal identification. It doesn't collect IP addresses,
it doesn't collect geolocation, or really any metadata. I mean, absolutely no metadata. And
that allows people to communicate completely anonymously. Anyone can make an account with
absolutely no safeguards in place, and apparently in their terms and conditions. You have to say
that you're 18 or older, but it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. It doesn't
sound like they do any kind of age verification. It also uses end-to-end encryption and disappearing
messages, so law enforcement and tech companies can't see what's going on in these conversations.
And according to Tyler, they used Session specifically because he knew he could prevent
law enforcement from ever viewing what they talked about. He said they used it so that they could help
her run away, but as we know, they didn't believe that for a second. Now, I don't think I really need
to explain why Session is so important to me. I don't think I need to explain why Session is so
important. I don't think I need to explain why an app like this is dangerous, but platforms like this
are literal breeding grounds for predators like Tyler. And these monsters, what they do in a lot
of cases is they will gain the trust of children online, typically through platforms like Roblox,
League of Legends, and Discord. Also, I've heard a lot of scary situations coming out of Minecraft.
That's definitely one to be
wary of. And I don't know a ton about Minecraft. My husband was explaining to me that
you can create a private server where you as a parent have access to who's on it. It could just
be your children on it and you, if you wanted to play with them or something. And I'm sure there
are so many of you that understand Minecraft way more than me. But it's not limited to those
gaming platforms either, or just Discord. There's just so many
dangerous places where children can be initially communicated with. And then once that happens,
once they groom them through there, they convince them to move their conversations to other
platforms where they as predators can be more protected. And this allows for children of all
ages to be victimized and not just children. I mean, people in general can be victimized
through platforms like this, like Session. And unfortunately, I don't know if you've heard
of Session. Unfortunately, there's probably a lot of others just like Session. So as you can
imagine, learning this was very concerning to law enforcement. And what was also concerning
was Tyler's insistence that he didn't know where Haley was. He denied hurting her or killing her.
Although when he was asked if he would tell them if he had done something to her,
he said he wouldn't. He then asked for a lawyer. So getting him to confess anything more was not
going to be easy. But ultimately, they didn't need a confession to find out the truth. Because
during the execution of that search warrant, they were able to confiscate Tyler's phone and his other
electronic devices. And once those were processed, they truly realized at that point the depth of his
inhumanity. According to court documents, there was a cache of sexually explicit photos and videos
on his phone, which Haley was dependent on. And so Tyler was able to confiscate Tyler's phone and
they could tell that these images were taken at that house that they had been searching. So for
one, that proved what pretty much everyone already knew, that he didn't just drop her off on the side
of the road. And two, it confirmed that he had committed multiple crimes, including performing
those acts with a minor, having the CSAM on his phone. And he had also attempted to delete those
photos and videos off his phone. And this makes me sick, but sadly, doesn't shock me at all.
They discovered that Haley was not the only young girl that Tyler had been grooming. And it sounds
like this other girl was even younger. It has been reported that she was between the ages of seven
and ten. Now, I also want to be clear, there have been some of his and Haley's messages that have
been released, as well as messages with another girl. And I know there are other
true crime creators, reporters, whatever, that have shared those. I don't understand why that's
necessary. I think it's really upsetting that anyone is doing that. But I have no intention
of sharing those. Their families don't need to hear it. And quite frankly, his filth just isn't
worth repeating. What exactly was said in those messages doesn't make a difference at the end of
the day when it comes to what actually happened. And I don't think it's worth repeating. I don't
think it's worth repeating. And yeah, I just would not feel
right sharing those. They're so, so disturbing. All you really need to know at the end of the day
is Tyler is a sick, perverted, disgusting, foul, inhumane individual that is a complete waste of
human life. And sadly, it doesn't stop there. Using location data, investigators have traced
Tyler's movements, which confirmed that he picked up Haley in the early morning hours of January 6th,
and after that, data shows that he took her back to that house in Columbus, which was also confirmed
by the photos taken of her there. And it turns out they didn't stay there very long because that same
day, Tyler ended up taking her to an Airbnb in a rural area in Hawking County, Ohio. His phone
showed that they stayed there overnight. And then on January 7th, he traveled to Wayne National
Forest. This trip began at 9.25 a.m. and records showed that he stayed there until 2.15.
