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Ask Me Anything: Khloé Unfiltered

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Ask Me Anything: Khloé Unfiltered

The transcript is a heartfelt, candid Ask Me Anything session where the speaker shares deeply personal reflections on her life, relationships, and values. She reflects on her early fascination with reality TV, drawing connections between her own experiences and the authenticity she sees in shows like *Traders*. Speaking openly about her emotional journey, she recalls watching her own first TV season as a wake-up call to self-awareness, and shares how the Elizabeth Smart documentary profoundly impacted her. She embraces the idea of soulmates, including family members, and openly discusses her thoughts on motherhood and future children, balancing hope with emotional caution. Her lifestyle is rooted in bold fashion and self-expression, particularly during her "clomoney era," while acknowledging personal habits like Dairy Queen indulgences as part of a balanced life. She also addresses parenting challenges, such as co-parenting and shielding children from public scrutiny, emphasizing values like empathy and financial humility. The conversation touches on identity, forgiveness, and personal growth, highlighting her belief in change and the importance of self-trust. Throughout, the speaker maintains a warm, relatable tone, celebrating both her journey and the people around her, from family to friends. The session blends humor, vulnerability, and insight, offering a rich portrait of a woman who values authenticity, connection, and emotional honesty.

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"I am told all the time how much you guys love my Ask Me Anythings." "Some of these questions are so deep. What was it like watching yourself on TV season one?" "Oi. Have you always been into reality TV?" "I just started watching traitors. What is my current position with good American?" "If I met my soulmate, would you want to have more kids with them?" "I mean, honestly, has forgiveness ever cost you too much?" "As there ever been a red flag that I've ignored because I was in love?" "All of them." "Who is my favorite ex?" "I don't have beef with any of them, do I?" "Who?" "What was your favorite era of your own style?" "I love my clomoney era." "Hip-on-goods, fur coats, good hoops." "What tattoos have you had lasered off?" "I had a tramp stamp." "My mom got the matching cross. We can pop that picture up, you Google it." "What would you say is your unhealthiest habit?" "I love Dairy Queen." "Just have them give me a blizzard and I'll read whatever ad they want." "Call me." "I am doing another Ask Me Anything." "I am told all the time how much you guys love my Ask Me Anythings." "And I love recording them for you guys." "I have a stack of submitted questions, possibly comments, who knows?" "And I don't ever read these ahead of time." "I just read and answer as I go, but I love doing these with you guys." "And I love that you guys love them so much." "So let's get into it." "Have I ever watched heated rivalry?" "No." "Is this something I need to add to my list?" "Yes, everyone's saying yes." "I just started watching traders and I've never seen it before and oh my gosh, I'm so into traders." "It's crazy that this is a TV show." "I had to literally ask if this is like, are they acting because they're so into it, I love it." "Do you ever go on it?" "No, but I love watching it." "I mean, never say never." "Have you always been into reality TV or do you have a deeper appreciation for it since you've been a part of that world?" "I feel like yeah, I've always really liked reality TV. I have to think because I've been doing this for so long and I love it and I think sometimes it's hard for me to watch reality TV because some I know that it's so contrived and fake, I'm like, "Ugh, you just know the energy because you're on it." "And then there's others like traders." "I'm like, what is this?" "It was, I loved it because it was so different and everyone is so into it and they're believing everything that's going on and that's what it's supposed to be a reality." "So I love that." "When I was younger, the girls next door and an occult Smith loved and an occult Smith show, the Osborns, the real world, I'm trying to think what else but I loved all of that stuff." "So yeah, I always loved reality TV." "What was it like watching yourself on TV season one?" "Boy." "Okay, you know when you hear your voice for the first time, like if you had to hear your voice mail back or a recording of yourself, it's just like nails on a chalkboard. And no one, I think, likes the sound of their own voice at first. So I used the show as a mirror a lot of the times. At the time I was 22, you don't really think too hard about what you're doing or saying, but seeing sometimes how I would respond to people in my tone, me probably thinking it's funny and then seeing how it landed. I was like, "Ugh, okay, that's not how I meant something." So it's definitely like a wake up call, but it's also fun. Like now I'm like that's a moment in time and it's so great, but at the time, I think I was much more self-critical. Not so much of how I looked. It was more how I spoke or the things I said or sometimes I don't remember what I said. So I'm like, "Oh my