E33: Why your Divine Masculine cannot lead you into Twin Flame Union before you embody Union frequency

Hello and welcome to another episode of the Twin Flame Academy Transmissions for the Divine Feminine Podcast. And today, in this episode, we will be diving into the topic of why you Divine masculine cannot possibly lead you into Twin Flame Union before you embody Union frequency. And this podcast episode won't be another, I'm not doing that right, I have to do more or something like that. We will actually rephrase that in this podcast episode and I cannot wait to delve into details when you're here. So there is something that I see happening with so many Divine Feminines on the Twin Flame journey. You know, what we're talking about here can be like incredibly subtle, like really like sneaking in almost, yeah, because you may no longer actually be chasing your Divine masculine, right? I mean, you've done all this in a work. I know that when they're divine, you know, since divine Feminines on my path, then they they've done like a lot of inner work already, yeah. You may not be texting him, for example, or checking his social media or trying to make something happen, right? At least you're doing your best, you know, and you're like aware of it and you may have done years of healing in a work of ceremonies, you know, whatever. And you also, you know, genuinely maybe living your life, right? You're like, okay, you know, I do mind stuff, I'm focusing on myself, on self love and living your life. And yet, you know, somewhere underneath all of that that we just discussed, a part of you still can be waiting. And this is such a sneaky energy sometimes, not sneaky like that, but actually it's very subtle, yeah? And it's important for us as energetically, there's, you know, we are the masters, the are here to become the masters of the of the energies of the twelfth and endemic, right? As the energetic leaders, being the divine feminine. So if there's a part, you know, that might be still waiting, you know, why living your life or doing your best, you know, to enjoy, you know, without your divine masculine, you might still, a part of you might still wait, you know, for him to step forward or, you know, to choose you or waiting for physical reality to finally show you, okay, you know, now I can relax. Right? Or now I can trust, I see movement, I see, you know, my divine from masculine changing, I see, you know, steps he's taking, right? So that, that is what, what a lot of divine feminists are waiting for or similar, right? But it's like, okay, now I can relax, now I can trust, and now I can fully open and receive right now, meaning that, you know, we are kind of placing that energy outside of ourselves, which is coming from separation. And we are thinking like, okay, if I get there, if something else happens, if my divine masculine gives me, let's say, proof of all this inner work, then, you know, I'm able to relax, then I'm able to do what I've really, then, you know, my life in my heart desire way is starting. And this is where we need to talk about energetic leadership, because your divine masculine cannot possibly lead you into twin flame union while you're waiting for him to show you, you know, that union is safe to embody, okay? Our repeat that because it's a long sentence, but your divine masculine cannot lead you into twin flame union, they are the physical, you know, leaders of the physical realm, right? The divine masculine, but they cannot hear the divine masculine cannot lead you into twin flame union in the physical while you're waiting for him to show you, you know, that union is safe to embody. And, you know, that would reverse the energetic leadership of the connection actually, right? So when we are waiting, and we are waiting for them to, like, lead us into union and then we can feel, right? Then the energy changes, then would reverse the dynamic. It's not going to happen. I can tell you, because we have, like, very defined roles, we as soul, we're uncounted into different bodies. We have two different roles because we are experiencing ourselves as soul as one soul and two bodies in duality here, yeah? Therefore, we need different roles. Therefore, there is one, the divine family is going more sort of the journey, like, in a conscious way, the divine masculine in a subconscious way, right? There's a lot of, like, duality in the experience, not in your soul, yeah? That would be very clear. Your soul is, like, union, frequency, that's it, right? But in the experience in our human bodies and with the mind, we are navigating through duality, right, which is the ground for on this earth, for experiencing this earth in our bodies and in our mind. So again, that was what would reverse the energetic leadership of the dynamic. And as a divine family, you are not waiting for him to become, you know, the man who finally makes it safe for you to open, receive soften, you know, embody trust and fully live, okay? That is not the purpose. And when you are, like, recognized that you do that in a big way or in, you know, in more subtle ways, don't blame yourself, okay, just realize it and that is really, like, such an important information for you to be able to, you know, change it, right? To energetically lead your dynamic in a different way, okay? Because what needs to happen is like that you embody that frequency for us. There is no twin flame union without you embodying union frequency. There's not. Yeah? It cannot be because you're the energetic leader. And the twin flame union is merely a, a reflection of your inner state, meaning your inner state being, you know, union frequency, right, or not, or it's a separation frequencies. And then your divine masculine is reflecting something