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I'll be tuning in. Ask, tell, confess. Ask, tell, confess. Ask, tell, confess. Ask, tell, confess. Hello, friends. Welcome back to another Ask, Tell. Confuss. What the fuck is a confuss? Yeah, what the fuck is that? What fucking accent was that, bro? Oh, my goodness. You guys, it hurts to laugh. I'm sorry. I made her laugh literally all day yesterday, too. She's like, maybe you were not the best baby. No, she was like, who sent you? I know. My bad. My bad, guys. I know. I was like, she walked in. I'm like, what are you doing here? She's like, they made me come sit with you. And I'm like, they took my cars. They fucking. Well, nobody's letting me leave. Like, what is happening? It has been a crazy week, guys. Yeah. Crazy week. Ugh. Crazy week. We're starting with the weekend. Where do we start? Are we starting? No. We're starting at the weekend? Nope. We're not starting with the weekend. We will ease into that. But let's talk about me. Let's talk. Okay, so we need to address a couple headlines that are happening. Let's talk about me going to college. I got accepted into ASU. I know. Listen. I see people. I see people online talking shit. And I'm like, how can you talk shit about a woman who wants to fucking better herself? Yeah. And get a fucking degree. Literally. You got to be a miserable human to not want to celebrate somebody fucking evolving and like trying to learn. That part. So just so you guys, so we're clear, I'm not going to the ASU campus. I'm going to do online. The amount of people that knew they were like, she's going to be over on said like street where I guess all the parties are. The frat. Yeah. Oh, I mean. I mean, can we take a trip? Uh, no, but listen, I'm going to do online, but it's, um, I'm not going to tell you guys what I'm studying, but I'm doing a double major and I don't see why the fuck not. Yeah. You know, like I've got the time to do it now. And it's like, I have the, the mental capacity to want to learn right now. So I'm going to do that. And like, I will, who, who doesn't want to get their fucking bachelor's degree in a couple of things. I think that's weird. Like, um, yeah. Yeah. Why anyone would judge something like that is wild to me. I'm excited about it. They, I, I don't think you guys realize how hard it was for me to get accepted into there. Somebody said, Oh, ASU accepts everybody. Well, if they had to jump through the fucking hoops I did, that was wild. They really wanted to be there because I mean, I, you gotta think I fucking, I went to a little bit of college, but I literally pretty much got my GED after I dropped out of high school. So going back to college for me is a huge deal. Yeah. I mean, I've done like, you know, beauty, uh, beauty school and stuff like that, but I never got a major in anything. So I'm really excited to do that. And I'm really excited for this chapter of my life. And do we need to have like a school girl photo shoot? A little cap and gown. Listen, a little, a little, a little, yeah, maybe when I graduate, but you know, what's cool. I was looking up the other day is, um, Pamela Anderson did her last playboy shoot when she was 48. I feel like people put a ceiling on women all the time for like, well, you're, you're too old. You can't be sexy. I don't give a fuck who fucking thinks that women can't be sexy. I will always break that stigma because I truly believe that sexy isn't about how you look. It's about how you feel on the inside, but it's also about how you make other people feel. Yeah. And if you want to get dolled up and you want to wear like lingerie and all that stuff, and that makes you feel pretty, then I say fucking go for it, dude. Yeah. There's a whole category on the hub for it. So someone clearly finds it attractive. Do we get the hub out here? I thought it was blocked. Yeah. I can't look. What? Yeah. That's what I'm saying. What is the category? Yeah. Milfs. Well, yeah. Yeah. That's what I'm saying though. There wouldn't be a category for it if there wasn't a whole need for it. A whole niche for it. Yeah. I haven't been able to get on the hub in forever cause they blocked it out here. What are we on? How do you get on it? You must have an account. Do you have an account? I have a husband. I don't need that right now. I'm asking cause I know you can't get on the hub in some states without having an account, right? I don't know. No, I think it's location specific. Like certain States like bandit. Like for sure. The whole website. Tennessee's band. California is not banned. New York's not or New York may be banned or not, but yeah, it's certain States don't allow it anymore. Yeah. Whoa. I missed the hub. I haven't been able to get on there in a long time. Maybe I need to, maybe I'll make a fucking account, you know? And can we address this really quick? Everybody in my DMS is like, oh, I don't know. It's like, can you please make another OF? Absolutely the fuck not. We close that chapter. Yeah. I will not, not that I'm hating on OF models. I fucking love them. Get your bags girls. Um, but I already did that and been there, done that. I'm good. I'm set. I don't need to bust