gosh, I said that, that's so humiliating." Or I'm crazy, like sometimes I just don't realize what I'm saying. Have I watched any documentaries recently that I can't stop thinking about? Actually, yes. I just watched the Elizabeth Smart documentary. I believe it's on Netflix. It's one episode, I think it's 90 minutes or so. And Elizabeth Smart is about the girl in the early 2000s who was lived in Utah and was abducted out of her bedroom at 14 years old. And she went with her abductors for about nine months to a year and then they found her and she's alive and is able to tell her story. But her story, I was sobbing the entire time. It's horrible and I'm so happy that she's okay and that she has turned this horrific experience. And she uses it and really tries to do good with what has happened to her. But the documentary is really great, it's from her whole family's perspective and she's in the documentary. So it's a really well done documentary. Do I believe in soulmates? Hell yeah, I love a soulmate. But I think soulmates can be romantic. It could be a romantic partner, which I believe in. But I also think that, like I think my siblings are my soulmates and my mom. And I feel like in every lifetime we are meant to be with one another. So I think you can have different versions of soulmates. I also think you could have more than one soulmate. If I met my soulmate this year, would you want to have more kids with them? Never say never. I will never say never. I think for me, I would want to be married and have kids that way with my new husband. And if I were to have more kids or I have thought maybe I do have a few more embryos in the freezer. And I was like, I don't think I have like the energy for another baby. But I do think girls need sisters and it could just be how I was raised. Like I feel like Tatum's going to be fine, but like a girl needs her sister. And I think maybe that's because that was my experience. But I think I have one girl left and I have been contemplating like, do I just do this? Do it on my own? Do this? But I don't know, like emotionally. I could handle this. You guys I know. It's just been a thought. Yeah, I've just been thinking about it. Because I don't think it's going to happen because I don't think I have the energy. But then I was thinking because also when you put, I would put the baby in a surrogate. And I think I would have a very different experience because I would be along for that surrogate journey as opposed to all the trauma that surrounded Tatum's surrogate experience. But when you put an embryo in, there's no guarantee that it will take. So I also was thinking I could try that and if it doesn't work, that means God didn't want me to have another baby and that's fine. But I don't even think I have the emotional capacity. Oh my God. Yes, sister. Oh, I know. That's the only thing is why I want to do it. And true knows she has a sister in the freezer and she like will tell people that. I'm like, we need context though. They think I have like a little girl in my freezer. When you think back in your childhood, what is the first memory that comes to mind? One of my first memories that comes to mind is when I was a kid, I used to be convinced that I was a dog and my parents sort of entertained that. And so I would always walk around on all fours and bark at people. But I remember like where I was doing it at our house on Tower Lane. Like I just remember the 80s wallpaper. It's a silly memory, but I like that memory. What is my favorite thing about being true in Tatum's mom? Oh, that's hard because I have so many favorite things. I have a long list, but I'm so proud of the relationship that they have with each other. It makes me really proud of a parent that like they love each other so so much. And it's just so special to see them grow up together and see how they just hug and love and kiss on one another and like want to cuddle and read books together. I just, I love that. It reminds me a lot about me and Rob. It really does. Who is my favorite X? Well, I'm actually cool with like any of my X's if I saw them. I don't communicate with any of them besides Tristan, but I don't like talk with any of them on a regular. But if I saw any of them, I would say hi and give them a hug. I don't have beef with any of them, right? Do I? What is my current position with good American? For good American, I'm still co-founder and owner. And you know, at first, I think you really want to help build the brand as much as you can. And we've definitely done that, but good American is doing so well. And good American is strong enough and stable enough to sustain on its own. But I am still very much co-founder and owner of the brand. What are names you didn't choose for Truan Tatum? Okay. Well, Tatum, I don't think I landed on a name for like nine months, which after he was born, which is crazy. We called him baby at first and then like we would just call him Rob sometimes. I wanted a T name, something still unique, but not too unique, not crazy. but I did, I think the wildest name I liked for her. him was tiger and then for true, there was no real options, like I just knew it was true. I loved the name true, but Tristan wanted to name her Kaleesi. This was in the big Game of Thrones era and I just knew we weren't naming her Kaleesi, but I think that was the