After that, Tyler traveled back to the property in Columbus. And of course, this Airbnb was of
interest to investigators, but apparently when they confronted Tyler about it, he denied that
Haley ever went there. And he said he got it as a getaway for himself, but obviously they knew that
was a lie too. Not only were there additional images of Haley at the Airbnb on his phone,
but this bozo put two guests under the reservation, and that kicked
off not only a search of the Airbnb itself, but also the area surrounding it. Although to my
knowledge, nothing during that search was found. That being said, Tyler's days as a free man were
certainly numbered. And on January 31st, 2026, he reportedly turned himself in at the request of
the authorities, during which time he was charged with pandering sexually oriented material involving
a minor, as well as tampering with evidence.
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The next day, Fisher's PD held a press conference where, for the first time,
specific details about Haley's case came to light.
So it pains me today to let you know that after an extensive investigation, we feel that Haley
is deceased. I spent some time with the family this morning, along with Chief Gephardt, and
their wishes were truly to express
That's what an incredible human being Haley was.
She was a bright light in the family.
She was a wonderful big sister.
She had a tremendous amount of promise and hope.
She was excited about moving on to university, and she was an incredible human being.
And I know that her family is devastated currently, and I'm confident that our community will
rally in the coming hours, days, and weeks to stand with that family in their grief and
share in the burden of mending and healing from this tragic loss.
Unfortunately, this is tragic news for our community.
Our detectives identified a suspect, 39-year-old Tyler Thomas of Ohio.
Because of evidence obtained and the statements made by the suspect, the investigation has
now moved to recovery efforts.
On January 6th, 2012, Tyler Thomas was found dead.
We responded to the Busby residence.
Her parents had reported that she had left overnight.
Our officers and our detectives diligently began the process to locate her, using all
of our resources available.
Throughout the investigation, we were able to identify an unknown vehicle that had been
in Haley's neighborhood the night she had gone missing.
Using technology, our detectives identified Thomas as the suspect she had left with.
We made contact with him in Ohio, and he admitted to picking Haley up.
He told us that he dropped her off on the side of the road in western Ohio.
However, through continued investigations, his initial story was determined to be untrue.
We continued to diligently work with the FBI, the Indiana State Police, and our Ohio partners,
the Columbus Police Department, and the Hawking County Sheriff's Office.
After further investigation, Columbus Police Department's Homicide Unit assisted in
serving search warrants where more evidence was collected.
is just not worth it.
what it used to be. The internet has completely changed that. And it's now literally everywhere.
And most of us interact with people that we don't know online every day. I mean,
I have some of my mobile games where I talk to strangers. I mean, technically,
they're not people that I know, but I've like sort of made, I don't want to say friendships,
but I've become like friendly with some of the people on these games. And I never share
personal information. I'm an adult, and I know how to safely do that. But think about it when
you're talking with people like in comment sections, or even people that you're emailing
for work. I mean, I'm emailing a lot of people that I work with, that I work with, you know,
from different talent agencies and different networks and stuff from out of state who I've
never actually met, but I've spent a lot of time communicating with. And I'm not saying they're
dangerous, but it's kind of shocking how many people. we actually talk to online without knowing them. And that's because it's become so normalized that
we often forget how dangerous it can be. And I don't want to make everyone paranoid. I just
want to point that out. It's something we need to be a little bit more aware of, I believe. And
maybe a little paranoia when it comes to the internet would be good for a lot of people.
But gaming platforms like Roblox and League of Legends are
perfect for that. And I think that's something that we need to be a little bit more aware of.
And I think that's
perfect for a lot of people. And I think that's something that we need to be a little bit more
perfect examples of how these dangers can have real-life consequences. And even games that I
used to play as a kid online where I don't think my parents understood that I was talking to
strangers or understood the gravity of what that could be because they're like, oh, it's just other
kids that they're playing with. Not necessarily. I used to play this one game called Wyville,
where I was chatting with other random people on there all the time that I'd
believed were all kids, but I didn't know. But like Club Penguin and Neopets, I don't know if you
could chat with people online. Yeah, I'm definitely showing my age here, but you know what I mean?
