Brock, Boston & Kesley on Mormon taboos, surviving a plane crash, and waiting til marriage

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I remember just like holding onto my sea racing for impact and then it was just black. We're guys like sliding into your DMs when he was on his mission for six months. Yeah. Other missionaries. Other missionaries. Nobody is guys not laughing. We say we have twin telepathy and we actually have rehearsed this in the past. No way. Ask for a shape. We do triangle. I don't know why he chose circle. Sorry, I forgot. I've tasted coffee. Both Brock and I did the same day. No way. We're going to HE double hockey sticks. Today on unplanned, we sat down with viral twin brothers Brock and Boston who blew up when they're only 12 years old. Recently Brock married his high school sweetheart fellow TikTok creator Kessley after a short two month engagement. This episode was so good you guys. We talk about Utah culture, Mormon culture, the pressure of waiting till marriage, as well as the traumatic plane crash that nearly killed their entire family all on today's episode. By the way, if you have not already subscribed to the podcast, the majority of you guys are not subscribed. It's something like 60% of the people watching every week are not subscribed. So please subscribe. It's the free way you can support the show without further ado. Let's get into it. What's up, dudes? And welcome back to our friend. Guys, today we have Brock and Boston and Kessley with us. Super stoked to talk to you guys. Thank you for being here, by the way. I was just asking them before we started filming about where they are currently living because I knew that they had spent a lot of time in Tennessee, but I was like, they are from Utah. This might be a little edgy. I wanted to ask you guys, what's your favorite Utah square word? That's my favorite fruit. I'm not allowed to say that. That's my favorite fruit is my favorite one. And what the fetch. I still like, you guys have heard fetch, right? I've never said it, but I prude it. How do you use fetch in proper context as a Utah citizen? It's kind of like what the freak, you know, you fetch and get into that. Now that we might need to cut that out of the episode. I bleep that blow out my mouth. What the bleep do people ever say that? I don't know. I don't know. Maybe I say frick. I think I start saying that because Fred was like a YouTuber like 20 years ago when I was like, a kid, Trevor, guess what I'm saying? I was like, beginning a brain rot, brain rot, yeah, that's true. He'd be like, hey, it's Fred. Yeah. That was actually really good. I've never heard you talk like that. Don't do it again. He was my idol. Okay. That's too much. Okay. No. So I was saying I was like, I know they like earn Utah, but then Tennessee. I was kind of confused. Come and find out their neighbors. It was Kim is saying. You guys were neighbors with Dave Ramsey and Tennessee. Yeah. Is that good old buddies? I don't know. Can we say that? Is that public information? I mean, we're out of that neighborhood now, I guess. That's so sad. Dude, Dave is still a dream guest for this pod. Yeah, you know, big and cool guy. You guys meet him. Unfortunately, we didn't, but we had to cling to our neighbor, but my mom did. I promise. Yes. So we're kind of tight. You're kind of tight. Yeah. I love Dave. I read his books when we wanted to get married young because Matt talk about him a lot on this podcast is try to put on the pressure. Yeah. Yeah. Dave, if you're watching this, we would love to chat with you. We're your biggest fans. You have some cool neighbors there. That's cool. That's so fun. Yeah, we love Nashville a lot. We're actually going there literally in a couple days. Yeah. Do you like Nashville more Utah more? That's hard. I actually love both. I feel like people ask me which one I love more, but it's such a different way of life in either one. Tennessee, we have some land, like farm animals, and then Utah, we live in the suburbs. We have friends that are close by, and we have Swig too. So there's that. Yeah. I would say, so I hated Tennessee at first because I was like moving away from my girlfriend. We were also in high school and stuff, so I was pretty hard, but like now. That's a hard time to move. Yeah. It was awful. I hated it. But now I'd say that I really love Tennessee just because of our farm. It's the pace a lot slower. We're not doing crazy stuff all the time. It's just chill. Okay. For anybody that gets you guys confused, you're your Brock, you're Boston, right? Yes. Okay. I was going to say, because if you were Boston, I'd be like, why do you have your hand on your leg? Sorry, that was a really dumb joke. I'm genuinely curious. You guys are twins. You probably get twin questions asked all the time. How do people tell you guys apart? Because I'm dumb. I legit at my leave. I thought we'd look different. I mean, he's got more gray hairs. You don't have to talk about that. You don't have very thick hair. Yeah. That's kind of dope. Is this called a burst fade? Is that what I'm seeing? I don't know like modern moat. My mom gives me my haircuts. No way. Yes. Uh-huh. Has that always been a thing? Your mom giving you guys haircuts? Always. Oh, yes. Freck, I need to learn. You have two boys tonight. I need to learn. What if I, what if it's like dad has barber shop when I start getting my two and three-year-old haircuts? You could learn it. I learned it. I had to do my own hair for like two years, so you could easily just pick it up. Oh, you did on your mission? Yeah. Yeah. You're kidding. Yeah. You can't get haircuts on your mission. I mean, it's kind of against. I'm not. No, no. You can't convince that. I went to like some like Brazilian barbers and stuff and like, I don't know, I just kind of liked how I did my hair. So I didn't learn it myself. Wait, so you went on a mission to Brazil for two years. That is hardcore. No, no, no, no, no, yeah, sorry. So I went there for two months and then I had to come back home because I was having gallbladder attacks. Gosh. So I had to get my gallbladder taken out because I had like gallstones and stuff. And then they shipped me back out to actually Boston, Massachusetts, where I like learned Portuguese still. And so I'll still kind of like around like the Brazilians and stuff, but and then I finished my mission out there. So wow. It's pretty crazy. There's like a population of like Brazilian people in Boston. It's crazy. Like it's a melting pot. You got like Ecuadorians, you got Brazilians, Cape Verdeans, like just so many different people saw. Wow. Okay. If you were to knock on my door right now, what would you say if you were on your mission? Dude, I would just invite you to church. That's like, we got church this Sunday. You want to pull up? What do we find? What do people usually say when you say that? People usually say no or the back. Ah, maybe like next time or something. That was basically it, but did anyone ever invite you inside their house and bake you cookies? Because that's what Abby did for the mission. For the elders. We know the restroom stop for us. You guys are like the goats, like missionaries to talk about you guys. That's so awesome. No, we became a restroom stop. They would knock on our door and be like, I'm so sorry. Can we quickly go to that? I was like, sure. It happened more than once. I was like, I think we got it. I mean, it got communicated. I'm gonna newly wed. No, no, I'm talking about this house. I mean, the mission is in Missouri. What the frick, Abby? What the frick? What the fetch? Where are you at? No, you're right. You're right. In Missouri, so we live next to, I don't know the name of like the term for like the name of the building where the mission's like, I think it was just the mission home. Oh, the mission home. Isn't it like he's just Christel Latter-day Saints? No, but there's like a like a place where because we're all the missionaries go? Yeah. Is it a church building? Yeah, I was like right next to our house. Oh, okay, that's crazy. There's no temple in Springfield, Missouri. But it's a story. Like, oh, what are you saying? Was it called? Yeah, it's just a church. I think it's just a church. It's where I do like transfers, I think. If I'm like understand everything correctly, like all the missionaries go there and then they transfer, like, and get like their new companion. Yeah. They did have companions at this point. Yes, that's the means box. It was like raining one day and I was walking to my house, which was right next to it, and someone just comes out with an umbrella and walks through. Sister Shell walked me to my house under an umbrella and then we started talking and then I was like, you guys should come over and eat cookies and then we baked cookies for them. And then I was like, we can watch a movie, and they're like, no. I was kind of a bad influence. I pushed it hard. I was like, guys, come on. We don't need to say anything. We did. We did not watch. We're already here. Let's watch a movie. And they still didn't fold? Nope. They didn't fold. I think there was a group pressure too, also to know. Yeah. Yeah, of course. There's some. Sister Shell. That's like, like going on a mission is like hardcore, though. I'm always very impressed by people that do that. I mean, what are some of the rules that you had to follow on your mission? And you're about to start. Yeah, I'm about to start. Yeah. Good luck, bro. Honestly the mission was awesome like I feel like we didn't have like crazy crazy rules like Like what would you how did you explain like just like the missionary rule? Do you go on a mission - I did. Where'd you go? I went to Montana. Oh cool. Yeah, that's why we love it Well, I love it so much. Yeah, he hasn't been I got a busy Montana Yeah, you do yeah, but some of the rules like we only could call our family once a week So like every Monday we'd call our families and so you know They just like really really recommended not to text them or call them throughout the week So you could really focus on the work. What's some other rules like well, no Yeah, no movies because you gotta stay locked in yeah, then another rule would be like you have to stay like with your Companions so whoever you're with you have to stay with them at all times except for like bathroom obviously and stuff But yeah, I mean technically you're not supposed to but You guys right there you guys were so they you were not in the same word together, but like like we like email We'd also like text Mm-hmm. Should I say maybe I face time? Do you yeah, you're not you only are allowed