back to you, which, you know, is congruent with your inner state, like with a time delay, okay? So it's not like exactly the same second, don't get me wrong. But he cannot reflect something back to you, you know, which is not there as a frequency embodied already. So not in your mind or there's a mental concept, not understanding only that really embodied. And, you know, so you embody that frequency first, right? And that does not mean that you make union happen. And that's like the nuances of the twin flame dynamic, right? Which the mind barely understands. And surely people outside of the twin flame journey who are not in the dream journey will never be able to understand, yeah? But you embodying frequency first does not mean that you make union happen, okay? It's completely different things. It doesn't mean that you energetically drag your divine masculine towards you or you're trying your best, like really hard, that you put effort in it, you know, to magnetize your divine masculine towards you, okay? This is like if you, if you would like drag a mirror almost like towards you to make you feel better. You know what I mean? That's not going to happen. It's like you need to embody it first and then the mirror is showing you back something else and what is in your heart, right? That what you are here to experience is embodying first. And it also doesn't mean that you need to become, you know, feminine enough, healed enough or perfect enough or, you know, fixed enough or, you know, whatever enough that he finally chooses you, okay? It does not mean that because that is a lot what is the same misleading the divine feminists that's usually, yeah, it's spread all over the internet but also the ego mind or the spiritual ego is guiding the divine masculine feminine to believe that she has to get somewhere, she has to be better, more, less, you know, whatever not enough to, you know, to be chosen in the physical as well. Okay? That's not what it means. And it certainly does not mean that you're responsible for his choices, okay? And I mean, you know, you are responsible for his choices in a sense of frequency, right? So he cannot choose you in the physical when you are not choosing yourself, for example, when you're embodying twin flame union, sorry, union frequency, he cannot reflect that backwards union with the twin flame union. But you're not responsible for his choices in, you know, in his life because our mind wants to understand why he's doing things. Why is he choosing this word party? Why is he whatever, yeah? But we will never be able to understand what he needs in that moment in time, yeah? The divine, you know, soul is guiding him or her, how to divine masculine, not that specific to do what they do because they need it. Everything is blindly guided. Okay. It's not a new tool to understand to make sense of it whatsoever. Okay, because otherwise you're kind of taking the reflection, the current reflection as the truth, right? And you're creating from there. And not creating to try to create, but like that's what what you're like. Let mirror and getting mirrored back. Okay. Okay, this can be a loop like four decades for lifetimes even. So let's get ourselves out of that. Okay. Because energetic leadership is not control. It's embodiment as I said already. And that means that we are using our body not only our head, right? Like awareness is the first step. Perfect. And then, you know, it's embodiment, it's choosing love and set of fear. And this can be like fucking scary here. This can not can be it is. Because we are here to to increase the frequency of the world, we are here to spread unconditional love with starts with ourselves. But we are not used at all to like receive unconditional love, not from our divine maskless, not from ourselves, not from no one. Okay, so this might be not might, but is unfamiliar to the to the body, which means it is there is an anxiety, there is a fear coming up. And don't let yourself guide by that fear is the juice is deliciousness. Okay. It doesn't feel like that at the beginning, but trust me, that's what it will be. That's what's what we'll give you the juices of life, the deliciousness of life. So energetic leadership is not control as I said, it's embodiment. It means that you actually stop using your divine maskless physical behavior in the 3D as a permission to become, you know, the woman, the spiritual, you know, leader, the spiritual supporter, you know, whatever you are here to experience, that your soul is already calling you to be. Yeah. Your divine masculine is not telling you that because you are the energetic leader of the 25 dynamic. So your divine masculine will never be able to know what you know, yeah, they know what they need to know. And it's actually the same thing, right? But not the same same like a copy of it, but that fits together, right? That same. Perfectly, like like to the T to T, okay? So again, your divine, you know, masculine cannot give you that. So it's on you to stop using your divine maskless physical behavior as the permission slip, okay, to become who you are here to become. And when I say become, I don't mean somebody outside of yourself, okay? So become is not the right word here. But for the lack of a different expression, let's say, it's an in what in what journey? Yeah, it's remembering actually, but remembering sounds so vague. So therefore, it's like embodying actually something becoming it's embodying. Your soul is calling you to embody a version of yourself, which is like experiencing all these hard desires that you have. And I think this is where, you know, waiting becomes much more subtle, right? Because maybe your life looks full, yeah? You're working, maybe you have kids, you