Episode 130: Kene Curang Sebelum Kahwin

Penutur 1 Hey guys. Welcome back to another episode of the sheep kod podcast and this episode is really brought to you by Mister and misses yassine the award winning realtor couple with over twenty years of combined experience and hundreds of successful property transactions expertise double the commitment your preferred property agent connect with them on Instagram and to talk at Nurul Rahman and Yasin property or WhatsApp them and nine, seven, six, zero, three, zero, one, seven or eight, one eight six triple one yes so thank you so much Mister Mister Yassin. Ha kalau kau orang nak jual beli rumah please go and engage them. Even Aaron Aziz engage them way so nak buat video lagi. Oh tadi lah misal matilah of course bukan calon calon Kan sponsor sponsor kita NI semua NI. Cadang so macam macam this one is the best property agent agency that the best in Singapore Yang jual daging the best Singapore. So kita Tak nak ambil Yang the second time Tak best. Nombor satu ya betul. So please go and engage them. Kalau orang nak jual beli rumah ke kau orang nak invest on property ke? Kau lah alright. So Hari NI aku nak bilang UDA a story lah must back relax and enjoy lah okey so cerita NI title dia how to stranger save me from almost marrying a cerita. HM okey hai wide and Sofia firstly thanks for opening up the safe space to share our stores. The stories of our life is such a joy to hear stories from others being delivered by two funny women. No what's my time to eh its my turn to share my mind. I feel like everyone talks about being cheated on but never about what to do after knowing you got cheated on I would like to share my story in hopes that girls will now that's never to late to leave and let go of things Dan not Man for you. Betul sangat. It's never never too late. Saya never to lay. A little too late. JoJo katil. Senai saya there was a boy don't feel right lagu tahu ya semua story is a little different because I was saved from getting married to a manipulative Man. A Man that is week with this words and a good layer memang dah selalu dengar lah ya sweet with his words besarlah dasar dasar ajerlah so here's my story, my ex and I would you to get married and have been together for seven coming to. Eight years oh Lama Lama. Sampai. So aku punya ke kau NI? Aku punya aku nampak dia aku cangkit ah dekat diri aku NI Kan aku punya sampai bubble virus for me macam form minum teh tarik berbuih. Hai. Sewaktu years Lama Lama. Lama. Yang tergantung Lama sangat Lama. Jangan Lama Lama sangat so baju kahwin wedding venue, wedding rings pre wedding photo shoot you name it all the wedding preps Dan ninety percent completed and we were down to our last deposit. Oh and ABTO waiting. Faham aku faham sangat. Aku faham sangat benda benda macam NI. Okey so much money and things plan to build a future together. So I thought everything was going smoothly earlier that year we are getting married. He landed a new job, but here's the start of everything because this new changes since he works in shift so some days dia habis kerja. Well I will start my day to work. I Tak fikir banyak pun sebab I thought that it was easy rezeki untuk dapat kerja and better gaji for us and our future. I did my part to be a better partner, but understanding that will delay routines and communications will change. But here's the thing, after they start kerja baru, I started to feel really uneasy Daily. Macam Tak senang hati tapi I sangka baik sebab faham dia kerja and dia pun tengah cari rezeki halal. I don't suspek anything and I don't want I don't feel the need to soal siasat dia. It was based on hundred percent trust because kita dah nak kahwin Kan? Few months after he got the job, he told me that he got the opportunity to go to and oversees work trade siap ada official letter of confirmation lagi siap adalah Surat I pun percaya because why would I question Allah rezeki for him at that point of time Kan I remember vividly saying why alhamdulillah sayang rezeki that exact words no questions are no doubts on the opportunities given to. In a few months before our pakej day, you hear the sake of my own reading his parents and I was so proud of his achievement and rezeki at such and early stage of his new carrier. Here's the changes and we are things that happen after he started his new job. Number one kita dah Tak selalu jumpa and face time and dia pun dah start reply message lambat first Red flag number two dia cakap his work place nak kena configure phone sebab security concerns mikron ke. So his password was set alphabetically password dia panjang nak mampus, which is is RC ename second reflect panjang now. Number three I also dah Tak kuasa dah nak spot check phone dia sebab malas and I pun try trust trust again what's the words that could happen right thing. Nothing could happen closer to the wedding day with all the wedding preps almost done. I still somehow feel uneasy ada strong good feeling that he was cheating on me the late night thoughts and were yes but I brush it off because I thought it was just bisikan syaiton and dugaan nak kahwin. Still the shit ah satu malam tu I terjaga and check my phone pergi Instagram and nampak one request from Anon person burner akaun akaun tu APA spam akaun maybe like anonimus akaun akaun so the message goes like this hai I want to share some sensitive things to you and I will love to be anonimus please check your tunang second telegram akaun or whichever phone use and do are same where he is at in the morning and keep asking him. About his upcoming trip and who is he actually going with? And Lastly, save yourself. Pin pin pin. Bulu Roma aku naik Kan macam receiving this message from a random stranger. Kau nak APA macam Sabu aku eh Kan weh seram okey. That message was the start of everything. I Tak nak tahu siapa Yang send