The transcription blends promotional content for Paramount Plus NFL coverage with an in-depth interview featuring actor Chris Hemsworth. The host, Theo, engages Hemsworth in a wide-ranging conversation about his life, career, and personal philosophy. Hemsworth reflects on his Australian identity, noting the adventurous spirit stemming from the country's isolation and the tradition of backpacking after school. He candidly discusses the limitations of fame, describing how it makes life more observational and restricts spontaneous experiences, while acknowledging the benefits.
A central theme is midlife introspection, with Hemsworth referencing "The Middle Passage" and Jungian psychology to explain the questioning of identity and purpose. He emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and the "journey not the destination." His documentary "Limitless" is a key topic, revealing his genetic predisposition to Alzheimer's and his father Craig's diagnosis. Hemsworth shares poignant insights on caregiving, stressing the value of asking loved ones about their fears and ensuring they feel purposeful, rather than a burden.
The conversation also touches on longevity through "blue zones," highlighting community and purpose as critical factors. They critique social media's harmful effects, particularly on youth, and praise Australia's ban for under-16s. Hemsworth discusses his film "Crime 101," a morally complex heist thriller, and shares humorous stories, including a kangaroo fight video and meeting Australian comedians. The interview concludes with heartfelt advice on cherishing time with aging parents, underscoring that connection, not material gifts, matters most.
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Today's guest is an actor.
He's a producer.
He's a life explorer, if you will.
He has a new film out that's called Crime 101.
It's in theaters right now.
You can go check it out.
I had a good. I had a good time getting to know this Australian gentleman.
Today's guest is Mr. Chris Hemsworth.
Shine on me
And I will find a song
I've been singing
Almost.
Australians, I think they just. I feel like they're more like risque with their lives, kind of.
Yeah, there is a lack of. Well, it's risk-averse due to either the lack of fear
or the extra amount of stupidity at times.
Yeah.
It kind of fluctuates.
It's a beautiful bravery, though, that they have, you know?
Yeah.
And even like when you travel,
like one thing I remember from just traveling a lot
was just seeing Australians everywhere.
They pop up in anything, you know?
Like you turn on a tap in another country,
like you're pouring a beer and a couple of Australians
just come out on surfboards, kind of a boogie board.
As an Australian, that's always problematic.
It's like you go to a country to get away from Australia
and have a different cultural experience,
and it's, oh, g'day, mate, shit.
Yeah, I know you, and the next minute you're all at the bar together
doing what you did back home.
Yeah.
Yeah, I could totally see that, man.
Where does that nature come from in Australians to go?
Is that like a. Because, I mean, it's a serious thing that I think everyone would say
is that you go anywhere and there's Australians there.
I think it's. You know, we're quite isolated where we are, you know?
And for such a. We're a young country as far as the. You know, the White Settlement being there, you know,
in the last sort of 200 and so years,
and there's been always a sense of adventure
either across the country itself
or just the need to get out and explore
because, again, it's not like, you know, if you're in Europe,
you're, you know, jumping from France to Italy to London
and you can have, you know, different cultural experiences
within, you know, a two-hour train ride.
For us, it's a big adventure, you know, pack a backpack
and you're on several flights and. Buses and trains and boats and whatever.
And so there is a. There is an adventurous spirit,
but I think, you know, all the guys I grew up with,
it was like finish high school and go backpacking around the world.
So that's like a big thing where people are like,
when they finish, they're like, when they finish high school,
it's like, I'm going to get out of here,
I'm going to go experience something.
Yeah.
Is it almost taboo if you don't, in a way,
that if you don't have, like, a. No, I think it just comes from not having figured out
what you want to do next, you know?
And, like, I had probably 50-50 with my group of friends
who. Knew what they were doing.
They were going to, you know,
a couple of them went into a trade
and a couple of them went to university
and then a couple of them were like,
I've got no idea and maybe I'll find it in, you know, Peru
or wherever I'm going to go backpacking
and, you know, cross paths with folks
that might inspire something else in me.
But, yeah.
Did you do something like that?
I know you grew up, like, partially in the outback
and partially in Melbourne, right?
Yeah.
Grew up in Melbourne, then lived in Northern Territory,
an Aboriginal community about four hours southeast of Catherine
and, like, in the middle of. In the middle of nowhere.
And that was my earliest, most vivid memories.
But that. Were there in the bush, kind of?
Yeah.
Like, there was an Aboriginal community,
a bunch of Aboriginal communities in the region we lived in
and, I mean, all out through, all across Northern Territory.
But where we were, the proximity,
there were sort of three or four communities
that my dad worked, ran, like, a cattle station
and then ran, like, a community centre.
And I went up there when I was five or six
and then came back to Melbourne
and then again when I was, like, seven, eight, nine, you know,
so a couple of different times.
But as far as the backpacking thing,
I started working when I was 18.
I ended up on a soap opera
and then that kind of took me, you know,
straight into what I'm doing now.
But I kind of miss that.
And I do look back,
and I was especially speaking to a lot of friends of mine
that had this sort of crazy adventure
prior also to being famous and prior to being recognised
and you could just kind of get into a bunch of trouble
and explore.
Explore the world and, you know, make all those mistakes
and hopefully learn something from them.
I feel like that period I do,
there's a romanticism that I sort of,
or a nostalgia that I long for
that I wish I had done that prior to sort of, you know,
jumping into the working world.
Yeah, it's one thing it's a downside of celebrity or popularity
is that, yeah, there's things you can't kind of go do,
like, in a, like, yeah, like, sometimes I'll romanticise as well,
like, being like, oh, I'd like to go there, go there,
but then I'm like, it would be more uncomfortable now
or it would be some type of way.
Did you do it after school?
Did you ever get a chance to travel and. Yeah, yeah.
I had a girlfriend, we went over there
and that was like a seven-country fight we went on.
Oh, man, I fought in so many territories.
Like, oh, man, I thought I was, like,
working with Napoleon or something over there.
It was a lot of, oh, yeah, I should get a medal for that.
And so should she, I'm going to say that.
What was the drama, what was it coming from?
Just, I think you don't know
how you are when it's, like, stressful out there
when you're on trains and you're moving your bags all the time
and we booked too many places to go see.
Like, we should have done four days in each spot
and we tried to do, like, two days, nine spots
instead of do, like, four spots, five days.
And so you're just constantly on the go
and you just, I would be sneaking off
and just drinking wine by myself and, like,
and then one night I took, I went off to the grocery by myself
and somebody had, like, a hit,
a LSD or something.
It was, like, probably a pretty, you know,
nouveau grocery, I guess.
Because, I mean, it wasn't on the shelves,
but it was available in the parking lot, you know,
which I consider an extension of the grocery.
But, yeah, so then I came back there
and I was, like, I thought it would, like, boost my spirits
and then it was just a long, that was horrible.
And that time we were, like, in a camping sort of environment
where there were outhouses and stuff and so.
In what country?
That was outside of Venice.
Yeah.
Yeah, so.
Yeah.
But it was great, but it was just, like,
that was just a lot, you know.
I'm too much in.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But, yeah, like, going on that, doing something like that now,
it would just feel, like.
Yeah.
It would feel tougher.
And I'm sure, yeah, it's, like, you're Chris Hemsworth now,
so it's, like, there's, you know, that name is bigger than you.
And so it's, like.
It's interesting because I sort of had a point in my life
where, I don't know if you find this,
but every few years you're kind of, you know,
what was the goal at one point quickly becomes the norm
and then you're on to something else
and then it's this sort of reassessment.
It's a process of, like, what my purpose is around
or the why as to doing this thing
and I'm chasing it for one reason and then it's for something else.
And I'm at that sort of point where I'd love to sort of step away
on one hand and, you know, do a little sort of soul searching
and dig a little deeper and sort of get a little more solitude
and time for yourself.
But I think what would that look like?
You know, it's like.
The idea that's romantic, that feels like.
Yeah, it's not.
But then the reality, it's hard to, like, say,
well, would I be okay in that footing?
Yeah, like, I'm not going backpacking at 42
and I've got three kids and then that's not my kind of.
Yeah, your backpack will be full.
Yeah, it'll be full, full of all three of them.
But it was, but more just the kind of,
the way you see the world through when you are famous
and recognized versus when you're not, you know,
different things.
People interact differently to you, you know, for good and bad,
but also the opportunities that sort of present themselves
and the pleasure.
Yeah.
And the places you can kind of inhabit
become a little limited, you know, in that sense.
But, you know, it's what it is.
Yeah.
The world's your oyster, but it's like, you know, it's.
You have this opportunity, but there's a restriction.
There is such a restriction to your,
how much you can really involve yourself in it.
You know, it becomes very observational.
You know, we're going to press tour.
Yes.
And you go to, like, 10 different countries
and it's like, God, that must be amazing.
It's like.
Yeah.
From the hotel room, you know, you're looking out
and then, you know, if you're, there's posters
and so on around the streets of your face everywhere,
then it's even more difficult.
But it's, yeah, I, and not to say you can't navigate
your way around it at times.
Right.
And we're not complaining, but no, it's an interesting look
and that's, it's a good thought.
Yeah.
You can only, it becomes very observational.
Yeah.
Which, which, look, hey, is not a negative either at times.
It's sort of.
It's what it is.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's, I think of,
like popularity and stuff like that.
It's just interesting to be part of an experience
Like, okay, this is what it's like.
That's kind of how I now like, okay, there's good parts,
there's bad parts.
I don't think of it as me really as much as like,
okay, I'm in this setting and this is the experience.
- And it's also, it's like the sort of polarity of things.
Like every time you solve one problem,
life has a way of presenting another challenge
and not even a problem.
It's like in order to be able to evolve and growth,
the adversity that's shifted your way.
And I think that's the sort of the misconception, I suppose,
is the assuming that this, that, and the other will,
I'll be void of those problems.
- It'll solve it all.
- And so what comes with huge benefit
in being like your recognizable personality
and so on and fame and all that is incredible.
And it comes with its own things as does in any industry.
I remember talking to my mom about this years ago.
She was a high school teacher and I was like,
ah, man, it's really tricky at work.
The cast and the producer and then does the film work in this?
And she said, yes, I could kind of line those things up
parallel to my experience.
And the students might be my audience
and the principals, the producer and so on.
And it's like, that's life, that's the experience.
And I think I've gotten much better at sort of not
egoically thinking that my experiences,
which are somehow separate, different, or unique.