only name I can think of, but it wasn't going to happen. Kaleesi. Crazy. True's name is MJ's first husband. My mom's real dad who passed away before my mom was like 16. His name was Robert True and then his dad was true, something. And so my grandma, when we were at dinner and I was like, "What am I going to name this baby? I really wanted a tea name. I wanted their initials to be TT." And she was like, "Why not true? That's your grandfather's name. Anyways." That's where that name came from. What is your favorite quote that people say back to you to this day? I think something that people say to me all the time is bigger the hoop, bigger the hoe. That's very proud of these quotes, by the way. I mean, my quotes are crazy and silly. They're not really profound, but hey, you've got to do what you've got to do, but that's probably one of my favorite or, oh, that's another one. I have a busy week. I have a busy week. Do you? I mean, for the first day, Nobu, Vegas Friday, then I have a spray tin at 8.45. Oh my god. Oh no. Things are filling up. Fill in. Spray tin. Like, people will say these things to me, even like my close friends will just say, like, spit off a sentence from the shell and I just always think it's so funny. That group chat you text the most, oof, it depends on the week. Right now, we've really been going off on the bat chat and the bat chat is me, Kim, Lala, Tracy and Steph. That's that chat. I think that's the one that's been going off the most. I have a lot of group chats, but they all consume of the same people that are just broken down in different pods. It's really crazy. At what point will you let your kids watch the older versions of Keeping Up? I don't know. Teenagers, I imagine. When was it? I remember Scott text us, maybe it was last year. Could be two years ago tops, but I swear it was last year in Mason, so Mason was 15. And he, 14 or 15, he just started watching all of Keeping Up and he was like, wow, you guys were such a vibe. And I'm like, we're, we're still a fucking vibe. Look, what are you talking about? He loved it. He was so entertained by it. He said he was so surprised by so many of our personalities because we're obviously so different around the kids and now that we're older too. But I would say 14 or 15. Oh, that's going to be a tough one, by the way. How do you protect your kids from public scrutiny? I think what's harder is the older they get, like even now true is almost eight. And there's other eight year olds that have phones. There's other eight year olds that are telling her things. Like for example, just yesterday, she was like, what does it mean that you're rich? And I said, rich, like what? Like, rich in what? She said, well, someone asked me if I was rich. And I said, who asked you that? She said someone from school. And I said, well, what does that mean? You said, I don't know, like that you have a lot of money is what she said. And I'm like, these kids, like so many of these things are learned from other people. And that's what bothers me. But like I can't lock them in a cage their whole lives as much as I probably would love to. It would be a big cage, don't worry. But yeah, I think what's scary is knowing the older they get, the more they're going to ask me questions, be aware of things. And a lot of that is driven by outsiders. Now what did you say? Well, I told her, I said, you know, if you're rich or not, that doesn't matter in life. And your mommy works really hard to provide a life for you. I told her about, I was like, well, your daddy grew up really poor. And that's why your daddy tells you these stories and like, look how hard your daddy worked. And now your daddy lives this when I was trying to tell her. So like we all have to be good people and work really hard. And we never treat other people differently. And I said, everyone comes in all different shapes and sizes and different money and all of that. And I was like, and doesn't make anyone better or worse. I was telling her also, I was like, you know, I was telling about my dad. And I was like, my dad grew up really poor and my dad always reminded us like, this is my money. This isn't your money. Like, I have money. You guys don't. And I also said like how we treat people like to me that means so much more than money. And I never want anyone to be mistreated because I was explaining how there's good people that have nothing. And then there's bad people that have everything. And we always want like, I was like, don't you want everything in life? And she's like, OK. And I was like, so that means we have to be the best and work the best. And I was like, explaining that to her. And she was like, I like that. OK. Next question. 91% of dog parents say their pup is an important member of their family. And 40% would even save their dog over a human stranger. Safe to say people are obsessed. The other day, my new puppy peppermint fell asleep on my chest. And I literally didn't move for an hour because I didn't want to wake her up. So that's what I knew that clearly I'm obsessed, but in the best way possible. If anyone understands being dog obsessed, it's Oli. They are relentless about delivering the best food and experience for you and your dog. And they even give you a way to check in on their health over and over and over again. What I love about Oli is the food itself. 