Feminine Energy 101: Make Him CHASE, Relax To Receive, Get Paid To EXIST

Hello everyone and welcome back to the priestess perspective. I am your host hot high priestess and I'm so excited for today's episode. We're going to be talking all things feminine energy, manifesting with ease, relaxing to receive and how to get anyone to chase you. Oh my god, I'm so excited for this. Before we jump and I did just want to say thank you to everyone for rating the podcast five stars. If you haven't already, please do so as you know as a girl with ADHD, it really motivates me to show up. So I just wanted to say thank you guys so much. We come out with a new podcast episode every Sunday. So be on the lookout and make sure you have those notifications on. I just love you guys so much and I've been absolutely loving the podcast. Thank you guys for giving me a space to do this. Yeah, so today's episode is going to be all things feminine energy and you know this is a difficult topic because the truth is I think my for the majority of my life I have and many of you might relate to this. I've always felt like I've been in my masculine and I don't know why that is I don't know if it's because of the way that I grew up and I felt like I had to be in my masculine energy or if I just felt safer in my masculine or if I've always associated masculine energy with success and accomplishment, right? I've always been a very driven person. You probably are as well watching this very driven, very ambitious. I love growth and I love reaching my maximal potential. And I've always associated that with masculine energy like in the sense of well and by the way if you guys don't know the difference between masculine and feminine energy, masculine energy is action. It is giving. It is providing. It is doing and doing and doing whereas feminine energy is receiving. It is doing less but getting more. Feminine energy is about sitting back. It's about inviting energy in rather than being the attendee so to speak. And I think for most of my life I was in this sort of masculine energy because I think to a degree it was because it was like a survival instinct sort of but to another degree I just I kind of liked the energy. I still to this day would consider myself pretty masculine. And it's interesting. I always ask my friends when I see them. I'm like, do you think I'm more feminine or masculine in my energy? And I'll leave it as a question actually down below as a poll but I wonder what you guys see me as but I definitely present very feminine but energy wise which is totally different. Feminine energy has nothing to do with appearance and everything to do with aura. I feel like my aura can sometimes come across as very masculine in the sense that I love things like money and business and achievement and growth and all the good stuff I make haper corn which is a very masculine energy. I've always been a provider and I think in in part that was because I had to be. There was no one providing for me so I had to provide for myself. Masculine energy and relationships is so interesting because when you're in your masculine you will attract inevitably a feminine character or feminine characters. Everything in life is polarity and this is certainly true in relationships and dating. I realized when I was in my masculine energy that I was starting to really attract like feminine guys and I didn't quite like dislike it. I actually quite liked being a provider. I don't know why I just did. I really liked being the best and feeling as though I could provide for someone and take care of someone. It's strange. I feel like that was how I showed love because that was how I showed myself love. For so long I was like well this is all I've ever known as self love is just like giving, giving, giving, working hard providing. And once I felt like I was in a place in life where I was good you know I was making I was running my successful business. I was kind of just like very very happy and content with life with my finances with my self love journey. I very quickly started to step into feminine energy but it became this weird balance and I'm just assuming that a lot of the people watching this men and women are very successful and I feel like something people don't often talk about is how to be like a successful woman and also be in your feminine energy. It's not easy. So once I felt like things were good in my life I stepped a bit more into feminine energy and this was not easy to do by the way. I don't think it ever is as a woman especially successful as a successful woman as a woman who has been in her masculine her whole life. I started I think like you know the femininity trend really took off on like TikTok and stuff and I think I started to like play around with it in my life before I let it seep into my dating life. I think I just like tested it out in my normal everyday life. You know for example you know I'd be at the airport and I would just like walk down the aisle of the airplane and I'd like wait just a brief second before going to like lift my bag up and I'd give it a second you know and I tap into that feminine energy of I'm taking care of I am provided for people take care of me I'm okay with receiving. As soon as I tapped into that feminine energy people were like especially men were eager to help me were eager to provide for me like men started to carrying my bags for me or ask if I wanted help and for so long in my life I'd be like no no no like I've got this dead a dog but feminine energy is all about receiving and I really tapped into this in like every aspect of life. I would just like found comfortability and almost an expectation in being in receiving mode in being provided for in others giving to me you know it's it's like you're either going to be one or the other and that doesn't mean like I don't also give and provide but when need be I tap into that feminine energy and allow the receiving mode to turn on and so it's it started with like just like regular things in my everyday life especially around men just you know allowing them to step in and be the provider be the helper be the educator and the masculine energy right the masculine counterpart and eventually I started to feel a bit more comfortable integrating it into my love life and I fell in love with it I fell in love with the fact that you know men were now providing for me that when you