It's like whatever industry, whatever demographic,
wherever you're born,
your kind of life has a way of throwing you
the same sort of options, I guess,
to appreciate things in its truest form,
rather than sort of goal-seeking
or accumulating or whatever.
- Yeah, the game doesn't really change.
It's like, you don't think of like,
oh, these problems are different.
It's just like, okay, now there's new things
and that's just life.
There's not really like, yeah,
I don't think that popularity or celebrity
is an escape from the truth of things,
if you're realistic.
- Yeah, for sure.
And there's certainly, you know,
there's a sort of, we see countless times again and again,
the sort of, I guess the, not even the purity,
but the sort of the motivation behind pursuing something,
if it is for the assumption of it solving all the problems,
like you get ready for a rude awakening and it's like,
oh, shit, that didn't answer all the questions I had,
or it did momentarily.
And then, you know, there's a new set the next morning.
And so, kind of surrendering to that has been,
I think that's the, I'd say the gift in,
I think, experience any form of fame
or sort of celebrity or whatever,
is that you get to kind of see behind the curtain
and you get to have that realisation that from afar,
most people are always gonna be living with the assumption
that it might bring you something.
- Way better behind the curtain.
- Yeah.
- And you get behind the curtain, you're like, oh, shit.
- I'm on the other side again.
I'm back to the, I'm back in line.
- Yeah, yeah, you open the curtain,
you realise it's just a mirror.
- Yeah, yeah, exactly that, exactly that, yeah.
- Hey, Zach, I'm getting a little bit of reverb.
I don't know if it's from the audio in the other room.
- Have Chris pull his mic down just a hair.
- Oh, down a bit?
- Perfect.
- It's up my nose now, isn't it?
- Yeah, we wanna see your face, dude,
because this is, you know what I'm saying?
That's what people wanna see, you know what I'm saying?
Dude, God, dang, dude, yeah, your frickin' looks maxing
or whatever they call it, you know?
It's gotta be crazy just being so handsome sometimes, dude.
I bet your mirror, whenever it sees you,
it's like, oh, yeah.
I bet your mirror makes a positive sound, you know?
- Look, man, does anyone--
- Does this seem gay at all?
Sorry if it does.
- No, no, just the two of us in a room alone, it's fine.
I feel like--
- Whatever, dude.
You know what I'm saying?
- No, I appreciate--
- Call me a Fosters with some tits on it.
- You're a handsome fella, too, mate.
- I don't know, dude.
I'm side of the road handsome.
Like, if people are going by at, like, 50 miles an hour,
they're like, hey, I think that guy was okay looking.
- I'm sitting right next to you,
and I'm admiring what I see, mate.
- I'm hitchhiker handsome.
Well, thank you, dude. - Yeah, I'd pick you up
if you were hitchhiking.
- Thanks, bro.
You would?
- Absolutely.
Where are you headed? - Hell yeah.
You can't even hitchhike in America anymore
because, like, I think either the people
picking up hitchhikers were, like, killing the hitchhikers,
or the hitchhikers were killing the people,
but it became like--
- Really?
- It became like a real--
- You see Wolf Creek, that film years ago?
Yeah. - Yeah, dude.
- I think that kind of ended hitchhiking in Australia
for a good decade or two.
- Yeah, dude.
Do motion pictures realize that they,
just one motion picture about something,
ruins the ability to get somewhere across a continent?
- That ruined hitchhiking,
and Jaws ruined the whole ocean experience.
- Oh, God, yeah.
- I had, on hitchhiking, I was in Vancouver once.
Jaws, I was shooting a movie there,
like, 15 years ago, and driving back from Whistler,
and it was like seven, eight o'clock at night,
and picked up a hitchhiker,
and thought, "Hey, this is so good."
And it started to get real sort of creepy,
and starts kind of asking me, like,
"What are you doing?
"Where are you from?
"And what are you up to?"
And like, getting a little too sort of personal,
and, "Where are you staying?"
And whatever, and so I immediately start
kind of, you know, filling in sort of,
"Yeah, I just do heaps of martial arts,
"and, you know, a lot of jiu-jitsu,
"and a big background in boxing,"
and, you know, telling, like, fight stories,
and seeing if that's gonna--
sort of, like, sway the thing.
And, thankfully, nothing happened,
but it was that, like, moment
where you're sizing each other up, going,
"Well, I don't know anything about you,
"and you don't know anything about me,
"and we could be--
- How does this go?
Yeah, like, how does this story end?
You start thinking, "Yeah, how does this story end,
"and what role am I gonna play in it?"
- Yeah, is it knife or gun, or whatever, but--
- Yeah, that is one thing that is nice,
I would say, about picking up hitchhikers.
I've picked up a fair share over the years,
and it's really like,
"Okay, let's see what God wants for me today."
- Yeah, sure.
- You know?
- Mark Ruffalo, we were at a music festival in Australia,
and just, you know, such a lovely human being,
and picked up a couple of hitchhikers,
and then, the next day, I spoke to him,
and he goes, "I got back at, like, 7:00 a.m."
And I was like, "Well, you left at, like, 2:00?"
And he's like, "Yeah, but I picked up these young kids,"
and they were like, you know,
18-year-old, nine-year-old kids,
and they were like, "Yeah, we're going in that direction."
And I didn't have the heart to tell him
I was going the other direction,
so I ended up going this, like, four-hour detour.
- That's big-hearted.
- That's it, that's a Ruffalo.
- Yeah.
I mean, that's also insane
to be driving with children that far.
That seems very--
- Eight-year-old to nine-year-old, from a festival.
It was like kids, you know, they were sort of--
- Okay, adult children.
- Young folk, and yeah.
- Schoolies, they call them, eh?
- Yeah, yeah, schoolies.
And then, the toolies are the older ones hanging around,
which, they're the older-age kind of creeps
that are hanging around.
- Oh, they call them toolies.
Oh, that's good.
- Yeah.
- Oh, yeah, 'cause they should have a trade by that point,
so it's okay.
- They should have a job and not be hanging around.
Eight-year-olds.
- Yeah, pick up a hammer, you know?
Do something.
Was there kind of a point where you started to like,
I think it's interesting what you said about,
you know, you get to certain moments,
and you kind of like,
you're like, okay, what's going on now?
It's kind of like you're in life,
a lot of times it does feel like that.
And recently, I think it's been like that for me,
where it's like, I feel like you're underwater
for a long time, and not in a bad way or anything.
You're just, you're in the mix of life,
and you're doing things, and then you get to a point,
you're like,
okay, let me come up and see what's going on,
and why am I, why, like, what goals did I set?
And where am I now?
And then what do, where do I want to be next?
Or what things are important to me now?
You know, or like, how I, you know,
what strokes do I want to use next in my life
to get me to where I want to be
at the next checkpoint, sort of?
- For sure.
Yeah, and I feel--
- Has it been like kind of a recent thing
that's been going on, or is it just--
- Definitely, definitely, yeah.
I read this book called "The Middle Passage,"
which is, you know,
a gentler term for a midlife crisis.
- Dude, yes.
- Like James Hollis, and it's Jungian psychology,
and it's beautiful because it talks about, you know,
this sort of personification of self,
and this, you know, the gathering of our identity
as children, and due to our, you know,
family bonds and ties, societal expectations.
It could be religious, community, whatever.
And you go through life attempting to present
what you think the world wants from you.
Some of it you may have some input in
as far as what you want,
but a lot of it is kind of an assembling to fit in.
And then you get to this certain point,
usually around your 30s, 40s,
where that mask, that personification
starts to wear thin and doesn't hold up.
And there's this inner protest,
and Jung talks about from the soul, the psyche,
rises up and says, "There's a deeper truth here
"and a meaning, and what is it, and what is my contribution?"
And it comes around like when people find themselves
in a place of servitude to something outside of themselves,
you know, and it's like you service yourself for so long
and as a sort of survival and to, you know,
maintain a position in the workforce and so on.
And then all of a sudden it's like,
there's something deeper that I haven't answered.
And I find, and your purpose even shifts around like,
the why for doing things.
You know, like it might purely be,
you know, I was saying this before,
but the sort of purity around your motivations
and, you know, what is your heart saying?
What is your passion?
That's all very well, but you got to pay the bills.
And so to be sort of financially motivated
for a purity of your life and to take care of folks
and family and so on, one thing.
And then, okay, that's sort of now--
- That's in a safe place.
- That's in a safe place.
And what's the next thing?
