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This is an "I Heart" podcast. Guaranteed Human. Hi, this is Kylie Breakman, Angel Jaritana. Jeremy Colhane, Patrick McDonald. And we're the hosts of the artist on artist on artist on artist podcast. The improvised character comedy podcast where each week a new panel of artists discuss their craft. Join us for a panel of Eurovision participants. And we do a little Halloween sometimes. Does the Pope dress up? Hi, he winks on Halloween. He gets right up next to the microphone. I hear you get the almost here. The eyelashes hit each other. You never seen Italy so quiet. As when the Pope gets up to wink on Halloween. Listen to artists on artists on artists on artists every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. So like by Asia, rather than or so, at least 70% have a phone. I'm Dr. Joy and this is therapy for black girls. We spend our surviving middle school run getting into what's happening inside your kids brain, the group chat and their friendships. And what you can do about it. Your child is not doing this on purpose. That's the kind of perspective we've been pulling from the psychologists and psychiatrists who study this for a living. Listen to therapy for black girls on the I Heart Radio app. Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast. Self-cars of timber is your reminder to slow down, check in with yourself, get off your phone, and maybe ask, why am I like this? I'm Gemma Spek, host of the Psychology of your 20s podcast. And this month we're helping you make sense of the person that you are becoming from setting boundaries and navigating friendships to understanding anxiety, confidence, relationships, and attachment. Sometimes our biggest decisions, without us even realizing it, aren't driven by what we truly want, but by what will prevent us from feeling lonely or being alone. Listen to the psychology of your 20s on the I Heart Radio app. Welcome to Decoding Women's Health. I'm Dr. Elizabeth Pointer, chair of Women's Health and Gynecology at the Atria Health Institute in New York City. I'll be talking to top researchers and clinicians and bringing vital information about mid-life women's health directly to you. A hundred percent of women go through menopause, even if it's natural why should we suffer through it. Listen to Decoding Women's Health with Dr. Elizabeth Pointer on the I Heart Radio app. Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. In February of 2024, celebrated illustrator and children's book author Patre Mathers and her husband Michael mailed letters to dozens of friends and family members to let them know they had died by suicide. Dear honeys, this is goodbye. By the time you get this letter, both Petra and I will be dead. Next stop, Wonderland. Why did they do it? And what did it do to the people they left behind? Listen to death of an artist on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to This Is Important, a production of I Heart Radio, the show where we only talk about what is most obviously very crucially important. Today on This Is Important, when did it get cruel to suddenly love cops? And I like to pivot from Manosphere to break it down the national anthem. I like chief and the kind. Let's go. Oh. And I'm feeling good. That shit's important. Kum-Baya. Everybody's coming. Kum-Baya. Dude, what is Kum-Baya? My dad, what is Kum-Baya? Kum-Baya. It's got to be. Yeah, what's him on? It was him on the cruise. Kum-Baya. I remember that. I think I flagged that. That's my new favorite. Actually saying Kum-Baya. Yeah, that's my new favorite drop. I think. Hit me with that again. Kum-Baya. Kum-Baya. Why does he sound like a 90 in the 90s. Disjockey. Like Kum-Baya. Let's see those titties. Yeah, Kum-Baya. Could you have a podcast? Are we missing out on a podcast that could be maybe. I think Joe Rogan hear your dad here. Kum-Baya. Uh, yeah, I bet Joe Rogan would invite my dad on before he didn't fight me on. Uh, absolutely. That goes without saying. Dude, no. No. There's no shade. That would be. There's no shade. But I'm saying having his own podcast. That would be. He's interviewing politicians and people about aliens. But my dad is a man of few words. I mean, you know, my dad. That's the best part. Kum-Baya. At the end of somebody talking for 20 minutes, he just goes. Kum-Baya. That's pretty fucked up. So he brought you by hymns. I know. I remember when I was telling him about you guys are. I mean, you guys remember when they told me that I had stiff person syndrome and that I might be dying. And I was probably going to. I wouldn't shut up about it. And I was going to. My body was going to get so tight that my heart would stop beating. And I would die in excruciating pain. And they told me that. And I'm telling my father that in his words of, I guess, non-encouragement, but like, solace was Jesus. That fucking sucks. And I'm like, yeah, dude. Hey, man, that sums it up. But that's what you want. That's a man response. That sums it up. Yeah, man. He's right. Huh. Sucks to be you. That fucking sucks. Yeah. Honestly. That fucking sucks. Because it's not a pity party. I love that. And it's like, all right, we still going to sizzler. Yeah. Yeah. Are you going to pick yourself up by your bootstraps or what? Why is this? And we're talking about a whole mom's making goulash for dinner. What is goulash? Well, you know what they say. Grass is always greener. Dude, the amount of food that only your parents make that I've been eating the last two months because my parents are now living here. My dad got a new lung. I don't know if you talked about this on the podcast. We touched upon it. That was very kumbaya. Kumbaya. Yeah. Yeah. Very kumbaya. So he's a brand new freshie. He's got a fresh baby. How's it holding up? How's it holding up? So far so good. Is he going around the house, like, belting out songs and shit? No, he's not. Okay. He's doing the Ace Ventura sliding door shit. Like, "Rah!" "Rah!" "Rah!" The hills are alive. He's doing a lot of laps. But he's finally going to come down south and be at the beach. I'm going to go. Pretty exciting. Pretty exciting news. That's great stuff, dude. Yeah. Good, good, great. And he was up north in the Hollywood Los Angeles Valley. In Hollywood. In proximity of the hospital. Of the hospital. In his seat or so long. Rejected his body. Yeah. And by the way, he still has to go every week for the next three months or so. One thing that goes down due once a month. It's pretty well. And what's the deal? What will he ever smoke weed again? No, dude. That's the thing. That's what fucking stuff is. Who not? Boom. Boom. Boom. Boom. And they go, he goes, "Well, can I eat it?" Oh, yeah. And they go, "Work around." And we all were like, "Yeah, I'm sure he can eat it." And they said, "No, you can't." Because? What? Yes. Which fucking threw him for a loop. But only because they're testing everything in his body. So every week. So anything could throw it off. And then they would have to change medications. That maybe they shouldn't change. This sounds like the same thing that you had to go through. Where it's like, "We don't need to be fighting other poisons. We need to see what's going on with the body." Yes. Somebody help me. Exactly. So then they, so then what they're going to do. They said, "What we can do in about two months is you would have to do it every day at the same time and take the exact same dose." And he goes, "Oh, I can do that." So he's just going to be, "Hi is a fucking time." I've got the time. Mission accepted. Yeah. 420, baby. Sit here. 420 every day. It's coming up. It's coming up next week. I love the idea of an alarm going off every day at 420 and him just being like, "It's time." It's time. It's time. And then I go, "Well, what amount are you taking?" Because I do addibles at night. You know, I drink my cans, my C-A-U-N-N. Bad boy, the podcast. That a boy. And I'll do maybe 5, 10 milligrams, you know, feeling good. And my dad goes, "Jesus Christ." And I go, "Whoa, whoa, whoa." And he goes, "I wouldn't feel shit." And I go, "Dad, you're not just trying to get fucked up." And he goes, "I am." And I go, "Okay, dad, this is a dose that you have to pick that you're going to be on every day." Because you can't go higher or lower because it has to be the same. That's a tough call. And he goes 40. 40. You're going to do 40 milligrams every day. 40 is a lot. 40 is a lot. That's exactly. And he goes, "No, 40." And I'm like, "Ah, maybe. Maybe let's just do 10." And he's done 40 before with any sort of consistency? Is that his reg? No. He doesn't even like addibles. He likes smoking weed. Right. But he's done five before and he's like, "This fucking sucks." I can't feel shit. So now he's going to do 40. So we'll get down off the roof, Dad. And let's just talk about it. Would you rather not feel it or be really fucked up every day? Yeah, you're right. That's the question. What's the question? Like, do you want a low dose or do you want a high dose? Oh, like, underdo it. Yeah, you want a high dose. I think you want a high dose. Because it has to be the same. It has to be the same. It's really cool if, like, right out the gate the first day he does 40, he's like,