set this expectation like I am in my feminine energy this is the expectation is that I'm cared for I'm taking care of I'm provided for this is what I expect I am worthy of receiving and I'm comfortable in receiving mode in receiving energy the shift occurs very quickly like men it went from like me being the provider in relationships on dates to men providing for me men picking me up men calling me ubers men making sure you know I get home safe opening the door for me checking in on me making sure I feel secure men taking the lead taking initiative and men can only really ever step into that masculine energy when you remember everything is a polarity it's when you step into that feminine energy of expectation to receive but it's crazy like how fast the shift happened and for a while I did question I was like is this what I really want and I do want to like have a little bit of a hot take here I don't think women have to be in feminine energy in fact I actually think there's a stigma around women in their masculine energy or even like a mediocre like balanced energy I think too often what I'm hearing as a narrative lately is that women have to be in their feminine you know you have to be like super in your feminine energy soft life this that and I just don't feel like that has to be the case I don't feel like we have to necessarily have this active effort to be in a feminine energy right like I feel like you've got to do what feels natural because otherwise you're putting on an act but there are small things that we can do that aren't necessarily going against our own instinct and who we are as individuals but you know allow us to live a softer life effortlessly right so for example something like being comfortable receiving it's a really good trait to have especially when you're not used to receiving. So, there's obviously the romantic aspect to feminine energy, but I think feminine energy also is largely apparent in finances. I mean, this is the name of the game. I teach the concept of I get paid to exist. I have a very fundamental belief, a very strong fundamental belief that I don't have to struggle or work hard or hustle or grind to make a shitload of money to live my dream life, to afford the luxuries of life. I don't, I simply do not do that because I don't aspire for that. I love this off life. I love being able to wake up at any time in the morning. I love experiencing luxuries of life whenever I want without having to work for it, right? Like, struggle for it. And when you have a very masculine energy, right, it's this, I, we embody this idea and this energy of like, I have to really, really hustle, hustle, hustle. I, you know, we operate from the reality of, what do I have to do to achieve X? Rather than what is the energy I need to be in to achieve X? See, manifestation in its pure essence is feminine energy. If we boil it down to one thing, it is feminine energy. It is using, it is the energy of invitation. You are creating the invitation from the universe or to the universe, rather to give to you. Immigration energy is all about receiving. Now, so often people struggle to manifest because they're super tapped into the masculine. They're always thinking, what do I have to do to make this happen? And it's a concept I teach in my manifestation workshop being, fuck the hell. You know, when like, it's not your responsibility to know how the thing will come to be in your reality. You have to invite it in and sit in the energy of, I'm ready to receive this. I've been ready, been born ready. It's an expectation you have. You're not sitting there contemplating all the hard work you're going to have to do to make 10,000, 50,000, 100,000 dollars a month. You expect it and you allow the universe to show you how to get there in the easiest way possible that's feminine energy. And the same goes in your love life. You don't have to work hard for a man to respect you, to buy you flowers. This is an expectation now that you have. When you go on a date with a guy, you're not sitting there thinking, what do I bring to the table? You're asking, what does he bring to the table? You're not sitting there asking yourself, how can I impress him? How can he impress me that's feminine energy? And when the tables turn like that, you'll see how fast a man will chase after you. Chasing is masculine energy. Attracting is feminine energy. You don't have to do more to make more, to get more, to attract more. You actually have to do less. There's actually a concept I teach in business, which is that it's something one of my business mentors taught me actually, which is that simple skills, complex fails. Truly doing less can make you more. And if you truly embody this belief so deeply that it becomes ingrained in you, they get to sit back and look pretty and enjoy life and relax and still live in abundance and still receive. That's where the change happens. Now, a lot of us are as women, unfortunately, especially in today's society conditioned to believe not only we're taking on the feminine role, we're taking on the masculine role as well. I think one of the game changers for me and my mindset was when I realized at least on a romantic level as women, our existence alone is already deserving of the masculine energy. That's why in nature, this is how it was designed. We are creators, not just in the womb, but in everything. We as women are inherently deserving of receiving. I think when I realized like as women, the power that we have innately in our biology, we are queens. We own the kingdom of the human species. The human species relies on us and our power as women that is inherent to women. To femininity, unique to femininity. And that in and of itself warrants and deserves to live in a constant free flowing, soft, effortless state of receiving, of relaxation, of happiness, of being provided for. That is all to say, like the truth is we do live in a society where we as women are extremely successful and a lot of that success did come in part due to masculine energy. It is hard to balance feminine energy and masculine energy when we are so successful. But the truth is if anything being successful warrants even more receiving energy. We deserve even more of a provider at that point. I just think it's an interesting discussion. When people say I don't chase, I attract, it's real. When you chase, you repel. And if you want anything