to like FaceTime family But like we would you know we're family, right? Because our friends that have been on missions a lot of them broke up with their significant order Yeah, they were on their mission. Yeah, yeah, so how did you guys stay together? That's really hard to do It was hard. I don't know. I feel like We both I don't know we both kind of just agreed that like we were Sort of together, but also like if things did change like it would be okay because two years is like a long time Yeah, so we kind of we would talk just every Monday and then Just kind of wins from there and then we came home saw how we felt What was that reunion like after two years because you had dated for a long time before you're You started dating at 14 to 15. Yeah, yeah, yeah, holy cow. Was there ever time? You're like I'd rather just get married and not serve see that's what I was thinking because so It ended up changing so yeah, basically like my dad. He didn't serve a mission And so I felt like no pressure from like family or anybody like you know what I'm gonna do the same thing my dad did my dad got married to My mom and stuff and right out of high school So like you know, I'm gonna do that same thing and then she had other plans At the same time yeah, well, so the boys are 24 months the girls are 18 months So he actually went out before I did and then I went out six months after so we get home at the same time But yeah, no, you were the one to decide the mission first. Yeah, actually I did so that's gonna be funny on getting married after high school But then I don't know things just changed. Mm-hmm. Okay, be real with me though We're guys like sliding in your DMs when he was on his mission for six months Now when I was home, but when I went out on my mission really yeah, what happened? Nothing just like they would try to message me, but I like other missionaries Other missionaries I'm like, how are these guys not locked in bro? You gotta be you got folks on these dude. There's a work Yeah So a lot of them knew that I had like someone at home, but what is a a DM look like from a fellow missionary? Like hey sister I Saw the scripture and it reminded me of you I don't know they're more just like they're like I know like small time Is there is there like a cheesy scripture? I mean not cheesy, but like a just vanilla one that's overused like I know I know like new testament like John 316 like somebody could be like yeah Like John 316 just like spoke to me and I just like really love you like is there something like that in the book of Mormon? Is there something like that? No, I gotta think like the word of wisdom when they be like man the word of wisdom was speaking to me Like I don't know Well, like there's like first Nephi 4 verse 6 says and I was led by the spirit not knowing beforehand the things Which I should do no one's used that but like I guess you can be like oh I was led by the spirit There you go if you need that to slide into a mission Okay, so you guys didn't obviously go on your mission Because you're about to leave for yours. Yeah, if you guys would have like decided to serve a mission at the same time Is there a world where they would put you both on the same one? Because you're a dynamical twin brother. I don't know. I like that. Is that against the rules? No, I think it could like I don't know Yeah, it's like always possible like the thing that they do is you go you felt like these forms like and stuff You sign your life away not really just that kind of tell them your interests like If you would be interested in learning a language or going out of the states and stuff you just send them that and then they pray about it And then they choose the location of where you're where you serve. So yeah, I guess like they totally could like I've heard of other siblings serving in the same area that they're there's siblings served or like Someone's dad served in like the same area. I don't know. It's it's just random It's like it's a lottery and isn't there like a like a month period that you go somewhere like near BYU's campus to be trained and like learn the language Yeah, the MTC. So it's like the mission training center. That's where you go mission training. Oh, MTC. Okay. Yeah, uh huh. We were actually thinking about this We're curious to ask you guys What do you think that people get them like most commonly get wrong about like the LDS church or like More more is in the church, cuz I feel like honestly Because of like the secret lives of Mormon wives like yeah, this has been such a topic online like people are talking about it so much and like Online and so I feel like there's got to be something that you hear or like read about your like or see like represent and you're like I think honestly there's all on there's a lot to be honest, but I think one thing that a lot of people get Confused about is if we actually worship Jesus Christ which we do because it's in our name the church of Jesus Christ a lot of He saints, but the Mormon name was a nickname and people think we either like worship Mormon or Joseph Smith was the one that like translated the book of Mormon into English people think we worship him You know like all these things, but in reality it always comes back to Jesus Christ. I think that's the most Misconception about our church. The church made an official statement like five years ago, right that they wanted to people to call like The term LDS is now used more so than Mormon. Yeah, yeah, that's like an official church So like a question I get from people that are Christian that like don't quite understand Like what LDS people believe is what's the thing about coffee? Can you can you maybe explain the thing about coffee for someone that doesn't fully understand what that is? It's an interesting topic because we're told not to drink coffee in my perspective. I Think it's more of just like an addiction thing like coffee can be addictive But so can soda and so like if you're addicted to it, then maybe you know, like kind of stay away Just because you don't want it to become like your main focus like you don't want to be able to survive You know without this thing. That's how I look at it. I think it's more of just an addiction thing than it is the coffee But I'm still learning So yeah, yeah totally. It's also like a thing too. So we so in our church We believe like that we have Just profits here on earth today they speak to God talk to God and they give us commandments And so one of that was to not drink coffee. That's just like one of like the commandments we were given so yeah It's in this it's in this thing. It's called the word of wisdom and in the word of wisdom It says like well, it's like a health code So it's like like all these things that we follow to stay healthy like we don't smoke use drugs But then also has like things that like you should do like you should eat What is it like like vegetable vegetables and moderation and so it's like it's kind of like a big health code They gave but that's the thing that sticks out the most because calm like cuz coffee's like the most common thing So it's like okay, it's like a commandment of just like a health code and then you have coffee in there and people like Oh, what coffee's like the best. It's awesome And then the word of wisdom is that within the book of Mormon or is that a separate like doctrine in addition to the book of Mormon Yeah, it's yeah, yeah, it's separate. Yeah, and that was written by Brigham Young. Is that just how he wrote it or who? No, it's Joseph Smith. Joseph Smith. Okay. Okay. Got it And it's like who is Mormon? I actually like or who is the guy I got to get my facts right dude like I need I got these questions all the time I'm on my mission Yeah, so in the book of Mormon it We had these golden plates that were kind of passed down from generation to generation so it starts with this guy named Nephi And then it goes all the way down until like Mormon and Moroni So Mormon is the dad of Moroni and he basically sealed up the plates like Moroni hit the plates until they were it was time to bring him out But Mormon, you know, I kind of sealed and put all the plates together So you have all these like old so like let's think of it as other prophets on like the other side of the world like I don't know Like years and years and years like before the virus came. Yeah, just like that Yeah, and it's basically the same but with Provids here in the Americas like the ancient America So it's like same sort of thing writing down all their like revelations and stuff and then you got this guy Mormon at the very and he's like You know what I'm gonna come cry all these. I'm gonna write my name on it and so like that's what he did Okay, and then oh - Okay, and then correct me if I'm wrong. To people that are a part of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, wow, that's a long name. That's why they did it. - LDS people, like identify S Christians and believe that these plates were then translated by Joseph Smith back in the 1800s, and then that's where you get the book of Mormon. - Yeah, yeah. - Okay, so. - Yeah, we just believe, 'cause like Joseph Smith, who's called to be a prophet of God, and then from that time after he was called to be a prophet, we continue to have prophets and revelation and stuff, so like we still have like modern day scripture coming out from our prophet today, and from his apostles that we believe, so. - Yeah. - So, they continue. - They just put you in the house. - It's a serious question. - It's like, we have like continued revelations, so we have more things to help us and guide us in today's world. 