it wide open. You know, like what a good time that was. It was fun. How many fucking places did we get kicked out of for shooting half naked pictures? Our first shoot together. Yeah. Yeah. We got kicked out for a shoot together. We got kicked out. I mean, shoot together. We also got kicked out, got kicked out. Oh my gosh. Yes. Oh my gosh. That was like, what a time to be alive though. I had so much fun making OF content because you know, it's not like what everybody thinks. They're like, oh my gosh, it's, you know, like super, you know, scandalous content. No, it's, we had a lot of fun. We had so many like sexy photo shoots. Like I love, I miss taking sexy photo shoots. I've, we need to, we're going to bring it back. I know we've talked about it the other day. Huh? I reminisced on the cake the other day. The one I tried to put my ass in a cake. Yeah. Yeah. So I guess there's this thing called splashing. Is that what it's called? Splashing, right? I think. Yeah. It's called splashing and guys on OF would pay you to like bounce your ass in a cake. So we got this cake, right? And I'm all oiled up and I'm in lingerie and I literally go to fucking plop my ass on this cake thinking it's going to be so soft and just like a little pillow, just, you know, the frosting is going to just roll. Just wrap around me and look beautiful. This mother fucking cake was frozen, dude. It was like slapping my ass on a fucking iceberg. I was like, um, Slid out from underneath her. Yeah. They like literally I hit it and I slid and the whole cake just kind of like from my body heat just had a slant on it, dude. We got to find the videos of that. Oh God. But yeah, no, I'm not, I'm not making another OF, but I don't, I don't see anything wrong with doing sexy photos. And I mean, yeah. Yeah. According to the interwebs, everybody wants me to do sexy photos again. So I might, but I mean, I think that women of any age can embrace their sexiness, I think. And I've always been like that. You guys know that. Like I've literally always tried to, um, embrace my sexuality, but walk a really fine line of like, you can be sexy while still maintaining some sort of little, little bit of integrity, you know? So I dunno, I think it's a fine line that we can all learn to walk together. Hi, I'm Dr. Mary Claire Haver, board certified OBGYN and menopause specialist. My podcast Unpaused is the place for bold, unfiltered conversations about what it really takes for women to thrive in the second half of life. Every week, I sit down with medical experts and leading voices to talk about the health issues that matter most. 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Is there anything you guys want to talk about? in this life together right now yeah this weekend was one i'm still recovering yeah pretty sure you like your drunkness came back the next day after and you said i might be a little tipsy yeah yeah well let's address uh the girls in the room your girl which ones yeah yeah your girl got her boobs done this is the first peak that anybody has of them there's a this is nice this is the new rap guys cheech and chong have upgraded yeah and um i literally just got out of surgery three days ago i had some work done under my eyes too so if you guys see anything on the camera that's why is because i have literally have like if you see anything on the camera no you didn't yeah it's swollen and like bruised right here but yeah i got my i lost 20 pounds so my boobs just went and it they look like ski slopes and i was like they were still nice but you know i was just like you know let me have this era of my life just being super like whatever i want yeah just do whatever the fuck i want so dr tarola um my surgeon who did my explant in 2019 put my implants back in and we did very very small implants we did uh 300 cc on one so one boob is 310 the other is 300 um and they're just they're super small but i just needed them to perk back up because we're looking like i could tie them in a knot like it was really sad what was over your shoulder over the shoulder boulder holders you know like it was really rough so um that is why and i'm all for advocating for women to do whatever they want with their bodies that part yes i had to go through the whole implant thing but we're gonna try it again and i feel like i'm a lot healthier this time around and you did them different then i and i did them differently than i was in 2019 when i was still you know detoxing after all that and i was like i'm gonna do it again and i'm gonna do it all of the trauma i had been through and also all of the um copious amounts of drugs and alcohol that i drank the 13 years that i had those bad boys in so and those were huge oh dude they were like matronly it was so much my implant you guys have heard me talk about this before my implant had folded in half and literally a lobster claw size of scar tissue started growing in it so my right boob was like that big yeah yeah no yeah that was crazy your boob would swell up every time it was like around your period time i remember like one day you sent me a picture you're like does my boob look huge and i was like it's like twice the size of