E20 The real reason twin flame separation continues (and why nothing changes until this does)

I'm to another episode of the Twin Flame Academy Transmissions for the Divine Feminine Podcast. Today, we will be talking about the real reason that Twin Flame separation continues. You're doing all the inner work, you're doing everything mirroring, mirror exercise, I don't know what. So, the real reason why separation continues and why nothing changes until you do what I explain in this podcast episode. So, this will be very, very potent when you understand that. So, it's completely changes, basically, the way that you experience the Twin Flame journey once you truly, truly understand what this transmission is about. And that's from the bottom of my heart wish for you. So, what I'm talking about here is actually, you know, the separation, Twin Flame separation, the reason for that, it continues not because your Divine masculine is not choosing you. Okay. That is how the Twin Flame content on the internet portrays it, right? So, that I hear a lot from my followers is that they are asked, clients that they are asked to wait, to block, to detox, to, you know, do something with the view on, you know, on their physical, the physical form of their Divine masculine so that they choose them. So, it is waiting, it's like kind of like, you know, this waiting energy, which will bring you nowhere, I can tell you that, you will stay in waiting, I mean, this look can go on forever, or do something, right? That's what a lot of people are telling. And I can't, I don't even get it into my mind how someone, you know, who's really, someone in union would never tell you that, okay? That you have to do something, to reach something, yeah? To block something, somebody, so that you, whatever, yeah, this is like coming from such a separation, consciousness view, you know, that it will keep you in the loop. Anyway, so, the reason separation continues again is not, not, not, not because your Divine masculine is not choosing you, okay? I will explain what that means, so bear with me, because you might be now like, yeah, but he's not choosing me, he's so with a comic, or, you know, he's overworking all the time, or he's saying that he's not worth it, whatever, you know, the Divine masculine might tell you, and your mind might perceive that he's not choosing you, yeah? The twin-famous journey is nuanced, and we have to, you know, be masters of disnuinced energy as divine feminine. That's what it is, okay? Because we are alchemizing that energy, yeah? Or not? But when you're not alchemizing it from a place of being, by the way, so not like, do do something to get somewhere, but we are the energetically, the self-detwenced flame dynamic meaning that we are the flowy, alchemizing, nuanced, beautiful, energetically, this, okay? So you see how that lights me up, because it's so flowy and juicy once you get a hang of it. So, and you know, you stop trying, you stop, you know, drop the fire, you start, you know, you stop to make things happen, to control it, and to, you know, I mean, this frantic energy, you know, when I say that, I'm like, you know, I barely can catch my breath. And I know how that feels because I did all of that myself, okay? So no judgment here, don't shame yourself, don't blame yourself, you have to be gentle with yourself. You never had a role model showing you that, yeah? We are birthing the new earth together, yeah, by embodying unconditional love for ourselves, you know, and this is not like something that you, you know, you read in a rule book, yeah? At least not the original title, yeah? So in my program, some kind of, it's not like a rule book, obviously, but, you know, I'm guiding my clients through that, of course, like in chosen, for example. So talking about chosen, right? It's not, so this operation is not happening because your divine mask is not choosing you. I say it again because it's so important and it's so ingrained in the minds of divine feminists, usually that it needs repetition. But why then? Why is it then, you know, it is because separation is still being energetically chosen, right? You're the energetically of the twin pandemic within you. So you're not doing that consciously and saying like, okay, let me not choose myself, okay? These are patterns, let's say, that's, he practiced for a long time, usually, that are not serving us anymore, yeah? Our soul, which incarnated into different bodies in you and your divine masculine at the same time, yeah, experiencing itself on this earth went through a lot of low-density frequencies, yeah? So kind of viewing and experiencing the world through, you know, the mask of the mind of, you know, conditioning of, yeah, limitations, let's say, because that's part of our experience. And now you're called to, or your soul is ready, let's say, to experience itself in higher frequencies. That's what it is, yeah? It's a conscious net shift, which is then, you know, when you embody it, it's, you know, you're embodying union frequency, yeah? It's unity of consciousness and in embodied way, it's union frequency. So again, I said again, it's not your divine masculine, not choosing you. It's because separation is still being, yeah, energetically chosen within you. And when I say being, you know, it's not that it's not your fault, it's not, you know, those shame yourself in the, in the sense that you're doing that consciously, but it's also not outside of us, yeah? It's also not something that we need to, to be like, yeah, it is not being chosen within me. I cannot do anything about it. That is not, let me be very clear, that is not what I mean with that. And I will explain in further detail, of course. So now before your mind, panics, yeah, yeah, hearing that again, this is not to blame, yeah? It's liberation, actually. Um, again, your, what I said already is that your soul, which is experiencing itself, you know, has been experiencing itself in lower density frequencies and like suffering and survival and, you know, being, let's say, experiencing itself in not frequencies that is not who you truly are, yeah? I mean, but it like that, which is not bad. It's just an experience, right? And