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Drake is a Pop Girl | 80

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Drake is a Pop Girl | 80

The conversation centers on the latest episodes of *Real Housewives of Rhode Island*, where the hosts praise the show’s authentic, sisterhood-driven drama and the women’s deep emotional connections. They note how the series goes beyond typical housewife tropes by showing real, complex relationships—especially around cheating and infidelity—where no one is truly safe. A major point of critique is the show’s repeated and misleading use of "polygamy" to describe polyamory, which the hosts see as a sign of ignorance. They also dive into their personal pop culture favorites, naming Casey Musgraves for her emotionally resonant music and Charlie XCX for her candid lyrics about friendship and queerness. The hosts express admiration for the women’s resilience and realism, especially in moments of confrontation and self-reflection. They also touch on broader cultural observations, such as Drake’s performative politics, Nicki Minaj’s controversial MAGA stance, and the power of representation in media. Ultimately, the discussion blends humor, critique, and deep personal insight, celebrating authenticity and diversity in both pop culture and real-life relationships. The hosts conclude with a strong call for representation—especially of LGBTQ+ and non-traditional relationships—and express excitement about upcoming live events and new music, reinforcing their commitment to community-driven, inclusive conversations.

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And I wanna say thank you, Bravo, for this amuse-boosh of cheating men. Yeah. It's like really funny to me that they all cheat in different ways. And it's like, so, it's pretty obvious. Like, you, you're not slick. Well, I have some news for you about the real world, too, Hunter. Call my father. Anyway, Lewis, I love you. Lewis, we love you. What else are we talking about this week? What are we getting you to? Some pop girl updates. Oh, and I say pop girls, that's inclusive of Drake. 'Cause he is a pop girl at heart, let's talk about it. But some Olivia Rodrigo, some Taylor Swift, some Nicki Minaj, some Tilly X-E-X, some Tilly X-E-X. And maybe little cats, I have to look at you, but we'll see. Oh, and some Taylor Swift and Bushwick. Ever heard of it? A sentence I never thought I would hear, but. Well, I'm hearing it. I have some good news for you. What? Are you looking for a safe space for your secret celebrity opinion? Do you need someone who understands your latest internet session? We are a decade-long best friends who connect over a fussing. And discussing all things pop culture. From Higher Gone Audio, I'm Peyton Dix, and I'm Hunter here. And this is, let me say this. Let me say this. Let me say this. ♪ I'm a sadist ♪ ♪ I'm a sadist ♪ You asked, and we listened. 'Cause we do that here. This is a community first. Hmm. We press play. Well, listen. There's a little, there's a little state called Rhode Island. I've heard of it. And they have the craziest accents I've ever heard. And thank, and thank God, you know. When I, I was lost in what I'm trying to do. I'm, well, the line, what's her name? We will talk about her, but Alicia, oh no, it's not Alicia. The one who goes, "But he is my, he is." And I'm like, these are my women. About the cheating. These are my cheating, yeah. Covering her face to camera, but her mouth, but you're still might. But he is my. It's like, yes. But that's sisterhood, actually. That's sisterhood. It's like, I know you're looking crazy on camera, 'cause you know your husband is cheating on you. You know he's a cheater. I will say for the record, I haven't finished. I'm not caught up by the only four episodes into real housewives of Rhode Island. Are you, are you up to speed? Did you make it there? No, I'm not caught up fully. Okay. I've seen enough. I've seen quite a bit. I've seen enough. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, here's the thing. I didn't think that these women had it in them. I was like, oh, you know, it's like feels kind of like Jersey derivative, you know, whatever. Also, I don't really like a young housewife. I have, I'm really ages when I come down. No, no, but one of them is young. Oh, oh, oh. Yeah, one of them is like our age. You are being so generous and very feminist forward. But well, I always am, thank you. I'm often accused of being feminist and listen, you got me. But these women are bringing it. And I think this is, you know, kind of the linchpin of a perfect housewives franchise. These are women who are actually friends. These are women who have long histories together. Yes, yes. 'Cause you can tell when it's like a group that has been put together by production, you have to really know me, know my story, know my trauma, and my drama for us to be locked in as housewives together. Yeah. I mean, it does come up in all the housewives' franchises, of course, but this is really a show about cheating first. And no one's safe. We're all culprits at the end of the day, you know what I mean? I didn't realize like how much everybody got a scandal. Everybody catching a case. It's crazy. Like the women, their husbands, normally, it's a little bit of the husband, but it's the women's opportunity. It's an opportunity she didn't stop feminism, yeah. Yeah. Do you have any standout faves from the cast? Here are my favorites. I have to have a face sheet. Talk to her. 'Cause you know, with all these spray tans, I cannot tell them any of them apart. I do really like, I like Liz. Yeah. She's like kind of so mama bear to me. Yes. Yes. I also like Joellen, who everyone hates, but that's okay. I sort of stand by her. She's like, well, she's willing to incite, which I appreciate. Which we need. Yeah, actually. That's like brand new. We need someone with a dash in name is always interesting to me. Well, a little, a little hyphen. I'm like, what are you up to? It's a little. What are your parents up to? Are they really white, though? Or are they there? I'm going to say strongly in C42 Mac. Well. Like, they're black Ariana Grande coated. I love the Middle Eastern baddie. That's, I'm always holding space, though. I got, and I got a few in my back pocket, but I will say they're, yeah. They, you rock with me and I'm rock with you all for real. I'm not touching that. Okay. I also have, say like Alicia. Alicia's kind of quiet, but she's gorgeous. Kind of quiet. Not one of these women have ever been silent. No, no, no. No. I mean, she's. She doesn't say anything. She doesn't say anything, but she's like, Ally, she's. Yeah. No, no. You need her in your corner. No. She'll activate quickly, but she doesn't. She's going to. I can start, I remember she'll start to finish. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, Ashley, I remember her from the bachelor years and years and years ago. I feel bad for her husband, who just wants to have his barista dream. And yet, the moment of silence for Audrey's. For any money. And listen. We'll frequent. We'll take a little road. I know. I know. I've seen your coffee order. And then go ahead. And then we'll keep up my business because it's all complicated and a lot of milk. It's milk with a side with a little shot of coffee. A little bit. I hope there's lactate in the room. And I'm going to say Rola Rola. She's okay to me. Oh, you're just naming all of them. Are you saying your favorite? It's kind of. I'm just going through. No. I haven't talked about Rosie. Do you like me? Who used to be on TV? Who used to be a broadcast? Oh, yes. Like, broadcast anchor. She's okay, but I don't know. So I got her in her husband is like, it's kind of like not in love. What can I say? Yeah. Yeah. Anyway, that's why I feel. What are your favorites saying all of them? Well, I love all of them in different ways. I've always said that about you, actually. Okay. Do you want to ask me back? No. I'm just an interview for you. I'm like, okay. My drag, I guess. Okay. No. Who do you like? Who do you like? Who do you hate? Okay. Well, I don't hate any of them because I love all women. But my favorites, my top three pick, my draft picks, Rula, of course, Liz. I need her in a crazy way. And I'm working that out with my therapist. And then Alicia to me so far is actually, I like, is my favorite loudmouth on it. They're all loud. Like the volume is astronomical. I have turned down. Alicia, I think she'll like get loud like she'll, they call her this, they call her like the slip flop or whatever because she's so, and I love a fickle bitch. You know that about me. It's her one. We got, we meet every, every Sunday at seven. We meet. But she will start a fight just to kind of forget about it and then end it immediately, which I think is so fabulous, like that's how most fights should go. Like they should be kind of quick turnover. And like there's this one scene where she just also, I have to say the obvious thing. Alicia reminds me so much of my mother. Like