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Like I'm like I have to run this by someone else and get permission like because I in my head like obviously that's the right thing to do. And of course my kids have a dad but in my head I'm like but I'm the mom. Like I would never do anything to hurt my kids put them in the arms like that's how I think and Tristan knows that and Tristan is like great with like trusting me with it. Like he knows who I am as a parent but it's still a struggle for me sometimes that I have to remind myself oh yeah I have to ask for permission oh okay I have to get this letter signed because he is the dad and if I want to take them out of the country he has to like sign a wave it's just like they're mine. Like that's just how I feel in my head so for me that's the hardest part. Is there anything your mom let you do that you won't let your kids do? We can have an hour podcast on this question alone. Oh my god I remember my mom used to be like okay go outside and don't come back until the lights until the sun starts setting like without a guardian I would never leave my kids on the street looking up fine like the whole neighborhood was doing it but I would never let my kids do times are so different. We used to chase the ice cream truck and like beg for it to stop and like now when ice cream truck I'm like they're going to abduct you don't go near it like everything that I used to do as a kid I would never let my kids do now it's so scary. Robin I used to ride our bikes down Ventura Boulevard and go to like a convenience store fast food and my kids I would never let them ride a bike down Ventura Boulevard anymore. I would think someone's probably texting and driving they can crash onto the curb. I have the darkest thoughts. I loved the independence and freedom I had from my parents but it's just the times. It's so dark and dangerous. I'm going to rob and I used to make forts and like sewer drains blocks away and we would love it. We would take a wagon and be gone for eight hours and do it and no one ever checked on us and that was just the norm. Now are you kidding me that would never happen. What tattoos have you had lasered off? I have had one tattoo on my lower back I had a tramp stamp. It was the trend at the time and I got a cross with angel wings and it says daddy over it. It was not supposed to be a sexual situation it was supposed to be an honor of my dad but being that it's a tramp stamp it just like I remember a guy was like who's your daddy and I'm like ill and then I was like he's not wrong like it just all clicked to me so that's being removed but for good reason. Well it was a cross and that I had first oh my god then my mom got the matching cross without telling me and a tramp stamp too and thought it would be funny we can pop that picture up you Google it she thought it would be funny for some reason she wrote Kendall and Kylie underneath it only not the four other kids that she birthed just those two then she got the tattoo with Nicole Richie Nicole thought it was funny and then they came and they showed me and they were like haha and I was like my mom and I have matching tramp stamps this is horrible like this can't happen I remember when my dad died I was like I don't want a lot of tattoos so I'm going and my dad my dad would kill me if you knew about a tattoo but in my sick rebellious head I was like an honor of my dad I'm going to get something for him so I got the angel wings that looks like a butterfly and it wrote daddy above the cross so the whole thing is being wiped away you can't see the daddy anymore or the angel wings I don't think but you can see little remnants of like the ivy that was growing up the cross but it will be gone soon but that was it started as one tattoo and kept adding because I don't want a lot of tattoos but from the daddy to the matching tramp stamps with my mom a lot of it was just a big no-no if I could talk to my dad and ask him one question today what would it be oh my gosh what an amazing question I don't know if I could just have one like I would want it to be either like are you proud of all of us or just like something about his grandkids like do you see how much life we've created like my dad would have been the best grandparent the best grandpa it makes me sad they don't have that but I don't know I think something about all the kids I would love to ask him I just don't know what it would be this is a deep question do you believe people really change you know I do believe people change I think they have to change in their own time for sure and something within themselves has to motivate them they have to really really see something in themselves that they don't like anymore they're just they've closed that chapter and they have changed but I do believe people change and I think we have to remind ourselves that people are allowed to change and that doesn't mean it's bad and doesn't mean it's good some people change for the worse some do change for the better but I think a lot of the times we don't even give people the opportunity to evolve and to grow and to change and we have to give people more grace and patience with that do I listen to kpop I do but I think more because my kids do my kids love kpop and kpop is a vibe so I'm into it what was it like being pregnant together