328: Exposing Our Most Disgusting Habits...

Yeah In my head I was like pick whatever flavor that you're that your heart is leaning towards and in my head I was like I just hope he doesn't get the yellow Jack's on you that's all we had left. Yeah, that's all you have left and I kind of with you pineapple is my least favorite flavor Non-alcoholic. Oh really because I think pineapple and I taste it. It's always like oh a pineapple high noon a little pineapple white cloth I like it up with alcohol, but when I don't have alcohol and it just tastes like It's like I need a rum and it or a needs a needs a need some or like having a red bull straight up You're like, where's the vodka like he's I want to swim Pineapple flavored. That's what I'm talking about. Oh, it's actually really good by the way The or I thought the orange the yellow one was the orange one orange flavor. This is good. I like this You know how they like there's people that are talking about like how some fruits, you know They get like glorified juices like apple juice Orange juice grape juices. It's just like a good go-to fruit that they turn into juice and somebody was talking about like man Where's the banana juice? Oh, yeah, and I was so true. We only want banana smoothies I found a banana juice at the market down the street for me and I was like I got to try it for the plot because I was like There is no banana juice. How was it? I will say I'm not crazy about banana right, but I just had to do it If you're a banana lover highly recommend natural like natural flavored banana or like laughy-tappy banana flavor It tastes it tastes like real banana. Okay Yeah, it was it and I think that's what threw me off because I wanted the artificial banana right like I like that way more But it was like it was straight up banana water. I feel like that would run through me. I think you know what I can picture coconut water But it's just banana water. I was like I could I could I could picture it in that form like how the coconut water is in like the cocoa Yeah, but I need that cold. I need that cold. Yeah, it needs to be cold They cannot be fucking warm. You know what I didn't finish it. I couldn't finish it. Yeah, no, no I would but when I was in Korea, you know, I went over to the little 7 11 little family mart and we made the viral little milk Or banana milk ice coffees in the bag. Yeah, I think I've read me and Alicia have done it. Yeah that hit like the banana milk Mm-hmm. Really good. I've had banana milk more and more coffee shops around here. Can we normalize that? I've seen it. I've seen in some coffee shops like a little Milk soy milk almond milk all of the milk get to the banana milk. Oh Banana banana milk Banana Get it on the rag added to your coffee. It's life changing big in Korea. You know what they should have banana milk Just like where you like you go to the store you buy chocolate milk you buy a regular milk and you buy banana milk It hits I don't know if I would have just like a glass of banana milk. It's got you would just like Yeah, with a muffin. Oh, I'm not muffin with the side of banana milk. No, no, I want to do a banana. No muffin Chocolate. Chocolate chip muffin. You know, I do a chocolate chip muffin I'm curious like how like dairy heavy it is like is it like in all if there was a banana flavored almond milk I think I would like it but like right if it's if it's like whole milk and it's banana Yeah, make it a little bit more flavor because almond milk, you know, it tastes like two nutty like you want like a little bit of fat into it So banana is perfect a little bit of potas, you know, I like the I like the recipes I'm seeing in this filtered water organic bananas. Oh my very organic. We got gelan gum. We got potassium chloride. Oh, yes How is there not a brand called potassium? You know what I mean like think about the marketing on that very good You know what he I think you're on to something. No, I came up with a brand the other day in my head I was in the shower and I was like, uh, this is genius. I got a I got a figure out what the product is like I got a You know, it's just like a brand will come to you. Yeah, I got out. I told my rye about it She was like, okay, that's kind of good We sit down. We look it up. It's already done. Yeah, but it was a it was a one-off thing from a brand But I was like hear me out Glamo flush. Oh So am I guessing it's camo flush, but it looks cute, but it's okay It's like a make-up product type thing right or maybe maybe like a eye bag patches. Okay, but they're like camo It could be like a like I'm either a men's brand or a woman's brand or it's just like I don't know They're it kind of writes itself. Yes, we're trying to come up with like products But apparently it's already oh, yeah, I see it. I think the oh you know what the brand is called hard candy But they have an extension called glamofla glamofla. I was just pissed and I was Taking you know, well, you should still like give yourself credit that you still came over It was still an original idea in your head Yeah, you saw it on the right path. Yeah, he is her going. You got to keep going keep them keep them electrons. It's like a cadet Tell it like that Yeah, that's the camera flage back Instead of instead of less point instead of guns. It's the uh the ribbons the ribbons are flying to the face Yeah, that's that's some glamofla. She was she she walks out glamofla. I could run. That's true Exactly. I was thinking about that that or uh, it was going to be um prescription Visors in your car the glass Don't need to wear glasses while driving your windshield has a prescription built in that's a little harder But I see nobody else can drive your car. They're just shit But you know what he no one no one's gonna want to steal your car Imagine it is like take it. They're like oh fuck we can't see it. Yeah, but they just have to stick out their head out the window and drive That's it knowing just make it a little annoying for the people that was gonna rob your car, but anyway, you know Gears are going. It feels good. It's warm up. It's it's vocal warm up. You know, we're just doing our doing our part. Mm-hmm. How's Sherry? Um, let's roll the intro and I'll tell you. Oh, we got to hear perfect Uh-huh three two one. It's coffee towel baby. Let's go Oh I just saw that I shot I shot the I shot every I shot everybody. That was great. I thought everybody watching Welcome back to say the heath unfiltered. Yeah Oh, I'm he I'm mad and that's Jared welcome back to another episode I saw so many comments saying you break out Jared and so I had to but now I have to include every single time where you guys are going to be up my throat But welcome back to another episode. We are so glad you are here again. Thank you so much. Oh my god. Bless you. Bless your heart Um, but you ask you ask my mom for my mom. I mean, I've got my mom The update on your mom and for the people who may have missed the last episode just give the skinny all what she has gone under Yes, okay, so my mom just got surgery if you want to check out a little bit more on that last we talked about last episode But she got a rhinoplasty and facelift necklifts. She got the whole work. She got the whole The whole face rejuvenation Chris by Chris Jenner the king of the kibbutl. Yes. And shout out to Dr. Kvami. You are amazing Make sure to check him out if you're looking to do Anything like that. He is like literally the king of those jobs. So if you want to get that. Yeah Um, and uh, what was I gonna say? Yes. Today was day six of post-op It's been it's been a rough week my mom. It's like we've we've hit like I wouldn't even say highs just lows lows lows just like very emotional Very stressful. My mom's anxiety is just through the fucking roof anxiety for the place of like regret or like pain or just like What was just like just like what we talked about? It's like very like the state. You do something. You do something Um, pretty drastic. Yes, it would be a drastic impermanent And you're just like full of regret. You're full of panic like what the hell did I do? What the hell did I do? And that was like my mom was going through and I had to like constantly remind her like It's okay that you're feeling like this. You're literally on week one emotional timeline. Look at this Yes, everybody's you are on the same one. So don't worry And I have to like I'm constantly showing her different videos of women getting this done and in loving it right after and it's just like you just have to constantly like show her You women you're not alone so many people have done this. You're not the only person in the world that has undergone this. So Day six on was her appointment today, which was today was to follow up Yeah, but this was to take off her sutures. Okay. Yeah, this was to take off her thing And her and her splints so we could see what her nose is going to look like, but they're still very swollen. Of course But you're gonna see what it looks like. So it was a big day. We were all very nervous. Obviously like In the back of my head, I knew that it was gonna be good because again, he is really good the doctor So we knew that he was going to Not give her a button nose. That was like that. The main thing was my mom did not want a button nose Because you know, button nose are very common. A lot of girls want button noses when they go get a surgery But the thing is that sometimes button noses do not match