The couple, married for 10 years, enjoys a strong sexual relationship with regular intimacy, but recent changes have caused tension. The wife began using a steroid cream to boost her libido, which significantly increased her desire for sex, leading to frustration for the husband who now finds it difficult to keep up physically. While the husband initially felt emasculated and struggled with stamina, especially after several consecutive nights of sex, the conversation highlights that this situation is not due to a medical issue or failure but rather a natural fluctuation in sexual drive—common as people age. Men often experience a decline in sexual energy, while women may see increases later in life. The advice emphasizes open communication, shifting routines to include non-penetrative activities like hand stimulation, and embracing the reality that sex doesn’t need to be routine or solely penetrative. The husband is encouraged to stop focusing on failure and instead view this moment as an opportunity to connect, enjoy, and grow with his wife. The narrative underscores that being outmatched sexually is a normal part of life and can actually foster deeper intimacy. Instead of complaining, both partners should explore new dynamics, find joy in shared experiences, and celebrate the vitality of their relationship. This moment reflects a broader truth: sexual satisfaction is not about dominance or endurance but about mutual understanding, presence, and shared desire.
My wife and I, we were married for 10 years now, hyperlaced ship, you know, she's a wife. We clicked together well. We have several kids together, life is good. She, she's never really had a high-fect drive per se. We've had our youngest son is just turned 8 after him, especially it kind of slowed things down a little bit. I mean, we'd regularly go, you know, we could have two weeks of that sex. Sometimes even longer if we were, you know, bickering in between or, you know, having normal time. We have. I've always wanted to have a high-fect drive, you know, tried some things on my end, didn't seem to work and just was like, yeah, this is what it is, I'm still on my way. How's this? What I like. Can't wait to see where this goes. Can't wait to see what he's asking permission for. I want to edge of my seat. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I have six more often, of course, but, you know, this is like pre-planned. He wrote this down. He's saying it fast. So he's, he's nervously getting to something. Go ahead, Elders. It's cut to about three months ago. She, from advice from a friend of hers, went to woman's clinic, got some, like a steroid cream or something like that, which helped with your sex drive, and Stavvy, it helped almost too much because now she wants it coming. Shut the fuck up, man. Now you're, you're right. Your wife rubbed steroids on her pussy and now she wants to fuck and now you're mad. Let's hear him out. All right. I'll just say, hey, hey, hold on. It's tough to fuck your wife around. Hey, hold on. I've talked 10 years of trash about how, you know, she can't keep up with me, yada, yada, yada. Bro, I am fucking struggling. Sex has always been great with my life. It's been fantastic. But after, you know, I'm 30, for reference, I'm 39, she's 40, after, you know, three, four nights in a row. Sometimes in the morning and the evenings, bro, I cannot fucking keep up. Honestly. She's very sensitive. I hate that once I'm like, hey, I can't go tonight, you know, listen to that. That's going to cause a whole thing. Well, well, well. Boner pills from the gas station, blue shoes, I don't know what the fuck to do, bro. I've never had a problem getting it up or anything like that. It's just been a fucking struggle lately. Anyway. This isn't good. Hope to find you well. Hope in your guess of a good time, some, any advice to be appreciated. This, this is like, this is a modern version of Asop's Fables. This is like, careful what you wish for. Who's a thousand, bro? This is incredible. Be careful what you wish for. Oh, wow. Um, first of all, just want to say congrats on the sex. Yeah, that's awesome. We love being able to fuck your wife three to four times a week. That's awesome. And I say this is not a penis problem. This is a conversation. Mm-hmm. Yes. I think so. And with you and your wife. Yep. And it doesn't have to be a big deal. No. But it's like, hey, like, hey, I'm watching the game. Like, do you mind if we just like, there's soft ways to lands, no. Totally. And also, it's like, you know, this was your experience for 10 years, right? It's like, um, but at the same time, I will say, yeah, I'm going to tell you, I don't know who we're with currently, eldest, who's the most recent, uh, erectile dysfunction treatment that's advertised? Do you remember? There's a couple floating. Yeah. I don't know. I don't want to talk out of turn. Listen, go to a number of the, how about this? You know the, you know, the web. It's been a wheel on any of them when it goes from a co-stop, whichever one you're using. It's from a co-stop because I got a hunch there, we have a relationship with them. But I mean, look, yeah, we got to get some dick pills. Nothing wrong with that. 39. And that's another natural thing that happens is that like sex drives do just dip and change. And it's like, you've heard the thing of like, a horn, women get like, a hornie in like their 40s or like, you know, whatever. And it's like, and with men, it's sort of is like, uh, the old you get, it's the sex drive goes, want, it's just a straight down where it's like with women, it seems like there's a huge pick up later in life. So yeah, you might just need to juice to keep up with your wife. That's fine. But yes, a conversation, um, yeah, and just like, it's going to even back out. Yes, she might be pumped. She can't keep this up forever. Listen, you buy a fucking mo pet, you're, you're driving the mo pet to work every day for a month. Then you're like, you know what? It's raining. Let me get in the corolla. Right. Right now, she's like, she thinks she's like making up for lost time, whatever. And yes, I think you're probably even out. But also she's having a, she's having the time of her life. And by the way, now is a time for you to understand what she was up to because it's like, yeah. Maybe you don't want to bust. Maybe you eat a little pussy. Maybe you finger pump your wife. You also don't have to have penetrative intercourse every time in a really, and that could be fun to switch up because I feel like oftentimes in a monogamous relationship, sure sex drives a different. But also when sex becomes purely routine, it feels like when you start hooking up with somebody for a while, it's like, you fall into the like, all right, you do your thing, you do your move. If I do my move, there's three positions, we always do, you know, it becomes a courier breath. It becomes right. Yeah, yeah. You can always do it like. My turn, turn, turn. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Exactly. Boom. So a little, you know, change it up can be fun too. So, you know, that's my advice is like promo code, stop me on, on a bevy of sites. And then yeah, shut it up and have a conversation. And stop complaining about it as well because really you have an embarrassment of riches right now. This is awesome. There is a sex recession. Yeah, dude. And you really should not be feeling like, oh, I can't keep up. This is a pro. No. Yeah. This is an amazing thing that's happening. This is awesome. You prayed for times like this. Yeah. I want to like slap you get back in there, you know, like this actually is like a sorry, sorry bud. Hey, there's, there's kids in Africa that don't have any pussy, all right, finish all your pussy. Yeah. Yeah. And then yeah, like started to do hand stuff to have fun, I don't know, but don't complain about it. She beats off. You know what I mean? There's a ton of different things you can do, man. There's a ton of different stuff you can figure out. I was like, like I said, fatty shit on pills and edibles. That was the time I fucked the most. My dick didn't work even a little bit half the time. Like my, like it was when I was like, clear. The patient's not responding. Another dick pill. He's gone, sir, you know, that happened a lot sex is not, I have that joke on my last question, but sometimes it just felt like, you know, it's like, I like to hang out with my girls because then it's like, when I didn't get hard, it's like, all right, just now we're just having a lesbian sex, right? Why don't you take a bill? Take a, if your cock can't keep up, take a page from the lesbian, the way, the way queer people have sex. Yeah. Cause they're not all about busting the same way that a guy, you know, guy centered sex is like. Yeah. So mix it up. Something to consider. Have some fun. Have some fun. Enjoy fucking your wife. Yes. That spirit creates sounds awesome. Yeah. Wow. How the hell is that? It's a different direction of like, they never bang. What am I going to do? Yeah. Usually that preamble leads to a guy asking for permission to cheat on his wife. Yeah. And I'm really happy that the nerves were not. The nerves were just that he feels emasculated by how good his wife is. Yeah. That's really what it is. You don't feel like a man. Right. This is part of being a man. In fact, you could argue there's no, there's no, I don't know, have you ever seen married with children? You're having a real albundi situation right now and that's part of life too is understanding when you're outclassed sexually and now, now, now's the time where real, where real fuckers are born. Yes. Anyone can want, can fuck when they're dick is hard. Can you fuck when you don't really feel like it to satisfy your wife who's trying to close a, I'm guessing a 20 year orgasm gap with you, right? Take this opportunity to put some, score some points on the board on her end, pal. Yeah. [MUSIC]
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The husband and wife have a healthy, long-term marriage with frequent sex, though the wife's increased libido after using a steroid cream has created tension.
The husband struggles with stamina and physical endurance, especially after multiple consecutive nights of sex, despite no issues with arousal or erections.
Both partners are encouraged to have open, non-judgmental conversations about sex, explore new activities (like hand play or non-penetrative intimacy), and accept that sex drives naturally fluctuate with age and life stages.
Summary:
The couple, married for 10 years, enjoys a strong sexual relationship with regular intimacy, but recent changes have caused tension. The wife began using a steroid cream to boost her libido, which significantly increased her desire for sex, leading to frustration for the husband who now finds it difficult to keep up physically. While the husband initially felt emasculated and struggled with stamina, especially after several consecutive nights of sex, the conversation highlights that this situation is not due to a medical issue or failure but rather a natural fluctuation in sexual drive—common as people age.
Men often experience a decline in sexual energy, while women may see increases later in life. The advice emphasizes open communication, shifting routines to include non-penetrative activities like hand stimulation, and embracing the reality that sex doesn’t need to be routine or solely penetrative. The husband is encouraged to stop focusing on failure and instead view this moment as an opportunity to connect, enjoy, and grow with his wife.
The narrative underscores that being outmatched sexually is a normal part of life and can actually foster deeper intimacy. Instead of complaining, both partners should explore new dynamics, find joy in shared experiences, and celebrate the vitality of their relationship. This moment reflects a broader truth: sexual satisfaction is not about dominance or endurance but about mutual understanding, presence, and shared desire.
FAQs
Steroid creams can temporarily boost a woman's libido, which may lead to increased sexual desire and frequency. This can create imbalance in a relationship if the partner feels overwhelmed or unable to keep up.
Yes, both men and women often experience shifts in sex drive with age. Women may see a surge in libido in their 40s, while men may notice a gradual decline, though this varies widely between individuals.
The issue is often not physical but relational. Couples should have open, non-judgmental conversations about their needs, desires, and expectations to understand and support each other.
Yes, experimenting with non-penetrative activities like hand stimulation, foreplay, or different positions can enhance intimacy and help prevent sexual routines from becoming routine or boring.
Yes, it's normal to feel challenged by a partner's increased sexual energy. This doesn't mean a man is failing — it reflects a shift in dynamics that can be embraced as a chance to grow and connect differently.
Couples can explore non-penetrative intimacy such as kissing, touching, massage, or mutual masturbation, which can deepen emotional connection and reduce pressure to perform.
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