it but gave me a hits start to find out all the missing puzzles. I still remember that naik vividly because I was like one AM and I had no one, I was so hard broken. I felt like a nice went through one step, my heart multiple Times not to be dramatic, but really feel that my whole life was collapsing as if everything starts to fall apart and everything starts to make so much sense. The uneasy feeling, the strong intuition telling me that he was cheating on me all along, all of it started to push up into one complete peace. And sleep the whole night and talk no one about it. I was alone and still wanted to believe that it was all a dream, but it wasn't a dream. It was the sign. It was the start of all the signs given to stop the wedding from happening. The message didn't seem fake to me. My main goal right now is to find out the truth. I try to find out more things that could potentially could potentially be the reason why I Tak sedap hati I Capcom that naik to myself not to act, not to do things rashly and plan every step ahead because I was it so much. In that I wanted revenge to MC because I can't bring myself to work after crying the whole night. All of this alone, no one else new, not even my family members close friends because I was still in a state of denial wishing that it was just a dream. I ask to siblings for help afterwards. Bad move, by the way. If there's one advice I will say to not turn to your partners family for health when it comes to getting because they will always be on his side no matter what. To which none was helpful, so I didn't get to us the siblings to check kalau dia ada spare full macam anonimus tu cakap pagi tu at six M dia teks good morning my lover subuh time and nak mandi all I check his life location and on Find My iPhone 4 to know a veil try calling him but unreachable you something was up so mana dia pergi pagi pagi buta asal dia bangun pagi kalau dia start kerja 8.00 dia pergi kerja naik motor and stay in the East and kerja in the East also. So mana dia pergi Audi panicking Aziz mampula for him for help to check on him. His mom said, dia dah pergi kerja and left early this past few days. I told her spesifically not to tell the sun that was asking his whereabouts but guess who told anyways mak dia lah not long after he replied sayang I solat and mandi lah Oh my God. Solat Yang berhenti pun NI lah. Sayang shaimie Yang location, that's all I need. Dan hitomi. Sayang I am getting for you something. Please. Let me surprise you tonight. I love you so dia much. Jom. Oh eh dia pandai dia pandai. Tiba guys think for you something nak plan surprise okey ha so tiba right so I minta his location again and to be spesifik Live location dia terus Sen tapi dia Tak ada Kat rumah fellow was in the West side and you work in the East by the way I do it. I can confirm that his thing on me I get all the evidence I could because his words and actions don't match master manipulator at this point I think he got the hand that he was in a deep shed and I slowly uncovering his shade. Last Team kenapa Tak ada Kat rumah and act and old timing Kan start kerja 8.00 pagi buta Kat website kenapa show kau nak beli APA kau nak beli APA pun? Kalau nak kau nak surprise Kan APA? Okey APA Yang ada Kat aku bila aku kau Kat little India at least aku boleh percaya Mustafa Centre ada jual gol. Unifor hours NI website dia jual APA Yang to your boleh power nasi lemak. Tues ke? Tapi pun ada delivery. Ada vending machine Kan dia nak makan tu nasi lemak pagi pagi buta sakit teruk Tau Tak santan. Boleh pihak Mira oh pagi pagi. Badmood or nak start kerja berak berak. Okey replied, I wanted to surprise you with what I want to get you something. What the website, what you tell me, what what have a website Kan timbul. Mungkin nice you know the website one of the spicy chicken waffle karamel kita punya HB tu website orang tukang Kan tu pun dia masih tidur lagi pukul paip air buta kau jangan nak kelentong aku lah dekat semua okey okey so dia cakap I nak surprise you I nak beli you something but I'm scared I cant get it after work cause I want to come to you straight you always want to want I want to spoil my surprise, I try to do things for you nicely also can not I try so hard? Terpaling macam Kotor macam oh saja. Mesti nice macam don't spend my surprise for you lah. I tengah nak belikan you barang dekat website. Terus dia kau nak beli dekat website pagi pagi buta. Kedai ACI jual bunga ke APA pun masih tengah tidur. Aku dah cakap dengan kau. So Mustafa center je is the faham Tak beli gol pagi pagi buta eh lucky draw dapat one million faham mak ada satu Yang memanglah tu menang Wang million dollar tahu ada belikan gol untuk binik dia murah rezeki dia story selalu suprise Kan your wife Yang tahu rezeki wife is you is this your wife is a rezeki rezeki betul rezeki tu betul aku Tak bidik. Betul okey. Cuba terkedu belikan air APA on random Wednesday with no action of celebration parking guest out of a sudden. Dia ada dia mesti dah macam dah gambar buntu drop by any shell petrol station. Maybe Apple gift kad Ek. Ke tepi kaunter ya Apple gift gift aku nak beli APA kau nak beli APA app. Eh APA APA is it food Sofia no its not food what you get in the morning but you know that ansory dia orang I reading the next paragraph D okey guys lets get fit together I'm guessing gift card from shell petrol station because APA Yang buka Kat website website is like macam perumahan Tau so dia macam it's not like macam Sentral shopping Mall shopping Mall pun bukannya pagi pagi buta. Belum belum buka. HM, my guess is a fucking gift card Lim kedai bunga. Whole sale tapi faiz. HM no okey okey. Tapi engkau jangan nak kau dengan aku rasa kau kau kalau nak beli Kan gift card pun dekat petrol kios pun dekat East side pun ada APA kau nak pergi kerja NI? 8.00 pagi NI kau sangat pergi website sial kau