your face. Yeah, right? Because sometimes girls will have like sharp features And you if you get a button nose, it just does not look like it belongs on your face. I feel like a lot of air Um, he's Persian. So I think um He his specialty is making sure What you're getting done still matches your face. It's important and he and he gets a heel get a lot of like Arab women And Arab women they'll like want certain noses and you just really want to tell them hey You got to stick with your feature implement. Yeah, you're just what you got going on And my mom was pretty good with that with her own decision She was just like I want to call them my my feet. You wanted to look natural. I don't I don't want to slope I don't want no button but a nose. I was like mom. Those are great like great things to tell him I feel like he's really gonna like yeah, so she's about to remove it and we're all just like But just how - Our hearts are beating. It's like, oh, please, please, please. And they pull it off. - And it looks so good. - Oh, yes, it looks so good. - It looks like she was supposed to have that nose. - Oh! - Like it looked like she was supposed to, like she was born with that nose and then something happened in her life and then it just fucking up hump, just like grow, grow out of her nose. - Yeah. - So it was like such a relief. My mom is so happy. - Oh good. - She's still like, I don't know. Like, I think she's still, like a, like a love. - It's still a kid. - It's still a kid. - But the one thing she was worried about was that fucking nose because who wouldn't be. And she is thrilled. And she's so happy with it, but it's still swollen, which is a very good sign. 'Cause a lot of people are not happy with it, but they're just like, no, like it's because it's swollen. - But that's good. - But she can already see the end of the road in what it's going to look like. And that's really great. Wait, we're going to see it like right now. Like how it looks. - Or you want to wait 'til it's fine. - 'Cause I have to, I'm doing a whole video for him. So I don't want to show it now. I would love to reveal for him the doctor to be in it too. But I will show it. I'm just not sure when I'm going to post it. I'm going to try to post it in like the next week or something. I'm going to do my best. Again, I'm like trying to make it like. - Yeah. - Good and fine. - Get your production in. - Yeah, yeah. And so, yeah. But she's doing good. And recovery is still a long way. It's going to be another like, you know, five weeks. You know, of just like swelling going down and all that. - My mom will be with me for another like month and a week. - So she's back at your house now. - She's at my house right now. - Yeah, yeah. She's just like, we posted her up right next to me in bed. Because she has to take her medication throughout the night. Like she has to take it at 1.30, 4.30, 7.30. So like constantly like wake up, give it to her, give it to her, give it to her. Just make sure she's up to speed on her meds. And she takes a lot too. It's like a bunch of different meds that help her anxiety, help her pain, help to swelling, help to bruising, help with like, because when you do undergo surgery like that, your body goes through so much. Like my mom needed it to take like stool softener because again, like your body is just like. - You constipated when you're on all the pain pills and stuff. - Yeah, you have to like really regenerate your body again. And you need to like, you need all this antibiotics. - How's she feeling with the pain now? Like is it kind of mellowed out? - It's definitely down. After taking off the bridge, she can, she can at least breathe. Now she couldn't fucking breathe. To imagine her having that thing. And you are so limited in breathing. 'Cause they do have like tiny, tiny holes now. Through it where it allows you to like just breathe. It's like, I looked up online, it says like breathing through a straw. - Oh. - Which sucks. - Is the reveal, is that where they pull out? I don't know if you guys have seen it, but it's like a really wide piece of plastic. Have you ever seen them pull that? - Yeah. - They did it always. - Or people get like deviated septum surgery. - Is that what that is? - It didn't look that wide, but it was definitely plastic. Like it was, it went round and pulled out. Yeah, it went round in her nostril and they pulled it out. It did it, it sounded satisfying as I was hoping it to be. I thought it was just gonna be this, like I thought it was gonna be this, but it was so silent. It fucking slipped right out. I was like, oh damn. I was really excited for this. I was genuinely excited. - I did it sounding, just making it. - Yesterday, I was so excited. I was like, because I love like, it was like that. - Just a little ASMR. - Yeah. - I didn't think it was a little medical. - I really wanted a little ASMR going on with that. But I didn't get it, but it's okay. As long as she loved her nose and she did. And I loved it too. It was a great nose. - Oh, I'm so relieved of that. - It did a good job. - She's like happy with even what she's seen so far in the recovery. That's really great. - I'll show you guys though. After it's, they did such a good job. Like it looks like she's excited to see it. - Yeah, yeah, looks good. - Well, well, you're, she's, what bedside next to you, but you're going to Coachella soon. What are you gonna? - So she's good now. - Oh, she's coming. - She's coming. - She's like facing him in his mouth. - Because we, I mean, we playing this all, it was either, she gets it April 1st or like down in like May, June. And we're, and it was like, mom, just letting you know, I am going to be out this weekend. Would you like it this is? So it was all like we, she was fully aware. - Yeah. - But I also did a ton of research obviously before a book to have like how many days is the worst? And the worst days I was still here. So I just wanted to make sure that I was still here on those days because she, she really needed help. Like you can't do that shit on your, especially even after like she left the aftercare center. - I clean her suture, like you still, there's still at home care that like somebody needs to do, which I was able to do after she left. - When you posted that great video of having that custom cake done for her at the dinner. - Who was at the dinner? Did she have like girlfriends coming into town? - Oh, no, no, no, no. So that was actually, her name is Sophie and she's actually the one that is, runs like the appointments and she's kind of like under Dr. Gabbani. - Okay, okay. - So sweet. She was like with my mom the whole time, she calls her every day. But they, they really like each other. So I told her we're having dinner and she came and my mom loves her and- - Love that. - They're just friends now, yeah. - Now, does your mom's like girlfriends like all know that she's getting this? Is she like hitting up the firemen going, "Guys, get ready for my new face." - Sorry. - She's only told like some family. - Okay. - And obviously some friends and all of you guys. (laughing) - Nobody in her life was watching this. So I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm going to, and my mom is obviously okay with me talking about this. But yeah, there are certain people that she didn't say yet and I think it's because you don't want to worry anybody yet. - Yeah. - Because a lot of them are already like, "Oh, send me pictures and I'm telling them I'm like, "Don't send them anything." Because like I, I know people, people are fucking mean. They're gonna take that picture. They're gonna show it to the, they're like, "Oh God, look what Sherry." - Yeah, it's like, it ruins the magic trick once you see how it's done. - Exactly. - It's like not, I don't know. - Like they don't understand that it's a process. They just think, "Oh, this is what it is." - Yeah. - And it's just like-- - It dawns the wow. - Yeah. - And even like my mom, she looked at herself yesterday. I told her not to. I was like, pleat, like-- - Oh, she looked in the mirror, Friday. - She did, she did look in the mirror. She, after six days, she couldn't help it anymore. She looked in the mirror and, um, and this was the night before they took off the thing. - Right. - So I was like, "Okay, like because I wanted to "swollen to go down before she saw it, "but she actually loved it." - So did you, did you watch her look at herself for the first time? - Yeah, yeah, she cried. - I was gonna say-- - Yeah, no, it was like a full of like happy tears, just like. - But it was also like one of the first things she actually, she saw too, 'cause she's been like, she hasn't seen her face. - Right. - So it was literally like that fucking show the swan, where they like, they, they take the patients, they do the surgery kind of when mom did, but they don't show them until they're fully, fully healed. So imagine not seeing your face for like weeks. - Yeah. - Does she still redo her face ID? - Like, after all her face is done, right? - Yeah, her face ID doesn't work. - No, yeah, I bet. But then I bet, after-- - It has to be like, register my new-- - Yeah, and it's because I think, it's because her nose. - Yeah. - Because her nose now that it's like up a little bit, a face recognition's pretty good. Like if it sees that like, oh, you have a different shape somewhere, we cannot, like, you need to redo your face. - Of course. - Sometimes mine doesn't work, and I just gained a little bit of weight. - Yeah. (laughing) - Yeah, I know it's getting bad with myself, but I'm like, my face ID takes like three tries, I'm like. - Yeah. (laughing) - So she's not gonna show on her family, I think just wait, wait until it's like healed. You see the progress, and I was like, because in three, I think it was like four weeks, five weeks, you feel comfortable to go out. I was like, when you feel comfortable going out, that's when you could show, I feel like, your family and friend. 