on the spectrum, let's say, of human experiences, um, is now, let's say, you know, ready to, to break free from that, to, to really like liberate itself, yeah? And, and body, who you truly are, you know, remembering who you truly are. And this is what it is about, okay? Remembering first who you, who the fuck you truly are and then, um, you know, also embodied that frequency. So the moment you understand, you know, what separation actually is energetically, yeah? You also understand how union frequency is embodied. And that's what we're talking about. And honestly, like most twin flame teachings, even sometimes it's not even about the twin flame dynamic, right? It's just that twin flames is used in all kind of different relationships. I mean, people are asking how to find their twin flame and stuff like that, you know, because they think that twin flame is like a higher version of all kind of different relationship, you know, if they only knew, you know, what kind of journey it is, they would think again. But, um, I'm joking. I mean, not joking, but because it is like hardest fuck, yeah, but, um, it is also the most soul-freeing experience when we, um, stop resisting, let's say, when it's, it can also be enjoyable. And I know when you're, you know, just out of the dark of the soul, uh, dark, dark, light of the soul and you're like, don't even know what your name is. It seems impossible, yeah? What I say now, but trust me, okay? In a union is like the, yeah, another frequency, let's say that you are here to experience which is like inner peace, it's soft, it's sensual, it's, it's intimate in not even, you know, in all kind of different ways. Yeah, I'm not even talking about one, one, one certain area. So, and, you know, most of twin flame teachings, right? You don't even know what it is to blame involved. Or it's, it's maybe a soul-made couple, uh, you know, saying, uh, talking thanks about to inflames anyway. What they are missing for a lot is from what I hear is exactly that. Most teachings still focus on the physical aspect of the divine masculine. So it's also good for the algorithm. I keep saying that because I actually asked the divine myself why are people doing that? This was from Johnny, I was a gut pissed. I was like to the divine. I mean, I didn't get pissed by the divine. But I got just pissed on the energies that are brought up, pretending to help twin flames. And they are not. They are not only not a little bit. They are just not in a complete different direction. And I mean that because the direction is outside of yourself. And when I say that focusing on the physical form of your divine masculine, you're like, yeah, but you always say that I'm one with my divine masculine. Yes, you are. But what you're doing is you're focusing on kind of like the distorted. Yeah, I don't like that word actually, but just cannot come up with another one. Distorted reflection of your former inner state and taking that as kind of ultimate truth. Or you're kind of looking at the mirror, who's like reflecting only and waiting for the mirror to move. And to save. And to awaken. You're a divine masculine. It's reflecting you. There's no kind of like own, I mean, you're one consciousness, you're one soul, you're one energetic system. You one, there's no way that your true twin flame, although they don't show it often. And they experience things differently. So don't expect the same level of understanding about the film journey. As you have, that's not their task. It would even distract them, yeah, a lot of times. But focusing on the physical form of your divine masculine is keeping you in separation. That may be very clear about that. And I say that with all my love, but I need to be clear because I, that's what I got pissed about, that people are creating content because the mind, yeah, thinks it understands the journey it can't because it's based on duality, yeah, your mind only can understand duality. And union frequency is a frequency of unity, of one of singularity. The mind cannot understand that. There's not even human words, proper human words to describe it. Yeah, therefore you cannot explain properly to other people what you have with your twin flame because they cannot understand if they are not on the journey themselves. So know that every time that you read something and that you engage in something that is focusing on the physical form, on the distorted version, especially of the divine of your divine masculine that you are keeping yourself in separation loops. Yeah, again, and again, and again, and again. And you know, divine feminines are like, or the mind of the divine feminine is like driving them nuts to clarify, to get rid of the doubt, right, which is bringing up, the mind brings bringing up doubts itself because it doesn't understand the journey confusion itself because it doesn't understand the journey. And it drives, you know, the, the divine feminine to getting hold of what is happening here, yeah. And so the divine feminine is looking like, what is he doing, my divine masculine, what is he feeling, you know, and then attaching stories to it, what that will mean. You know, they are like, and I did it all myself again. So, you know, I'm talking here from above, it was them and I think you feel that through my voice. I'm like, I know how that feels. It's like it's, you're thinking, you're delusional, you're out of your mind, you're kind of why, what is even the sense of all of that, you know, who am I, I know, yeah. And therefore I'm, I'm, I'm being as clear as I can and as simple as I can about that, yeah. So, you know, we're, you know, the divine feminine is looking like, is my divine masculine awakening because I am, I'm doing this all just in a work. Why am I not seeing anything, you know, on his side, you know, they see, they look whether he's coming back or not, are there signs maybe on social media that he's away from the comic now, that would mean that we have a chance, you know, that's all your mind stories, it drives you nuts, yeah, that's your mind trying to understand something that it can't or whether he's choosing you, right or not. But the thing is that the moment your