'Cause like, back in the day, they didn't have phones and stuff, you had no guy to like go and say, hey, that we're gonna have phones in the future. Don't do this, don't do that. But now we have like apostles and prophets, we believe in today, that can give us guidance on how to use our phones and how to use social media. - Okay, I've seen missionaries do in social media, is that like encouraged now to like reach people? So it's like you're allowed to like post faith-based stuff on social media while you're on your mission, but not to just like scroll and everything. - Yeah. - Yeah, that's basically it. - Yeah. - They have, I've had Facebook on my mission, so I was able to like post on Facebook, just a little more like uplifting content, and then, yeah, they encourage you, just 'cause like social media can go so far. - Yeah. - That's cool. - Okay, that's dope. Thanks for explaining all that guys. - Yeah. - That's cool. - Hopefully made sense. - I think your guys's content is specifically like sweet and enjoyable for us to watch, because we have two little boys now that kind of think they're twins because they're a year apart, so they're like our buddies. And we always are like, I just hope they stay friends. And it's like, I hope that they stay close. And so seeing you guys, obviously you guys are twins, but like, you're still close now as young adults is so fun. But I feel like, okay, so Matt asked earlier, I feel like people can tell you guys apart, maybe just not Matt, because-- - I'm dumb, but like, it's like, do one of you guys have like a freckle on your like, like cheek or something that like people, like, oh yeah, I'm the freckle one, I don't know. - I thought there was a freckle or like, like if I'm looking at you, you, okay, it's my life. You were right, but you had like, right there, you got a freckle, but you don't have it. - Yeah, then I can know that Brock is the one-- - As babies, did you guys look like-- - The freckle, yeah, I can't even tell him apart. - Really, yeah, yeah. - Okay, hold up though, has it ever been weird? Like, did you ever have a time where you got them confused? Be real right now. - There's been times where like, I'll hear, 'cause sometimes our voices can sound the same, but they sound different, it's, I don't know, it's weird. But, yeah, so there's been times where like, I'll walk out and like Boston will be turned the different way, and I'll almost think it's Brock, but they're not helping out the haircuts here. - I know, hey, he copied you with the mullet and stuff, so that's all right. - Because I, even like, from a side glance, confused you with Caleb sometimes, your older brother, and just 'cause like this side, or, I don't know, you're like not like staring at them in the eyes, like you would know then, but like I told Caleb that I was like, sit right here, and I was like, oh, you don't have to, I was like, so I can see that happening. - Especially when you guys spend a lot of time together, so. - Did that weird you out when you got confused? You're like, oh god, oh my gosh. - Yeah, luckily I was just in my mind, 'cause I was just like, like it's never happened where I'm like, I don't know, I'm like touching Boston. - You're not touching Boston, yeah. - Oh, whoops, kiss their own brother, like that's never, luckily that's never happened, but yeah, it's weird. Sometimes they sound the same and I'm like, what is going on? - You guys need a pranker at some point. Brooklyn and Bailey, it was dirty, you guys. They pranked their husbands. - You guys are Brooklyn and Bailey, we had them on the show and they did like a swap prank. And I think it was Dakota that grabbed, I think it was, yeah, Brooklyn, Bailey, he grabbed Bailey's behind. (all laughing) Which is not his one. - Which is not really. - And in the video, like they filmed this whole thing in the video. - I thought it was the funniest video, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you guys got to do that, Tara, sometimes. - Oh my god, please don't stop. - I'm just kidding. - Maybe after the mission. (all laughing) - Oh god. - That's funny, but I was gonna ask, like growing up, was it like, okay, this is, this is kind of broxing, this is Boston's thing. Like, or did you guys, like, were you guys always like, we had the same interests? Like, always wanna do the same things. - I feel like we kinda grew up like completely different. I was more into sports and stuff. Boston was more of, I don't know. He loved doing, like, he loved making money, like doing, right on side hustles. - Okay, yeah, I was on tour over here. - Yeah, he was on tour here. - He was on tour after two? - Yeah, almost gotten to Disney. (all laughing) - I could totally see that. - I took Dan's, do you guys ever take Dan's growing up? Do you guys do like, oh wait, rock, we actually did. - Yeah, I did, I did. - I did break Dan's. - Yeah, I wish I would have taken break dancing. That's so dope. - You should have, can you guys spin on your heads? - Didn't get to that level, but I think we actually got one or two lessons and then after that, we were done. - Like, we were at lots of times. - Yeah. - That's funny. We should enroll, Griffin. - I wanna enroll our kids. - We won't. - I'm also like, how much should I give them private lessons? 'Cause I used to, like, I have private math lessons. - You can tap it, you can tap it. - I can tap it. - Oh, no way. - I need to whip, I've never tapped on TikTok ever. I feel like I should do that. - You can tap everything. - Be kind of fun. - Be kind of busy. - Sorry, we're getting distracted. - So you guys had separate interests growing up, but you guys always got along. - Uh-huh, yeah. - Yes. - This always be good. - Yeah. And what's your love story? How do you guys meet? She remembers it better than I do. - Okay. - So my friend and I just went to the movies and they were there with their cousin and uncle and stuff. And this is, so I had a channel with my family and they apparently watched it 'cause of their sister. And so they noticed me and my friend and came up and was like, hey, can we get a picture? So I took a picture with them. Not really, like, I, nothing crazy there, but I remember, I went home and I thought it was crazy 'cause it was boys who came up to me and now, like I've never had boys take pictures with me. So I went to my mom and was like, look, this was crazy. They tagged me in their photo, like, boys took pictures with me. - How old did you think that Brock was, though? - Oh my gosh, the thing is, Brock was here to me. He was tiny. So I literally thought he was like my brother's age, which he's still having pictures. - Yeah, we do. - Yeah, we do. I mean, you need to send it to us. - I would have to see this. - Yeah, but he was super short and so I didn't think anything of it, right? But then I told my mom was like, oh, look at these kids. Like, they were so nice. (laughing) - What did he say? - He made just me buy them. - And then my mom did some investigating, and just like looked at their account 'cause they had a combined account and realized like they were my age and they have their own YouTube channel. And so then my mom was like, we should go and collab with them. So, we set up a time to collaborate. - No, we were the ones that DMed you guys. - Oh really? - Yeah. - And that's a collab. - Yeah. - Wait, did you guys both have family channels? I think like was it your parents that were doing the channel and then you guys were like in the channel or how did that work? - I was in the family channel. - And we just together on our own, just in a while. - Okay, okay, nice. - So, yeah, it was, yeah, just collaborated and then we all became friends there. And then like two years later, probably when we were 16s when we really started like dating. - Ah, okay. - Like 15, 16, yeah. - Oh, so it wasn't 14, it was 15, it was 15. - We met 14. - It started dating. - I thought I was 13, I think when I met you. - Oh, wow. - I think it's 13, yeah. And then it was 13. - Yeah, something like that. - And you're older. Was that? - I'm six months older. - Six months older, okay. - Cougar. - Wow. (laughing) - That's crazy. - That's wild. (laughing) - I'm pretty crazy. - I'm already crazy. - Yeah, so we, yeah. - We collaborated and then hung out. - Yeah. - It's 13 dating. - That's crazy, yeah. - Yeah, that's sweet. So you guys have both, like I've all done YouTube for like since you were a kid. - Sixth grade. - Yeah. - Vlog and an elementary. - Yeah. - That's wild. - Who's ideal is it to start YouTube? So it was my idea because like we grew up like watching YouTubers and stuff. Like that was kind of the thing we started. We stopped watching just like regular TV. And then I remember like Brock was over at our cousins house and I called him up and like, dude come over here. We're gonna film a video. Alyssa said that our sister, she's gonna edit it and we'll put all together. So we did it. It was like a Q and A or something. And then like a couple days later we hit like 100 subscribers and we were just freaking out. We couldn't believe it. - We're a big deal. - That's our big break. - That's sweet. - What was the moment for you guys when you were like, oh, we made it. 'Cause for me, that was getting the silver YouTube play button. Was there something like that for you guys that? - Dude. - That was really cool. - I think even earlier when we got like the 10,000 the 10,000 subscriber email from YouTube, we were just up like all night waiting for it to hit 10,000. Please, please, please. So I feel like that was insane. - Yeah, that was right after we posted our first collab video with the Lyroys and then after that we hit 10,000 and we just were, yeah, it could not believe it. - No, I didn't realize this. So you guys, like you were collabing with your family's channel and then your family had been, like how long had your family been vlogging on YouTube or creating content on YouTube? - Yeah, so I was in sixth grade two and I think when we started growing followers was probably when I was in seventh grade and yeah, it started with like my mom and I. We called it a whole different name. It was called Raising Mom and it was just gonna be like our relationship 'cause I'm really close to my mom. And it was so fun, but we started filming around with the family and they loved it too. And so we're like, oh, let's just change it to the Lyroys. And so we filmed, you know, like. are just our daily lives and stuff and people caught onto it, it was fun, it was really fun, yeah. Was there ever a time through being in the public eye for so long that something like got posted or something that got shared that you guys were like, "Oh wait, I wish I could take that back." Something like that you wanted private that went public. I don't know if you guys want to keep this in, but like when you guys like broke up for a second and then the video on TikTok, how that girl was like taking pictures and then posted it from the jerk off tissue. There was a girl leaking some about you guys without your permission, that's so sad. So you guys are like teenagers and you're just navigating, like dating and you're on a small break and some girl leaked it. Is that what happened? Well so we came out and said like we were on a small break, but then we got back together and we didn't really want to be in the public eye like that fast. So we kind of just took a break, but we went out in public and it's just a girl saw us and we're like, "They're back together." So yeah, of like, it was crazy seeing you. Yeah, it was okay, like it didn't bother me too much, but it was just funny, like things spread really fast. Yeah, that's why. And you guys were like 17, 16 when this happened? Yeah, 17. 