but they could run it through the street. If you like, well, we see on the face, we're gonna get 40 to borrow. - He has to do this again. I realized we had to call police, but it's happening again, everybody. - This is 40. - And what's so funny about us talking about this, is there's gonna be fans that are gonna crawl into Blake's DMs that are gonna be like 40, you fucking pussy, I do 100, or whatever, insane number. - No. - Yeah. - That's an insane number. - Listen, if you're doing over 50 every day of what you wanna call life. - Your existence, we're calling in, it exists. - I say shit's not going great. (laughing) - What are you, what are you escaping? - Your band better be good. - You're absolute, and the way I tried to explain it to my dad, I'm like, dad, that's like, don't you just want to, let's say it's like a beer. So you do 10, I would say under five milligrams is like one beer, so 10 is like two beers. 15 maybe, that's three or four beers, right? - Okay, now we're cooking. Now I'm feeling good. - Now I'm feeling good. - So you wanna do 40? - 40, you would like drink a 40. - Yeah, no, more than a 40. - If we're doing the math here. - Yeah, there'd be like eight to 10 beers that he's drinking every night. I'm like, you're a fucking alcoholic. - How many beers are in a 40? - Well, 40 is 40 ounces, and a beer is 12, 40 ounces, and a beer is, and I'm doing quick math. And so it's not even four. Oh, 'cause a beer has what, 12, you know, fluid ounces. And if you're just tuning in, and whoop, up Netflix just said we're done here. They said if these guys are real party animals, they better know they're fluid ounces. - Fuck it, this thing, fucking sucks. - Okay, well I like that. I feel like if you're doing like 40, what are we called? Milligrams of weed, edibles. - Oh, he doesn't even know milligrams. Every fan just went, I feel like a single tear just went down to so many faces. - Oh, the bitch. - You're, were you us who said Native American tear? - Yes, absolutely. - Real tears. - We said that's what this is. - Real tears, like Native American tears. You're like, at that point, if you're taking that much weed every day, is it like you're living in like battlefield earth, the movie? Like everybody you look at looks like John Travolto with like the, - I'll let you answer your own question. (laughing) - 'Cause Adam, I don't know if you have the answer today. - I have taken 40 milligrams before. - Yes. - And did you sprout dreadlocks made of cable? - In fact, I think it was, - Feed 'em the rats. - It was, I did a, it wasn't 40 milligrams. I, it was 25 milligrams and I took, it was a coffee weed drink and upper and down. - Ah. - And I thought it was, I thought it was just, I thought it was a regular amount. It was like 25 or 30, it was something a lot. And I fucking pounded it. And then I was going to a show. I had a show in Wyoming and I drank it on the way and then all of a sudden it kicks in like as I'm going on stage, I'm like, oh fuck. I start to do my act. It was going great. Everything was going a okay. I sort of just went on autopilot. I'm like just doing my jokes. And then the, - I like how you say I'm doing my jokes, which until you doing this with your head. - You weren't even speaking. You were just doing this. - I'm doing comedy. - No, it was just like, it wasn't even like me doing it. It was just like, I clicked on the autopilot and my brain was going, this is crazy, but I'm still doing, I'm still doing my whole act. - And then. - How do you wave? - This sound goes out and they can't hear me. - Wait, in, on the microphone or in your head. - On the microphone. - Okay. - In the microphone. - Okay. - And all of a sudden they're like, this sounds out, so they couldn't hear me. And then I'm like fucking, what to do. And it was a big show. There was like 4,000 people there. - Holy shit. - And I go, I just started to sing the national anthem. (laughs) - Sure. - That was my go-to. I just started to sing the national anthem and the whole crowd sang the national anthem with me. - Did they stand and take a breath on them? - All of the words to the national anthem. - Oh. - ♪ Please don't stop the music ♪ - That is crazy. - Because I was fucking high as a kite. It just came back to me. Have you sang it before or somewhere? - I did it at a Dodger game. - Yeah. - And this is after the Dodger game, so it was fresh in your recall reserves. - I guess so. - Well, when Adam gets super stoned and he retreats into the most patriotic person of all time. - Yeah, of course. - That is his true self, is Captain America. - That's right. Chris Evans, step out. - Is it Chris Evans? - You know it really sucks and it bothers me that when you see now someone with like an American flag shirt or a hat, it no longer just means patriotic. It means like they're super pro-ice. - Yeah, yeah. - Hello. I mean, you can't just rock an American flag. And by the way, I love American flags. - Thank you. - You've seen my place in LA. It has a giant nine by 13 American flag. - It's a American flag rap, isn't it, your house? - Yeah. - You got to rap by the fucking Orange Coast choppers, guys. - It's a nine by 13 American flag. I love American flags in America. - Yeah, I wanted to hang one in my front yard. And I think I found one in our garage that like I could hang a flag. I have one hanging out there. - Yeah. - Yeah. - And I think I'm gonna. - Okay. - Yeah. - And then I'm also gonna put like an NRA sticker in the window too. - Yeah, just let 'em know. - Just so people don't like roll up to the crib, I'm like, I'll shoot you. That's actually a really smart one, that's really smart. - Oh, definitely get the little dormat that says like nothing in this house is worth dying for. That one's really good. - Oh, that's a good one. - That's a good one. - That's a really good one. - And then it's like a hand with a gun. It's fucking cool. - That's a good one, dude. - Yeah. - How about go ahead take the package and make my day and then quote the next dirty hairy movie that should be made by Netflix? - I feel like that's a lot of-- - It's like a really long. - And it goes all the way from the door to the street. - Yeah, I feel like that's too many words. I feel like they're just taking the package and going at that point, they're not gonna stick around. - Oh good. - 'Cause here's the thing, they're busy reading it. - Oh shit. - I'm busy loading, I'm putting bullet after bullet into-- - That's true. - You have a homo. - That was a clip. - Yeah. - It is weird, it is weird that now like, which by the way, I'm not against cops. I think yeah, we should have police. When people were like defund the police, I'm like, that seems crazy. We for sure need police. But now it's like-- - Go ahead and cook. - It's patriotic or like cool to be super pro police. - Huh. - It's like the blue lines matter and all that shit. - Lives. - What year is it? - Lives. - The blue line. - Yeah, yeah. - The blue line. - I see the blue line everywhere. - That's blue lives matter. - But it's blue lives matter. - Lives matter. - And the blue line is-- - The blue line. - Like show 'em the tap. Blake knows this because she'll go. - I'm just saying why, why did suddenly become cool to be super pro cops? It's always been cool to be-- - Did you miss like two years of the blue line? - Two, they tried to abolish police. - It's science. - Yeah, man. - And then the police had