attention becomes fully externally focused and when you focus on the distorted version of your divine masculine, that's externally focused, you unknowingly leave your center, okay. And that is exactly what actually keeps the loop, separation loop, repeating and repeating and repeating, okay. So today I actually want to really want to guide you back to the truth what this journey actually is, yeah. So it is a spiritual awakening of soul, the soul, you know, your soul which incarnated twice, right, is awaiting awakening to what, who it truly is, what it truly is, which is unconditional love, love and light, it is union already, okay. And the biggest misunderstanding is believing that separation, yeah, is the physical relationship, status with your divine masculine. And although that is a reflection, yeah, it is not what separation means, yeah. It is a spiritual awakening, as I said, and if you, you know, look at what, you know, this spiritual teachers, I don't mean like the, you know, what you see from whoever on the internet, but like the real spiritual teachers are saying about this, you know, regardless of twin flame journey or not, about separation, separation is not the relationship status, yeah, they are not even talking about twin flames. They are talking, you know, let's leave it here because otherwise it gets complemented. So the biggest misunderstanding I repeat is believing that separation is the physical relationship with or non-relationship, right, because separation is not in a relationship or not in physical union with your divine masculine. And it's not, yeah, and maybe very clear, it is not the physical union again, because your mind might be like, yeah, yeah, but why do I want it, Daniel? It's your heart desire and it's your not to abandon that, okay? That's part of your, you know, experience that you're here to experience. But the physical union is a reflection of your anchored inner union, yeah, when you anchor into inner union, it's a frequency. It's not a, you know, union frequency and, you know, there are several separation frequencies but separation consciousness are two different like radio stations, okay? And your divine masculine is meeting you in your heart, okay? And I don't mean even the physical heart, you know, not like the energetic fields, yeah? You are meeting, let's say, in your heart, yeah, the heart is your connection to the divine. Therefore, you know, I'm also saying like, you know, your heart's truth, your divine, the divine truth in your heart, yeah? And you divine masculine meets you there and mirrors that inner state back to you, yeah, in inner union. And that is what physical union, you know, come and if that's that, yeah? So your divine masculine is then reflecting that inner state back to you, okay? You won't be able to find union outside of yourself. So kind of like bringing that back to what I said, yeah, that when you focus on the physical form when you're with the of your divine masculine, the distorted version, that's, you're kind of trying to find union outside of yourself, right? You'll be like, oh, if I do this, what do I have to do? I have to heal more, you know, all these result driven things coming from your mind. Kind of wanting to keep you in a comfort zone, which is not comfortable anymore, but it wants you to believe that you are not one with your twin flame already, yeah, that you have to do things. So meaning that you are here and you have to do things to get somewhere, which is something You see, I mean, you know, there's a gap, right? Which your mind is portraying. And that is where, let's say, what the misunderstanding is like big, big time. And I know that there's a lot of people. And again, the divine didn't tell me why that is. And I believe that there must be a reason, right? I mean, maybe it's for you to even anchor more into what you really know, you know? Or try it so many times, like, because I get a lot of divine feminists. They're like, yeah, what I'm on this healing journey. And I did everything I did all this in the work. I'm doing all whatever mirror exercises. I'm doing ancestral healing and whatever. And I, I mean, what can I heal more? You know, I think I healed everything. Also, that, you know, healing to get somewhere is coming from separation consciousness. Yeah. So that loop can go on forever. You're soul, you know, is whole already. And embodying that and not judging, let's say, not thinking like, yeah, but there is something, you know, in mind, that's reliant that still needs whatever. That is part of unconditional love. Okay. An unconditional love doesn't mean that everything has to be perfect. And being feeling whole doesn't mean that everything is perfect and that is, that it's static. Yeah. It's not trust me. It's not. It's flowy. It's like sometimes you, you know, when you, when I get, for example, a request from the divine, from an energetic shift. And it's not like, you know, that the divine writes me a letter. It's just, you know, it's done for me. Let me put it like that. It's initiated for me. Then that doesn't feel like, you know, in a piece at first, right? Because things are triggered again. And now it's, you know, on my, on me, like, say, holding and being like the bridge for, for, for, yeah, for a bigger energetic frequency for when it comes to my sole purpose. So not so much about my twin flame anymore, but it's, you know, it's part of your spiritual awakening. So again, you won't be able to find union outside of you to the contrary. Yeah, focusing on finding union outside of you is keeping you in, or you are keeping, you know, your mind is keeping you in separation loops again and again and again. And we are fucking getting out of that. Okay. At least, you know, that's my intention to break you free from that or help you or, you know, give you the energy, you know, whatever you need. Yeah, I'm with all my love. And because also, you know, you and your divine masculine are one consciousness, one soul, you know, one energetic system. You're not connected. So it's not like you hear he there and then you connect. Yeah, that's what your mind is thinking. It's like, I'm here. My divine masculine is with the comic. And