nak beli something and its site macam tu me like that are more stuff is true true true I agree I macam APA benda Yang Tak ada dekat inside Yang ada dekat website cuma roti boyan je aku tahu dekat website Kat mana aku Tak ada. Sedap weh sedap mak aku suruh beli Tak jangan jangan kau pasal benda benda keperluan. Mostly semua dekat East side atau central Sentral dah website ah betul. Aku Yang tinggal website NI. I can vote you that there's nothing much is just really peaceful there. So member dah menggelabah lah dah menggelabah so member dah start gelabah so dia datang rumah I during his lunch time to meet me mine we travel from the East to the West untuk jumpa and give me the surprise, which is a buke of hours with a note saying thank you for making the making me lelaki history hashtag xx more days dah double digit. Oh dah nak kahwin sure we met and we talk. I didn't tell him that. I knew I play mind games with him and ask them a few questions. You are anything Tak nak bilang I if you are not honest with me, I will not proceed with the wedding if you hiding something please tell me the truth but all that for nothing because dia Tak mengaku having affair, he was so sure of it and offered to check his phone since he had nothing to hide. So I comely check this phone while recording it on my phone. That's what I found number one. Expedia bookings made for two PACs flight to Jakarta nombor to Search Jakarta on his email. But it should be me. Some results may be deleted. Maybe in your deleted messages. Number three Jakarta hotel reservation got deleted in his emel number four, got to know her name was peha bukan nama sebenar Dan berfae she is nineteen and it was her birthday that day. Question APA kau orang akan buat lepas dapat tahu your partner curang NI? Trivial question. Teria wah. Ribat dulu kasi dia kicap kau kicapkan dulu cukup cukup. Aku aku dari tokong. Kau besar eh bodoh. Lepas tu aku angkat kaki Jalan lepas tu aku viralkan dia. Video Tak payah pergi tu aku viralkan engkau Kira with all the recent who they jam Kira buat macam burn book untuk dia. Jadi biar satu dunia tahu Yang dia bodoh dia bodoh and dia ER do that to me like you do the same. Aku mungkin Tak sebaik rest lah aku Tak nak kicap kicapkan dia. Maybe aku akan nangis di luar aku balik. Tepuk dulu depan muka dia NI Tau. Macam. Muka kesaksian rekod dekat dekat muka dia geli geli macam Tak bisa. Wah. Kesian KOs Dan like I can like macam imagine the feelings lagi pasal aku rasa email dia. So descriptive panjang cerita dia. Aku rasa satu episod NI email dia orang NI awak shivering so badly speechless and was so hard broken. I was devastated and so angry I duduk jauh dari dia and dia Tak tahu Yang I found out about this flight booking detail dia Kan tengah lunch break so I told him to go back to work first that we will talk about it after work so ada balik dengan hati Yang sedang eh jap. Dia balik dengan hati Yang senang sebab I Kan Tak jumpa anything dekat phone dia. So she didn't show it. You know that I SAW all this on the phone. Children show it to him, so dia that it's clear macam clean okey aku save tapi dia Tak macam rasa macam alamak saya dia Search Jakarta eh bodoh dah delete dia fikir you light of going in the thin air. I went to Search a name on Instagram and he's on his Instagram and then she was sitting as one of his followers and following each other. Semalam baru je dia post our pre wedding photo shoot. And counting down the days to our big day, his Instagram profil penuh dengan our pics engagement anniversary dats means she new about my existance all along. Selain video count and that she was okey being a penyondol. How could I miss this one big sight washes I just Tak percaya CPR ini tahu CPR NI tahu I dia tahu Yang I nak kahwin dia tahu Yang APA dia buat tu Salah she is hundred percent waras Yang boleh fikir APA Yang dia buat Salah and for doing this to another woman without feeling guilty a new and yet still choose to cross the boundaries. Puan macam NI Tak ada girl kot dia Tak ada good girl kod langsung okey so dia hantar perempuan NI RTM. Hai hai bye I know udin bukan nama sebenar is contacting you is it okay if we meet and talk send her Adm on the same day thinking she would be open to come to talk but to no reply. My intention was pure. It was not to attack her but to simply understand what's going on here, the side of the story and somehow find closure for myself. I believe it doesn't take one hand to clap so I could just blame her blindly by then I really assume Yang dia dah nampak that message and tol udin that I knew about her dirty little secret affair. When this House to talk with family alone, he was crying, telling me how much love me. And said he regretted his actions and that the affair was only recent that they have stop contacting each other ever since then. He ask me to nikah with him the following week to show me how serious he was to marry me and how he can be a better person. Kau beli buah ISI next. He also said if Bella astillah and Aliff Aziz can do it, why can't we? Kau ada hati nak pok nama selebriti lain pula ITU dia orang punya ITU dia orang perasan dalam bukan engkau. So kalau Bella maafkan Alif kau expect APA tunang kau pun maafkan kau punya kau punya taik sorilah your own NI sorry because you got to court if not kau dah dekat Jakarta tu udah waduh waduh Undangan. Port eh what's wrong with me today and my life. Ayah. Sekarang banyak virus. Bawa virus. Side track my side track last last Friday Hari NI decoding recording. Hari NI recording Monday kita tengah rekod Monday NI sekarang ya. last Thursday kita masuk hospital. Fabrice separate the difference dia lain hospital aku lain hospital tapi kita sakit on the same day ya sakit Yang teruk jugalah kita 2 kena start flu lah Kan ha eh tapi shout out eh tu would learn healthiness SES Yang dah tegur I