my mom can't commit. One time I got in so much trouble, she grounded me and I let me out the next night because she forgot. And I was like, oh, well, anyway. And she's very Alicia and my mom's name is Alicia, very like that. And specifically all in one scene where she picks a fight for kind of, let's just say no fucking reason. She goes, I don't like the way your eyes look. This is, she's lying and I don't want to say she says, she's lying and it's freaking me out. This is also mind you like nothing had really happened. And then she says to the other girl, and this was very you to me. Fucking slow you. Well, you're not hot. You're not. What's fabulous? You know, let me not, I don't want to ruffle sometimes, but you, I hate when someone acts like they're like such a hot girl. And it's like, she said, I'm grown and I see you, but I also didn't realize like obviously we went to school in Boston. I know of New England well enough. I've been to Rhode Island, even like deep cut parts of Rhode Island, like little Compton Rhode Island, shout out to little Compton, if you know, you know, but I, what a name. Yeah. Well, it's we're calm. I know. Have you been? No, it's, it's divine, but I didn't know that they had it going on like this. I thought Rhode Island was almost giving like portlandia teas. Like when I went, it was very like granola. I guess it was the white people I went with, of course, were very specific. So I was not prepared for Alicia running a woman over with a car. Well, my, my dad went to college in Rhode Island. And he always was like, their accents are crazy. Yeah. Like they, it sounds like nails in a chocolate jam. And I thought, oh, it can't be that bad. And then I hear this. And it's like, oh, it, I did spend three weeks there at a pre college summer program. Imagine that. I could, I, I have to discuss the reason I even got into this show was because I saw this local news hit of like a man on the street interview of this kind of older man who was asked about the real houses of Rhode Island. He's like, it doesn't, it doesn't support us. It doesn't, it doesn't show us off in a good light. All of this stuff. And then he's like, you know, Bravo used to be like like seven samurai. That's what he used to show. And now it's this. Like Bravo used to show seven samurai. Like I love this man. He said, let's get back to the tradition. Let's get back to the Bravo of classic cinema. Wait, do you, like hate the accents? I do what I don't. I'm like, love or hate or like a New England accent. Well, I prefer an accent is like different. It's different from Boston. And it's different from like New England to me. Yeah. It's like stronger, thicker. Yeah. But I do love the way that all of these women are like talking to Ashley. Like, well, you're not, you're not from here. You're not from around here. Yeah. I don't know this. Like, this is hard to explain. I'm like, not really. But when people are legitimately like one of the like first episode quotes, it's like, it's a small town with the biggest gossip. And it's like, is it? Is it? Is it? Is it? It's okay that it's not. Like, but it's a lot of big fish regular size pond. Yeah. Which I, I've honestly come around to the accent. I kind of like up like a Boston New England accent, I think like with the right reframe I'm in a closed eye. - One, it can be kind of sexy. - Sexy, but he is ma, he is, he is ma. - But he is ma, he is, I think I need her like water. - Are you kidding? - Liz call me. - What we need to discuss, the polygamy. - The, the, these women keep saying, - The polygamy or polygamy, like that's the thing that's like, if I think you're bleeding, - Yes, of course. Of course, for multiple episodes, they keep saying polygamy, meaning polyamory. - Not even meaning just open relationship, basically. - Are they married, Kelsey and her older boyfriend, who has never seen or heard, but pays for her house. Meanwhile, she has a second boyfriend ish, who she's kind of just keeping, which I respect that. - Yeah, no, it's so hard. - It's hard to keep a man just kind of in the, in the waiting line, in the queue, 'cause you never know, anything could happen. - Anything could happen. - Anyway, no, so all of a sudden, I keep saying polygamy. Oh, she's a polygamy as blah, blah, blah. Meaning polyamory and it drove me crazy. I wanted to, like, can we get Andy Cohen? Just voice of God. You, you all don't know what polygamy means. So let's open up, that's a predationary. And finally, they get the message and it's just so funny that all of them are like, right. So what do you say? - And it doesn't even faze on that. Same thing. (laughs) - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, I was watching the setup of that relationship and I wonder if it comes up later in a more interesting way. But so far, I'm like, sounds good to me. I saw that house, that sounds great to me. - But she wants to start a family and he very clearly doesn't. And to my mind, the issue in that relationship is that they're both pretty clear and communicative about what they want and don't want. But they're just not aligned. And obviously, I don't think she'd be with that one boy, her like, that's on screen, right, yeah, yeah. I don't think that's the story. But what did you think, well, of course not. What did you, I mean, he doesn't, you know. - He doesn't move the needle for me. - No. - What did you think about the birthday party? The Studio 54 party. Also, Studio 54 for 54th birthday. Love it. - Fabulous. - Great theme. - What Pinterest board were they looking at for that Studio 54 party? - Well, I don't think, I think similar to the Palliga Meat Polly Emory, I think Studio 54 means something very different in their minds. - I, the one person who I think was closest to the concept was the one who wasn't even like alive during the day, I'm like, hey, day up. - Oh, Kelly. - It was the youngest girl. I think it was her that had like kind of like a gold lamez situation going on that was like the closest thing, but it was physically tough. - I did like Rosie saying, I hated my outfit. Let me just say I hated it. - Sometimes that's how it is. - Yeah, she was like trying to zip it up and then the other other one wouldn't work. That kind of representation is needed. - Yeah, sometimes you just walk into the function and say, and you know what? I hate what I'm wearing and just get over it. - No, there's, I mean, every talking head of I believe, and yes, I just said I would like die for her and I stand by it, but Liz and her, what do you call the, the like set up? Is it like not a talking head? Is that confessional? - Yeah, the confessional. Those outfits, the one with the snake that was at her chin, the one where she's wearing about 14,000 necklaces and a ponytail that's touching Ariana Heights. It was, and then it busts down all the way to the floor. She's doing things that other woman could never dream of, but like the outfits and the hair on these women are just, I needed it actually. I needed to wake me up, it's like taking it out or all is like watching. - You're also from Rhode Island. - You know from me, that's Neenie Leakes. - But I do speak of Neenie. I do like the dynamic of older sort of mama bear housewife and like younger, not housewife, but. - I like that dynamic variation now. - Exactly. - But then, and the 344 episode, that's when she and Kelsey had their big fight. - Yeah, was that them upstairs, right? - Yeah, you can't see them, but they're. - Yes. - And they're having a big fight. And I love the next day. - Is that about, yeah, I guess. I don't think you should be photographed with him considering everyone thinks that you're fucking him. - Yeah. - And Liz had a big, you know, but then the next day, I love a fight where it's like, oh, I was just drunk. I just fully, like, didn't know what I was talking about. I mean, I'm sorry. - It's so lovely to see yourself reflected in a media. (laughing) We need that. I mean, speaking of the deno cheating allegations, all this stuff, Rulah, Rulah, I gotta hold her hand. They're like, hey, here's all these photos of your man cheating on you or like her mistress on his lap. And she's like, say, aye. (laughing) She's like, she has a texting app to make some texts. So, Diva, sister. - Well, mother, hey. - Sometimes you have to let your friend live in a certain delusion. - And for how long? Will you tell me? (laughing) - I can really go for a couple of minutes. (laughing) - Oh my God. - This is really like, that was sick. So, there's a gun. - Okay. - And it's potted boys both ways. - It's a bazooka actually. - It's my fighter, man. - Truly. (laughing) - Are you gonna keep watching? Are you gonna keep streaming? - Of course. - Yeah, yeah. - Of course. - I'm glad we actually got asked to watch this. I, again, like you, I was like, I don't know if the hype is gonna match the moment, but I'm in. - Yeah. - Especially while Salt Lake is off, I'm in here. - It's not, you know, an old faithful yet, but I like what we're building. I like the foundation that