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Episode 51: Stop Chasing Perfection

from The Being On Stage Podcast

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Episode 51: Stop Chasing Perfection

In this episode of the Being On Stage podcast, host Reggie Dawson shares a personal revelation about how his relentless pursuit of perfection on stage was actually holding him back and crushing his dreams. He explains that perfection, by definition, means no flaws and no mistakes, which ultimately results in a boring performance. The flaws, quirks, and mistakes are precisely what make a performance unique and help create a real connection with the audience. Reggie clarifies that this mindset is not an excuse to avoid rehearsal; performers should still work hard on what they can control. However, a performance does not need to be perfect to be put on stage, and mistakes during a show are acceptable. He argues that perfection and art cannot exist at the same time, because focusing on perfection replaces emotion and artistry with mechanical repetition. He compares a perfection-obsessed performer to a wind-up ballerina in a music box that only entertains for a short time. His final message encourages performers to stop chasing perfection and simply be themselves on stage.

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Speaker 1Shut up, and sit down. Welcome to Being On Stage, the only podcast that gives you motivation, inspiration, and confidence to be better on stage. No matter how you entertain, sing, dance, band, comedian, public speaking, MC, drag, burlesque, performance art, or street performer, this is the show for you.
Speaker 2Hey Rockstars, Reggie Dawson, host of the Being On Stage podcast. I used to work so hard at perfecting what I was doing on stage. As a matter of fact, seeking out that perfection, it ended up holding me back a little bit because it was never good enough. I felt like it was never quite perfect enough for this contest or that contest. Or it wasn't quite, I wasn't good enough for, you know, to reach that next level or to contact. That venue or to perform in the bigger city. I just was never good enough because I was always striving for perfection. And when I took a step back and I really analyzed and really took a look at what I was doing, I was holding myself back. That drive and that push for perfection, it was crushing my dreams. So I decided that there is no such thing as perfect. There is absolutely no such thing as perfection when it comes to performing. I'm going to tell you why. Perfect means there is no flaws. Perfect means that there is no mistakes. Perfect also means that it's boring. Because the flaws and the mistakes and the little quirks that make it unique and that make it ours, that's what makes it a performance. And that's what creates a connection with the audience. The audience doesn't seek perfection when they come to these shows. If you are trying to be perfect, then you don't need to be perfect. It doesn't give you an excuse to not rehearse. much have to rehearse. You can't go out there and figure, well, if I make a mistake, it is what it is. I'll just get over it. That's not the point of this episode. The point of this episode is while you're working and while you're rehearsing, work on the things that you can work on, but it does not have to be perfect to be put on stage. And once you're on stage, if it's not perfect and the mistakes happen and it is flawed, that's okay. Perfection cannot exist at the same time as your art. If you're so focused on perfection and not on the art and the emotion that goes into it, you might as well be a ballerina in a box. You know, those musical boxes you wind up and the little ballerina just spins in a circle. It's fun to watch for like the first 20 seconds, but then after a while, it's like, all right, I'm done. Close the box. That's what your performance becomes when you're so focused on perfection. It becomes a music box. And you don't want to be a music box because as cute as they are, they only are cute and entertaining for a very short period of time. And your performance is beyond that. Your performance is an extension of you. And my friend, you're not perfect. You can't be perfect. Perfection cannot exist if you're an artist. There's no such thing as perfection on stage. You've got to stop chasing perfection. And start putting yourself out there as you are, who you are, because again, you are not perfect and that's okay. Nobody wants you to be. So stop trying to be perfect and just try being you on stage. Keep on shining.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Host Reggie Dawson admits that striving for perfection on stage actually held him back and crushed his dreams.
  2. Perfection means no flaws and no mistakes, which ultimately makes a performance boring.
  3. The flaws, mistakes, and unique quirks are what make a performance special and create a genuine connection with the audience.
  4. Audiences do not come to shows seeking perfection from performers.
  5. Rehearsal is still essential; the message is not an excuse to skip preparation or ignore mistakes.
  6. Performers should work on what they can control in rehearsal but accept that a performance does not need to be perfect to be put on stage.
  7. Perfection and art cannot coexist because focusing on perfection replaces emotion and artistry with mechanical repetition.
  8. The host compares a perfection-obsessed performer to a wind-up ballerina in a music box that only entertains briefly.

Summary:

In this episode of the Being On Stage podcast, host Reggie Dawson shares a personal revelation about how his relentless pursuit of perfection on stage was actually holding him back and crushing his dreams. He explains that perfection, by definition, means no flaws and no mistakes, which ultimately results in a boring performance. The flaws, quirks, and mistakes are precisely what make a performance unique and help create a real connection with the audience.

Reggie clarifies that this mindset is not an excuse to avoid rehearsal; performers should still work hard on what they can control. However, a performance does not need to be perfect to be put on stage, and mistakes during a show are acceptable. He argues that perfection and art cannot exist at the same time, because focusing on perfection replaces emotion and artistry with mechanical repetition.

He compares a perfection-obsessed performer to a wind-up ballerina in a music box that only entertains for a short time. His final message encourages performers to stop chasing perfection and simply be themselves on stage.

FAQs

It is a podcast that gives motivation, inspiration, and confidence to performers of all kinds to be better on stage.

The host is Reggie Dawson.

Striving for perfection can make you feel like you are never good enough, which can crush your dreams and stop you from putting yourself out there.

No, there is no such thing as perfection when it comes to performing.

Perfection means no flaws or mistakes, and the flaws, mistakes, and quirks are what make a performance unique and create a connection with the audience.

No, you should still rehearse and work on what you can, but your performance does not have to be perfect before you put it on stage.

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