to go, hey, guess what? We kind of have a really difficult, weird job. - Are they for sure? - Absolutely, there are some fucking morons who take advantage of what they're capable of and how they carry a fucking gun and they abuse their powers. But they had to be like, we're also out there kind of putting our lives in danger to keep the streets clean, blah, blah, blah. - Yeah, but still you can't be two pro cops. - Hey. - Or two anti cops. - Well, it's the challenge of society, Adam. It's the challenge of society. We can't all be one thing. We're so divided. You have to really pick sides now, but-- - I'm just divided. - It's so annoying. - It's gotta be a little bit of everything, man. - It's so annoying. - You know what sucks? It's getting pulled over. Keep going, Blake, a little bit of everything. Yeah, okay, go ahead and get him pulled over. - Get him pulled over. - Oh, yeah. - Guess what happened the other day to me? - Oh, dear. - Now pulled over. - Goodbye. - What happened? - Tell me what the violation was. Drive him with your titties out. - Kumbaya. - It was a speeding ticket and guess what happened? - You talked your way out of it. - You fucking got out of it, baby. - You slurped. - Every time. - Got out of it. - How'd you do it, huh? - He just came out to me. He was like, "Why are you speeding?" And I said, little leave, I have no, no. I said, "I have no good reason, I am sorry, I shouldn't be speeding like this. This is my neighborhood." - Please don't stop the music. - I shouldn't be speeding like this." And he goes, "Well, we're gonna let you off with the warning." - You need it. - I'm like four inches. - I'm like, "All right, okay, great." - Wow. - Yeah. - That must be nice. - So I guess I, and then I was said, blue lives matter. And he's like, "What?" And I go, "I don't know. I thought you would like for me to say that." - We're done. Are we done here? - I don't know. - Are we done here? - I don't know. I was like, "Now you're taking it too far, I'm just kind of doing a nice thing." - Congrats. - Every time I think of that, I think of Fargo, where he's like, "Oh, we could just take care of it right here in Brainer," and he's like holding the money out of the wallet. And then the guy's like, "Yes, I don't think of Fargo that well." - Rewatch Fargo, dude. Absolute banger. - You know, I really like that show. Is that show still around? - Yeah. - Show's not around anymore, because the dude who made it is now making the aliens show. - Did they only do like two seasons? - No, Fargo had like four or five seasons. - Yeah. - Fargo rocked. - All of them were like extraordinary. - And then he decided to go make that the alien show, is anyone watching the alien show? - I have a few friends who are watching it. They said they don't know. - Oh, but I heard it's out of this world. - Yeah. They said it was really good. - Okay. - Don't give it. - Yes, points. - No. - What the fuck are we doing now? - That gets points. - Well, it was a pun. - The fuck are we doing? - It was a pun of sorts. - Adam, come on. Just give that show some space. - Yes, points. - Wow. What? Understand if it's not in your orbit.
Oh This is a funny podcast though, but I did know I didn't really funny Dude, but they did it they did like um where they interview people on entertainment tonight or ET Yes points I hate this did you like I reset though and you guys thought I was moving? No, I knew you were coming back I didn't I see I saw the twinkle in your eyes. Oh boy who you knew that makes you Mac and me No Yeah, I don't give that one too. No, yeah, don't give that too. Oh do you guys come by? I don't know if any of you are noticing at home my my poor Camera quality. I am in yeah you guys. Oh, when you travel? Why don't you just take the camera with? I didn't want to say take the camera with hey Adam when you travel and bring a camera with let me know Yeah, I'm going. Yeah, just let me know let me know just let me know And I won't you won't even know because the camera will be set up and it'll look fresh and good I'm asking you to let me know and I will pretty excited. I hope I hope you guys are gonna let me eat on air because I have a very Special no, do you have a plastic bag and camera? What's happening in frame? We're on Netflix now You got to treat it with respect. Okay, she's zombies. Okay, patty wait wait wait wait wait I have in my hands. What is it patty? What had these original dragon original? She's on me conquered, California This is what it's all about gentlemen. Okay, and I have a I have a cheese zombie in my hand Okay, and would you describe what that is? So here's the deal for you guys who don't know like Yeah, which is everyone Where I grew up in conquered at school. There were these things called cheese zombies, which are basically buns I'm gonna go take a shot filled with like American cheese in the middle and a jalapeno We read the well that that's a new flavor. It was it was just me and she's basically our runs, right? But what kind of meat? What kind of meat? How's the meat? What is the there's now you can get meat in them But the original app from school was no meat is just cheese in a bun. Oh, okay. I like that But here's the deal now they have brick and mortar Places, okay, one is patty's original. So this is the first time talking to dude I was about to say that why is talking so difficult for you sometimes when this is what we do professional 40 milligrams of I get it because this is forever. He wants to do it right because this is forever Yeah, patty's original is one of them But then there's another guy who claims he made up cheese zombies and his story is called rob zombies Cheese zombies. Oh awful this rob zombie sign off on this not that I know of but this is a patty's original man Cheese zombie so shout out conquered California actually that looks pretty good. So your patty's over rocks I've never been to robs, but patty's is closest to my parents house So I'm rolling with patty's and you're obviously in a spare bedroom of your mom's house. Yes Yes, and what is what is the art puzzle room. This is her puzzling room. Oh, sure Okay, it's back at that serious. You're a big puzzler yourself. Is that a puzzle behind you? Is that puzzle pieces? No I believe that is probably some artwork picked up from like hobby lobby. Uh, oh my god Jesus dude. We're on Netflix. Come on Jesus Christ Hi, this is highly breakman. Angela Jaretana. Jeremy Colhane. And we're the hosts of the artists on artists on artists on artists podcast the improvised character comedy podcast We're each week a new panel of artists discuss their craft. Join us for a panel of wellness influencers What I try to do is Phone journal. I don't know if you guys heard of phone journaling. Yeah, it's reading. It's called reading You so you're so we don't like to use that word anymore. Okay. A panel of New Yorker cartoonists Have you guys done Terry grosses pellets on the class? No I've been dying too. I'm so sorry. I'm I'm seeing a uh a reading of Sadako in the pounds and thousand paper cranes By Audrement Donald at the Wonderland bookstore That's crazy. I went to the Wonderland bookstore yesterday, and I heard nor Jones do a reading of zero dark 30 no way I have to come to the last bookstore though. Kim control is reading the guitar tabs of yesterday A panel of Eurovision participants and we do a little Halloween sometimes. He he winks on Halloween. It's right up next to the microphone. I hear you'll get the elbows here. The eyelashes hate each other You never seen it least so quiet as when the pope gets up to wink on Halloween Listen to artists on artists on artists on artists on the I heard radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts By Asia rather than or so at least 70% have a phone middle school is a different world than the one we grew up in I'm Dr. Joy and this is therapy for black girl We spent real time on it in our surviving middle school run Bringing in a child psychologist and a psychiatrist who's raising two black girls of his own to talk about what's really going on with our kids right now So it's literally physiological and neurological and psychological chaos happening all the same job We got into group chats and gaming, friendship and bullying and how to tell the difference between healthy monitoring and the kind of surveillance that erodes trust They're belonging you could think of belonging as I can be myself and I can still be accepted and then they're fitting in fitting in says I have to change who I am in order to avoid rejection Then we turn the conversation toward the fathers sitting down with therapists cure gains on black fatherhood And what it means to raise a daughter through this stage You don't have more shorts so you can't do flips you have one to dress you up across your legs That's the range of this run from screen time to identity to the fathers doing the work at home You have to get off her device but the reality is there's a lot of life out there that we don't want you as your adults in their life to miss out on This has been our surviving middle school run brought to you by the people who spend their careers thinking about exactly this I'm Dr. Joy Listen to therapy for black girls on the iHeartReneo app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast Self-care September is here which means it's time to rethink what self-care actually means Yes, self-care can be a long walk. 