'Cause she's still gonna be here. So I was like, you might as well just keep it a secret. - How does she like take a shower, like, maintain hygiene? - She has to, well, she couldn't really shower the first like three days. - Could I use body wipes, and yeah? - You can't because like, when you have stitches, and shit, you can't, like, even hair too much for a rinse. - I can't, yeah, you can get it. - Or even even being in a room full of steam in the shower. Like, that is just, yeah. - Yeah, it's really bad, and so the nurses at the aftercare center, they're like, wash your hair very, very lightly. And then today, she got like a much better, better wash, like heavy wash, and after they took those sutures out, she was fine. Like, you have to like wait until really get those sutures out, where it's safer to not like drench your head and water, but it's like, you can now like get in there a little bit. When does it get to the point where like, obviously I know it takes like months for like full, you know, results and everything, but to the point where you, where she could go out, and you could look at her and not know that she's recovering from something. Like, is like her bruising gone is like, I'm sure she's got minor swelling, but to like where she can go out and not be like, I look like, not a crazy person, but like looks like you just are still, like, 'cause I hated going out with my hair transplant, and it was like raw and red still, and you could like see it, I like. But good, I mean, lucky for us, we got to wear a hat after like the fifth day. So that was really nice. But for her, I feel like knowing my mom, I think she'll feel good in about two to three months, where she'll like get dressed, go out, go out to the dinner. Like that, I feel like that amount of time will probably be. - That's a good time line. - Yeah, yeah, it's a process, but she's doing good. Results are great. Thank God. - Shower question for you guys. How many showers do you take a month? - No, I hadn't. - So one like posted this TikTok, it was just like, y'all tell me you guys don't wash your feet in the shower, and I was like, wait, do you wash your feet? - Yes, yes, every time. - Like you, between the toes on the bottom. - Because I walk, I mean, I do a lot of-- - Jared, do you? - What? - No, Jared, they're same. - Yeah. - Wait, you're telling me, you're going on one foot, like every time you're in the shower, bottom, everything? - With your finger, yeah, you got to scrub it, you scrub it with your toes, yeah. - And Jared, that's crazy. - How is that crazy? - Disgusting. - Guys, forgive me, I, but I mean, I'll take a piece of it. - Take some time. - No, please, I did not realize that it was like, that there's a big divide of people who do do. it and people who don't and the people who do how disgusted they are by the people who don't. But I've always thought like plenty like when I'm washing my heads, there's nothing but soap and everything going down. Yeah, you have to scrub it though because you wouldn't just have now I'm really aggressively clean. But I've never felt like I've had dirty feet to my feet do not stink if my feet stunk it's because I had not showered since 6 a.m. yesterday been wearing the same socks for like that. I was just kidding. I don't smoke something something that I have in my shower. You might like it. It's this mat that has suction cups on the bottom of it with these bristles. That's a lot. It's on the floor of my shower. So I'll scrub my feet, but then I also get the bottom really good. And I'll just scrub the bottoms and the sides a lot. Well, I'm too scared to even tell my wife. Okay. So I unintentionally scrub my feet the same way as Heath does because I had it just for like a texture purpose like I've you just like the sensory I like the sensory of it and my shower is really slippery, but I have that and it, you know, it has the bristles. Yeah. It has the bristles. Okay. So yours are probably I guess clean. But like I've never felt like I've had dirty feet. I mean, everything is fine, but it's just I was like, Oh, people aren't really like or people are out there. Like really active. Well, there's a couple for me. It's a couple of things. First I'm Arab. So I mean, there's a there's a thing about like Arab is just like it just you have a little bit more oil in your skin and just like I have hair there. Just like when I look at I'm like, Oh, I need to make sure I clean it. Like it's just like, you know, it's just one of those feet. It doesn't look like he eats feet. He eats feet. It's pretty. I don't have pretty hair. Not a hair. Oh my foot. Yeah. Just not a. I know what you're thinking. The shape. Um. So yeah, I don't I have ugly feet. So I it just it's more of a reason for me to want to like clean it and scrub it. Um, and also I I mean, I do like to walk around barefoot like in my house. So like in my head, if I'm walking around barefoot in my head, I'm going to. Yeah. That's a good point. Yeah. Because if you think about like dust, there's like dust in your. I know when my feet are dirty. Yeah. Like if I've been barefoot walking around like a hardwood floor house and I just have kicked up crumbs and stuff. Yeah. Like, Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I can. It's just more because. But y'all don't hate me. I think I'm like weird that like I don't do it like. No, the thing is that if there's a whole argument online and half people don't have people to do and then it's like, Okay, then it's a popular thing. But I had never been like, Oh, this girls being funny and then everyone in the comments is like, no, like y'all just got sick and I was like, Oh, I could tell you something. I got completely ripped for it. We had a house full a couple of weeks ago. I don't know if you remember like two of Mariah's cousins came over. They're significant. Oh, there's we had just like a big house full and toilet talk got brought up and I was the odd band out apparently on this and I was getting ripped apart. And I'm like, there is no way I'm the, I thought it was crazy that nobody else did this. But okay, when you wipe, yeah, do you fold in half and reuse the toilet paper? Or do you do one wipe into the toilet? I reuse it. Um, same. Okay. Okay. Yeah. No. Okay. It's pretty gross. But yeah. Like you have to fold it in half completely. Yeah. I'm not wiping and then you go ahead and the same thing again. It depends on the situation. First wipe. Meaning, well, how's it going down there? If it's like wet, it's like that's going there's no way that's coming back. But if it's just like a good saw wipe and I plenty more surface area, yeah, make a little tortilla. If it's going, give it another go. Yeah. If it's going through the tissue, the toilet paper, we are throwing it away. If it's going through it, yes, there's like, it depends on the situation. I was like, I'm environmental friendly. I'm reusing. Yeah. I'm not going through tons of toilet paper. I'm pretty good. So I was the only one that folds. Everybody else does the ball. And I'm like, I see that. I'm like, that's why that's why you think it's weird that I fold. Wait, what do you mean does the ball? It's scrunched. I did that as a child. I feel like I did that as a kid was like, and like ball on it. Oh, so they waste so much fucking toilet paper. That's what I said. Oh, yeah. I'll do the ball if I am in a place like a public bathroom and it's like this super thing. Airplane tissue. Airplane toilet paper. I can never shit on an airplane. No, no, I'm saying it's airplane toilet. Yes. It's so thin. That's where you have to go ball. Yeah. Okay. Thank you for the data. Um, Jared has brought this up with the people listening, 73.4% of people fold their toilet paper. Yes. We love that. We love that. Scrunched their toilet paper. Ew. Ew. And the rabbit makes no sense. No sense. Why would you have half of it on the other side of your hand? That's someone who's going in the room going like, you know, just like, wait, which one? No, they were after toilet paper. You could still wash your hands after it and you'd be like, talking to everyone. Of course. And you get that whip like fucking ew, wait, which one are you talking about that? They do 11% or 15% the 15, the, the wanting, wanting to scrunch just fuck it. Just wasteful. It really is. Aren't they? They're not about like, you know, and being environmentally friendly with the toilet paper. It all started though because we were having an argument about the mullet versus the beard for the way the toilet paper roll sits. Come again. Like, Oh, oh, oh, this should toilet paper be draped forward when it's on the roll or is it to the back? So I had the argument, I go with it mullet style. So it's back because when I, when I go to fold it, I, it's sitting here and then I fold it up into itself. So I get the, the plushy soft side on the outside. Wait, he, I thought you don't roll it. I thought