It's just that times a million now. And like I said, I don't have any familiarity beyond what
I have read and cases I've covered with Roblox and League of Legends, like as far as how these
games are played or set up. But from my understanding, users are put into servers
with any number of people. And through these servers, you can chat with other gamers, including
starting private chats one-on-one. And I know there's some nuances to it, of course, but
basically that's the gist. And the danger really comes from the fact that any individual can
pretend they're someone they're not. And for predators, they take advantage of this and
they're able to gain the trust of young children because it's often young children who play these
games. And in 2023, Roblox actually reported over 13,000
incidents of child exploitation to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. And
since 2018, Child Safety Reporting has documented at least 30 arrests specifically related to
predators who have abducted or sexually abused children that they met on Roblox.
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And they convince these kids to talk to them in more private capacities.
And that's when apps like Snapchat, Discord, and Session are used. And in many cases,
the conversations move from innocent game talk to speaking sexually, where kids can be asked to send
inappropriate photos and say inappropriate things, for example. And in worst-case scenario situations,
predators can convince children to meet up with them under false pretenses. There is a reason
that so many lawsuits have been filed against them. And it's because they don't know how to
against companies like Roblox. And many people argue, myself included, that these games just
simply do not do enough to protect young users, despite the changes that these gaming companies
have made. In January of 2026, Roblox actually changed their system to require mandatory facial
age verification. In order to use any chat feature, users have to complete facial estimation
or submit a photo of their ID. AI is supposed to dictate what age you look, and then the
game filters you into a group with other people in your age bracket. And I understand there are
definitely some concerns with that, too. And the whole world of figuring out how to protect children
online has come with a lot of varying opinions and discussions. And the UK, for example, just
banned social media for children under the age of 16. And I know there has been a lot of
cons brought up, a lot of concerns.
brought up and why they're doing that. So yeah, I'm not saying it's an easy fix, but I think
we can all agree something has to be done. And of course, there are some parental controls
on the chat feature for kids under a certain age for some of these games, I think, including
Roblox. But let's be honest, predators are going to find their way around these so-called safety
measures. Plus, once users are 16 years old, they can pretty much manage their own
privacy settings. And Haley's family is among other countless families who are advocating
for change when it comes to these platforms. And they're advocating for a lot, actually. And I
really want to use my platform to amplify that here today. Haley's family came up with the idea
for Haley's Law, which at a glance is a legislative proposal that's aimed at preventing tragedies like
this from ever happening again. This law covers a lot, so stick with me as I break it down. But I
that is long overdue and very important to talk about. So I appreciate you hanging in there and
listening. Haley's Law can be broken down into three big sections, including the Pink Alert
Program, Modern Predator and Grooming Education for Students, and Additional Child Protection
Consideration. Let's start with the first, the Pink Alert System. Now, I'm sure a lot of you
are familiar with the Amber Alert, as well as the Silver Alert, and each require, you know,
that the public gets notified when those criteria are met. But in Haley's case, she didn't meet the
criteria for either, which, as I mentioned, is incredibly problematic. Just because she
willingly left with her abductor does not mean that her going missing put her at any less risk
of harm. She was coerced and manipulated into going with him, and that absolutely needs to
be recognized by law enforcement in the alert system. Hence, the Pink Alert. The Amber Alert
was created in 1996 when stranger danger didn't look the way that it does now. So why don't we
have a system that reflects that? We need to update things. So a Pink Alert would activate
when credible risk indicators exist, such as evidence of online grooming or coercive digital
communication, contact with unknown predators regardless of their age, suspicious travel
arrangements, indicators of trafficking or exploitation, credible threats of harm,
circumstances involving isolation, secrecy or financial control, vulnerability due to age or
other risk factors, and sudden unexplained disappearance without contact or verified
whereabouts. I think this is beyond necessary, and I'm really saddened and surprised that
something like this doesn't already exist. I mean, it's past overdue big time.
Now, there have been some conversations around the fact that more alert systems
could potentially confuse people and possibly make them less likely to act. But if that's the
concern, at the very least, we need to update the current systems to reflect these modern issues,
right? And I'm really excited to tell you that progress has actually been made in Indiana as
a result of her family's efforts. It was too late in the legislative season to add a new bill from
Haley's family, and it's only been a few months since the bill was passed.