know, raising children, caring for others, building a business, maybe traveling or seeing friends enough, like a busy social life or doing in a work, whatever. And then, you know, yet underneath all of that, it still can live. Or there still can live like a quite orientation towards like when he comes, once I'm in union, when union happens, when I finally, you know, know for sure. You know, all of that dot, dot, dot, right? And my beautiful dear soul. I get it, okay, I really, really get it. But that is very different from simply, simply desiring your divine masculine. There's nothing wrong with wanting him. Okay, let me be very, very clear about that. It is put by the divine in your heart that you are here to experience physical union with your divine masculine, if that is put in your heart, right? I mean, I don't want to talk, you know, I talk you into that. But if you feel that this is in your heart, not like the ego might kind of think, but your heart desire, you're here to experience it. And, you know, abandoning that because someone on the internet tells you that you have to detox and you have to block and you have to to pretend that you don't like, don't want it anymore, because that would mean that forward that you focus on yourself is coming from separation. So again, there's nothing wrong with wanting him. Yeah. There's nothing wrong with deeply, you know, desiring physical twin flame union, nothing wrong with that. Yeah, it would be like telling the divine actually that what the divine put in your heart is wrong. That's what you what you're basically saying, if we are, if we are demon dead wrong, yeah. You also don't have to convince yourself, you know, you don't want to care. Okay, that's also like a BS spread on the internet that, you know, like I'm so busy with myself and whatever, it's that you at one stage, you know, when you come into neutrality, you don't your your soul hole in yourself that you don't so that you don't care, it's just that you you don't need anything else to fill any gap, right? So it could be that that's, you know, when I say, you know, you don't care anymore when you're coming to physical union, for example, that's what I mean, that doesn't mean that it's not that your heart desires it, but it's just there's no gap to fill anymore. So it might be care, but when you care, don't tell yourself that you don't care, okay, because that's bending a part of yourself, we just like put by the divine in your heart, okay. But you divine masculine was never supposed to become, you know, the gatekeeper of your aliveness, okay, let me be very clear about it, he's not the gatekeeper of your aliveness of you living your fucking best life ever, because you know that you're here to experience that. He is not your gatekeeper. He's part of it, yeah, and part of the journey, of course, but he was never supposed to become the gatekeeper. He was never also supposed to determine, you know, when you get to feel beautiful, or when you get to experience pleasure, or, you know, when you get to receive or create, or, you know, feel the deliciousness of life as well, you know, when you get to fully live, yeah, that's not his job. When you're waiting for that, even when it's subtle, you are kind of placing your energetic leadership on him, right, you feel that the shift, that doesn't mean, yeah, to be very clear, because a lot of divine feminins are like, okay, then I leave my best life, look at me, you know, oh, I have all these things. And from that energy, I mean, it might not have been like from from that obvious energy, but with a subtle energy of like, okay, I'm living my life, you know, I'm focusing on it myself from separation, that means that I don't need him anymore, that means that I don't want him anymore. And also like to get a kind of batch of all or almost that you make it alone, right? The truth kind of getting, you know, kind of living your life alone, and you make it your kind of hard enough, you're like, you know, resilient enough and stuff like that. Nothing about that is wrong, of course, because resiliency is like a big thing, right? That there's the twin dream journey is not for the faint of heart, we know that you're going to do the dream journey and you think, like, oh, that's an easy task, you know, then you're not on a twin journey. But at the same time, you know, you know, your mind has been trained to work the other way around, right? That's why I'm bringing these examples, show me the evidence first, and then I relax, and then I believe, and then I trust, right? This is not trust. When you need the evidence to trust, it's not trust. Let me be very clear, or let him choose me first, or give me at least science that he will choose me, and then I fall chosen, yeah, give me the certainty first, and then I trust, or I take the steps in my soul mission, you know, whatever, whatever it is valid for you. You what is what is what is here? Well, you're here to embody that first. So embodiment doesn't work like that, yeah, what I just mentioned, you don't embody your new frequency, because you divine masculine finally behaves, you know, in a way that allows you to or finally behaves in a way that your mind kind of like can tick over the boxes, what it put up, you know, and things it has to happen, your mind will never be able to understand your new frequency, yeah, it would in hindsight, kind of gets the energy alone, yeah, once you embody that, it will kind of feel safe in, you know, in that happening at one stage, at the beginning, it doesn't, okay? So, yeah, you don't embody your new frequency, because you divine masculine finally behaves, you know, whatever way your mind wants or use, you know, you learned in childhood, how it's supposed to be, how love