Exclusivity Means He Pays Bills Now

Speaker 1 Hey y'all, welcome back to the channel Sprinkle Sprinkle. So today we are going to be talking about exclusivity, which means when you are in an exclusive relationship means he pays the bills now or he provides. So this is one of the many standards that I suggest having when dating. Seriously. OK, the comments are going to be delayed about 30 seconds, so I see there's already a few people in the house. Thank you all for being here. So when you decide to be exclusive to a person, when they take you off the market, they need to be paying all bills. Period. Or else you're still on the market, which means you're still available to date other men or whoever you're trying to date. It's it's not right for a man to take you off the market and you still working and paying bills, because what if there's a man out there that wants to pay your bills and wants to date you, but you're passing it up because you're being exclusive with a Dusty? OK, so This is why I tell women to continue to date and keep your options open if you're not satisfied financially in the current relationship. OK. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thanks. Appreciate you for super, super sticker. So you have to make sure that you keep your standards high or otherwise you'll get taken advantage of. OK. You're going to miss out on opportunities. Miss out on going out. Miss out on meeting certain people that can provide or treat you better or give you a better lifestyle by being cooped up with a dusty who's not paying any bills. OK, you could be you could be missing your husband, your future provider stuck up under a dusty who ain't providing or giving you anything. So This is why I say, ladies, you need. To keep your options way open and you do not commit fully to anybody unless they can commit fully to you financially. Period. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you, appreciate you. So thank you for the Super chat. So you have to make sure 100% that you are sure you want to go exclusive with a certain person and that they know in advance. That they will be provided. That is the deal, OK? Because I see a lot of ladies who asked me, I'm married to a Dusty or I'm in a relationship with a dusty can. What can I do? You can go get a sugar daddy and you can keep your options open and you can continue today if you're not happy financially in the relationship that you are in. And usually, it's always the woman who are trying to take themselves off the market and want exclusivity with men who can't offer them anything. That's working backwards, ladies. You don't take yourself off the market unless you don't have to contribute financially anymore and you pretty much have the lifestyle that you've been looking for. OK, now. Thank you, Deirdre. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So I I mean, it's it has to be obvious, like, as ladies, we cannot be afraid to say what we want because men. Will think that it's wrong if you think it's wrong. You know what I'm saying? If you are afraid to say I'm not going to ever be exclusive to any man unless he's totally providing for me, I'm not taking my options off off the table if you're not going to give me the lifestyle that I feel like I deserve. So if he wants exclusivity with you, that means he wants to pay them bills, all right? It's not wrong, ladies. It is your standard. That's it. I always like to go back into, you know, when I was younger and I was out there dating, this was the norm for attractive women. Let me repeat that back in the 90s. If you are a very attractive woman, this was the norm. Especially if you were dating older men or men with money, this was the norm. There was no pick me, should this pick me? Should that? Oh should I do it. Only pick me shoes and women with 0 standards are very low Standards would not suggest this. OK, so think about this. When I was younger, this is the norm. To make sure before you enter any exclusive relationship, especially if you're a grown woman and it's a grown man, they must pay them bills, period. Or else you're not exclusive. And some even paid bills before you were exclusive so that they can get you to become exclusive to prove that they could pay those bills. I know. And it's not just about bills. What paying bills allows a woman to do is save her money, do her thing, relax and her feminine, so on and so forth. So that's what we have to think about. If you're going to be in a woman's life, you need to allow her to rest in her feminine, which means she's going to be stress free and financially stress free. OK, So that that standard, a lot of men will say, OK, well that's fair. Because they know you're passing up opportunities by being exclusive, so they don't want you to feel like you're missing out on anything so that they they got to compensate you, OK, you said it's called courting. Speaker 2 Guys. Speaker 1 You don't tell them you're dating other men, OK? You don't tell them anything, so. A lot of you guys are talking about the modern man. Those aren't the target. You saying modern man? Those are dusties. Those aren't target man. You got to go for classier, older, provider type men, OK? And by all means, if you have one of those, do not play my videos around them because you know what? You might think that they're okay with it, but they're really just getting the info for when they need it. Okay. So if you are in an exclusive relationship to play these videos around your man what you're doing and let me tell you, and men who are already watching it, whose girlfriends has already shared the videos, let me tell you. You may not know it now, but if if something goes wrong, you're going to blame her for watching the videos. You're going to have all the information. She can't even use the knowledge that she's gaining to get more out of view as a man. So ladies, get some headphones. Thank you. OKI had to get that out of the way because some people will never understand or have you know, the common sense to. Do the right thing. OK? Anyway, y'all are stealing. What do I think the victim mentality of women? That project is what lifts the man and makes them superior. If they were the superior gender, they would have the babies. Man, Sprinkle, sprinkle. I think women who take the the victim role simply don't want to take responsibility for their standards. Okay. Because I would never be in a victim role because I'm getting my money. Period. That's it. I'm getting my money. Ain't no victim over here because I will be paid, period. Your level up. My level up books arrived today. Oh yes. I hope you got yours. Did you get this one? This one is really good. Tough love and lots of information to keep you motivated on your level of journey mentally as well. Thank you. OK. And the link is at the top for all my books. OK. You said watch the videos Incognito. Exactly. Or. You can watch them, but put put your earbuds in. It's not really a secret, it's just that some of you guys are just watching it straight where they can hear everything and it's not really productive. So if a man is, if you're living in the same house, house with a man, or you're getting ready to move in with a man, or you're trying to take your relationship to the next level and move in or get married or whatever. This discussion needs to be had about the bill pay. So never move in with a man unless he's paying for everything in the household. OK, it's up to you when you want to stop working or not, but if you are, you know, trying to get your career up, work, work or work, whatever. But when it's time to marry and settle down and have children, if that's what you choose to do, I wouldn't work during those times. I would instead work on something else more personal or do something I could get paid for at home, you know, but I would not be working and trying to raise a family at the same time. You know a lot of women do it, but I can't. It would just drain me and I like my energy to sprinkle, sprinkle, you know, So make sure you know you're resting and your feminine if that's the lifestyle that your man can provide for you. Okay. And make sure when you choose the type of man that you're going to be spending your life with or start a family with, make sure he's able to financially provide for you. If you're going to be exclusive to him, that means if you're going to marry him. And if you are going to be exclusive to only that one person without other options on the table, you just left yesterday's Oh, thank you girl. Sparkle sparkle. Appreciate you, girl. So that was on my other channel. I appreciate you y'all need to read the names on the channels, but I appreciate you. What if you don't want to have kids, then don't have a baby? Why don't men like women who are just as attractive as them? I think that being pretty would attract good looking rich men but attract ugly poor man because pretty men want to be the pretty man in the relationship. OK, they need a ugly pigmentia. So ugly pick. Misha can pay his bills. OK, ugly man got money to pay pretty women's bills. OK, this is how it works. That high school stuff is not real in the real world, All right? When you get out of high school, it's time for reality. When you get out of your 20s or mid 20s, it's time to choose lifestyle or looks baby, which one you going for. So. Sometimes you can have both, But as a woman, you need to be the pretty one in the relationship. Always. OK. Yeah. Pretty men are for your youth before you need, before you have bills. OK? Pretty men are for before you have bills. All right. So you ain't got no bills. And you still young. Go, go for all the pretty boys you want to do. Don't get pregnant When the bills start coming in. You got to change it up. You got to change it up. Because if you don't, you're going to start to see pretty is not going to be as attractive to you in men anymore, OK? When they got their hand out, it's not real pretty at all. So get your money. So a lot of a lot of women feel like you know, well, I don't know how to ask for this. You're a woman. It's expected, OK? It's expected otherwise. That's not a real man, You know what I'm saying? And you're letting them get away with getting exclusive rights with you for free. And there's no way you should be living in a house or moving into a man's house, being exclusive with him and taking yourself totally off the market if he's not provided now if he is. If you are already in a relationship and he can't provide for you, then you have every right to be out there and keeping your options open. You got every right to be out there and finding a sugar daddy. But if if the guy that you chose and you agree that he needs to pay your bills and financially support you before you guys get into an exclusive relationship, then that's what he's counting on and that's how you can actually work towards getting the ring. OK, this is a preview of how it's going to be when you're married and how he's going to financially support you. And if he's a good provider. This is going to show you a glimpse of how he's going to behave financially, OK? So you have to keep that in mind. It's nothing against them. It's not gold diggerish. It is realistic if you're working towards exclusivity and a longterm relationship. OK, you said it's hard to keep your options open when that goes against your against your faith. You're married and conditioned condition. Considering giving my husband a second chance to pay all the bills? OK, we'll give him a second chance to pay all the bills. You know, and I don't like to tell people how to believe in their faith, but your faith has nothing to do with keeping your options open. Because a man keeps his options open no matter what his faith is. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle, believe. I know. So just think about that. So it's up to you, though. It's literally up to you. I'm not being exclusive with no man unless everything is paid. Yeah, we create the societal norms that create pigmentias and all this. So whatever we start demanding ladies is what society will become. Because we ruled the society. So if enough women stop accepting Dusty's and 5050, then that's going to be the new societal norm, you understand. So get with it, get with it. You said a lot of older men are happy that the sprinkle, sprinkle movement is going on. I know it gives them the more reason to live and stay healthy. Get that a ARP. All right. Sparkle, Sparkle. Thank you. Appreciate you a BC. Great. Speaker 3 Like I got another reason to. Speaker 1 Deal. I better watch my my cholesterol. So yeah, I mean, I'm sure that they're loving this. I'm sure that they're loving the new. You know, amount of women out there willing to date them because they understand provider. Thank you. He sprinkle, sprinkle. He asked me if I'm dating anyone else. We are not. OK, you don't have to. You can lie all the time. Baby, we cannot afford. We cannot be official. Or we're not official. But he provides for everything. It's been 3 months. I answered yes because I couldn't lie to him. But what now? He's jealous, OK? Because I told you why. Bye. You can't fix it. You got to go back in time and lie. Baby. Lie. If I was your mother for real, I you going to be you would be grounded. What? Why can't you lie to him? I'm sure he's lied to you 2030 times by now. This is the problem. You have too many moral standards. Who do I say like this is the problem? You have good moral character. No, ma'am. Go back in time and lie. How can you fix it? Start to lie in the future. Lie right now and say, you know what, I just want to see how you would react and if you really loved me and I want to see if you would get jealous. But I am not dating anybody else. I just want to see your reaction. Lie and keep lying, OK? Because you if you keep telling the truth to then you're always going to lose. Got to lie. Let me go back up because, yeah, I'll get on my nerves and I can't. Boy, you ain't Abraham leaking shit out. Lie from now on, ma'am. Thank you. Sparkle. Sparkle. If you're not going to lie from now on, don't even ask me no questions. Stay off the channel, all right? I'm sure I didn't miss. I got your super chat, I answered. You probably didn't hear me. Sprinkle, sprinkle. At least I think I got it. Alright, scroll back on it. Speaker 3 Got it. Got. Speaker 1 To put my fan on it's so hot now. Sugar daddy wants you to call him and text him more. Should I? I like to be chased. Just text them one word. Let him finish. I got back together with your 42 year old ex who lives in Miami. He invited you to go rent free and rent a new. Apartment he bought. I'm 21 in a small Utah town. How can I be smart about this? OK. I mean, what are the benefits? Just rent? You get a car? Do you get money? You know, I'm not going to live in nobody's house if I can't handle car. You have a car you can bring over there. If you want to get out of Utah and you, you know that's I don't know why you asking me the question. Sparkle, sparkle. Speaker 3 It's up to you. Speaker 1 Is it beneficial to you? Is that what you want? The answer is yes. Then if that's what you want, then don't let nobody stop you to do what you want. All right, so your husband pay 80% of bills. My problem is he's step. His stepmom and his sisters talk about me every chance they get. What should I do? I'm pretty and I have nice girl who cares. They step, they step. Tell them to step what they step selves. Girl, why do y'all care what people think? I'll just continue being my best version and make them even more hateful. You know? Just keep leveling up and give them more to hate on y'all. Got to stop caring about stupid stuff. Okay because I could care less. And y'all need to develop that attitude, because if you don't, you're going to be asking dumb questions for the rest of your life about what other people think of you instead of focusing on yourself, getting your bag and living your best life. So who cares? You get off work at six. Can you still go to happy hour? Yeah, go to happy hours or don't spark the Sprint. Some happy hours last till about 7:00 or 8:00. Some happy hours bleed over and a lot of people stay. So yeah, go, go ahead. But if if you got to go home and change and all that kind of stuff and go back, it's going to be probably all the good people are going to be gone by then the other channel should be sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you, girl. Appreciate you okay. So yeah, y'all got to get it together. Come on. Get it together. If y'all ask me about somebody else and what they think about you, I'm not answering the question because. But you should have learned by now to stop caring what other people think. If no money from their account is going into yours, stop caring. Who cares? OK. Are you going to cry yourself to sleep at night because somebody don't like you? Then I can't help you because I don't lose no sleep. Believe. I'm sleeping like a baby every night. Got plenty of room. REM sleep. All right. Stop caring so much. It's not it. They don't matter. All right? So stop caring. Don't ask me no more questions about other people. Don't like you. I don't care. I'm starting not to like you either. All right, Stop caring so much. What other people think you won't respect. You want people to like you? Stop caring about them. Okay. The only reason people talk about other people because they ain't got nothing else to do. There you go. Sure. What do you think about men who date sleep with trannies and try to sleep with Well, do they tell you this? Are they being honest with you about it? You said. Should we still take their money? I mean, it's up to you. It's up to you who to take money from. But you don't have to sleep with anyone you don't choose to sleep with. You can still get their money. In fact, if they like training, you can lie and say you want until until this time you can reverse. You can reverse, you can reverse it on them. You like. Yeah, I'm training. Ooh, I can't even tell. I know, right? Give me my money. So. You know, you could say that everybody think I'm a trans, so you know, who cares? Just get your money from every direction and you don't even have to sleep with nobody. Okay, I switched my wigs so much they think I'm supposed to be on RuPaul's Drag Race or something. Anyway, it's a compliment to me. Shoot, I don't care. You said it's the bone structure for me. Yeah, y'all. Probably they going to find a sound bite or y'all going to see the TikTok say and I'm friends. It'll be our inside joke. Maybe less people will come up to be saying sprinkle, sprinkle when I go out or more. It might backfire. What do I do trapped with a dusty and kids Get you a sugar daddy. Go out, go to happy hour, find you. Let your dusty watch the baby if that's his daddy. Or find a babysitter. Or do something. Take him to your Mama house and go get you a sugar daddy. Speaker 3 Level up. Speaker 1 And get