The news of Haley's tragic death has also gained attention here at the statehouse, both the attention of Governor Mike Braun and lawmakers. Haley's family has started a petition asking lawmakers to pass Haley's law, and Governor Braun said he believes that lawmakers should do something this session to address that. I spoke with some lawmakers, including two who represent Haley's family, and they say they're looking at what can be done.
thoughts and prayers are with you.
A message from Indiana
Mike Braun to the family of 17-year-old Haley Busby. The family of the Fisher's teen has their
own message for the people who make decisions at the Indiana Statehouse, pass Haley's law to
protect others from online predators. According to the petition, police did not issue an amber
alert for Haley because they had no proof she was abducted and she was classified as a runaway.
No silver alert went out either because Haley didn't have a disability or medical condition
to warrant it. The petition says a pink alert would fill in the gaps in the alert system and
cover missing people and kids when credible risk factors exist. In a tweet, Governor Braun said he's
working with Indiana State Police to identify solutions to those gaps. And in an interview
Tuesday, the governor also called out big tech. Big tech is going to have to start taking
responsibility. These are their platforms. This session, the Senate considered a bill that would
have put restrictions on social media for minors, but that part of the bill was taken out before
the Senate passed it. Governor Braun indicated support for the request Haley's parents are making
for lawmakers.
I think it'd be smart to do something now while we're still in session.
So what they did is updated House Bill 1303 to expand the legal definition of a missing child
to include high risk missing person. Now, this doesn't entirely solve the problem, in my opinion,
but it definitely does help. And it passed unanimously on February 9th, 2026, and then
was signed into law by Governor Mike Braun in April. Governor Braun also added more protection
for minors online by requiring social media to be used to protect minors.
So the bill was taken out of the House Bill 1303.
The bill was taken out of the House Bill 1303 by requiring social media apps to get parental consent
for users under 16 years old.
Governor Braun has signed two bills into law inspired by the death of 17-year-old Haley Busby.
One expands the definition of a missing child to include high risk missing people.
It also extends a silver alert program to missing children. The other adds protections for minors
online and strengthens parental control. Social media platforms must now get parental consent
for users under 16. The bill was taken out of the House Bill 1303 to strengthen parental control.
I was asked to read this letter.
Dear Haley Page,
Hi, sweetheart.
I want you to know how incredibly grateful I am
for the time we had together on this earth.
I still consider myself the luckiest dad ever.
You and I made so many beautiful memories,
and I will carry them with me forever,
revisiting them every single day.
I will always feel your sweet hugs and kisses on my cheek,
though now I won't have to wipe off the lip gloss.
You'd apologize for that, but I always wore it with pride.
You saved me the day you were born, Haley,
and you continued to save me every day after that.
You gave me a purpose to love and protect you.
I will do my very best to share the same love with others,
and I will never forget where that love began.
I witnessed your love and selflessness every single day.
I could not have asked for a more loving, respectful daughter.
You mean so much to so many.
Your relationship with Rania, your little sis,
your grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends
was something truly special.
I continue to hear from others how much you meant to them
and the incredible impact you had.
You were my shy girl, but your presence was always strong
through the kindness, love, and beauty you shared.
You always put others first without reservation or complaint.
I want you to know that Rania, Sabria, and I know how much you loved us.
Please guide me as I try my best to tuck in your sister
the way you did every night.
And sweetheart, we are at peace knowing that you know
just how much you continue to be loved.
I know the teenage years were tough at times,
but you navigated them with such grace.
Grace and strength.
Like so many others, you may have felt alone at times
despite the love that surrounded you.
But I want you to know this wasn't your fault.
And today, I'm here to show you that you were never alone
and you never will be.
Lastly, I want you to know that the changes we make going forward
will be rooted in the love you brought into the world
during your time with us.
We will be okay, sweetheart.
Please allow yourself to finally rest.
We love you.
With all my love, your proud dad.
And I truly hate that it takes unimaginable, devastating tragedies
like the murder of Haley Busby for these conversations to be had,
but sometimes that is the stimulus that people need in order to make change.
Haley did not deserve what happened to her.
And because she isn't here, we need to share her story
so that this doesn't happen to any other child.
Because justice starts with being heard.
And her story is also a reminder to all parents out there
that we need to have conversations with our own children
about the danger that exists online.
And I can't necessarily give you a guidebook for that.