relate. And I'm, thank you, Bravo, for introducing me to so many different types of white women. I didn't know they could be so diverse. You know, there are some, the Salt Lake Housewives, the part not all of them, but the Rhode Island Housewives, the New York, honestly, Atlanta Housewives. - I didn't know a, what is, what is Deva's name? The big, her husband just died, actually. Or ex-husband just died. Big Papa. - Oh, Kimsel. - Kim, yeah. - Kim, yeah. That's a white woman. (laughing) That's a white woman, through and through. But I'm gonna keep press and play. - Yeah, I'm tuning in. - I have some news that Hunter really wants to hear. - Oh, I'm afraid now. - All the boy genius members are active right now. - C.B. Bridges is on tour. They're all, like, Phoebe's on tour. Julian just came out at the Haley Williams show. They're like, "Hunter missed us," and a return could be soon. Lucy Deac is doing press. - Here's the thing about boy genius, if you don't know. I, there's one day that I was like, really having, I think, what can be only described as a mental breakdown. And I added, like, one Phoebe Bridges song and one boy genius song to my cue. And at a certain moment, I was like, you know what? Listen, this is the breakdown right here. Like, this is making the breakdown worse. I gotta stop this. Ah, yeah, yeah, oh my. No, I'm sorry, I can't get behind it. I really, I really can't. - He said, it's sad in New York. - It's true. Like, oh my girl, get up. - Oh, I like my girl. - Or a person, get up. - Just army crawling. - No, except for Satanist. - Go to my mom, I said that. - Except for Satanist, that's the one that I like. That's the good one. Every other song, oh my God, with Phoebe Bridges, especially. - Okay, I was gonna say a huge compliment. - Put one track in, let her have her thing here. - Just need one track in the back. And that would, that would go so far. - I'm gonna give you a huge compliment right now. - Yeah. - I know you're not a Phoebe Bridges baddie, but you are a Lucy Dakeus darling. - And that's a huge compliment. - Just try it, couldn't get behind you. - I thought that would be the one. - No, no, no, I'll be here with my fleet foxes and my, I know a thing or two by the thing or two. Oh, yes, I do, with my Florence and the machine. - My respect, my son is fucked up. - Yes, yes, and with my Lana Del Rey. You know, my father, that's now we're going somewhere else. - But it's adjacent, they're living the same neighborhood. - They're neighbors, yeah. - But at the Boy Genius house, just dirty feet. - Oh my God. - I don't think I'm sorry, but I just can't get into it. I can't get into it. - There's only a certain type of white girl that an indie white girl that Hunter can rock with and they aint one of them. I just like to rattle her up, that's all I said that for. We may not even use this. Everything you're saying, they got active. I said, ooh, let me lock my drawer. Let me close my shutters. - Okay, well, if not Boy Genius, who is your pop girl of the moment? Girl in like the non-binary, like open, - Of course, of course. My pop girl of the moment, listen. Casey Musgraves, divorce baddie. - You love a divorce, divorce, hey. - She's been divorced so. - But she did work out about that poet. - The poet who had terrible poetry. I didn't see one ride the other day, but I was like, ooh, get away. - Yeah, yeah, I did buy. - You reported him just for bad poetry. - Yeah, yeah. - No, Casey Musgraves, the new album is okay, but I have been revisiting Golden Hour. - So good. - Oh, excuse me, talk about, I mean, Velvet Elvis, happy and sad, slow burn. - And so beautiful. - Lonely weekend, high horse, you know, what, perfect album, really and truly perfect album. - Well, I haven't pressed play on her album yet. - It's okay, it's not the best. I did, I, you know, wake it up. Jake Shane, asking her to explain time zones, did a lot for me, 'cause it really reminded me how good Golden Hour is. - But variety reporting on it was like, you know, you not just have an op, but like, who has a time to be like, just let an internet thing be an internet thing is my variety. - I take on that. - Does have like a red dot laser on Jake Shane's head. Like they hate it. - They're like, you're taking our interviews. (laughing) - I was crazy though. I was like, we don't need to report on this actually. I do wonder though, like, what is Jake Shane's therapist thinking? His actual therapist. - Like his actual therapist. Like imagine you go in a therapy and you're like, so there's actually a huge controversy because people think I'm an idiot who doesn't understand time. - Well, what's crazy is his friend got dragged into it too. 'Cause he was talking, I guess like his maybe producer or someone else was in the room and he's like, "Yes, we're always talking about it." That, I'd be pissed if I was there. I'd be like, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Now why am I in it? (laughs) - Come on, you got the case. You know the friend is like, "Hold on, no, I know what it means." That's so me. Oh my, that's what, no, no, no, no, hold on, excuse me, interruption. I know what it means. I'm just entertaining you for not knowing what it means. - No, I would have paused the record to be like, just for the record. - Right, and so we cut to the producer, yeah, some strings were caught there. - I'm gonna say, yeah, pop roll the moment. For me, it's Casey Muscreves. And a little bit, Audrey Hobert still. I'm still Audrey Hobert. Now that's a white girl that I love. - Yeah. - I can't get enough of her. - She's in her 30s. - No, no, she's so young. - Oh, she's so, so young. - I thought she was like surprise, 30, in a complimentary way, obviously. - No, she's so young. She's so talented. I'm like, girl, I can't believe Gracie let you out to make this album. To really eat her up. - Careful. Gracie just got released a new track too. - Great. Can't wait. - I like Gracie Abrams. - Show me. - And my other pop girls, the moment. - Jessie Solomon. - Jessie Solomon. - Into my own, what is that song? - Oh, I love it. I love it. - I told you, it was pretty good. People really tried to kill me and I was like, why? For speaking the truth? - Relax. - No. - No, so he's got a couple hands on him. - The video, though, of having more friends than videos. - No, no, no. The video of the house on a show and he's still singing. And he's always been doing he's still singing. That was crazy. We got to get to a show, but we can't legally pay for tickets. So if you're watching this and you have a connect, let's just tag Jessica. - I'm gonna expose it. - Tell. - I feel like Jessie, if you're watching this, we can't expose V.A. - We really could be. - Well, like as a backstage pass. - Oh, yeah. - You like some access. - Access pass. - Okay. - God forbid if girl wants access. - You can be in the G.A though if you want. That is the L.A. privilege coming out. Okay, your pop girls are the moment. - Okay. - Pop girls are the moment. One obvious one, one sneak, of course. Obviously, Muna, back, better than ever. Just one to their show. I think they're playing New York like today, but I went to their show in L.A. And I love to watch them perform. I think that they, especially for people that are low-key home bodies, being like so rock star on stage is amazing. 'Cause I'm like, I know you go to bed and you drink tea. Like, that's fabulous. Like, you're actually not like breaking shit and like up until nine. Like, that's amazing. We need more of that. Performance artists, but they're new albums so good. I've always been a Muna fan. I really hope it's what like, I mean, they had a moment with Silksha Fawn for sure, but I hope it's like the album that takes them even further and reaches a bigger audience. But anyway, love Muna, love the new album. - I love that song number one fan. That's my favorite Muna song. - Yeah. - You're like number one fan. - God. - That's the Leo and me. - And then, I'm late to the game, but I'm kind of rocking with Sombra. Oh, he's good music. And I was kind of with Taylor Swift when she was talking about that one. Lovely. - I know, I always think you far. - So, here's a little while back, but this is the issue. - You can like Sombra, that's allowed. But Taylor Swift, telling New York Times, I just think that when men say stuff, it makes it okay for women to say stuff too. - So, you are a professional writer. So, you are Sombra, right? This is actually, I run a package about Sombra. Like, he was streaming you, girl. I was like, do you see how, never mind. But I will say like, he's a good lyricist. Is that the right word? - Yeah. - Thank you. But I was like, I don't know why I had, I do, he's just a twink to me. So, I had an aversion for a minute. I'm at my capacity with Twink's in my life. And that's all love. If you're a Twink in my life, know that you got it right before the door goes. - Yeah, you got it right before the wall went up. Oh, god. But I was not really into it. I didn't like the whole look. I was not really into the TikToks. And then I