the other one and they were already big to begin with yeah no they were like almost ease they were like almost ease these are still tiny and like cute and like you know i can just give you that top yeah on this back like yeah that's all i needed your boobs your side profiles fire yeah no i'm gonna tell you what though it has been three days in and i'm like i'm ready to rock first and foremost i'm ready to like get ready to rock day one i know you know how many times she tried to leave yesterday and i said i know she was like you're gonna drive me i said i don't know how to drive i was like i'll call a fucking uber we called we literally held her hostage yeah to not leave the house even the doctor called and said hey need you to relax yeah you know why the doctor called because mo fucking emailed him and told him to call me yeah i was like chill yeah i was like i'm gonna call a fucking uber yeah i was like i'm gonna call a fucking uber yeah but we filmed the whole surgery and not the not like we did with my facelift but you know me going in waking up do we want to talk about who else is getting their boobs done in the crew or should we cut that who else hi may's get a new rack guys what size are you going hi may i'm gonna go uh b35c okay cool minus four i love b35c getting new boobs yay yay mimi's getting new boobs momo's getting new boobs we're just glowing up all around and listen we are all for whatever you guys want i always preach love yourself and if loving yourself means putting boobs in and getting work done like do whatever makes you happy dude and don't let the world stop you like i got mom boobs or if you want to be natural that's also fine too i do have a good set of natural titties i love natural i love natural yiddies i love them so much like i love with natural bodies and natural faces i look at them and i'm just like hot yes like always yeah no i love it i do want to reiterate that also like whatever makes you happy because i feel like i've always preached that also is like being happy with what you got kind of thing and like yeah and i but if you aren't happy with what you got certain things and it's okay you can change them i don't think there's what i'm doing yeah and i don't think there's anything wrong with making improvements to what you already have you know like if there's something that you're insecure about you there's always a a fix for it you know and i just don't get why people are concerned with what other people do with their bodies that part bro that part it's not even your body dolly parton is literally one of the most iconic humans in the world and she's had every surgery known to man done looks phenomenal for her age people still love her and people love her nobody says anything about dolly's work you know i would just like mine to look up here yeah same one day yeah i just want to look them in the eyes yeah when i went in and told dr t i was like just i said i just want to put my chin on them he was like i don't think i can do that for you and i was like if anybody can do it it's you buddy so we love him yeah well amongst all the other shit that's been going on this week we have been moving into our new house yay so we've been moving into our compound um the house is still not fucking ready but we'll probably do like a i'll do like a tiktok or maybe we'll vlog it or something but it's looking so insane it's literally so after the divorce happened because i was designing the house um to fit you know jay and i both personalities both personalities and i kind of always had to tone it down because you know he's my he was my little country boy and just you know wasn't used to the the um what would you call my fucking it's more of like an eccentric taste yeah i was very vegas very rock star very rock star glam yeah yeah yes so when the divorce happened i went in and said take that down take that down replace this reply and i it looks sick dude it looks the guy puts up the last thing of wallpaper she goes i hate that yeah i was like ripping it down yeah i was like nope i hate that i was like and i'm but i'm in my i'm not gonna settle era a hundred percent like because literally the changes you made yeah yeah made that house so stunning the cheetah hallway the cheetah hallway is my favorite is my is iconic and the photo shoot there yeah we will yeah good idea and the master bath yeah the master bath is oh my gosh in there too i love your upstairs closet yeah the burgundy one looks like a i was in there last night and they were doing like all the techie stuff the vanity uh oh wait till you see that we have light up countertops in my closet and i walk in and i just hit a button and like nickelback starts playing you know yeah guys i'm not joking or creed that's exactly what happened last night he goes all right watch this and he presses a button the whole place shuts down it's dark he goes and now bunny mode and he hits it purple glowing chandeliers creed it was the coolest thing ever i was like oh my god this is so funny yes i mean this is gonna be my forever home my forever palace and this is what i want like i'm gonna it literally looks like alice in wonderland lives there