with my sisters so I was pregnant at the same time I was physically pregnant with Kylie at the same time Kimberly was not physically pregnant but her surrogate was having a baby at the same time and Kim was first Kylie found out she was pregnant next and then I found out last when Kylie and I were pregnant at the same time Kim was so envious that she was unable to carry and that she couldn't have that moment with all three of us that would have been crazy if all three of us were but me and Kylie we really Kylie and I have always been really really close and then having that experience together was surreal it was nothing we ever would have thought would happen it was really really beautiful though we did a photo shoot together where we're like touching each other's tummy is and that was a really special photo shoot that her and I did because how often does that get to happen and so I'm really glad that we took advantage of that really short time in our lives because it was it was beautiful but Kim I remember when I was pregnant and Kim was having Chicago but through surrogacy Kim would still she was a G she would take me around town we would go to all different fast food restaurants and her and I both because we can be eaters her and I both we know how to eat and we would just eat even though she was a pregnant she would just join me and we would have all these pregnancy cravings and loved it I miss that how are things going with the new puppy I love her so much I love peppermint man puppies are a lot of work they need a lot of supervision and it's funny Tatum is like so nonchalant about peppermint true is still nervous around her just because she's jumps she's a puppy and so excited to see the kids and true just likes her on the leash so in case she jumps too much I can you know restrict her but it's so funny and she surprisingly the cats and her get along really well I thought the cats were going to hate her the cats seem to really like her so that makes me happy they had a harder time when I got baby kitty after grade kitty I think they had a harder time meshing than the dogs in the cat do so that is a very happy surprise what type of workout am I into right now well I do a lot of circuit training so with Joe I do a ton of heavyweight circuit training and then with Don he's way more cardio focused but all of his cardio he makes really interactive and dare I say fun like fun is a crazy word to say for cardio but like everything's a competition for Don so you don't really realize how much cardio you're doing but I do love the balance of both because sometimes I feel that just the weights isn't doing enough for me but then also just the cardio I can't handle it so I like to do both what does your workout playlist look like right now oh I love a good workout playlist mine is a lot of early 2000s music I love DMX I love old school little Wayne but back in like maybe the later 90s like I I like that era of music for working out. And then yeah, I do have some pop stuff, but I like really upbeat, dancey, fun, or it has to be old-school rap I'm into. What was your favorite era of your own style? So I love my clomoney era. I really, really do. I love when I'm like Python boots, fur coat, big hoops. Like I like when I'm all over the place. Like I'm into it. It's all such a vibe. I like being loud, but in a fun way in my clothing. Even Courtney sent me a DM the other day. She's like, "I missed 2016 Chloe style." And I'm like, "Girl, all you did was clown me and call me a basketball wife when I was wearing these outfits and now you miss it." Like people wanted to talk and talk about the red bottoms, or this or that. That was the energy I was giving and I stand behind it. I love it, but it's funny that now she misses it. What was my favorite movie growing up? The Never Ending Story. Love, still love. My brother and I have the same memories and the same love of movies. And I would say the Never Ending Story was what we watched all the time. I love that movie, or like The Witches. I have like a list that I would want to rewatch right now. What would you say is your unhealthiest habit right now? I'm not changing it, but I love Dairy Queen. Love Dairy Queen. I just got Uber Eats on my phone and that was a big mistake because every weekend I Uber myself, Dairy Queen. And I can't stop. Like I cannot stop. It's literally, well, I'm like, "Fuck, it's Tuesday." Like I need to get through to Sunday 'cause Sunday is when I have my Dairy Queen. And I get a large Oreo Blizzard with extra Oreos. And it is quite possibly the best thing I've ever had. And it's sure an unhealthy habit, but it's all about balance in life and it makes me so happy. Laying in bed, watching weird TV shows and eating Dairy Queen. Just have them give me a Blizzard and I'll read whatever ad they want. What did you learn about love the hard way? Huntie. I feel like we all learn, you have to love, you have to be in relationships, you have to put yourself out there and get hurt to learn these lessons, but that's life. I mean, there's so many lessons I've learned. Love isn't always enough. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Like there's so many things that you wish you didn't have to know but you do, but it doesn't mean that it's bad. If you go through them, maybe you'll not be cynical about the worlds, but just protect yourself a little bit more for the next relationship, but that doesn't mean carry your baggage into it, but I've learned so, so much. To the point that I do think it's scary to try again. I do think it's scary to trust again and put yourself out there because you don't know what's going to happen next, but you do just have to have faith at some point. What was your dream job when you were growing up? I used to dream of being a veterinarian and I always said I want my first car to be an RV and I want to drive around and pick up the animals off the side of the road, fix them and release them. And as a kid, I don't think I realized that you don't get to save every single animal and then once I realized that I had to put down a lot of animals and I couldn't save every kid's pet then I didn't like that dream anymore because I didn't want to be the one responsible and my head it was killing an animal. But I did for years want to be a vet. When do I feel the most like myself? Honestly, I feel the most like myself when I'm around my family, when I'm with my kids. Those really are my happy places, but I love doing anything that's like a family thing because I just feel that's where I feel my safest and my guard is down. Have I ever received bad advice? Baby, yes, we get bad advice all the time. But I don't know, I'm pretty good at picking out when it is bad advice. Like I'll listen to someone, I'm like, what the fuck was that? Like when I hang up the phone, we have had bad business advice, bad relationship advice, bad friend advice, had it all. Like you know what your core with the answer is, you know what you want to do with something and I think so many people want all this outside validation but the more people that you're asking for advice, the more wrong advice you're gonna get because so many of these other people are lost too, we're all just trying to figure it out. And also that person is not in your shoes. Like you have to learn to listen to your own advice. Maybe you have a small group of people that you ask that really know the full story of your life and that can give you the best advice they know how. Yeah, if you want bad advice, just ask everyone around you 'cause that's what you're gonna get. Have I ever done a past life regression? No, I have not, but I've read the book, many lives, many masters in the book, only love is real and they're written by the same doctor. He does past life regressions. I'm so into it, very scary, but also so into it. Would I do one? I don't know. It would be fascinating. I think you'd be fascinating, but I would have to think about that more and think if that's like in my religion if that's like appropriate to do. I don't know, I don't know, but I'm very intrigued by it. Do I believe in witches? Yes, I believe in everything. I believe anything's possible. I don't give energy to witches, but I do know, no names will be mentioned, but I do know a few people that have done sorcery in some regard. But dark, like dark bad stuff. I'm not associated with these people, but like I know there are believers in these things out there. I'm not saying a witch is bad or good. I do think there's light and dark to anything, so I think if there are witches, which I believe there are, there could be a good witch and there could be a bad witch. Has forgiveness ever cost you too much? Some of these questions are so deep and great. Off the top of my head, no. Forgiveness has never cost me too much. I think it's a beautiful part of life when you're able to forgive. The change you're releasing for someone else is such a gift in return. And also I don't want to carry around all of this nasty shit with me wherever I go. So I think forgiveness is such a beautiful act and I love it. And when I forgive, I sincerely forgive. And I really try to let that go and move on from that. So I'm a big advocate for forgiveness. But no, it's never been too much. Do I like theme parks and roller coasters? Hail, no, I do not. I do not. I don't like being on a fucking three foot platform. Like I'm like, this is too high. Get me down, something could happen. I don't know when I became such a pussy. Fact is, I'm the biggest pussy all of a sudden. Don't I won't do anything that there's a risk? I'm not gonna make it out alive. Roll the coasters. I watch my algorithms. I see what I used to fucking live for a county fair. Live. Now, like this spinning thing that I loved so much, I see that thing and it just keeps going and now it's like on the freeway. Like they just get off the track. Why? When did this stuff start happening? The loop de loop thing? And then like the brackets come off and someone's like, this person was suspended for four hours until help was able to get to them. No, not doing it. Done it, it's not happening again. What is it the first time you emerge after a very public headline? I mean, it just depends, I would say if it's a negative headline, it's weird how the media can make you feel about yourself, but you can feel so much shame, even if you didn't do anything wrong. You carry a lot of embarrassment and shame, but you do it to yourself 'cause I'm like a headline. How do you even know how many people have seen this headline? Like you, you definitely dramatize it all within your soul, but how else are you supposed to take it? Like it's really a strange, it's