said, let me be an adult about this. So, let me sit down and close my eyes, press play. He has hits. - Crushing is a true song. - Interesting. Let me take some notes. - I have not gotten involved in Sombra. - I think you should get involved. - I think he was the dare for quite a while. Exactly. You know what I mean? We're at our capacity. - And then I'm confusing with the one that's like, "Salah." - Oh, gosh. Oh my god. - That's another one though. - That's another one. - Yeah, that's another one else. That to me is too like fun we are young coded. Is that song "Salah"? - Not too much on we are young. Some of us are bleeks. - Okay. Why don't you tell the class what you just searched on your phone? - That's literally private, and you know that. - Yeah, anyway. It was bad. I'll just tell you that. - So those were our popcorn. - It was not good. - Yes, I see. I have to say, the popcorn has been shoved down my throat. I'm sorry to like turn on another fellow light skin, but Olivia Dean, I can't take it. I can't take it. It's not funny. - Don't you know who my mom is? Don't do that. She loves her number. - She's like Olivia Dean's number one fan. - There are only two, that's not true. There are, well, there are only a few artists that I tell Spotify do not play. And it's like canceled men. And then Olivia Dean, unfortunately. I just can't take it. It's like the agenda is too much. I've seen your Spotify. So DM me and I'll send you a screenshot too 100 accidentally shared her screen. And I saw all of her recent. Do you remember that? - Oh, God. - Yeah. Wait, speaking of Taylor Swift though, did you see the video of her in Travis Kelsey arriving at a friend's wedding in Bushwick at Hunnies? - In fact, okay. I know that they said it was at Hunnies, but I think it was at that venue. - Oh, the one where you eat was? - Yeah. - Doesn't make it better to me, I guess. But I wonder who's wedding it was. - Yeah, who do they know? - And do you think it was a friend of Travis or do you think it was a friend of Taylor's? - Probably a friend of Travis. - I know, right? - Yeah. - But then Taylor loves like little girl sometimes. So like, should we know all the all girls that she likes? And, you know. (laughing) - But Travis is a man of the people. - Yeah, he is a little bit. - I see that loosely. - Yeah. - He has a local quality to him that would land him in Bushwick. - I'll say that. - He has a local quality to him is crazy, but I love it. But that's actually revolutionary. No, I did see her in Bushwick and totally. - Totally. - Do you, I mean, she must know what Bushwick is. She has, she wore the Oxford flag. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - For like three summers and a row. - Yeah. But, well, he knows Brooklyn Heights. - I, he said, I know a neighborhood. He won't ever be caught in again. (laughing) - But we do speaking of weddings and Taylor Swift, do you have any like, Taylor Swift wedding predictions? 'Cause it's gonna be in what July? Fourth of July, we can. - I don't know what that's gonna be. I, I think it's a lot of misdirection. They keep saying it's gonna be this day and then this day and then it's gonna be here and there and everywhere. I don't know where it's gonna be. - Here and there and everywhere. - What I do know, I think there would be. Oh, you wouldn't, you wouldn't put it past tree pain. - That's true, that's true, that's true. - She can do all the things. - Not listen. - There are probably decoy weddings all over the place. - I feel like, I don't know. I don't know, I don't know what's gonna happen. I do feel like, but the thing is like, we'll Travis Kelsey get a fade for the wedding. How many black rumours men do you think he'll have? - Too many. - Those are just his friends. (laughing) - Need a Monzyway stack. How many black ones do you have? You would love to answer that question properly. - Oh my God. - You would love to answer that. - Something about him is like, I feel like he'll have like a gold tooth or something. - He'll like dress up with the occasion. - He'll have your layers. - No, I think he might. - I unfortunately, because I am toxic and gay. At the same time, I hope that Carly Clause goes for a wedding. Maybe. - Carly Clause wanted to buy tickets to the Ares tour. Carly Clause couldn't even get VIP at the Ares tour. (laughing) She is gonna get invited. Oh, totally, totally. - A girl can dream. - I love, you know I love that one video. I don't know what you're talking about. Do you think, well, do you think Jack Anstoff will be invited? And do you think that he will apologize to Lena Dunham? - No, but do you see Adam Driver getting interviewed? - I did. - Okay, so unfortunately, that was the first thing I saw when I woke up that morning. Adam Driver being asked about the allocations of him throwing a chair as a criminal in his face while they were rehearsing for girls. And he said, I have no comment on this, but I'll say it for my memoir. - Yeah. - Yeah. - This is how I know I'm a real bitch 'cause I saw that first thing in the morning, I said, excuse me. I said, oh, whoa. And then later, I was like, oh, that's like a funny response. - Yeah, yeah. - Like I always get appropriate when I'm right. - I could kinda relax into myself. My shoulders went down, my gun went away. And I said, okay, I won't treat it, yeah. - But it was there, yeah, yeah. - No, I'm at the ready for the case. - I'm at the draw. - He got something else to say. - Yeah. (upbeat music) - Huge news, breaking news, even. We are coming to Tribeca. We are doing a special, let me say this live episode, June 11th at the Tribeca Festival podcast stage. - But we're not just coming by ourselves. We're bringing our friend, Sydney Lemon, star of the drama, succession, tar, job on Broadway. And we'll be hosting a one night only special live event. - It's the festival's 25th anniversary, so you're not gonna wanna miss this. - The event is June 11th at 6 p.m. And you can buy tickets right now at Tribecafilm.com/audio. - And just because somebody y'all don't listen, sometimes I'm gonna say it again. That's Tribecafilm.com/audio. See you there. (upbeat music) - Okay, wait, we do have one more pop girl to talk about. - Okay. - Did you listen to Charlie XCX's two new singles that dropped? Rock music, and then the other one was a long paragraph over here in the Lana Del Rey, I keep thinking about you every day. single night and day. Those two trucks. Did they come across your desk? No, they didn't come across my desk. But you know what comes across my desk all the time? I have to do the Charlie show. Poof? Love it. Love it. Sorry. Sorry, we're going to poof every time. It's so good. And you know that that was me for a long time until I unstand Charlie. You had to. You had to sit down. But other Charlie. Yeah. I will say I liked rock music. A lot of people don't. I think it's becoming this divisive thing of like who were the original angels and who came after Brat Summer. And I think, you know, I like to watch people's bar and I'll say the true thing. I'm not a pretender sometimes, but on the weekends. But I was not an OG angel. I came to her. I would say actually after maybe like crash was a formative song for me. So like that like album. Crash like turned me out a little bit. And then I was there. And I'm happy to be here maybe later. But it's fine. I'm just glad to be here. But then the song that really rocked me though was the second one that she only really released on. I think it was a B side and it was on Instagram and then just on vinyl. But there's a line in it that I want to hold space for. And maybe you'll not identify but care about it. The song is kind of like about in typical Charlie lore like a friend obsessive like could be crushed but could just be like an intense connection. And there's a lyric that's like now I'm wondering if maybe I could be gay. But come on. Look at me. I'm probably not. I've always wondered if you were actually gay. Where if that's just something you say for your career. And she knocked a few of y'all back just by the way. There and there's so much the first part is like Loki like looking me. I'm not gay is Canon. She's real to say it and she's right to say it. And the second part is like you're doing the more like queer thing which is commenting on like being obsessed with a friend and knowing that it's actually not you being a lesbian versus like the wind blowing now everyone's gay. Because I know a lot of y'all and I've seen a lot of y'all and the way you move. It's okay to be straight. This is a PSA for some people. It's okay to be a heterosexual. You're seen, you're heard, you're loved. And Charlie thank you for speaking up on our behalf. I don't think she's talking about. Well, that I was going to ask you if you have any idea. I don't know. My first I was like Billie Eilish. People are always getting mad at Billie Eilish. We're having that boyfriend. We're having a boyfriend. No, but the way that. And not even because it's Sean John or the Triple XL. Not even because of that. But