EP 7 Jella Unfiltered: #AskJella

(upbeat music) (speaking foreign language) All in one, life success stories (speaking foreign language) (speaking foreign language) (speaking foreign language) Hosted by Jamma Galanza and Ella De Jesus. Peanut Butter and Jala. Brought to you by Arena Plus Sports Book. Dito, sama-sama sa Arena. - Welcome back, ulit, sa aten. Hello, partners. But welcome back then sa ating mong viewers and listeners, yan. Marami-marami, salamat. Sa, walang sawong pag-supportan nyo kusamin. (speaking foreign language) , mahaliban sa mga, mahi mga gusus, mahi mga gusus ilang malaman sa aten, dalawa. Gusudan nil ang malaman kung anubat tung mga pictures na nakikita nila dito sa aten background. Parang sa ilang episode nating nilabas, eh. - Nakirious nila. - Nakirious nila. Di dun sa, guess namin, the joke lang. Andami kasi natin mag-poste, no? Lahat nila post natin, hindi. Pero, anna. - Pero isang post lang. - Okay. - Paik ko lang sa ata. Pero, i-explain namin ng mga pictures na nakikita. - Okay. - So, a kama una. - Of course. Okay. Eto, this photo. Kasi kame, pag nag-didate kame, kami nim-make sure namin na parang hindi, first time natin na pupuntahan yung mga lugar. So, kapag ko n'ya na mag-didate kame, lagi kame nag-gahanap ng place na hindi pa namin na pupuntahan together. Kaya, eto. Sa niya to, sa? - Palasho Day. - Palasho Day Memoria, sa Pasay. Na-search lang namin siya na it's a nice place to go. Kaya pinuntahan namin. And nag-gusahan namin yung place, kaya nag-picture lang kami. This one naman, sa Canada to Sabahan. - First day, eh? - First day, eh, yes. First Canada trip namin together. And si Totti kasi mihaok na kamera. So, haba naglalakad kame, si namin lang ni Totti na, "Oh, mag-post siya kayo, ganda ng view." So, nag-post namin kame. Thank you, Totti. Always. Tapos, yung pinaka na sa taas, sa Taiwan yun. Yun din ang first-ever namin na nag-photo-booth kame. Na kaming dalawa lang. So, actually, na-crap lang yun, pero, yung foto na yun, apa talaga yun. Pero, di nana namin ishare kong anong buong foto. - Sabi na yun. - So, yun na lang. And this one, eto ang pinaka memorable siguro, dahil, eto ang first foto namin na na-post publicly. - Oficial na. - Oficial. - Na tayo. - A-ah. Namin, nag-lepas kami ng foto. And this was sa Dubai, nag-hot air balloon kame with the team. Anong nang championship trip namin. Tapos, yung re-loss, eto galing tozak kane inulun ish. Neregale samin tozak. Tapos, yung TV, the joke namin. Ayun, siyempre. Meram papuong mga pictures nang dito. Actually, dito siya sa likod namin. So, nilegay ko na dito. Kasi, mga, mga babali ngileg ko kaka ng dito sa likod. So, eto nama, eto, kasama doon, kasama doon sa picture, doon sa palasho. And so, yun nga, mahilik siyang, mahilik ako mag-take nang photos nya, lalupag ko kain. Chakak ako re-dine, na picture mako. Bilang ko nang nang ako. Feel ko lang yung self ko na gusong mag-picture. Moga pa-picture ako. So, yun. Pas, eto trip namin sa Japan, pang third dime na din. - A-ah. - Tiwa, usaka lang. Usaka lang ba dito? - Usaka lang time. - Usaka. Third time namin. So, mahilit lang siya guys, sorry. Pero yan, sa Harry Potter, na studio. Pas, eto naman, again, mahilik ako mag-picture, and mahilik siyang, di pala siya mahilik mag-picture kasi, eto pala, kapag mga gantong picture, kina kaban siya. Kasi, baka, hindi makedai mag-picture nya, sa sabi nya, ayo ko, ayo ko, misan kanyar ko, siyun kasama naman, dito ko nang mag-picture, ko malino, ganyan-gyanyan. O, lagi kupirapasa. Pero sabi ko, hindi kailang mo nang mag-practice, kasi, pag-tine dalawang, mag-picture, ay, tayo lang dalawa, kailang ma-runo ko mag-picture ganyan. So, eto, sa Taiwan to, and memorable to dahil, first trip namin, with our family, nang mag-kasama, iyan, sa Taiwan. Wait siya, memorable din nang saan, kasi isang, klik ko lang itus, ang gada ko. - Nafraud ka na. - Oh siya, ayang ganda ko. - Oh siya, wow. - Siya, wow. - Di ako siya, binawisan. - Di ako siya, binawisan. O, magaling ka na, tapos, eto naman, eto ng trip na to, memorable din to, kasi first-ever Europe trip namin, kasama ng team. So, eto, sa Amsterdam, medyo na, may time na nahiwalae kami, sa sabi ko, picture lang tayo, para mag-runo nang mantay ng picture sa Amsterdam. Iyan, tas eto, eto din, ng story naman ito, kasi nga, hindi siya mahilig mag-picture. Di siya sa Nai, mag, ano ba, mag-post sa picture. To sabi ko, o, sigin ako nang bahala, basap mag-post ka lang diyan, to truang kita. So, ayan, nang naging kalabat, nahi ito, nang naging nalabasan ng picture namin. Yoke, pinahara yung tingin-tingin ka lang diyan. - Kasi alas, buong trip mo lang, kung