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I would love to show you guys what's in them Okay, so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, do that fact that Netflix is paying for us for this and look at that That is a cheese zombie huh that seems like too much bread per cheat like the ratio seems a little off It's really good. Well, I don't know how moist is the bread. How good is the bread? How moist is the bread? Yes, it's fantastic. Okay. Okay, that's not answering the question It's like we just wanted to imagine you're at Thanksgiving. It's a delicious Thanksgiving roll filled with delicious Those are dry aren't those rolls? Yeah, is it dry or moist? They use Your vocabulary here, but
like he's gonna be like, it's fucking slither for whatever the fucking bay length way. (laughing) - Slither. - Yeah, it slaps. - Okay. - It's dumb. - No, food doesn't slap. - Food doesn't slap. - Dude, you're 42 years old, like you're 42. - Food doesn't slap. - Food smacks. - And this is smacking. - Yeah, you're 42. - You know what's smack? - All right. - Hands, baby. - Oh yeah. - Everybody, put up what you're consuming right now. - Mm. - Adam. - Fucking cherry. - Even you guys at home, oh delicious. Is that a zero cherry? - Oh yeah. - Crap. - Somebody was trying to tell me that, they thought that Coke Zero and Diet Coke take the taste the same. That is utter bullshit. - No, that's crazy. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Coke Zero is infinitely better. It's a sweeter taste. - It's a terrier. - It's superior. - As someone who's not Coke, Diet Coke tastes bad, right? And Coke Zero just doesn't taste good. - Oh, right. - Okay. - Okay. - Like, Coke tastes good, but you can't drink it all the time because you don't want to die. Like, listen, if you're listening to this, stop. - Turn it off. - Drinking Coke every day, you're going to die. - You're gonna die. It's too good. - I don't give a fuck. - I don't know, in my algorithm, there's a guy that always pops up. He's like, day in the life of a soda addict. Have you seen this fucking guy? - No, that sounds terrible. And he's like, our age, young, cool, still hip, still with it. - Right. - Love's geese or goose? - Smacking and slapping. But has a young family. Has a young family and he's like, take the family to Disney World so you know I gotta bring my sodas. And then it shows him, like, at a, at a, like Sam's Club, everywhere he travels, he has to go to Sam's Club and buys six dozen cases of different sodas. - Oh my God! - And then pounds sodas all day. And then he's like, yep, had 42 sodas today. - What? - How does he not have diabetes? - He will, he will. - They're all Coke zero and shit like that. - What about his teeth? What's his tooth game? - I don't know what his tooth game. I mean, they're no rubber, but it's absurd. I'm like, and he's like, I know this can't be good for my kidneys. And you're like, yeah, I honestly don't even know what the kidneys do, but you're right. It can't be good for them. - The kidneys have questions. The kidneys are like, I'm sorry. Do we need to have another meeting? What is happening? - The kidneys clean everything, right? - No, no, no. I was at the liver. - The kidneys are experiencing a lifestyle that they're just like, well, what are we doing? - Yeah. - Why are we doing this? - And the guys like, we're doing it. So there's this thing called clicks. I'm on Instagram, I'm on TikTok. I'm getting clicks. Well, you're gonna die. We're gonna shut down. We're gonna pick it. That's the liver talking. And the guy goes, I don't care worth it. - Worth it, we're doing it. - Yeah, I'm providing for my family. - Fuck, he can't, he can't be making it. - He should just do like, we did. Let a dog lick your butthole for a job. - He can't be making enough money that it's worth it. - There's no way. - I mean. - Hey, but we're talking about, you know how like, some of those only fan girls, where they're like, make their butthole wink, but they're making like $45 million a year and you're like, no, what the hell? - Yeah, like, it is crazy. - Who would be an example of that? - I mean, isn't that what Bell Blue or Bonnie Blue, what's her name? - Oh, yeah. - I wanna rail the thousand guys in a day. - I don't know. - Yeah, I'm on edge. I'm on edge. - Yeah, you don't know her name. - Is it her name Bonnie Blue? - Is it her name? - It is. - But the fact that you said a different name and you're like, "Burfee Blue, Bucky Blue, Bitty Blue." - Bitty, Bitty Blue, is it Bitty Blue? - Is it Bonnie Blue? I don't know. I don't even know who she is. - Is that the girl who like, does it with like, a lot of guys, right? - She did it with a thousand guys in a day. - Yeah, it's cool you call fucking does it because you're what, in sixth grade? - Well, I don't wanna be crass. - Yeah, true. - That's one thing about Blake. - Trying to bring some cheese zombies to this network. I don't know. - Is this the female who mated with upwards of 1000 mates? - Yeah, she mated with like a thousand dudes or something. Hey Todd, give us her, and I give us some stats on Bonnie Blue. We wanna know some stats. - But what are you saying about these people who just make this money and how crazy it is? - I don't think we're struggling to start talking about how she fucks. - The juice has to be worth the squeeze, right? Like literally, is she, or there's another only fans girl that I don't know, I don't know only fans, but there's one that made like 50 something. - Is it a, Jenny, dirt from the block? - There's 50, she made like 50 something million. - Doing what? - And I guess she doesn't do like hardcore stuff and you're like, was that, is that worth doing it then? - Let me just, let me tell you this. - Is that porno, $150 million? - Dude, if you do, if you make $50 million doing it for 12 months, everyone should be trying this. Everyone should be trying this. - I like if Adam's, what if Adam's new Netflix show instead of, is it cake, is it porno? And it's just him watching only thing going. - Assessing. - Yeah, I don't know, she's playing violin naked. Wait, there is a dildo in the frame, is it porno? - If a violin thing is a dildo, is it porno? - Is it porno? - She keeps going back and forth and then like, once into the mouth and then back onto the third, you're like playing it. - Her tongue flips out really quickly sometimes. - Yeah, is it porno? - Okay, so Bonnie Blue, her real name is Tia Belinger. - Oh. - That's almost more porno than Tia Belinger. - That seems, but like a porno-y name, Tia Belinger, like a gun, like, loose but hold. - Wow, Adam's, wow, blue lives matter. - When the Winchester, you know, like, I don't know, like I feel like she could get like a little gun tattoo, like right here, like on, like, it's holstered. - Tina Glock. - I saw Glock, I know. - Oh, I saw Glock. That's a great, that's worth a point. - Points. - She had sex with 100 and, oh, 1,057 men in 12 hours. Last year, making her the subject of month's media attention, inspiring similar events by, like, several other, other roles. - Inspiring similar events. - Yeah, other roles, like, they're like, what's a similar event? - 1,058 similar event. Isn't this, isn't this the, like, thing we're like, some mom went and, like, pulled her son out of line? She, like, heard about it and found out her son was there and went, like, yeah, to him out of line and was like, - Reggie. - With, like, a purse, a old lady's thigh. - You gotta get out of that line. - You have to get out of that line. - That's a bitch. - Unless you're number one. - Even number one. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. - That's honorable. - You've landed in America already. - Before she's even finished. - Yeah. - Before she's done with the fouls. - No, you know, you're like Elton John doing live aid, like, you know what, I support her. I think she's cool. - Okay, so she claims to earn up to 750,000 to 800,000, a month. - Oh, month. - With some reports suggesting up to 2 million a month. - Everybody's coming from her only fans. - I mean. - Who is this? - This is Bonnie Bloom? - This is our girl, Bonnie Bloom. - Everybody's coming. - I'm down for her. No, I mean, I would stop. I would do it for a year. 'Cause like, there's two ways to look at it. There's two ways to look at it. - Okay, give us the one and two. - Okay, let's hear. - Do it for a year, 'cause then you're done, and you've gotten the money. - Your body's in shambles. But if you think about it, the videos out there, like those live on forever. - Forever. - So you are this person now. - Yeah. - So you might as well keep doing it and stacking the money. But I would just, I'd do it for a year, and then I would just do like real estate. I would just get into real estate. - Because the whole time they're thinking like, "Well, she might fuck me if I buy this house." - You don't mean like, "Hey, you." - You're gonna love this house. Super spacious backyard. You could fit up to 500 guys. - Yeah, I'm not saying she's there. - I'm not saying she would, but that's what the guy would think if he's buying this house and his body blue, and you're like, "And it's a super expensive house." - You're like, "Well, I'm saying like real estate like mini malls." Like she's buying mini malls. She's doing like, she's stacking paper here. - Oh. - Oh. - Come on. - It's science. - Super spacious mini mall. You could fit up. You could fit up to 1,000 people. You could fit up to almost 1,057 guys, isn't it? - You can fit 2,000 entrusted men with raging hardcocks. Yeah, I know. It's just really bad for your body, - Probably. - Society in general that this is what's happening, but. - It's the absolute worst. And what's the guy version of it? 'Cause it's not the man of fear stuff. That's different. - That's different. - I haven't even seen those guys, I haven't even seen it. - Because they're not making shit. They're just like, have you seen the, there's like influencer houses, but it's for sales bros. And they go around, it's, I don't know why my algorithm is this shit, just 'cause I find it so funny and fascinated. But it's just guys going around that are like, they're all like 19. And they're like, what's up, say your name and say how much you've, the highest you've made in one day in this guy's going like, and I made $1,400. And then like 10 dudes are like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah." My name is Chadwick and I made $9,000. And I'm like, "Oh, oh, oh, oh." And then you turn around and see Bonnie Blues like bitch. I make that shitting on some guy's chest. I make 200 grand, just like that. - That's probably, those are good. Those are great, those numbers are. Yeah. - Those are adding up. - Here's my question. Do you guys think, and I don't? - I don't. - People who are in, they do.
No. Are we in the manosphere? Do you think we are part of the manosphere? Us? Are we part of the manosphere? Good question. Okay. You guys are gonna have what is defined? I don't think so. I think we are just on the we're just on the peripheral. I think we're just on the outside. peripheral. - Peripheral. - Dude, why not say that word, right? Peripheral? - Peripheral? Peripheral? Peripheral? - Peripheral. - Peripheral. - Here's what I'll ask. Can you be self-aware and be in the manuscript? I don't know too much about the manuscript, but can you be self-aware? Like, can you know? - Blake, you're not in it. - Yeah, bro. (laughs) Out of my teeth, that's like, how could I even know? I'm so bad at this. - I'll let you know right now. - You're not in it, but. - Because I think it takes an ignorance. Like, it seems like the manosphere from what I've gathered are dudes who are drinking, like, Guy Poe, poison. - Ah, yeah, I mean, for sure they're all idiots, but like-- - Is it Guy Poe's in? - Yeah. - Yeah, what does that mean? Like, Giz? - Like, come. - And what are you saying? - Well, and we're back in the middle of the industry. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no. - No. - What are you saying? - I'm saying, like, they're drinking some, like, man kool-aid, like, like a superiority. - I think so, Blake. I think so. I think you're onto something. - Okay, well, I think some of them know that they are, like, like Andrew Tate or whatever. That guy, fucking, he knows that-- - This is the Bonnie Blue of men. Andrew, Tate, or whatever his name is. - Actually, you may be right. - Well, he kind of fell off. Who's the guy now? Who is that? - Fell off. He was trafficking people, dude. - I don't know, is he in prison? - That's called falling off in jail. - That's called falling off. - That's called falling off, and I think, when you go to prison, that's called falling off. - That's a hard fall off, bro. - That's a hard fall off. - Dude, it's said, when Jeffrey Dahmer fell off, they found all those bodies under his house, and he fell off, dude. - Dude, he fell off, dude. - The Dahmer was big, he was a big fall off. You still is sick, he's very sick. - He's still sick, but he fell off. - But he fell off. - Very sick. - Demented, even. - Bro, no, the clavicular is the guy. - Oh, yeah, I've been-- - I've just watched that interview with Channel 5. - Yeah, I've been on-- - Oh, yeah. - Look, dude. - Here's what's fascinating to me, and I think that so much of what he says is kind of based in truth that we all know. - I'm not, I'm not-- - He, hang on. - But he, what, no, keep going. - Wow, dude. - Okay, oh, you think he's-- - Alluding to burying himself. - Hang on, I'm saying the things he drops about how better-looking people do better in society. Those are studies that have gone on forever. And so he's just talking about people glowing up. What's wild is that he's for sure just a spectrum kid with like zero humanity. - Yeah. - And you just see the like ones and zeros brain working, and you're like, oh, this is how we get concentration camps. Because this guy works his way up to the top, and he's like, what if we just made them think they were gonna take showers, like they were going into gas chambers? - Oh, my God. - Right, right. Like, he has that mentality where it's just like, well, this is the fastest way to kill people. - Right, you're like sociopaths. - I was at the gym a few weeks ago. - A shower. - Don't go into shower. - I was at the gym. - It's not a real gym. - And I couldn't sleep. And I woke up at like 5 a.m. - Uh-huh. - And I was like, fuck. Maybe I just go and work out before the family gets up. - Very manly. - Full dad maneuver. - Your looks, Max, I ain't got it. - You know who else does that? John Treval. - They go there, by the way. The gym was slammed. - Oh yeah. - It was the busiest I'd ever seen it. And by the way, high school kids were in the gym, working out before they went to school. - Jesus. - And these, like, little broccoli-haired boys, and they were talking about look-maxim. And I interjected. - Looks, Max, yeah. - Looks-maxim. - Yeah. - And I go. - I'm very particular about it. - That's a good idea. - I'm like, what's that? And they told me all about clavicular. And they're like, yeah, he's sort of sick, bro. And I'm like, what's that? And they're like, yeah, no. He, like, fucking has it all figured out. He literally smashes his face with a hammer. And then the bones, they grow back sharper. - I saw that. - So he looks hotter. And it, like, literally works, bro. And I'm like, oh no. - I saw that. - It's hard to look weird. - We're doomed. - By the way, these kids are the dumbest, like, jock, beach kids, imaginable. There's other kids