And it's. I think if you're lucky enough to find that thing
that speaks to you on a sort of a deeper level,
but also allows you to function and operate in the world
and be sort of financially motivated,
secure then then great um but i sort of find myself bouncing around with those questions a
lot more than i ever have and a lot more sort of indecision and a lot more i had this sort of
not naive but pretty strong sort of um relentless your confidence and pursuit when everything i was
doing and i was gonna and it was when things were as far out of reach as possible same and then what
i had all of a sudden you sort of arrive and you have these things that were going to bring you all
of that fulfillment and you they do momentarily and then you start to come up short you're like
god what is it there's this there's this other sort of burning desire or voice that requires
attention and it and that you know is around i think solitude and sort of a slight separation
from the busyness of sort of life and and work and all the trappings to answer some of those
questions and none of you know i haven't
come up with a lot of the answers to that but i think it's a it's a it's a it's a it's a
finite conclusion but i i find the more i enjoy the mystery of that question and and and the
seeking and the adventure and that the path that that takes you on then with without an attachment
to an outcome i've found myself a lot happier the better off you are yeah and a lot more at
peace with the the ebb and flow and things however rapid that pendulum may be swinging
yeah yeah i want to know that's the thing sometimes i just want it like yeah i want to know and i
want to know now and i want to know like sometimes for my own safety it's like yeah because i don't
want to be in limbo you know but yeah i think having that space of like yeah what of embracing
the okay i don't know right now yeah and may and that's okay and that is what is going on yeah and
let me enjoy this somehow and living in the questions not the answers you know this sort of
i think that there's a danger in definitives you know there's a sort of almost a lack of humility
in that too and this is
where all of our sort of problems arise is my voice is correct and yours is incorrect and mine
versus yours but allowing there to be mystery questions curiosity and i think then
there's an abundance of opportunity to to learn that the new things start to come your way
where as soon as i kind of go i've got it i've figured it out and i put
it in a box or myself or other people or scenarios the world just obliterates that immediately and then
you're left with that disappointment and it's that expectation that i'm gonna figure it out is i think
is i think that the trapping you know and so but this takes real
courage and bravery in in the surrendering to that and and the willingness just to go
wow this this sort of um you know universal kind of the cosmic dance or this adventure we're on
is supposed to be fun and and the sort of the most serious thing you can do is not take it so
serious you know and and i find myself
the polarity of things coming back to this all the time
going okay but what does that mean and then there's that brief sort of moment of stillness
of i don't know and it's just being okay with the i don't know yeah yeah dude so a lot of times like
yeah like when it comes to like um feeling just kind of in the world and in between spaces and
uncertain i want it's almost like you know when you're a kid and you run and you want to get your
foot on the base yeah it's like that's how i want just i want to have my foot on a base i want to
have something that feels like it's certain or at least like as certain for like as a kid waiting on
for like i just want to know that's where i have to be as opposed to being like i'm going to stand
here while the third basement and the shortstop throw the ball back and forth yeah and i'm going
to be the guy in the middle and i'm going to enjoy that yeah because the truth is as a viewer and i'm
just using like baseball analogy the the best part of the viewing is you start to smile when that guy
is in between the short second and third baseman and they're throwing the ball and you're like how
is this going to go yeah for sure that's really where the most joy kind of is that's and that's
the the anticipation the mystery the sort of immersion in the adventure and now it's like
you know you this is why we pick up books we want to flick to the end we want to know what the end
is and same with life and then you get to the end and you're like oh geez actually it was all the
tropey things you've heard before that you know the journey not the destination
so on and i think that um and i wrestle with that all the time and then a bit later i think i'm going
to but i've gotten better with understanding that i might have a handle on it today and i
won't tomorrow and that's okay you know as opposed to kind of just needing that definitive like what
is it about but i mean if we if we knew if there was you know the reason we um you know the sort
of understanding of our own mortality is what allows us to appreciate and love things you know
without a sort of conclusion at some point and an end to it there wouldn't be we wouldn't even know it
we wouldn't appreciate anything right what would life be then yeah you don't know love without loss
and you don't know and and so yet we spend so much time trying to either figure out the answer
or avoid suffering yet they're you know the the joy and the love and the loss is one of the same
thing and without this you know and um dang dude it's kind of i i do riddles with myself around it
and i don't know about you but i was a kid at night time that would kind of be sitting there
at garner what is what does the end of life look like in the end of life
and if it's just blackness if it's nothing what can i still think in the nothing or is it like
nothing nothing am i you know that's sort of yeah do i have any toys in there am i like like talk to
someone still or is it just like it's just black yeah is there a lunchable you know like yeah like
tell me just tell me that the nothing has lunch yeah that's crazy bro i'm realizing that you're
like a smart guy stalking a good-looking guy you're not like a good looking guy that's just
like you know oh sorry and that's a judgment dude
but no you know sorry that was just like a judgment a lot of questions yeah that's a good
way to be man i just yeah sometimes i want to be at the end of the sentence so i feel safe you know
yeah i just want to like uh it gets scary i was just talking with um we just had kevin james on
and we're talking about like even like uh like if especially like if i'm in a relationship or like
with women or even just sometimes a buddy and stuff i will if there's quietness like downtime if it's
silent yeah i'll just start being like what else is going on like i'll have to fill it in you know
it's like i won't i it's hard for me to leave the opportunity for something different to bloom
but then i crave there to be like like whimsy and unique experiences and stuff like that so i think
this conversation is neat just to even have a thought about that because i think even just
talking about this will be a reminder of like next time i'm in some of those moments like
let me just see what happens here yeah you
know yeah um do you ever read anything ellen watts i hear a lot of his like audio and stuff
my mom always sends it to me it's this beautiful thing about love and about the idea of like
falling in love the absurdity of falling and he said it's you know people say oh it's crazy to
fall in love but how um but but the act of falling is a risk in itself and a surrender you don't say
rising to love and so anything that's worth pursuing that that has you know that brings comfort and love
and joy and whatever there is an act of surrender that occurs at some point and and that that that
again in the sort of being okay with the unknown that gives me sort of comfort that's there's
something that's a good point dude yeah it's falling it's like you don't rise to love you
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when you get to places where you like uh are trying to find more time for peace i
know you had a sh the documentary you did called limitless yeah yeah um and i know you have your new
movie crime 101 and um we want to talk about some of that i watched it last night and uh but yeah was
stuff that you learned like because limitless is about you kind of experiencing different things
to challenge yourself is that a good thing to say yeah it was it was i've done two seasons of it and
then i did a an individual episode with my dad but it was a show about longevity and the science
longevity in the first season i was very much the the guinea pig um in the name of science then i
would be thrown into you know like say so an episode on cold water exposure let's show the
benefits and you can swim in the arctic you know for five minutes and you know try and survive or
you can you know the benefits of of muscle mass for the brain and we'll do a strength episode so
climb a 200 meter damn wall and and so it was all these kind of you know pretty extreme um examples
of of of representing the science we were talking about um the second season i had a bit more agency
with and it was great and i was less of a guinea pig and i had a bit more of a sort of
um educated opinion around each topic um but i wouldn't say i set out to do it for i
didn't know it was just sort of came my way and sound like a fun thing to do and yeah it seems
really interesting to go through those moments and just to like almost have a buffet of things
where like i'm going to try these and see what it's like what was your one of your biggest takeaways
from it like as a practice for yourself um if there were any or was there enough of an experience
there even to have a like no is it too much of a production to take away oh no there was a lot
profound effect on me especially the second season and the first season without me realizing what
was occurring like there was all the obvious things about you know strength training and
and you know cognitive health and um cold water hot exposure um you know fasting and so on
but the the episode i did with my dad called a road trip to remember um was the most profound
one because he he was diagnosed with alzheimer's about four or five years ago and he was genetically
predisposed to it right yeah he and your mom yeah and that's how we found out because i
i did my blood work on that on that show and found out that i had two copies of the apo e4 gene which
is you you get a copy from your mom copy from your dad either a two or three they both gave you a copy
they both gave me a copy but they both gave me the worst copy which is the four which when i was a
four four which is like one in i think a thousand people have but they so i remember being with my
dad and telling him about it and going oh i don't know if this is a kind of a you know it's not a
death sentence it's not a predeterministic gene but it's like a big warning sign and he said oh
don't worry mate we'll figure it out yeah and how many times am i gonna have to tell him about it if
he but he didn't we didn't know he was and then five years later he got diagnosed and i remember
sitting there telling him don't worry dad we'll figure it out and and and so we went on this this
journey this um it's called a road trip to remember it's this thing called reminiscence
therapy where you go back into your past stimulate memories and um experiences to stimulate the
hippocampus which is the part of the brain that dementia is attacking oh dang your dad's joe biden
crazy dude it's uh but um we're spending time with him it's kind of a it's kind of a love letter to
him um and we it's not you know i was kind of hoping for a silver bullet to fix it but it became
more about connection it became more about like the things i got to say to him and ask him about
his concerns and fears around the disease i probably wouldn't have asked him otherwise and
so it forced this kind of really beautiful intimate um the series of conversations and um
and gave him some agency i think you know because they begin to feel like you know they're a patient
or they're a burden you know and all of a sudden this was about him um and i did i watched a shift
and and and the big one being social connection the most important thing i took away from both of
those seasons was support group friendships and connection and and the people in blue zones you
know where people live over 100 or the you know the most centurions in in the population within
regions around the world
the commonality is is having a wonderful sense of community and a wonderful support network um
and then whether or not they drank alcohol or smoked or whatever it was like it you know the
the lack of or the reduction in stress due to support networks and friendships and well well
yeah they say that in recovery i'm in a lot of recovery communities and they say that connection
is the uh is the opposite of um of uh addiction yeah right yeah that connection
it's like yeah i mean i was in a meeting this morning like a zoom meeting and it's like yeah
i'm sitting there just listening to guys share what's going on with them that's real yeah and
some of them say things that i i've always wanted to say and i didn't know i could but i couldn't
make the words and then they made the words for me and so there's a part of me that like
starts to feel like okay that's not a crazy pieces of a thought that you've had
yeah that's a real thing and somebody else just put it together for you and um but yeah just
being able to connect they say is the opposite of addiction yeah bring that back up the
blue zones i've never heard of this it's where there's the most amount of people who have
lived to be 100 live to be 100 yeah um and i think there's like japan somewhere in italy
we got okinawa japan yeah icaria greece sardinia italy nicoya and uh that's costa rica yeah and
loma linda but hold on there's none over by australia you guys didn't get one yeah i don't
know if they skipped us
probably because of the danger species the danger of the things that try and kill us yeah
we're too busy backpacking to the places you guys are too busy over there making people happy in
those places probably blue zones are regions of the world where people have unusually long and
healthy lives the many residents reaching age 90 to 100 while staying relatively free of major
chronic disease researchers use blue zone to describe geographically limited areas where rates
of centenarians are far higher than expected and older adults remain active and independent
that's a huge thing that
they remain active and independent what work still working as well like still having some form of
purpose right oh purpose is huge we talk about that all the time in here yeah that if you people
lose their purpose then what do we have do you ever read uh man's search for meaning victor
frankl uh i have read that that's you know the purposeful suffering he calls it but watching
people in um you know when he was in the prison camp and in our switch how because he was a
psychoanalyst or a therapist and he went in and people all under the same horrific circumstances
environment and why some people's body was would give up and others wouldn't and it was often when
they found out that a loved one or family had been killed or died they then their spirit their
soul their body gave up and so he produced uh logo therapy which was about sort of giving a
purpose behind whatever adversity you're facing and and giving a sense of meaning to whatever the
suffering is you're going through but but again with the centurions people um who it's not not
not retiring basically and that doesn't mean work yourself there's difference between working
yourself into the into the grave but also you know the work could be you have a garden to maintain
you have a you know yeah you have grandchildren to keep tabs on you have a you have a trip to
plan you're helping with uh one of your children's activities yeah i think that a lot with my own mom
as she gets older it's like you know i want her to be free of things if she doesn't want to work she
likes to work she like delivers for amazon and stuff she just loves it she's like you know i'll
call her and she's like i'm just sitting in the uh lot of or she'll deliver for like whole foods
different um just kind of chain places or something yeah she's like i'm just sitting here in the lot
just waiting for a uh for a route or whatever you know and i just i just fit her in her van she's
just sitting there she's 70 something and she's just waiting to you know deliver a catalytic
converter to some guy across town um thank you for bringing this up this is so fascinating i want to
talk about some of these just so we can um that people know some of the things from these blue
zones um despite very different cultures blue zones share several recurring features natural
movement lots of walking gardening and manual chores built into daily life uh plant-based diet
high in vegetables beans and whole grains um strong social ties like we were talking about
multi-generational living so probably having your family members around you
um tara swart was in she's a neuroscientist she's an author she's
she's fascinating lady and she was saying that um the when you feel the best a lot of people that
feel the best when you have the best feeling in a home is when there's a lot of people in the home
yeah when there's just like multi-generations like uh and those families often get the best
sleep because there's just like a there's a connectivity going on yeah um low chronic stress
just a few more of these blue zone uh common lifestyle patterns a clear sense of purpose
and generally optimistic
engaged attitudes in light regular alcohol or none in some places people drink small amounts of wine
um in other places they avoid it entirely like in sardini italy they got a you'll see a dang
six-year-old out there drinking yeah you know yeah i mean that's the thing it's a lot like a
you know he's like oh i'll have a chardonnay and some peppa pig you know it's like you'll
see a five-year-old on his tablet ordering a damn cabernet i know it's like it's kind of will be bad
well i think this is just proof that there's ways to do it right and this that this is document this
is like data that shows that there's ways to uh to have a life that's the most comfortable if you can
because it's sort of it's like the sort of you know stress being the biggest killer and you know
the cause of chronic disease and so on stress i find like the amount of stress involved in the
idea of achieving perfection or doing things perfectly you know and i get asked all the time
about like you know you must you know never eat sugar or never
drink alcohol trying seven days a week and so on and it's like all right periods where i've gone
into the extreme realm but they're not when i've been my happiest or my healthiest yeah
like what do you do when a birthday cake comes i just
smash it.