it's my brain whimsical yeah it's my brain from the minute you walk into that house there's a um a mural that's like that would be in the cathedrals that is on the ceiling uh like i mean i took out everything in that house and we did it gutted yeah it was literally a shell of what it is now yeah and it just looks so good i'm so excited so we'll be i'll be able to move in probably in the next you know few days but we just had the furniture delivered and we're gonna be able to move in probably in the next you know few days i had custom-made furniture done by what can we shout them out the vault right the the vault in texas yeah the vault on tiktok in texas they do phenomenal work they're freaking furniture holy cow the delivery guy who delivered it yesterday you guys was like mexican ot he was the funniest dude i have ever met and he just kept saying where's the guy with the tattoos on his face i said oh he just like well he's like i really like that guy yeah so funny like him and jason were like best buds all day long i loved their delivery crew oh yeah i love it so much no i wouldn't know that because you guys fucking wouldn't let me go yesterday day one of healing it was imagine going down 8 40 and hitting the bumps oh yeah that would hurt it was day two hold on and me the publicist is texting right now let's see and me driving on top of it all right i'm not getting in trouble by my publicist yeah i'm really excited about the new property i cannot wait to get the new property to get some horses on it we have a barn that's getting built it's like it's just a dream and i'm so thankful that you know i'm at this point in my life where i can just be um so happy and have so much gratitude because that's really what life is all about dude it's just being thankful for the things you have and for the things you don't have the people you have in your life for sure absolutely that's been this year for sure for i think all of us 2026 has been a wild it was a rebirth for - A wild year, oh my goodness, like, holy cow. you would have told me six months ago that my life is like it is right now, I would have been like, no way. No, it's unbelievable is what it is. No, it's crazy. Yeah. All right. So I guess we're all gathered here today to hear about the divorce podcast. And, you know, I really thought out what I was going to say to you guys about this, because one, I have built my platform on always being honest with you guys and always being upfront. And it's kind of backfired on me because I do always feel like I owe you guys the truth of things, even when to me they're obvious. But for some reason, people always want to try to make things like a negative thing. And it's really crazy. But I mean, I took it down because I realized I just don't want one of the hardest moments of my life to become a permanent headline. Yeah. I don't want to live in that. You know, like, I believe in being transparent with you guys. And that's never, ever, ever going to change. But I also believe that people deserve the space to heal, to evolve and to move forward. You know, like that episode served a purpose for me at that time. And it was real. It was honest. And it came from exactly where I was emotionally in that moment. Correct. But I'm not in that same place anymore. And I think that that's where we need to pause and just kind of focus on the fact that like, people are like, Oh, well, she moved on so fast. And it's like, hold up. I've been mourning the loss of my marriage for at least a year. I had visions of the news breaking of it happening, you know, and there is so much behind the scenes that I have not spoken on. Yeah. And that I will never speak on. Because it doesn't matter. I will. Only tell you guys, my part in the demise of my marriage. And, you know, when people see me out having fun, and you know, just living my best life, I can see where they would be like, wow, they just announced the divorce. But really, you guys have to understand I have been sitting in purgatory, purgatory for two and a half months in my studio house. Literally, there was times where I was on the floor screaming, crying. And I was like, I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I was crying. Because I could not understand what the fuck was going on. There were moments where you guys had to call and get me IVs because I was going to have to go to the hospital because I was not eating. I wasn't drinking malnourished. I was I couldn't even stand up because I was so fucking devastated. You guys took turns watching me not just because I wouldn't eat but because you guys were so scared for my mental health. No, none of you guys would leave me alone. You Monica Mimi always fucking just made sure that somebody was there for me. That's the shit that you guys don't see because I on the internet, I'm extremely vulnerable. But when it comes to seeing me be weak, or like this makes me want to tear up. When this comes to when it comes to seeing me be weak, I will never let you guys see that side of me. 