I feel like I've seen the way that she looks at women. And I'm like, you got the gene. It's in you. Okay. But bisexuals exist. I've heard. So, you know, maybe it's about someone else. But if you have any clues. If you're a angel, a real angel, let us know because that's the only one I've ever. That's kind of like a daily discourse. There's always people getting mad at Billie Eilish. I have no idea who this could be about. But if you do know, let us I feel like someone's snooping. Someone on Reddit right now is like figuring it out for us. And I appreciate that. And I welcome it. So, like I like the two drugs. I'm in them. But they're not my favorite. You know, I'm not like saving and replaying over and over again until I'm sick with it. Okay. But what are we? It was 80 degrees the other day. I don't know if you've heard actually interviews right now. Look at my address. I know there's I can't actually get into how much sweat is happening between my eyes right now. But I think we get ahead of the narrative. Yes. Because we're always struggling when it comes down to the time. Who is your pitch for song of the summer? Let me tell you something. Okay. Summer is a time your chest is out. You're showing some color bone. You could even, you know, summer is like for when you go on along like John, like you you walked on the street and you're sweaty. But it's like, oh, it's like a glistening sweat and like a sexy. And it's also a time for play. It's playful. Summer is playful. I love summer. You know about this one. Me. I love summer. Um, it smells like summer. But I know what summer also smells like anti-perspirant. Not the natural stuff from Whole Foods. Put it down. Anyway, for record breaking, sixth summer and a row. Okay. The song of the summer is Summer Girl by Hyme. And I'm going to say specifically the Amber Mark remix. I don't know if Amber Mark is black, but it sounds like a black name to me. So I all powered all the people. Um, Summer Girl is the perfect song. I'm your summer girl. I love it. That Charlie Brown Christmas last scat. I just did that was crazy. That's what it is. That's what it is. I know. And I love our girls. But I'm your summer girl. Oh my god. Listen, it's so good to see yourself represented in the media. And um, do you think that the song of the summer needs to be a new song? No, I don't think so actually. I don't think so. I think I think that's what makes the content. Oh, so you know what, we teach girls to shrink themselves. Yes. Sometimes. Yes. So it can't be. You could be my summer girl, but I need you to come up with then for the second year in the row, it's fast by Demi Lovato. How's that? I was in a Pilates class last week. And I wanted to, I'll be frank, die. Sure. And then the instructor played fast. And I, and I found something within. I just closed my eyes and said, let's just get these reps. And that's what a classhop by gay men can give you. So you're welcome. Do you remember like a classhop by like a gay man or like like a mother of three? Well, I'm like, and sometimes virtually that can't be like the same person. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I love it. Community is actually so important. Um, okay. So what's your song of the summer? Since you know everything. Okay. Okay. I'm a Phil believer that a song of summer has to be the whole point of contention is that it's a new song or someone. And it or at least it doesn't have to be a new artist even though my pitch is, but it has to be a new song. That's how I feel. That's what I'm saying. My song of the summer last summer was I will survive by Gloria Gaynor. And that's called a break. What were you going? Okay. Yep. Yeah. Yeah. What are you going through? It was bad. It was bad. I, my song of summer nomination is Naomi Scott Cherry. I shout out to lemonade mouth. That wasn't really my gospel, but people really seem to fight about it. So I'm with you. Um, but she one is, I knew her as an actress first from um, um, smile too. Oh, I don't speak on that movie. I thought you were a crispy and you get me. You know, because some people don't know that. They just call me a lesbian. And I'm like, no, crispy and it's a different thing. Um, and because in honor of her, I don't speak on that movie, but she also wasn't that, but Naomi Scott from smile to performance that will transcend you. But um, her new album, what is it called? I think it's called Fig, but this, it's no skips. It's fabulous. Bliss bound. It's so good. I have like to speak on, I posted a reel about it. That's how much I liked it. And I saw that. I didn't see that. And I had a few two different dance teachers text me that they put in their song and people, they put in their classes and people loved it. It is a good song. And I love, I love your ground, like boots in the ground. I'm, you're really on the front line. Because I listen to that song because of you. Did you notice that? Great. Did you know I sat for your birthday. Remi posted from her account a photo of the two, a video of the two of you set to Cherry. Did you notice that? Well, you should have on main. I got on her story on her story story. Yeah. Only only one person gets a birthday post on main for her. Anyway, I'm going to have you appreciate it. If anyone is listening now, stop what you're doing, stop this episode, but come back to it. And they'll go press play on Cherry. It'll get you right. Take a nice walk to it. Take your bra off to it. It's fabulous. It's so fabulous. That's okay. Your bra off to it is crazy, but very accurate. Very necessary though. Part of the experience. I'm so happy that you are on the front lines reporting about Charlie XCX and about Taylor Swift and Bushwick and all of that because I have spent a weekend in darkness. I have spent, I have a headache right now, actually. Yeah. I know where the song of the summer isn't. So yeah. Iceman, the Drake album, which I let's, excuse me, Drake album three albums. Iceman, Iceman, Habib T. Habib T. I haven't let this even come near my desk. I don't know anything. Well, yeah, some of us, some of us, you know, had to, I feel like I've just been like, let your neck with a germ. It's my body on the line. I feel like it's right though that your light skin friend doesn't work for you in this territory though. Like, I can't be the one in the trenches for Drake. It has to be you. It has to be you. Listen, I love to hate Drake. I love to talk about how much I cannot stand this man and it's because it's recognition. You know, he is corny as hell. Sure. He's light skined. Canadian has a Moose Boosh of accents. He literally will try and accent on for a little bit. Honestly, not on like you. He loves to be fake. He loves to try something good on today. He's a performer first. Yeah, no. It's related to that. This man released 43 songs in total. In avalanche of music. Everyone's like, oh, 43 songs. Like, that's so impressive. I'm like, well, have you heard three albums? Like, it's not like he released Renaissance, cowboy Carter, and whatever actor he's going to be. He released poop from a butt. Oh, 43 songs. 42 Too Many. I bet one hit, is there one hit in there? I'm gonna give them one hit. - There are a couple that I may be into, but I'd really liked the Drake of honestly never mind. I think that was a Drake album that everyone slept on. I really love some of those songs. Falling back, sticky. I think downhill, maybe not downhills on that album, but I really like that album. Made of Honor is closer to that, but still something about Iceman is just the my most least interesting idea of Drake. - And that's the one that was expected. - Yeah, that's one that he's got in prompting. That's one that has the most defensive crouch, him talking about Kendrick Lamar overtly. Made of Honor and the other one, they're more, I mean, made of Honor is just like, Drake needs to make music to pregame to. And instead, he wants to be all tough and pose with his automatic weapons. What? Relax. - I am with him on, remember the bulletproof vest with the smoke coming out of it? I'm sorry, that was camp. - I hated it, I said that I, 'cause that was dry, 'cause that was, yeah, that was hilarious. - And they didn't want to do that. They wanted to kill him. - I did too, okay. - And with the reason. - Something about Drake in this political moment, both naming an album Iceman, hello, it's like serving up on a platter, a meme for MAGA, for the White House to treat, which they did, with a Michael Jackson glove? - I see. - Mostly a Michael Jackson glove when you are actively facing pedophile allegations. - Well, let me say. - Does he have a team? - A team. - A bold. - Yeah, he has a team. Other men who owe trial support. (laughs) - They got bills to pay. I mean, obviously, we knew Kendrick would come up, were there any other disses? - Yeah, he's been doing this thing where he hates LeBron now. This is, wait, I want, I am not going to say it, but I think you might have something to say about this. Drake had a LeBron tattoo, and he got it covered up with an SGA, the