Feminine Energy Is The SECRET

Hello priestess perspective family. Oh my gosh, it's been so long since we've posted a podcast episode I feel like I say that every single time I'm really trying to nail down the consistency, but you know what? It is what it is. The podcast hits you guys know. And today for today's episode, I'm on a walk and I decided why not record, while I'm in flow. I miss you so much you guys. We have wow only a month left of 2024. I have so many thoughts on this year. I'll save it for the next episode. This was an interesting year. It definitely definitely was. So we'll talk more about that next week or you know at some point before the new year. But in today's episode, as you guys know, I officially launched my Princess Treatment Academy, my monthly membership, and we have hundreds of girls inside. I have never been more excited and more happy with a program that I've launched. And the community in there is so beautiful out of all of my programs. PTA is the most community centered program. We had our first group call and oh my god, we have challenges. We have people meeting up like it is so feminine. It's so the vibe. It's so community collaboration, centric. I'm obsessed. And in today's episode, I wanted to talk a bit more about feminine energy. And I actually have a podcast episode that I made probably at this point. I want to say maybe six months to a year ago. Unfeminine energy is called feminine energy 101. You should definitely check it out. It's a great episode. I also have an episode called How To Attract a High Value Man, both of which are phenomenal. But in today's episode, I wanted to talk about how I transitioned more into feminine energy and recognizing just how not only necessary this transition for me was, but also how powerful it was and how I had the most effed up understanding of feminine energy, the most effed up relationship with feminine energy ever. And I'm so wow, like it's been a transformation. The last I want to say honestly here has been the most like transformative in the sense of feminine energy, although I've always known its power. And I funny enough, I mean one of the big places I've used feminine energy, I mean was my career. My you know, I started this business and my business is where I feel like I rely the most on feminine energy. I pretty much started my business on feminine energy alone. And my business like teaches on manifestation and manifestation, I feel like is one of the most the most concrete examples of feminine energy, if not the purest form of feminine energy, because it relies on trusting the universe to provide something to you, not through your doing, but through your being, through your belief in the universe to provide for you, through your trust in the universe to deliver for you. And that is feminine energy. And so I don't even know where to begin for today's episode, but I let me know if you relate. Where do I begin? I mean before I even knew about feminine and masculine energy, I had a bit of a crisis in my life where I mean I had a few, one of the crises was I was attracting dusty men into my life. You know, I was attracting men into my life who needed saving men who I was treating like build a bear workshop. I was building them up. Men that I resented because I felt like I was always the more ambitious one, the one providing more, the one planning more, the one contributing more, the one who had to hold it together. I attracted men that were, you know, like I feel like they were benefiting. Like I feel like I was getting so much less than I was giving. And I felt like I was attracting honestly just, you know, feminine guys. And that actually translated into my intimacy between us where I was like, wow, why am I not able to feel pleasure? Why am I not enjoying this? Why am I not turned on? And I just had this a crisis where it was like when I did come into contact with men who I really adored and I really was attracted to who were these like, you know, I didn't know it at the time, but these more masculine men, these men who are providers, these men who had that provider instinct, these men who had drive and were, you know, driven by doing and providing and protecting and being that divine masculine energy, I was getting chronically ghosted by them. And so my relationship was fucked. All my relationships were fucked at the time. Even the ones I was attracting were ghosting me. It wasn't sticking. I felt like I was repelling the kind of men that I wanted and the only men that I would attract at the end of the day would be men that were, I would soon come to realize men in their feminine energy where, you know, I was always the one who was kind of holding the relationship together. And I was the planner. I was the doer. I was the more ambitious one. I was the more successful one. I was the one where the entire lifestyle was dependent on me. And I didn't feel an equal exchange, let alone, you know, a profound exchange. And so at the time it was interesting because my career was taking off like, oh my god, I mean, I was, my career was popping off. I was making more money than I had ever expected to make in my life. I went from broke to, you know, really financially well off at a really young age. I was popping off. And yet in my relationships, I wasn't being spoiled the way I was in my career. And I really didn't