like if you're in high school and someone, I don't know, it's bullying you or doing something and they tape flyers about you on the lockers, you will feel like it's the end of the world. And you know, and it's 200 people in high school or whatever. It's a similar feeling that you feel like someone taped up flyers in your quote high school, but it's like whatever your world is, like you just feel like it's everywhere and everyone's reading it. if that's true or not, that's the way you feel. And it's just a horrible, horrible feeling. It's really strange. When was the last time I cried? So I'm not a bit cryer, but the last time I cried, I would say was probably the Elizabeth Smart documentary, because it was so sad, but also I was so happy that she's okay now, and that she's like giving this interview and that she talks about how now she is a husband and kids, and you're just like, you're so happy for her and her family. And so that's the last time I cried, but about me or something like that, I don't have any clue. Has there ever been a red flag that I've ignored because I was in love? All of them, definitely. Feel like I'm colorblind every time I'm in love, that's okay. Am I the type of person that likes to plan my own trips or do I like to be spontaneous, okay? Please, I read something today, and this person was like, I would make a type A person have a stroke because I don't plan my hotels until I get to the city. What? Are we mentally sound? No. So I'm a huge planner, I plan everything, but I won't even try a new city unless someone I know has stayed at that place 'cause I'm like, I'm not wasting my one week vacation to try a new house or a new hotel, just to find out that it's shit. Like I need someone specifically in my family to be like whatever, I went to St. Lucia. You gotta go, this is where you're gonna stay. You're gonna love, like I just need someone to co-sign it. I wish I was a little more chill and didn't think like that, but I am who I am. What is your most proud business achievement at this point in your life? I mean, honestly, 'cause I'm so proud just that we put ourselves out there and start new businesses. And I am so proud of that. I'm super, super proud of me and my family that we have sustained in this business for as long as we have. I don't know if there's one particular because I do think every single decision, every business fail and every business succession, I feel like it's a stepping stone and it's brought me to where I am right now. And I'm just really, really proud that we're still here, that we're still working hard, that we're still, you know, trying every day. Like I'm really, really proud of that. What is my favorite thing to shop for? Anything home-related. Like more kitchen accessory type things. I love a theme, so I like Valentine's Day. I wanna go into home goods and walk up and down the aisles and see what's like theme-y and heart and I love getting things from my kids. I love theme napkins and just making things as festive and sweet and happy as possible. I want just a happy, beautiful childhood for my kids. Is true still a picky eater. True is a very picky eater, but she has a few things on rotation, but they're not, it's not bad food. Like she eats chicken fingers and french fries. She loves artichokes, quesadillas and edamame and rice. Those are like, go to and she eats tons of fruits and vegetables. It's like her jam. She doesn't like cookies, doesn't like cakes. So to me, I think she eats great. Anything new coming up with cloud, we are actually venturing into a new snack category. More to come, I can't say anything really else about that. But very, very, very excited and very, very soon. Thank you guys so much for submitting such amazing questions. This truly is one of my favorite solo sessions is when I get to do ask me anything. So I hope you guys love today's episode and send in some more questions 'cause I wanna keep doing ask me anything else. Bye.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The speaker reflects on her deep connection to reality TV, especially early seasons like *The Real World* and *Traders*, which she finds genuine and emotionally powerful.
  2. She shares personal insights about her early life, including a childhood memory of believing she was a dog and her emotional journey of self-awareness from watching her own first TV season.
  3. The Elizabeth Smart documentary deeply moved her, highlighting her belief in resilience and the power of personal transformation through trauma.
  4. She believes in soulmates, including familial ones, and expresses openness to having more children with a future partner, though she acknowledges emotional and physical limits.
  5. She admits to unhealthy habits like frequent Dairy Queen consumption, but frames it as a balanced part of life, emphasizing joy and self-care.
  6. She discusses parenting challenges, including co-parenting struggles and protecting children from public scrutiny by teaching values of equity and personal integrity.
  7. Her style is proudly rooted in the "clomoney era" — loud, expressive, and confident — with a strong appreciation for bold fashion and personal identity.
  8. She emphasizes the importance of self-trust, forgiveness, and personal evolution, crediting life experiences — especially love and loss — as key to growth.