thank you so much aku ada ada satu aku road down the note. Tak nama dia orang ketuk down time so cute. Oh ya syarat tu nurse batrisya M farhana. Terima kasih. Terima kasih jaga kawan kita dekat World hospital. Ya teruklah teruk teruk teruk okey anyway okey so dia dah pok belang Alif to prove a point that he won't do it again after marriage and then he will change. I mean look at where we are now. Alif Aziz in fact did not change one bit and this didn't age well. Berani dia pakai Aliff Aziz Astro reference. Ambillah Yang lain. So, after talking to his family, I decided that I needed time to think through. It was the toughest decision to make and it wasn't an overnight process. We are talking about the whole as wedding right now with wedding invitations and money involved. He told me he needed time to think also to reflect about his actions after being caught. Betullah, you are only sorry that you are good lah, so he went. YA, when I need to contact him to settle the whole Mrs lepas 2 Hari Mia this is what he said on WhatsApp. Satu paragraf. For the past few days, I took some time to be alone and reflect. I went to a few places around the island. Kau fikir APA. Singapura, Singapura jejak. Travel blog. Kembar kasih. Asal kau Tak kau Tak payah cakap when to a few places around the island. APA dia drama drama macam NI pandai dia drama I went to a few places around the island just to completely shut off to reflect. I spend the first day around Changi and Pasir ris beach and sleep there for the night before making my way to ubin pen the World next day and night the kasih. Betul betul betul studi I went around the island going to a few places to really just sit and be alone, which included the right place at Marina and Henderson waves before finally coming back home. Kak bodoh dia NI gelap trader but make it lokal and majulah Singapura edition. Satu Singapura ada suara kembara kasih kau buat untuk NDP perit SG sixty one. Lepas tu dia duduk Kat tepi depan beach. Yang pasti dia spark the strong. Pergi ubin naik naik pun. Boi naik bot pergi upin ayuh plot twist remember the Expedia booking that I found on this phone and remember that he told me that he got that Port unity to go overseas for work trip. At this point, you can guess it right, but the two days Yang dia Mia dia actually pergi Jakarta Weil dengan CPR. Masih masing. Ya ONS to the show tadi kau cakap APA kau that song and thought so cakap. Ya lah dah bayar booking weh Tak nak week Tak nak wish Tak nak wish dia pergi juga si sial NI dia pergi juga Expedia booking details falls on the same day that he went Mia and also the same day that he was supposed to go for his overseas work three. They will link and plant out in detail kita je Yang lalai yes the extend the both of them planet out just to jurang udin sanggup forage for the dokumen pakai companies name and his manager signature. Boleh bilang company eh boleh. Untuk APA? Untuk curang dengan siapa dengan PR lah? Actually I dah start from the start sebab I keep asking him about his treaties. Excited lah sebab nak hantar dia pergi airport what? But he keep on having leaving me with no info which is weird sebab company trip to be completed APA and Tak ada hegeh hegeh it was all fake because I jumpa his managers signature dekat Google. Wow, the extend the audacity of this. Sisial NI eh yes and I ironically he ended the letter with yours faithfully but was being unfaithful the whole time. Ha ironik I mean, if you see the letter, I bet no one would notice that it was fake. I trusted him and that it was January, his rezeki and his work place, but it was all crafted. Thanks to check GST is Seramai. Eh cik oh NI recent juga lenyap. Recent to be honest now that I think of it, that letter looks like the concern form letter that your School bagi for your parents to sign in primary School like the overseas excursion trip kind also is work. Confirmation trip later really necessary in this era, you are a ground as adults for goodness sake kau nak sapa sign mak bapa engkau R. Kasi concern untuk kau pergi overseas trip betul juga Kan Yang aku invested gilalah cerita NI at this point dia Cuba untuk budukan I tapi I lagi pandailah. Sorry to say udin did not go around the island and be and island Trotter but when to Jakarta with a it was a plan weekend birthday treat for peace. All this while he did not cut contact with PKR and there was still together walaupun dah kantoi busuk just kejam at this point what's app R start proses I am January curious. Not long after that she message me dalam mesej tu. She was explaining Yang she Tak tahu about me, which definitely is not true. Kau dah nampak APA like di on social media dia follow each other and lelaki NI semua post all the prewedding foto sama dah nak kahwin lagi tahu pick the affair was only two months. Dia Tak rasa bersalah pun dalam mesej tu she admitted that they check in banyak Kali bukan untuk buat benda Tak senonoh. Buat to talk about life AAA. Hei hei kau fikir aku budak kecil ke pihak kau budak kecil boleh lah aku NI to talk about life, talk about life and the second wave Kan free. Kan tapi nak check check in Tak payah bayar duit mangle he engkau APA eh? Diam diam mahsyar yes Live as in berbual pasal karier duit and planning for the future. Kau nak kena ada hotel room ke? Kan pergi lah kalau nak pun saya boleh meeting room ke conference zoom ke? Okey. Udin was so respectful to me as a woman. Udin didn't take advantage of me, even though we were in the room together. Udin Dis udin that okey then explain the fifteen hotel transactions that I found his emel wow semua talk about life fifteen time to talk about life hotel room. Seminar ke. Business mentor ke one to one consultation ke. It's ridiculous how both of them try to manipulate me and she was not remorseful macam justifying aku nak klentong E Tak ada dia punya