understand this because I was also super confident in myself. I loved myself. I thought it looked pretty hot, you know, and I was getting a lot of mail tension. But it wasn't the kind of attention or energy that I was desiring. Not only that, but I actually started to gain a lot of weight, developed PCOS, which if you don't know, PCOS is actually access testosterone, and developed PCOS, gained weight. And so, and all the while, too, now in my business, you know, though it started with feminine energy, I started to implement a bit of that. I would soon come to realize more masculine structure in my business, kind of over relying on the masculine. And because of that, I was starting to burn myself out. I was starting to overwork myself. I started my business with pleasure, with play, enjoying, loving the work I was doing, recognizing that it was changing lives, focusing on impact, right? And eventually my business became so masculineized that it all boiled down to numbers. And I started equating my worth with how much money I'd be making each month, or the numbers I'd be hitting, or the analytics we were having, or if this video popped off, or if that video popped off, despite the impact that I was having, despite, you know, the way I felt. And so I started to not only resent the partners that I was attracting, not only was I resenting my business and my career, even though it was providing me, you know, this lifestyle that I wanted. I started to resent it because it always felt like this battle that I couldn't win. I was always, you know, working towards the next thing, and the goal post kept moving. And I kept doing and doing, and doing, and forgetting why I even started this in the first place. And then I started to resent myself because I was letting myself go. I wasn't even there for myself. I wasn't enjoying my life. I was looking at the time thinking, wow, this year flew by faster than, you know, any year a semester would go by, two semesters would go by while I was in college. And I was like, you know, and, and so even post grad, like, yeah, a year went by in a blink of an eye. I couldn't even, you know, realize, oh my god, a week just passed in. What even happened? Because I was sat there focused so much on the next thing and the next thing that I never found myself grounded in the present in play, in pleasure. And it came to a point where I was like, number one, I was confused why I was not attracting the sort of men that I was hoping to attract. But secondly, I mean, everything in my life was falling apart, Though the mask at times helped me in my business and in my career, it destroyed me in my, it destroyed me in every other aspect of my life, my body, myself, my worth, my, you know, whatever it was, relationships, my weight, my, just like overall fulfillment. And so at the time, I actually didn't know much about masculine and feminine energy. In fact, I loved masculine energy at the time or so. I thought, I always, I always told people I was like, I love being in control. I love having control. I love the concept of control. I love like the safety of control. I love the safety of the masculine essentially, right? That was what I loved was how safe the masculine felt. And, you know, how safe it felt to always work towards the next thing. Always be on the move. Never relax. Never receive, right? Always be the one to only provide for myself. Never let anyone else take care of me. There was a safety in that, right? And when you dive deep into like why that is, at the time I thought, well, I like it because it's what can make me successful, right? And at the time I thought it was masked with this disguise of the masculine feels safe. It feels like I, everything is in my hands. And if anything goes wrong, the only person who blame is me, right? And the masculine just felt more like, you know, though it was hard work, it was at least, it was, you know, giving fully in, doing. It just felt more active. And that is what the masculine is, right? And I actually at the time hated feminine energy. I thought the whole concept of delegating, the concept of trusting others, the concept of allowing others to provide for you, the concept of, you know, yeah, being taken care of, expecting others to take care of you, being present, the concept of enjoying and celebrating achievements rather than moving on to the next milestone. Like feminine energy felt not just weak to me, but it felt so unsafe. And again, it was disguised as, well, of course it's weak because it's not in your hands and da-da-da. But when I really dove deep one time until like, why do I feel this obsession with control, right? Why do I feel like I have to constantly control, not just my business, not just, you know, my body, not just everything, but even, you know, in my relationships, like, I was out here doing love spells. You guys, like, I was out here doing love spells, trying to control outcomes that weren't serving me, trying to manifest people into my life, that were not serving me. I couldn't fathom that maybe things were leaving my life because there was a higher, better purpose, a better path for me to walk down, right? It felt almost ego-tistical because it was like, I know best, right? And I should be the one in control. Like, it really, you know, when I dug deep into why I had this obsession with control and eventually