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I don't want to be the poster child for divorce. I don't want people DMing me saying, I'm so sorry your husband left you. You know, it's like when you guys really don't even know the whole story, you guys only know bits and pieces. You know, there's so much more to me than just one painful chapter in my life. And there's so much more that I want to talk about and that I want to create and that I want to laugh about and that I want to experience with you guys. I made a hundred grand on that fucking podcast. Yes. It was one of my highest viewed, um, podcast episodes, but I don't care about the money. If I cared about the money, I would have left it up and let it get another fucking hundred grand. If I cared about the views, I get views by myself. I post a fucking Tik TOK and get 10 million views. I'm not, YouTube has never been my strong, uh, platform. Social media has been my strong platform. I just started a fucking YouTube this year. What? Six months ago? Yes, it was like six months ago. Go back on the channel and look, you know, so I've, I built my brand. Sorry. That just really hurt my boob. Um, I built my brand off of YouTube. The reason why my podcast is so fucking popular is because of the downloads because of the people who listen to it, not watch it. Yeah. Um, I built a cult following behind a paywall on Patreon, which I, you guys know, I left Patreon last year, which is why we went to YouTube. Yes. So we're still building the brand. Um, but, um, I don't care about the views. I don't care about the money. There's a, there's a hundred thousand clips on fucking Tik TOK if you guys want to see it. And I think the key points of what you guys wanted to know about the divorce podcast is all on Tik TOK. Just type in bunny XO divorce podcast. You'll see all the clips and oh my God, how fucking amazing has it been that these women and a lot of men have rallied around me and you know, they listened to the words that I said. I posted videos about it. They've just had my back through this all. And it's been so fucking amazing. And I'm so fucking thankful for you guys. Like I swear when we do another tour, I want everybody to come out just so I can hug you personally myself. You know, you guys have had to watch me live my real life out in front of you guys. And I've tried to do it with as much pride and dignity as I can. Um, while still maintaining the emotional aspect of it, but not teaching people to wallow in it because that's where it gets scary. And that's where you have to walk a fine line of like, when do you, when do you, what is it girl get up? You know, like when do you get the fuck up? And you're just like, okay, I think people after divorce, they want you to lay down and die. And they expect you to not like to never live again. It's to never get married again. And they expect you to never have anything post divorce. Yeah. What? I mean, I haven't firsthand. It's a rebirth. A divorce is a rebirth and it is your choice whether you want to stand up or crawl. Yeah. It's whatever you want to make it. Like this is your opportunity to literally change everything about yourself that you didn't like while you were in that relationship. I am so much more of a different human now than I was in that relationship. And I am, I feel so good. I'm so happy. Like I am so free. They said to me the other day, they said, bunny, I haven't seen you this happy in, in eight years. Like I I've never seen this side of you. My OCD is getting better. And I think it's because of the HRT that I got on. Like it's been, it's been really interesting person getting to know myself after this. And yeah, you know, it sucks. It absolutely fucking sucks. But that dude is my best friend and I love him to death. We talk all the time. He, we had to talk about, you know, some stuff this week and he's, he's literally my best friend. He's like, come on, man. know like what are you doing uh but it's it's not um a malicious thing of me taking the podcast down you know me pulling the episode wasn't about hiding anything or pretending it didn't happen it was just about choosing you know not to let one season of my life define every season that came after that correct and i just think that um you know if you guys will allow me to grow i'll keep growing out loud and healing out loud with you guys but you know you guys have to allow me that space to be able to grow and i'll never let you down i might do some weird shit but it's not like you want to be before i do it i'll tell you before i do it and that's the thing that's another thing can we talk about this because i never lie to you guys i tell you guys hey it's about to be a hot girl summer if you see me outside half naked no you didn't we said it yeah like i've literally said that you know yeah and you can tell the fans because everyone in the comments was like not surprised by this she already told us yeah like anybody that really knows me and that really pays attention to the pod is like this she said she was gonna do this yeah you know um granted would i have done it as public as i did it no okay that i that was a lesson learned and but i mean i could have fucking made out with hayley and it would have made headline you know so we almost did can a girl we did it in the kitchen yesterday too