out. Find hope. OK. That's the best thing I can tell you. All right, I'm everything by now on this channel. Speaker 2 I was. Speaker 1 A drag king Pick Misha. A priest Reverend. I'm everything. I was a nun. You go back about five years or maybe four years. I was a nun, 20 years old. And you keep meeting men who don't keep the same effort. After a date or two, how do I get them to spend more on me? You have to be memorable and exciting, ma'am. You got to give that. Extra oops. If you're boring and blah, nobody's going to want to call you back. I'm not saying you're boring and blah. I'm just saying if you don't excite them, if you don't create dopamine within their brain, if they don't feel like you're a drug, they're not calling you back. Okay, sparkle, sparkle. How do you flirt with me so I can get money just like that. Flirt with them. Eye contact, smile, glance at them and make them walk over if you got you got to look cute. You manifested some subscribers. Oh, you manifested me some subscribers. Thank you, girl. So appreciate you. Thank you. Mariah 42 disabled. Haven't dated since 2019. Where do I start? Find a group that other disabled people are in that are dating, you know? Or some people have fetishes, you know. I don't know what kind of disabled. I don't know how disabled you are, but you need to get in where you fit in, ma'am. Okay. You need to get anywhere you fit in. You need to go look up groups or dating sites, you know, for people that have disabilities. OKI don't know what to tell you because I don't know what kind you have. So thank you for the donation, by the way. All I can say is, you know, you have to be the type of woman that men can't forget, OK? Or that they can't stop thinking about. Or that they don't want another man to have. Or just someone that piques their interest above all others. OK, that's how you keep getting more dates. And sometimes even if you do, you may be too much for them because they may be used to boring. And so it just depends on what they're looking for. Maybe you aren't what they're looking for, you know? So if you're meeting men online, I'm not sure It's harder to keep dates going if you meet them online. Because you don't have a lot in common and they're continuously swiping and swiping and they find better options from just swiping. If you meet someone in person, you're usually going to have more in common and the chemistry and the attraction is going to be stronger. So you, that's what I'm saying, meet in person and stop doing this online dating and wasting your time. I mean if it's just for practice, great, but if you're if you're really trying to keep a man interested, don't meet them online. Hi, Mr. Chat. Do a sugar daddy. Skip. Haha. Okay, Valary. Sprinkle, sprinkle, sugar. Daddy gave me his. His bins. Should I still sleep his bins? Decurse. Should I still sleep with him? I mean, that's up to you, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm not going to tell you what to do. Level up as a wife. Yes, sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. How do you ask for an allowance just like this? I'm going to need some money and I don't, I don't really know how to, you know, come every month and tell you how much I need. So let's just get on an automatic deposit from your bank account to mine or to my PayPal so we don't have to talk about money anymore. And that way I can have all my needs met so we can focus on the relationship. That's how you ask. All right. I already answered that question, so. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. So, yeah, you got to make sure you just ask if you're a woman, you look good. He want to sleep with you just ask or tell him like that if if he got to go, he got to go. You know, you should know the right time to ask and how to ask if if y'all are in a relationship. So you just moved in. Online dating is. How you meet new people under 21, I can't go too far. Where do you recommend okay? Well, I mean, if you're under 21, you can still go out and do things, but I guess online is okay for you now. But as soon as you turn 21, you do get out there. Okay or just go walk around during the daytime at different places in a nice area because, yeah, online is not so good. Because you're it's too much competition. OK, OK, so y'all ask y'all ask some good questions. Don't ask the same old stupid dumb questions. I'm sorry, I'll have to put it that bluntly. But y'all know y'all know better. OK, so a lot of a lot of women have issues asking for stuff. This is problem number one. You don't know your value. And so you have to ask permission. You have to figure out how to ask. And you're scared. That energy right there is repelling your money. If you know you deserve something, you have no problems or issues letting the man know that you know you're worse. OK, Because y'all are too scared of everything if a man ain't scared to ask you to sleep with him or to send you some nude pics. But you're scared to ask him for $100, or to pay some bills, or to put you on an allowance, or to buy you a gift. That means you don't value yourself, and he values his self more than you value yourself, because you've been conditioned and trained to think it is wrong to value yourself. And that's why y'all don't get nothing because you're afraid you don't know your value. But you know who does know your value? The men. I love giving money to women. I believe as a man, my purpose in life is to give money to women and to work hard so I can keep giving money to women provider. Men know their purpose is to give and give and give with no expectation. OK, It's for the sprinkle. We appreciate your your donation, Sir. Appreciate you, Sprankle. Sprankle. So thank you. Thank you, Sir, for letting the ladies know that there are provider man who like to provide. Get your money, ladies. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 1 Said that, Was that? Was that a troll? I don't know if that was a troll, but they did say a mouthful and it made sense. Do you always have to get dolled up? I mean, it depends on what type of man you're going to attract. Do you want a man who likes dolled up women? It just depends on who you're trying to attract, how you feel and you like. For example, if you want to test the theory of getting dolled up versus going out and not being so dolled up, it's your choice. It's a numbers game so you can experiment all you want and whatever works best for you, that's what you do. It works for me OK, because like back in the old days if I if I went out looking like this, I'm catching point blank period. I'm catching it all. Stuff paid, don't got to pay for nothing the whole night, Everything paid. With future dates, okay so. But if I go out looking blah and playing, I don't know, I don't know, I might not get the attention that I'm getting now looking dolled up. So it's up to you sometimes, Okay. So sometimes men think you look a certain way or like someone that they're attracted to. So that's what they're literally going for. Some guys like, oh, you look just like this person, or you look just like that person and that's what they're looking for. They're looking for, Oh my gosh, that girl looks like her or that girl looks like this person. That girls look like this celebrity. And so when you're dolled up because celebrities doll up, you start to give off this energy that you're valuable. You know what I'm saying? So just think about that. Do you have to pay taxes on $1.00? Yeah, you already start taking that money. Sparkle. Sparkle on cash out. That's messed up. Where is my phone? By the. Speaker 3 Way. Speaker 1 Oh, here it is. So yeah, creating the fantasy darling. So yeah, just do what you got to do. Do what works best for you. You say if she wrote out, went out looking like that, she's picking me up in her car and paying the whole night driver seat. Only if you're a child. Yes. I'll take you to get some ice cream and I'll take you to chickie cheese. All right, Sprinkle, sprinkle. What you acting like Chuck E Cheese? Come on. So anyway, you gotta turn on my little fan because these lights are hot. Let's see. Hold on. Y'all. I'll go back up here. Trying to get the oh shoot. Speaker 3 Hold on, trying to get all the What the heck? Speaker 1 Hold on one second. Go on. Alright, I got it now. Speaker 2 Hawks. Speaker 1 Cannot conceal all the Super traps. Speaker 2 See if the ones I missed. Speaker 1 How to level up as a wife? Get more money from husband don't work. But I'm gonna say girls start looking super good. You got to look super good and ask for things. When you look super good, the other channel should be prerequisite. OK, yeah, so let me tell y'all a story about. Speaker 2 James, let me get through these. Speaker 1 Comments first. What do I do? Trapped with a dust offense? I answered that one. Get a shit out of me. OK, answer that one. Answer that one. Answer that one. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you, Davina. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Dating a provider. He gives you 1500 a month all you need for now. He likes compliments. I don't want him to start to think he is attractive advice. A compliment about other things, like his intelligence, OK. Or his, you know, his humor. So compliment him about other things besides his looks. Oh, thank you. Sparkle, sprinkle. Shayla. Appreciate you. You need a bigger ring. How should you proceed? Losing it is too obvious, OK? If you need a bigger ring is I mean, is it little? Is it real little? Tell them what you want for your first anniversary. Say on my on our first anniversary, I want you to upgrade my ring. Say that so you know what I want for our first annivert, my first anniversary gift? A ring upgrade. Then he'll be like, oh, you don't like your ring. It's too small. We can change it right now if you want, but see if you're not too upset or too picky or too demanding and just say you want it as anniversary gift. Then he might go ahead and switch it up for you sooner because yeah, it's nicer. What's my take on this generation? Why are women accepting so much less? Where we need other women to tell Okay, let me tell y'all where it all went wrong. Let me tell y'all where it. Speaker 2 All went wrong. Speaker 1 The neo soul movement and no nothing against Erykah by doing them and Maxwell and y'all. But they made Dusty look glam and then all the Dusty started thinking that they was all of that. And and and looking like who did it and why. The glam was optional. So the grunge, the grunge era, and the neo soul era allowed people to to romanticize the dusty hood or the dusty living okay and even Erykah. Badu said, in a roundabout way, that they told her to dress like that. They told her what to wear during her early days and she didn't really want to wear it because that's not how she started off anyway. But since there was this new old soul movement and she had to fit in, she, you know, she wore all the stuff and it became a trend to be the dusty hotels. And that's where the word dusty comes from, OK, because they be ashy wearing them sandals walking around and they feet be ashy. So that's where the term dusty come from. They dusty all right. So now y'all know the story. Now after that, there was a whole level up movement, But a lot of them, dusty stayed dusty because they was really dusty. They was just in disguise among the people that were, you know, fashionably kneel soul. And they started to try to blend in, but they was really just broke, all right. And it was too late because Pigmentia had fell in love. And Dusty had got her addicted. And thus began the pick we should and Dusty era for the new generation. Okay. But there's the story in a nutshell. The grunge and alternatives for, you know, the alt people, the old soul for, you know, for the black people and the people of color. So now y'all stuck with Dusty's. Because of a fashion trend and a music trench, that's what happened. Now you got to get back to the early 90s glam where everybody was getting that money. OK? That's why the 90s styles are coming back. So you can get your money back. And Sir, will you ever do a seminar? Nope. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. I'm so sorry. I will never meet and greet. If you see me in person, it's fine to say hello, but I will never strategically do a meet and greet. I'm so sorry. And let me tell you why. I don't understand why people want to do a meet and greet. There's no difference. I'm probably going to be nicer to you online or more talkative online, so it's better just to meet me here. All right? And y'all have to think about this. I don't think of myself as a celebrity. I don't need to be doing no meet and greet. OK, it's sufficient. Thanks. I was thinking year three after getting married. But year one is better for me. You can marry on your birthday. Oh well, Congrats. Hopefully you'll get your ring upgrade. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. You said people are too crazy in Durant. Yeah, I can't meet people in person. Y'all know that unless I see y'all out and about. I've met like 3 people so far this week. So you know, it's a meet and greet almost every day. Now, do people recognize some? Yeah, a lot of people do sprinkle, sprinkle. They, they say sprinkle, sprinkle. That's how. That's the greeting. And they're very nice. Like I met one nice lady at a restaurant. She was the Hostess and she sat, she sat us. And then I met another young lady at the beauty supply shop the other day and someone else. I can't remember where, but you know. Sure. I'm just sending you some love. Oh, thank you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. To upset my haters. Thank you, Susie. I appreciate you, girl. Yes. OK. This thing is blowing my weed. Hold on. Alright. OK. Thank you. How do you ask for money when he said he was going to give it to you and he hasn't asked him, ask him. Say, did you forget that you were supposed to be giving me some money? You got to stay with attitude. You can't be. You can't be too nice because a lot of men take your nice kindness for weakness, so they know you're going to ask. But if they don't respond or don't finish doing what they said that they were going to do, they're no. You may not ask again because you might be perceived as a gold digger, but if you look better than them and they are lucky to be dating you. You need to go ahead and ask again and tell them, did you forget that you were supposed to give me some money this week? Because I'm still waiting. I, you know, I got stuff to take care of. Are you going to do it or not? This is how you got to talk to these dudes, OK? You got to how to talk to him because that means I'm highly upset. I'm upset you're still trying to impress me and you not coming through. You are already messed up. You better put some extra up on top of that money, or else, you know I'm going to get it elsewhere. So that's why you got to pick the right target. Because if they like you enough, they're going to go get you the money that they already promised you. Oh, you said finish telling the James story. Dang, I almost forgot the James story. OK, so, oh, a married lady asked me should she level up. Being married, can she get more money from her husband? The answer is yes. Since I've been looking cute for the last week and upgraded some of my wigs and my makeup and and got some new. James bought me a bunch of new clothes. Actually he just gave me his credit card and told me to go shopping online. Now he's paying for a trip for us, me and the kids and him to go on a flight to a disclosed location. I would not be saying until we get back. I've I I was literally, I've ignored him for three days straight in a nice way. I know it's so mean. He was asked me to scratch his back last night. I pretend I couldn't hear. Then he asked. He's been on, basically. He just been on hold for a while. So he's trying, he's trying to he's trying to get my attention, but you know. It keeps him doing nice things, so you can't be too nice. I'm trying to tell y'all, y'all can't be too nice. Even after 22 years, you can't be nice. This is how you get more. This is how you get more. You keep, You stay leveled up and you stay who you are. Not too nice because you know they like that. It makes them still feel relevant. You know, like this fan's blowing my hair and it turned off. So just don't be too nice to your husband, ma'am, if you want him to respond and give you more money. I always have a problem with something, but you got to stay leveled up. Do you think Okay? Don't ask me about Okay. I know y'all are new to the channel, so I'm going to give y'all one more chance. I'm putting you in time out. Do not ask me about other Youtubers on my channel. Okay, I'm gonna give y'all a timeout warning next time. Y'all gonna be black if y'all ask me about anybody else. I don't do that on my channel. I don't talk mess, at least not talking mess directly with people's names. Okay, why do what do I do when your man is cheating on me but he is rich? You tell him to meet you at the car dealership because you need to upgrade on your car. Or you tell him let's go looking at new homes and upgrade on your home. Or you need to go look at second homes. If y'all have it that good. OK, so you need a gift. You need a grand gesture gift, whether it's a vacation, a trip to wherever you want to go. You need something major because he's going to cheat, but he needs to pay for your forgiveness. Now if you can also cheat back if you choose to Or you can divorce. But I'm get some money out of it first, get some gifts. Let him try to apologize with gifts. What are the best subjects when freestyling him? Whoever you're talking to, that's the best subject. Sprinkles, prankle. Thank you cams. And thank you, Shayla. So talk about them. Ask them questions. Let them elaborate on them. Men love to talk about themselves, OK? Because they're trying to impress you so that they need to talk themselves up. He said Dusty's going to provide Herman too. Well, you know, they got to get in line. We got first. We have first. Dusty's got to get in line. What are some nice ways to be mean? Never be satisfied, ma'am. So for example. If they do something nice for you, you don't be satisfied, especially if you're married. You just say thank you or oh, that's nice. And on the fifth time, on the fifth try, then you say thank you so much. You know, you give them that fifth one, you know, work your way back up to five the next four times. Oh, thanks. That's nice. Oh, well. You, you know, it's nice, but you could have done this, you know, stuff like that. Then the fifth time you're happy or whenever you choose to be the happy time. OK, Just. Oh, my gosh, thank you so much. How did you know I was craving this? And you must have just read my mind and brought it to me. Thank you. So. Speaker 2 Much. Speaker 1 I was thirsty so he could about close trips, tickets, but