I love a birthday cake.
And what are you supposed to be,
that weirdo?
Yeah,
no.
What kind of life is that?
You're not going to enjoy
in all the sort of,
you know.
Yeah,
what do you do when a freaking,
because I'll do low sugar,
you know,
I'll do no sugar really,
but sometimes if a birthday cake comes,
dude,
what are you going to be?
Some guy just over there,
just,
you know,
just carving up a cucumber.
Who am I going to,
you know what I'm saying?
Some dude over there,
just sneaking a carrot out of his pocket.
Just a little crudite in the corner.
Just a little bit of icing.
And that's not creepier to the kids
that the people at the party
is you're over there.
You tell me that guy's not stressed.
He's,
that's,
that's a huge amount of stress involved
in just smuggling that carrot into the party
and then having to explain it.
Yeah.
Showing up at his birthday party
with a couple of carrots in your pocket
is way more stressful.
And you're right,
dude.
How there's,
and there's a different stress
of being the person
who's sneakily eating crudite,
as you called it,
as other people are enjoying a birthday cake.
That is a different type of like,
how many people do you meet
who are,
you know,
it's often with your grandparents
and they smoke cigarettes
and drink alcohol
and, you know,
I'd steak and eggs every day
and they're living to,
you know,
90, 100.
But again,
and I'm not saying any of that is the,
you know,
here's my top 10 tips to live longer.
But there,
I think that that was in a time
when you did have more family members in the house.
If you just said like grandparents,
cousins,
everyone lived in this sort of smaller communities
and we're also spread out now.
And I don't know about you,
but like,
in the last sort of five,
10 years,
worked really hard to bring my family
kind of closer and closer
and we all live in the same area
for that reason
because it's,
I think a lot of us grew up
or definitely through history,
we grew up with bigger households
with, you know,
shared responsibility.
And now you have these little secular
sort of, you know,
houses where you don't even know your neighbors
and your grandparents live somewhere else.
And it feels good when your family's around.
I know we were,
you know what?
There's layers to life then,
I think,
when they're around.
Like there's nothing better
than when you're feeling horrible
and sad about yourself
to be able to look across the room
and look at one of your parents' eyes
and be like,
this is your fault.
Yeah.
And you can't do that
if you're at home by yourself.
You can't blame anyone
if you're sitting there
looking in the mirror,
you know,
and then you're like,
your fault.
That doesn't work.
Yeah.
And I think maybe we're going to be
getting back towards that
and we may not have a choice
just because of like the cost of living
and things like that.
But my niece just moved in
back in with my sister.
Like, I don't know.
And things like that,
I think it's kind of nice.
Like there is something
that's fun about
feeling like a part of something.
Even if you're like
kind of a curmudgeon about it,
like, oh, I live back at home.
But good for you.
Good for you.
Absolutely.
Plenty of time
to sort of live on your own.
Good for you.
And to get to see your stepdad's nuts
hanging out of his freaking undershorts
once a year.
Once a year,
once a week even.
What a joy.
Yeah, dude.
The fucking Lord's mistletoe.
That's the best, brother.
With your father,
how is he doing today?
He's good.
Look, compared to
there are a couple other
family members
and close by folks
that were going through
or had the same diagnosis
around the same time
who were in a catatonic vegetable state.
He's, you know,
he could sit here with us
and talk to us
and you might not even know,
you know,
and you spend enough time
and it's the short term memories.
And then it's the wrong kind of stress
that then is really evident,
you know,
like stress for him
training in the gym.
So on and solving
a crossword puzzle.
Great.
But like not finding his keys
and then, you know,
losing things
and then beating himself up about it.
Oh, yeah.
Then they'll watch his memory
go really bad.
Wow.
So stress is such a big activator.
Oh, it's huge.
Yeah.
He went down,
he rides motorbikes
and used to race motorbikes
and went down
to put some gas
in the petrol tank
and then it wouldn't start.
And so mum came,
picked him up,
went back home.
He got home
and he said,
yeah, I needed the key.
And she's like,
no, no, no,
it just didn't start.
And, you know,
he's like,
got the spare key,
went back down,
didn't start again.
He's like,
and he did that three times
for the day.
By the time
that I was at work,
I got home
and I went and I said,
look,
I'll just come pick him up,
pick the bike up.
I put the bike
on the back of the car
and he was like,
all right,
we're going to your place
to get my car,
aren't we?
And I said,
no,
they were taking your bike home.
And he's like,
what bike?
And he had like twice
in this 10 minute drive
turn around
and see the bike
in the back of the truck.
And that was as strong
as I've seen it
and as sort of confronting
why once that problem
had been solved,
he could sort of,
there was a calm
and it was better.
But he's doing good, man.
What's his name?
Craig.
Hey, Craig.
What's up, Craig?
Yeah.
Cheers from the US, mate.
Yeah, he's a legend.
Good day, sir.
And what's his trade been in his life?
He was-
Oh, a cattle man.
Well, no,
he worked in child protection
for most of his career.
And then when we went
to Northern Territory,
and he mustered cattle,
he was,
that was just for,
just a window.
Trying something different.
Had family up there
who were doing it.
And in the documentary,
we end up back
in the Aboriginal community
we lived in.
And a couple of the guys,
they called him,
they said,
he's a Chuck Norris
looking motherfucker
because he had this long ponytail
and he would like,
you know,
pull cattle down
by the tail
and tie them up.
I love a male Rapunzel.
Male Rapunzel.
There's nothing
I love more, brother.
Oh, that's beautiful, dude.
And child protection,
what exactly is that?
Yeah, he would,
he would,
to children who would,
you know,
neglect family violence,
abuse,
go into the home
and basically have to,
you know,
assess the situation,
present evidence to a court,
talk to the police department
and work out,
you know,
what should happen
and is this child
in a safe position?
Oh, wow.
And huge responsibility
and,
and,
and,
and,
you know,
I watched the toll
that took on him
over the years
when he just couldn't,
there were certain things
he,
he wasn't able to fix,
you know,
and it was,
and you do one,
so solve one thing
and feel like you were,
you know,
have momentum
and then the next day
there's,
you know,
a big pile of other cases
on the desk
and so,
but very much in service
to others
and has always been
fiercely protective
of kids
as this sort of
angelic sort of quality
to,
to his,
um,
integrity.
He's,
he's,
he's ready and willing.
Look,
I bet we could get him
30% of the vote right now
in America
to be our next president.
If we have somebody
that's protective
of children here,
we'll take it,
man.
Um,
and thank you
for your service,
Craig.
I think that stuff
like that is so important,
you know,
thinking about,
um,
the wellbeing of children.
I think there's nothing
that's more,
uh,
it's like the purest thing
that exists in the world.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Um,
so thank you for your service.
We appreciate that.
Um,
they just had a ban
for social media,
was it,
or cell phones
in Australia?
Yeah,
I think we're the first country
in the world
that,
that has had,
uh,
kids from 16 and under.
Yeah.
Australia has banned
social media for kids
under 16.
How does it work?
Yeah.
Under 16s in Australia
have been banned
from using major
social media services,
including TikTok,
X,
Facebook,
Instagram,
YouTube,
Snapchat,
and Threads.
Threads sucks.
They cannot set up
new accounts
and their existing profiles
were deactivated.
Wow.
I wonder if they all
had like a D-Day
when they were all like
gathered around,
like a fire or something.
This is the thing,
are they all now like
re-entering different ages
or is there,
I mean,
I don't know to what,
I mean,
I think it's a fantastic thing
and,
and,
the idea of it seems perfect.
Yeah.
And,
and it's execution.
I hope there's,
um,
you know,
it,
it,
it,
there's,
there's a positive
sort of navigation through it
because I'm sure,
you know,
my kids,
I change a passcode
on the phone or whatever
and they figure out
shit in,
you know,
seconds.
They're like little,
little genius hackers
with all of it,
but we try and keep them
4,000 or whatever.
That's it,
so it's the obvious one,
you know.
So,
exceptionally gorge male,
seven.
Aren't I lucky.
You're special too.
yeah,
I mean,
I,
this,
I,
hopefully this takes off
around the world.
I don't know.
I'm going to see
what this says here.
Australia's government
said the ban would reduce
the negative impact
of social media's
design features
that encourage young people
to spend more time
on screens
while also serving up content
that can harm their health
and well-being.
I don't know any human
that would disagree with that.
A study commissioned
in 2020
found that 96% of children
ages 10 to 15
use social media
and that 7 out of 10 of them
had been exposed
to harmful content.
This includes misogynistic
and violent material
as well as content
permitting eating disorders
and suicide.
yeah,
I'm curious,
what,
yeah,
can you look up on,
and this is perplexity
that we use to look things up.