oh she's like it's so rainy out here and beautiful and i looked at her i go you want to fuck and she goes and we both got quiet and looked at each other like we were really thinking about it it was so funny um but listen can your girl get a sweet little kiss under the fireworks i mean romantic romantic i've never had that done i thought it was so sweet you know and of course i'm not gonna what am i you know it's just let your girl live let her just live a tiny bit i'm not dating anyone no i don't want to date anyone i am here for fun baby i am having fun and you know i learned a lot of lessons this week and i'm gonna i'm gonna you know take it on the chin because i did this and i take full accountability for it but that's all it was it wasn't anything like no there was a huge group of us i was just about to say there was literally like 20 of us yeah i wasn't out on a date we've ever had together yeah it was so fun this weekend was crazy guys yeah i just want to clarify though i wasn't on a fucking date you know like there's no all of us there was 20 of us it was jaime's birthday yay it was jaime's birthday it was fourth of july i had never been to downtown nashville uh for fourth of july so it was just you're gonna come oh i came she was like hayley what are you doing i said i'm going downtown she goes come with you i said no you're not yeah and then look at us look at us look at us look at us i love it yeah let's do it every year it was a lot of fun this weekend like i'm not even joking a lot of fun no it was so great and it was because everybody that was there was just a fucking great human yes everybody and like everybody got along yeah even security even my security guard was fucking best friends with everybody you know so much i even like before the we were getting ready and it started there like i looked back at the videos and she's like got her burger king and she's like dancing at the kitchen table and i was just like i look back on it i was like you're so happy yeah and it was so nice to see after the two months we've been through yeah and like we're literally holding you as you're like having these breakdowns like weightless in our arms to like throwing a whopper around yeah like so fun yeah it was so good yeah let's also talk about the fact that you're so happy that you're so happy that you're so happy that you're so happy that you have your own bar inside the bar your my own photo is literally there is a above the bar 20 foot picture of you in that bar yeah and i mean it everybody the headlines are like was that it was at jelly rolls bar and it's like i also have a floor there i also feel very safe there i also feel very we all know everyone yes yeah it's that's our home you know it's like if i'm gonna land at any bar we would like to support them yeah i'm gonna do it at good night nashville yes all the bottle girls so hot i love them they're so beautiful also we were on the rooftop because that's where you could see the fireworks yeah yeah well you're not gonna watch it from your level you can't see the fireworks you know like the bunny level we went there by the way it's like the most lit level and i love you guys everyone is on bunny's bar except for on july 4th everybody was on the rooftop yeah because i want to see the fireworks for sure but like i mean during the week if you go it gets lit up yeah it's my favorite bar on you know he was not that wasn't an issue not an issue at all so delicious so i mean what what the issue is is where you're trying to just move on from your life and people are videoing you for clout i think that's like let's really talk about that and i get it everybody wants to you know break a story or everybody wants to you know earn some clout but it's like you're literally videoing a woman who's trying to move on with her life and has been through hell this entire fucking year and it's like you couldn't just for one second let her just have a moment it had to be sneaky recorded that's malicious yeah that's what i see as like being a malicious human yeah and i'm not mad i know who did it and i'm not mad at the girls who did it but it's just like at the same time it's like really like come on dude and then live your own life watch the fireworks yeah come on also i feel like was like context and everything what if they said like oh my gosh bunny living her best life i think that would have been maybe maybe i'm wrong but like i feel like the way it was videoed was like oh you're she's sneaking doing something but you were just having fun there was 5 000 people around us i wasn't i'm literally living my life out loud and i'm not trying to hide anything and just don't record people yeah yeah and i mean sneaking around would have been even kind of worse i mean that's what a lot of celebrities do and honestly after this week i've learned that i cannot do anything out in public like that you know and it's sad because that's who i am like i yearn for a sense of normalcy i yearn to be able to just i do like i still don't think you still do it's like crazy i don't know i don't think it's just set in and i'm just like i don't i don't think people care about me as much as they