Summary:

The transcript is a heartfelt, candid Ask Me Anything session where the speaker shares deeply personal reflections on her life, relationships, and values. She reflects on her early fascination with reality TV, drawing connections between her own experiences and the authenticity she sees in shows like *Traders*. Speaking openly about her emotional journey, she recalls watching her own first TV season as a wake-up call to self-awareness, and shares how the Elizabeth Smart documentary profoundly impacted her.

She embraces the idea of soulmates, including family members, and openly discusses her thoughts on motherhood and future children, balancing hope with emotional caution. Her lifestyle is rooted in bold fashion and self-expression, particularly during her "clomoney era," while acknowledging personal habits like Dairy Queen indulgences as part of a balanced life. She also addresses parenting challenges, such as co-parenting and shielding children from public scrutiny, emphasizing values like empathy and financial humility.

The conversation touches on identity, forgiveness, and personal growth, highlighting her belief in change and the importance of self-trust. Throughout, the speaker maintains a warm, relatable tone, celebrating both her journey and the people around her, from family to friends. The session blends humor, vulnerability, and insight, offering a rich portrait of a woman who values authenticity, connection, and emotional honesty.

FAQs

It was a wake-up call — hearing your own voice felt like nails on a chalkboard. I was self-critical about what I said, often not realizing how my words landed, which was both humbling and eye-opening.

Yes, I believe in soulmates, both romantically and as family connections like with my siblings. If I met my soulmate, I’d want to have kids with them, but I don’t have the emotional energy for another baby and would consider a surrogate journey.

My Clomoney era is my favorite — I love the bold look with Python boots, fur coats, and big hoops. It’s loud, fun, and full of energy, and even my friend Courtney misses it now.

I had a tramp stamp on my lower back with a cross and angel wings, which said 'Daddy' above it. It was removed because it caused awkward conversations and I realized it wasn’t respectful. My mom also has a matching tramp stamp, which she got without telling me.

I love Dairy Queen — I can’t stop eating a large Oreo Blizzard every weekend, especially on Sundays. It’s an unhealthy habit, but I enjoy it so much that it’s part of my balance and joy.

Yes, I’ve ignored red flags because I was in love. I often feel colorblind in love, and being in a relationship makes me blind to warning signs, even if they’re clear.

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