that I've seen at the gym that seem perfectly normal. And have their head on straight. But these kids are fucking stupid. And they are following this guy thinking he's the shit. And they're gonna smash their faces with hammers. - Well, is it also a thing? - Do you guys, yeah, go ahead. - I mean, like everybody's kind of getting dumber. So then I feel like dumb people are following even dumber leaders and we're becoming just a really dumb place. That's just how it all, it all ends. - We, it started with us. - Yeah, we are the top of the Manosphere. We are the sun in which the Manosphere orbits. - No, I don't think, I don't think we're in the Manosphere. I really don't. - We're like barajas fear. - I think we are Manosphere adjacent. - I think something, to go back to like our era, I feel like something like entourage is more Manosphere than we were. And I think we made like an effort to, not even like an effort. I think our just personalities. - Sensibility. - Our sensibilities, our miss, just never lent us to be like, I guess these guys ended up fucking 10 chicks in one night and that's the end of the episode. - Well, it's just pure chauvinism, isn't it? - Even though we could have, and people would have been like the show rocks. - Yeah, they would have said it's awesome. - It's just like a chauvinism rebrand. - We made a point to like never hook up with anyone and our characters really were sort of like, losers, but lovable. - And maybe we got this note and maybe we didn't, I'm not gonna say, but maybe someone told us to stop making it so gay. (laughing) - Maybe we got that, maybe we didn't. - I don't wanna have anybody. - But maybe we got that now. - It's possible that they were like, and by the way, remember people in the streets were telling us that. Remember that guy I think we're in Philly's, like man loved the show, but it's so, he's like quit doing all that gay shit. - Yeah, that last episode was so fucking gay, and we're like, 'cause looks maxing as straight as it gets. That's to me and that's the whole thing is that I'm like, look, gay has many spectrums of what it means. - Of course. - But looks maxing is kinda on the spectra. - I mean, that's very far on the spectrum. - We're old and we're acting like this is new. You're talking about just people trying to look their best. - I'm not gay no more. - But this dude is doing meth and steroids. And he's in high school and he's vlogging it or what the fuck am I, they call streaming it. - And this guy is smashing his face with hammers to look. Dude, I mean, I just like, would-- - But we manscaped. - We shoot our nose. - Ders would pop his collar and shit. - Yeah, you know. - Yeah, we wore two collars. - That's the same. - That's the same you did. - You did, yeah. - Did you chew that gum that is really hard to chew? That makes you're like, jaw, like stronger? - I didn't, but I know what you're talking about. - Yeah, I think that's, I think that's as far as you should go as far as trying to like chisel, chisel your jaw. - But you guys wash your face every fucking day, I don't know. - Hey, Blake, you don't need to chisel your jaw. You have a chrome magnum jaw. - Creasy. - Okay. - If I looks maxed, I would be king man. - Dude, your version of looks maxing is just not drinking for like two weeks. 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It's also like I have a kid, and you know, you just feel we're watching your show when you're-- And you got to raise him right. Yeah. So I haven't watched it. Every night I'm like trying to pitch it to Chloe, I'm like, hey, maybe we watch this. She's like, I don't want to fucking watch this manosphere documentary. Yeah. She will not enjoy it, but if you had a 10 or 12 year old, I think that it would be like beneficial to be like-- Yeah. Just to go, oh, this is what our son could potentially be entering into if he gets surrounded by a bunch of fucking losers. I'm a dude. Because the whole thing is like, it's-- here's the deal. Look, society generally has not that much depth, right? This is what we see with social media. You're saying now. Sure. That it's a very like, shallow society is always it's always been this, but now because of social media and people living on there, there's not that much depth to social media, right? Yes. Like, okay. And so now we're just zeroing in on these people who have no depth and people who have no depth are following these people with no depth and now becomes the majority of people. And then it's like, well, goddamn, society is just fucking like super paper thin now. Well, it's also like-- I mean, these are also people who are in a way like philosophers, but they're not drawing from anybody from the past. I wish-- I maybe I need to watch that whole interview, but like, who do these people emulate? Who are there-- who are there like-- who are their heroes? Who are they like-- What do you mean-- What do you mean-- A clavicular, yeah, but like, clavicular's whole thing is like, he's not emulating people. He's as one's and zero's spectrum, dude, who's going, this is how society works. If you're better looking, you make more money. If you make more money, you can, you have a wider range of mates that you can choose from based on society. So like, he's not saying, I want to be this thing. He's going, this is the science. He's going to hammer out boys and start hitting the tanning salon. Say it! And he's not even-- and by the way, that's what I'm saying is it's like, it's all about looks and money, which we all know are important at the base level. But they are the key to happiness. At the base level, but yeah. They don't fulfill you. But they do fulfill these people. And that's what gets so frustrating is that everybody who has any sort of depth, not even me, people who are like, based their lives on having a little more depth, right? Right. They go, this is so stupid. But everyone without depth goes, oh yeah, what do you fucking sit around philosophy like? They don't care because the bottom line as animals is you got to be able to provide and be hot to find your mate. Well, in that case, just get in line for Bonnie Blue and fucking have a good old time, man. I guess I'm team clavicular. Look, that's what I'm saying, the things he's saying aren't wrong. They're just void of energy. Yeah, look. So he's like, why would I go on a date if I didn't stream it and try and like, yes, analyze on the situation. And it's like, well, don't be a total loser who streams everything. He seems to kind of have a soul. Like, Andrew Tate, I think is actually a bad person. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. How old was he or I guess he's in bars like an imaginative Adam was 19 and he was coming up with a way to tell other kids how to live life. He would involve like hackie sack. Yeah, you have to hackie say, by the way, that's the whole thing is that that's who's rising to the top. Well, don't put me into clavicular camp. By the way, you knew me when I was 18, I was not like that. I know, but if that kid was had social media and he was and you were like, have had followers, like imagine you at 19 and you actually like got fucking went viral and became famous like just being you maybe I didn't do it. You say one thing and people go, yeah, that's it. And you go again, back to the clicks. Am I doing this with a click? I guess, I guess now because you used to want to like, I wanted to be a comedian and an actor for the my goals, but now the goal is just to be famous on the internet for kids. Yes, it's a different goal and make money. It's like to be youtubers or streamers and make money. And for me, it was never about, I mean, the money was like that comes with that fucking rad. Yeah. That comes with being a successful actor or a comedian, but it wasn't like, I have to get the money. That was like another thing that comes with it, which would be sick. Right. The cooler thing would be like people saying, that is the funniest guy ever. Not like that is the richest guy ever. Yeah. You see that guy over there behind 7-Eleven eating out of that old pizza box. He's the funniest guy ever. You might die tonight. Yeah. He's also funny. He's been hitting his face with hammer. He might hit himself in the face of the hammer. Yeah. But he's got great advice for the use of America. I tried to.