relationships should look like, right? All these templates that I've just, you know, mentioning need to go actually, yeah, these are not based on unity consciousness, we are here to, you know, to increase the frequency of of the world with unity consciousness, with embodiment of unity and frequency. This is not something that we were taught. Maybe like in little parts, right? But we were not taught that during our life. And when I see a lot, also I just had today in a conversation with my environment, my own divine masculine. When we look back on our 12th century as well, right? I know that we are done, right? Because it's always like, we always ascending. But we talked about how we self-sacrified. So that is also not what I'm saying, right? In a sense of when I say it, he finally behaves the way that allows you to do whatever, relax, for example. This is not meaning that you are here to sacrifice thing, right? It's not about self-sacrifice, it's not. It's not what it means, embodying union frequency. So like tolerating everything, not at all, yeah? But the ground of it is unconditional love for yourself. That's where it starts. And then, you know, how you spread it into the world, right? From a full cup. You embody, you know, it's because it is the truth you are choosing to live from. Like unshakably at one state. And at the beginning, it's shakable, shakable. It's shaky, I mean, yeah? So at the beginning, trust me. I mean, you know that there is a lot of anxieties, there might be a lot of fear and stuff like that. It's not that you flip a script, yeah? It's like taking one step, you know, fear the fear and do it anyway. As long as it's like your soul truth, right? Because that's how the divine is guiding you. That's what how your soul is guiding you. So, again, no allowance or permission slept from a divine masculine will ever bring you forward here because he is not the energetic leader of the twin family dynamic, of your twin family dynamic. So you choose, you're choosing, you know, soul truth as a base to live from. That is what energetic leadership encompasses, okay? And once you see this in your twin flame dynamic, not like only see, but really like, you know, work with it, right? And embody that, you may start seeing it everywhere. So I'm just talking about seeing because it's like, it's almost being aware, it's like, oh my God, you know, so it will kind of pop up most likely in different ways, yeah? So when I make the money, more money, for example, then I'll enjoy myself, yeah? When I, when my body looks different, then, you know, I wear that or when my body looks different, my divine masculine will be more drawn to me or more attracted or magnetized or whatever. Or when I, when I business grows, for example, then I feel successful, yeah? When everything calms down, then I rest. So you see that in many areas of life, this is the pattern that is coming back, yeah? Waiting for something external to happen so that you can live your soul truth. That's not energetic leadership, yeah? It's waiting for something outside of yourself, including in the physical form of your divine masculine to energetically lead your life, basically, yeah? And suddenly you realize, you know, when you see that, you know, in many areas of your life that I've been waiting, you know, for life to happen before allowing myself to actually fully live it, yeah? And this is such an important statement, let's say to be aware, also understand, yes? But also, you know, embodying that is part of your twin flame union because it's part of you, of your self-expression, it's part of your inner union, yeah? An anchored inner union, you know, is the base for twin flame union to be reflected, you know, based on that, right? So your inner union, your anchored inner union, your inner union frequency, the reflection of that is twin flame union, right? So it's not the reason why we do that, but living life, let's say, so we're waiting for life to happen first before allowing ourselves to fully live it, okay? And what that means is something else, actually, that our mind thinks it means, right? Because our mind thinks like, yeah, but I'm doing all these things, you know, I'm going out of friends and I'm traveling I'm doing whatever, you know, this is going deeper, yeah? This is not only about like external stuff, yeah? It's like loving yourself unconditionally, it's like actually allowing yourself to love the ugly parts of you, the, and not only like work through them and like fix them and like heal them away kind of so that you can, you know, reach whatever, it's like really staying with them. It's like almost being central with them, yeah? Not in a sexual way, but not more in a, in a like embracing and a safe way, okay? And that is how also when you want to be guided by me in that, like depth, right? I have a program called Muse, and Muse is not about becoming more feminine so that you divide masculine, you know, once you more, yeah? It's also not another project of fixing yourself or healing yourself so that you can get somewhere. It's really going to the depth of what I just mentioned. It's like the self-love, but not like, it's like self-devotion and depth and like any depth that you might even doesn't understand because it thinks in duality, right? So it's not another project to fix yourself. It's also, you know, it's about, you know, you as the woman, man, you know, as the divine feminine, they're already underneath all that striving, underneath all that, you know, putting effort in to get somewhere, yeah? You are already in there, yeah? And that's what we are kind of like uncovering, unhiding in Muse, okay? It's the divine feminine, the woman, the man, you know, the divine feminine energy who doesn't postpone