reason pun macam oh knowin check in what do anything and we just talk about life Kan kau ingat aku bodoh Kan? Sudah Flowers that he got to me on the random Wednesday wasn't Man for me in the first place, it was made for her because it was her birthday on that day. That same day, I found out the affair and that he was sending her to work every morning. He did this day and for God knows how many months, so sweet so sweet punyalah sakit sebab for all this years kita together Tak pernah dia sanggup bangun pagi subuh untuk hantar I pergi kerja. The day that broke the other was also when I got to know there was also the happiest day to celebrate her birthday with udin and her loved ones around and to be given an accidental Flowers that was not main for me in the first place. Kejam kejam kejam kejam I stock is the talk like because I ada akaun dia I didn't bother to check until the very last moment he like this one post on how I kahwin in less than one month sebab Tak dapat restu parents. His intentions were there all along dia nak kahwin tanpa restu parents dengan PR ke liking that well in the process of getting married to me legally is insane. Sumpah rasa macam separuh nyawa Tak ada sebab this khianat is terlalu kejam. Tanah went to his Dick talk mesej and PKR profil was the udin send her a CX video single Dun worry one day we gonna sit down together and say it was high but we made it to which PRN reply our way kejam kejam sangat wah ada lagi cerita dia adalah syor kau tengok has novel novel novel make a drama TV LCD this is very drama with ya betul. Production so at the end kita pilih who is the main kita karakter recording NI. Okey baru thirty five OKU NI boleh sakit only God knows how much it hurts to see that message. That was my last and final straw. I had enough suffering and digesting everything and science because no one new about it all of that. Will udin was planning the wedding with me. All of that will udin was still contacting me and telling me how much you love to me Daily and how much you wanted to make it work. All of that we planning a wedding with me, the trial, I felt the sadness and anger that I had in me. What will happen if I were to forgive him from the start? You see, I am someone with so much empathy and at one point I tell myself I wasn't good enough and that it was my fault that this happen or not, your fault girl do no Don udin PR no exactly what they were doing, the news that you would hurt me and they did it anyway. I have to Live the trauma and be trial that they both gave me everyday of my life. Sampai Hari NI I am still wondering why they did that to me and for PKR. I don't even know who you are, but you new about me along. So how could you there so many penyondol kes now days and I cant help to think that they are all of similar spesies we same traits which is Tak tahu malu selfish and Tak ada hati perut and so ignorant so ignorant. So bila dia ignorant cakap macam. Like kau dengan lelaki Yang lelaki Yang cik what do you expect from that? Are like you expect to end up with him. Tapi kau Tak takut kena because kalau kau okey like maybe success story kau dapat lelaki tu. Mesti kau akan rasa macam gila APA Kan macam isyallah isteri cheating on me because dia created on his ex wife or ex golf exactly what ever Kan exactly exactly right? Maybe maybe if they came clean right from the start it would have heard this bad and I would conclude it as Tak ada jodoh because dah tawar hati sebab money was involved were finalizing the wedding together because you see it's not my wedding to finalize the decision myself, it was our wedding and he was present as well to decide he did not stop. Any of it to avoid more financial loss and there was still at least enough time to stop the wedding from happening. But no, he did not. He will continue it all while having an affair. Ours angry and devastated can't help it to but to us. Why? Ya lah pe semua macam Tak nak kahwin NI kau boleh plan the wedding macam okey counting down the days together post prewedding belah tapi ada same time you have this. Living a dulu life for what they kenapa life? What are you thinking? That's it. I decided to choose myself good good. I was desperate to fight, to get my money back every single Sen of it because it's not my fault that the wedding didn't happen. Happen from him. Cheating is one thing, but losing your heart and money Yang you ikat perut to say for the wedding it was painful, so yes, I was desperate to sell off my wedding package and I posted it online because I was so angry even after all this mess udin still try to win me back. Sudah sudahlah tudin aku minyak cekik juga at one point he came outside my workplace crying and apologizing for his actions should your tears. NI this one hiliran came mte handed this time around its not Flowers, but a medical letter from doktor. And wanted me to doa for him. Aku sakit APA audacity that he had to be one thing a doa from me ITU macam macam dia macam trying to macam dia main dengan emosi kau main dengan emosi and dia macam terpaling tersakiti terpaling macam the most gentle I sakit sakit I kembar kasih from ubin tu Henderson with I Jakarta kau Tak cakap kau pandai lepas tu kau macam you know. HM okey lepas tu okey he cried telling me that he was sick. Berwawasan even that serius its buasir. Buasir buasir. Lepas tu nangis nangis minta dia orang ha. Meh aku tiup. Biar termasuk ahli puasa kau tu eh geram NI aku no. Geramnya be. Pe aku lain tahu history proses aku pun aku pun nak how to win her back ha Kan? Banyak sangat signals Yang engkau beli. Pilih kalau kau tipu pun lah Kan. Kenapa buasir kau pilih? Please explain why buasir it could be. Oh maybe then dia nak macam cakap dia sakit tapi is not signed Yang boleh macam transmit Tau jadi orang macam Tak macam hai you covid Tak covid NI macam like eh kimak habis kau