realized an obsession with the masculine and not just obsession, but a safety within it, I realized it was because I had to be in my masculine growing up, because I had to provide for myself. In fact, the only form of love I felt was when I would provide for me. That was where I felt safe. I felt safe when, you know, because, you know, money was take growing up, things were hard. I, you know, whatever. I had to hustle my ass off growing up, right, to get to a point where I finally felt safe, where I finally could give myself the love I've always wanted, the safety I've always wanted, and so safety and love, to me, felt like providing, not receiving, but providing. I never felt safe in the feminine. In fact, the feminine was terrifying to me growing up, and of course so, because, you know, like I didn't have people to fall back on or trust, growing up first and foremost in New York City, second of all, eastern Slavic culture. If you know, you know, third of all, as an immigrant, you know the vibes. Like that's a recipe for disaster when it comes to feminine energy. And I think I, yeah, as a trauma response, I dove so deep into the masculine, I found so much safety in the masculine, and I became almost fully an embodiment of masculine energy. I didn't trust feminine energy, I never relied on it, I never dove into it. Actually, funny enough, the first encounter of feminine energy that I had was manifestation, and that's where the miracles in my life poured in, blowing up on social media on the first try, on the first video I posted, right? Starting a business day one, first post the one viral already had a business ready to go, right? All these miracles that started flooding in, the manifesting scholarships, right, in college being taken care of financially by the universe, right? All that happened when I started to manifest, when I let go of control, and when I trusted in the divine, then miracles, without me doing a single thing, without me lifting a finger, right? Miracles came to me, or one small little step turned into a mile for me, and that is the power of feminine energy, but see, I for so long did not trust it. I thought with everything in life, I have to be in control, I have to work for it, I have to hustle, I have to do, I have to be the active participant, I can't trust people. And well, yes, for some people, that gives you this safety net in your head, and in a lot of ways, I think, especially in the early stages of my business, once the feminine took me off, but eventually it was the masculine that pushed me forward. So in a lot of ways it felt like, wow, masculine energy is getting me so far until I hit this dead end of burnout. And I realized, the while yes, I felt so safe in the masculine, the masculine was actually destroying everything in my life. And so, I didn't realize at the time that it was masculine and feminine energy, it was only once I started really diving into self-reflection on why I was only attracting feminine men, why I was repelling certain guys that I stumbled upon this concept of like, well, I started looking at the guys that I was trying to attract and who the women they were going towards, they were gravitating towards where, right? And we were very different. And I almost felt envy at first because I was like, wow, these women, that these guys I'm so enthralled by, the women they go for, they're so much less ambitious than me. There's so much less, you know, some of them had less degrees than me and less, you know, success than me. And I realized, yeah, yeah. These men, they are not drawn to success or ambition. That doesn't mean they won't go for an ambitious or successful or doing active woman, a woman who's obsessed with work and obsessed with accomplishment and leads with her accomplishments. It's not about that they will never go for a woman who's super successful. In fact, this probably a plus, right? But these men are not going to gravitate towards a woman who leads with her accomplishments as her identity. Those men were not going towards women who lead with their doing, with what they do. Instead, these men were attracted to women who lead with their being, who lead with this energy of giving men space to provide for them and giving the space to receive. And this is a very delicate thing to understand because sometimes you really have to see it in action and understand what this looks like. But this is where I basically discovered a really big problem that I was witnessing, not just with me, with a ton of my friends, with family members, who also were immigrants, where there was this crisis of women who were overly ambitious, super successful, super driven, super go getters who were suffering, not just in their romantic life, but in all aspects of life, right? Because they have over relied on the masculine and have not learned to trust the feminine, okay? And so this doesn't mean that we cannot tap into the masculine. We all have both energies within us. I always think of it as when you raise a child ideally you have the masculine and the feminine to raise your child. It needs both to you know kind of be created. I mean essentially in order to have a child you need both the masculine and the feminine for the creation Right and so we as humans are the same way. We have to embody both however if you are someone who wants and desires to be in