Large studies
of more than 100,000
young adults
find that each
year of smartphone ownership
before age 13
is associated
with higher rates
of depression,
like symptoms,
suicidal thoughts,
aggression,
and detachment.
Detachment for sure.
I mean,
and to feel detached
when you're already
like in a place
where you're growing
and it's like
your footing is uncertain.
Girls show particularly
big drops
in emotional resilience
and self-esteem.
Cyber bullying
and harassment.
Phones and apps
mean bullying
can follow kids home,
which raises risks
of depression,
anxiety,
and self-harm.
Sleep disruption,
big one.
Yeah,
sleep disruption
and body image
in comparison.
Man,
well,
cheers to you guys
for like leading the charger.
I think Spain
just followed suit.
Is that right?
Oh,
really?
It's where my wife's from.
Oh,
is it?
Yeah.
You got a Spanish lady,
huh?
Yep.
Yep.
Fari.
Fari is your wife's name?
Fari.
No,
I said Fari.
Oh,
she's Fari.
Fari Energy.
Oh,
yeah.
Elsa is her name,
yeah.
Elsa,
like the movie.
Yeah,
Friesen.
As of February 26th,
Spain has announced
to ban social media access
for children under 16.
I don't know if we would ever do it here because I think we look at
children more as um okay to be victims of marketing and capitalism whereas in other
countries they maybe they don't you know i'm glad that australia is doing this do you feel like uh
it would take some getting used to there will be this group that has to be the one that loses it
yeah and then there will have to be the younger siblings of them that are like oh i wish we had
it but if you could get it to go for like a generation i think it would it would really
play into something beautiful 100 it's even like you know we were probably i don't know like
maybe when the phone first came on like how old are you i'm 45 45 so i'm gonna die soon we we all
are we were kind of the uh the guinea pigs for it in a way you know like i remember getting a phone
and it wasn't social media yeah just and all of it and then you look at and so you but we had
enough awareness of what came before like coming up
now
're now and only knowing that that's that that exists and every time i try and tell my kids like
that science around it they're like oh shut up you know and there's there's just no there's no um
comparison for them you know whereas and that's the comparison we knew the comparison we knew the
possibilities and we're still doing it and we still end up depressed and you know i don't know
about you but oh dude i noticed i've been off for a while yeah and i'm feeling better man yeah and
the algorithm oh yeah there should be a i've always thought there should be able to be like
legal recourse against an algorithm
because you're creating yeah a system like a a vitriol for me to then go and now it's just my
responsibility like i'm nine minutes on i hate a group and now i'm just back out into the world
also what that algorithm is created off a question it's not created off a an opinion it's i might have
curiosity or ask the question about this particular thing and it goes oh that's that's it and now
you're on that down that line and that that's the danger is it's it's making up your conclusion
you know is it giving you the definitive sort of this is how you now should vote or this is the way
you should be opinionated or this is who you should like or dislike based upon human curiosity
you know you like you might not be you know one political party supporter but you're having a look
at it next minute that's all you're seeing yeah you're fully on board it takes you from curious
to conviction it takes and it takes you there you're right in the beginning i'm just like oh
i'm curious about this yeah but then suddenly you're for your next seven videos are about it
and you're like now i have some sort of a conviction complete bias
opinion about it yeah and they can even serve it's almost like like here's the next stair step
here's the next stair step like they can do you know you're right though there should be
like at bare minimum they're not allowed to create an algorithm that encourages one thing it should
be you have to continue to put that search in the search engine as opposed to it going this is all
we're feeding you now because it's all perspective it's it's it's like your version of you know one
thing or my version of that is all around what i've been exposed to there's no kind of right and
that i've been fed by this fucking machine in my hand you know and on x they have people killing
each other yeah that's insane no my it's i mean my kids were talking about certain you know horrific
events and so on i was like where the hell did you say that and and it's it's there's nothing to
stop it you know oh dude well the craziest part is the other night i wake up i'm i for some reason
i'm like you know i'm obviously lonesome or whatever but so i'm like on x or whatever it's
like 3 15 in the morning i don't even know why i'm on there yeah i see two people and i'm like
two people get shot outside of a wendy's right and they don't even show you if people if emts come
they don't show you that part no it's just two people shot outside of a wendy's right and then
the next thing is an advertisement for wendy's that's it and i'm like now i'm hungry i don't
even care about the it's like i forgot yeah i was fucking it's insane and i'm like well do i need
two bags of platelets and an emt or a baconator yeah the complete sort of desensitization to
something and then the immediate the sort of bait and hooked into the product being sold it's
like and that you get taken from something that's so serious yeah and it's something that's so
trivial yeah that it's like it starts to like deteriorate the part of you that takes something
very serious serious yeah for sure yeah and for these kids now you got to walk over there and look
this girl in the eyes yeah and see that she might not be interested in you which is the genre that
we grew up in brother yeah if you want to call somebody fat you got to walk across town you got
to say it to them and then you got to see their big fat fill
come and hit you right in your smug face yeah no and there's no accountability that's the other
thing it's like the amount of like smart aleck sarcastic sort of you know sentiment and tone i
hear from sort of my kids and their mates based upon the lack of consequence like you said that
shit in high school school and you you felt it immediately went well a lesson to note yourself
don't say that again whereas now now you're like plugging all sorts of things on on your comment
boards or you're commenting on what other people have done with you know very little if any um
any repercussion let me see what this says instagram rolls out algorithm control option
to all english-speaking users oh wow after launching it in early testing with a limited
number of users in october last year instagram has today announced that all english-speaking
users globally will now be able to access it's your algorithm manual control option giving you
another way to define your reels experience i thought it already did that though because i
remember meeting someone who said this is like eight years ago said no no you're like you know
what you've we've all you know you've said you know you've talked about you know
puppy dogs for a while and then all of a sudden puppy dogs all over your reel like and they said
no no they're listening to individual words and i was like the individual words bullshit it's
fucking the entire sentence but and now there seems to be a sort of oh that's an option but
i'm pretty sure it's been planted i'm sure this has always been an option and it's never been
effective yeah as you can see in this overview you can access the your algorithm controls by
tapping on the top right what does it do though so i've been using it and i changed my feed
completely i put on like editing tutorials film lighting and like my feed is like all
educational now it's helped a lot yeah it's pretty awesome and i think more people should
know about it because yeah i think sometimes my fear is that i'm trapped in this algorithm
of times that maybe weren't my best self or like times where i just or just what they fed you yeah
for sure you know and you get fed braziers and this and that and it's all targets big response
you know big it triggers big emotions it's all outrage mostly right and it's all about
right it's like dopamine or uh fucking what's gonna testosterone you know yeah yeah so nick
you feel like it has been effective a hundred percent and then but if i do see something i'm
like i don't want that then you just do see like the three dots and see less of and it's really
transformed it oh cool i feel like i'm getting educated when i go on a lot yeah that's the place
i want to be in it's like god just for some you know get me there but i guess it's i have to take
some action too you know but that's good to know that that's effective yeah apparently
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's a,
it's a character-driven crime thriller. Somewhat of a sort of homage to the 70s, 80s, 90s,
even early 2000s, like heist films that I feel like we used to see a lot more of. And, and we
just don't tend to make any as much, so much now where, where the, there's insane action and car
chases and intensity, but that's matched by the intensity or there's a momentum and a continuity
with the emotional intimate scenes as well. And, and it was one of the best things I'd read in
years. Um, it, it, it, it, it certainly wasn't the types of scripts I was being sent and I had an
interest in doing something very different. And, um, this came along and it was up there with my
top sort of two, three films that I've done. Yeah. That I've been a part of. Yeah.
Was it like the personal challenge? I mean, your character is kind of this, um, he's a, uh,
kind of a, he's a bad guy that's questioning what's going on with himself.
For sure. Yeah. Like all of the, like, so Mark Ruffalo plays the detective. I play a jewelry
Halle Berry, um, is an insurance broker, uh, and basically all that sort of a crossroads in the,
on the, in their life, um, around, you know, the, the, the Mark's characters facing police
corruption. And, and if he speaks up, he'll be sent one way. And if you follow suit, he'll,
he'll get a promotion and Halle Berry is facing, you know, ageism and feels like she's being passed
over. And my guy is, is in that same sort of that moral ambiguity and that sort of gray space of,
you know, justifying his criminal criminality. Um, we show the audience and present the,
you know, that he has, um, come from meager means difficult times in and out of foster homes.
And again, not to excuse any of what he does, but it raises, I think the, the question of how
one got to that point, but he does live by a very strict code. His, um, there's sort of non-violent,
you know, violence throughout his, uh, his robberies, but,
he's at a point where he's seeking personal freedom and an escape from this world.
And it's presented with this one final sort of heist, which is, could be the exit.
And it's each character sort of on a collision course for one another and all sort of interweaved
to this pretty, pretty, uh, I found pretty sort of fascinating sort of crescendo and finale, but
he, um, he's a good guy, you know, he's, he's wrestling with, I think not having,
you know, in my sort of backstory with it, not having strong paternal figures or parents,
but, you know, a lot of parental figures that, that were of, um, you know, held integrity or
maturity for him to look to and, and, and to be, I guess, modeled behavior by.
So, you know, like a lot of guys that we were speaking to and research guys in that, in the
criminal world came from broken homes and you seek connection and brotherhood and safety and kind of
all the wrong places.
And, and, um, that's why a lot of guys end up in gangs as sort of, you know, there's family there.
Yes. Connection.
Yeah.
And then it's also, they're pushing back against the system.
So in their eyes gave them nothing.
So it's like, well, screw you, I'm going to, you know, what did, what did the insurance companies
or the banks or the, you know, the high end jewelry fashion, um, entities ever give me.
And so again, none of this is a, my justification for the life of crime, but I think that the script
does a great job at presenting deeper, uh, further layers and a deeper sort of, um, presentation
about just people, you know, and the human experience.
I agree with that.
I think that we are one thing I noticed.
About it is there's a bit more of the story element.
There's a bit more of like, you have the action, you have this sort of, um, you know, uh, you
had this like a little bit of like, I don't know if it's like fast and the furious meat
sort of, um, like jewel thievery, you know, sort of like you have this high energy, but
you have us, you have some sincere storylines about what's going on with these people and,
uh, and just how people get into positions maybe that they didn't even want to be in,
but there they are.
And how do we still view them as people?
And then how do they then operate to the best of their ability, even in, not even the best
circumstance?
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Does that make any sense or not?
No, it did for sure.
Yeah.
It should have been the tagline.