you praised him for some water. But keep it rotating, you know, keep it rotating. Let him be surprised, said how. To get a man to take you seriously. You got to take yourself seriously first. You serious about getting a man that's going to provide you? Take yourself serious enough. To walk, talk and dress the part and act the part. You know how they say. How do how do you get an audience to take you seriously as an actress? It will. The role you take and the part you play. It's going to depend on if they take you seriously or not. Are you dressed correctly? Do you fit the role? Do you know how to you know your lines? You know so take yourself seriously 1st and then other and then men will. Should I ask if he's offered to pay? But honest yet what should I ask? If he's if he offered to pay but honest yet, I don't understand what that means. Basically, if you offered to pay, get your money or leave him alone. OK? Because men do that all the time to keep the conversation going. That's why you get the money the same day that they offer. Don't be waiting around for it soon. Well, let's be at the ATM or cash at me or zel me or whatever. The 6000 okay for engagement ring also I have it gone. Why are y'all asking me if that's okay? If it's okay with you, It's okay with me, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I don't know. Is it okay you? Do you like the ring? You know I'm not the. I'm not the one that gives you permission to do what you got to do. That's up to you. If you like that ring, then it's just the right one for you. But thank you for the donation. Thank you, Jocelyn for. The Super chat Appreciate you any advice for targets with good career and money but no sexual experience. He's early 30s besides me, 34 and shy and insecure around women. But I don't want to leave things too much and seem desperate. OK, just get his money, girl. He ain't going to be worried about no sex unless he trying to get, you know, get some for the first time. Just get his money. Why would you be desperate? If he has no sexual experience and doesn't make any sense, you should be happy about that. Just get just get his money here. Unless I read that wrong. Hold on, let me scroll back up. What to do if dusty's from your hometown are talking about me and their group chat, Matt, because I won't provide a girl who cares what dusty's think? I keep, I keep telling you all who cares about what a dusty think You going to date any of them Dusty? You going to marry any of them dusty's and let them talk. All they have to do is talk about women and gossip. Let them continue to be gossiping women okay that's what God that's what old women do. Sit there in the group chat. And gossip. All right, so let them do their what Their heart's desire. Are you worried about some dusties but no money? All right, can you give an example of first date? I struggle with value in the presence of a wealthy event. Girl, you're the woman. You are the value. You're the reason men get wealthy. So stop thinking like that. Okay. You're the reason men wake up in the morning. Stop. Especially if you're if you're pretty, stop thinking that you're less. This victimhood mentality is what keeps y'all broke and taking care of Dusty's. Stop it. You're the reason why men are wealthy, so get their money. That's why they're making it to give to you. This James pay his exwife bills too? No, his exwife make more money than him or she did. I don't know. I told you she was Barbara the Builder. But she made a lot of money. She worked for NASA. OK? She was real smart. She had like 5 degrees. Hello, HB Flow. Thank you, girl Sparkle. OK, so you went on a date and the boy took me to Walmart. Afterwards, with no intention to buying me anything. He just want me to try and close girl. Bye. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You let a man take you to Walmart to try on clothes and he didn't buy you nothing. Walmart not even Target. I hope he got that on film because I'm looking for the video right now on YouTube because I know it's under comedy. All right? Takes gold Digger to Walmart. Tries on clothes and not pay. Girl, you somewhere on camera? All right. Your name, Cam. Girl, you just go together. He didn't got you. You need to go find that video. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. That sound like a practical joke to me. Okay. They ain't even got a mall. Where you from? No targets. This. It was late at night, and that was the only thing open. I'm I'm, I'm not going to try on close. At no Walmart, ma'am. I'm just get the clothes. If they don't fit, I'm taking them back. All right. You said that was a joke here. That's. If it's not, it needs to be in somebody's skit. All right. You need to start writing, ma'am. That could be a skit right there. You say you need a glass of wine. After that comment, I know, right? You're up. My heart started beating fast because I was. I was getting mad for you. And then I thought, you know, that dude probably had a camera and it's probably on somebody's YouTube channel as a joke now, OK? Okay. So to answer your question, if that was real, you dumb period. Do not repeat ever again. Do not go to a man to Walmart and try on clothes ever again. Just buy the clothes. Tell him he buying as soon as y'all walk in. I'm so glad you take it. Be shopping. I need some new clothes Or will you try them? I'm going to try them on later at home. Body's clothes. See, if you would have said that he would have thought you going to take them home and try them on. You would have at least got the clothes and then shut them down afterwards. So that's what you should have done. You should have tried no clothes in the store. You should try them on at home without him. And he thought he was going home with you, but he was wrong. You understand. That's the game you got. You got to beat them at their own games. You've been watching for two years. Your advice taught me how to love and value myself. Now I'm with a man that adores me. Is emotionally intelligent and fully provides. All I can say is thank you. Oh, thank you, Keisha girl. Well, I'm so happy for you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Maybe. Maybe these ladies will be there in a few years and not in a Walmart dressing room. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You're 23 and live alone. Having multiple men provide and don't work. What should I tell men I do for a living If they ask, I want a bigger big winner. Okay. So say tell them you work online with doing data entry. I don't know, John. Or customer service. I work at home. I do customer service online. Call center at home. I don't know, take a lease, a lease paying job or you file stuff online. Or I don't know, something that they don't care about or or not interested in at all. What's your opinion if he doesn't want to invest in clothes, makeup, but invest in business, bills, education, things like that, he's trying to bread Crime, Okay. Well, tell him you need books for your education. Get you a bunch of books, then take them back and get the receipt and go shopping. Sprinkle, sprinkle because you can like books cost a lot of money. Yeah, and bills to make up some fake bills get you some. Make up some fake bills online or get you some a book list that costs a lot of money. Speaker 3 And there you go. Speaker 1 Or say that you're paying for an educational course and it's this much, and then get your refund. You know you're married to a provider, but I'm not happy with the lifestyle he's providing. What should I do? Wait for him to make more money? Well. It depends on how old he is because you can only make so much amount of money at a certain age with a certain amount of experience unless you get 2 jobs or apply for a higher paying job. So those are his options. Get two jobs, apply for a higher paying job or get you a sugar daddy. Those are the options how to deal with meeting fiance's exwife for the first time had a child with her. What you wear how to act. Should I be a diva or nice. I'm 12 years younger than her but she acts entitled, expensive. I really wouldn't care. I I know I'm just going to look good period. I'm not trying to impress nobody. I'm already. I'm already wedding so it doesn't matter you know. So don't try too hard. That's the that's the whole thing. Just look cute. Don't try too hard because if she thinks. She's already probably trying to outdo you. Let her come looking overdone, overdressed and trying to compete where she can't compete, alright? And you just look pretty, alright? You already know she's going to do the most, so let her look like a a clown for doing such and you just look like your normal self and look cute, OK? Because because women will try to do that. It's like a I don't like competing with other women. Either you look good or you don't. Not going to try to go all out. And then, you know, if she look, if she feels like she's looking better than you or she's more glam than you, maybe that'll boost herself esteem and let her not hate you as much as she hates you. You know, let her get the win. It doesn't matter. You still got him. I wouldn't mind. We like you, girl. You look good. How you going? Where you get them shoes at? So be complimentary. And let her get that win. She already lost them. Might as well let her feel good. Either way, Okay should you let him fly you out for the first date if he gives you money for the flight and hotel room, You're 25 and he's 54, Okay. First of all, he needs to be giving you money for the time that you're spending with him as well. So. If you're 25, that means you probably got a job, right? So how much are you going to? Speaker 3 Lose. Speaker 1 If you miss work, so you need to calculate that up. How much is parking at the airport If you park there? Even if you catch a Uber, how much is the Uber plus parking? We we don't know. How much is it to board your three large dogs in a kennel that you don't really have? But how much do three dogs cost to board at a kennel? For how many days you're going to be gone? You need to be charging him money so that you can go out of town. Unless you ain't never been nowhere and you just want to get on a plane and say you've been fluid out, then go ahead and do that. But you need to be compensated for money. Why? Because if if his frequent flyer miles on his credit card adds up, your flight is free. Baby. Let me tell y'all James have a credit card and he uses it all the time. There's thousands of dollars and points on there okay. That's probably why I got these new clothes, all right, because the credit card company gets that to them for free for using the credit card. So get some more money, baby. Three big dogs, time off work. Then you're going to lose your luggage. So when you get there, he got to take you shopping, but you're not even going to bring no luggage. Because you going to pretend to lose your luggage? Just have a carry on and then when you get there go shopping. Ma'am. That's how you get fluid out the sprinkle sprinkle way okay. You need to make him believe you got some dogs, so get on YouTube and find some barking sound bites and start playing in the background on the phone conversation. All right, y'all know how to get it together. Three large dogs are probably like 75 to $100 a day at a kennel. So three times however long you going to be out there. Plus they got to get groomed and bathed. That's that's extra two $300.00 so you. Speaker 2 Can go good you're. Speaker 1 Looking at a good thousand right there. All right. How to get money from a man that's pressing hard for me to go out with him? Tell him the reason why you don't want to go out with him is because you don't have the type of wardrobe that you will feel confident and attractive in to go out. It's like all I have is you know and when I think about going out it gets I get nervous because I don't have a lot of nice going out clothes. Then he going to give you some money to go shopping. Okay, sparkle, sparkle. But make him drag it out of you. Make it, make it, make it seem like it's a deeper problem. And make him drag it out of you. Like, you know, you know, I really do want to go out with you. I like you so much. It's just something else. And, you know, I don't want to tell you because it's like, it's kind of embarrassing, but it's not bad. It's just something more, you know, just something that bothers me about myself. Oh, nothing's wrong with you. You're perfect. I know. I just, you know, I kind of feel insecure around. You know, going out. And there's other women who are more fashionably dressed than me and, you know, they have nicer clothes. And I really don't have much as far as, you know, nice clothes to go out with. Oh, that's no problem. I'm buying something. How much do you need? Oh, really? Oh, see, now, now I'm definitely want to go out with you. I don't know what to say. That is the sweetest thing someone has ever, ever done for me. Are you sure? Oh, yeah, I'm sure. Oh, my gosh, that is so nice. You are so sweet. Well, you know, I just want you to be comfortable and want you to be happy. I am happy now that I can get you to go shopping. All right, so you got you got to throw it out like that. That's how you get your money. All right. Get your money, get your money. So, yeah, they want exclusivity. If they even want to date sometimes. You got to make a pay. OK. You said, do I yell at James girl? Yes. Not all the time. Just sometimes that that makes them excited when you yell at them. All right. Just a little bit. All right. So we list our providers on our car notes. What if we don't want to be responsible if they end up stop paying the note? Yeah, make them Cosign. Sparkle Cosign. Cosign. So, yeah, I do yell at him sometimes. When he does, does something I don't like. I, you know, I try to say it in a nicer way, but then if I get upset, I will yell. But not really bad. You know, the next sentence will be nice if I yell, but you know what I mean? Business. Yep. Yep. Yep. So, yeah, but, you know, we've been together for so long. It don't even like yelling is not even an issue. You back to being normal like 5 minutes later. So it's not like in the beginning in those emotionally draining relationships where y'all yell at each other, you know they're all sad and don't know how to start talking again. Really. We yell at each other and 5 minutes later we watch a movie eating popcorn. OK, talking about what we what we need from the grocery store. OK, sugar daddy, angry we. Haven't met After sending you some money, we quarrelled over 8 messages, but I quickly okay. Let me read this in this British accent. Let me get my British accent on SD. Angry. Actually, let me not do this British accent. I need to brush up. I need to go watch Bridgerton. All right. OK, let me read your question. You quarrelled over 8 messages but I quickly ended the quarrel to meet. He seems annoyed. How do I approach next meet? OK, you should have played with him. OK, this is where this is where you should have played with him at and y'all met. You should have been sarcastic. You know what I'm saying? You said you know what y'all met. You said you know what? Because I almost didn't come. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 1 I almost didn't come, but you know, you're very interesting, so I wanted to come meet you. I hate fighting. Speaker 3 But. Speaker 1 I'm glad I came. So how are you? So you should have want. You should have been the one playing around. He wouldn't have been annoyed if you had said something like that. You got to always be on your game, ma'am. Always have your game on. Don't just show up there looking like that. You know what? I almost didn't come. You got to come in there with attitude, you know. I almost didn't come. But you're so interesting. I just have to meet you. I don't like fighting, but actually I'm glad I came. How are you? I'm starving. Let's go get something to eat. All right. You got to get, you got to get a little attitude a little bit. Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 They like that, OK? They like it, believe me. Especially if you look good, they like it even more. OK? I promise you, if you look good, they like it even more. If you ugly, don't even try. You got to be nicer. Pick your battles. So if you're less attractive, this is how it will go. I'm so glad to meet you, you know. Oh, you look much taller in person. Wow, I do hate fighting. So, you know, shall we start over? That's how you got to do. When you live attractive, you very attractive. If you're very attractive, you can't have an attitude. And let me tell y'all why? Because when a man sees a very attractive woman, his dopamine levels skyrocket, OK, when he likes what he sees and when his dopamine is high. Any pain or painful comment that you give him feels good, all right? That's why I tell y'all to look good or y'all argue because you will always win. His dopamine is too high and so anything you throw at him that's emotionally painful, he's going to like it. It's kind of like S&M, he's going to like it. He's. Speaker 3 Going to. Speaker 1 It hurts so good. All right, so. So I say you got to look good or you got an attitude because they like it, and then in the future you're training them to be addicted to you treating them bad, you win. It is psychological. That's real game right there. So if you look good and you start training them with your attitude, it's going to feel good when you're mean to them. That's why I say he like it. Thanks for your advice to level up my appearance and mindset. I used to agree to coffee dates. Ha ha ha. Now every day, it's like Valentine's Jay. He's a wealthy man that puts in a lot of effort. That's right. Thank you. What's your name? Louisa. Lisa Lacia. Thank you, girls. Sparkle. Sparkle. Yes. Every day is like Valentine's Day, girl. What do you do when you're really in love with the guy but he doesn't provide for you? Do I go for the money or stay for a little girl? When you can take a bill and mail in the word love on a check, that's when you stay, all right. When all the bills companies start taking love as payment, they stay. OK, because love don't last that long. Not that in love feeling it's going to be gone and that brokenness still going to be there. Baby sprinkle, sprinkle. Unless he win the lottery or get a huge amount of money and still stays with you. So I would never like if you're young get that out of your way, stay in love for as long as you need to. But your next man need to have money. All right, sprinkle, sprinkle if you if you under 25. You can love it for a little while longer, but after the age of 25, you need to be starting to go get some money. Now You, already over the age of 25, get you a sugar daddy on the side. All right, because I I can't do it. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 1 Know that's that's a that's a Horror Story in the future. Only broke men don't like when women ask for money provider. Men love giving money to women every day. Her money is her money, and my money is her money. Okay. I give more money to mean women who are never satisfied and always want. Speaker 2 More. Speaker 1 Oh, sprinkle, sprinkle, Sam. Say he give me and women money all the time. Thank you, Sam. Next time give me more. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He like me. And next time put 50 up there. All right, all right. So this it seems like. You just don't want his wife to kill. What girl? Y'all. He's too scary about stuff. Y'all live in a neighborhood like that. Y'all need to be dating people. That's less violent. Thank you, Fon. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I appreciate that. OK, How do you balance being? Daughter like cute, girly, bratty, spoiled and being mean men like Mean Girls you know but also the old ones love daughter like girls OK well I guess because like if you're if you're if he's old enough to be your daddy then you already daughter like girl alright if you old enough to be your father then you already you you ain't got to do nothing. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He gives you 2000 for a purse on a date. How do I ask for more money on the next date and how long do I wait? Never slept with him? OK, OK, so you got the purse. So have the purse on your next date after you purchase it and pull out a raggedy wallet or a raggedy keychain. So get your rat most raggediest wallet. Go get you a wallet from Walmart. Or go get you something cheap that looks really bad. OK, stuff it all up and pull it out of your purse. And you need a new wallet. Well, the wallet was this much more. Oh, well, you want the satch. You want you want you want a wallet to go with it? Yes, because it's so embarrassing pulling out this wallet. I have this nice purse, thanks to you. You are so sweet. I love this. I'm getting lots of compliments on it. But when I pull out my wallet, people looking at me crazy, they think the purse fake. Get the wallet too, girl. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. You said the difference between Brady and me. It depends on what you need to get accomplished. You know you can be Brady, you know, But if you need something you're trying to drive a point home, then you'll be mean, OK? You're 20 and this is how I got an old man to pay your bills. You got an old Subway uniform from high school? Girl, I'm not going to laugh. Took bread. Pics of me. Wait, what is that? Tired? OK, girl, Subway. I'm thinking bread. Took tired. Pics of me at a random subway. And told him my shift was 4:00 PM to 10:00 PM four nights a week. Sprinkle, sprinkle, GIJI. Know that's right, girl. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That is hilarious. Something I would have done 2 girls. Speaker 3 The one I would have done. Speaker 1 Girl, you should have been by the dumpsters crying at night. That's what I would have done. That maybe take out the trash at night with these rats and roaches and criminals. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle. Are you trying to get some money from Sam, girl? OK, Sam, somebody's giving you that cash app so you can go sprinkle, sprinkle in, sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, Tanny. You got it so good you're spoiled. You don't have to do nothing. How do I avoid being lazy looking like who did it and why? Sometimes. Think, OK, always. You always got to have something to do when you wake up in the morning. OK, so I I have kids to take to school, so I have to get up, which starts my day. So I get up, make sure they get to school, then I get dressed. I do my level up cosmetic packages, print out the little labels for the post, then I go take them to the post. And then I come back home and I either check all my emails or do a live video or relax or watch TV or something. But you have to have something to wake up in the morning for, whatever that is. If you don't have any kids, you know, maybe you can get a pet or a dog that you have to get up to feed or something to make yourself get up, have errands to do, get you a planner and make plans just to do something in that day that requires you to get up. And go out. Maybe run an errand or maybe do a social media where you post every day so that you're accountable for getting up and looking cute. So just make sure that you have an activity that makes you get out of the bed and do something with yourself every day, not every day. Like you can rest on a weekend if you want to, but have something to go to every day. Okay, you said do I work from home. Ideas for someone who's home ever you start an online business. OK y'all. Let me tell you what I do. Y'all. Speaker 2 Need to get my book? Speaker 1 Where is that? It's called how to do what you love. And there's like so many ideas in there. It's linked at the top with all the other books. I'm gonna link it again, but it gives you so many ideas on how to start online business or what to do. You know, a lot of people sell cosmetics, some people sell jewelry, some people sell hair. You know, find you something that you can do and start doing it. Or some people just, you know, advertise for other people and do marketing. OK, you said I don't care about other creators. Yeah, y'all gonna get blocked bringing up other people. Like I I give people so many chances. If you like I, I say please don't talk about other people in my comments because that's kind of like not nice here. Speaker 3 You go. Speaker 1 He said start a YouTube channel like this Idiot. She makes $1000 a night. OK, well, you know, not at first. I started off with like 20 subscribers. I was happy when I saw twenty. Oh, I got 20 subscribers. I've been doing this for 10 years, Sir. Oh God, I didn't wake up last night and start a channel. I've been on here since. 2015 or 14? All right, so don't be mad. Speaker 3 Get your money up. Speaker 1 Sure. You helped me so much after my divorce because I was so naive. You and a nice gay man taught me about the true nature of these men. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle, fawn, dog. That's OK. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Well, I'm glad me and the gay man could help you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, so, yeah, go crazy. This old head helping me start a small business. Now you open my eyes. Thank you, girl. Get your legs. Sprinkle, sprinkle. We're gonna have, like, an influx of entrepreneurs. In the next year, watch, because everybody going to get their bag, everybody going to level up, everybody going to start a business, all right? They'll never have to work for anyone again and they'll be provided for. It's just the formula, ladies. Get a get a provider, get his money, start a business, get your bag and free yourself. You stay with him if you want, or you can go because you got your own money. I'm meeting up with a married man. Should I ask for things before the date or once I get there? You could tell him to bring you some girl he married. He used to bring his stuff to women. He probably he probably easier to get stuff out of literally. If he's married because he's used to giving, he already know the deal. Ask him to stop by the store and bring you something because you broke or lost yours. It'll be whatever. Whatever you need. I missed a super chat. Oh my goodness. Let me go back up. Let me Scroll down. All right. I helped you improve your confidence with better boundaries who I allow to come and have access to me. Thank you. Thank you, girl. I appreciate you. I think I already answered some of these. All right. I see some that I haven't gotten to. All right. Can I do a members only A video please. Thank you. OK, let me see how many members I got. Yes, that is a good idea. Goddess wildbread. I might do a members only video. Yes. Thanks for your advice. Love it up. Your appearance and mindset. OK, I got that one already. OK, hold on. Lost a good man. Any advice to lure him back? Well, you don't lure him back If you you got to give me more details. How did you lose him? Did you? Did you cheat on him? Did he leave you like who left? Who? Was it your fault? Is he a provider man, You know? Is he beneficial to you? Only broke me. OK, I already read that one $2000.00 for purse. OK, OK, I got that one. Got that one? OK, OK. Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 OKI got the sprinkle sprinkle from lovely Chanel. Thank you so much. Appreciate you. Thank you so much for the Super sticker universe soldier. Appreciate you better. Speaker 2 Get this one. Speaker 1 OK, here's another one. I helped you so much after your divorce because you were so naive. You in a nice game. OK, yeah, I already read that one. Thank you, girl. OK this is my dream she I just want to be free from working. I'm always stressed, crying and itch on edge. I am new. Hear any advice to start a girl you got to go start with the sugar daddy like the one the one lady earlier in the comments she said she got her old subway. Uniform from where she worked at Subway in high school. Put it on and pretended she was crying and went and stood out outside of a random Subway and showed it to her old sugar daddy, man. And he started paying her bills so she didn't have to work. So you got to you got to do some creative things around here, man. You got to go date older and get the bag, then start you a business if you want or stack your money. And free yourself. Because I'm, you know, working day and night and only having a little bit to show for it is wasting your life. Okay. That's not why we were put on this earth. We're not supposed to work ourselves to death for nothing. There's better ways to get stuff done. Speaker 3 You just have to go do it all right. Speaker 1 So how do you find a sugar daddy? Go to happy hour. Go to happy hour in the rich neighborhoods or next to a nice office building or in a very nice area. Just like from three to about 7-7 or 8:00. O'clock. That's where they be. How should I text my sugar daddy? I hate texting And call. Hey, do you hate money? Talk about something you like. If you hate texting and calls, talk about money. Or OK, you're 28 and your boyfriend doesn't pay any of the bills but buys nails, toes, wax roses and pays every time we go out. How do I ask him? Sorry, do he live with you? Like do y'all live together? Because usually, I mean, and if he's if he older than you, so if if he's dating you and he doesn't feel, if y'all don't live together, he might not feel obligated to pay your bills or all the bills. Because if you guys live together you wouldn't have any utilities or rent. He would pay all of that and you could save your money and he could pay for the other stuff still right? But I don't know if you all live together or not. But if you want him to pay his bills and your bills, you got to make sure he can afford that. OK. Thank you, Raquel. Sprinkle, Sprinkle. OK, you're new. You want to try my happy hour advice? What does one do once there? I've never got. OK, basically it's all the people that just got off of work at nice offices or wherever they're coming from. They don't want to sit in traffic, so they go to get a drink and an appetizer or something, and they socialize. So you're it's a social hour, literally. Everybody's off work and they're chatting up. It's their chance to meet new people, flirt and all this kind of stuff. OK, so you just go in there looking cute. Don't overdo it. Don't look like you're going to the club, look like you're coming, look casually classy, sexy. So think about, like, if you were just getting off of work somewhere, what would you look like if you're trying to look sexy and you're just getting off work but not slutty? OK, that's what you need to go dress like. Thank you, Brittany. Spring on, Spring cold. Yeah, I will go between three depending on what time you get off work if you work, but most happy hours are from 3:00 to 7:00. Or three to six. Yeah, sexy. Not slutty. If y'all are wearing okay, I don't like to call out names or companies because unless I'm promoting them in a positive way. But if y'all are wearing some ratchet looking clothes, ditch all of that okay. If y'all are wearing that ratchet stuff, ditch it. Throw it out. All right, ditch it quick. Do not, don't don't wear it. Unless you live in a place where everybody is ratchet. Even the rich people, if you are wearing super ratchet clothes, trying to freestyle or go to happy hour in a very nice area, it's going to look real bad. OK, so classy, sexy. Thank you, lovely Chanel, appreciate you. I have to use the word ratchet because I think people get a better idea of what type of clothes I'm talking about. All right. Thank you for becoming a member. All right. You're begging y'all to stop mentioning. OK, OK. They can read that. It's Frankenberg. Thank you, girl. Matrix. All right. Yeah. Classiest key. All right. None of that stuff that y'all see. Don't be. Don't be trashy baby, OK? You know, and the sad thing is some of the younger women don't know that they're ratchet. And so somebody got to tell them, what does ratchet mean to you guys? If y'all go back and watch my big talky sketch, that's ratchet and I wouldn't even super ratchet. I was classy ratchet. Some of y'all are out here being ratchet and looking for old money, new money, going to the wealthy side of town, but looking like you just came out of the flea market, you know, with some ratchet clothes on. So don't do that. Don't. If you look like you shop at the beauty supply shop for clothes, change it up, man. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle. Speaker 2 There you go. Speaker 1 You said wasn't keeping yourself up or being independent. I don't know what that means. Oh oh, that's why he left you. Okay, okay, Why do you need to be independent if you got a grown man? Sprinkle, sprinkle. I don't understand the relationship and why someone broke up with you. Speaker 2 Like. Speaker 1 Independent. If you have a man, you're not supposed to be independent. Unless you you keeping your options open, you're supposed to be able to rely on him for something. Thank you, Sonny. This if you didn't keep up your appearance, that's why he was left. That's why he left. Let me tell you something about beauty and appearance when it comes to men, It's like a drug I'm trying to tell you. And men will tell you this. When a man sees a beautiful woman, it's like a drug. Dopamine is released into their system. They feel good. It's like a shot of drugs to them, Okay. They come home every day and don't see that. They don't feel happy when they get home or if they see you every day and you don't look beautiful, they don't get that shot of dopamine. And let's say that they go to happy hour or somewhere else and they see a beautiful woman and they get that shot of dopamine. What do you think they're going to start doing? That's why you got to stay looking good. That's why you got to level up. You got to stay looking cute. Because if you want to keep them addicted, you got to look good every day for every other day for as much as you can. Okay. Keep. Keep doing it, Okay. That is the secret formula. That's not like Mr. Crabs from Crab and Patty. Speaker 3 The. Speaker 1 Crab. What is it called? SpongeBob So dopamine. Man's brain addiction, obsession. Look good ladies every day. And you know, This is why a lot of women gave me a hard time a couple of years ago when I said to look good while you're around your house. When you try to go to bed at night to look good, at least to give him the shot of dopamine that he needs to stay addicted to you and to stay feeling like he's got a prize, OK, how can you look good in scrubs? By taking them off and putting something else on. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You mean at work? Okay. I thought you meant for happy hour. If you're at work, then you need to get some feminine color scrubs if you can. If it's loud, you need to get some fitted scrubs that fit your body and then you need to wear makeup and have pretty hair. Okay. The scrubs need to look out of place when you wear them and look when people look at you. They need to imagine what you look like without the scrubs on. So they need to be fitted scrubs to fit your body and a cute color if it's possible. And you need to keep your hair and makeup looking cute. You got it. There you go. There you go. Some somebody says some short acrylic nails. Whatever type of nails you need for your job because some nurses can't have it. Who knows? I know what kind of job you have, but definitely look look good. Thank you. Sprinkle, sprinkle, juju BB. What if he knows how much you make because of that damn tick tock shop sales counter. And he knows my business. Tell him you got a partner and you got to give them half sprinkle, sprinkle. You got a silent investment partner that you got to give half that money to lie. That's not my all my money. I got people that put together my orders. I got to pay off my staff. I don't get that much profit. I'm barely making money. Lie girls, every time they ask you about your business, they're not doing too well. I had to give all my employees a raise. Inflation. I barely. I barely may just lie. Then you're gonna start giving some extra money. Girl, how, how to find and where to find the Silverman for 20 years. The Silverman, The old Man. Happy hour. After work, next to nice office buildings, go get a drink between three and six, 630 All right. So when you go to happy hour, should you order food or just one order just one drink because somebody going to come and buy you to rest if you look good. Okay, how long should you stay? Talk. Talking in the happy hour until it ends, until you're ready to go home. Like the happy hour is usually 3 hours. You know you can work your way around if you don't find somebody and and when you meet someone at happy hour, you're not obligated literally to stay and talk to that one person for the rest of the night. It's not a date, it's social hour. So you can get a drink from one person, talk to them for a few minutes and say, oh would you excuse me and go walk on to the next. You can make your rounds a couple times, whatever. It's a social hour. So you don't you socialize and you buy yourself one drink. Then you walk around, you see some guy, he's talking to you and he orders something. It looks good. Go. Oh, that looks really good. What is that? I never. I've never had that here. Is it pretty good? Oh, you know what kind? That kind of does smell good. Should I get something? I don't know. If you put it on my tab, you know, it's how you do it. You don't pay. They pay. Sometimes being entitled and nonchalant gets you so much, you know, If you're afraid to ask for anything, if you're afraid to insinuate, if you're afraid to be entitled, you're never going to give nothing. So that's what you got to do. You just got to walk around, act like nothing is wrong. But they're supposed to pay, and that would be it. So that's what I did. I never paid for nothing. There you go. And these are professional gentlemen. These are professional men who have really good jobs, so they don't care about paying. You know, they got a whole tab and they put their. Stuff on it, They're friends. Stuff on it. And whatever pretty lady that comes in their path, they'll stuff on it. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 So there you go. Go to a nice happy hour in a nice area, look huge, be social and you won't really have to pay for it pretty much, if anything. OK, don't look nervous, don't look like you don't belong there, don't look like you're scared to to speak up and say something because that's how they know you have a little self esteem and they don't want to be bothered with women like that, OK? Unless they're trying to use you. OK, so y'all just got to do y'all just got to go in there like it's supposed to happen. That's literally itch, OK? What if you're too young to for happy hour? Then don't sit at the bar. Sit on the outskirts and order you some food, ma'am. OK, they'll straggle over there if you look good. Do you approach people at happy? No. You bump into them, ma'am, especially the ones that look like they got money. You bump into them because everybody drinking, everybody having a good old time. It's social. You accidentally bump into them so they buy you a drink. Pretend like you spilled the drink that's probably already empty, and then you're just going to buy you another one. OKI said this on my last video. So you bump into them. They're already drinking. They feel like, Oh my gosh, I spilled her drink. Let me buy you another one. By the way, what's your name? And if you look good, they're just going to come over to you and offer to buy you a drink. It's not like going out at night. It's too this is the place to socialize. So you're going to get approached more likely. OK, and you got to go by yourself because then approach women who go by themselves. Easier. Stop going with a group of women. Or if y'all go together, separate and look like you're alone. OK, you said these chats are hilarious. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 1 You said you hate alcohol. Then don't order alcohol. You can drink cranberry juice or something. Get a Sprite. I don't know. There's when I used to go out, there used to be people at happy hour that didn't drink. They was just there for the social life. They'd be them old man being there. You know they can't drink. They got that high blood pressure and on all that medication they'd be drinking the tomato juice. Over there you see a tomato juice at happy hour. And some Gray hair. That's what your money is, ma'am. Sprinkle. Sprinkle washed a wife's nightmare Amazon Prime and saw Barbara D Builder in action. Thank you, she. Speaker 3 Will pure in this. Speaker 1 Greg, I don't know if I want to watch that. I might. I might start crying. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. How do you make sure you're not being too nice? What do you mean? How do you make sure you're not being too nice? I have never had that problem. Even if I tried to be too nice, I couldn't do it for too long. Just don't be a people pleaser. That's all you need to do. Don't be a people pleaser. OK3 to six, three to seven. That's happy hour Bars at restaurants. Fix the nice office buildings or in high end areas, rich, wealthy areas. Happy hour bars, restaurants, bar restaurants. Sit at the bar. Yes, happy hour is where people go socialize after work when they don't want to sit in traffic. You met a guy online who took you to dinner at a phenomenal restaurant this weekend. His he gifted you with a pair of doubitons and I thank you. What? Oh, Arsenal. Sparkle, sparkle, Gerke, sprinkle, sparkle. That was very nice. I see a lot of men know that gifting early on gets them points and they get to move along a little faster towards the bills. All right, so you already you know you can pay bills. All right, great. You can go for lunch as well, but there'll be more people during the social hour because they can drink more heavily and they're more into the social scene because if they just go to lunch, they'll have to get back to. Speaker 2 Work or. Speaker 1 Back to business. So I mean you can do, you can do lunch, but happy hour is going to probably give you more options, OK, sprinkle, sprinkle, but definitely you can do lunch. If you're going to do lunch, I say go near like the medical businesses. And you're definitely going to be getting more of the, you know, the doctors and stuff. Go where some plastic surgeon offices are and go to those little restaurants over there for lunch. Most likely they may be dining alone at the bar. So try to find, like if you're going to do lunch, go to those type of places you can go to nice office buildings next, you know, restaurants next door to nice office buildings. And always sit at the bar. Don't sit at a table by yourself, Okay. Always sit at the bar. If you go to a restaurant, that's where men approach, OK, I know that's common sense, but some people just don't know, so I have to say it there. Speaker 3 You go. Speaker 1 You don't want to move in together, he says. You're too free spirited. Should I prove myself? Girl, you don't prove yourself to nobody. If you don't want to move in, you don't want to move in. Find somebody else, you know? There you go. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He wipes his mouth on my dress when we both got home and told me not to wear it. No more, girl. Then tell him to take you shopping. Sprinkle, Sprinkle. Okay. Well then, take me shopping. Open up your laptop, get on your phone, get on whatever shopping app you love and make him drop some money or some new clothing. All right, sprinkle, sprinkle. And if you don't, take that dress right to the cleaners with his money and have it cleaned and wear it again when he ain't with you. I wish somebody would want they nasty mouth on my clothes. Alright, you said cleanse it with some sage a girl. What kind of dress was you wearing First of all, what was it showing you? Showing everything? Do you have some under boots sticking out or something? What was going on with this dress? Speaker 2 Was it short? Speaker 1 Too much cleavage showing. What was it? A body con? What's happening? Y'all. Get off social media and get to happy hour. Okay. Y'all. Y'all gonna learn one day, alright? Y'all go to happy hour. Stop dating online. Unless you're just bless you. Y'all date online. I mean stop dating online. Go, go out. OK Men are more likely to spend if you're right in front of them. Exactly. Please tell them. It is so okay, let me tell y'all because. Speaker 2 Y'all just don't know. Speaker 1 It is so much easier to get a man's money in person, ladies, especially if you meet them in person. You know why? Because that dopamine, Let me tell y'all why online dating is stupid? Because a man is is flipping through that phone and they they're seeing Pretty Woman after Pretty Woman after Pretty Woman. That that dopamine already high. You ain't special, man. Okay. They're they're hopped up on dopamine from from flipping through. You're not special. But if you're out in the real world and you look good and not everybody is putting up their best photo on a dating site and there's an ugly woman here, an old woman there, an ugly man there, and then a beautiful face because you walked in dopamine you. They hone in on you and they walk up to you and they feel a chemical reaction. Because ain't nobody else in the room looking as good as you. You can't flip through, you can't see no booty pics. All he sees is you. So when he sees you, it's almost like a spiritual awakening. And he's ready to spend. OK, so y'all, get offline and get out. Go to happy hour, go to lunch, go to brunch on the weekends, go to Denny's, go to IHOP, go, go somewhere on the weekend. Where you know you're going to be the best looking thing up in there. So when you walk in, you got your pick, Okay. It's that simple. All right. Now if you're going to, you know. So that's how you get the man with the money to spend quickly and to have this physical attraction to you faster and much easier. Get out of the dating apps and get on. You know the little bar stool, OK, Because y'all are not doing well on the dating apps. Unless you are. But I definitely say you're going to get more if you meet people for real in real life, OK? It's a numbers game. You got, you got to, you got to go out often and eventually you're going to meet the one that's going to be, say, okay, I'm ready to provide. Come on. So make sure you're getting your money and men who start spending on you right away as soon as they meet you, they're they're already expected to spend the next time. So if you meet them at happy hour and they buy you a bunch of drinks and some food or whatever, they've already spent money on you the first night that they've met you. And so guess what? Now they have to actually take you on an impressive date once they you know, when they get your number and stuff. Now you're not going to be asked to coffee because you already had drinks and food when you met at happy hour or or lunch or whatever. So guess what? The next day is going to be a real date. It's not going to be no stupid coffee, all right? So meet in real life. Get off them stupid datings websites, because think about this. If that man who's at happy hour is on the dating website and you on the dating website, he didn't pass your pick 50 times, don't you think he's going to recognize you from the dating apps? So y'all need to get off them dating apps for a couple of months and start dating in the real world and see how much better you're going to do. All right, all right. You said if James was Muslim and part of the religion you would not already a part of. Would you have accepted his proposal? The way that I looked and dressed, if he was Muslim he wouldn't ask me to marry him. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If he's 44 and still has a Discover Card, is that a red flag? I know his family got money and hello properties. Hell of properties in Southern Cal. He dines and wines. I don't know because he has regular OK, you know, they if you have good credit, all the credit card companies are going to send you credit card applications. I get like 20 of them a day. I just throw them in the trash. But obviously he took some out. I don't know, Discover Card. I don't. Speaker 2 Know nothing about that. Speaker 1 As long as he has enough to provide for what you need him to provide for. For now. If you can't see him providing for you in the next five years, then don't take him that seriously. If he can provide for you like you need him to, well then you know. See what he can do. That's funny, You see a discovery card I haven't seen one knows in forever. So yeah, So what I was saying is the way that I used to dress back in the old days, I don't think a Muslim in would have asked me to marry y'all steal $50.00 from your dusty dads. It's bomb. Y'all are silly. Sprinkle sprinkle girl. I look like. I look like somebody that would torture you back in them days. Okay. And sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, you say. You've been married. Meeting married men at happy hour. That's what I hang up, Mandy. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You didn't Speaker 3 know? Speaker 1 You said body caught in 2023, girl. I don't know. They still sell it all right. Should you be doing this at 18? It It depends. You know, some people are early bloomers, some people are late bloomers. It just. Speaker 2 Depends. Speaker 1 Like if you hang around older people and they're already been doing this, it do. It'll come naturally to you. But if you haven't, it might feel weird or new, and you may be too young if you don't have, like, mentors, all right? So stay off the date and ask for like a month and start going out instead and see what happens. Sprinkle. Speaker 3 Sprinkle. Speaker 1 They're saying I'm a sociopath. I'm saying I'm a sociopath. Yes, I'm a sociopath. Big time sociopaths, stay paid if you have noticed. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Sociopaths. Stay paid, ma'am. They don't take no BS. They don't get emotionally drained. They just get their money and keep their standards. All right, That should be goals. Men are turned on by sociopaths. Exactly. They like. Especially if you look good. You got to look good, though. You can't be crazy. And ugly, because that's just scary. You said they owe you rights. Sociopaths. OK, Can you give some tips to ensure a man keeps providing for you and doesn't stop? Yes. Make them invest lots of money, look good all the time. Make sure that you have like you're stacking your money so you're saving money. And if you don't have a lot of money, men are less likely to leave you high and dry because they feel guilty. So never lead on that you have a lot. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 They'll leave Barbara to Builder and pick Mission now, who have good jobs in a second. But if you don't, if you feel, if they feel like you don't have a lot, they'll stick around and provide longer. OK, especially if they're older, Sprinkle, sprinkle so you can't be trying to outdo them because they'll feel comfortable enough to leave you without giving you any money or constantly providing. So you got to keep it to look like you're barely making it. All right. You got to be. Oh, I don't know. I don't know if I should spend money this week. It's kind of tight. Just say stuff like. Speaker 2 That. Speaker 1 It'll keep around longer because they know if you if they leave you in a desperate state and they want to change their mind and come back to you, that you may have already attached yourself to a hold of the man you know to get some money, so. They don't like to leave you if you have little of nothing because they think, especially if you're pretty, they think okay, well, she's going to not have any trouble moving on. So if I stick around and continue to pay and make sure she's okay, you know, then I still have access. But if you have everything you need, you got a bunch of money and stuff like that, they're like, Oh well, she got it, I got to go. All right. You said it's James Muslim. No, no. Someone was just asking me if he was, would I have changed my religion or what? I've married, still married him. He wouldn't have approached me if he was Muslim and married and talking to another woman unless he would have while I was drinking alcoholic beverage, you know what I mean? So I'm sitting there drinking alcoholic beverage in a bar. I don't think he would have been in there. So it also, you know, you're less likely to meet certain types of people in certain places because due to their faith in their religion, they may not partake in alcohol or, you know, certain things. Speaker 2 And some do. Speaker 1 I got stories too. I got some do, some do partake some own bars. I've gone out with a few Muslim men. I ain't going to lie, we went on lots of dates. They used to. They used to keep my tab. They used to pay my tab every day. Every day. I went to drink, they would pay. So yeah, alright. That's what I'm saying. I didn't want to tell on y'all, but I knew I knew two guys who owned a bar and they would let me drink free every day, and one got a crush on me. He wanted to Take Me Out, so I went out with him. Then his brother had a crush on me. He wanted to Take Me Out, so I went out with his brother. Speaker 3 We didn't do nothing though. Speaker 1 Well, we made out a little bit. But he was. They were cute. They weren't ugly, so they were cute. So I used to get a lot of stuff free, you know what I'm saying? Free food. They used to cook for me because they had a little bar and a restaurant back there. They used to cook me some Lebanese food, giving drinks. Read to me. They would read me the profit while I was sitting at the bar drinking, eat some of the Lebanese food. You know why they liked me? I'm going to tell y'all why they liked me. Because I was smart. I was giving them deep conversations. You said. Now I know you lying. OK, well, you think you know men always think women are dumb. That's why when you are smart, they're totally surprised. And then they just give you all their money. Free drinks, free, whatever. As long as you keep coming back. I am married. Speaker 3 Yes. Speaker 1 I'm using this thing because these lights are hot. Alright, what if you don't drink? Then get something that's not alcoholic at the bar. They sell other things besides alcohol. You get a new type of drink. Yeah, my story time's a while. I used to have fun, ya'll. Speaker 2 I dated cops. Speaker 1 Bar owners, Yeah, my roster was crazy. Yeah, so I had my foot. OK gold diggers got the best stories. Yes, y'all got y'all. Got to go find some story time videos because I told everything like it was. It was very fun. My youth was very fun. I'm going to tell you all that. He said not the pigs. Well, see, this one had two jobs though. He was like part like actually I think he switched careers. I don't know. He was like an anesthesiologist assistant. I don't even know this is girl. I was 18 then he became a cop, like after a couple of years. So I got with him before he was a cop. But I still saw him like in certain areas when he became a cop there, I'll put it like that. So I got away with a lot of stuff. Speaker 3 Alright. Speaker 1 This is way before Jane. I said I was 18, y'all had a fake ID, so I was doing stuff at 15. I was in bars. I was in clubs because I have fake ID. So we all asked me how I know the game and how I have all this experience and how I know what I know because I have been in the bars and in the clubs since I was 15 years old. Okay with a fake ID and it was fun. I wasn't doing anything with the guys at No 15 though, like I was chaperoned. Okay. But I'm saying, you know, you go with a group of people, they going to give you one of their IDs, you're going to get in the club with them, you know, little sister. So, I mean, I've been out there since I was 15, getting, getting whatever I wanted, free drinks, you know, whatever. But I will shop around with my sister, so. You know, they, her and her friends looked out for me. I was just in there. You know, dance and have a good time listening to music and stuff. OK, what do I think pick Misha doing right now? Cooking or cleaning. Whichever 1. Sprinkle sprinkle, you said, rubbing her man feet. I don't know what you're paying. Some bills. All right, you said the prudes and judgmental habits. What are about to have a Fielding. I know, girl, because you know you know what? Because they never had their fun. They were too busy cooking and cleaning and chasing behind a dusty to go out and have real fun in life. That's why they mad and bitter, because they missed the