you did the fold. No, when I, I, I roll it into itself, like I fold it up into itself. Yes. So it's kind of common already. It's already coming at you. Oh, I do this. I think the backside, I think everything in our house though, it's to the front. But the backside though, I think that's kind of gross that the toilet paper is touching the wall, but it gives it just a little bit of friction. So it's not going to like keep going down the front. I know we're talking about toilet paper right now. So this is kind of, this is kind of throwing a wrench, but I use, I do not use toilet paper in my bath. I usually use wipes. Of course. I love wipes. I'm like a little kid. Wipes are so good. It fucking wipes the clean. You're not sitting there fucking. But don't you have to dry a post wipe, though. Don't you have to get some toilet paper? Like it's a wet wipe. Oh, yes. Yes. Sure. Yeah. I'll do like it. I like it. It's a lemon. It's clean. It's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's for babies. It's good. It's like, you don't need toilet paper to wipe a baby's butt after the wipe. It's true. It's, it cleans it. Yeah. Cause it's better than something dry. I mean, I use wipes when it's bad, but I can't because I'm worried are piping. Like I just don't want there to be a disaster with the piping because that's the word piping in the scene. Okay. Sorry. Oh boy. He's great debate. This is a very interesting debate. I don't know. I was, I was, I was being called diabolical and I didn't, I don't think it's diabolical. I think you are being, you're saving, you're saving toilet paper and you're, it's not gross. It's not gross at all. Single handedly. Yeah. Like it's toilet paper commercials. They're never like showing how absorbent it is like scrunched up like a ball. Yeah. Heath also, most people do it the, the mullet side when they have cats so that the cat doesn't unroll it. That's what I, that's what I thought you were going to say. I, I understand the aesthetics and it does look better, beard style. But who told you who, why'd you call a beard style and mullet style? Is that like a common thing or you came up with that yourself? I don't know. That's a natural talking. Yeah. Yeah. We're losing him. We are. Oh, speaking of mullet, I cut it off. I saw. Did it fucking hit Mariah Post at somewhere? I don't know where, but I saw your hair was gone. Congrats. Thanks. Thank you. Do you feel lighter? I just got sick of waking up in the morning with my hair looking like just an absolute disaster. The thing is, I really like when you don't have a mullet, but I didn't want to tell you that because I didn't know if you liked it or not. So it's just, it got so hard to like spend time to go get a haircut. Like having like a newborn, it was just, yeah, to just go make an appointment to be gone for an hour. I was like, it's okay. I'm, I'll deal with it. It's fine. Yeah. And I was, I just got to point. I was like, I gotta, I just, I just got to go and he magically makes you thinner. For some reason, when you get a haircut, and anybody get a haircut, you just, you look in the mirror like, whoa, I just lost like four pounds. You know, I just been waiting to find like a barber that I've really hit it off with. Oh, you want to try my barber? He's really good. I think my barber's like, so you've been watching any like soccer and I'm like, ah, and he's just like, you don't talk about, you don't talk to your barber, but we have nothing in common. And I, I'm trying to, but it's just like, nothing's hitting me. But is he good? Yeah. He does a good job. I'm just like, I'm not getting forward to it. I had this one guy that was fucking awesome. His name I think was Greg. He didn't have a, a bit of hair on his head, but he could cut hair like unbelievable. He was gay. He was gay and he's like, oh my gosh, he got to see who's afraid of baby Jane. Oh, it's so good. These old Hollywood stars. He's like, he gives me movies. It was great. Disappeared. Out of thin air one night. Not him. And I've just been trying to be okay. I think he moved back home or something. His mom got sick. I think maybe that's what I found out, but I've just been trying just a good barber relationship is valuable. And I've just had yet to find my person. Would you, would you go here to get a haircut? No, absolutely. I'm not driving across the hill to get my hair cut. No, I live in West Hollywood. You come, you come record the podcast once a week, you wouldn't do it the day you record the podcast. It depends on when, with, with time or recording, it's rush hour traffic saying to get home across the hill. You don't understand. So I love booking things around if If I'm somewhere far for like once a week and my head was like, okay, I'm going to try to find things around there to do so I can like make it a habit to book things that I don't have in my area. I'm like that with just like fun little restaurants or like fun little bites, like things I've seen on TikTok. No, I like to save and then I'm like, ooh, I'm in Culver City. I don't want to leave my neighborhood when I, when I eat. I want to stay in my neighborhood. I love eating it within my, I like working out, eating and yeah, working out. It's a historic, if it's a historic dive though, if it's something where it's like these place have been making hamburgers since 1934, like out in Van Ais, like I'd like to go check out something like that. Sure. If I'm ever there, but I just texted you one Matt. I used to drive all the way from my house down to where you are for this barber. Oh wow. Oh, what's the name? Are you talking about the name of the shop? Wolves. Oh, okay. No, I don't know. Wolves men's grooming. Heath. Remember how far we used to drive for manly and sons? You can't use to drive down a Venice fucking beach to get your hair cut. We would drive far because it was hard to find a good barber and we would walk out like this. Yeah. He's because they make because the guys in there, because they're always feel so real every time. Every time I get up from a haircut, they'll be like, you like it? I'm like, yeah, it looks good. I'll grab my hat off the table, put my hat. I'm like, it looks like I feel so bad, but I'm not, I'm not going to walk out like carrying a hat. You get the worst. Oh, yeah, you get in your car and you look in that rear view mirror, you like, I think you got to FaceTime your wife after you're like, how's it look? Like, not good. Heath, remember we would try to do like that manly and sons, they would have like the slick look, like the really like badass slick look at the gentleman's and the barbers would have like wax. Yeah. Just step right up here. And I thought, I thought I was like, oh, they look so good. I tried doing it. Cause they're doing that like, comp, was it calm because you need to have a good head shape in order to rock that look? And I don't. Same. The, their whole thing is that so they had the outfits for it. Like they had the suspenders with the denim long sleeves with like, they just, you have to look the part to pull that off otherwise it's like, I tried, I thought I could look like that. It's the worst of you're like looking at other barber, like that you're interested in and show me the pics and then you see cuts like that. You're like, I'm not, not for me. Not fair. Just having a good head of hair. It must be so fun to try out different barbers because you're like, like trying to figure out who can cut my hair bad is just you can't have a bad hair day. You're trying to search for, oh yeah, who can give me a bad haircut because it's so hard. Every time now, I'm just like, surprise me. Yeah. There's just a moment though in the haircut, I want to go just stop. It's perfect. But I never do. Whatever you think, man, just keep that's a good, I mean, that's a good way to go about it. If you're like, okay. If you're feeling like you want to stop, just say it. I just never do. I'm just like, are you the type of person that once they're done, would you say something? I like to like, oh, one and a half year, I look at the back of your head. It's game over. I'm like, that's it. You're walking out. I go fan. Tastic. Kill it. Thank you, buddy. 