I'm certainly not qualified to do that.
It's definitely not a one-conversation-fits-all kind of thing
because every parent-child dynamic is so unique.
But I think a good place to start might just be,
sharing Haley's story.
If they are, you know, age-appropriate
and if you feel like they can handle that type of thing
because I think children learn best from hearing real examples
versus just being talked at to really understand the gravity.
But there are also so many resources out there
for parents to navigate online safety.
And I will have some of those linked below as well.
I think that's a good place to start.
I think having open discussions about what apps
that your kids are using is critical.
I think, in my opinion,
being very informed on exactly what is on your children's device
and what is going on within what's on your child's device
is just vital.
As parents, we have to stay up-to-date on what features exist
on these different social and gaming platforms.
And all of this just needs to be appreciated.
And all of this needs to be appreciated.
Allowing them to open up and recognize you as a safe place
is the best way to start.
Because if they do end up in a dangerous situation,
you want them to make sure that they don't feel like they have nobody to turn to.
I would also suggest maybe contacting your local school district
to ask if they offer any internet grooming education
or any other public service out there that maybe offers it.
I think it's very important that kids learn what the grooming cycle looks like.
So that they can identify it on their own.
And what better place to educate them than in their school curriculum?
And I know this wouldn't apply to homeschooled children,
but I'm sure there are also programs and resources available
for parents in the homeschooling world as well.
For example, the Child Rescue Coalition is an incredible non-profit
that offers resources and guidance on how to facilitate these conversations.
So I'll definitely have their page specifically linked below for you.
They also have a great article,
breaking down how to talk to your kids based on their grade level,
as well as a parent study guide to managing kids and technology,
which is a resource I recommend every parent downloads.
I'm also going to link the Facebook page associated with Haley's Army,
which is constantly posting about case updates and events.
I mentioned before, but they've hosted events regarding online safety,
but they've also hosted several others to raise awareness for Haley's Law,
including Harley's for Haley's, which is a motorcycle ride and pretty cool.
This page is filled with,
and I would love it if you guys gave them a follow to show your support.
I know it'll mean a lot to them.
I'm also going to link their GoFundMe for you guys as well,
and anyone that's able to donate, those funds will go towards supporting their cause.
They're also selling merch with a goal of raising awareness for Haley's case and Haley's Law,
where each item represents a commitment to protecting children,
supporting families, and creating safer communities.
Though Haley is no longer with us,
I know she is with her friends and family,
and every,
every pink sunset,
every pink bumper sticker,
every porch light,
every moment that they continue to advocate for the continued safety of our children.
And as a parent,
I am eternally grateful to them and so many others that are leading the charge.
Thank you so much to those of you who listened to this whole episode.
I know it was very info-heavy,
very heavy in general,
and we went over just a lot of information,
and I really appreciate those of you who stuck with me through this.
I think it's such an important discussion to have,
and I'm curious to see some of the comments on this episode
and hear any ideas from other parents.
You know, that's always super, super valuable to me and so many others.
And another thing I wanted to mention is my company, Mile Hard Media,
we have launched new summer merch,
and we have created some really cute,
beautiful, fun pieces that is all launching Friday, June 19th.
So it will actually already be out by the time that this episode goes up.
But all proceeds, 100% of our merch from any of our shows,
literally anything on our website,
100% of that money goes towards the Higher Hope Foundation,
and 100% of everything that is put towards the Higher Hope Foundation
as far as donations and merch goes directly towards,
funding grants.
So that is, all of it is going to go into the hands of victims,
their families, and also like-minded nonprofits.
And, you know, this could,
some of that could potentially go to Haley's family
and some of the amazing work that they're doing.
So if you felt inspired by this episode,
or if you are a true crime consumer,
and you would like to support our efforts there,
I would really, really appreciate it.
You know, it's kind of a cool thing that you can
treat yourself to merch that, you know,
you like, that appeals to you,
while also giving back to victims at the end of the day.
I think that's really important as a consumer of true crime content to do.
And as always, if you want to check out any of the work
that we are doing through Higher Hope,
you can do so at higherhope.org
or follow our social media, which I will have linked below.
It'll be on screen as well.
And of course, if you're interested in learning more about
what we do at Higher Hope
and the grants that we've already processed,
what we have coming up,
you can check it out at higherhope.org
or check us out on Instagram.