now we have to connect. That's coming from separation consciousness. And there is no way to embody union frequency when you're coming from separation consciousness. It's not. It's just two different frequencies. Yeah, like radio stations. You cannot listen to two completely different radio stations at once. You can't. Yeah. I mean, I might have two different radios, but you know what I mean. It's like, if you have one radio, you have to choose. So your divine masculine is never actually separate from you. And then your mind might come in and say like, yeah, but he is, you know, I mean, I haven't seen him for ages for years, for decades, maybe. But again, separation is not a relationship status physically, yeah, with your divine masculine. So what I mean with that is that, you know, he is always meeting you at a frequency that you're embodying. Okay. So when you, for example, look outside of yourself and look, you know, you're focused on the physical form of your distorted physical form of your divine masculine. Then that's why you divine masculine is meeting you. So that is what he will be reflecting you. Yeah, but you are not separate because you want always. Yeah, he's just meeting you or not even meeting because it's not like you meet each other. You like together. So you met already and you wherever you go energetically, he's going with you because you're one. Yeah, and even saying like he's going with you is like, you know, it's, it's only to make you understand, to have your mind understand what I'm saying because he's not going with you. You're both going together. You know, you are, you are going, you know, you see that there's not really human words for it. He's never leaving you. He's, he never doesn't meet you. Okay. But because the mind so frantically tries to understand what is happening, you know, after dark night of the soul, you know, the spiritual awakening and your whole world crumbling, it just freaks out. Right. It throws tantrums. It was it is like, you know, you got to go, you know, you're exhausted already and your mind is like driving you to do something to get out of that pain. And that is something that's, you know, your mind continues from a place of love. Yeah. So don't villainize your mind. It's just that it wants to take control and you know, after the spiritual awakening or with the spiritual awakening activated, it's time, you know, for the soul not to take control but like to drive. You know, and you the soul was driving before as well. Yeah, the bus of your life or the car of your life. It's not that the mind was driving it, but it was the soul always because it's the soul experiencing itself, you know, in different frequencies. And it's just that the soul, which is who is you? Yeah. And who is at the same time you divine masculine did that with, you know, through the lens of the mind through conditioned lens. Yeah. So that that is the difference. Again, your divine masculine is always meeting you at the frequency you are embodying. So not like, oh, yeah, I understand that, you know, and now I expect my divine masculine to meet me there. Yeah. And body man is the key. Okay, because that's the frequency that you're emitting. And that's, you know, the communication with with the divine and the divine is like leading your divine masculine, you know, with using that communication. Yeah. In the divine is not like understanding languages. It's not the communication that we are thinking, you know, coming from a human mind. So I know, you know, the mind really struggles, you know, with this because the mind experiences reality through duality, right. So the mind sees like he's left, yeah, or he's with the comic or he's in another country or he's, you know, in this, I don't know, cultural environment. And I'm here. Yeah. So separate. He goes that right. I texted him and he ghosted me. He told someone else or he rejected me. So it's like separate, separate, separate. That is what it would remind us projecting. But your soul experiences reality energetically, yeah, very important to understand. And from that perspective, actually, the divine masculine, your divine masculine is constantly reflecting your inner state back to you. And there is a time. The gap, let's say, so it's not like, you know, you energetically move and right away, you know, you see something with your divine mask and sometimes it is the case. Sometimes it takes a little bit longer. But that is what is always happening with your true to inflame whether they show it or not. Okay, because your mind might be telling you, okay, let's let's just check it out. You know, but as long as you need the confirmation, your mind needs control and confirmation validation, you divine masculine won't show you that because you again come from separation consciousness. Yeah. Trust believing that you need proof for what you already know. So you divine masculine starts case you to reflect that. Yeah. Back to you. So that's why and more, you know, why the more the divine feminine actually scans the 3D for validation for confirmation for reassurance, you know, of what the divine truth that he knows already is the most appropriate to see experiences. Whether behavior from your divine masculine, but also, you know, other areas of life, maybe your business as well when it comes to money, you know, it's not that you're like, oh, yeah, when my divine masculine, I'm here and then I divide myself with my business, yeah, it might be that you have like different beliefs about. That's a money, for example, then you have about, you know, being deserving of love, yeah, of romantic love, for example, but still it's like it's you it's your frequency, okay, so it's not like that you're separate, yeah. And what I just said because you know the energy of the divine feminine then moves out word of her center she starts looking at his behavior to determine, you know, her worth, for example, or her. Yeah, that she's good enough or that she's, uh, lovable or that she's, you know, you're. worthy of being 100% committed to stuff like that. And for, yeah, what she's actually seeking is like safety, you know. She kind of like has his behavior, which is a distorted