10 to 20%. Absolutely. See you later. And I'm like, never, never, never. Hate it. Never. Hate it. Yeah. I love my barber, but I came in stress. I was just like, cut it all. Do it. I want to give me the Britney Spears. I want it. I want to go. And he cuts. He kept going. He kept going. I'm just like, okay, stop. And I've never tried out and it looked like fucking shit. And so I haven't seen him in like a month and a half and I came back. I was like, hey, what we did last time? We're never going to do that again. But I love you. So like, and I'm like, you know, I'm balding more. So like, you can't go too short. Or you'll see everything. You know what I mean? It's true. It's hard out here. It's hard out here for the guys. I know there's, we have like 10% guy. Maybe I need to go to salon. It's crazy. Some people pay like $1,000 for a haircut. Oh, I guess women can't. Yeah. If you're going to like a cut collar, or you're going like Chris McMillan, who like is famous for like Jennifer Anderson's hair, but like, well, it's a fucking hair cut. But for girls though, I thought they're doing collar, no, I bet there's like a thousand haircuts for men down in Beverly Hills on rodeo drive. No way. Yeah. 600 to 1200. Give me that haircut. I want to know how like, I want to feel amazing after that. I'm telling you right now, I pay 1200 for this guy to cut my hair. It's going to look exactly like any other barber. I'm going to feel like I'm in a panting commercial. What is he fucking installing plugs? Like, what is that price? That's ridiculous. I just want to go to somebody that like is so legit that I could just be like, put a haircut on me that you think fits my face. My look, like my thinness, how fine my hair is, do what you think is going to be best. Don't ask me what I want because I'm going to tell you fucking Brad Pitt from Fight Club. Yeah. And it's going to look ridiculous on me. Constantly giving pictures of actors that has hair is not even close to ours. And they always ask that question. How do you like the back? Do you like it square-faded? Like, round it. I'm like, I don't. Whatever you think is best. Yeah. Like right now, I hate that question. Like, I don't know. Maybe I should know, but like, I, I never fucking know what to say to them. Yeah. But then you know what? Every time I go faded, I look like a thumb. I don't do faded anymore. So I keep it. I keep it square or like a little rounded on the edges, but I keep it square. It's a rounded but square. Are you planning on bleaching your hair for Coachella? I know. No, I did though. I remember. Oh, yes. Okay. I've just been. You always do something a little drastic. Yeah. I'm like, what's going on? I got the invite for that, but you can do it because you're not going on a wedding. That's what I'm like, crush about. Danielle's going on a wedding too. Not the same way. No, I know. I wonder why they're. This is just one of Patricia's like good best friends. It's like one of those weddings you can't miss. Oh, I thought it was in LA. I was like, I'm surprised. No, it was on mobile. Oh, mobile. Oh, mobile. Oh, mobile. Oh, mobile. Oh, you were out. Then out in the, um, in the wild. I mean, we're down by like the coast. Mobile. Mobile. Oh, I thought that was. Mobiles. Mobiles down at the little tip. Oh, nope. That's not what I thought. Okay. Never mind. Do you have all your outfits planned out? No. No, I do. I'm just, I don't care. Who is on this necklace you're wearing? Scotty Sire. Oh. As a baby. Why do you own that? Because he, I needed, I needed a necklace with an outfit and he gave it to me. And I never returned it. Give that to him as a mother. Like, yeah. He wants me to have it. Okay. Cool. How's he judging? I've missed Scotty. He's still recovering from his knee. I know. I'm keeping him in my, my prayers. Good. Good. I love it. I miss Scotty. And I haven't seen him so long. So it is appropriate that I wear this. Oh, my God. It reminds me of it. I was just like, who are you? Did he say? Did he say happy birthday to him? Shit. Yeah. I didn't because I was traveling back from Korea that day. Oh, really? You're watching this happy birthday. Love you, Miss. Yeah. I need to come down to Huntington. I want to see your place. Oh, you haven't seen it. Been there multiple times. When are you going? Where's my invite? Going down to SoCal. I invite myself. That's what you got to do when people don't come to you anymore. Scott does not come here anymore. So we have to go to you. You got to go see him. It's like Zane. Zane's like, I'm coming in. Nashville. I'm like, okay, perfect. Yeah. That's like Jared, Jared text me like a couple weeks ago. It's like I'm coming. I'm like, okay. Yeah. What's nice about that you guys is just you can come come whenever or I can we can come whenever it's really nice. It's easy. I don't have to like try to plan it out. Speaking of down in Southern California down in Long Beach, did you hear what happened at the Easter egg hunt? No. I haven't found a you hear about this. There was an Easter egg hunt at a park on Easter Sunday. Okay. Those are out there hunt for eggs. Guess what they find on a little path out in the park. Shut up. A human skull. Shut up. Y'all. Wait a real one. Yes. Cause I was following this news like crazy. That's the skull. Oh, wait, we lost teeth. We lost teeth. It's back if you can hear us. Heath. Heath, we heard you fart. I didn't fart. Dude, it was really loud. Just watch the video. You'll see. You're such a liar. No, dude. I'm right. Yeah. It was pretty fucking gross. It was really loud. It was so stupid. I'm guessing you farted. No, no, no, it was crazy. No, no. Okay. So yeah, Long Beach Easter egg hunt, they find a human skull and wait. Did they find out like when this was put there? It's all ongoing right now. By the time this episode comes out, maybe they have followed up and they're going to give more information about it. But I just keep thinking like, all right, woo, we've been getting eggs. What'd you get? Okay. I got a skull. Oh, put that down. Oh, my gosh, like that's wait, that's but that's great. Well, well, I hope the kids ended like real. How did nobody see like how off the beaten path was this? Did nobody see that while hiding eggs from the pictures I could tell and I don't know if like the journalists were like put some eggs in your skull. Cause in some of the pictures, you can see eggs around the skull. And I don't know, like the way it's like it's been partially excavated from the images they've shared, but it's just way more stuff. And this part of eggs by the fucking school, that's horrendous. That's what they did that. But I mean, I think that's how it was found. But I just don't know like, I don't know. I can see the kids going and was like, Oh, what's this? And they're like tapping it and then in those old comms. And then they're like, Oh, I don't think the kids realize what they started. Cause I was following this like right in the beginning. And I'm like, this has to be like a fake skull. Like I don't some goth chick was out there doing like a little photo shoot. And then it was just like, let's just bury this to like just be freebie. And then it was confirmed that it was an actual real human school. They do say that this skull is a little small. Oh, no, which is also alarming. But what's also really weird and suspicious is that well, it has not been fully confirmed of the age, gender, and manner of the death of this deceased person. Are they are they able to just buy a skull? They could do. Yeah. Oh, the tea, the tea thing can probably identify it. It would strange. One, how long has this human remain been there? And what a weird place to like bury a body like right off the pack. Yeah, it doesn't even look like it was hidden, right? That's crazy. It was it was already kind of dug up. I don't know if like how much of the images that they show are from like a proper excavation or the kids, like we're digging and then got to that point and we're like, Oh, shit. I don't know. There's. And the fact that it's like, it looks like it came from a lab. Do you know what I mean? Like it doesn't look like it's and it's a strange placement for a school too. Cause like, yeah, is the whole body then just like standing up? Is there a full skeleton underneath? I'm sure they they checked. I don't know. I feel like a skeleton like a head that was more like buried. Yeah. But they were things that I think we would have found out by now if the rest of the body was buried with it. Yeah. Because I'm sure they dug all around it. The full thing was found. He is risen. Matthew. It's fine. It's fine. It's fine. Well, I hope whoever this was, they better solve it get crazed just a it's not like someone was on a hike, finding the skull. It's Easter. And it's like they're always going to remember that. I know we've had some rough easters, right? Heath. Halfway. Yeah. We're someone stole some money. Oh, yes. Oh, my God. That was on Easter. Oh, my favorite story. They found God now. So that's all I'll say about that. This person has found God and has repented many times. Honestly. Yeah. I'm honestly happy for them. I have some update on a story that we, uh, we've discussed on the show. One of the stories that we really enjoyed talking about. Remember the the priest. Yes. Yeah. Yes. Remember I said, Hey, if anybody lives out there, please hit me up. And they did this person goes to the church. Okay. You ready? Yeah. Let's hear it. They obviously want to remain anonymous. So I'm going to respect that. Look at Zayn getting the inside. It's good. Next week, we're going to interview interview. It's going to be it's going to be a black screen muffled sound. So we don't know who it is. Okay. You ready? So this person goes, I went to the church for 19 years at the pastor who broke into the lady's house went to. I immediately called my friend from high school because I've been watching unfilters since the first upload. And it was trippy as fuck seeing you talk about it where I come from for for context. The church started a K through 12 school that I attended and I joke that if you are in the cult long enough, they give you a college scholarship. Therefore, I also went to Liberty University. That is run by the church. My friends parents were affiliated with the Spanish ministry that Sergio ran. Sergio is the, the priest. Yeah. Yes. Um, that is part of the bigger Thomas road Baptist church organization. To clarify, they have not maintained contact with him after their rest. She shared that her and her mom felt at times that his friendship with the victim looked uncomfortable and just got weird vibes. However, they were working together at the church. And so they wanted