keluar jangkit baby Tak berhasil Kan Tak boleh jangkit so Tak nak menyusahkan orang. MU kena doakan I APA saya sakit APA. Pesakit buasir. Mungkin. Padan muka kau kena buang sial aku beli meja kau tengah firaun firaun NI Kat luar kerja. Tak boleh tinggalkan II. Ada sakit kau ingat. Posted kanser. Dah nak mampus. Kau tahu macam. Jadi macam oh shit kalau kau Tak maafkan nanti Kan nanti kesian dia masuk pasal lelaki lelaki NI ada dia orang cakap stage four tiba dia turun stage three Tak mampu mampus ke main stage stage tapi macam buasir. Please update C Dan E Mel how you react when using buasir dia jumpa engkau Jalan dia kangkang ke macam mana? Rasa sakit tu sakit Kan dia Tak boleh duduk dia kena pakai bahasa benda juga terkeluarnya dia kena orang. So ya. Next one babi punya jantan lelaki Asia NI jantan was just exaggerating about it. I just cant believe this Man also. So now I'm not falling for anything buasir ke APA ke that udin NI sing even after playing the medical kad Kira semua kad dia dah Maino. Jap GBT lagi ke medical kad Kira APA dia tunjuk. Imagine the whole tracking situation, especially coming from someone who is filled with life is sounds kental I really Kan macam Kan cakap hispeed kental buat. Okey and being sick is not something to play around with, play around to get me or anyone else to be sympathetic after all the pain he called, you thought that was it? I wish sheily. It was so painful to cancel my beto, cancel my Rome and the whole wedding. Thankfully he was a wedding package with venue, so I just cancel the rest that was included. One of them was the photographer and videographer. Udin told me that his dead wanted to take over the package for his work event. Mungkin seriously. Bapa dia nak buat work. Berani engkau eh Tak pelah UYB NI pakai bapa. Korporat korporat kalau aku bapak dia macam eh dah Tak pakai teknik kahwin Kat jual bapa macam the fact that bapak dia macam so insensitive kau faham Tak Kan sya because of working Wee wern event NI fotografi dia Tak payah fotografi dia just work work event photographer murah je Kan macam kau just by APA hour dia mahu take over NI. Album peribadi. Akak penyu. The wedding video. Vdeo express punya tempat express ha kau faham Tak Yang lepas NI kau terus boleh upload ada fifteen second really. ITU klinik video ITU penting bapak dia pun. Untuk event so in sensitif Pak cik satu keluar ke? Satu keluarga. Waktu tu. Kelakar lah which to me was valid dia perempuan NI baik hati lebih hati hati and not suspicious at all knowing is that's background. The old things ke okey, so I ask them to pay me the amount so that he can continue the package, which thankfully he did. Monthly TER I need a quick get away so I went to solo traveling for the first time healing dekat Jakarta. Oh tidak mungkin I want to do by. B well. Tu dia buat. Dah berdua pernah bendu buat aku goreng right? Not until I received an invoice from the photographer and videographer company invoice payment payment view 4 wedding Tak jadi suai open the email and SAW the bride and groom its name upfront but was not my name. Oh the right time was. Right time was A and the groom was udin using the pakej I originally pick and peak form. Eh Tak tahu malu NI it was sent to my email which was my name. Bukan nonsence like anti penyondol one two three at gmail.com. Dari Tak nak tahu. Jadi tahu pula Yang dia orang nak kahwin. I know you was a mistake on the companies and but wow, what a way to found out that they got married not long after I call of the wedding. I close the email, Greece the little bit and moved on. I felt 6 that even after zip lining from the forty fifth floor, I felt nothing. The feeling of betrayal still lingers. Sedih pun nasib baik dekat Dubai to myself that whatever I thought in Dubai will stay in to buy and I will never look back but wow what a cruel World we Live in. Can I just say that how women's insting are so strong? You are never crazy for one thing assurance you are never crazy for doing your partner because Allah knows. Season, real things that you don't, you can put in effort to hide things. Tapi Tuhan tu Maha Adil. To think of it, I am lucky ya which is so true. You are very lucky you douche bulatlah be alright. Sorry ya you doch a bullet ya okey so udin dengan PR dah kahwin dah kahwin Bab kahwin siarlah when people say I'm strong for living and have the courage to call of the wedding. To be honest I am embarrassed thinking about all the time that I want to give in and for give him and how I believe that he would change all because of one thing, the love that I had for him sometimes being cheated on is not just about finding your partner, follow another girl, a message them, it's what happen behind closed doors will you put your trust on your partner? Akan exercise, this is enough, please check your partners bank transaction and he's email when it comes to cheating. If he claims he got nothing to hide, I seem to open his bank statement and yes benda lain boleh delete tapi coming from the bank dia melutut dekat depan bank pun Tak mungkin boleh delete that transaction. Please delete the transaction please delete Tak boleh rumah dengan transaction Kan. Oh that's smart ah so kalau nak tahu laki kau orang kurang curang pergi bank statement. The statement ya pergi Kat mana pun kita boleh tahu through bank nowadays everything is cashless and digitalize. Even kalau dia keluarkan cash pun kita tahu dekat mana Yang pukul berapa especially the hotel booking. He will not be successful if payment is not made in advance through card at the of the day I ikhlas I redha accepted my fate because what else can I do then just move forward and continue life. I knew I did I nothing wrong, it was my mistake and was be treated by udin NPR so I didn't do anything but just to fight for my money back I even bother to Report. The forgery this company