receiving mode to do less but attract more to attract a partner who is a provider who is you know also ambitious and super successful and super driven and we'll go and move mountains to make your dreams happen for you while you create yours as well who isn't his king energy right if you want to attract that partner who's giving you that pookie treatment you know who just like makes it so obvious that they are willing to put in the effort for you are willing to do anything for you and provide for you and make you feel like you can lean back, relax, receive, be in a pleasurable state right in order to attract that energy if we're thinking about the law of polarity if you want to be in what is essentially the feminine energy or you want to I'm sorry attract a masculine energy into your life then you have to embody feminine energy and I and it just like hit me one day where I was like oh my god this all makes sense the reason excuse me the reason that I have been pushing away all the men that I was desiring who were super in their masculine was because I was leading with my masculine I led with all my accomplishments I led with who what I was doing what I could do for them I led with like I didn't even give them the space to be in the energy that they wanted to be in which is masculine providing energy you know like when we'd walk up to a door I'd be running to the door to open it because I felt bad to make them open it for me the second we'd park the car before I could give them a chance to walk around the car and open the door for me I'd already be opening the door for me right this second the bill would come out I'd be reaching for my wallet I was leading in my dating life like a man like someone in their masculine energy and so of course they were not attracted to that or polar or sorry magnetized to that and so it was a huge like what the fuck moment right not to mention I just realized I can't do this shit anymore like I just refuse to be a woman to literally eventually have to be the mother of my children go through pregnancy right go through you know giving up essentially you know months and months of my life to creating a human being but not feel like I'm with a partner who is supporting me through that journey like I could not fathom that and I know that as women like we go through periods we go through you know all the things the world throws at us I mean I could go into detail and to be with someone that I also not just have to you know be a woman around but I also have to mother them and be the masculine around them I couldn't bear that thought and the resentment was eating me alive because it angered me how could I as a woman living in a world designed by men for men be not only doing better than you but be in the provider seat be in the drivers seat insane just absolutely insane and so when I enclosed my eyes and I envision my life flash forward two years five years ten years I was mortified by the reality of what my but by not stepping into my feminine energy what my life could become and the things I would regret and the life I wouldn't want to live and the resentment that it would eat me alive and the kind of partners I would attract who I wouldn't want to be with and I'm so grateful I recognize the power of the feminine which we're going to dive into in a second but it was just one of those moments of like oh my god and I even realized like in intimacy like the reason that I was not able to feel pleasure was because I was in my masculine energy and intimacy for a woman is all about leaning back relaxing allowing in right receiving literally opening up right opening up to doing like it's it's insane when you think about the biology of all this too and how it literally coincides with these energies right it's truly magical but so any who's magu's so yeah I had all these realizations I realized that the reason I wasn't able to lose weight was because I was obsessed with control and I was obsessed with like I was so obsessed with controlling my body that I couldn't let go of the weight like I was obsessed with I was almost like the masculine was so tense that I was like holding onto the weight to a degree that I could no longer let it go like physically off of my body and not just that like that was an energetic you know that's on an energetic level but on a more like literal level like I would not be able to you know release the PCOS and whatever if I didn't step into my feminine right to reduce my cortisol levels to reduce my stress levels my body felt safe to let go of the weight if you didn't know this and I'm not a doctor obviously consulted doctor but the human body when you're in a state of fighter flight what does the human body have to do has to store your fat for survival right and so of course it's harder to lose weight when you're in fighter flight when you're not getting sleep when you're not taking care of yourself and the essence of feminine energy is not sacrificing everything to get more done sacrificing your health sacrificing your mental health sacrificing your beauty sacrificing the self for productivity that that's masculine the feminine is about pouring into you and seeing way more results by doing so you see what I mean and so let's talk about what the feminine energy is all about and by the way if this is hitting go down join princess treatment account to be