Oklahoma City Thunder player tattoo. Men are gay. (laughs) Hear me when I say, men are gay. You're looking to your husband right now, he's gay. You're looking to your father right there, he's gay. There's a spectrum, but he's gay. - Drake will do anything for any man, except for be a present father to his son. - He really will. When I listen to all of Iceman, I'm like, this is a perfect song for not knowing your son's home room teacher's last name. (laughs) - Deadby Duds, everywhere I activate it. - This is a perfect song for not knowing your child's shoe size. - Was this his name, Adonis? - Yeah. - Hope he's well. - Yeah, there are other short cities takes to DJ Khaled. This is the other thing I didn't like about the album too, which I didn't realize this that in 2023, Drake signed an RS4 ceasefire letter. - He did. - He did. - He did. - Oh. - I did not realize that. - That shocks me. - He has a line on Iceman about DJ Khaled not having said anything about Palestine. - That's true, and which I think is bad. However, the way that Drake brings up Palestine, to me seems very like a rhetorical device like that you're just using to dunk on someone. It really does not come from a place to me of care, concern, activism, but mostly just, I'm gonna dunk on you. Here's a good way. - Yeah, yeah. - And that, I don't understand. - I'm not a little bit mad at him going to DJ Khaled out on that. But like a man who doesn't eat pussy, I'm not surprised he doesn't stand for Palestine. - And I remember that quote. I said, "Oh, good luck to you." It's kind of like, did you see when someone yelled free Palestine in the Harry Styles concert? And he goes, "Correct." And I was like, "I guess I'll take it." And more, but I'll take it. I mean, the bar is on the floor. - I mean, in the Earth's crust, but who else did he knock? - Well, he knocked Asap Rocky, which of course, he's still so bad enough to shape over Rihanna. The thing on his last album on a previous release, he kept saying like, everyone keeps talking about me and Rihanna, like, I don't fuck with her. I never liked her, blah, blah, blah, blah. However, you keep talking about them. They're not thinking about you. - Yeah. - They literally never speak about you. Asap did one little line on one little song and talking about, I don't care about you, whatever. We used to be bros, but now we're not. That's fine. And yet, Drake can't get enough of talking about them. And then also, what I think is very funny is that he keeps talking about J. Cole. 'Cause J. Cole did one little verse and he immediately took it back. He said, "I'm sorry that I was just clout chasing." I didn't mean it. That's hilarious. That's why I've never liked J. Cole. I always think he's faked it. Can we say the real thing about J. Cole? He is every white boy's get behind me. Every white boy I know who's interested in rap has been like, but I fuck with J. Cole. No one gives him enough respect. I'm like, and that's two white boys that I know by the way, but it's enough to count. It counts as a trend to me. But I don't know why. I mean, because J. Cole not suffered enough, you know what I mean? I feel like he's always trying to make it. He's always gonna put his little hat in the ring. He's always trying to give a little something. And yet, Drake comes back and is like, "Listen, I won't forgive you." That is so funny to me. It's also like, J. Cole is who you're trying to like throw a shot set. He already said I take it back. He already apologized to you publicly. It's fine. And the only people defending him are those two white boys I was talking about. That's it. There are a lot of men and barbershops that love J. Cole. They love the platinum no features. If you love how to make it in America, you love J. Cole. I'm talking about my brother. But it's true. But listen, Lewis also loves. I don't know something about that. It's like, if you love J. Cole that much, then sweetheart, you simply just love Kid Cuddy. You just love an emotional. An emotional black man. And that's Kid Cuddy. Yeah. And then listen, young money cash money. Catching every L. Nicki Minaj was in Time Magazine. How Nicki Minaj went MAGA. Is he ready to do? No, what was that? Loser loser, double loser. Whatever get the picture. Done. Wow. They're there. Well, I read the story, of course. And the funniest part, it's all pretty bleak. The funniest part is that Nicki is asked about that summer that she was anti-vax. And she said, right. Nicki said that we should not take the vaccine because her cousin's friend in Trinidad took the vaccine. And his balls were swollen. HIPAA violation by due. And like, this was like during Biden presidency. The CDC was like, that's not true. Trinidad health was like, that's not true. And Nicki said, to time. So I guess they just check everyone's testicles and Trinidad. One by one. Or two by that, two by me. One by one, two by two. That's so, I love that for you. I love that for you, sister. Oh my god. So smart that one. That's why they keep her around. No, it was really dark sided, though. And I guess, yeah, not alarming or not alarming. Completely alarming. Not surprising. No, no. I did wish that it was written by someone who knew a little bit more about Black music, rap music, specifically Black culture specifically, because I do think a lot of Nicki going MAGA has to do with her own maybe insecurities about where she stands in the hierarchy of women and music, women and rap. Obviously she's at the top. But I think that Cardi being so vocally openly like democratic, openly liberal, maybe contributes a lot to Nicki's open positioning about this at this point. I do think, though, that the article was correct in that she probably has more conservative than people have thought. Very black, anti-conservative. And a lot of immigrant families are, though, that too. And something that I noted in the article that I was like, I wonder, I don't know if this is entirely true, is about her demographic. I was like, she reaches a lot of white gay guys. And the main takeaway, we're not main takeaway, but one of the lines was about how, obviously, this could be an opportunity to tap into black women, who historically obviously vote in a landside democratically for the Trump campaign, for the Trump administration, but yeah. And I'm not in the barb community. I'm not even local to that neighborhood. But I do feel like her impact actually reaches a lot of people about a politics for which I'm mostly white gays. OK, guys, in general. I feel like if you want to reach black women, she's not actually the one that's going to move-- in my opinion, move the needle. I was curious if they're-- and I don't know the writer as well. I was curious if there was something specific that backed that up as like, who are the people that write for her? Obviously, of course, black women are part of her demographic as a black female rapper. Yes, and a great one. But I do think this idea of Nikki being able to deliver a black woman voter, or Nikki as a Trump surrogate for black women, it's not really one to one. It's weak to me, yeah. But also, this is just another chapter. Let's say it in her proxy war against J.Z. And again, I don't understand how people are asking Nikki about how much she obviously hates J.Z. When she said lace front wig, that was hilarious. But I mean, hello. Why don't they ask her about Beyonce? I think that a lot of her tension with Beyonce is because Megan is starting out a future so early in her career from Beyonce. And he had to work for decade to get feeling myself. That's just my opinion. Listen, let me-- I'm going to put on a hat and sunglasses in the studio. I know. We bleep our faces out. - Change the voices for the souls like men. - Or is that me and Shadow? - Or is that me too? - Or is that me too? - Or is that me too? - I think that like Drake to me is like oxygen. He is just everywhere. - Oh, I was like, no, I don't need him. I don't need him to live. I'm just saying Drake is everywhere. I can chart every crush in my life, basically from what Drake album was playing, why was talking to them? - We live different lives, you know. - I got you. - And I'm with you. - Thank you. - Thank you for the solidarity, thank you. But I wanna know, what is your Drake heart take? - Yeah. - Let us know. - And if you've gone down the rabbit hole of all three of these rick albums, did you come out the other side safely? - I need to know. - I need 'cause I barely made it through. Oh my God. - You a survivor, you went to war. - I'm a survivor. - Woody Houston, do you remember that? - Oh, that was crazy with the band by the way. And I thought you were, I don't know where I thought you were going, but I liked it when I went with you. - It was when she was receiving an award. And she saw Destiny of Shiong. She's like, I'm a survivor. - God, I love it. - That is your mother. - God, I love what you say. - She gave birth to you. - Oh my God. Hunter, you want to hear this? Oh my God. - Well, let us know. Let us know in the comments. (upbeat music)