17? Yeah, that's so crazy. It seems like like both of your families are really close, like you guys are all like really close with like your parents and like your siblings and stuff, and it just makes me wonder like what did your parents do that you think were going up that like made like having a relationship with them as adults. So like it seems like easy and fun, like an enjoyable for you guys. That's a good question. I would say, I think my parents had a really good job of like taking care of us, like making sure we're doing the right things, but they also weren't too strict because I've seen like with some other friends where their parents are super strict and they like really sneaky kids. Yeah, so like I feel like my parents had a good job of that. Hey, you can always talk to us. Also, don't do dumb stuff, but also go have fun. I feel like they had a good balance. Yeah, 100%. Yeah. Would you say with your mom? Cause I think you have a good relationship with your mom. Yeah, my mom, she, I mean she, she knows that like everyone's gonna make mistakes, right? And so she would tell me like, oh, I did this. Like it's okay, like you're, you know, just she always made me feel comfortable to tell her things. Like if I did make a mistake, like I would be able to tell her and be like, what do I do? You know, but yeah, they were, they weren't super strict. They had a lot of trust in me and that I felt like as a, as a teen was like, okay, like I don't want to lose my parents' trust. So, you know, I'm not going to stay out too late. And if, if I wanted to, like I could text them, they'd be like, yeah, sure, you know, but it was just always like a, just a lot of trust and they always communicated with me really well. 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Yeah and I'm okay you're not a kid, you're an adult, but like I mean look at myself six years ago and I'm like oh my gosh I was so young like that's that's so unique. Yeah. They just they wanted to help us out. They also got married at like 18. Yeah and so they're all young. Really okay. It's like this is this is the regular. Yeah that's not too late. Well that's super common in Utah right? It's very common. People often thought like still I think there's people that think that we're LDS because of how we got married. Yeah yeah this thing real tight. We're actually very late for like the Utah. Like you're this. I feel like there's food. Yeah. Yeah. What's the standard age? Like 18-19. No. Oh you're way you're 21. You're 21. I'm stressing guys. I'm stressing. He should have kids like two years ago. You don't have seven children yet. What do you do in Boston? Oh no. Come on. Yeah. It's it's crazy. So I don't know. They were supportive though. Like they they were very supportive. Well guys I listened to you guys on a podcast that was posted five months ago and you guys were still dating five months ago. Yeah. That is crazy. So you guys how many months so four months ago you got engaged? Is that is that correct? We got engaged just September. Okay. Math. What is that? That's September to October. So it's like almost five months. Yeah. It's been it's been you guys got engaged almost five months ago. You've not been married for three months. Okay. Yeah. That's a good way. You lift that wedding together pretty quick. Yeah. Yes we did. Was it big? Was it big? Yeah. Um I don't know what's what a big wedding like. I don't know what a big wedding was. Like what would you say is like a huge wedding? I would say a big wedding is like 200. 200 plus. We had 200 plus I'm pretty sure. Yeah. I think yeah 200 people are rolling in. Yeah. So that is a big wedding. Yes. And did you have like a temple wedding and then like a after party like reception sort of thing? Is that how that works? Yeah. That's dope. Yeah. So we got married in the temple that morning and then later we had like a lunch and then we did a little ceremony. We did a little ceremony and yeah, vows and stuff and then the reception and stuff. Nice. Awesome. So you guys are newly newlyweds. Yeah. You were as newly wed as they come. Literally. But you guys have some history too. So do you feel like the transition has like been pretty smooth? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like it's been pretty chill. We were already with each other so much. Yeah. It's like the only thing different is like now we're with each other at night. Yeah. Yeah. I mean there's a couple things like toilet paper that she kind of does wrong. Like a little argument. But you're like no. No, it's been awesome. That's sweet. I feel like we've been loving it. It's been so much better for us to just be married and instead of just like hanging out and yeah. You guys were patient. Very patient. What is something that you've learned about one another since getting married? The toilet paper. It goes on. Is this something that you guys disagree about the way the toilet paper goes on? We talked about actually in a video, but it's just I know. But she's getting so much better. She's doing so good. I don't really care how this paper goes, but he does look like okay. Who's the messy one? He's messy. I'm not messy. We took a picture of our house right now. You'd see. She just patches out. She probably has makeup stuff on the counter. I guess. Is she the spender? I feel like we do a good job. We actually both spend. Yeah. You're both spenders. It's not a good situation. You're deep in thought right now. What are your honest thoughts about them? Who's the spender? Who's the messy one? I don't know. I feel like you guys are like Boston would say I was messy. I don't say you guys are like spenders, but like you guys are you guys say your money. We're thrifty. We're thrifty. Did you feel like everyone was putting the pressure on you now that your brother, your typical twin brothers get weird. Yeah. Honestly, not really. I feel like there hasn't been a whole lot of pressure with that. So I'm chilling. Okay. I'm going to hit you guys with like a really deep question right now. So this is like two deep breaths. Let me stretch through. Rainbow breath. I teach my kids to do rainbow breaths. Like whenever they're like, you know, something if they're upset, we'll do all like lead them in the rainbow breath. I just way overhyped this basically. Here's the question. What is this? I don't know one thing that's so weird. Okay. What is? I'm sorry. Wow. What is something unplanned that happened to you that changed the trajectory of your life? Oh, I know it. Wait, if you know it, then just hit. Oh, okay. Wait, for you or for them? Either way. He's just thinking about us. Wait, no, I was thinking about that. I was thinking about something completely different. Yeah. Wait, what was it? I want to know. No, wait, no. This is the offer. The thing that changed our life, I think the most is probably when our family got in a plane crash. I saw that video pop up and I was just like, that's crazy. I think the craziest thing about that, like, like looking into it is like most people that have been in a plane crash, like, don't, You don't ever hear their stories. - Like, that is wild. - I think there were like, it was, I think there were six plain, like small plain crashes in Utah that summer, and we were some of the only survivors, yeah. - Crazy, so how old were you? - Yeah, we were 16 years old. It was just with our family, so it was well, actually just with our parents, and then the pilot and his wife, and so. - Mm-hmm. - Yeah, we were flying over, actually, it's kind of crazy. Well, you guys know Brooklyn and Bailey, right? - Yeah. - Okay, did they talk about on their, I think Dakota and then met with their dating series and stuff? - I think they did, yeah. - Okay, so that was the day. So like, Dakota lives in that area, like where we were flying our plane and everything, and they were on the date, and we're like, okay, while you guys are on the date, like we'll go for like a little small ride, for a short ride in the small plane, and so that's what happened. Like, we were flying over the U-Winter Mountains, and then we lost power, and then, yeah, we ended up crashing. - Okay. - So, yeah, holy, that is probably, like on the list of most terrifying things, you could experience a plane crash, walk me through every step of what went down, from hearing that, oh, the plane's going down, the engine's not working. - They say that it was gonna go down. - Yeah, I think you said that we're gonna have to land. - He said it's gonna be hard. - Okay, so you guys, first of all, why were you guys in a private plane? Why were you guys just flying over the mountains? - Literally, just for fun, the pilot, really good buddy of ours. He just say, hey, we'll go up and just fly around and stuff for sec, and then we can come back and just chillin' everything. - And this is a family friend, and how is this family friend? Like, how does this connect to Brooklyn and Bailey and Dakota? - So, Dakota is friends with Shad and Jazzlin, so the pilot. - Shad is the pilot, yeah. - Okay, okay, yeah. - Got it, and Shad, or Shad, or Shad? - Shad, yeah, Shad, that's such a rad name. - Oh my God. - Okay, so Shad just said to you guys and your parents, hey, I'm gonna go take a little flight around the mountains and you tall, you guys wanna come? - And we were that simple. - Yeah, and we were kind of joking around too, like, do we need pair of shoes, ha ha, whatever, and we were recording Instagram stories, and then our dad was actually doing a family vlog, so we had it all recorded too and everything, before, or when we were actually in the air, so we got into the plane, Brock and I were in the very back, our mom and the pilot, so I for in the middle, and then, Shad and my dad were up front, and, like, we were just flying around and stuff, and then, Brock, you posted on your Snapchat or whatever. - Oh yeah, I had a Snapchat story of me in the plane, I'm like, might die, but you know the vibes, and then, there's a video, and then, actually, that next day, I took a picture, and it just of all my bruises from the seatbelt and stuff, so it's like, you see that picture in that video, and then, you see, like, the bruises picture. - Did that get posted in the air? - No, we didn't get posted, so I literally just saved it. I didn't like post it, but that would have been wild, if we got posted. - Oh my god. - How long were you guys in the air before the plane went down? - Wasn't it like, I think it was like 15 minutes? I think it was like 15 minutes we were in the air, and then, it was like-- - It was pretty short. - It wasn't like 12 seconds between when we were like, okay, we need to go, we're landing, we need to go down, and then-- - Oh my gosh, it went 12 seconds. - Yeah, so it was like quick. We had to, like, think of things, like what, yeah. That was actually the craziest. Yeah. - Wow. - We just had a million things like running through our head. I remember literally seeing the plane, and even like seeing the ground, when we were going down, I'm like, am I good enough? Like, what's gonna happen to my body? Like, I had all these different thoughts go through my mind. And then, what were you thinking about the time when we were going down? - I was just saying to prayer, I was like, what else can you do? Like, you're just, I don't know, stuff you can't. There's nothing else to do, so I just like set up prayer, and then I remember just like, I was like holding onto my seat or something, and then, like, we were, yeah, bracing for impact, and then it was just like a crunch, and then it was just black. Like, and then-- - Oh my gosh. - I have stuff. - I think everyone blocked out. - Everyone blacked out, 'cause that's how hard the impact was. Was this like a nose dive? No, I feel like it was more of like a hit where, I don't know, it felt like an instant like, just like a bum, like a bum and a little bit of a slide. So I just, gosh. - Well, and then this is my question, 'til you landed next to a lake. When you land a plane that's crashing, or you're like trying to navigate a plane crash, is it good to land in water? 