reflection of her former inner state and not divine truth. Okay, it's not divine truth. That's what she lets determine her safety, her future, her union. And that while the divine masculine meets the divine feminine in the heart, not outside of herself. The direction must be into your center, not outside of you. And that's why I'm like, and I will do that until, you know, the last moment of a brief probably. A long, long, long time still, yeah. So not planning anything. And, you know, saying and redirecting you back to your soul, because that is my only intention to have you the fuck remember who you are. The divine being that you are and that your union already, you know, that you can have and will have, you know, when you focus your energy into your center, everything, everything, everything, everything that is, you know, that the divine put in your heart as a desire, not a design it, not as a desire from the mind. Like, oh, once I have that, I will feel worthy. I'm not talking about these, but it's in a knowing. So, you know, you're divine masculine, Metsu in your heart, right? In the moment, your emotional authority, yeah, becomes externalized and separation consciousness is activated again and again. I said it already, but this is so kind of like almost ingrained in like what the divine feminine collective is doing because it gets so much. Be as you know guiding the mind and the energy outside of herself that, therefore I said it again. You know, and why it is is because when you look externally, your focus left your heart, right? Your focus left your heart and that's not where union is. Your divine masculine meets you in union in your heart. So, this is why so many divine feminists become exhausted, like devastated on the journey, yeah, because the mind tries to solve union like it would be a problem. Yeah, it's like, okay, let me logically go on that. You know, let me solve it in a logical way. I mean, if you want to inflate journey, you know that there's nothing logical about the 12th and right? Like, like, I mean, I couldn't think of one thing that is logical. So, you understand that your mind is just, you know, trying its best. It's really like putting out all the resources it has, but the mind comes to a limit. That's what it basically is. The mind wants certainty, yeah, it's one's timeline. So how long will it really take? I am like, you know, 45 now, I am 35 now or whatever, you know, I've waited long enough, you know, how long, how much longer do I have to wait? Stuff like that, you know, it's looking for signs outside of yourself as well, right? I mean, the divine is sending your signs like all the time, right? When you're in union, like your life becomes a living synchronicity, yeah, so like angel numbers anymore. Sometimes there's angel numbers as well, but you're like moving and then you get something else and then you're moving, you get something else, right? Moving in flow and from divine femininity, yeah, I'm talking about so not like moving to together results, but like moving in divine flow. But the mind is like looking for signs, you know, and then making that mean something, right? Ooh, I saw like 1111 a lot. Let me like research what that means. Ooh, you know, so you're looking outside of yourself, okay? Strategies, right? Coming from the mind, healing steps necessary to come to reach union, yeah? This is all result oriented coming from the mind and everything coming from the mind, everything is from separating consciousness because that's the area that the mind is able to operate in. Yeah, and understand it wants to know like what is he feeling is he awakening, you know, are we close to union, right? Or what I did so sick of these three signs that you're close to union. I mean, yeah, I'm triggered for you for you. I find it, yeah, it's the two-toned journey is so hard already. I mean, yeah, it's it's like and you want to know like your mind wants to know like, okay, let me see what it is, yeah? Because that there are no three signs that you're close to union. There are notes. There's one sign that you're close to union and that is that you don't need any signs anymore. Yeah, very simple. But yeah, you know, your mind wants to know it. I was close to union and then you're like reading something and say like, oh, yeah, no, yeah, you did that. Yeah, we are here already. So we're close to union and then, you know, maybe a year later, you're like, oh, why aren't we union yet? You know, so your mind is like trying to put stories on it and understand it. What does silence mean is also a big yes, like, oh my god, you know, he's in silence. Now what does that mean? Again, everything that I just mentioned is like to to clarify what's looking externally means and that with doing that, you're, let's say, looping in separation loops. So the mind cannot understand union frequency, as I said, it's no, you know, union frequency is not created through control. Yeah, it's a reflection of the embodied divine truth that you are, yeah, being is the thing. Yeah, it's not doing to get something. It's being. It's a body truth, you know, surrender back. No, it's a body truth. You know, you have to surrender back into. Who you truly are, yeah, and that's what. In embodied that, let's say that's that's where where union happens, the union frequency happens. I mean, yeah. In a sense, like that you are embodying that, right? I mean, all I said is the last sentence might be confusing. So. It's embodied, you know, what I'm just saying is embodied through surrender back into who you truly are. Yeah, that's what I meant to say. There's nothing you have to do to get somewhere. There's nothing. You have to heal to to become that you don't have to become fucking anything you are already. Oh, there's so much passion in me about that you see at I wish for you that you are in union and for the world as well. So therefore, I'm very clear about that from a place of love. And you know, this is why consuming endless twin flame content or you know content from your own minds telling you, you know, similar things can actually keep you know the divine feminine stock and the divine masculine as well because the divine