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The show highlights the chaotic and often absurd dynamics of infidelity among women on *Real Housewives of Rhode Island*, emphasizing how the women form deep, authentic sisterhood through shared trauma and drama.
  2. The hosts critique the recurring misuse of "polygamy" to mean "polyamory," calling it a misrepresentation that reflects a lack of understanding about modern relationships, and express frustration with the show’s oversimplification of complex dynamics.
  3. The discussion celebrates diverse pop culture figures—like Casey Musgraves, Olivia Rodrigo, Muna, and Sombra—while also offering personal reflections on music, identity, and representation, including a strong endorsement of Charlie XCX’s honest lyrics about queerness and friendship.

Summary:

The conversation centers on the latest episodes of *Real Housewives of Rhode Island*, where the hosts praise the show’s authentic, sisterhood-driven drama and the women’s deep emotional connections. They note how the series goes beyond typical housewife tropes by showing real, complex relationships—especially around cheating and infidelity—where no one is truly safe. A major point of critique is the show’s repeated and misleading use of "polygamy" to describe polyamory, which the hosts see as a sign of ignorance.

They also dive into their personal pop culture favorites, naming Casey Musgraves for her emotionally resonant music and Charlie XCX for her candid lyrics about friendship and queerness. The hosts express admiration for the women’s resilience and realism, especially in moments of confrontation and self-reflection. They also touch on broader cultural observations, such as Drake’s performative politics, Nicki Minaj’s controversial MAGA stance, and the power of representation in media.