'Cause I know the guy that landed the lake in the Hudson-- - Well, it's blacked out. - Well, the Hudson River guy, who landed the, he, they made a movie about him. He landed the plane in the Hudson River. So like, is there a reason that he landed not in the water? - Yeah, yeah. - So it was like purely just because he like, literally like felt, I don't know, prompted to, yeah, prompted to go and land on the, so there's three options. You had the lake, you also had the sand, like the beach area, and then the sagebrush flat, that area, and he literally just felt prompted. He's like, I need to go and land here, because if I do any of the, these other things, it's gonna kill everyone. So he like-- - It's gonna flip. - Yeah, he literally just had those thoughts, and so he went and decided on the sagebrush flat, and then, of course, a lot of people got hurt, but no one died in that. - That is a miracle that I've known, like, yeah. - And there's people close by. - Yeah, yeah. - Which is, it looked so remote, so that's not surprising. - Yeah, it was, yeah, so it was pretty far out, it was out in this place called Moon Lake, and there's actually an EMT that was on site that happened to Sierra Plain going down. - Like right between these two pine trees, and then he saw the plan out. - Yeah, and so he's like, that doesn't look right. I gotta go. He said, running, y'all that is son to go grab, like, their med kit and stuff, and they came running towards our plane. - Which had that med kit, like, had the I.V. - Something or whatever. - That's what my dad ended up saving our dads, like, if they didn't have it in time. - That is so wild. - 'Cause your dad had some of the worst injuries of everybody, right? - He broke everything, except-- - Except for his arms. - Yeah, but like-- - He broke his pelvis, his legs. - Like, they both tied up for injuries. - Like, bleeding everywhere, bleeding out of his ears. It was wild. - How many minutes did it take for the paramedic to respond? - I think for the, well, the other, there was an ambulance, too, that was doing another training that was like 45 minutes away. - So like way closer than it should have been. - Where the hospital was. Yeah, so it was like another miracle that they were able to get people to come to us. But yeah, I can't remember how long it was. Like, 'cause you could have landed anywhere. Like, the mountains, like-- - Yeah, if the minutes before we would have been in. - We would have been on the other side of the mountains. - Nobody would have seen us. Yeah, no way we could have landed. - And I remember on the video they said that he thought to turn off the engine or else it would have probably, like, exploded. - Oh, gone up in flames, yeah, yeah. - So the plane didn't catch on fire. - But there's like few leaking out the side of the plane. - It was a hot summer day, like, the best things happened. - And it worked in a bad situation, yeah. - In the worst situation, yeah. - Like it was so much worse, but I'm sure you probably don't necessarily like hearing that though, 'cause you're like, this was a scary traumatic thing. But, like, just like thinking about something like that happening in the way that you guys were able to, like, share about it, honestly, so quickly afterwards, 'cause I watched the video, like, right after it happened, I think it had, like, your dad was still in the hospital. - Oh, no way. - And, like, I was like, they clearly have, like, talked about this as a family, as well as you can, like, to start processing that type of thing. And my question is, like, you guys flew here. And now it's flying, does it feel separate? Because it's, like, a bigger plane in commercial, or, like, is there still, like, a fear associated with that? - How do you not have a-- - 'Cause I'm just right in your flying, and I've never been in a plane crash. - Yeah, in the beginning, right after our plane crash, I was fine, like, oh, I could go on a plane, like, this would be fine. And then I saw, like, three months later, we're going on a flight. And I was just, like, stressed out of my mind. And then, Taylor just took my mom to just yell at me and be like, we're getting on a flight. It's going to be fine, and then exposure therapy. - Yeah, exposure therapy. - I'm a little bit of yelling. - Oh my god, my mom. - You're, like, crying, and you're, like, "Mom, I'm terrible, I just care not the plane!" (laughing) - So, yeah. - Yeah, she's been like, what? Is it going to happen again? How is your mom not traumatizing me? - Your mom seems like a bulldozer, do she? - She's sweet. - Yeah, she's awesome. - She's so awesome. - Kessley, what was your reaction to hearing about your, like, at the time, boyfriend almost dying in a plane crash? - Ex-boyfriend. - Your ex-boyfriend? Oh, you were apart? - Well, we were kind of in a weird, like, phase, I guess. Like, I guess you could say we were on a break, but we were still talking, so we were kind of together. But it was, it was actually funny, 'cause I was at the hair salon. So, I was at the hair salon getting my hair done, and both Brock and I are just Snapchatting back and forth. And he's like, I don't know how he had service on the plane, but he had service on the plane. And so, he was like, yeah, look, I'm in the plane. I was like, oh, that's crazy. And then, there was a second there, where I was left on delivered for a second. And the last thing I saw was he was in the plane. So, I was like, oh, he could have lost service, but then there was a thought that popped up in the back of my mind that was like, what if he got in a plane crash? Like, I don't know, I don't know what it was. Like, nothing, nothing could have led me to think that, but I just did. I was just like, what if? Like, that would be scary. And then, like, two seconds later, our friend, our close friend calls and says, oh, my gosh, Brock and Boston just got in a plane crash. And I started flipping out. And like, I have like my bleach in my hair and foils and everything, I was flipping out. Like, my mom was there. And I was like, mom, Brock and Boston got in a plane crash. I had no idea if they survived. 'Cause like you said, instantly you think like, oh, yeah, no one's there, you know? But we later found out that like, everything was fine, just lots of like injuries and stuff, but it was just the scariest. Like, I could not focus that whole night. Like, I don't know. It was like crazy experience though. - And this break, like did hearing about the plane crash make you want to get back together in a weird way? Was that like something that you were like, I love to care. - I love him. I love him. Like I don't know I feel like yeah in a way we started talking like a lot more because this break was dumb You know, we were like high school Almost middle school relationship. 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I don't I feel like it's through everything into perspective like Like we shouldn't take every day for granted and like like fam is the most important family is most important and like tell everyone that like you love them and Yeah, I just yeah, I can't say I have the biggest takeaways like it made life more meaningful in a way or like it made it feel like Okay, like we got a like we got a second chance at life That's good and this break was this the same break we talked about earlier was this like another break in addition to the original break How many breaks were there actually we that might have been that might have been a different break. Oh wow We had two breaks. Yeah, like where we were like we were like technically broken up, but we're like we're still we're still talking like nothing You know, we weren't dating other people It was just I think we never went too long without Mm-hmm, like these breaks are really short - it was though Wow, yeah, I'm also circling back to like you guys deciding to like kind of date But then obviously it's gonna look so definitely like when you're both on your mission like that was really mature to be like Yeah, like we're probably we'd like to stay together, but also like holding it like open-handedly like, you know If it works out like that's really mature, whereas I feel like us and we were we dated in high school, too We would have been like we are stay like we were just like Oh for sure. What I mean really what yeah, we were like there's no other option But like it was yeah, that's just like the high school Crazy hormones and passions Yeah, that's definitely true. I feel like we totally would have thought that but like in reality two years is a lot Yeah, and so we're realistic. Yeah, and so we were thinking, you know if If we get to stay together after the mission like that's gonna be the best thing But like if there's other plans, you know like it's gonna suck, but well, you know go go with it So what was that conversation like after the mission you guys coming back together? Who who is the person that said? Are we are we doing this like who said it first? I don't know. I think Come on, you know who was I mean, I was that's private. You