That's the most since I've made in a while.
I've been in the press tour for three weeks and I wish I had that, that quote.
It's been a rough, far more succinct than the, uh, the past year I haven't been able
to get something out.
It's been tough, man.
No, it's true.
And it does it sort of, uh, I think when it, right, like it doesn't spoon feed or jam
down the audience's throat, the answers and conclusions for things.
It offers up ideas.
And again, in, in the moral ambiguity space of right and wrong, it's like not it's nothing's
just black and white.
And we love to sort of categorize things.
It's easiest for us to understand, but when you kind of get an insight into someone's
life window, their backstory, you go, oh shit, if I was faced with that, or I'd come from
that, would I make this decision?
And if I had an opportunity that was, you know, lawfully wrong or immoral on one hand,
well, could I justify it through this lens?
And if it was going to pull me into personal freedom and escape this shitty position, I'm
in, would I do it?
And then, so you're asking those questions as, as you're along for the ride, hopefully.
And, and, um, I, and I find that the kind of the beauty of filmmaking and storytelling
is when you're not, when you're, when you're given as a choose your own adventure, sort
of internal process that can, that can occur with what your assumptions are, but also not,
um, not being so quick to judge, you know?
Yeah.
Cause there's moments you're like, oh, this guy's scary.
Like your character where he's like, oh, he's kind of, he's scary.
You know, he's dangerous.
He doesn't care if people die, but then you see a, well, he has kind of a code of his
own and how he operates within this space.
Um, you know what he thinks of love, what he thinks possible for him.
Um, yeah, it just had a deeper layer than just like sort of a smash and grab, kind of
like heist.
Yeah.
That was the goal.
You know, it had a little bit of a James Bond ask in the sense of like, you know, some of
this chase scenes and stuff like that reminded me of some of that energy.
Yeah, for sure.
Like some of the music that went with it, there were certain moments where it gave me
some of that energy.
Kind of you see heat or, um, the Michael Mann and collateral, it was kind of like those
types of films were a big, a big sort of comp where the, the action that was the real realism
and a grit and authenticity to it.
But, um, you had complex emotional sort of characters along the way as well.
So yeah.
It's a fun one.
You ever steal anything good when you were young?
You guys ever steal anything?
Um, blow dart a wallaby and sneak over there and run it out of somebody's house.
Blow dart a wallaby?
Did you say?
Yeah.
Just put him down.
You think one dart would take a wallaby down or not?
Um, it depends what kind of tranq is in that dart.
You mean like a, like a, like a tranquilizing dart or.
Something.
Yeah.
A dart board dart.
Oh, tranq.
I'm talking tranq.
Yeah.
Ah, yeah.
They go down there.
The wallabies are tiny.
The big kangaroos.
I don't know.
Oh dude.
Not some of the ones I seen over there.
Yeah.
Whatever.
We went to that place outside of Melbourne.
Ah.
We went to that park.
Yeah.
Ah.
Maybe it wasn't.
Maybe it was outside of.
No, there's a, there's a lot.
There's, there's um.
Bro, we saw the one that's jacked.
We saw the Nate Diaz one.
You ever see that video of the guy punching on with a kangaroo?
No, no.
You didn't see that?
Uh, nuh uh.
The guy, the wallaby comes up to get his dog and he literally shapes up, throws a left
and a right and pop, bang.
Just cause it's trying.
I think the wallaby's trying to attack his dog where it's got his dog in a headlock or
something.
Yeah, dude.
We saw the one.
We were afraid to move, dude.
I was waiting for like Keith Peterson to step in.
I was waiting for a UFC referee to come in and say to your neutral corners, you know?
I was waiting for Mark Goddard.
I mean, I don't know why.
This guy's, this is, this is, look at this.
The wallaby's got this.
And who's that?
Luke Bryan?
He's got the dog in a headlock.
Watch this.
Ready?
Whoop.
Whoop.
Go.
Ready?
Whoop.
Oof.
Jab.
It's like.
The kangaroo's like, what the fuck.
Watch this.
Ready?
Whoop.
Whoop.
Is that Luke Bryan?
Oh, that's beautiful.
That is beautiful, dude.
I mean.
That dog should have been able to get free, though.
That's a big dog.
Oh, they're pretty strong, these things.
And they got little, little talons.
Big, big old claws on them.
Oh, dude.
The ones, we saw the ones that were very scary.
But I had such a great time, man, in your country.
How long were you there for?
We were there for probably two weeks, dude.
One of my favorite times was like, um.
We got some, just some e-bikes.
And we went.
During the day, we would go up and down the Gold Coast on the.
You could.
Yeah.
You could bike on the sand.
Like, basically in the water if you want.
And there would be nobody out there all day.
I know.
And we would just.
Yeah.
Dude, it was like.
It almost felt like we were on another planet, man.
Yeah.
And then I got to meet Chris.
Chris Lilly came out.
Oh, yeah.
When I was in.
Did you ever see his shows back in the day?
Oh, yeah.
Fucking hilarious.
Stop looking at me dick, mom.
That's my dick, dad.
Man.
He did that.
That's my dick.
Yeah.
Stop touching my dick.
Yeah.
Fuck you, dad.
What'd you say?
Yeah.
I said, fuck you.
I said, fuck you.
Yeah.
It's a picture of my dick.
Yeah.
Jonah bro and what a legend dude to get to meet him it literally felt like you were meeting
something like a rare bird that showed up yeah on a branch to talk with you for a little bit
oh yeah I remember crossing paths with him when I when I first started acting and you passed across
yeah as in like he was a mate of a mate of mine and and crossing paths and and just being he was
just a what he would kind of came up with was like I want to say kind of back when the office
was first coming up with that mockumentary style so he played like seven or eight different
characters and um yeah talented dude oh dude mr g do the musical yeah a lot of it like kind of
bad habit for drugs dude oh my god dude the fact that we can say cheese room cheese room welcome
to mr cheese room the fact we can say the floor and still laugh right now is oh my that is good
stuff yeah that was like pre kind of like I think a lot of
it was is is you know isn't acceptable now he wouldn't be able to make any of it now but like
oh but then that was before anything and it was I'd make it with him in a heartbeat dude if he
wanted a call I'm sure he's looking to make some people now would make it easy because you could
put it out yourselves it's like you could do it yourself and put it out I think he's in the sort
of cancel space a culture he kind of got I think he felt that more than it was very real oh really
oh I think so I think the reality of people yeah like I think like even like people like I think
like I don't know if he was if people thought he was making fun of aboriginal culture or Tongan
culture what it was and yeah Polynesian dude those people I mean I it depends who does who do you
spoke to yeah that's a good point I had Polynesian buddies who like loved him and then other guys that
were like nah it's not cool bro oh I see and um but I yeah it's what's not cool me dick you know
but yeah I feel you dude it was crazy I love the way you've seen all that dude when he would do the
break dancing bro oh my god and what was Jermaine Jermaine the uh oh yeah
oh my god he's a year seven
oh god bless him brother go go watch that if you've never seen summer high tie summer high tie
you can't find it anywhere except for on YouTube yeah I think on some like a distant channel but
it's out there um are there things where you want to like when you're relating with your dad are the
you want to make sure that he knows now like is the responsibility that you feel as a child that
it's like okay how do I make sure he's okay yeah like is it does that make any sense yeah and I
think from having kids as well and even for other people that are experiencing this like
since you've had experience with it like if you could just maybe share a little bit of that so
when I um had the premiere and in uh back in Australia I had someone come up to me afterward
for crime 101 no sorry for for the documentary with my dad okay for limitless a road road trip
say it again for a road trip to remember got it and he um there's someone come up to me and
and he said I was diagnosed around the same time your dad was and I wish my kids could see this
because no one asks me how I am or what I'm what I'm afraid of or what I'm experiencing because
people are nervous they don't know how to discuss it so they dance around it and pretend it's not
happening and he goes so you suffer in silence and the biggest thing I think that has helped
that my dad has responded to and I'm thankful for having gotten to this place is
asking him to tell me what's going on and I'm like okay I'm gonna tell you what's going on and I'm
asking him how he's feeling about it you know because it's you know you talk to your parents
about this stuff and then your parents pass away and then who do you talk to and it hit me that
god he doesn't have his dad to go and have these hard conversations or these vulnerable moments
with or his mom anymore and um so trying to give him that give him that space but also I he I know
there's a I remember 15 years ago that transition of when him realizing he wasn't the authority and
he knew we as we as you know young men now working and knew more about things and weren't seeking his
advice as much I remember seeing that on his face and that and it not registering enough for me to
do anything about it but kind of being aware that like the changing of the guard was occurring and
so I go to him now and and um and I'll ask him things that I may know the answer to you know
or or just so he feels like there is still agency and and he has the autonomy and and they want to
see thank you um
they want to feel like they still matter on this purpose you know it's a good point you don't think
about that that when that change in the guard happens that there's a there's a value loss or
potential like hypothesized value loss for the parent oh for sure and I even my kids my daughter's
13 my boys are 11 and I'm already feeling that like oh I'm not cool and I'm not necessarily who
they look to and and it's like you know and they're young yeah they're watching Andrew Tate or whatever
they're watching all sorts of bullshit and have other role models but but it's
it's like I think you know and then I'm 42 you know but I can't imagine in the 60s 70s when that
that gap becomes you know far greater and especially facing you know having dementia
and realizing your memories are being stripped away and that vulnerability that just making
sure they still feel like that the that they are of purpose and that they have an opinion and the
opinion matters and so yeah if anyone's going through it that would be my advice is check in
with them ask them how they're feeling ask them what they're afraid of because no one asked such a
great question what are you afraid of yeah it's easy to say hey how are you yeah but that's not
the same thing and that won't bring out the answer like I asked him on the show and he went I just
don't want to be a burden and it was like oh fuck and I had no idea that he felt that you know I
thought it was going to be about the kind of you know losing you know control of this and that and
but it was like he was more concerned with what it was going to do to the you know the group
yeah that's what my mom said
sometimes I don't want to be any burden yeah and it makes me think like oh yeah like
I don't know and in some ways I've always wanted my mom to be like a burden like I don't know
like the inverse of a burden kind of whatever that is like a positive burden
or just like I don't know like a beautiful responsibility or it's yeah but like it but
for that to say yeah I don't want to be a burden do you find that it gives you purpose though you
know like it's like having this time with him as kind of confronting as it's been has also given me
a sense of like what matters and also it's like the roles do transfer and at a certain point as
an adult you've got to realize oh I now need to take care of them right and you know and
especially men I don't know but in Australia there's a real like you know um avoidance around
that sort of vulnerability or the other sort of admittance to I may be afraid of something or I
need a hand and so offering that up rather than having to get them
to come to you and say please check in with me that's a huge thing yeah what are you afraid of
yeah yeah because that's really what I want to know probably yeah yeah the other day I was
thinking like I I messaged my mom and I was like hey mom is there anything that you need is there
any like trip that you've always wanted to take is there anything because you know now I have
some finances where I could help do something you know or if she wants to do something
you know and uh or is there anything that you know yeah is there anything that you want you know
and she's like nothing that I can think of you know
whereas you always think that it's like oh I'm gonna get these like I'll have the ability to do
this thing and that'll make it perfect but it's like no that's not real I always thought that
like I would buy my mom things and jewelry and she was like it's lovely but like I want your time
you know I mean just yesterday she was like can I schedule in one of your meetings to just get 15
minutes just with you and I was like oh and she goes well I'm sort of half joking but serious and
and you forget like yes when you get busy like it's like yeah I'll get to that I'll get to that
at least you can put her off on one of your other good-looking brothers you know yes like that's got
to be nice like look talk to the other brother you know dude I bet you didn't even have wallpaper
it was just mirrors everywhere just mirrors were so excited like he's coming he's coming
sorry dude this is seeming a little big
whatever bro pull me a fosters you ever drink fosters I think I have yeah it's the big can
I like drinking this is what I would do
though I would drink it with two hairs if I had a big old like extra large absurd can for a while
oh it reminded me of um it's a beer of of Sean and Marley you ever seen Sean and Marley no oh bro
bring them up they're Aussies man Sean and Marley they're the best yeah get down with Sean and Marley
put me on there show me on you never seen these guys dude these guys are the best Chris if you
bro next time you're home this is one of the best times I ever had in my whole life
do you do this in Australia
or here yeah in Australia how you going
dude they do they're chefs I've never seen these guys thank you boys thank you for welcoming me
here yes yeah I'm very happy to be here I would say this very fun he come to us and and come see
me and Sean from USA yes
you've been to have you been to America
I can't remember yeah and look it's becoming unmemorable I'll tell you that get to the part
with the beer though we made beer chicken right so these guys do recipes bro if you ever like
yeah I'm not saying but this would be an easy thing for you to go and do a um a little shower
with a little cooking and bro they live at they live they don't live together one of them has
down syndrome one I don't think one of them does but um one of them is just Korean or whatever
so yeah yeah
They're just mates, but they've been friends for a long time.