foto, parang ganyan. - Oh, oh. Alam mo sa, pag nakita niyo yung phone niya, puro picture ko lang. Paso, dami nalawa, ganun lang, mula kayo mag-kitaang picture niya, kahit selfie wala. So, eto naman, sa Paris, saan niya to? - Salu. - Ayan, salu. Sa IG namin. So, eto naman, apos ba natin to? Actually, di ko anpanon lang nakuwa to? Kaiba kaya Bea? Kaiba nang-post ne to? Eto, to, to. - O, si Bea, ma. - A, a, a. So, si Bea pala, kaya Bea nang galing tong picture na to. And, mahi lik kasi siya mo dahil mag-picture ng random li lang kasi, wala filter. May mga picture kami kumakain ng ppicture siya. Sa karong Bea, o kong suba namin to. Pero, iyan, nak-kuha niya yung picture na to, nak-kong saan mahi lik, kong gawin sa kanya. - A, normal niya. - A. Nang-mongorot siya ng muka. M-m-m. Eh, nilang pala, muka. Muka, muka. Muka, katawan. Kaya tanong ginagawa, Bea lako nila siya kuku-kortin, ayan. So, eto naman, first trip namin sa Korea, again, sa team ulit. Nakatuwa, kasi lahat ng pictures natin pala anong. Travel, ayan. So, eto naman sa Korea, kakarating lang namin ito sa Korea kasi, red-eye bang tawag doon, yung marayu flight namin. So, dumating kami 6 a.m. Ano, gagawin namin sa 6 a.m. sa Korea. So, na samyeon dong kami, nag-kiku-tikot muna kami, main bukas na. Naga, napatatayan nang anong jalan, ugly sweater, Christmas sweater. A, kasi Christmas nga. So, pang Christmas party nang. So, main nakita lang kong salamendan, picture na kong. - A, iyan. - Nge, kasi iyan yung, tinit-test me yung camera bo. - A, iyan. - Nabag. O, kasi hindi pa kong ano dito, tinit, ni, first time kong gamitin yung camera. Sabi ko, try kong naman, binibina to iyan. Niko ginagamit. A, iyan. This is PBNJ, brought to you by Arena Plus Network. Maging updated si Sports Podcast, tulad ng PBNJ. Like and subscribe to the Arena Plus Network and PBNJ YouTube channel. Sama-sama tayo makipangchikan. Kasama ang Arena Plus Network, sama-sama sa Arena. 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Pero healthy naman. Di naman yung nga awai na... Di naman kami wabot sa pointe nga kakapikulan kami dahil competitive kami sa isa-tisa. Pero meron lang time, konyare, may mga laro may mga laro na nakikita ko, ganyan konyare sa phone, or sa mga arcade games, ganyan-gyan. So, I said, "Wal ka laro tayo?" I said, "Konyare, manalo." - That's how it is. - Ganyan. Pataasa, pabilisan. Yes, that's how it is. And he said, "Di mga pede maglarula." - "Ganyan nga enjoy." - "Gusaka lang mag-enjoy." - "Baka lage ik mong contes." - Yes. So, that's how it is. Okay, okay. Ganyan nga laro na lang ganyan. Pero pag anna talaga, minsan, ma-lumalabas ang pag-ikin competitive namin dalawa. Pero siya ang mas madalas na yung ayo niya ng ganon. Kasi, siguro, mag-i-crate din talaga ng pag-kakainisan sa isa-tisai. Pero, minsan, meram ay mga heavy competition na siyempre ayam mong pa-iwan. - If ganon. - Yes. - Okay. Next question. - Next. For Ella, paano ka in-approach ng timeline? Actually, medyo matagal na kasi yung story, so hindi ko na masyadong ma-alala, pero I remember kasi that time, no, first time na binubu ui yung cream line, ano, in-approach na din talaga ako, kasi yung a-college pa kame, yun ay yung plan after yung college namin with Sir Art or Lim. Pero del, hindi ako nakajoin before dahil nagkaroon akong conflict with my work before it. Kaya din nag-perlas ako. Pag-dating ko ng perlas, siguro, nagkaroon akong nantayam na medyo nge-struggle ako. So, gusto ko nang change of environment, gusto ko nang change, na panang I want to step out of my comfort zone that time. So, nagtake rin ako ng risk na, "Lipat kaya akong nang team, baka it will change something in me." Sini-share ko yun kailai. Terus, siguro pag-usapan namin, "Try mo kaya yung, lumipat ng cream line." So, from there, I think yun ayung ano, yun naging start. Terus, sinakusap ko na Sir Alan. Nag-ulat din kame, kasi wala re. Uu, wala ng update. Kasi gana naman yun yung cream line. Siya kaya yung bago? Si Bilang... Siya kasi omrobehira. Bihira naman keroan ng bagong oin. Kaya mabugulat kame. Wala wai bago. Siya kana kak-excite pang may bago sa amin, kasi gana namin. Eta pala, paano siya nabi sa inyo? Ni ko nama alala. Ni ko alala. Siya orga nang ano. 25 yun. Pet peeve. Ano yung pet peeve mo? Okay. Awana naman siya. I'm there. Yung sumi sigao pa. Pa la sigao. Lalo konyare, kata yung nago kusap. Di mo narenek. Tasi Bilang kila mong... Si sigao. Ayun gana. Or kaya, selalong sa mga... sa awai. Yun yan. Mas gusto ko kalima kasi. Kasi nga, naka-katakot. Na, kag sinigawan kasi ako. Di ba parang nandun tayo na trigger nap. Gusto mong gumante na, nasigawan mo ako. Or may