know, I would I on the mission I would pray I think about Kessie like every day like that's just like kind of what I would do so I don't I think I was kind of ready, but by the time I got home like she knew I loved her and stuff and that I wanted to continue to keep dating and everything But I would say it wasn't up until like our trip we took a trip together actually It was like a week after I got home. Yeah a week after you got home to yeah to like Alabama Went down by like by the beach and stuff and then we came back home up to Tennessee and then we just kept talking about Like getting together logistics of it What we want to do it and then it was like then when we made the decision, right? Yeah, it was I feel like it was mutual I think we were both like this is a huge step like are we ready for that, but then yeah, I just we all we thought of Like the logistics and things and everything just led to like getting married and so I think yeah I think like some other parts too is like Kess and I have been together forever I also came home and I was able to see her for a little bit So like we we went was like 18 months without seeing each other Yeah, and so that was like another thing is we also like had our missions line up to Being I don't know three weeks apart from being able to see each other when we got home. That's pretty cool too Kind of random, but you job and you jogged my memory when you talked about praying don't latter-day Saints Not believe in hell, but there's like different levels of heaven So it's like everyone has an afterlife, but depending on you know, you know X, Y and Z you end up in a different like realm Mm-hmm. Yes, yeah, yeah, so we yeah, so we believe that so like we believe like if you were I don't know to if you're to to be baptized and turn all the covenants you're supposed to like these special promises with God That you'll be able to live in like a celestial glory and then there's also one that's like Like we compare celestial glory to like the Sun like it says bright as the Sun Yeah, and then we compare like yeah, then we have terrestrial, which is another one It's like compared to the brightness of the star the stars, right? Oh the moon. Sorry I'm getting mixed up, but then there's then there's celestial where it's like the brightness of like the moon and stuff And then we also do believe like that there's hell, but it's kind of hard to get there Yeah, cuz he wants all of his kids at the end at the end of the day Yeah, like you could to be with him even if you had like a really bad kid is kind of like doing everything wrong You like you still like would want to like love them and help them out And so that's what we have Jesus Christ. He comes into play help us out and through him We can repent and become better and you said through your mission that it kind of helped you get out of your shell What was it about the mission that did that for you before the mission? That's pretty social Well actually not crazy social. I feel like the mission was where it hit me where I'm like I need to be talking to more people and stuff And I actually learned a language to own my mission So I got to experience like a whole new culture and I was just talking to people every day facing rejection of this Embodying someone a church and I have someone like cussed out at me like I had like all those experiences and stuff And so I feel like I kind of did break out of my shell on my mission What was the what who is this guy that cussed you out? Do there's a couple one more than one. Oh, yeah, could you count the times that you got cussed out on one hand? Or is it like multiple hands? I feel like it'd be multiple hands Who are these people that are cussing people out? I shouldn't laugh that's so bad. There's one guy down on So this street called Everett down in Massachusetts This one guy he'll yell at you every single time if you invite him to church or if you just say like anything to him if you have Your white shirt on your tie if you put like a black name tag on he'll be out He'll he'll literally yell at you. I promise but why are missionaries going in cognito? I feel like you guys should show up and like You go in like blitzkriegs, right? Yeah, yeah, well, I think there are some missions that it's like you just like we're regular clothes or that's the thing Yeah, there's missions where we're the missionaries do not wear the standard like like the prosa like Yeah, dress shirt short sleeve khakis helmet if you're on a bike like that's not What's what's the mission where there were in street clothes? I'm so curious. Well, okay in my mission there we actually had reservations so like Indian reservations in Montana. There's a lot of those and so when We us sisters were in a lot to serve there because it's just a little dangerous But the elders when they go and serve there they were able to wear like jeans and it's he shirt because Like a big like the suit and tie. It's very intimidating. It's just, you know like Yeah, not a good fit. So they were able to wear like t-shirts and stuff But a lot of areas like different missions aren't even a lot to go like door-to-door or like talk to people About and like teach them, you know like some missions. They can only just do service like just help people out There's no prosa lighting just straight service. Yeah. Yeah. Well, why is that is it because of the culture? They don't want just like culture and different laws to okay, so yeah, it all just depends on where you're at So what's have a service? Are you doing honestly anything like you could I don't know like we'd be doing dishes We'd be on a food ban. It's like we do any type of service we could get our hands on So if you need help Call if anyone needs help you literally call up the missionaries. They will hook you up Wait, that's kind of dope. So if there's someone like struggling in life right now Yeah, you they could just call up like a local LDS mission and be like could someone help me like I packed up I packed up like two houses like the whole house No, wait that companion and then some other people We would help me start a business legitimately there the best members because actually our friends were like no like we'll get you well a healthy movie. You do not need to hire someone. Come to find out it was like members of their church. I was like, I am not going to steal that service, I remember I was like getting settled down with K-Lin. K-Lin? Seriously, no, my ward, they're great. K-Lin offered a reward to move us last year. I don't know, they'll happily do it too. That's like the crazy part. Like they'll do it with a smile on their face. Is that the most common is moving people? Many houses, I mean I helped out with like branding cows and stuff in Montana. So branding cows with that sad, were you sad branding the cows? It was sad at first, but then my friend made a point where it's like if you don't brand the cows then people can still them and kill them. So it was like, that made me feel better. I was like, okay, they're just like marking their territory I guess. Wow. It is sad, it is. Holy cow. Also random, random question. I've got on my notes here, you guys bought a house at 17. Can you talk to us about that? How the crap? What in the YouTube? How did you guys buy a house at 17? Yeah, so we just been doing YouTube forever and stuff. And one of the things we wanted to get into is like home DIY real estate. We've always been like big fans of I know, probably brothers. Yeah, yeah. So that's just like something we wanted to do and opportunity came up when we were in Tennessee and. Yeah, saved up all our money and then spent all our money. And we sold the house after we sold the renovations to it. So like, it was actually cool. Well, when we when we moved to Tennessee, we were in high school. We were only there for like a semester. And then we decided to switch to online. And then for when we were doing online, one of our classes like we could do was like, I know we figured out a way that like with the house renovations and with like, make our own business stuff. Yeah, we could turn it into a credit and we like do things about it. Yeah. And so we renovated a house, like learned all these skills, like, well, painting gets like our nightmare now. Yeah. No painting. Never painting again. Like, oh, we'll tile. We'll do like, we'll make beans. We'll do whatever. Why paint is why is that the fear? Oh, it's got to be an artist if you want to do painting. We just like to be painting and you just see like a diff, like a spot like off. Yeah, it was just too much for us. Was it hard on your brotherhood to do? I mean, people always say don't renovate a house with your spat like with your mouse because it's like testing your marriage. Was that hard for you guys or were you like, I mean, with him, I can yell at him. So I'm like, it was fine. He also had our dad. He's an electrician and stuff. So he taught us. Awesome. Yeah. So we got to learn. Yeah. There were so many skills that we got to learn in that year, year and a half. Yeah. Did you turn around for a profit? I thought that. You lost money on the house. No. I think we kind of broke even. We split even. We broke even with their renovations. Yeah. We got credit for school. And then we also got to like learn all these different. Yeah. Yeah. We did some. Yeah, deals like you learned a lot. Yeah. Yeah. Awesome. A question I have for you, Boston is you chose to like delay going on a mission for a period of time. Like did you, it was our time where you're like, I'm not going to do one or like did you just have different plan for after high school? Yes. For sure. So like after high school, it's like pretty common for members, members of our faith to go on missions. And for me, I was like, I just like was not like, I was being careful about it, but like was not getting a for sure answer. And I'm like, I'm not going to do it. If I don't have like a for sure answer, like, I need to know that this is right for me. So anyways, Brock started like filling out his papers to like submit for a mission and everything. And I was like, ah, this just isn't it? Like you, like you do you or whatever. And then like right before Brock was leaving on his mission, like, it was like a couple of days or whatever. We were at the beauty supply. And my mom was like getting like this haircut stuff for Brock to bring. And he turned to me. He's like, dude, are you so glad you're not going on a mission? And because like Brock was like so sad and like just like depressed, honestly, like I've never had more anxiety in my entire life. That's a scary thing to