Higherhope.org is our handle.
We also have started putting out an e-newsletter
that's packed with information
and information about what we're specifically doing.
And I would love for you guys to support our work
because I really believe in my foundation
and I think we're doing some incredible things.
I'm incredibly proud of it.
And none of it would be possible without all of you.
So thank you.
All right, guys, that is going to be it for me today.
I will be back next week, of course, to discuss another case.
But until then, stay safe out there.
Thank you.
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The case involves 17-year-old Haley Busby, who was groomed online for a year by 39-year-old Tyler Thomas, met through platforms like Discord, Roblox, and League of Legends, and was later murdered in January 202
Haley left her home willingly with Tyler, but police initially classified her as a runaway, delaying an alert; her case was later upgraded to endangered missing juvenile after evidence emerged.
Tyler used an anonymous app called Session, which lacks age verification and metadata tracking, to communicate with Haley and avoid detection; he also had sexually explicit material of her and another minor (age 7-10) on his devices.
Investigators traced Tyler’s movements, found evidence at an Airbnb and Wayne National Forest, and charged him with pandering sexually oriented material and tampering with evidence; he turned himself in on January 31, 202
Police concluded Haley was deceased, and recovery efforts began; Tyler’s actions highlight the dangers of online grooming and the inadequacy of current alert systems.
Haley’s family advocated for "Haley’s Law," which includes a Pink Alert system for high-risk missing cases, expanded missing child definitions, and stronger online protections for minors; Indiana passed related legislation in 202
The episode emphasizes the need for parental education on online safety, open conversations with children, and resources like the Child Rescue Coalition and Haley’s Army for support and advocacy.
The host promotes her foundation, Higher Hope, which funds grants for victims and families, and encourages community support for Haley’s cause.
Summary:
This episode of True Crime with Kendall Rae discusses the tragic murder of 17-year-old Haley Busby, a high school student from Fishers, Indiana, who was groomed online for a year by 39-year-old Tyler Thomas. Haley, a bright and driven teenager with dreams of studying journalism, disappeared from her home in early January 2026 after leaving willingly with Thomas, whom she met through gaming platforms like Discord, Roblox, and League of Legends. Despite her parents’ immediate concerns, police initially classified her as a runaway, delaying an alert; her case was later upgraded to endangered missing juvenile after Thomas’s inconsistent statements and evidence emerged.
Investigators discovered that Thomas used an anonymous app called Session, which lacks age verification and metadata tracking, to communicate with Haley and evade detection. They also found sexually explicit material of Haley and another minor on his devices, and traced his movements to an Airbnb and Wayne National Forest. Thomas was charged with pandering sexually oriented material and tampering with evidence, and police concluded Haley was deceased, prompting recovery efforts.
The case sparked advocacy for "Haley’s Law," which includes a Pink Alert system for high-risk missing persons, expanded definitions of missing children, and stronger online protections for minors. Indiana passed related legislation in 2026, including parental consent requirements for social media use by under-16s. The host emphasizes the importance of educating children about online grooming, maintaining open communication, and using resources like the Child Rescue Coalition. She also highlights fundraising efforts through Haley’s Army and her foundation, Higher Hope, to support victims’ families and promote systemic change.
FAQs
Haley Busby was a 17-year-old student from Fishers, Indiana, who dreamed of becoming a journalist and worked as a server. She was described as a bright, hardworking, and caring young woman.
Haley was lured from her home in January 2026 by 39-year-old Tyler Thomas, who had groomed her online for a year. She was murdered, and her case led to widespread advocacy for online safety reforms.
Tyler met Haley through online platforms like Discord and gaming sites such as Roblox and League of Legends. He then moved their conversations to the anonymous app Session to avoid detection.
The Pink Alert is a proposed alert system to notify the public when a missing person shows credible risk indicators, such as online grooming, coercion, or exploitation, even if they left willingly.
Haley's Law is a legislative proposal inspired by Haley's case, aiming to prevent similar tragedies through a Pink Alert system, modern predator and grooming education for students, and additional child protection measures.
Indiana expanded the legal definition of a missing child to include high-risk missing persons and passed a law requiring social media platforms to get parental consent for users under 16.
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