Ultimately, the discussion blends humor, critique, and deep personal insight, celebrating authenticity and diversity in both pop culture and real-life relationships. The hosts conclude with a strong call for representation—especially of LGBTQ+ and non-traditional relationships—and express excitement about upcoming live events and new music, reinforcing their commitment to community-driven, inclusive conversations.

FAQs

The main theme is cheating and infidelity among the women, with the show highlighting how personal relationships, trust, and honesty are tested. It also emphasizes the women's long-standing friendships and real-life dynamics, making it a true sisterhood narrative.

The speaker believes it’s unique because the women have real, long-standing friendships and histories together, not just being put together by production. This authenticity makes the drama feel more genuine and rooted in real-life relationships.

The speaker particularly likes Liz for being a 'mama bear,' Alicia for her loud, fiery energy and resemblance to their mother, and Joellen for her willingness to incite conflict, which the speaker finds refreshing.

They are using the term 'polygamy' to refer to polyamory or open relationships, which is a common point of discussion among the characters. The speaker notes it's often misunderstood and humorously criticized, though it reflects real emotional complexities.

The speaker initially finds it strange and intense, comparing it to nails in chocolate jam, but eventually comes to appreciate it, especially when it adds a layer of authenticity and charm to the characters' interactions.

The speaker’s current pop girl of the moment is Casey Musgraves, especially for her album 'Golden Hour,' which the speaker finds deeply emotional and resonant, and for her honest, vulnerable portrayal of divorce and love.

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