We made beer chicken, right?
How was it?
Oh, dude.
Yeah, it was good.
But Marley took the beer right out, the hot beer, and just drank it straight out of the oven.
Frickin' legend, brother.
With chicken juice and scalding hot temperature.
Look at that.
That can is probably 200 degrees, bro.
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
Your receptors is off, baby.
You got to come up a little bit.
Bro, he drank that bitch right out of the thing, bro.
But, dude, their families are so sweet, and they invited us over to their home.
And they made, like, up there, there's a piece of art up above, like, on the mantel up there on the right.
Yeah.
Right there.
They made, like, a rat for, like, the rat king.
Like, they did, like, special things to make it just for me.
But their families are there, dude, and it's, like, the best.
And they have the best time.
But, bro, just to even, you would, it was honestly, I think it was the best part of my trip besides getting to perform the shows.
Yeah.
But that's right outside of Sydney, I believe.
Yeah.
We just got a Rabbit Eyes top on, which is Russell Crowe's rugby team, which is a Sydney team.
Oh, yeah?
Sydney team, yeah.
That green and red.
Oh, that must be the Heroes then.
Because they'll go to a lot of the games and stuff like that.
But Sean and Marley are the best, bro.
They are legends, dude.
Check them out.
And I think they still do the show all the time, so that'd be pretty cool to go see it.
Whenever you get into spaces where you're, like, you know, we were talking earlier about, like, kind of regrouping and getting a new look at things.
And, like, you know, having.
Having some moments of self-evaluation and reflection and seeing if, like, my old dreams are still my current dreams and where have they gotten me and what do I do now and enjoying kind of the freedom of not knowing or not being sure exactly where I'm at in my journey.
What are the practices that you go to to help you gain a little bit more clarity there?
Like, could it be something like just spending time with certain people or meditation?
Like, are there some practices that you use?
Yeah.
For me, I'm not great at, like, traditional seated.
Meditation.
I could benefit from it if I was to sort of force myself to do it.
But I prefer physical movement, like training, you know.
Surfing for me is an obvious one.
Oh, yeah?
It's a complete.
I've done that since I was, you know, 10 years old.
And if I spend too long out in the ocean, my whole sort of, you know, being starts to suffer in one way or the other.
Not just vitamin D, but this sort of, I don't know, that sort of magnetic pull the ocean has to me.
But that's my true happy place.
So, yeah, I spend a lot of time surfing.
You're comfortable enough on a surfboard to make a gang sign, dude?
That is.
That's actually in a wave pool.
That's in Abu Dhabi in the mechanical man wave.
Have you been to Pipe?
Yeah.
Dude, I just went like two weeks ago.
I went 15 years ago once.
It's cool, huh?
Bro, it was so cool.
It was awesome.
I didn't know they had the Lexus pipeline competition was going.
Oh, yeah, right.
Of course.
And so I went.
Each day when I went, it had been canceled for the day because the conditions weren't perfect.
But that's one thing that's so amazing about it.
It makes it so unique about these surf competitions is that it can only happen if the water is right.
Yeah.
So it was like it was almost this little Mecca that we'd make each day because about an hour from where I was staying, which was silly.
I should have just stayed up in the North Shore.
But I get there and we and they're like, yeah, it's canceled for the day.
But it was just like even seeing that and seeing like, oh, this is a real thing.
Like so many people come out and like and they all the surfers stay are in this place.
And like it gave me a whole different appreciation for it.
Yeah.
It's especially pipe.
I mean, that event is they wait for it to be big and intense and beautiful.
And if it's not going to hit those, you know, that if it's not going to live up to that, they don't run the competition until it does.
And so you're often in for a pretty epic week of competition.
But that place is talk about like the power of the ocean.
And different regions, you know, that you'll have a six foot wave there, which feels like fucking 20 foot compared to what a six foot wave would be in a beach break somewhere else.
And the way the ocean comes from big, deep water and just hits big slabs of reef is pretty, pretty mind blowing and awe inspiring and special, man.
It's cool.
You feel the power of it all.
Yeah.
Do you ever surfed?
I surfed.
I used to live in Charleston, South Carolina.
I would surf out there some.
So I could do it, but I would need to go.
I would need to focus on it.
I think it just like recently what I've been thinking is, man, I just want to like, and it's like I could do it, but it's like, you know, podcasting, it's a lot of attention.
You know, you're like going for the next week.
It's like having a show every week.
Yeah.
And so you're preparing.
And sometimes we do two a week now because there's so many different people to talk with.
Yeah.
And so.
It's another skill you've got to learn.
It's another.
It's a lot of hours.
Yes.
And it's hard to like feel like I'm always like.
All right.
I got to make sure this next one is OK.
Yeah.
I'm never at a place where I feel like.
Yeah.
So it's like I need to give myself a little more space and grace and just be like, OK, if you do go for a week or two, go do some things that you also want to enjoy.
You know, I do find it hard to switch off.
What do you mean when you when you have.
Yes.
I do find it hard to switch off, but I also find it like, you know, like take some time and go do these things.
And I'm not complaining.
I know I can do it.
I think it's just like it's.
Like we're talking about earlier, like having that space in your life.
Yeah.
Letting the uncertain have a little bit more room to walk around, you know.
Yeah.
Yeah.
The observation.
Yes.
Stepping back.
It's like.
Yeah.
Like, what will I see if I were to go have some new experiences like, you know.
Yeah.
And what will I learn when I'm a little separate?
And just being like that is as much of the value as being sitting here looking under the microscope.
Yeah.
Is standing out of the room and and not even being in the laboratory, you know.
And just like having some of that energy.
So I'm not complaining.
I know I can do it.
But it's just like.
That's some of it probably is a fear.
Yeah.
You know.
No, it's hard to get off the the train of when there's momentum with anything.
And especially if you've been shocked by the handbraking of when it doesn't work out or
things are kind of static and you're sitting on shit on the or I was had that type of energy
and so to sort of willingly by your choice step off is is there's a risk to that.
But it also is kind of scary because it's like there's a safety net and just carrying on
is as exhausting and massive.
Maybe detrimental it could be because you're missing other things.
It's like the there's a risk involved.
But again, I'm sure with you, you've found the same thing in life when you've stepped
outside of the bubble.
The bigger lessons are learned.
The bigger sort of experiences occur.
And I think I came from that place where that was the thing I love the most.
Yeah.
You know, but it's OK.
It's all interesting.
And I think that's why I like even just having time like this today to think about this.
It's like, yeah, we've been talking and we've been podcasting, but it's like I think this
is a conversation.
Yeah.
That I just needed to hear, you know.
Oh, cool.
So me too.
I mean, it's like I said at the start of none of it I've figured out.
It's like I just keep continually sort of asking and exploring and then hopefully not
being too bogged down in having to come up with the outcome of the definitive certainty
of it's just staying curious.
I feel like is the is the more fulfilling place to be in.
You know, you're going.
Are you almost back to Australia heading back home?
Yeah.
I have the premiere tonight for Crime 101.
Oh, yeah.
And I fly back home.
I fly back home tomorrow.
I've been gone for three weeks and it's hard, man.
It's like with kids.
Oh, and they're here with you now.
No, no.
And they're at the age where it like they weren't really aware of time, you know, for
a long time.
And now they're like, it pisses them off, you know, and it's like, well, how long you
said this?
And, you know, I used to say.
You're supposed to be here, Dad.
You're supposed to be here and you're never here.
And then it's like.
It's not a dick, Dad.
Yeah.
It's not a dick.
A dick, Dad.
So.
Stop looking at my dick, Mies.
Mies.
Mies.
Touch my dick.
Touch my dick, Mies.
Bro, that kid was crazy to be saying dick that much at school.
Like 24-7 as well.
He's a wrangler.
He's a wrangler, Mies.
Yeah, yeah.
Bro, wrangler.
Stop calling him a wrangler.
Well, he is, Mies.
Why not?