biar Allah Yang balas the day I deserve peace all I wanted was to move forward and strengthen my Iman and we please. Jangan kesiankan. I Tak nak orang tahu I someone Yang pernah curang but as someone who got away from marine cerita Allah save to me dia gerakkan hati the anonimus person to come into my life and that message that day this would happen if it wasn't because the message request Yang give me a klu towards everything I was increased the whole time for having a strong good feeling that was cheating not so anonimus lah tapi alhamdulillah I am doing better than ever. I wouldn't be here if it's not for my parents and everyone, and I mean everyone that my post and make a doa for me and give words of encouragement. Thank you. I don't feel anything now because therapy is so expensive by therapy. I mean, traveling, I find joy in traveling and somehow it helps me. Mungkin rezeki I bukan untuk kahwin. For now to travel and see the World is also another blessing. Alhamdulillah I nampak this quote somewhere I realise suka. I would love to share with all the listeners dari banyak perselingkuhan Yang terjadi. Semoga Allah selalu menjadikan kita wanita Yang baik Dan tidak merebut Dan direbut kebahagiaannya oleh wanita Yang lain. Thats all guys, I hope no woman has to experience what went through. Nothing can stop cerita from being a cheater. They can hide as much, but eventually the truth will prevail when it comes to confronting a cerita. Don't act rashly, but plate smart to get all your evidence and money back. Don't be afraid to walk away after finding your partner created because life is so much better than staying with someone who makes you question your worth. Always choose to be kind and love yourself. Don't bother seeking revenge because kifarah is real and Lastly, I hope I'm not building a Man for another woman again ha love you girls and thank you for reading till the end may our podcast prosper to greater Heights. And success wah thank you so much for your email. It's really macam. Pemain blowing and were so glad that you are macam your better off without him lah Kan Kan and your such a strong woman yes correct and ya we wish you all the best and were so happy for you that right now you are just like happy travelling ya we just so happy that you found your soothing back lah macam kau Tak kau Tak macam meroyan and macam you know and may Allah macam APA tu kurniakan you lelaki Yang jodoh Yang baik jodoh Yang baik. Amin Amin ya robbal alamin yes so betul. Aku pun believe it revenge macam pada aku like you know it's okey lets say let Allah do it but his work because if someone macam do you dirty. Allah sendiri akan balas tengok dia orang NI hidup Yang akan sweet tu memang Asia NI so sweet. So biarlah mereka kahwin memang both Mitsui together. Yes so wah thanks for listening to the end. Let your thoughts in the comment section video this episode is proudly brought to you by Mister and misses Yassin, your preferred property agent and ya thank you so much and will see you guys in the next episode. Ye hi guys. Welcome back with property talk with Mister and misters Yassin and Hari NI kita nak sembang sembang chill. Chill lah kita nak Tanya kalau kau orang ada pengalaman Yang pelik bila kau orang jual rumah orang. Kita suka dengan weed partinya. Eh tapi Yang recent. Penutur 2 Ada satu recently juga lah we were handling a administrator kes administrator kes NI macam parents meninggal. So anak take over handle penjualan rumah dia lah for the parents Kan. So this case I was lying dengan anak dia lah my client so it was for the lead mom so rumah pun dah kosong so kita market Tau we need a few weeks dah dapat buyer. So biar pun berkenan tapi rumah was original. So they need to renovate and all that. So part of the agreement was that. B Wan oh. Was no extension, so we are supposed to hand over the keys to them on completion lah so on completion tu dapat kunci lah is a normal transaction. So bila on the normal on the completion day lepas tu kita pakai lawfirm administrator case we used to firm so the day before the inspect rumah dah kosong. So kunci dah handover pada lawfirm so on competition, the law firm will hand over to the buyers so on that day it to thirty pm I received a phone call and a mesej video mesej tu what happen was buyer came to the House. Ada Pak cik sudah. Penutur 1 Mati. Penutur 2 Ada pakcik dah terlentang half naked that. Penutur 1 So when he. Penutur 2 Passed living room. Penutur 1 That's a date main inside the House. Penutur 2 So mangga dah pecah it was a em number lock ah pasal kita on competition the rest of the kes kita dah bagi Yang number block tu dia dah pecahkan. So dia dah masuk dalam dia dah terlentang begitu unconcious ke APA lah nak tunggu. Eh Tak mula tunjuk lah mana boleh Tak boleh. So boleh serius. Penutur 1 Macam macam macam orang kena. Penutur 2 Mati so. I Tak ada because he handed over the House by Kan dalam video semua dah hantar rumah dah kosong dah everything in other. So the next day dia call ayah cakap eh lepas tu dia hantar gambar Cuba ada orang tentang ini sebab air mesej my client. Is this your relative ke APA ke pasal administrator Kan? So NI saudara arwah mak engkau ke APA? Eh kata taklah bukanlah. Tak tahu so maybe dah House pasal Hal ya lah. They have banyak realiti father the uncle punya kawan ke APA ke Kan jadi kecoh habis dah terlentang begitu. Cek cek. Mabuk ke APA Hang over oh. Penutur 1 Polis and. Penutur 2 Everything so hard to call it barang Tak nak kejut so dia call police dia tu keluar lah. And then after that bayar okey lah dia dah keluar semua orang dah tukar number blog Kan. A few days later, the agent call me eh bro, somebody broke into the House again ha, so dia orang dah pecahkan ha pecahkan log again masuk. Tapi bila dia orang bayar datang log je dah pecah. Tak ada orang Kat dalam. So after