give him $20 you said keep it. And then he did this and he called it as comedy routine. Oh, see. No, but of course. Can you see? There it is. And what I don't know. I know there's Oh apostrophe ER at some point. It's over. I know, but I just I don't even know what that means. It's over. What it's over or or means over. It's over. Yeah. I think what part Okay, let's break it down. I like to pivot from manosphere to breaking down the national anthem. By the way, everyone in the manosphere is like, you know, the fucking star spangled banner or whatnot. They don't care. They don't fucking know. They don't care. They don't say we grew up saying the pledge of allegiance every morning in my class. All right. You got to start low. Sure. Okay, now. And whose house. Hey. We don't know the word. He's reeling. You don't have. So proud. We have the twilight's last gleaming. Who's brought stripes and see. No, you don't go. Hi there. You don't go. Hi there, right? Broad stripes and bright stars. We're talking about the flag. Sepple line or the ramparts. We're so gallantly streaming. So what is or no one knows where was that again? This is Francis Scott key. This is the old school and is a rampart of dick. Francis Scott key was in the manosphere. Who? Or the ramparts we watched. The person who wrote the national anthem. Was it Francis Scott key? Yeah. Scott key. That's right. I knew that. That's right. Dursy. You didn't know that. You were so dumb. I don't know anything about this. Wait. What was the or can you read the sentence with the or or or ramparts? He's talking about ramparts, dude. Tell me about your ramparts or the ramparts. I think I clicked out of it, dude. Box seemed like it wasn't going anywhere. Here it is. Over the oh apostrophe ER, the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming. Question mark. So question mark. There ain't no question marks in the national anthem. That to be saying or or the ramparts, the the explosions we watched, were they gallantly streaming? I don't know. And the rockets were glare, the bombs bursting in in air gave mid air that our flag was still there. So the flag was there. And that's dope. The explosions were happening. So so they're saying that there was like war going on and like the light of the explosion explosion lit the flag. And they were like, it's still there. And they're like, yo, it's still there. It gave proof. It gave proof. Has anyone seen the flag? Could you light an explosion? There it is that our flag was still there. Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave? That's the hardest line over the land of the free and the home of the brave. It is a banger. It is a banger. But if we don't know what or man it falls apart for me. She's old. It's an old or is over as a matter. I know. But there's a lot of old things that I want to know what they meant. No, you don't want to know shit about you. Was it when do you want to know anything about history, Anders? Like Bonnie Blue that happened months ago. I still want to know about it. That's our that's our that's our history. Yeah. She was over there. She was over there for sure. I was over there in line. She's our rosy the river. I was over there in line for Bonnie Blue the other day. So Isaac is saying, "Ower is a poetic literary or old fashioned contraction of the word over." That's what I said. So it's just like old school guys. So this was like kind of like Blake back to you. This is kind of fizz. This was like this is slang. Yes. I believe that the Bay Area did burst our nation or is some fucking fizz in the national anthem. I don't think people know that because everyone's asking for a new one. They're like, this one's old and played out. Let's get a new one. Yeah. The thong song. I don't think they realize that the ore hit so hard. It does hit hard. I can't wait for for the aliens to come down and they just think he 40 is our leader. That's he is. He's the ambassador of the Bay. Take me to your dealer. Admittedly what I was pretty stoked when I ran into him, both at the Super Bowl and at the slam dunk contest. It was pretty cool. I've never spent quality time with the 40 and that is one thing that I'm waiting. He seemed perfectly nice. He is. He's a very nice person. I've got a really broad end. You know who was really nice? Who I sat right next to? Two chains. Oh yeah, two chains. He's funny too. He's got a great time. Not to give him a hard time. He had way more than two chains on. Okay. I actually no chains. He had no chains. No chains. That's ridiculous. He had him maybe talked. He definitely had. He talked, but he wasn't flossing him. That's crazy. It's surprising because Chris Tucker was out there fucking blingin. Good, good, good. Where in the loudest jacket you could possibly wear. So so jealous. Yeah. So I love Chris Tucker. Hey guys, this segment of Take Back's Apologies and Epics Lamps are brought to you by Simple Mills. Is it me? Or do we have absolutely no take backs or apologies for this episode? Yeah, I was thinking we kind of nailed this for nothing to take back. I think we planned perfectly by eating the perfect snack beforehand. Plus making us perfectly content this entire episode. You're right. And Simple Mills are favorite epic snack. Help make that possible. I love me some almond flour crack. I love me some problems. I think we have found the ultimate snack to keep us happy throughout the entire podcast recording. And that's Simple Mills. Find Simple Mills at your grocery store now. Oh, man. God damn. Let's see any take backs for granted. Vicular and how he's kind of speaking truth to power. I don't know. By the way, by the way, I want the cops to know that I stand with you. What? I like cops. I'm not saying I dislike cops. I'm just saying, when did it get cool to suddenly love cops? Right. Like why now it's like you have to fucking proclaim your love of cops all the time when I'm like, yeah, I like cops. Just fine. Adam, the way you say this makes me think that there were two years of America that happened that you were like, I ain't watching. Maybe it was when you were doing bumper in Berlin. I think I think it was when you were doing bumper in Berlin that people were like on the streets going, we don't need police. And then people who had police in their family or whatever were like, actually, we provide a service. And so those people, they put the sticker on the car and it's just still on the car. Yeah, I might have been in Germany. I might have been in Germany. The real shit is when you see people driving a truck with like the broomstick flag going off the back. That should be us. Which by the way, I see down here. I see that. And then I also see that the signs in the yard still. And I'm like, or the rocket. And then they're like, and I also support the fire department. You're like, no shit. Right. The fuck doesn't support the fire department. I also support the people who make sandwiches that subway, bro. Yeah. I could say which artists. I thought you were going to say the, what do they call the poison bread? What do they call those things? Cheese zombies. Please don't shit on my culture. I just remember there was a name that was deadly. There's, and you can have a take back right now. It's not poison bread. It's cheese zombies. I'm sorry. Thank you. I apologize. I think that Rob's zombies is fucking diabolically corny. Yeah, that's okay. Okay. I didn't say that unless I'm saying it unless Rob is involved. Rob Zombie himself signs off. Okay. Now I got the same. I'll take the same umbridge with yeasty boys in Los Angeles. Oh, yeah. I hear you guys make wonderful sandwiches and bagels. But I find it absolutely diabolically corny that you named your shit yeasty boys because I also know the beastie boys are not affiliated. You stole the fucking font from Eric Hayes and then he had to sue you guys. Is that right? The dude who does all the old check your head like fonts. So like, just come up with your own name. Okay. I know you're a big beastie boys fan and I I like the beastie boys. I'm not I'm not a beastie boy's head like like Durses. Uh, I never even thought about the beastie boys when I saw these t-boys. They never even came as my head. I was just like, yeah, he's the hardest boy's like they're yeasty like yeasty sandwich boy. They're boys must be a couple guys that own the sandwich place. It never even dawned on me that it was a beastie boys reference. That's crazy. And it's because I'm part of the manosphere and I'm so go and shout out to the yeasty boys. Um, not interested in your bagels. It's a bagel. And anyone else who goes there and and supports this corny. Here's a quick question. Okay. Out of the three of us, who is the most in the manosphere? I don't mean remember how Blake said to the the people in the emancipation.