to foster a good friendship with one another. The Spanish church ministry always had a revolving door of people in and out. People that were close with the pastor suddenly leaving. The congregation was shocked at the news of their rest, but more attention went to helping Sergio then to the victims family. A common occurrence in churches to soften the blow to the congregation instead of make it known what you did. To answer Zane's question, we believe his intention was a part of a bigger god complex that pastors in the system get. I do believe he had a feelings for her that escalated after she started the divorce process because he saw his chance to get with her open up. We will include a podcast that the victim went on where she explains the years of a rasmus she went through and how at the time of the break ins they were not at all in contact as she did not realize he knew where she lived. During the second break in, you can see him assessing the basement, which is where her daughter had her bedroom. It is not known why he entered that room though we can begin to imagine how messed up any reasoning is. And they say, please keep us anonymous. We share it. We'll keep you anonymous. Thank you for the insights. Thank you. But there is a link to like what a podcast of the woman of yeah, I guess it's her talking about it. I guess she went on a podcast. I don't know if it was this is old or I'm not sure. But yeah. Okay. That's great. So you were pretty much like I feel like they've been talking about it. Yeah. Somebody mentioned god complex just feels like they need to lead it to go in fix her. Made sense. Get her in line with God. But creepy. They will give us updates as they come. I know they're not anything breaking news, but still so I guess they're investigating it, right? Because they don't really know yet. I'm so curious to see how that unfolds. Yeah. Heath, guess what? Since you love these or you usually bring up these seconds, but I brought it this time. What? You got a Florida man? I got a Florida man segment. Let's hear it. Florida man. So you ready? Yeah. This one's fun. Fort Lardo too. Maybe they're all from Fort Lardo. I love it. They're making us proud. Okay. Florida man stopped to airport with 47 uncooked hot dogs. Hey to his body. What? Can you imagine seeing that shit at Fort Lardo airport? Oh, I fly in there all the time. I wish I could see that. Okay. So TSA agents have a lot of international airport, detained a 63 year old pop and a beach man Tuesday after full body scanner revealed what agents initially described as an anomalous layered situation across this torso, torso arms upper thighs that upon physical inspection turned out to be 47 individual uncooked hot dogs secured to his body with what the rest report listed as an estimated two full rolls of standard duct tape. Oh, the airport snacks are expensive, man. You got to see this ain't real. It says it's real. Wait. On this, what we're looking at right now, when I see the dude humor report, I don't even see a damn. It says October 26, 2023. Is this real? I just ain't this ain't this. Bullshit, man. Y'all coming in here with these fake fucking story hot 73 raw hot dogs taped to his body. So it's fun. Have fun. Enjoy it. I wanted a huge fictional story. Who cares? Have some fun. Don't you watch. We look ridiculous. Don't you watch fucking movies? I do. But we are a trusted new source here on unfiltered. No, we are not. Okay, I'm filter not untrue. Okay. Like this is we sounding like we some boomers around chain mail. Like do you know about Palm Beach Pete? No. What's this? Let's hear it Palm Beach Pete. Okay. So this guy went viral. Somebody took a video and it looked like Epstein was driving in the car next to him and everybody went crazy to like do it. It looks just like him. And then the guy ended up seeing the video that somebody posted of him thinking that he was Epstein, which I thought when I first saw it immediately AI. Like oh, this isn't of course AI. There's no way because that looks just like Epstein. Same. So he posted like his TikToks are going dumb viral. He just he's like I'm Palm Beach Pete. And he's just like going on about how he's like not Epstein. Yes. I know I look like Epstein, but I'm not him. But then a lot of people are like wait a minute. Is it him? And he's just like no, it's not him, but he looks just like him, but you could tell in his features that it's And then and then Epstein was also arrested had his whole operation in Palm Beach. I know that's not what makes it so crazy because it is in Palm Beach and it's just so funny. People still going back and forth about like, is it him and he's just like out in like the open now and he's like trying to be this Palm Beach Pete guy. No, I don't think it's him either. Like it's just it's just really crazy how much he looks like. But he's really taking this thing far. He's like, I'm going to make the most out of it. And you know what? I respect that. I really do. You can't like, it's not his fault that he looks like him. Yeah. It's not his fault. And if he's going to make some money out of this look, I would think it's crazy. Those like impersonators that look identical to certain celebrities being like a whole living on being like an impersonator. Do you think he could show up to like birthday parties? And no, that's like a nice thing and for kids part. No, I don't think that's appropriate. But you know what? I think this guy could get gigs from like going to like, you know, frat parties and shit. Yeah, we posed with like Epstein and stuff. But like, do you think, do you think this is if do you think it's inappropriate for him to take advantage of him looking like Epstein and I don't know what this guy's like. It's very weird. He can be also down on his luck. It doesn't have like any job doesn't have any money save for retirement. And if this is getting him views, and he can like, he lives in Palm Beach. Did you see the car he was driving? I think he has a little bit of a person to impersonate. But I think I, what did you, what was your question? Do I think it's wrong? Yeah, yeah. Just like what's your thoughts? Like if you imagine you look like fucking the worst person in the world and somebody catches you, they post you online and you're like, you're kind of lonely. You're bored. You're like, you know what I'm like, like Matt, would you do like Hitler impersonation? Hell no. No, hell no. See? Like, there's like levels. Right. There's levels to it. But there's also this like, I'm not even justifying this guy, but there's a memeification of like Jeffrey Epstein in the world where it's like people are just taking it and warping it in so many different ways. It's not my humor. I don't find it fucking funny. Yeah. But I don't know some people fucking bar stool sports. Probably like, oh, it's good to go. It looks like Epstein. Yeah. It's so fucking crazy. It seems like that some of the videos that I've seen recently, I think he's really trying to get he's trying to just be his own person, which I respect. He's excited about the the attention and it's like this whole novelty type. It kind of sucks how it started. But yeah, you know, if people are going to keep up with them because they're like, oh, they maybe they feel bad. They're like, he's, you know, he's not him. He's a human. Oh, he's nice. Give him a chance. And he's now on cameo. Okay, you see now that's where that's where we go. You go too far. That's where we draw the one. Okay. So I want to see a list of people booking this guy. Let's get him checked out. Like I wonder if people that were in cooots with Epstein are trying to hang out with them because he reminds them of like his old buddy. You know, you think you think Trump's hitting this guy up like dude. Oh, 100%. 100%. This is funny. Yeah. I was a dude. I was going to bring this. I kept forgetting every episode. Four episodes ago. I was wanted to bring this up and I completely forgot. Oh, this guy. This guy. Yeah. Because I thought it was crazy. Oh, I just had my birthday. Happy birthday. What'd you do? 33 on Jesus's resurrection. He died at 33. It was a special one. All right. And it was it was what a beautiful day for you. How do you celebrate? It was great. Well, the night before we went and picked up, you know, those, you know, I love the big cookie pizzas. Mariah had one made. And when we picked it up, the lady working there was like, can I ask what this is? Because it was on Easter. Yeah. And it had a 33 on it. And I'm sure the person making it was probably like, what a wild way to celebrate like Easter with 33. So she was like, can I ask like what this is? And we're like, oh, it's my 33rd birthday. And she was like, oh, okay, just, I just never made one like this before. But it was just, but wasn't it Easter cake? I'm sorry, it was like the cake. It was like green around it. And she did M&Ms within it. So it looked like a like hidden eggs. Oh, it was like a cute little, just like a little, yeah, cookie cake thing. Unbelievable. So it was a, it was a phenomenal birthday. Amazing. Did Tony say every word there? He giggled at me, but that was about it. I said, I know he's birthday. Say it right now. Yeah, but I'm just, I just letting you know, I have that over him. That's all speak. And then we went to a nice little brunch spot. Cool. Pretty chill. Just your normal little Nashville laugh. Yeah, brother. Did you have any peeps on Easter? I had I like