that, we need to each Polis Report ah, so my client told me it was some of the uncle because dia membelek mum punya adik beradik kadang datang bawa member sandt dekat rumah tu. So maybe dia orang buat. Port minum ke ataupun dia dah minum Kat luar balik mabuk terlentang Kat SANA ha. So. Penutur 1 For them to pecahkan gate. Penutur 2 Semua became a Polis kes lah after that bayar pun pressure saya beli rumah macam gini Kan pelajar. Penutur 1 Tu nak masuk. Penutur 2 So you when you look at the foto eh terperanjat lah because it really look like a dead Man. Dia dah unconcious gila punya ha Tak tahu APA ha ha ha. Maybe a fifty six fifties a Ye. Penutur 1 Jin kau dah happy happy on your completion day kau dah dapat kunci rumah kau macam. Going to unlock the King to my home, but. Oh Tak kata perangai macam eh aku Swee APA je tengok sikit gambar Kan betul. Penutur 2 Tak. Penutur 1 Area mana NI guys? If you are the main. Penutur 2 Dekat. Tak biji NI ke tengok gambar NI. Penutur 1 Yang the first gambar so the video tu okey ada video. Penutur 2 Video video. Penutur 1 Lama I can see Allah Yang that I really terbaring dia NI macam really ya because he must be familiar with that. How exactly for him to come back when he's not sober you. Penutur 2 Know that was resold pasal dia confident pecahkan mangga semua. Penutur 1 YB. Dato trend to like pecahkan mangga Kan macam mana tu kau pecahkan? Aku pun tengah fikir. Kakak nak rabak show. Mak pula. You are drunk right time tu agaknya macam masih belum kek oh kes macam masih boleh Jalan boleh. Penutur 2 Macam tu mungkin marah eh siapa dia? Penutur 1 You know who makes the best orang mabuk punya impersonation Hisham ya dia suka nanti dia kalau minum konon Coke bottle Kan nanti suka macam. Penutur 2 Eh boleh request nanti okey. Penutur 1 Okey. Penutur 2 Pandai berlakon encik sham. Penutur 1 Eh dah pernah buat Kat office ah pernah buat dengan muka merah minum todi lah Kira. Oh my God, that is a funny story lah my God no buat days carry also scary but its party and its a like macam annoying pun dia macam. Penutur 2 But for us ejen terperanjat ha kubur inovasi improve. Penutur 1 APA kau ingat kau dah habis? Penutur 2 Dah semangat. House MTUDM thing good the log lepas tu lawfirm number lock semua dekat seat dia sebab tu more you can come in. Penutur 1 Saya nak macam dah murid murid ah. Bergaji nak. Penutur 2 Enjoy allergy police case, but we didn't come down. Lah, we are. We just give all the photo and all that to seller then seller lodge police Report but you marah juga because Yang first dah marah lepas tu repeat lagi cuma second time datang dia Tak ada lah cuma memanggil pecah. Penutur 1 I think dia dah tidur dia bangun dia keluar lah tu. Iman cekik darah awak ingin kau janganlah mabuk sampai pecah rumah orang Yang mabuk minum Brandy. Oh okey kejap eh ada lagi week. Lagi satu ada satu week story. Penutur 2 Okey first story tu dia. Penutur 1 Memang associated dengan objek atau benda pelik selalu terjadi. Penutur 2 Okey another one Tak payah lah Asli but that one two because I sampai kena pergi cantuman semua ambil statement. Penutur 1 Kecoh. Penutur 2 Tu we rent out this unit dekat gilang kondo dekat bukan dekat gilang gilang tu dekat pucat ya juj cat so tempat Kira clean punya area dekat dekat pasar geylang belakang belakang SANA Kan? You know there's a few condos eh? So we are we went out for normal we run out to locals my land. Chinese landlord Yang rental pun the tenant is a Chinese local guy, so the reason why they want to rent is because there waiting for HDB lah dia mention the thing for the next House I can we call the HDB ke private, but they just want to rent for two years, one or two years. Something like that is a tree by the condo, but this is very big Tau NI Kira macam kondo Lama saiz besar. So this condo Lama macam you boleh buat partition partition Mata so we went out every month payment okey kena buat book so one day I got a phone call. Polis, Polis. Ah dah jadi prostitution den. Penutur 1 Alamak. Penutur 2 So because SANA Tak ada security dia just pakai uh try kad akses then you can open the gate from the unit itself. So the court. A few. Ayam presiden. Penutur 1 Kita di reban ayam. Penutur 2 Ayam so kena call out so kena call up a cantonment dia take my statement but to them dia lah we chat lah memang Singaporean and all that and the Man was being done dengan lain lain lagi kena panggil cakap we don't be rent out so everything was Dan proper. So thats why dokumentation very important like stamping the agreement all proper so thats why macam okey lah dia asas a few questions and then dia Tanya ada jumpa di stand the main tenant ustaz jumpa all that but after we don't know because the end of it. I don't happen to him. Hilang so parents by what they did was a this ladies will station upstairs and all that ha. So keep guys in out in out in out lighted. Penutur 1 Busy busy dah jadi reban ayam Kat dalam. Kesianlah dia baru beli rumah tu. Actually dia baru beli rumah tu dengan Investment. Penutur 2 It was a good Investment. I'm still serving him. That House is still. I'm a serving him as a land Lord dah dekat 10 tahun. Penutur 1 Eh. Penutur 2 Fifteen years of years ha nak tengok kita baru kahwin ah baru baru kahwin dah kena pergi ke Internet. Saya still serving him. Penutur 1 Ya fifteen years to serving the same client. Penutur 2 In fact, he this Chinese Dan Lord. He have three properties, so all three protes, three properties are handle for him. Penutur 1 Hmm siapa siapa Yang berminat dekat luar SANA? Look no further lah we own NI recommend the best of the best and that's Mister Mister Yassin Kan kalau orang nak jual beli rumah, nak invest nak rent out or whatever. Nak cari property untuk rent just go and reach out to misteri and meses yaseen terima kasih Kan thank you so much will see all the next property talk bye.