Yeah, yeah.
Dude, and didn't his dad come down one time?
Yeah, his dad come down because.
No, this is the funniest part.
So he does a drawing and it's basically a drawing of.
An image leaning over and touching him on the groin.
And he's just taking the piss.
And the teacher's like, what's this?
He's like, oh, that's me and my dad.
You know, so she comes down.
The principal's involved.
The teacher's involved.
And then they call the dad in.
And they're like, yeah, we're really concerned about, you know, what's happened.
And he goes, yeah, I made it up.
And then the dad loses his shit.
What the fuck?
What would I touch his dick for?
What did you fucking say?
Oh.
Oh.
Thank God there's humor in the world.
Oh, my God.
What else?
What else?
You know, if we can't laugh and have fun and enjoy the experience, what the hell are we doing?
What's the way that you communicate with your children or teach them to communicate that you think has been like a novel choice for you or something that you brought along from a place that you learned?
Like, have you has that been a practice for you to do that?
Because it just seems like you try to, like, have some awareness about, like, why you think certain ways and why you operate.
Yeah.
Whereas some people don't.
Is it even possible to incorporate that into some of your kids' interactions and lives?
You do.
But I think the biggest thing I've learned is nothing I say is really imprinted.
It's like they learn by example.
And if I'm not modeling that behavior, it doesn't matter how many times I tell them, you know, do as I say, not as I do.
It's just, it's rubbish.
And so if I'm trying to tell them to get off their phones and so on or stop swearing and this, I've got to do it, you know, but it exposing them to, to, to nature.
You know, like there, and we lived in LA for,
probably 10 years my wife and i before we had kids and then we had kids we were here for about a year
or two and it was like kind of chaos trying to do anything with the kids and paparazzi and and so on
and moved back to australia and what pervert would take pictures of a kid that's the weird thing you
know except for most of the people in our yeah except this business except for most capitalists
and yeah and hollywood elites oh it's brutal yeah no and and so we went back home and we just didn't
get that that sort of attention and it's been a good choice you made the best ever like a big
conscious choice to leave the the the environment that was kind of even for my own personal sanity
like reminded of what i was doing or what i was not doing and so it's very hard to escape the kind
of work the thought process but for them just to look to expose them to what i thought was a normal
you know upbringing and being as much outdoors and so we have a farm and they surf motorbikes
and horses and
and
look what a luxury that is you know that's not where um like we grew up in the in the bush but
we had no money you know and and now very different sort of financial circumstances but
and that's the trick is trying to teach them the same sort of appreciation and gratitude
that i had learned by not having my parents not having money but now we're equipped
very differently and um that's tough to do it's a really tricky one you know but
but it's hard to teach your kids your same struggle yeah and it's so you try and
and it's hard to teach your kids your same struggle yeah and it's so you try and
expose them to sort of different situations or parts of the world but
it's also in sort of in discussing with them the not taking it for granted and having gratitude for
it um but also yeah you know i talk to my mom about this all the time and she's like i could
show you you know whether on this pay scale or you know this end of the spectrum finance or not
healthy and unhealthy people and it's about love and security and do they still feel safe to explore
this world and explore who they are genuinely you know and do they feel seen and so making
sure we're there and present and when i'm not working i'm 100 there and in your head's not
somewhere else but um just getting them outdoors you know it's it's it's the biggest thing they
went to a school traditional sort of school and then we put them in the school where it's just
like 15 kids and three teachers and they surf for two hours in the morning and then they do like
really focused learning for a couple hours in the afternoon and it's it's kind of like
homeschooling in a way but they they're absorbing that information more because they've exerted
energy through the through the day but there's less kids and more teachers so there's far more
kind of personal interaction but the it's almost like sort of accidental learning where they'll
they'll talk about you know their math class might be around shaping a surfboard so it's you know
six foot two and eighteen and a half inches and you know what's the leaderage and the volume and
so they're calculating you know what's what's what's going on and so they're calculating
things where there's there's an invested interest as opposed to just numbers on a board and and you
know has it been working well god they're happier than they've ever been really they've been at
school for a year and a half or two years and that's a blessing man yeah and a lot of people
are talking about homeschool here more in america you're starting to see a lot more of it yeah i'm
friends with candace owens and she talks about this all the time is like get your kids into a
space if you can yeah where other like neighborhood moms or dads are also doing the teaching and
people are playing i'd be worried if it was homeschooling me trying to
teach them you know that would be we did that in covert and that was a nightmare
and um you were teaching them during covet oh just all of us were being every parent was being sent
like the curriculum and it was like trying to teach them math you know grade five math that
none of it made any sense to whatever math i learned in high school 20 years ago and i was like
let's go outside never surf and you know would you have a chalkboard or whatever no oh no we
had just like it was to get them to do the right one sentence was just like
world war three it was all three of them were just like constant protest and
not listening and i called my buddy who was their teacher and i said how are you doing it he goes
mate i can't even get my own teachers they're my kids to do it he said let's just catch up when
this thing passes so we had outdoor education which was like yes adventure homeschooling hits
record numbers last year last academic year diy education grew at nearly three times the average
rate it did during the covet 19 pandemic so it's growing at three times the rate that it did during
covet that's unbelievable in the 2024 2025 school year homeschooling continued to grow across the
united states increasing in an average rate of 5.4 percent amen dude yeah i think the system in a lot
of places can be contrived so yeah um to have some autonomy over you what your children are learning
this is nearly three times the pre-pandemic homeschooling growth rate of almost two percent
recent estimates put the total homeschooling population at about six percent of students
across the united states compared to about three percent pre-pandemic i wonder how much of that is
like you know parents teaching their kids or grew a group
you know 10 or 12 like i said that's the problem i think it's it's class sizes are too big you've
got one one person for 30 kids it's like god fucking good luck you know whereas having more
of a sort of mentorship tutoring sort of program where it's less children more teachers but oh
yeah when there's just some connection yeah because when you're just sitting there and
you're just you're almost just like a piece of cattle for information that's what you feel like
in school a lot of times i would remember that it would be like yeah well there's just this
information i write it down and it's like what are we there's it doesn't feel like
no there's no relationship to it there's got to be a better way to do this and there's no real
relationship to each other while we're learning and except you're like a dick on someone on the
desk um let me see the fraction of parents saying k through 12 education is heading in the wrong
direction was fairly stable from 2019 to 2022 but rose in 2023 and then again in 2024 to its highest
level in a decade um the reasons for the move away from public schools certainly vary from family to
family but there have been notable developments in recent years during the pandemic many parents
and their children have been forced to leave their homes and work from home to go to school
and so i think it's important for us to be aware of this and i think we need to be aware of this
and i think it's important for us to be aware of this and i think it's important for us to be aware
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small role in it there she is right there beautiful young lady so talented and uh and that show is
going to be on netflix coming out soon but crime 101 it's in theaters now um give my best to your
brother a woman and uh to your brothers yeah and um and yeah thanks so much for coming and just
sharing some information with us dude i appreciate you man i love the show and and have been excited
to come on for a long time so thanks it was fun and i appreciate it and tell everybody in australia
that i said what's up and we're coming back there dude and we're gonna go to the beach and we're
gonna do everything you hit me up that's right we've got an e-bike and we'll we'll we'll hit the
coast good day yeah good day for that um all right cheers man thank you so much thanks so much
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Paramount Plus promotes NFL on CBS streaming, including live local games and AFC Championship coverage, with additional CBS Sports content.
Chris Hemsworth discusses his Australian upbringing, including time in Melbourne and the Northern Territory, and reflects on the adventurous spirit of Australians.
He explores the downsides of fame, such as limited freedom and observational living, and shares thoughts on midlife reflection, purpose, and embracing uncertainty.
Hemsworth talks about his documentary "Limitless," revealing his genetic risk for Alzheimer's (APOE4) and his father Craig's diagnosis, emphasizing the importance of connection and asking vulnerable questions.
The conversation covers "blue zones," longevity factors like community and purpose, and the dangers of social media algorithms, especially for children.
Australia's ban on social media for under-16s is discussed, with support for its intent.
Hemsworth describes his new film "Crime 101," a character-driven heist thriller with moral ambiguity, starring alongside Mark Ruffalo and Halle Berry.
Personal anecdotes include hitchhiking risks, meeting comedian Chris Lilly, and humorous moments with Australian cooking duo Sean and Marley.
The interview ends with advice on caring for aging parents, emphasizing time over material gifts and asking about their fears.
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The transcription blends promotional content for Paramount Plus NFL coverage with an in-depth interview featuring actor Chris Hemsworth. The host, Theo, engages Hemsworth in a wide-ranging conversation about his life, career, and personal philosophy. Hemsworth reflects on his Australian identity, noting the adventurous spirit stemming from the country's isolation and the tradition of backpacking after school. He candidly discusses the limitations of fame, describing how it makes life more observational and restricts spontaneous experiences, while acknowledging the benefits.
A central theme is midlife introspection, with Hemsworth referencing "The Middle Passage" and Jungian psychology to explain the questioning of identity and purpose. He emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and the "journey not the destination." His documentary "Limitless" is a key topic, revealing his genetic predisposition to Alzheimer's and his father Craig's diagnosis. Hemsworth shares poignant insights on caregiving, stressing the value of asking loved ones about their fears and ensuring they feel purposeful, rather than a burden.
The conversation also touches on longevity through "blue zones," highlighting community and purpose as critical factors. They critique social media's harmful effects, particularly on youth, and praise Australia's ban for under-16s. Hemsworth discusses his film "Crime 101," a morally complex heist thriller, and shares humorous stories, including a kangaroo fight video and meeting Australian comedians. The interview concludes with heartfelt advice on cherishing time with aging parents, underscoring that connection, not material gifts, matters most.
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Paramount Plus offers extra NFL coverage through shows like NFL Today Plus, NFL Today, CBS Sports HQ, and Fantasy Football Today.
Crime 101 is a character-driven crime thriller where Chris Hemsworth plays a jewel thief, alongside Mark Ruffalo as a detective and Halle Berry as an insurance broker, all at a crossroads in their lives.
The biggest takeaway was the importance of social connection, as seen in blue zones where people live over 100, with strong community and support networks reducing stress.
Australia has banned social media for kids under 16, meaning they cannot set up new accounts and existing profiles are deactivated on platforms like TikTok, X, Facebook, and Instagram.
He advises checking in with them, asking how they feel and what they're afraid of, as this helps them feel they still have purpose and agency.
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