do. That's about to leave. Yeah. Cause you guys do everything together, right? Yeah. You guys have been like, enjoying it. Is that the hardest part? Or like, I'm sure there's a lot of hard parts. I mean, the hardest part was even hurt. But I can't believe in him. Yeah. Yeah. And you're just doing something where like, you're just completely away from like all your comfort. Yeah. So weird. I'm just going to go to Brazil, trying to pick up a language with a bunch of random dudes I've never met in my entire life. And then you're like, yeah, I'm glad. I was like, yeah, I'm glad I'm not doing it. I'm glad I'm not doing that after seeing all of this. Cause like, it was just a rough, it was a rough week at our house before Brock, Brock left. But that's so sad. And you got an older sister, too. Did she go on one or are you the first year feeling? Yeah, first in the first generation. What are you most excited for with your mission? Do you know where you're going? Do you know? Yeah. Oh, you do. Yeah. I saw the video, man. I haven't seen the video. We're, oh, wait, where are you going? I'm talking about with his grandparents. Oh, yes, yes. Yeah. So, so everybody knows, everybody knows. You ready for it? What's your guess, though? What's your guess? Oh, gosh. It could be in the country. It could be like in the United States or be out of the country. I'm going to feel dumb. So I feel like someone told me and I just forgot. I'm going to say out of the country right or wrong. Wrong. I'm right. Is it in the country? You're right. Where are you going? I'm so excited. No. It's Vancouver, Canada. That's cool. So, dude, that's where they had the Olympic, the Winter Olympics, like 10 years ago. Oh, I think you were, yeah. Or maybe it was like 20 years ago. I'm old. I'm learning the language. No English. And I'm like so happy about it. There's a lot of French, right? Well, there's a French and I had a buddy that did California. And he had to learn Spanish for California. Yeah, because there's a lot of Spanish people here. Yeah. Yeah. So English. And then I'll be there for like the anticipated time is 24 months. So we'll see if I hit the two-year mark. I'm here to just try it out. So. And you worked a corporate job for a little bit in there too. I did it for a little bit. I was climbing that corporate ladder. And you gave it up. Yeah. Well, I was doing social media and doing that. That's a lot. That's a lot to do. That's two full-time jobs at the same time. Yeah. It was. Yeah. It was fun though. I loved it. I was actually, it was for this company called Betty's, which is actually my mom's company. It's like super Betty. We have that upstairs. Yeah, our kids. We figure that out yesterday. 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They're gonna scroll Facebook reals and stuff. - Was there somebody that abused it? - Yeah, yeah, there always happened. - What did this kid do? - Just like watching it. - He's watching some reals and then not working and being focused and stuff. And so, yeah, there's, I think there's a couple kids that happened to and so they took it out of our mission. But, yeah, we still had like other social media stuff that you're doing within our mission. - Do you feel like you guys are less addicted than the average like early 20 year old because you had to like delete everything for two years. Like a year and a half, or did it make it the reverse happened? Like when you got back, I'm like, I'm back. - Got a bitch on it. - Yeah, you didn't like want your phone when you came back, right? Was that kind of like the case? - Yeah, when I came home, I just like, I didn't really want to be on my phone. It was hard posting on social media again. So I was like, I don't really know what I'm doing. But, I don't know. I feel like because I was away from it for so long, I did jump right back into like being on my phone all the time, which I'm trying to be better at that. But, I don't know. - I feel like we do pretty good. 'Cause I feel like we try and create more than we just consume. I feel like that's kind of a pretty good thing that we've all been doing. - Yeah, I feel like it was pretty comfortable. - It's probably real as much as I used to. - Yeah, and okay, Boston, you got to fill me in, man. What's the latest with, like, are you in a relationship now? Is that a secret? - Bad time we can't talk. - Can we talk about that? - What's going on? Not right now. So, I know, I'm kind of sad. But, I have my mission that I'm looking forward to. And then, we'll see if something happens there. And then, yeah. - Gotcha. - I know there's something that was posted, I think, where you were like, maybe in a relationship. I didn't know if that was just like-- - Allegedly. - Allegedly. - Allegedly. - Allegedly. - Oh, well, no. - He's been gone on dates. - He's always been gone on dates. - Yeah. - Okay. - I think that's fun. I feel like I heard about Utah's dating culture. Like, you guys go on dates more than-- - Yeah. - Obviously, you guys are in Tennessee. - Well, we met in Tennessee. That was like the one thing, like, even with like, school dances, like, a lot of people, like, if you ask someone to a dance, it's like, almost as if like-- - You're dating. - You're a girlfriend, boyfriend. But it's like, in Utah, it's like, you can't just like-- - You can't. - Yeah, go on it, go on it, go on it, go on it, go on a date, yeah, huh? - Yeah. - So, I've just kind of kept that like, more private. But-- - And, okay, and Brock, fill me in on the suit that you wore at your wedding. - Oh. - I know, I saw that, that video in viral. - Brock got roasted. - No. - I got flamed. - No, wait, that's-- - I don't even get it. - I don't see how that's a problem. - Yeah, so, I mean, it isn't a problem, right? - I don't get it. - Okay, so basically, I wore a suit and I had like this Fortnite print on the inside. No one's gonna see the inside of your suit unless if you like, flash it open and stuff. I'm like, oh, this would be super funny. Kess and I, we love playing Fortnite together. - That's cute. - It's kind of like, what our dates consisted of when we were long distance and stuff. So I'm like, this would be fun. And so, I ended up putting Fortnite inside my suit. I posted a tick talk about it. And then people were like, flaming me. They're like, ain't no way he's got Fortnite inside of his suit. Like, is this kid even old enough to get married? (laughing) I'm like, okay, I guess this is a little immature, but-- - No, that's just fun. - Yeah, that's fun. - You should've been like, actually, my parents got married at 18, so I'm like way more mature than they were. - That was an example of something that the comments could have gone so many different ways, but it's just like, whatever took hold at the beginning, just took hold and then everyone just repeats the same comment. - Yeah. - Well, you know what? This is meaningful for us, actually. And either way, it's just the inside of your suit. - Yeah. - That's funny. There's also comments too that were defending him. They were like, well, let the guy be able to do something like that. - The girl gets all her stuff and then I got my one thing, it was for us. - That's a good idea, though, to have something fun on the inside of your suit. I've never heard of that. - Yeah, it was cool. I thought it was fun. I didn't really care. I was like, this is cool. - Yeah, my wedding, I got all of my groomsmen crazy socks. - Oh, yeah. - No, somebody had Hawaiian socks, somebody had pickle socks. We had just like a bunch of different fun. I think that's awesome. - I'm surprised you even had that organized in time. - I just went to Marshall's and bought a bunch of socks. - That was good play. - That's so awesome. - It was really fun. - Yeah, it was so cool. - It's unique. - And now, okay, I know you guys really have been married for like two weeks, but like more than that. But like, have you guys talked about kids? You guys wanna have kids? Do you not even know yet? 'Cause you've only been married for so little. I mean, I guess you can say we don't really know yet, but we've talked about it. And right now, we just wanna travel. - Travel, enjoy the time like we can. - Just kinda remember your time, yeah. - Where do you guys wanna travel? - Bali. - Anywhere and everywhere. Like, that's like the dream right now. Just 'cause like, we didn't really travel for like two years and stuff. We're like, you know, we wanna go and have fun and explore. So definitely think, Bali. - Yeah, Bali. - Brazil. - Yeah, we wanna go to Brazil. - I wanna go to Brazil. - Go back to Italy. - So, just like really fun, like cool places. 'Cause I feel like after going to Montana and like seeing Montana, 'cause I've been to a couple of different states, but Montana was just gorgeous. It made me realize like, oh wow, there's so much more out. - That's so good for you guys. That's so fun being in your early 20s, traveling the world together. Just, yeah, there's just so much in store for you guys. That's super exciting. - Yeah, we're excited. We love traveling, so. - Do you have any more questions just before your game? - Do you wanna be a great at this degree? - We play our game. Okay, agree with this degree. If you guys are down, we have prepared a greedy disagree for us to play. Addy, do you have the panels ready to go? - Oh, there's so official. - Oh, let's go! - Okay. - Let's go, okay. Guys, this is big, we, this is our first time ever using these agree to disagree. - Well, I don't, or is it just them? - I think it's just them. Well, yeah, okay. Apparently it's just you guys playing agree to disagree. - All right, let's go. - Okay, how close? - You wanna vote too? Okay, I guess Addy's, I mean, Addy's gonna play too. - No, I'm not actually. - Okay, no, you should play. - We should play the first one. - Come on, play. All right, so we're getting crazy with the first one. Here we go. Question number one, I've tasted coffee. Is that too far? (laughing) - No, I can't, yeah, that too far. (laughing) - No, I have, both Brock and I did, they're actually probably the same day. - No way. - We're going to H.E. double hockey stick. - No, no. (laughing) - What, wait, what's the story? - We just wanted to talk about that. - Hear me out of value. - It looks like a good drink from Starbucks. - Yeah, yeah, I've had coffee before, and it could be good. I just like, didn't really care for it though. - Yeah, I don't think you'd like it if, okay, so I'm not gonna out this person. But our friend, it's a member of the church. Like, when it asks us every single day, 'cause I drink coffee every morning, and he's just like, but like, what is it taste like? And I was like, I don't wanna lead you astray. I was like, but if you smell it, it tastes like how it smells. - No, it smells like it. - It smells way good. - It smells good, but it's not taste good. - You gotta put creamer in it, isn't it? - I put creamer in my soda instead. Okay, let's try it. - Coffee's just another thing that I feel like we'll get hooked on, 'cause then we'll be at all the creams and like, - No, I mean, when you said addicted, I was like, yeah, I mean, convicted. I am addicted to coffee. - Yeah. - Okay, sorry. - Because every time we would stay with him, I was like, crap, the hell am I gonna get coffee? - Did you feel-- - I was actually concerned. - Did you guys, when you guys tasted coffee, did you feel instant guilt? - No, I don't think so. - I just wanted to try it and then it just didn't taste good. - Okay, I like that. - Okay, next question. Brock and Boston have twin telepathy. Agree to disagree. - I'm agreeing. - Agree. Why do you guys say that? - We just literally do. - We've had weird experiences where we've like, we've been talking about something and then the person would finish the sentence. Where it was, yeah, we're-- - Wow. - Especially probably because you're identical. You guys are probably the same fingerprint, is that true? - Is there a fingerprint? - No, we're different, I think they're different. - But like genetically like R, DNA is the same. - Like their Face ID on their phones. - We're going through GSA Airport and stuff though. - Wait, shut the front door. Okay, so Face ID works on each other's phones. 