down below because I'm going to be giving you the step by step tangible step by step on how to step into your feminine energy in relationships in life in business the psychology behind the masculine and feminine the psychology of how to attract the type of man that you are trying to attract right and while we have so many we have subliminals in there we have workbooks in there it's genuinely the most amazing thing and I think it's only 67 a month crazy cancel anytime down below that being said um the feminine energy so it's funny I started my business on feminine energy and manifesting is feminine energy feminine energy manifesting for example is all about letting go of the how I teach this in manifest magic fuck the how the how is not your responsibility only the desire is and the conviction in the desire and your belief that the desire is possible and your trust in the universe and in relationships and anything in life it's exactly the same and that is the essence of feminine energy it is not your job to get it done to do to do do do it is your job to be it is not about what you can do it is about who you have to become let's say you want to hit a certain income in your business right a certain monthly revenue in your business let's say you want to start hitting hundred came months it is not about what you have to do right to get to that point it's about who you have to be who you have to be on camera what kind of energy you have to pour into yourself life experiences so that you become a magnet to the kind of clients that you want to attract see there are people who do outreach okay they're calling people asking them to buy their product their cold calling companies they're you know doing sales calls they're doing xyz and the other and that's not necessarily a bad approach but there's something so sexy something so magnetizing in something that is so 10x that about feminine energy about becoming someone who is such an energetic match to her clients she's practically speaking their language that they hear her podcast and they say I'm signing the fuck They hear her talk about her own life and go buy her products, right? And that's probably what you're going to do. Why? Because I pour into me. I pour into myself. I pour into my own life experiences, my own relationships, my own self, my self development, right? And I therefore become a magnet for the exact kind of client I want to attract. And because I've poured into me, and because I take the time to, for example, right now, I'm going on my 10K stop walk, I become the person, right? I've become the person who can attract the sort of clients I want. Now, let's say I didn't do the self development work, right? It doesn't matter how much I could talk to you about feminine or masculine energy. If I haven't gone through that experience and that transformation myself, you could give less of a shit, right? I can't speak to the exact experience of what that's like and the pain of that and like all the things, you know what I'm saying? So to me, my business has always been on the business side of things. It's always been about doing less, but attracting more, right? So that's why, for example, I, instead of working solely one-on-one with clients, although I do work with someone on one clients, instead of only working one-on-one with clients, I have passive income. I have courses. I have offers where it's one to many, right? And so not only is that expanding my wealth and abundance, right? To a degree that people can't necessarily maybe even reach one-to-one, right? But it's expanding my impact in the world, the amount of people I'm reaching, right? The amount of people that reach each other. So that when I pour into me, when I'm on vacation, by the way, my engagement is the highest. I go viral, right? Like when I pour into me, my videos are exploding on the internet. People always ask me, how do you go viral? Babe, feminine energy. Feminine energy. I focus on impact and intuition in my business more than logic. That doesn't mean I don't also make sure my team handles the analytics and the logic and the back end, right? I outsource the masculine so I can focus on the feminine. But the feminine is really the core of my business's success because I have acted on things that people have told me. That's a stoop. That's a stupid idea. That's a stupid decision. It felt intuitively, right? It felt like a fuck yes. And I trust my gut, right? When it comes to relationships, I started to lean back. I started to not just expect my partners to provide for me and not entertain partners that wouldn't, by the way, right? There's a level of self-worth and self-respect to that comes with the feminine that comes with someone who's the princess and the queen, right? You respect yourself enough to be like, I'm not entertaining someone that isn't worth my time. But also, I trusted that the men that I was dating would step up, would come to the table and actually make it happen. So not only was I expecting it, I was trusting it. And there's something crazy that happens when you trust not just your romantic partners, but your friends, your team, right? If you're in a workspace, right? So when you have this belief going into it, oh, they're never going to, they're never going to do this. They'll never buy me flowers. When you have those preconceived ideas and those