masculine reflects your inner state back to you. So not all content of course, I don't mean that so it's not like they're sharing a one or whatever. It's just that I, I, you know, on divine feminine coming to my world and with so much confusion and like. You know, kind of like directions what to do that's already like, you know general advice like what to do and not to do is like BS already because it is coming from outside in and it has to come from inside out. So and you cannot mess it up or you're to inflame anyway, so you can do whatever you want and everything you know you will get back is feedback that's it. It doesn't mean anything it doesn't mean that you go back in your time or whatever is part of your growth process. So you know, not all content as I said already. I'm not you know following anyone and I'm not I don't know what happens there so I cannot say that it's just that what my divine feminine coming to my world, you know, come with as questions and what they are telling me like what what they were told like to block the divine masculine to, you know, to detox to, you know, to, to. Yeah, all kind of you know weird things coming from separation as general advice right not like, you know from inside out and if that's something that's is loving to you, you know, then blocking you to inflame one thing yeah but as a general advice just you know big BS because it's like someone outside of you is telling you you know what you need for your. Soul evolution. You see how ridiculous that sounds yeah so guiding you to yourself you know so that you know you you anchor into your knowing is one thing but telling you what to do and not to do. While you are in a separation frequency yeah I mean it might give you like temporary relief I said it already before in other episodes it might give you temporary relief because you're kind of. you're fighting from what is happening, right? And you're not sitting whether you're not feeling through it. Okay, so it might be that you're like, "Oh yeah, okay, that feels like, you know, and if that's loving to you, you know, go for it." But it's coming from separation consciousness. And it doesn't matter whether it's blocking your divine masculine or whether it's blocking your thoughts or, you know, villainizing your thoughts and saying that they were toxic. And, you know, you always did your best, yeah? And it was the part of your experience. So the version of you who thought, you know, like my version of myself, when I was working in a corporate job, you know? I was like, this was not my destiny, right? I mean, it was part of my journey. But my true's then and my belief's then, you know? It's part of me experiencing myself, or me so will, being, you know, experiencing myself in this earth, yeah? So when I detox from, when I say that these were toxic, yeah? It didn't do me well. Let's say, with regard to my body and stuff like that, but, you know, villainizing it, separating myself from them, is like separating from parts of my experience, right? And this is separation consciousness because that's like black and white, you know? Back then, I was stupid and now I'm wise or something, you know? While the wisdom, you know, comes from that experience, it's one, yeah? That's unity consciousness, understanding that every single experience that you're going through is, first of all, divinely orchestrated. And second, it's the same thing. It's part of one experience, okay? And, yeah, so again, not all content. You see that I'm just very passionate about it because it's now, you know, the divine actually asked me to really call out the bullshit, so to make it clear. Not like, you know, looking who does what? And I'm not doing that. And I also don't feel, you know, I don't want to raise my energy on that. But taking that, actually, what is happening and what, you know, clients bring on my path, let's say to me, to clarify what it does. And, you know, to make sure that you can see, you know, that I laid out in a way, that you can see what resonates and what doesn't, yeah? And I'm not attached to any of that. So if you say, like, no, but I, you know, that sounds good for me, go for it, right? I don't judge that. I don't have like, oh, yeah, you should follow whatever. There's not my way, right? It's like, I'm clarifying what this energy in a nuanced way actually is. And then you can see what resonates with you, what is, you know, what feels good, what not, you know, that's not, that's the divine, you know, guiding you in that. It's not my task, my task is to speak my truth, right? To my channel truth that I get from the divine and also, you know, kind of like nourishing it with my embodied wisdom. That's what I'm doing. So, you know, that is why consuming endless twin flame content like that, yeah? Can actually keep, you know, divine feminine stock, again, not all content, but, you know, content for sure that feeds obsession with the physical form of the divine, uh, masculine, yeah? That feeds separation consciousness because that's what it actually is. Um, and it doesn't matter how the divine masculine seems to move, whether in your direction or not your direction, you know, because it is coming from, they are separate from your separation consciousness. Because your attention keeps leaving, you know, your own energy, meaning, you know, you are one energetic system with your divine masculine, right? But you are, um, you are leaving your energetic field, which you are leading, you know, just leading for your twin flame dynamic as well. And what I really want to understand, you know, to understand is that you cannot create union while abandoning yourself. And that's what you're actually doing. So, when you go outside of yourself and you're, you know, um, listening to someone what you should or shouldn't do, you know, on your twin flame journey, um, and, and, and, you know, another soul basically is telling you, you know, um, or you are focusing on something that, you know, someone maybe is channeling, um, but, you know, you're looking outside of yourself, you abandon, you know, what you already know, right? So you're taking that as a truth instead of what the divine actually put in your heart