did not wait. What's peeps again? Peeps, a little marshmallow. Funny or does? Oh, oh, yes, the sparkly ones. Yes. Okay. I didn't realize how many different damn flavors they got. No, they're not good. They're not good. They're good. It's like candy corn. It's only good one time a year. No one's ever like in the dead of winter going. I could use a paper. It is, it is crazy that they, they still sell those. Like they, they're, they sell. They're fine. They're fine. They're a staple for the holiday. And a little sugar crystals on it. It doesn't look like it. It doesn't even look like a duck. What is it supposed to be? A duck. A chick. A little baby chick. A baby chick, right? It doesn't look like that. It looks like a little dookie. It looks like. It looks like a little oop. Yeah, they got to fix it off. They got it. Yeah, that looks like shit. Come on. I prefer the bunnies, because I, the bunnies really separate. I feel like still maintain their structure. I feel like I'm just severing the little baby chick. I do love those sugar cookies. The one that you just passed through. It's those are peeps, man. No, those are cookies. Those are inspired by peeps, bunny cookies. Yes. Oh, I love those sugar cookies. It gives me fucking cavities every time I eat them. Used to do like the, the, the peep jousting. What? You guys, you guys never did that. Where you like microwave them and you put toothpicks in them. Oh, and then they start expanding and they blow up in the microwave. And whichever one pops the other one first wins. I never knew, but the jousting he would do the microwave. We should do that all the time. Would you do the, the chips, the chip bags in the microwave shrink them up? The shrimp. My dad's on me doing that with time. He's like, what the fuck are you doing? He's a freak. I'm doing. I'm doing. Yeah, it's a science project. Trinketing's work on the oven, but like microwave that stuff. That's that would zap. There was like a whole fucking lightning story. Oh my god. When you have the guys version of the easy bake oven, where you could like, you like oven, warm. It was a chemistry set. The warm set. You know, I don't feel like I did, but my cousin did. Oh, me and my brother used to make those all the time. Just like, put them little gummies. Oh, they, you know what? They'd make key chains out. Girls would make key chains out of that shit. Yeah. A little shrink eating. Yes. I forgot. But the creepy crawlers. It's a bug. I wanted that so bad. It tastes like strawberry. One of my mom to buy that from that QVC little thing that they would show on TV. Just burning chemicals. Was your mom a QVC shop? No, no, no, my grandma was by five of them by five of them. And then at Christmas, we'd all get our presents and you knew the shapes of them because we all got the same shit because she bought it in bulk of QVC. It's crazy that they would just stand by. It's so crazy. That like that was like, all of the times the phones are ringing off the hook. You're loving this, now, Deb, what? Tell me, you can wear this on a lot of occasions. Yes. And what's crazy about this one, Donna? Is that one? You can wear it a little. My favorite is that. My favorite is that skit that they did on that too, but my favorite comes out red. So you can wear this all like a Saturday night when you're by yourself and you've got nobody to spend any time with. Well, every time I feel like I'm out of his. I just throw a cube at you. I'm throwing a cube at you. So now you're quoting devil wears product. Oh, wait. Oh, shit. I just walked to their mouth. On a new tie. I feel like I'm about to pass out. Wait, she said absolutely nothing. She said something like that. I eat a cube. I was a thing of a fucking thing in her mouth. She's probably got your wires. I just saw that QVC clip of the guy who's like a hairdresser. He's like, "Girl, let me give you a kiss." Boom. Just eat shit. That's so good. It's, have you ever seen that, Heath? Is that the latter one? No, it's got this guy. Oh, yes. That one's got it. Have you seen the latter one, though? Yes. The latter that goes like this. It's like they're trying to do it. No, it's so good. Oh, no. It's this guy trying to sell a ladder on QVC. It is unbelievable. It's too good. This is it. Oh, it's durable. Now it's locked into place. The fact that it buckled and he's still trying to play it off, like it was supposed to be doing this, like he knew he knew he had to commit. He knew he had to commit. It's like the place. That guy, you know, that guy, that was back like in the 70s, 80s. He was doing some code. I'm going to sell some fucking ladders today. The way he fucking folded in there. Ah, he was such a tiny little man too. It was such a, what was just fucking perfect. Now it's locked. All right. It is time for unfiltered advice. Oh, do you want to pick one? One of these, whatever title kind of tickles your fancy. Ooh. - What's guys being dudes? - All right. - All right. - Here we go. - Hey, I'm Phil McKass calling from Fresno, California. And my question is more of advice from everybody on the cast. I've been with my boyfriend for three lovely years. We have one kid together. And we've been going pretty strong, getting for a pretty long time. Now recently some news came forward that my boyfriend had a guy's trip and on the guy's trip he kissed one of his best friends that's a male, that was very close to him. Now after confronting him he told me that he had no feelings towards him and that he ended up being the kissy so he was kiss unprovoked. Didn't ask for it, it was I was told. And I just want to know what you think I should do. Should I trust him? How should I go about it? Should I hear him out? Should I try to look through his phone? Look for more information? I love you guys so much. Thank you. If I'm out of breath, I'm walking my baby to get up to now. Oh, we love you, mama. Love you, wow. Thank you for calling in. Okay, my first question is like one is like, what's the context of the kiss? Was it a funny kiss? Yeah, there's a difference between like a funny, just like dumb, stupid joke kiss and like a secretive. Yeah, like the rest of the guys go to sleep and they were like, up late. Yeah, there's a big difference. There's like one of the guys on the trip like come onto him. Wait, she said he was the one who got kissed. He did not kiss the other person. Okay, so it sounds like, it sounds like the way he told her was, hey, something really weird happened this weekend. To me, if she's saying it like this, like he came to her, I don't think he was just like, bro, it was so funny. Like he kissed people. I think it was more of like maybe a serious tone where she was just like, whoa, that's really weird. Yeah, we need to dive into this 'cause there's a lot to it. I mean, damn, I wish I can't, again, there's a lot of context. Was it a dare? Was it a game? Was it, or yeah, was it intentional? I mean, they're in there. Did you find out to the point where you were embarrassed where it got around and you found out about it when you didn't hear from your husband directly when he should have been the one telling you that immediately? And even if he did tell you that immediately, like, whoa, this guy kissed me during the trip, I think you should like just understand and be like, that's crazy. That's like insane. Yeah. Because when he was kissed, yeah, he's made, like when he said, like he was the one that was kiss, I just feel like you said it in like a man or where I was like, oh, this was really weird that this happened, but I'm telling you. Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think this is just a bit, depending on all the context, I think since it makes you feel really uncomfortable just the idea of your man kissing another man or getting kissed by another man, regardless of the context, I think you need to really make that establishment very clear with him, just like a point, or just make a boundary going, even if it was you guys were playing some silly stupid game, Truth or Dare card game. And it was one of the guys had a kiss another guy. I would beg you not to be kissed 'cause the only person that should be kissing you is me. That's a serious one. If you want to have a little bit of fun with it, the next time that you're all out and you see some of these guys again, 'cause I'm sure you'll see them, right? If it's his friends, they seem close. Bring it up in a joking way. Be like, oh my God. Do it again. Show me what it was like. I wouldn't even do it like that. Just more like just maybe bring up the boy's trip again. Like, oh my God, I'm so glad you guys got to spend time together. Buh, buh, buh, buh, buh. Oh my God. Wait, I heard someone say, which one was it? So what was it? Who kissed? Like I would try to bring it up like that and you be very joky with it and just see how people react to that. I think how they react to that will answer your question. The reaction is this, whoo, it wasn't just that. They were getting that. He starts so wetting. Or he, they're like, what kiss? Oh, that might be even worse. Yeah. Like, oh, what kiss? They deny it. Or no, no, no, like that means like nobody knew about it. Nobody knew about it. That means like they were off like, yeah, or but then, then, but then you don't want to, you don't want to out this, the kisser, you know, or just in case. Yeah. There's a lot of layers to it. There's a lot of layers. Yeah. But hopefully we have covered one of