nasabi ka nang yun. Di maganda. So, minsan may ganon. Baka, wana masabi kong di maganda? So, mas lalong di magiging maayos yung awai. So, kaya gusto ko, kong may mga ganong bagai. Dalaga. Dapat kalma lang kami pareas. Suka yun, ayun ko kata lagang, sinigawan ako. Ako, yung pet bib ko lang, ayun ko nang malakas kumaya. Nawa bother ako, kag naringin ko kahit, kahit, di ko ko lala. Lalo, siguro baka, kata bi ko deba yun. Ayun ko. Suka mada min ko ko. Yun, yun lang. Okay, malines. Ako din pala. Malinesun. Okay, next. Si ko pala yun ma-domino. Ako, etong tanong para sa'yo, what is your first impression sa'kin, nung pumasuk ako sa cream line? Masungit. Lagit. Lagit. Masungit. Kasi, nung nakilala ko na siya, nag-its ko nakumbakit ganun siya, pero noon, kasi ang dateng sa'kin, straight, ano lang talaga siya, straight lang siya tumingin, ganya, yung talagang di kanya kilala, ganun, nang dateng. Di bahiain nga ako kasi. Yun ya, yun ya, awit ka lang. Tapos, kasi haka-kadag-dag pa ng sungit, yung ice niya, kasi datan ng kontaks kapanun. So, nakakadag-dag siya nang, nung fear sa matay, kasi, lumala kayong eyeball mo, toz wa rang, kala ko lumala bas. Lumala bas, nung baki dun na. So, kaya pala nakakatakat siya, kasi lumala. Pero ganun, so may ekstraang tara yung ichura mo, pero nung nag-cream line siya, siya pa di pa naman din, ano, di rin, di ka naman din, may pagkawante, masungit pa rin, kasi yung man tayo agar naging close eh, pero, tahin hink lang siya, toz mahinhin pala siya, ganun. Parang feeling ko kasi, may pagkawante siya yung maldita, ganun, ganun yung vibes mo, parang maldita. Mahinhin? O, ganun, ganun yung voices mo. Wait lang ba, hindi ako, nga gulet ako sa maldita. O, hindi yung voices mo, yung, kung magsalita ka ba, pero anakapa lang, mahinhin ka lang, magsalita, ganun, tahin hink ka lang, ganun. So are you really in the first impressions? Super far. Super far. Yes. So he explained to me, I didn't say that was his first impression. But he explained to me why he was so shy. Because he didn't know how to approach. If he saw that. Not only me, but other people too. Because he didn't know me. Like that. Even back then, and he wasn't sweet to friends. He was just sweet guys. That's how he became clingy, that's what he's like. But he wasn't like that back then. I feel like you're really the same. When you talk to each other, or when you're young, even when you're young. But I've improved. He's improved so much, guys. Thank you. Yes. And what else? You also went on a show with friends. Except for Lai. Yes. Except for him. You're like him even when he's young. Yes, he was like, "Yeah." Like me, at least mutual. Like one-sided. Since you're a team captain, Adelaide, and also your best friend. Your best friend? Yes. What's your reaction to the relationship? What's your reaction to our relationship? Was it to tell her about us? Or did you have any fears or hesitations at first? That's what you did at EMG. Of course, I didn't tell her. Because she always decides on my feelings. She's always like that. She knows what I feel even if I don't talk to her. She's the first person to notice and approach me. She knows the one more chance. There was a scene where Basha said, "Are you going to tell her or am I just going to cry?" I don't know if my line is right, but it's like that. She approaches me like that. "Are you going to tell her or am I just going to wait?" Of course, when she asked me that, I told her the truth. And of course, as a team captain and as a friend, she told me her opinion about it. Like this. Of course, she wasn't okay with the team at first. Because there were a lot of conflicts. So she talked about this. But at the end of the day, she told me, "If you're going to make that decision, why not?" Knowing how private my life was and is, she knew that my world would change when I entered this relationship. So I said, "I'm sure I think it's about time." She said to me, "Jama, you're the one I need in my life." So that's it. She said to me, "I'm going to live and I know that I have to do what I have to do and how I should handle my relationship." So that's how she always did that. And at EMG, she always did that. Do you remember that? Well, true. So as long as I think that we don't have conflict with the team, they're supportive in the happiness. Okay, for Jama, how can a LADJ grow? Why don't you answer the same questions? I don't think she's a LADJ. How? Because they didn't notice it. She also knew me when I was a LADJ. Just for one day. So I told her, "I'll show you." Then I told her, "I'll just go home." She said, "What do you need?" I asked her, but she