beliefs, you're not giving a man the space or the respect, right? Because for him to step up to be a king, he has to feel like you think he's a king. And so, oh my God, I could go into this for hours and hours. But in relationships, I started receiving and I stopped feeling guilty or uncomfortable receiving because that was another big thing where I felt this extreme discomfort, this feeling like if someone's providing for me, not just romantically, but even platonically, like, oh my God, I have to return the favor immediately. And instead, I started viewing it as like my acceptance of this, my ability to graciously receive is the gift because when I provide for someone and I give someone something, it means so much to me when they graciously receive it and they are so like appreciative of it. They're like, oh my God, like this means so much to me. Like, thank you so much versus, oh my God, no, let me absolutely, I cannot take this. Absolutely like no under no circumstance. Can I accept this? You know what I mean? There's a different energy and it's so feminine to receive and be appreciative and to allow it in to feel comfortable receiving. Does that sound like something within intimacy as well, right? And so, it was a total shift and when it came to my body and how I lost the weight, a lot of it was intuition, right? One of the most feminine things in the world is intuition. I started to be so intuitive with my body, I started hearing my body signals that I didn't want to hear for a long time. I started honoring my intuitive signals. I started to make working out pleasurable, right? And by working out, I mean, I literally started walking 10 K steps and calling friends on my walks. That to me helped me lose 20 plus pounds versus all the insane workouts that had me crying in the gym, right? And there's a difference. That's masculine. The other is feminine, right? Feminine energy is about making things pleasurable because when you feel good, you do good, you do more, you are more, right? And so, I think so often, we think we have to speed up to do more, but sometimes we have to slow down to accomplish more. Sometimes we have to enjoy it more, right? Sometimes we have to turn the music on and get naked and dance in front of the mirror, sometimes we have to make it a beautiful experience and we'll want to do it that much more. When we forget why we do the things we do in the first place, right? And so, I could talk about feminine energy a gazillion times, like I could talk about it for so many more hours. We're already 36 minutes in, but to sort of start wrapping it up. It was crazy when I stepped into my feminine and I started to realize that I could honor my body's desire, deep desire that I had been convincing myself I didn't want, convincing myself that it did not feel safe, right? When I started to honor my body's desire to feel provided and protected for by people in my life by the energy of my life and to step into an energy where I could balance the masculine and the feminine, but still lead from that feminine state and become a magnet for everything I desired in life. I started to do so much less, be so much more present, be so much more excited, happy, enjoying my life and I was attracting 10 times more. I had a million dollars in my business. I lost 20 plus pounds. I manifested my dream relationship. I stopped attracting dusties. I felt the most confident I'd ever felt. I had 2.5 million followers on TikTok. I'm almost at 900K on Instagram. My life, it was like I was doing nothing but attracting everything. It was like, it was giving queen energy where she doesn't have to lift a finger and the nights deliver her desires to her and it's all about the command. The queen commands a certain sort of respect, a certain sort of delivery. When the queen demands something in a feminine way, it is delivered to her, not by her doing but by her being. And so, I no longer was attracting partners that I resented. I was no longer attracting, you know, weight that I couldn't like go of or a workout routine that I fucking despised or resented, right? Everything about my life became so much more intuitive, happy, pleasurable. And I'm so grateful. I've realized this at this point in my life and not later because I think so many women, you know, and it's never too late, by the way. I mean, it doesn't matter if you're married, if you're single, if you're 85, wherever you are in life, you probably heard this at the time that you were meant to hear it. It is never too late, but the fact that you heard it now means, you know, it's a sign. And yeah, I'm so excited if you want to join what you really should. Princess Treatment Academy, our monthly membership, it is genuinely so insanely good. The women in there are already attracting the men of their dreams or better yet, a lot of them are recognizing how much they love themselves, how confident they feel in themselves. They're buying themselves flowers and they're for attracting men. Dispoiled them with flowers, right? We had girls over there getting like flown out going on like luxury dates Oh my god so much more check out my Testimonials my pta wins on the Instagram story if you want to see more, but it's just the most Astronomical things and it's so fast. It's like overnight and that's the way it was for me. 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