'Cause you guys are identical twins. - Yeah. - Prove it. - All right, let's try my phone. - I'm not looking at my phone, I'm not looking at my phone. Well, Boston, log right down in. Access granted. - Wait, it says ignore your time. - Yeah, it's on. - Okay, all right. - Okay, all right. - Look through the camera, prove it. Show the camera. - He said, he said. - That's crazy. - I know, that's crazy. - Yeah. - So you do have different fingerprints though. - Yeah, yeah, I think we do. - Different DNA. Or, you know what, take DNA. - Yeah, same DNA. - Same DNA. - Same DNA. - Yeah, crazy. - But like if we think of, I know, let's say, like a certain thing or a shape, we usually can get it right. So. - Wow. - We could try it. Okay, just like a thing. - Okay, what? - Think of it, think of it. - Wait, wait. - Think of it for-- - Wait. - One, don't think too hard. One, two, three. - Orange. - Oh, no! - Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. - Wait, wait, wait, wait. You come up with it. - I don't know, we could do like some, what do you think? - Animal or something. - We could do shape. - Okay, okay, we'll do shape, we'll do shape. - Okay, one, two, three, shape. - Oh my gosh. - What? - Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait. - I can't, I can't. - You messed up. - Okay, no, I don't know. - I'm sorry. - You're making me feel dizzy. - Okay, no, we got to listen. - We say we have twin telepathy. And we actually have rehearsed this in the past. - No way. - So we're like, okay, when someone asks for a shape, we do triangle, I don't know why he chose circle. - What's up? - I don't really think of something random. We say bow. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Those are like the two things. - I can't say blue. - I can't say blue. - Yeah, sorry. I forgot. - You went on screen. (laughing) - That's funny, but you guys actually do believe you have telepathy of some sort. - I think so. - Well, there's been times where he'll talk about something and then literally Boston will text him about the same thing, like a couple of minutes later. And I'm like, you were just talking about that. - Or will, like, I'll get ready for the same thing. - Yeah, Brock's wearing the same thing. Like, I haven't worn this camo shirt in weeks and then the day that Brock pulls up, I'm wearing the camo shirt. - Did your mom guys dress you guys in the same outfits? - Yeah, a little bit when we were getting ready. - But like, it was like corny 'cause we had the same outfit, but it was also a different color. So like-- - Okay, that's kind. - Brock was red. I was wearing blue. Yeah. - That's cute. - Okay, next we have Kelsey knows a side of Brock Boston. Oh, Kessley. I'm so sorry. (laughing) Do people call you Kelsey all the time? By the way, I called you Kelsey for days. Literally having no idea. I was like, there is an interview with him. - Kelsey. - Yeah, I heard Kelsey. - No, literally, I get it all the time. I responded to Kelsey, so it's like it's-- - I'm so sorry. - That's probably like a huge pet peeve of yours is being called, being called the wrong name. - No, you're good, you're good. - Okay, so we have Kessley knows a side of Brock, Boston has never seen. Three, two, one. - I can't but. - Oh, agree. Oh, I saw you change yours. (laughing) - I'm gonna think. - I feel like-- - I don't actually like Boston. - Wait. (laughing) - I thought it was just a romantic side, I guess. - Okay, yeah. - 'Cause like, yeah, it's your brother. So I don't know if he's gonna try to be so outside but. - All right, there we go. You fight differently once you're married. Ooh, yeah, like you have different fights once you're married. - I guess it's just for you guys. Yeah, you're not married, sorry. Yeah. - Yeah. - I feel like we do, just 'cause like, we have to hash things out, communicate. We can't just like go to bed and mad at each other and stuff. - Yeah, mistakes are higher. - Yeah. - Did you guys have, was there ever like a, like a, like a, like a, like a, like a, like a, not good? I'll tell you guys. - I'll tell you guys, I'll tell you guys. - No, I-- - I don't know. - I think everything's been pretty good. Like, we haven't had anything crazy. Most of our arguments, she would be like, kind of getting mad and then out of yell, like I'm mad but I'm like, actually not mad and then we just like laugh about it. - Brock is always fake mad too. (laughing) - Yeah, he's fake, yeah, he's fake mad. - Yeah, I call him and then instead of like seeing like hello or like, what do you need? - Yeah, just like something like that and I'm like, wait, what's going on? Like are you okay? But yeah, he just, let me just laugh about it. I know, I feel like I do that to you. - Kind of a little bit, you know? - Yeah. - Say, you rage-bait is what you're saying. - Yeah, he rage-baits a lot. - Wow, crazy. That's fun. It must keep your marriage fun though, if you're like, rage-baiting. - Yeah, I don't even, we've been mad at each other but like, we don't ever get mad, mad. - Yeah. - I'm coming up with this one on the spot but I'm gonna read it like I'm reading it off the sheet. Our twin relationship isn't the same. Now that one of us is married. Oh, this agreed. - Yeah, I feel like it's like the same. - Yeah. - But we just don't live at the same house together anymore. - So it's different then. - Yeah, what you're saying. - Okay. - Okay. - No, but there are relationships. - But like, relationships are normal. - Yeah. - That's sad. I mean like, you know, I'm still close to my brothers but there is a huge change. Like when you get married, like there's just so gosh, we're fundamentally different people. And even in our own marriage, like we've been, this summer will be seven years married and we are so different than how we started off. - That's awesome. - You know. - But like, your relationship can stay the same when you like, both people change. - Yeah, but like it changes and I think it's a good thing though. So maybe if it hasn't, like maybe, and maybe I'm wrong, maybe it'll never change for you guys but I feel like it will and I feel like it'll be, it'll be interesting for you to see how that evolves. - Yeah, yeah, I'm curious to see like what's gonna happen after Boston goes out in his mission and then when he gets married and stuff, like how that will kind of pan out. - That will be crazy though, but. - Double dates then. - You asked this question. I feel like we agreed in that one. - Oh, don't do it. - What, don't do it. - No, don't do it. - Who wrote these? - Why, our producer, she said the wedding night isn't what it's cracked up to be. - Don't do it. - Don't do it. - If that's too much, you guys don't have to answer that. We can call that out. - And tonight. - That's what we said, that's to be honest. Some people hype it up like, oh, it's crazy. But it's like, it's just chill. - Yeah. - That's awesome. - What would you guys say about it? - Great. I love how you turn that around on us. No, I would actually say great. - Wait, what is it? What's the question? - Like people over hype, like. - It isn't cracked up. Wait, it is? - I would say a great. I said the wedding night isn't what it's cracked up to be. And I would say a great. And you say, oh, you say this a great. - I thought I had a great time. - So for, oh, you had a great time. I mean, I had a great time too. I just feel like, like your entire life going up. You're like, wow, and just like, this will be the most crazy, like, and it's amazing. - And it was crazy for me. - Okay. (laughing) - My memory is fading, I don't know. - And then, and then final, agreed to a security question we have. Is, wow, we're really sending it here. Waiting till marriage is totally worth it. - Oh yeah, I agree. - Yeah. - Agreed. - Oh, that's sweet. - I would say, it's like it's such a special moment where you can have with your spouse and stuff. I don't think, yeah. I think it's just, it's like a way to connect that's only you two together. - Yeah, I, something that helped me like, you know, to save myself was just knowing that like, I, that's like the best gift I could give my husband is, you know, like a clean and pure body. And I would hope he'd do the same. But I think, I agree, I think it's a very special thing. - Yeah, it's a connection that you won't have anywhere else with anyone else, you know? - We got married young too, 21 and 20 when we got married. So, it's the best and your future is bright. And so, and so is yours, Boston. - Oh, thank you. - So excited for you and, and you're gonna make sure. - Hey, Canada, that's so awesome. - Canada, you're gonna come back saying like, hey, you're gonna be like, yeah, yeah. - Yeah. Well, you guys, this was so much fun, chatting with you all. Thank you again for coming on the show. Where's the best place for people to connect with you and like support you guys? - You can find us on social media, yeah, wherever. - Yeah, take a talk, Instagram, YouTube. - Yeah, all platforms, either Brock and Kessley or Brock and Boston. - And as always, peace out. - Peace out. - Bye.