knew what I wanted. She said, "I want to eat." So that's her way of cooking. She can eat me. Because she doesn't want me to be hungry because I'm a monster. So she can eat me. And then hugs and kisses. So that's how we're like. That's how we do it. But I'm the one who gets angry, not her. I'm the one who gets angry. She's a bit violent. I told her, "I'm the one who gets angry." What's the advantage of being a LADJ that you can't forget? Since my dad was still alive, he always told me that we have to take care of each other. No matter what happens, don't fight with money. Don't fight with any reason. He said, especially when they're gone. Because we're just going to die. If we're alive, no matter what happens. I'm sure that's what's really bothering me. I can't forget that feeling. Because it's true. Yes, of course it's true. When it happens, we're heartbroken. Ate or Kuyah will be the one to fight. I'll be the one to fight. You? I can't forget the feeling of being good. I think he told me that. Maybe my dad will know what my future will be like. Because especially in our world, there are so many people who create hate. In Ate, we don't know why. So, in addition to all the hate that happened in our lives, we should still choose to be good. We should just return our kindness to them. Maybe so that they realize that it's okay to be good. Maybe you want to try something like that. And also to be a good family. My mom should take care of them. My dad didn't really care about me. So, when they went home, he said, "It's okay that we're good." Because the family is more intact when you're good. Which I relate because the family is really important. Okay, next question. Yes. What makes the both of you choose each other despite every negativity around? Especially love that we have. There's nothing that can be broken that happens to other people in the world that we have. So, even if you're just crying so hard about what they're saying to us, you'll lose everything because of the love that we have. Don't cry. Don't cry. But I don't think they can fit in with our relationship. Maybe that's the only way for us to be broken. But for me, we're not broken in the words or comments that they create. So, there's nothing that can be broken. I'm number one because our relationship is a safe place. No matter how many people we have around us, no matter how many people we have around us, when it comes to the two of us, that's what I'm saying because it gives me peace, happiness, and calmness. It's true when you say, "That's the person, calm down." Because that's what you're saying to me. That's why we've lost the negativity of love and peace that our relationship gives us. That's why it's not hard to choose. Let's choose one by one. Because when you film, if you have a bad comment, it goes to your brain and you think about it. It's like you can do what you want to do, right? But even if that's what happens, we choose one by one, not the one that can be broken. And I think it goes to the one that we believe in, the one that we know. One by one, no matter what you say. It can affect your thoughts on what you're going to say. And it can also affect our family, our friends that support us. And we're also telling ourselves how important we are to each other. That's all that matters. Yes. Ella, how do you manage your nerves? Not really nerves. Nervous system. Especially when you're subbed in to serve during the crucial moments of the match. Just imagining being in your position already makes my stomach burn. I can't, that's all. There, that's how I feel. I get nervous. That's how I get nervous. As in guys. How did I handle it? I don't know. Because I was wrong, right? There are times when I got into crucial and then I made an error. So I was really doing it before I got into it. And then I thought to myself, you know, you can do it, you can do it, you can do it. But it's really hard for us to do our job because you know, it's just a rotation. It's just a chance for you to be on the court. But when you're wrong, the whole match is up to you. When you lose, it's automatic. You'll change. Yes, because it's up to you. You can also change the momentum. When you're in a good position, you'll also turn around. So it's like the kind of risk you'll take to make or break. That's it. It's very hard. If you're going to serve, do you think you'll be able to ace or you'll just go in? I'll just go in. Me too. When I went in, I was only able to serve. It's hard for us to ace because you don't know what you feel. You know, guys, when I pass the court, sometimes I need to get the feeling if the ball