opportunities. OK, I had my fun. All right, I have no regrets. I did everything that I wanted to do, and I'm not bitter about anything, all right? I don't ever have to wish I should have, could have would've because I already did it. And I don't have to be mad and bitter because I settled for some dust, you know? So I go out and have your fun, ladies. That's why I tell young women, go have fun. Don't worry about trying to get married. So young, go have your fun. So when you do get married, you don't. You're not trying to look back. You already did what you wanted to do. You know, you're not sitting there depressed because you ain't never, you know, went out of town or dated this type of person or, you know, did this. This is that You're not sitting up there sounding like you missed out online because you lived your life. So go live anybody that's judging somebody for living. You know, I don't have nothing to say to them. They're just mad I'm going to live my life. You know why? Because I I, I I told y'all. Working at a Funeral Home will give you a different perspective in life. I was in the funeral industry. You don't know when you're going to go, so you better live your life and have fun and stop judging everybody and sitting there being upset and mad because you didn't live your life. You better go live Okay. Let me tell y'all something I like. I said I was a mortician. I worked at funeral homes for years. People talk about you when you did in your caskets. Okay, y'all sit up here worried about what people think of you. They going to talk about you at your own funeral. Because I've seen it many, many times. They going to talk about you all y'all when y'all laying up dead in y'all caskets. So go do what you want, period. OK, all right. Y'all should hear the stuff that I've heard at funerals. It's pathetic. They still judging you. You ain't even alive. So go live your life. Don't worry about what Pick me and him saying and go have fun. Go get your bag and do what? Speaker 2 You got to do. Speaker 1 Because they always going to talk, but as long as you are happy and doing what you want. And living by your standards, that's all that matters. You lived life how you wanted to live it with no regrets, okay? And not being bitter all the time and judging everybody else because you didn't live your life. Go live, get your experiences. How was that when I got married 26? Do I think social media ruined relationships or is it the way you perceive? OK, I think, well, when I met James, there was no social media relationships, you know, or it was very, very new, like nobody really did unless they were like super young or nerds, you know? So I feel that after. I don't think it was a problem with my my day, but like, if I were trying to date today and have to worry about social media and stuff, I think I'd be even slicker and smarter. Okay. I figure out ways around it. You know, you got to have an alias social media presence. All right, what? Was I naive? No, I was. I was not even high school. But like I said, I had an older sister, so you know, and a mother. We didn't fall for the okeydoke, OK? He gets frustrated every time I ask for money what to do. Tell him to put you on direct deposit so you don't have to talk about money anymore. Say, OK, well I hate talking about money too. Why don't we just get me on direct deposit so we don't have to keep discussing this and then the money is just going to be deposited in there every month and we can focus on our relationship and doing something and having fun. Say, just like that if you get mad about that, then move on, OK? Because he ain't trying to spend you need you need to put your foot down if he wants to be seen in public with you, especially if he old or ugly. He's supposed to be giving you money, ma'am. Your boyfriend is so sweet and has been providing for you since you were 17. You haven't paid rent since then, but you're 20 and get a bad urge to cheat. That's because you're you're so young. You're supposed to have that urge. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So go cheat and just don't tell him he probably been cheating. They're not telling you. Speaker 2 Either. Speaker 1 So you go to the site, OK, go cheat, Don't tell nobody. Go cheat and just shut up because I'm sure he's doing the same thing. He's probably like, Dang, I want to cheat. Y'all are too young to be that exclusive. Just go cheat. Just don't tell nobody, OK? Keep it, keep it on the low. If you're creeping, just don't let him know 'cause his heart can't take it anymore. And don't ever bring them to the house. Speaker 2 All. Speaker 1 Right. Don't bring them to the house. Y'all go get y'all a motel, hotel, Holiday Inn, whatever. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 1 Say he 20. It ain't the end of the world. Exactly. Somebody going to cheat. Sooner or later. You might as well go cheat. He probably already cheated and ain't telling you nothing. But just go do it. Get it out of your system, ma'am. But they don't know. Won't hurt them. Protect yourself. Don't get pregnant. You said don't cheat for free. Oh, yeah? You better get you someone with some money. That's extra added bonus. Okay. He said that slipped some rappers delight in there. I just, I just remixed the the two thousand 20s with the 80s was at the 70s. I have range. OK Do wealthy guys go out after 8 P 8:00 PM? Not really. Let me tell you why. Unless it's like a gala or something or something, like if they're going to dinner, like at a steakhouse. Sometimes if they're single, they may sit at the bar, so you might can find them at steakhouses on the weekdays in the bar, like a nice steakhouse. Speaker 2 At the bar, right? Speaker 1 Or a nice restaurant, depending on what type of food you're in the mood for. So who is hot? So yeah, yeah, youngsters, go have your fun and stop trying to be faithful. Y'all are trying to act married when y'all are supposed to be being free. This is why I don't like relationships. That are so young like and trying to be super exclusive after high school. Y'all supposed to be free. Okay. When you get out of high school that is your freedom. Stop trying to attach yourself to people and go have fun. You can have you. You know it doesn't. It's not right. Okay. Stop doing that. Y'all are not married. All y'all are doing is wasting your time trying to pretend to be married. Okay. You're trying to pretend to be in a longterm relationship. You're pretending to do what adults are going to do when they get old. You're young. You're supposed to be out there having the time of your life. You're supposed to be out there having fun, dating, traveling, going out. You're supposed that's what y'all are supposed to be doing when y'all are in college and and after high school and in your early 20s, okay. Don't try to have no serious relationship with no teenager. Or somebody that ain't even old enough to drink yet. Okay, y'all need to go out and have y'all fun. Y'all. A lot of these people sit here and try to have these longterm relationships with these young dusties for like 7-8 years and then it's they're going to be hard to find someone else because they've been attached to dusties for so long they didn't missed out on most of their 20s and can't even function in the dating world. So y'all need to get out and start dating and leave their leave the high school boyfriend in high school, all right. Leave him in high school. If he's paying bills, great. Go, go, go, go. Do your thing on the side and don't tell him, but y'all need to be doing more. OK, stop. Stop trying to pretend y'all owe y'all not. He gets frustrated. When you asked me Ronnie what to do, I told you what to do. Tell him to put you on direct deposit so you don't have to talk about money anymore. If he doesn't do it, then go get you another one who will. That's it. And look good when you ask, look really good when you ask. And when he says no, walk out, walk out and leave. You don't know where you're going. You'll be going to the bar to meet somebody new. You could be out and about, meet a new sugar daddy or whatever, but y'all need to start using y'all's leverage as women, especially if you have beauty, you don't have to stand there and take that crap. If you're saying, you know what, I need some money and he gets frustrated, say well. You can put in direct deposit. And so we don't have to discuss this anymore. I'm tired of you getting frustrated when I'm asking for money. Do you want me to go ask somebody else for money? That would be my. That would be my comment. That would. That's how I'm speaking to you. You getting frustrated for having the privilege to give me money, Excuse me? I will go give that privilege to another man, you understand. And that's exactly how it will come out of my mouth. Just like that with the attitude. They're going to be like, reach it for their wallet. All right, here you go. You got to stand up sometimes, man. You got to be like, you know what? If you don't want this privilege no more, just let me know. I can go give it to someone else. Hey, I saw Luby's on the way over here. Y'all Luby's is where old people like to eat. Cracker Barrel Luby's, Piccadilly's. So that was a joke, but you know, so make sure y'all get yours money. Don't take no crap from nobody. If somebody's frustrated when you ask for money, go give the privilege to another man until they calm down. Okay y'all need y'all have y'all supposed to have options. Ladies, if y'all don't look good enough to have options, that's problem number one. You do work on that. Speaker 3 Let me. Speaker 1 Tell y'all a secret. It's not really a secret because I probably said it before years ago, but when I was younger and somebody was not complying, I would just. Excuse myself. Call the next person and go out with them and they would comply. That's it. You know, have options you like. OK. You ain't coming. You're not. You're not coming through. You can't make it. You don't have the Bunny. All right. Oh, hey, where you at? Oh, really? I'm around the corner. All right. You going to be waiting for me? You going to get my ballets? All right, bye. OK, order me a drink. I'm going to be in there. Done. That's it. That's how you do it. That's how we did it. So keep it moving. I will go. I will go through three places. I would have three dates a night. One would be over. I'll do happy hour, go to the club, then go to the after hours. The three, three different people. Okay. That's how we used to do it back at the jet. You know why? Because so one got to go home early. One don't go to after hours because they, you know, they got to get up early for work. The other one, you know, he probably don't have to work or he off and he's going, he's going to after hours. We don't really know what he do, but he ain't got to get up in the morning. Okay, what's the best time and day for happy hour, 3:00 to 6:00. Speaker 3 Sprinkle, sprinkle. Speaker 1 Three to six or three to seven on weekdays. You're off all day tomorrow. Any suggestions? What you do? Go to lunch? Go to happy hour? Sprinkle, sprinkle. You should do a video on rich dusties. I ain't even waste my time and breath on rich dusties, ma'am. OK. OK, he told me he is intimidated by me. I couldn't gauge what he means when they say that. That means they don't really. They don't really want to be with you. You're too much for them. They're not going to be able to handle you. You know what I'm saying? That's what it really means. I recently ended a relationship with someone I loved. He was doing all the right things, trips, money, etcetera. Then he asked to move in with me. I saw Red Flag. He had history of this with others in my own girl. Don't ever let no man move in with you. Y'all supposed to be looking for new places to move in. Or y'all supposed to move in with him. Thank you, Octavia. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. No, don't let no grown man move in. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 1 Y'all supposed to go looking for places together or you supposed to move in with him, all right? You said these women criticize and she would look like trash and work two jobs and pay their mom's man's bills. Okay. You know, I don't really care. Like, thank you for saying that. But I don't really care what these women are saying because, you know, some people, they try to send me these tik toks or whatever, and I see them and I don't even have to click on it or listen to them. I just see what these people look like. And I already know they picked Misha Okay and. They're already punished enough. That's all I'm going to say. OK, it's Broken Sparkle. What's a good age to become exclusive? You're turning 24, but feel like a your whole phase. Feel like your whole phase is just starting. OK, well, I would say go good and strong for about one more year. Get all that out your system and then at 25 and you start dating exclusively for lifestyle and money. OK, it's Broken Sparkle. You got you got one more good year before you start dating for money. All right. Just don't get pregnant. Oh, you appreciate me. Thank you. You dropped that dusty this morning. I'm taking 30 days to level up how I want, and it's up to me from there. Thank you, girl. Thank you. Pretty sprinkles. Sprinkles, you know. Take some time for yourself. That's a really good idea. Get yourself together, level up and go get you a provider. Don't look back. Do you ever think of fixing your teeth? No. It's a good idea if you don't have the perfect sound, No. Unless it's bothering you. If it's bothering you, then fix it. If it's not bothering you, I wouldn't. I wouldn't even worry about it. Especially if you look good. OK, you saw a tick tock that said crooked teeth show you grew up for well, I don't know how your teeth look. If they throw in game signs. Maybe. But if you had a little gap, or if they're not absolutely perfect, I don't think that counts. But if they're throwing gang signs, you might need to go to the dentist. Yes, sprinkle. Sprinkle. A man blocked me when I asked for more attention because he always leaves me on read. Stop begging for attention from these men and stop being a pigmy show. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Learn your lesson from him. He taught you a good lesson. Stop being pigmy. Show. Okay, Where's your other man to give you attention when he's not? I'm trying to teach. Y'all. You need to have about 3 or 4 if you need that much attention, ma'am. 3 or 4. I'm trying to tell y'all how to do it. I had three days and one night. Happy hour. Date. Club date. Happy. I mean after hours date. Okay, you need to have three. You have three. You ain't going to be mad at none of them. Because they all have their position in place. This is for this, this one's for that, and this one's for that. Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 Stop being so needy. Stop being a Pygmecia van. Oh, Denise, thank you, girls. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Do my kids know about my channel? My kids been on my channel. Speaker 3 Yeah. Speaker 1 Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. My kids probably better do better than me up on here. All right? Hotel bar and restaurant for happy hour. Both. All whatever one. I would say restaurant bar first. Speaker 2 Yes. Speaker 1 Maybe on the weekend you can, yeah. Just go. Just alternate them. Okay. But if you're going to go to a hotel bar, stay early. Don't be out there late like a prostitute unless you are one. But if you're trying to meet guys at happy hour, go early, like from three to six. Alright, alright. Your channel and wisdom gave you the strength and courage to leave your husband on the 12th. Please bless. My escape Still living with the Creek? Oh sprinkle, sprinkle, girl, Bush or escape. Well, hopefully you'll find another place. Or he'll find a place soon. But still work on your level up. You just you still need to be lying about things while y'all are still living together. So lie a lot if you're trying to get out of the house. So you're going to go look for apartments or places to live, or you're going to go look for new furniture or whatever, You know what I'm saying? Whatever you need to be looking for for this divorce and just go out and have fun, have some new time, you know, But just lie and say and act stressed when you're there and sad and all this kind of stupid stuff. But when you go, I'll be happy. Okay. That way he doesn't feel like. It's fun for you. Or you're planning ahead and you're trying to hurry up and get him out, or, you know, doesn't look like you're having a good time, so just look miserable around the house. But you know, if you got to take a little bag, put it in your trunk, do what you got to do. You know, go do. Speaker 2 What you got to do? Speaker 1 Sprinkle, sprinkle, oh, Elena, Sprinkle, sprinkle. You got to go spend the weekend with your mom or your sister. Go do that. Or a hotel, wherever you going. All right? Yes. I had my fun. I did what I did. No regrets. I lived my life. Y'all should do the same. So you said. Did my sister marry her provider? Yeah, she had. She was married to a football player. All right. Sprinkle, sprinkle. How do I get man to send me money while online without meeting in person? You already got to have a good storyline. Make up a good old story. Okay. Go watch my videos from yesterday and the day before. I got lots of examples in there. Thank you girls. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Gotta come up with your storyline. How do you make sure you get there? Information for a future date. After me, they're supposed to ask you for your number, and if it's happy hour, most likely they're a regular. That means they're going to be there often, you know what I'm saying? So some people may not think about exchanging information at a happy hour because they're there every day or every other day, but if they like you enough, they will definitely ask for your number if they don't think that you'll be there. So if you're not a regular, they should definitely ask for your number, so don't be desperate in trying to get their information. If they if they're there for happy hour, usually they'll be there at least once in a week, once or twice a week, all. Speaker 3 Right. Speaker 1 OK. Can you talk more about happy hour? Yes, happy hour is a place where people go after work, usually work in business offices or you know, wherever Medical Center. To wind down, have a drink, have a little appetizer of it so they don't have to stay in traffic and and it's a social hour, people go there and flirt, socialize and it's fun. Okay, It's like a little party and sometimes there are regulars and you get to know people that are regulars. So like when I was young, there was like a few happy hours that I would hit and I was a regular at all of them, right, So I could get free drinks at all of the happy hours. So therefore you just meet you. When you meet people and they go there often, they always got your drink, so you would make your rounds. And a lot of times they wouldn't care if you were talking to other guys because if they're old, they just, you know, they just want you to be seen in public with you for about 5 minutes by your little drink, say your hellos, and then you can go on about your business. Because now the next chick who just saw me talk to old dude is now interested in old dude, you see, so old men will buy pretty women drinks. To make other women want them. So this is what you got to do. You got to go find you the the local old dude, the regular old dude that's in there every day. Rub your boob against them. Say hello. Bump into him. Dude, you got to do you having to buy you a drink every time you see him smile. Hey, every time you walk in, he's going to point to the bartender. He's going to point to you. That's it. That's all you got. Speaker 2 To do. Speaker 1 Alright, so get your old man that pays for drinks at every happy hour and have make your rounds. That's what you got to do. You have a lip piercing. Can you give me advice to look for men like alternative girl? Got to find. Go find you one of the bars with the tattoo people. Hang out. I don't know, they call it alternative bars. Go get you a tattoo artist shop owner. Y'all can't ask me about that because I don't know, I was not into the alternative scene. You say your three teeth throwing gang signs. Yo. I have to send you a super chat for that you are. Thank you, girls. I didn't mean nothing by it. You know, whoever got the ask the teeth question. But you know, I try to keep it light. Thank you. Appreciate you. So yeah, they're going to give you free tats. So yeah, if you all have any ideas for her to find alternative men, y'all put them in the comments. Your boyfriend always hangs around with his single friends and not enough time with me. But should should I leave him? No, you should go to happy hour, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle when he out with his friends. You get your friends or you get dressed and go alone out to happy hour meet you another one. Okay. If you like hanging out with men or do you like hanging out with women, then you need to go hang out by yourself and see see what you can do. Okay. But I'm not playing no games. If you have a man, you don't need to compete with no other man, Okay unless he's gay. You need to be out there keeping your options open, ma'am. So when he get going out with his friends, get on your clothes, go out by yourself. They use some friends, all right. Some male friends that have money. So you was the queen. A happy hour. I know, right? How do you get into the gallery? You buy tickets online. You either buy tickets online or you volunteer to work the fundraiser. If there's a fundraising gallery or gallery, yeah. So you can either volunteer or buy the tickets online, or you can get invited by someone who's going. OKA, lot of women, if you have, if you live in a certain area, if you live in a nice area, join like the Rotary Club in your area. You can do it online. You just go to these meetings and they throw fundraisers and galas like for society and stuff for to raise money and you can meet a lot of rich men that way. Or join some type of fundraiser or charity and you get it. You might, you might get invited, OK. Been invited? OK. You've been watching me for since 2018. You're dust free with all bills paid. Level up is real. Don't sleep. Oh, sparkle, sparkle. Thank you, girl. OK, so let's get back to the happy hour. So you got your old man that pays your drinks, right? Old man pays drink next the next place you go. It might be a little bit later. It might be like a happy hour bar that turns into like a club or like you know, younger scene. So usually there's going to be a younger guy then you know he might not be on the up and up or he just might have a little extra cash for no reason and you will buy all your drinks too and your friends drinks. That's all. That's as far as you take it. Him buying your drinks, okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. You work hard, have two jobs and you have to trade. Go to trade school. And still treat it like crap. Are people seeing me as a man? Yes. Sprinkle, Sprinkle. They seeing you as a man. Man. You doing too much. You should be hitting up some happy hours and getting this money. Sprinkle sprinkle. You need to quit something. Why are you doing? Why are you working so hard? You got kids. I can understand if you have kids, but if you don't have kids, you doing too much. You need to go find you a sugar daddy when you go level up your looks and go get you a sugar daddy and quit them jobs or quit something. Quit What are them jobs at least? OK, what about this economy? I don't know about nothing about no economy, OKI just keep keep getting money. When do go to happy hour by yourself? Yep, go by yourself. Better days than others. I would stay closer. Like to the beginning of the week and the middle of the week. Yeah, so y'all y'all are thinking too much. Y'all are overthinking. I win every day. OKI win every day or every other day. Y'all are overthinking it. It's a numbers game. And you know, living to y'all something. But another thing about happy hours. If you are going to the happy hours next to certain places like downtown or the nice areas where when people come into concert or when people are coming to the your city for something major. Like if you live in a major city and there's going to be a lot of celebrities in town or ball players or there's a game going on if you are around a certain area. You're going to you. They're going to, they're going to come in there. You're going to see them. So you got to pick. You got to be strategic around the events that are happening in your city. So sprinkle, sprinkle. That's what I'm trying to tell you. I told you I was psychic. So this is how you meet them. You find out what's going on, who's playing with, who's in concert, whatever, whatever, right? A lot of times, clubs and venues will pay these people. To come into their club or they'll just show up because they're bored and they don't want to sit in their hotel room. So you go where there's more, you know nicer hotels or where you know, you know people are going to hang out. You know the IT place. So I I've met a lot of people at it places on a Tuesday night, okay y'all would think to meet these sort of people it would be like on a Friday or Saturday, Tuesday. OK. Because sometimes they do concerts or it's the night before or the night after, you know, and they just, they hang out extra day or they come in a day ahead of time and they want to hit a club up before they go home or they want to hit a bar up or a pool hall up before they go in in for their, you know, in for the night to their hotel. So going out on a Tuesday night, hanging out on at a happy hour on a Tuesday night or at a a little. Lounge or a club on Tuesday night. That's where you're going to meet a lot of people because they don't have to be anywhere, you know. So I've met very interesting people. I ain't going to Raindrop no more because they'd be showing up at your D m's. After years. I've met a lot of people on a Tuesday night. Let's just say that. There you go. Yeah, they always have games. Go go to restaurants and happy hours next to the hotels that they're staying in. You find out what hotel they they stay it in like a real groupie. I didn't do this because I was just lucky. There you go. But if you go out. People are going to tell you stuff. People are going to be like, so here's sometimes when you go out by yourself other women will will tell you stuff. It was like oh girl, I heard such and such was over here at this place. Girl, let's go for real. I I'm on my way. You know they're not even your friends but they're sitting at the bar and they get some news. And the girl you know who is at this place. Girl let's go. They you can hear entire scretion. You know, so just by going out just randomly by yourself, you're going to hear other people talking. You're going to know what's up. If the place has valet parking and VIP section, it's the IT place. You know, you're usually going to find some good, some good people there, right? You said talk to the bartenders, yes. You said you met Shaq on a random Tuesday. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, see, y'all got to go out during the week. Y'all be trying to wait for the weekend to go out with everybody going out. That's when everybody stay in. Who who got something? You know, go out on a weekdays, People that go out on the weekdays. They ain't got to work too much. You don't have to worry about getting up early in the morning. That's why you got to do it while you're young, or if you're single, or if you don't have no kids, or if you got a good babysitter. You know what I'm saying? Any advice for people with social anxiety? Get over it. Go out by yourself. Pretend you the only one there. Your man looks like it. Looks at other girls on IG, but pays for all my bill. Good for you. You got you. Got you signed up for. Brought you. Found a provider. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Wonderful. He provides. Make sure your bills are paid. All right. Sprinkle, sprinkle. My man pays all my bills and he takes deep breaths. And Exhales. Alright, thank you. Sprinkles. Sprinkle. Say Taco Tuesday. Yes, you said. Let that man look at them. I Dream models, Yeah. She said so. No real name, no real names. Y'all can go find some videos if y'all want from the past. But you know I don't want nobody popping up at my DM. Would you would love to share your advice with my friend that married Troy Dusty, but trying to be considerate of her feelings. Why do y'all have to step into y'all's friends Dusty lives? The best thing you can do is lead by example, because if you try to tell her something, she's going to become defensive. You know y'all know how people you should name it is by her Dusty. Maybe like my mother bear. OK, leave, leave, leave pigmentia. Them alone will lead by example. OKI was told not too long ago by someone I was dating for six months that I was too much work. Is that dusty Lego? That means you're high maintenance and they couldn't afford you. Sprinkle, sprinkle or they couldn't meet your standards. Hey girl Charity, thank you girls for score and cool. Appreciate you. Speaker 3 So, yeah, thank you. Speaker 1 All y'all got to make sure that y'all are keeping your options open, having fun when you're young, going out doing the most when you have the opportunity and the time, because that's when you're going to have your most fun and meet lots of people. And have good memories. Oh, you had a possible provider? Goes to me. How much should I charge him to come back? Oh, if he comes back, then whatever you want to charge him. OK. Money, gifts, shopping, whatever, Cash, app. That's it. Yeah, I think I got all of them. Hold on, we'll go back to see if I've missed another one. But yeah, y'all go start going out and get offline. Nobody's online. So here's my thing. Do you ever see famous people online? Do y'all see football players on them dating websites? Do y'all see basketball players on them dating websites? Do y'all see celebrities on them dating websites? Do y'all see? Rich men who don't have to be on websites. On websites, Get off the websites, ma'am. Okay. Get out. In the real world, that's where you're going to meet them. Well, y'all sitting at home scrolling. There are women going out there and getting the bag for men that are not online. Okay. So let's just go outside. They are the same losers on those websites. Exactly. Get offline, Y'all are looking at losers. Go to the real world where there's more potential all. Speaker 3 Right. Speaker 1 Because in order to go out, you got to have money. You got to have gas. You got to have a car, You got to be able to afford Uber if you had a nice place, you got to be able to afford valet $20 drinks. So you're more likely to find a provider in real life than somebody on a free dating website. Swiping OK, think about this for a second. You meet someone that, just to even get into the place and order drink, has already cost them about $40. Just to get in there, valet, sit down and order him a drink already cost him about $40. Okay. And you might be the most attractive woman in the room or very close to it, but if somebody's on a dating website, everybody looks the same. Everybody got a booty pic, everybody's free, you know what I'm saying? It's no money spent, so you're going to have better quality if you go out. Get offline and get out into the world. All right. How do I feel about an 8 year relationship that feels like a plateau? Yeah, I think you either should have been married or rich by now, stacking your money with whatever he's giving you. Why would rich men need to use dating apps? I don't know. They don't. They're not on there. Especially not the free ones. Okay, Okay, okay. Let me see this. What I should tell I should tell them that I prefer a date to a restaurant instead of a coffee or park, or just give up the girl is somebody. If somebody thinks that less of you don't even respond, that's an insult. Somebody says you want to go to the park with me or meet me for coffee. No Sir. Next. That's an insult, You know, like what? Like what do I look like getting dressed to go meet some random dude at a park or a Starbucks? I'm not doing. I'm not getting up out of my bed for that, OK? Some people lashes cost more than some. Damn, Starbucks gas cost more than Starbucks just to get there. No. All right, you said you met ACFO. They took your shopping on your second date. On a dating app, I just do both. Okay. Well, if you can get both, do both. Yeah. James took me shopping on our second day too. Or sprinkle, Sprinkle. He texts today saying, I know you're busy. Call me when you have a time, but doesn't at least try to call me first or at last. Text. Almost two weeks ago. Girl, why are you worried about something two weeks ago? Sprinkle, sprinkle. You see, this is the problem. You sitting there thinking about some man that haven't text you in two weeks you should have been had about 5-6 more of them and been on by three dates. Ma'am, sprinkle, sprinkle, go out into the real world, meet new people, so. Yeah, meet new people. Stop looking at back two weeks ago, OK? And see, this is a thing like if you've had your fun in life, you're not worried about people no more because you've already done everything. You've already had your fun. You already know what life is like doing the most, so when somebody goes to you or act stupid, it's no big deal. You could easily let it go because you've already had a lot. You've already had your fun. You've already had money spent on you. You've already been, you know, done the most, so it doesn't bother you. That's why I'm telling you, young girls get out and go have fun. Because when when you get older and you start dating and and men try to bait you or use you or trick you or game you, you're not even going to blink because you've already done everything and you're not offended and you don't care. And if they want you, they want you. If they want to spend, they're going to spend. If they don't, they don't. It's not a big deal. You're not going to sit there looking back, you know, asking what happened. You're like, Oh well, on to the next oh, TR, sprinkle, sprinkle. How to leave A man you've been with for five years. But she's been go, go for the girl. I don't even know how you stayed that long. That's torture. Okay. That is self abuse. Sprinkle, sprinkle you. You abusing yourself by staying with somebody like that. Okay. You are abusing. You're basically you're saying I'm worth zero. I have 0 value. That's what you're telling yourself every day when you stay with a man that long who cheats and asks you to pay bills and try to sleep with you. So he cheating on you, he's sleeping with you and you got to pay. So basically you're being tortured, Sprinkle, sprinkle, self mutilation, What? This is what happens when you don't date when you're young. You got to go out and have your fun. Go out and have your fun. Do what you got to do. Don't get attached. Hang out, ladies, hang out. The best thing I can tell you to do is go get you a sugar daddy and don't ever pay a bill again. Level your looks up, okay. I I'm not going to tell. I I don't know nothing about them. Emotional issues with a cheater who makes you pay bills. I I I can't fathom that you paying to stay in a place where a man cheats on you and wants to sleep with you and have his money out have his hand out at rent time. So you know I'm just trying to I'm just trying to tell you how this looks So he go cheat on you on Monday come sleep with you on Tuesday. Have his hand out on Wednesday for bills and you emotionally attach and you can't go nowhere. Well, here's my solution. You need to go find you a man on the side and start cheating with him and make sure he give you some money and you pay half the bills with that man's money. If you can't leave your dusty, OK, sprinkle, sprinkle. At least you ain't coming out of pocket, all right? Or just leave. OK, yeah, cuz that's not they don't sound too good unless you real ugly and you have no choice and you think that's the best you could do cuz see some some women let themselves go, which gives their men. Permission to cheat. Not verbal permission, but he know you ain't going nowhere, so he going to just cheat because he know you can't do no better. So that's why you got to level up so you can go do better. All right, Sprinkle, sprinkle. Best way to ignore pick Misha when she is servicing you. X. She serviced my lashes to Jay and freely shared her preferred 5050. You know, if, you know, if people have a preference to do 5050, let them do it. That they don't have nothing to do with you. Thank you, girls, for it was like, oh, that's nice. Somebody talked to me about stuff like that. Be like, oh, that's nice. I don't get it. I don't tell them nothing. If they like 5050, they like 5050. Speaker 3 Let them be. Speaker 1 How to make yourself? More approachable when you go out alone. I'm pretty and used to model, but guys don't approach me. Go to happy hour. Everybody, Everybody's social at happy hour. Okay go to a happy hour, 3 to 3637 all. Speaker 3 Right. Speaker 1 Weekdays, if y'all are having problems getting approached, go to happy hours in nice areas or next to nice office buildings. Where the crowd is good okay. If y'all can't get nobody to come over to you go to happy hours and I keep telling y'all this y'all act like a lot of y'all act like y'all know what a happy hour is. Look it up online. If you don't know what it is, look up your local happy hours in your area. Look up the best happy hours in your city and get you, you know some places to go. Speaker 2 There you go. Speaker 1 And when you do, you know, make your rounds. Have fun. OK. And look good. OK, You got to look good. You got to look when you walk up in the building, everybody got to turn their neck, OK? That's what you got to do. Not in a slutty way, but you know, in a striking way. You know, you walk through them doors, picnition them, need to cringe every man neck, need to turn. You got it there. Speaker 3 You go. Speaker 1 Sprinkle, sprinkle. You'd have theme music playing in your head when you walk here. You'd be here in the background. You know, walk into the place looking like you need to look. You said I yeah, I I don't care what them pick we should talk about on on Tiktok baby. I don't care. They they looking like who did it and why They can't tell me nothing. Spring. Spring. All right. You said I'm the main character. Exactly. The side characters. Y'all they're silly. Y'all know I don't care what pick we should think about, man. They supposed to think that about me? Okay. You don't have no choice. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. Sure. You're beautiful. You're so awesome. Thanks for leveling us all up. Thank you, girl. Appreciate you, Dido. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If at all, confident woman have a theme song and y'all yeah y'all need to get y'all y'all's theme song when y'all walk in the place. Y'all need to have imaginary theme music playing so that you can walk in your confidence. Whatever song that you choose for the week or for the month or whatever, it can change, but you need to feel it and walk in there as if it's playing. If you go to happy hour, everybody's going to be socializing. Walk around, walk around to the other side of the bar, bump into a few people, let them apologize and buy you a drink and ask you what your name is. You know you're not going to be sitting there lonely unless nobody's there yet. So three, Probably a little too early, so I'll go around 435. If you want the crowd right, you pull out your phone when you out. Okay. That's the wrong thing to do. Struggle, Sprinkle. Supposed to be walking around or bumping into people and acting silly and, you know, looking in people's eyes so they can buy you things. OK, Could you imagine me walking around and fake bumping into you as a man? And I'm so sorry. Oh my gosh, I spilled my drink. Let's go have fun. It's not that serious. Y'all, y'all. Keep making stuff. Too serious. I went out and had fun. I did not care. I knew what I was going to do. I knew what I was getting. What what's what is better? Happy hour or meeting businessmen at lunch hour. Happy hour. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, more variety, more options. You could go to both on these. I did both. Sometimes I went to lunch and a happy hour like back in the day. Like I did have a friend that would do the happy hours with me from time to time. Or she would. I met her at the happy hours, actually, and we would make our rounds. We could go to this place, this place, then come back for happy hour, go to this place for lunch, this place for happy hour, then go to this place after. The lounge, you know, So we would just make our rounds if you have time. Strategies for building confidence, theme music, dress good. Look good. You know, do your makeup. Don't care what other people think. Ladies keep talking about you on Tiktok. Good, good for them. If it's good, I'm happy. If it's bad, I don't care. As long as as long as people are learning I you know that's that's great. If it's good I'm happy. If it's bad I don't care how to get dressed for having like you just got off of work so let's say sexy sexy sexy secretary or. Sexy classy looks. You know you don't want to go in there looking like you at the club. So sexy secretariat. Or just very basic sexy classy, you know, like heels, kneeling skirt. Or, you know, not super short skirt. Don't be showing a bunch of cleavage. It's happy hour. People go there after work. You know what I'm saying? Or some people don't that don't work or don't work that day may go in there dressed a little bit extra because they may be going somewhere after. But try to keep it sexy, Classy, All right? I just said that. Sexy, classy, sexy. Classy, Sexy, classy. Keep some clothes in your car. Keep some clothes in your car. If you're coming from work, change before you go. If you. If you wear scrubs, change before you go. Because all scrubs going to do is attract dusties, All right? Alright, no scrubs. No scrubs. Like TLC song says no scrubs. Scrubs attract scrubs. Alright, take the take the things off and have you a change of clothes. Alright. So have a bag in your trunk, go after work change and go hit a happy hour. If you don't work somewhere where your clothes are appropriate for happy hour, then go change and go to happy hour. This is like y'all have to make this a priority. This is not just something that you do on the side, this is not just something that you do on the weekend if you want to find a provider and have fun and get the most out of your level of journey. You have to put it as a priority. You know what I'm saying? So pack your bag. Get you some clothes. Hit the happy hours. Thank you, Norma. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm getting ready to go. Y'all. I've been here too long. So make it. Make it a priority. You ain't got nothing to lose. You only have everything to gain. OK, So you don't have nothing to lose. So do the most. I mean, I have so many great memories of getting dressed to go out. Go hang out at happy hour and go hang out at, you know, lunch and do brunch and go out, you know, to the little clubs after or to the lounges and listen to live music. I have so many great memories of that when I was young and I want y'all to have the same thing. And you meet so many men with money, Okay, Y'all get off the couch, stop scrolling, get dressed and go out. Okay. That's where the men are with money. Stop dress however you feel the best. What do men like? What? What attracts men in your opinion? That's what you need to be looking like. OK, don't be ratchet though, because like I, let me tell you something about ratchet before I go. If you're in a nice area and there's wealthy man and you sit up there dressed ratchet. A lot of men will be embarrassed to approach you or talk to you. You know what I'm saying? Because if you're too ratchet, they're not going to want to deal with you. So you have to be sexy, classy, OK? Especially if you're going to the nice areas. You can't go over that ratchet. You got to. You got to level up. If you don't know what sexy classy is or classy, just look up classy and then add a little bit of sexy to it. OK, classy outfits, Pinterest. Classy outfits. Speaker 2 Google. Speaker 1 Thank you so much. You brought. I bought your. You bought my book. You a dancer with potential providers. One is merit. We've been on one gate. How to establish my money needs. Where Are you ready to spend already he you a dancer? He know you cost money. He know he got to come up with this money. Speaker 3 So. Speaker 1 All you need to do is look in his eyes or you ask. He needs to feel wanted and he needs to feel important and sexy. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle. So flirt with him. Tell him he look good, he's sexy, that you glad you met him and you needed someone like him in your life to just talk to and get get his money here. You're 19, your boyfriend is 19, dated 3 years. He comes from single parents, so basically poverty and he does well for himself but not enough. He was even working two jobs and his should stay in expenses. But I love him but I love him. That's always the excuse ma'am. OK, you can love him for a couple of more years and when you ready for some money you got to leave them. OK, it's perfect spring unless he makes some money. So you got a few more years for love. Yes, after 2324 you got to start looking for lifestyle and money. OK, so you got a few more years, have your fun, fall in love, get the relationship experience, love on him as much as you need to. All right. Like, I'm not trying to tell y'all to leave y'all as dusties. I'm not trying to tell y'all to leave y'all as youngsters. Because at 19, you can't be nothing but a dusty You ain't got no money unless your family comes for money or unless you got a really, really good job. So y'all are too young to be caring what I think. I'm a I'm a grown woman, OK? That means, you know, if you're over 25, you need to be dating exclusively for lifestyle and money after that. OK, right now you're supposed to experience this so that when you get older, you know what you don't want. You've already experienced love, so you're not going to be missing that you already knows what it feels like to be in love because you already you just said you're in love. So you're going to get your feel of that love and you're also going to get a feel of that you know not having what you want. So it's going to start weighing on a scale love or what I want. Love our lifestyle. Love our lifestyle, Love our lifestyle. Love's going to start syncing the longer you stay in that relationship. Because when you see everybody surpass you or dating up or having a nice cars and moving into the nice houses. And if he's not improving himself and also leveling up his finances, you're going to start to your eyes are going to start to wander to men with more money. Who's offering you more okay? So usually around the age of 23 or 24, you're going to start getting richer men, especially if you're pretty, offering you more, and you're going to start to take them up on it, all right? And if you're dumb, you're going to stick with the man who can't do anything for you, who you've already loved for several years and got to experience love. But he hasn't come up. If he hasn't come up, if he has, great. But if he hasn't changed his finances in that a couple of years? It's going to be a long, long time before he can get his money up, so therefore you need to start getting on to the next OK, so maybe a couple more years, then open your options. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 1 But have fun while you're there, girl. Let me tell you all something. Whoever I was dating at 19, I'm not married to him. All right? So don't even think. Don't even think that way. Have your fun and be done. OK, All right. Thank you all so much. Don't sit on my super chat, but yeah, y'all have great rest of your evening. Youngsters experience, love, experience your life. Go have your fun. You start getting a little bit older and start dating for money, OK? That means dating men that earn money, dating men that can pay your bills. If you're going to be exclusive and you're over 25, that means that man paying your bills all right, period. If you don't think this is possible, then use this time to level up until it is okay. That means choosing the correct target and leveling up and working on yourself at the same time. That's literally it. Anybody can do it, I promise. You just have to have the right combination, the right level of confidence and consistency. So what age did I meet my husband? 2222? Yeah, I told y'all like I was like I was done dealing with justice in high school. Y'all. At least in my teams, you know? I was done dealing with dusties in my teenage years. Okay, you said a RuPaul can do it. We can do it, Ladies, Yes, If a six foot, I don't know, see 6 foot, 36 foot four. If a six foot, 3-4 bald man can do it, ladies, you can do it too. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You're 44, single with two kids. You feel like you waste time with broke men. I'm great shape. I look good and feel good about myself. But a lot of sugar daddies want younger women. OK, I can go get. I'm 44, ma'am, and I can go get a sugar daddy if I want one. OK. It's work if you look good for 44, go get you a sugar daddy. Ma'am. This thing make me sound like I'm saying if I can do it, ma'am, you can do. Speaker 3 It. Speaker 1 Alright, go older. You can find somebody in their 60s, ma'am. Somebody with that, a ARP. Speaker 3 Alright. Speaker 1 Some young men would be getting money. Yeah, you can get young man, old man, whatever. As long as they get money. As long as they're spending. As long as they're spending. That's all I can tell y'all if I I know, likely if I could do what y'all can do it. Come on. In fact, it should be easier for y'all. It should be way easier for y'all. There was one guy who kept calling. He's 70 years old. Girl, you better answer that phone. He could be life alert, Could be emergency. He could be on the floor. Can't move. You're the last number he dialed. All right, Instead of Jeff Bezos, fiance is 54. How do I deal with chronic illness and get money? Chronic. Don't tell nobody You got chronic illness. Laugh. OK, well, here's my thing. If you got a chronic illness that's preventing you from getting out there, then focus on your health. I mean, if you can't get out because of your chronic illness, then focus on your health. You know, one is more important than the other. So if you are chronic, if you have chronic issues, you don't need to be trying to date. You just need to be trying to survive and take care of yourself. You know what I'm saying? If it's that bad, if it's not life threatening or anything, if it's not life threatening, you need to find a way to work around it. Okay. I don't know because y'all don't be specific. I can't answer the question correctly if y'all aren't specific. So chronic illness could be irritable bowel syndrome for you and you got to be on the toilet. I don't know. Chronic illness could be something else for you. Could be, you know. A nerve issue. I don't know. Like, I don't know. I got to be more specific. How? Yeah, so I don't know. Like, I can't answer the questions if I don't have enough information. All I can do is use my imagination. How to get men to approach or bump into You got to bump into them. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Especially if it's a busy happy hour and you got to walk through the crowd, bump into them. If it's not super busy, you can drop something or you just sit closer to them or sit next to them. Because usually if it's a bar, that's you can sit next to people. And usually when you sit next to someone, they start conversation. All right, you said send them a go. Fund me what you. Speaker 3 Said. Speaker 1 OK, you said strip club for chronic illness. What? So here's my thing. Look at you said these older goddesses are making excuses and baby goddesses are slow and these poor sugar daddies are waiting for y'all. Exactly. I don't know why y'all think y'all are too old to a 65 year old man. You young, you're young. To a 70 year old man, you're young. They they waiting to pay bills. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 You think a 70 year old man want a 25 year old? You think a 65 year old want a 25 year old? They can't even listen to the same music. She ain't. He not going to understand her nothing that come out her mouth. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 Those type of men like women in their 40s and 30s and 50s, Okay, we'll go get you a 65 and up or 55 and up or 70 and just go get their money, date them, go out to eat with them, go on trips with them, let them pay your bills. Okay y'all are trying to get men y'all's own age. Y'all need to go get men who think y'all are still young. Okay like I wouldn't date nobody my own age. I'm like whatcha. Y'all. Nobody my age can handle me. Okay. No one my age could even handle me. No one even close to my age can handle me. I need somebody old and paid that's going to do what I need them to do. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You said you you 44. You preferred older men. Because when you date men your own age, it becomes a competition. It's a ego thing. You date older men, it's no competition. It's no ego thing. You know, it's easy. They just do whatever you want and give you your money, especially if they have it. I'm like, you know, the last time I dated somebody my own age, it was, it was OK, but it was like, you know. It was interesting, but you know, it was like, you know, no, too many games. The older you go to, the less games you play. If y'all don't like games, they older. The younger they are. The more games they gonna play, the older they are, the less games they need to play. Speaker 3 So. Speaker 1 That's my advice and they still gonna be playing games, but they gonna be easy games. All right. It's like playing tic tac toe. When you date an old man. You used to know they're playing chickers When you date somebody your own age. OK, giving that tic tac toe over. Now that AARP and the tic tac toe, that's what I'm going for. All right. That's the games you play when you when you date somebody old versus somebody your own age. And bigger prizes too, for winning that tic tac toe. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I would. Alright, so just think about it like that. Thoughts on gays using your advice? Anybody can use my advice. It don't matter. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Yes, use the advice the best way you can. Speaker 2 Get your money. Speaker 1 You said Bill Gates, girlfriend in his fifth in her late 50s. OK, and people ask. Keep asking about cheating. Y'all youngsters. You gonna learn soon. Just keep. Just keep dating. Do you recommend Summer in Houston? Wigs or weeds? Girl everywhere I go got air conditioning, so I'm. I'm going to continue to do what I do. Like if you go on a vacation, if you're going to be outside. I don't see too many people outside for long periods of time in the Houston heat in the summertime. So most people are indoors with air conditioning, you know what I mean? So whatever is best for you? You got a 36 year old to fund your girl's trip to Italy. Thanks, girl. I'll be having a great 33rd birthday. Oh, girl. So you're only 33. You got a 36 year old. Alright, that's good. What do you do for a living, girls? Sprinkle, sprinkle. What's your what? Yes, I ate Italian food tonight. Speaker 2 Yeah. Speaker 1 Alright. Yeah. I don't do meet and greets. They keep sending you some shit, OK? Yeah. Do what you wanna do. There ain't no rules. It's up to you. Get your money. All right, bye. I got to go. Y'all I've been on here over 3 hours. Y'all just got to be answering all these questions. I hope I didn't miss anything. Thank you. All the members. Sprinkle, sprinkle Y'all have a great rest of your evening. Y'all make sure y'all click the like button as you go. Y'all get y'all money. Make sure you get your money. Stop selling for dust. If y'all want to join the Patreon, it's in the description link. If y'all want my books it's at the link at the top of the live comments and I'm it's also in the description bar and I'm put it here again, y'all need to get these books. 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