Have any self-awareness? - Yeah. - You're living that right now. - Yeah, you might. - I even asking that question. - You're proving the point. Zero take backs on this. - Who of us is the most in the man is the most of us? Who of us? - You're like a self-reclaimed watch collector. - Yeah. - I'm not a certain, no, I don't know. - You said you're a watch guy. - I do like watches. - Okay, is that a man? - Are you a watch guy? - That man is weird? - Watch guy is big time man is weird. - Oh my gosh, I'm a guy who likes watches. - Okay. - I watch it as a watch guy's man is weird. - I feel like I've heard you say I'm a watch guy, a thousand percent. - Watch guys are man is fear. I don't think that that's a thousand percent. - Really? - I don't think so. I think I disagree with science. - That's 'cause you're in the man is fear. You don't know anybody. - You have no clue. - Okay. - Yeah, maybe you're right, maybe you're right. - People who like watches are not in the man is fear. - Oh my gosh. - People who are watch guys watch guys are man is fear. - Mmm. - That's a-- - Well, I like watches. I'm not a watch guy. - I feel like I've heard you say I'm a watch guy. - Okay. - Well, are guys that collect shoes? Are they man is fear? - I would say guys who collect Jordans are in the man is fear. - Whoa. - So it's a collection thing. - If you collect new balances, you are decidedly opting out of the man is fear or anything cool. - Okay. - No. - No, new balance, by the way, is on right now. - Yeah, yeah. - New balance is a move. - And so maybe that's, so maybe you might be in the man is fear. - What was I wearing in 2004 when I met you guys? - Sure, but you might have started. - All I had here was your butt. - Yeah, you did. - Have I always had a nice watch since you've known me? - You've had a watch and you are now a watch guy. - I've always liked watches even since I was a kid. - Adam, we're trying to save you. I've watched you slip into the man's fear. - Come by. - Slowly. - But I think it's you. - Okay, I probably would agree. It's probably the most me. Yeah, well, according to my algorithm, my algorithm is hilarious, dude. I'm like, my God, they're feeding me all this shit. - What's the, do you, I do not interested? If there's something that I'm like, I don't want to see more of this. Like, is there an example of something that I should, do you have had that you're not interested in? - I've never even known that that's an option. - Yeah. - I don't even, yeah, you just touch it and then it pops up and it's like on Instagram. - Yeah, you just touch the thing. - Yeah, you can kind of, you can kind of get rid of stuff. You don't want to see. - By the way. - Remove, remove, remove, the cheese zombies coming up. - It removed Instagram from your phone. - My phone. I have to like dig into my phone to like pull it up so that I can like post, oh, the new heights, the new heights guys. - Oh, yeah. - Very manly that's us. - That was, that was great, that was it. And the new heights guys are the Kelsey brothers, the people that don't know. - Yes, that is Travis and Jason Kelsey. And they were football players. - Yes, fun guys. - R, one R, one R, one R. - One R, yes. - The other one is aren't. - Travis is back. - But like, I have it on my phone somewhere to like repost that and to post our podcast up, but I'm kind of done looking. - That's good, dude. - Yeah. - I think that's good for the brain. - What am I looking at? - I also think you're old, you're like old. - Yeah. - I think we're all getting old to where like, it doesn't even, I mean, Blake has to look who we can, Blake is on the internet. - I've been on the whole time. - 23 hours a day. - I'm, you guys are potted, but I'm over here. - I know, I know. - I know. - But I feel like Ders and I are getting old and just starting to go like, whoo, it doesn't matter. - Well, 'cause also like a month, not a month, a year ago I muted almost everybody I follow. - That's a great call. - Just about everybody. - Oh, that's a great call. - Because I don't want to know what's going on your life. I'll call you or text you and be like, what's up? - Well, also, you know, if I just see it on the feed, I feel like I'm less likely to reach out and wonder how someone is if I just see the feed. - But I'd like running into someone and then being like, oh, dude, that fucking vacation you went on looks sick and then talking about it. - And Adam, that's what they want. That's what they want. So mission accomplished. - You guys are missing out on the best day of Instagram. It's April Fools. There's so much funny stuff happening on the internet today. - Okay, but this podcast is an airing on April Fools. You fucking idiot. - I know, but today is April Fools today. - You fucking idiot. - And I would, and I would like to say. - You know, people are gonna realize that we aren't even friends. - We would like to say happy birthday, mom. - Happy birthday, mom. - Ah, it's your mom's birthday? - Yes, and that's why I'm here. - Ah, happy birthday. - That's why I'm here. - And that's another episode. - So, this is April Fools. - I'm not in the man of the sphere, dude. I'm not dude. I'm not in the man of the sphere. - Hey, I think we all are. - Wait, why did you say that on the pub then? - I'm saving. - We're still on. We're still on. We got you, Blake. - I got you, man. We got you, bitch. - I think we all are. - No, I don't know what the man of the sphere is. I gotta look into it. I've been, come on. - Save it. - I've been avoiding it. - Save it. - We're going right back. - We're back. - Blake says he doesn't know what the man of the sphere is. - I know it's going to be really funny, and I'm going to really like it, so I'm just waiting. - You won't. - Hi, this is Kylie Breakman, Angel Jaretana. - Jeremy Colhane, Patrick McDonnell. - And we're the hosts of the artists on artists on artists on artists podcast. - The improvised character comedy podcast where each week a new panel of artists discuss their craft. - Join us for a panel of Eurovision participants. - He winks on Halloween. - It's right up next to the microphone. - I hear you get the elbows here, the eyelashes hit each other. - You never seen Italy so quiet as when the Pope gets up to wink on Halloween. - Listen to artists on artists on artists on artists every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. - So, like, buy Asia-Ratherne or so, at least 70% have a phone. - I'm Dr. Joy, and this is Therapy for Black Girls. 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The podcast features a diverse lineup of shows addressing mental health, self-care, wellness, and social issues, including therapy for Black girls, the psychology of your 20s, and women's health.
A recurring theme explores the intersection of cultural identity, parenting, and adolescent development, particularly through the lens of group dynamics and screen time.
The hosts discuss controversial topics such as the manosphere, masculinity, and societal trends like "looks-maxing," while questioning whether they are part of or adjacent to these movements.
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The podcast anthology features a variety of themed episodes centered on personal growth, mental health, and societal trends. Shows like *Therapy for Black Girls* explore the emotional and psychological challenges of middle school and adolescence, emphasizing healthy boundaries and self-awareness. *The Psychology of Your 20s* focuses on identity, confidence, and relationships during early adulthood.
Other segments address women’s health, financial wellness, and self-care, promoting mindful habits and emotional resilience. A recurring thread examines cultural and social dynamics, including the rise of the manosphere and its influence on masculinity, with hosts reflecting on whether their own content aligns with or distances itself from such ideologies. One episode humorously critiques the obsession with physical appearance and extreme self-improvement, such as "looks-maxing," while questioning the deeper cultural implications.
The discussion also touches on societal trends like the commodification of intimacy and the impact of social media on identity and behavior. Through a blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and expert insights, the podcast offers a reflective and accessible look at modern life challenges, encouraging listeners to examine their own behaviors and beliefs. All episodes are hosted on the I Heart Radio platform, providing a curated space for meaningful, relatable conversations.
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The podcast explores the emotional and psychological experiences of Black girls and young women, focusing on issues like group dynamics, friendships, bullying, identity, and belonging in middle school and beyond.
It unpacks the psychological experiences shaping young adulthood, including relationships, friendships, anxiety, confidence, attachment, and the importance of setting boundaries to build self-awareness.
It provides information on midlife women's health, including menopause, and features insights from top researchers and clinicians to help women understand and navigate key health issues.
It serves as a recurring theme representing emotional connection, comfort, and shared vulnerability, often used to highlight personal experiences of loss, family, and fatherhood.
It refers to a school-era food item—a bun filled with American cheese and a jalapeño—originally popularized in the school of 'Conquered California,' now associated with nostalgia and playful food culture.
Yes, it is free and available to anyone, offering conversations with therapists about common life challenges like anxiety, family dynamics, and relationships, making mental health support accessible.
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