is right in your hand today. Right? You don't know that. Since you went in once, you came out a bit cold, you didn't know how to feel inside. It's also hard for you to get the feeling that you're going to serve because you don't know if the ball is right in your hand today. So I thought, I'll just go in because a lot more can happen. But if there's a bad chance, sometimes it's really an error. It's all going down. But that's what I'm thankful for, that you never feel in me that I'm the reason why I'm going to lose. That's right. Thank you, guys. Thank you, Kim Line. Of course. I never get nervous before recording an episode or has it become second nature? Maybe first. I'm really nervous, especially when there's a guest. We don't know how we're going to live the episode. And I'm also thankful that we know the guest. So they're also going to bring us together. But first, I'm really nervous. Because it's also about how you're going to create a good touch line, how you're going to maintain your energy, and how you're going to fill up your energy. But now, I'm okay, I'm comfortable. That's how it is. You're okay. You're nervous. At first, because of course, this is our first. And it's a different type of... Usually, we don't do it. I'm nervous, because I don't know how it's going to happen. If we're okay as hosts. Because there are different hosts, right? I'm the one who's going to bring the show. Especially when there's a guest. Because if you're going to fill up your energy, you need to fill it up. And of course, I also don't know how people are going to take our podcast. So I'm very happy that they're happy. Yes. And I think it's okay. Richan is happy that we're both comfortable. So now, I don't feel nervous anymore. Because we're just going to talk about this. And for practice, guys, there's a lot more episodes to come. Maybe she's going to be a host of Phoebe. Of course, Phoebe. Tony. Oh, is it Tony? No, it's not. Sorry, I was a little far away. Sorry, guys. It's your generation. That's the only baby I've ever seen. Did you guys ever think that you'll be friends or close to each other when you first met? No. No, I'll be friends. Because of course, I'm a teammate. And I'm approachable to her. But the friends that I'll be super close to. I don't know. I don't know. You're just shy at first. You're always serious about training. And of course, we only see each other during the training. So that's my first impression of you. So I'm shy. And I don't really know how to make fun of her. Tony is the only one who makes fun of her. No, because when he sees her videos, there are times when you're the life of the party. But on a normal day, he's not like that. He's just serious about training. You know what happens when we have a service receive drill? He's just ten balls. So he's always the longest one to finish. Because even if he receives well, if his target is a little low, he doesn't need to pay for it. So that's what I'm saying. I'm just saying that to have a basis on how serious he is to the encyclopedia. So that's it. After training, you go home right away. It's just like that. He doesn't really stay or go out. So I didn't expect him to be friends with me. Me neither. Because he's also very intimate. He's also a friend to us. He's also a friend to our Gia. He's also a friend to our EMG. So he's always with us. But he's also a best friend to Gia. No, because he's also a friend to our Gia. He's the first one who's been with me. If I were the first one to be friends with him, I wouldn't be friends with him either. So our Gia was the first one to talk to me. Thank you, Gia. Because I don't have anyone. So I don't even have friends with him. So I'm also very intimate with him. Maybe I can't eat the energy in your house. Because I'm just a simple person. So you're not a simple person? No, it's just a joke. And what's the other way? They said, "I'm just a simple person." And he's the first one to be friends with me. And I don't know if we have similar likes. Actually, we became friends because of Asupag. Oh, right. So that's the only thing we started dating. Why not, Basha? Because we're close friends. We're EMG. And I don't know if he's that kind of person. He's just a simple person. He's just a simple person. That's why he's just a simple person. That's why he's just a simple person. Why are you always scared of a big gem? In the stories of the episodes, I always tell them that I can't be mad at you. Are you scared of me? No, I'm not. I'm just scared. No, he's not scared. Because if he's mad at me right now, he's going to be mad at me. So that's why he's going