do i hope this week you've realized that they do i do and you know i will move forward with a lot more integrity and class i just want to have fun i'm just here living my best life and short yeah life's short man that part and it's like man i just i'm so happy and i'm so free and i'm just i want to wash my hands and put that chapter behind us i don't want to have to i don't want to have to be referred to as somebody's ex for the rest of my life because i have worked so hard to build my brand um to be separate from that person anyways and like i am so thankful for the time that we had together and the fucking shit that we built together but you know let that man live his life also correct while i'm living mine i don't need to be somebody's ex in every fucking headline and it's really not t like i get you know you guys are talking to people and you guys get these sources that don't know what they're even fucking talking about but i will always come here on this microphone and tell you the truth because i don't i don't want to hide anything and do i regret this past weekend absolutely the fuck not i had fun i am healing out loud so what i got kissed under the fucking fireworks i hope i get kissed under fucking 10 more fireworks shows you know a hundred percent but i'm not dating anybody i do not want to be with anybody like i don't have there's an icebox where my heart used to be do you guys remember that song do we remember that song wow yeah and i that shit is chained up it trust me nobody's getting through i'm working on healing myself i want to come and go as i please i you know i might even healing process might even have a rasta you never know i love it it's a bad bitch job what was that what's that sound on tiktok um i got a rasta it's a bad bitch genre do you know what i'm talking about yeah fuck i can't remember i can't think of it i don't know i'm chronically online can you guys just please please please please stop pinning me with every person that you see because i will literally tell you he's the one if it's he's the one you know and you guys did it with daddy chatty the fucking song where i'm lip-syncing eminem's shit you guys are like oh my god eminem and buddy would make a great sign yeah like bunny needs to get with eminem and i'm just like no we're not pinning down anything we're not i'm like dude you're not pinning this bitch down catch me if you can i am fucking you hear you heard it here first yeah you heard it here and if you guys ever have any questions of course ask me i will always tell you and you know your girl's just out here fucking having fun living living my best life and going going back and forth you you know what i'm talking about that was nice that was nice the suede brooks podcast was taken down because she asked me to take it down not for any other reason um you know she was just brutally honest in that interview and you know i think it just wasn't a good look for her so i'm not gonna ever argue with somebody whenever they come to me and they're like hey can you take this down of course i'll take it down you know like i don't need clickbait for anything like that you know and i also talked to drake he was more than sweet more than gracious about the situation with suede and um you know gave me his version of the story and you know so suede coming to me and then drake of course talking to me not he didn't ask me to take the pod down at all um but he was just like hey this is my side of the story you know i think it was just better to take the podcast down than to leave it up yes we're not here to hurt anybody we're not here to it caused too many ripples yeah and it was just best yeah yeah so that's again everybody's like why did she take the suede podcast down and it's like a conspiracy i need you guys to know that it's never that serious over here and if it is i'll probably make a tiktok about it or i'll fucking talk about it yeah you know yeah and another thing i am not going on the fucking bachelorette dude no those dudes are too square for me yeah you'd say no to every what is the opposite version of the bachelorette i need yeah could have been love please please oh you guys i don't even know what my type is anymore like i think you have a type i i do you do but you do have a type i do have a type what do you guys think my type is let me hear this tattoos tall skinny baby arm tattoos yeah i mean but they have to have swag i have a thing with a guy's walk like i love a dude that walks with like confidence and it's like i don't know that just has like a little strut the person could look like your most stereotypical like that's who you would want but if they open their mouth and they are goober you will be so like out the person has to have a certain type of confidence for you to be attracted to them for sure and they also have to be able to make me laugh yes if you can make me like like all weekend all i did was fucking laugh dude like i belly laughed all weekend like that's all i care about like if you can fucking adam sandler me 24 7 that like i'll be in humor gets you a long way yeah and i also i need a guy like dracula i need a yearner and maybe to watch dracula