as divine truth. And, um, your divine masculine reflects exactly that, yeah? It's not punishing you with it. It's not that he's leaving you, he's abandoning you or, you know, uh, uh, stuff like that. It's just feedback. Temporary feedback, if you decide, you know, to, uh, not continue the separation loop. [laughs] Um, and you know, also when you're, when you keep, you know, if you decide to stay in separation loops, it's also feedback, yeah? So it's not that if you choose this, it's feedback and another way it's not feedback. It's always only feedback. That's it. The shift happens the moment actually that you stop trying to manage the connection, yeah? Because the mind is like seeing it as a connection of two things and start returning to yourself. And I don't mean like choosing yourself in a wound that, you know, masculine way in a sense like, um, or feminine, wounded feminine way. Like, I don't need anyone. I don't need him anymore, you know, get out of my way, you know, you do you boo, you know, stuff like that. That's also coming from separation. That's that kind of way, young. What I mean is like truly returning to your heart, uh, to your truth, you know, to your wholeness and your inner knowing. Um, because choosing yourself is choosing union. And that is something that the mind cannot fully understand, yeah? It's kind of can, can, can, can, can glimpse those of it. But it's not what, what it would sign for because it's like not duality, right? It's the same thing. What do you mean? I, choosing you is like choosing union. But there's someone else, you know, so your mind would be like, "Hey, what?" But this is unity consciousness, okay? Choosing yourself is choosing union. And choosing yourself is automatically, you know, truly choosing him, not a distorted version, but choosing your divine truth, choosing your divine, masculine, in divine truth, as you are one and you are the energetically the of the 12th and dynamic, okay? So the moment you stop abandoning yourself, like with external, you know, whatever, uh, the separation template actually starts, uh, collapsing, starts shifting, starts, you know, reorganizing itself. Um, that's how things go. When you get out of the separation loops, all right? Um, this is not something for your mind, again, to understand. So it can take, is it that'll be very clear about that? Because the mind would be like, sometimes, okay, let me understand that. Then we can, you know, have that information and make it happen, yeah? So your mind kind of takes it, but I'm just saying, my mind, and then say, like, okay, let me understand that. And then we can make union happen, yeah? So then your mind would be taking, you know, over again, again. So this is not something for your mind to understand. So it can make it happen, yeah? It won't be able to do so, as I said already, because your mind doesn't understand union frequency. And if you heard that, I mean, you know, then I said that enough. Uh, sorry, not sorry, but this is something that we need to embody, right? So you can hear it, but I need, I need, I don't need anything, but what I, you know, what you want actually is that it's, it's, you feel it in your body at one stage, yeah? And maybe the first time already, maybe not, like that it's sinking in, okay? And until the time, I will continue saying it, because that's, that's what actually moves the needle. Um, and it is not something for your mind to understand. It's embodiment work, yeah? Your body has become, um, has to become safe for divine love. Yeah? We think like, yeah, we can receive our divine masculine. But, um, subconsciously, you know, we are afraid because we have wounds, for example, around, uh, how the masculine energy was treating us in the past, yeah? Um, so that would be your mind talking again, yeah? It's your human experience. Your soul does not have that. So when you redirect your energy in your heart, yeah, and your body, that truth, you know, it, um, dissipates. It's, it's, you embodying divine truth then. But it has to become safe for divine love, right? Because you are embodying divine truth into your body, yeah? And, um, you know, safe for receiving in abundance as well, right? So sometimes, um, or often what happens and I had a big time on my journey with my divine masculine is like, we are okay with receiving breadcrumbs, right? So we get breadcrumbs, but, um, not more, yeah? And that's, uh, often, yeah, because the divine feminine is, uh, a few subconsciously unsafe to receive, you know, love in abundance, okay? Uh, uh, also safe for surrender, safe for full devotion, right? Uh, safe for union. And most divine feminists don't even realize, you know, how often they reject themselves, uh, first. So, you know, reject, uh, that in yourself also comes through overthinking. Hyper vigilance, for example, obsessing, controlling fear, waiting for external confirmation validation, as I said already. But your divine masculine mirrors where you're energetically meeting yourself always. And when you return to your heart, he meets you there too. Okay, so it's not like that he's only reflecting and amplifying when you're not in your heart, but always. So also when you're in your heart, and that is union frequency. When you anchor into a union, you will experience what I'm just trying to convey. Not through forcing, it's not like something that you can force, you can make happen. That's your mind talking. Not chasing for sure, also performing that you feel like in a piece by staying positive, for example, that's not what inner union is. Okay, also not trying to manifest him, you know, you cannot manifest something that is you. You know, not manifesting yourself. Okay. But embodying the frequency, you know, where love already exists within you. Okay, unconditionally. So not like a manifestant because you're not there yet, but it is you already. And honestly, yeah, this is also why I created my program chosen because I see so many, like almost all divine feminists, I say so much struggling with that, trying to get on that, you know, with the mind and stuff like that, and then the mind trying to make things happen based on, you know, deeper conversations that we