to be mad at me. Because of course, when we're both angry, of course, when I'm angry, he's going to be angry too. So it's okay. Nothing will happen to us if that's the case. So that's why he's going to be mad at me. And sometimes, he's going to be mad at me. He's going to be mad at me. He's just telling me, "Why do you need this?" So he's not going to be scared of me. He just doesn't want me to be mad at him. Because I'm the one who's not good at what I do. I'm sure he's just joking. Yes, he's just joking. I'm just joking. But in reality, I'm not. I'm scared of him. He's just different when you say that you're going to stop him from being angry. Because you're scared of him. Because if I'm going to stop him from being angry, because number one, when he's being angry, his energy is wasted. And it's also wasted if our day ends. What's the reaction of his team and his family when you became like that? They're very supportive. With us. And of course, they were surprised. Some of my friends were surprised too. They were like, "Is that true?" But at the end of the day, they saw how happy I was. And most of them, the first time they saw me like this, I was so free and expressive in my feelings. So they're very happy. You. I'm sure they were surprised that you were angry. Because now we're not acrusive. How is that going to happen? So that's just the part. But they're okay. They're just supportive. Would you rather surprise your partner or be surprised? I'm surprised too. Because I didn't know how to react to surprises. I was so awkward especially when there's a lot of people. And I just loved the surprise. And I'm always like "I'm going to be angry. I'm always going to say that I know what I'm going to do." Even if he was surprised, he wouldn't feel like he's an artist anymore. I always say that. That's why I like surprises. And I like it more because I see you happy with surprises. Best gift you receive from your partner? The best gift? I think it's the trip to Japan that you gave me on my birthday. It was the very first time I met you in Japan. And we enjoyed it even though we were so tired. We went all the way to Tokyo and Osaka in two weeks. No, ten days in a month. Almost two weeks. Yes. We have a lot of memories. You? This watch. It's memorable because you gave it to me. How did he surprise me? How did he surprise me? The story is he asked me what I wanted for my birthday because I was so close to him. I always check on my social media what I always see. I didn't know that I wanted to get married. But of course I did. Because it's too much. I didn't buy it. I did it. I don't know because I had a lot of issues. And I have one more gift. I have a gift that I want. We always go to other countries. Or if we see a watch store. I said this is my style. I don't have such a watch. I don't have a specific brand of watch. I always say this is my style. I always check on it. What happened? My birthday was near. He was so close to Beya. So he said "It's really a gift that we gave to you." "Do you want to get it?" "We will give it to you." Then he will show a picture and say "I got this from my mom." Because he hid it from Beya. The gift. So Beya has a heart. I said I don't have a heart. But I expected a heart. It's my birthday. He will give it to me. "This is your heart." I was shocked. He was so happy. That's how it is. It's a box of Cartier's watch. Of course, I said I always say that. That's how it is. Thank you. That's what I chose. Because I always wear it. Even if I don't wear it. It's expensive. How do you both handle top losses in games like in a championship match? It's hard. Because teammates are the same. To win. To win. Even if I'm not a teammate. Even if you're a partner. But when you're both in the team. You feel the same way. So what we do mostly we just let it pass. After we win. We cry. We cry. Sometimes we share. Then we move on. That's how it is. We eat and watch movies. Then we just let it pass. And most of the time we have moments where we talk to each other. Then we talk about volleyball. Because we need a mental break. Because we always have a next game. So after a few weeks we have a new game. You really need to learn how to move on. What are your non-negotiables in your relationship? I don't want to hide and buy. That's my number one. Even if we're still together. But once you make me or buy me I don't want to. I think I will also buy. Yes, you will buy. I don't want to be mad. It's because you don't want to go back. If you say that the pain is different then you won't be able to go back. And I don't want to respect you. I respect you. I