her pleasure, like depth of pleasure I'm talking here. And I'm not talking about touching yourself or whatever, if that's, you know, the expression that you want to take it in perfect, yeah? But we're not doing like, you know, touching yourself or whatever or, you know, there's no practices like that in Muse, okay? It's like in the depth of like intimacy in a way that the word doesn't cover the load, okay? So, in Muse, you know, I'm guiding you to really like not postpone your pleasure, your deliciousness, your expression, your desire, right? Your heart desires, but also your desire like in the now, right? So you have your heart desires, the in and knowing, your creativity for your life, okay? So we are embodying you, who are you, who you came here to be, you know, in the moment, right now, without your divine masculine, you know, proving it to you first, without, you know, someone else, something else to happen so that you feel, you know, more magnetized or more sexy, I don't know what, yeah? So it's not again, it's not that sexy superficial thing. I'm talking about really like being so fucking intimate with yourself that you're like the muse, yeah? The muse in a sense like that would be reflected by your divine masculine, yeah? And you're embody that, but also that's what you're here to be, okay? You know, the woman also that can deeply desire her divine masculine, doesn't fucking abandon herself in that desire, yeah? Doesn't listen to whatever BS is on the internet. While, you know, without actually making his movement, you know, the condition for her own, okay? 'Cause you are the muse, you are his lighthouse, you are, you know, you are home, yeah? You are the energetic, when you, you know, embody that, that's home in energy, right? It's the wholeness energy that is his guiding compass, right? You have the divine like this inner knowing soul truth consciously, and he, his inner compass is you in your frequency, okay? So the woman who doesn't, you know, chase what is meant for because she's a longer chasing life itself, so not to her divine masculine because you then, you know, also embody that your own one, but also not chasing life, the life that you design, in a sense like, with your divine masculine, maybe living with your divine masculine, you're not chasing that, but you're embodying that, yeah? You're not abandoning it, but you're like, being it actually, yeah? Where your divine masculine is like the mirror still, then, yeah? Meaning that he will reflect back what you embody. And, you know, so perhaps, you know, the question actually isn't like, what else do I need, you know, to get my divine masculine to move or to, to me or to I don't know what but where am I still waiting for my divine masculine to give me the permission slip to become you know and or embody in this case as I said the woman the divine feminine your soul already knows you to be so not actually not become outside of yourself but your soul is unapologetically unshakably knowing who the fuck you are and in use we are you know I'm guiding you to embody that like in death okay because you know you divine masculine cannot lead you somewhere you are not energetically waiting for him to go first yeah and that doesn't make him wrong okay that doesn't make him weak because the mind might come in say like yeah but he's the man you know he should do he doesn't make him wrong and it doesn't make you wrong leader yeah it's simply basically restores the energetic leadership right your dynamic of your dynamic of way belongs it belongs with you and you are the muse and I'm not saying muse with like you know side checker point of view but really the muse right muses in in like who they truly be are like unapologetically themselves and date and function for you know the biggest artist as you know goddesses right and in your case when your heart desires you know to be a physical unit you know you're not supposed to be the side check you are here to be the muse and you know if that's living together it's living together okay but the muse energy is like it's not like oh what is my artist doing what is my you know whoever doing it's like being unapologetically who you really are yeah so if this conversation is in any way you know landing deeply and you feel muse is your next step I would absolutely love love love to welcome you inside muse begins the 8th of September and you'll find all the details you know through the link of the in the show notes of this podcast episode and if you're listening to this podcast later you know what is the intention now is to have it also you know as a self-paced course afterwards right but anyway you know the the link to muse is in the show notes unless it's not available anymore at one stage that could be and until next time please you know what I want you to take with you is like you are allowed to remember that you're allowed to desire your divine masculine with your whole entire like every cell of your body and your whole heart and you're allowed to desire physical union yeah like living together like trembling I don't know what what it is for you but you don't have to wait for either before giving yourself permission to fully live in that depth in this muse beautiful yeah I don't have words for it honestly it's it's home it's home it's homelessness yeah and that's what your divine masculine will reflect back to you your life is already here and the divine feminine is like one of the characteristics and one of the codes right is presence so presence in the now and not like oh my god here what's happening there and how would will it turn out that's not the magic of the divine feminine okay life is already here and so are you yeah so I see you in the next episodes love you and bye for now