have, or you know, listen to my podcast and stuff. And that can, you know, I know that there's a lot of shifts happening. I get like three, three, three messages from you, and please continue, you know, letting me know, you know, whether you feel guided and by my podcast and, you know, free and then and paid content, because that's how I, I don't need it for validation reasons, but I would love to hear it also because I know, you know, what resonates and what I should go deeper or maybe other directions or stuff like that, you know, I can explain things in different ways, right? But the mind is coming to its limits, and you know, why I create chosen is because, you know, so many divine feminists, you know, intellectually understand these concepts, right? When I explain it to you, like, oh my God, that makes sense. And you know, puzzles, you know, maybe get insights and break through this and stuff like that, but the real magic, let's say, the really like moving the needle, doesn't happen. I mean, it happens, but to a certain extent, right? Because a lot of divine feminists and still unconsciously living in separation frequency, emotionally, energetically, and physically. And chosen, and that was also, you know, my attention, it's a channel program. It's just beautiful, what came through and also the feedback that I got is like, I was sobbing, honestly. And still get so touched when I think about it. It's not about learning new, more information. Yes, I explain things in my, you know, practical, as simple as possible way, you know, what it is about divine truth. And having you remember who the fuck you are, like, that you cannot unsee, unhear it anymore, yeah? And direct embodiment of it. And therefore, every single of 25 lessons has a integration practice so that you're, you know, it's not about collapsing, it's about actually collapsing the pattern. So it's not about like more and more, you know, consuming more and more. It's about collapsing the patterns of self-embandment that keep, you know, actually creating the same painful cycles over and over and over again. It's about returning to your truth. So not what, not my truth, yeah? Not what I experienced, but I nourish you also with my embodied wisdom, with my experiences. So you can see, you know, how that pertains to yours. And, you know, when it resonates or not, you know, stuff like that. But it's about returning to your truth. So deeply that union is not longer, you know, something you chase externally, yeah? You embody it. Inside chosen, you know, I guide you to unconditionally loving yourself, because that is what you, what we are awakening to as soldiers, yeah? That we are unconditioned love. So it starts with loving ourselves unconditionally. And body, union, embodied union frequency. And I also support that with an activation and recalibration exercise, which is part of chosen, and, you know, nervous system safety. Tosen includes two EFT tapping meditations, which are helping you, you know, anchor into union, for example, and opening yourself up to be led by, you know, divine masculine energy and, you know, fully returning to who you truly are. Because the thing is that, you know, your soul already knows the way, yeah? It's not that you have to find out that you need me or anyone else to guide you the way kind of, yeah? Your soul already knows, okay? You are not here to earn love. You're not here to fight for love or convince someone, like a divine masculine, you know, to choose you, okay? This is not the frequency. This is not divine feminine energy. You are here to really remember, like deeply, deeply, deeply who the fuck you are. And that is so potent and powerful, this unconditional love that you are, that it kind of like runs through all your veins, okay? And that's what I'm intending to guide you to. And when you do, you know, everything, again, reorganizes itself around that frequency. So you don't have to worry about your reflection and you won't worry about the reflection of your divine masculine, yeah, when you embody that frequency. So, you know, if your soul feels deeply activated by this episode that chosen is a beautiful, beautiful next step for you, yeah? And I placed the link to chosen below in the show notes under this episode. And yeah, beautiful soul. What can I say, you know, thank you so much for being with me to, you know, being open to me guiding you back to yourself. And I know that sometimes, you know, especially the mind is like, you know, we don't wanna go there, no, no, they were fine, you know? I know that it's not like the easiest path, yeah? I know it really. I do know. And I know that it's an understanding what I'm saying. But thank you so much for being with me today. And, you know, being open to receive, you know, divine love through me. And please remember, you know, that the physical form of your divine masculine is not the authority over your inner truth, yeah? Because, you know, unless you are in, in the end, you know, ready, right? So, and I mean, like in a union and your divine masculine coming in as a reflection. So, you are in a compass, only in a compass as your heart, you're in a knowing and you are the energetically the of the twin flame dynamic. You are the way shower, yeah, for your divine masculine. So, not by making things happen or convincing him, you know, that you are having something out of this world. And he to choose you because why doesn't he see it, yeah? In soul truth, you know, he already knows. You don't have to convince him, you know, anyone, you are one soul, yeah? You are guiding him home by shining your light. And your light is coming from within. So, therefore, you have to go to your center in union frequency, yeah? You're being the lighthouse for him, kind of. And the lighthouse, you know, the lighthouse doesn't try, is not trying to be the lighthouse, yeah? So, it's like, you don't have to try to be the light. You don't have to try to be, you know, his divine counterpart. You are, and not even counterpart, you're one, yeah? So, the lighthouse is also not trying to be the lighthouse. It just is, yeah? Yeah, so I love you endlessly. And I see you in the next episode. Bye, beautiful.