in this life, you have to be in an attracting energy, not a chasing energy. You know, in essence, feminine energy is about knowing your worth because you're basically saying like I am deserving of receiving. It's about feeling comfortable, feeling okay with sitting in that receiving energy. I think a lot of women struggle with that today, like being okay with just receiving for the sole reason of your existence. That literally goes back to I get paid to exist. Like your existence is so valuable in and of itself that it warrants survival, that it warrants a luxurious life. And that's a concept I have embodied financially. So so much. And the truth is I like made my first say $100,000 in business like purely from a feminine energy alone. Like I was so much in the receiving energy of like I am worthy of this. I am amazing. I am worthy. I am valuable. So of course I'm going to receive this and I'll be okay with receiving this. In fact, I think so many people could benefit in their businesses and their careers. Getting into that feminine energy saying I'm ready to receive. I'm ready for more. I'm ready to be provided for because me, my presence is a blessing. I don't subscribe to the belief that you have to grind away to be in abundance, to be in more abundance. I just don't, I don't believe in that because I'm living proof that it doesn't have to be difficult. You don't have to be in the masculine energy for these things to occur. I'm not saying there weren't days where I didn't tap into masculine energy. I love tapping into masculine energy but it's important to strike a balance. And often time there is this notion that masculine energy is the only way to succeed. And that simply isn't the case. I challenge you to look at your everyday interactions and challenge yourself to tap into this feminine energy. Make the decision when you step outside. Today I'm tapping into feminine energy. I'm going to allow myself to be in the flow of receiving. And you'll notice maybe you give people a minute before you do something. And you'll notice, wait, that minute that I just waited, invited an energy of this guy's asking to load my groceries in the car for me. You're in your feminine energy and you're expecting that you're treated so abundantly and so well and you're provided for. And notice how when you have these assumptions and you're tapped into that energy, men suddenly want to spoil you. Like it's such an interesting phenomenon. And I want you to remember inherently that as a woman, if you are a woman or in whatever capacity, you are inherently worthy of being provided for. That is your power as a woman. It's so powerful. You don't have to do the work. You just have to exist. And once you really realize that and tap into that energy, the universe really does the work for you. It makes it easier. for you. Feminine energy in essence is also about like working smarter, not harder, doing less to make more. It's with being, you know, relaxing to receive. I was going through a bit of a mentee B in LA and I was like, honestly, I could really use a bit of a retreat right now. And most people would think, oh my god, taking a week-vit long vacation, like that's so fucking stupid, like how stupid could you be? Like you're gonna, you know, lose so much money. And guess what? I made more in sales during my one-week vacation than I did back in LA when I was hustling and grinding and on phone calls with my team, like me just being on the beach in relaxation mode enabled me that I could relax and in in in treating myself to that. In being in receiving mode, in being in this mode of relaxing when I do care for myself and believe that my existence is worthy of these luxuries of life, that that pays dividends in my life. Feminine energy is about doing the work on yourself and knowing that pleasure within feminine energy equals output. That is the beauty of it. I don't want you to view relaxation as a negative. No relaxation is you tapping into feminine energy to actually become a magnet for receiving. So long as you view your vacation, your relaxation, your self-care time, getting your nails done, getting your lashes done, as I am worthy of this, that these experiences tapping into pleasure pays off. It actually is my job. Like this is my job is to take care of myself to please myself. Notice how fast the universe rewards you for this. Now, we get to make the decision in life. We can either receive through masculine energy or feminine energy. A lot of people take the traditional route that is often encouraged in today's society of masculine energy. Work, work, work, work, work, hustle, struggle to get what you want. That works for if you choose to take that route. But sometimes there are going to be days where you choose to take the other route. Maybe that's the lifestyle you want to take upon yourself. Choosing the route of receiving, relaxing, focusing on self-love, focusing on your existence. I believe the best way to go about it is to strike a balance. I would say I'm very balanced between the two and I think it really benefits me. And I think that's the best way to go about it because you have the assets to utilize both when need be. Truly in life, yes, everything is in polarity, but also everything is in duality. So while when you are in your receiving energy, feminine energy, the universe will in fact provide and give to you and vice versa. In a sense, we also have to be utilizing both to fully maximize the gifts that life can offer us. It's important to know when to distinguish one from the other, when to tap into one versus the other. I do urge you and encourage you to try tapping into your feminine energy a little bit more. I mean, you'll fall in love with it. It's so amazing. And being provided for as a woman, I just feel so fucking good. Like this, it just feels biologically right to be honest with you. Like when a man is taking care of me, I'm like, this just feels great. Like yes. Like I love it. Anyway, I'm gonna end the episode on this note, but I love you guys so much. Feel free to grab my Manifest Magic Workshop linked down below. Use Code Lucky Girl for 10% off. It will change your life. It's my secret formula to how I've manifested everything I have in this life, my absolute dream life that I live today and the things I wish I knew sooner. Make sure you rate the podcast five stars and I love you to the moon and back. Bye.