yesterday and he's fucking hideous i they i wish they had to pick somebody cuter so cute no he's not he looks like a fraggle rock what are you talking about that is google it pull it up flag fraggle rock they have the same eyebrows but um what is happening i don't think a picture of this on the screen right now you want to see a fraggle rock yeah i would like to we can't find the remote someone took the remote someone took the remote all right here i'll pull it up for you yeah he looked like a fraggle rock but um i need somebody that yearns for me you know like i love a yearner yeah i need a yearner and i don't know but like i said i don't it's i don't even i'm not looking for love so i just need somebody to make me smile no love happening do that yeah no doesn't what if someone like built you a barn like by hand and it was them i mean i guess no i think that's hot that's that's mimi's love language yeah i'm like build me shit i like i think i like people that are like obsessed with me okay yeah yeah that's what i love like i need i need a joe uh joe goldberg your type hayley okay we don't have enough time on the podcast for that just stand outside friday night don't tell people where i go we'll believe it what the heck he does not look like that at all yeah he does that looks like dragula yeah oh um i need a joe goldberg a you yes the obsession is so hot yeah that's what i need but maybe not kill people you don't really have i mean no i'm just kidding don't don't headline that please um hayley you have a very eclectic you like really pretty boys do i yeah yeah but it's like a certain type of pretty boy like they could be in like a music video type shit you have a very specific like they all have great eyebrows that's a good point they do like you i think you like like the guy the dudes that are like well manicured like the perfect beards the perfect eyebrows like yeah yeah i like them a little grungy too though fake grungy where i'm like where i've never seen you date like they bought the tattered shirt from chrome hearts yeah so it looks grungy yeah like that definitely didn't get it like working underneath the car that rip did not happen yeah like that yeah he likes anybody who like looks like they stepped off of a set of a reality show anybody like that that part yeah yeah that's a good one i can see that yeah i can see that for sure yeah these pretty boys came out to the farm to do some stuff and i was like you are hayley's type and then another one showed up where was i yeah why didn't you call me what the fuck sorry guys the fence people okay well when's the next jason literally came up he goes hayley's types in the back right now oh that means they don't have one tattoo right yeah they're like they're like the sticker tattoos point they look like the male version of you perfect bring them that she said bring it up yeah hayley is a little player man let's play it from the himalaya who said it the other day somebody was like man hayley really fucking can pull anybody she wants and i was like it's fucking i don't know it's i don't know how it's a great human oh we're getting cinnabons the other day bro i couldn't believe it when you guys showed me this picture we're getting cinnabons hayley goes this guy was like are you guys gonna sit here she goes yeah but you can sit with us i was like hayley jesus christ right and i look like this i look so busted she had not an ounce of makeup on it was she's good guy goes and sits scarfs down the fucking cinnamon roll he keeps turning to talk to us so we all conversated as a group and then all of a sudden next thing i know he's at our table with us eating the cinnabon and when they go to leave she goes she throws her phone she goes what's your instagram oh and they go to look each other up and they're already following each other and he was beautiful he was gorgeous she's like you need to holler at him i'm like he's into you i'm like why did you holler at him dude no thank you no thank you no thanks even jaime was like jaime was like i'll take his number no i had to be like i had to walk away because if i saw him lick his lips one more time i was gonna ask for his instagram oh no that's so funny he was like beautiful yeah he was why do all hot dudes do that they all lick their lips like they know do you remember that guy at the bar in do i remember anything that happens at the bar in jackson and kaylee kept mimicking him because he kept like the one i was into yes it would just every two seconds he'd be like and kaylee could not handle it she goes no if that fucker licks his lips one more time i'm just sure they're just so moist at this all right guys do not lick your fucking lips lips don't i mean you get every once in a while you can do it but don't do it continuously all right well i'm gonna go lay down with my new yiddies and uh probably ice them but i love you guys thank you guys always so much for having my back thank you guys always so much for being interested in what the hell i do um without you there is no me so you know i just want you guys to know how much i absolutely fucking adore all of you i 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