those layers. Yeah. Either was a joke or it was something serious, but I think it's just, it's important if it's making you uncomfortable. And he is the father of your child. I think you guys, I don't know. Hopefully you can laugh at it. Forgive whatever this incident was, but make a boundary in the future that no one kisses you except me. Ask him if it was good. Better than me. Just a jealous type. Put him in kissing jail. Yeah. He doesn't get to kiss you for a while. Yes. I put the heels on. Put it on his head. Like with a Wall Street. Go on strike. Yeah. He's on a night baby duty, you know, he's got to get up, feed the baby, clean the diapers, milk it. All right. Cool. That was fun. You're not my dad. Follow up because it's a follow up. Oh, yeah. I like that. Is that a follow up? Yes. So do you remember the, the woman that found out that her father like wasn't actually the man that raised her wasn't actually her father? She did follow up with more. Oh, please. Yes. She found, I'm pretty sure that she found out that the dad who had been raising her, her entire life was not her biological dad. Correct. And she had found out that she does have this other biological father out there who I don't even think she knows, but she didn't know if she should not confront, but just share it disclosed with this dad who's been taking care of her like, I know, by the way, you're not my biological dad. That's how we understand it. That's how we didn't know if it was that or if she found out through like a DNA test type thing. Yeah. 23 and me or what it was. So we're going to get our follow up. Yeah. Follow up. Yeah. Follow up. I called what you know. My job wasn't my real dad. I wanted to be guys from back story if you wanted it. So when I was in middle school, a girl messaged me saying that her job was my real dad and the guy who raised me wasn't. And I can find my 10s about it in the, so they don't want to treat. So obviously I believed in. And then a lot of years passed, so I was having some health problems. And so I got some blood work done and it said that I had some high levels of certain things. And that could be linked to having the relative who has leukemia. I don't know anybody in my family. The ones girl told me about on father when I was in middle school. She told me that he had died in 2005 of leukemia. And so I ended up getting a DNA test with my brother that I was raised with and came back that we were half siblings. So I unlocked the girl on Facebook and I told her and it turned out I had three other siblings that I didn't know about. There's a set of twins that are seven months younger than me. And then she is also a year younger than them. And so the dad who raised me, I don't know if he knows about him not possibly not being my dad. But I did find out through the girl that my mom was dating my dad who raised me. They broke up for like a month. And she slept with my biological dad to support my mom's ex fiance and that's information from the grandmother, which is the biological dad, I don't really trust my mom on how she responded to that. So yeah. That's how I found out. Okay. Let's take a pause. I'm going to see the entire grand. I kind of lost. I have way through. I lost. Okay. I'll help explain. Okay. Okay. So in middle school, a girl approached her saying, Hey, my dad is actually your dad too. Okay. She then confronts her parents and says, Hey, this girl said this to me and the parents say, that's not true. And many years later, she's, has some health problems, gets some blood work done, finds out that she has high levels of something that has to do that's like genetic from somebody who has leukemia. She remembers at the time that the girl who told her the real dad thing that her father passed away from leukemia, then gets a blood test with her brother that she was raised with finds out they're only half siblings, so then that kind of confirms it. And then she starts talking to the biological, her biological dad's mom, so her grandma. And the grandma tells her that her biological dad and her mom used to be engaged. Then the man that raised her and her mom, they broke up for a month, and then that's when the mom slept with her biological dad, and then they got back together and she was already pregnant. Oh. The update is just is more context to it, but she has not confronted her dad about it, but now knowing this full context, yeah, that's a really tight timeline. The fact that there's such like a small window that that happened. And I guess my big question then to her, I mean, it's not another follow up, but it's just like my advice to it. It's like, how much do you telling him that, are you doing it for yourself and getting it off your chest to like let him know? Or do you think you're doing him a service by letting him know that there is no biological connection? That's really tough because he still was with her pretty much her entire life. I think the important question is, what do you want to come of this? Yes. What do you want to come of it? Because it could get obviously very messy. And I could also see why, and I'm not saying it was the right, like I could see in his position, the dad, not the biological dad, the dad, I was saying, I could see why he didn't want to upset her by telling her that this dad just came into her mom's life so quickly when they had a small breakup. Well, and then he might not know. I feel like he may have his suspicions. Probably. Yeah. So if he probably even knew the guy and knowing that there's like half siblings in the like, I don't know. I feel like someone could gut tell especially he knows if she confronted her parents about this in middle school and they denied and they denied it then the dad that raised her probably got his suspicions. Yeah. Why would you? And maybe there was a maturity thing too. It's like because you're middle school. don't want to disclose that to you. And then you said it was like one of your classmates or whatever, like that's messy for you just to go around and get that like in your head at that time of age. How old was the class and like how old were they? They were in middle school. That's kind of crazy. But now you're full adult. I mean, you do have every right to like share what you know. And it is your blood and your truth in your own story. And there's a history of leukemia. So, but come, but if you love your daddy raised you come from a place of love and just saying, I want to just disclose this to you guys of something that I found out. And this is no shame to you guys. There is a chance of my, you know, medical history now. I can't have leukemia. Something I found out. And it's hard for me to keep this information within me because I love you guys so much. I feel like I need to share this. Yeah. And I don't want there to be anger. I think the fact that she has a connection to leukemia like that. I feel like it is important for her to like kind of awe. Because imagine she did get leukemia. And you're suddenly coming down with this disease. But while you're maintaining a secret going through like that. And then then just closing that while you're sick as well, where it's like where did this come from? How could this be? And then you're like, well, it was this. You need to be in the best headspace. When you're going through like two important to when the doctors are asking like, do you have medical history in your family? Like because this could be something to ask all the time. Yeah. And if you're like not giving the right answer based on what you thought, like that could also be very dangerous. Yeah. You're also being responsible. Yeah. And that I would also just be like, listen, like if you do have the talk with him, like, I don't see you any different. Like you or the father that raised me, I still see you as my father. Like nothing is changing between us. Again, coming from a place of love. Like you said, just be like, I. Yeah. Also maybe talk. Is she close with her mom? It sounded like there is a complicated relationship maybe because she said, I don't really trust what my mom would say. Because like, I feel like that's maybe a conversation you have with your mom, like, hey, by the way, I know this. I feel like I feel like the mom conversation probably would happen first. Right. But if she's like, you cannot tell your father it would wreck him. It would wreck this family. Do not do it. Then I mean, that's not that's unfair to put that on. I mean, that's my dramatic like lifetime movie reaction. I see in my head happening. Yeah. I mean, it's a lot of your own discretion. But that's our advice of all the different avenues of playing with it. But when you come from a place of love, it's the best place to be. Yeah. We do wish you luck, though. And I feel like just follow your heart. Just like see what you feel like would be the best and say healthy. Like that's really scary. But you know, keep not your very at least you have blood work done and you're aware of what you've come. So that's good to be proactive about your health. All right. Thank you for the follow up to. Yeah. Thank you for the follow. We really appreciate it. All right, guys. That's all we have for today. Oh, whoopsie. And if you want to see more, check out our patreon patreon.com/zaneanheath. We keep these cameras rolling. We do an unwind. We give a bonus episode every month, a live Q&A every single month. 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