respect my friends, my family. Even the strangers who are waiting for you to do that. You will also see how they treat you. How they treat you. So yes, I don't want to do that. Who is more jealous of you? First of all, I think everyone in the relationship is jealous. If you give a reason to be jealous. Because you are jealous if there is a reason. But those petties who are jealous if they see that they are close to you, they are jealous. There is nothing like that for us. We are so jealous of being jealous of their friends. We joke sometimes. If they are watching Spoky, if they are watching me now they will be jealous. They will say I am your favorite there. Then I will look for a picture of Nick. Then I will drool and I will send it to you. That's it. We are just friends. But you are serious about being jealous. No, I am not. Do you think there are two couples who are long-dried and unplanned? Long-dried, no. We are just going with two couples. It's a date, right? We just meet. Or in a valley. We are unplanned. As in we have breakfast and then we are just like that. So we always travel. We always travel with two couples. After the season, the season is not over yet. We only have two couples. That's what we do. We just move forward. Because we are so busy. We just want to go out to our world. That's what we do after so we don't have any stress. This is a good question for you. During this conference, you played in ABC. What's your lesson or take away? My lesson. The season is so long. I didn't expect it to be so long. I think I wasn't prepared for my condition. And then I learned that not all the time you can play 100%. Like the best. Because we have a game where you play like this. So I can use it in any set. So my power this season. But I also learned that even if that's what happens, I just need to feel myself. I don't need to be myself. You can't play. You don't know how to play. That's why you can't play. So I realized that that's what happens. Because it really improves. The level of valuable. Of course, you also get to know how to play. So you really read and read. I shouldn't expect too much from myself. If my playing is that bad, because you're reading. Of course, when you're learning. Of course, you do a lot of things that's why you're looking forward to it. So if that's what happens, I should also believe in my teammates that they will help me. I'm really hard on myself. I don't have anything to do. I don't have any help in my team. But even if I'm inside the court, I still have some help. So when I'm reading, that's my mindset. If I lose, I will win. And because of your answer, this next question related to that. Knowing that you're one of the future teams. Of course, seniors will lose. Are you ready? No. Of course, I'm not yet. Because maybe this is the perfect time for this season that all of this happened to me. Because maybe I just wrote to the Lord that when the time comes when the seniors are gone, I already know what to do. So when I was struggling, of course, I'm not going to attack anymore. I'm going to attack for a month. I'm also going to attack myself. That's why I'm with the seniors. But of course, if you're also a senior, you don't want to see the rookie. You're still the first one to lose. So I think this is the perfect time for me to feel all the struggle. I can see everything because for the future, I know what I'm going to do. Yes. I think when I have a struggle to fulfill, I always think about it. Even though I'm already very heavy, I'm not like, "Lord, do you want to go home?" "Do you want to go somewhere else?" "What's going to happen to me?" But that's what you always say, "Lord, there's a reason." And that's part of our life. It's not all the time. We're always up there. So I think when we were young, we didn't have a hard time to accept. Because that's what happened. Yes. You just need to move on and move on immediately. And realize that it's not just the end of everything. We're not going to defy a bad game or a bad conference. That's the good thing about sports. You always have a chance to go home. And when I feel like I'm struggling this season, I'm back. We're not champions. But at least I'm back again before the season ends. Because I'm still not in the finals. So a lot has happened to me before the finals. So that's it. I think Lord gave me the perfect time to win. He gave me a lot and not just me. I think the questions are here. But these are part 1. Don't be sad. We have part 2. You need to have part 2. But because we love you, we'll give you part 2 in this segment. See you in part 2. See you guys. (gentle music)