Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation III

Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dak Shepherd, I'm joined by Monica Padman. - It's your favorite day. - It's my favorite day and I'm always, I'm shocked there's always been three. We must be titling them different, but we're titling them different. - We must be, but this is unauthorized evacuation. Three, tell us about an unexpected evacuation. And they're always beautiful and endearing and life-affirming. - It's the thing that's gonna bring us together. - Yeah, we can all relay, or most of us, and if you can't relate yet, you will relay at some point in nearby. Please enjoy unauthorized evacuations. ♪ All times ♪ ♪ Come and go ♪ ♪ Good times ♪ ♪ Take 'em slow ♪ ♪ My life ♪ ♪ I had 'em all ♪ ♪ But the one thing ♪ ♪ You gotta know ♪ ♪ I'ma keep 'em shining ♪ - Hello. - Hi, Docs in Monica. - Kayla, are you from a long line of Kaylas? Are you the first? - I'm the first Kayla. My dad said he found it while sitting on the toilet in the baby book, so that's how I got my name. - No. - Oh, wonderful. He was leafing through it. - The best ideas can come to you on the toilet. - Yeah, also, I mean, pretty good dad. I don't know when you were born, but probably 90s were he born in the 90s? - Yeah, 96. - The fact that he's taking time to read a baby name book, is not probably super typical. - Yeah, and I mean, on the toilet, maybe that's how we got to this story. - Oh, yeah. - And if we make the opposite argument, you could also argue, he only read it 'cause he was stuck on the toilet, and there was nothing else to read. - No, but we're glad that's helpful here. - Where are you, Kayla? - I'm in Orange County. - And it happens even in sunny California, on authorizing you back. - Dad, I don't like hearing it. Well, we know that's true. It's happened at both of us. - Personally, yeah. (laughing) - Honestly, I wasn't my proudest at first, but since been telling to break the ice at work and at parties, and it's funny now, so that's great. - All right, walk us through it. Tell us the year what was happening. - So it was 2019. I was freshly in college. I honestly was very, very stressed at the time. I was working a full-time job at a makeup counter, and then a part-time job at this snow cone place, and then I was also going to school full-time. - Wow. - I set that up to say I was very, very stressed. My GI wasn't exactly working. - So like periods of constipation, then honest? - Exactly, yeah. (laughing) It had gone like six days, and my now husband was actually telling me, and he was like, you know what? Like I had to get an NMO one-time. Can't let this go any longer. (laughing) - Yes, six days, oh. - Yeah, I was like, okay, I'll go to the doctor. So I went to the doctor, and she was like, you're fine. Probably just a bit of constipation. You've had a lot of stress in your life. Like you're fine. She was like, I'll give you something. - You probably never had a long enough window to sit down and relax to let things start moving. You were racing from one thing to another. - Yeah, my diet wasn't great. It was probably a bunch of things. So like I was like, okay, cool. Well, fast, track it, go to the doctor, get something for me, great. Next day, go to pick it up at the pharmacy. I am late for work, 'cause I'm always late everywhere. (laughing) But I go to the pharmacy to go pick it up, and they do a consultation with you when you haven't taken the medication before. But I decided that that was the day I was gonna tell a little white lie and say, oh, not taking this before, like, I'm good. Thank you. So left, and then went to my job at the makeup counter. It was a Saturday, super, super busy. I popped the pill. You know, I'm just going about my day. - Real quick, is this some store in a mall? - So no, it's actually like in a shopping center. I'm not ashamed to say it was an Ulta in a shopping center. - Oh my god, it's great. - Oh, great. - Do you know that Monica? - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah, yeah. - It was super, super busy. I could not even leave the counter for a second, just because there were so many people. And so I started to feel like a grumbling in my stomach, and I was like, oh gosh. Well, I don't have any time to go to the bathroom. I usually crop dust the back of the store, just kind of like take a little while. - Sure. - But I couldn't, I was helping too many people, hauler matching, doing all of that, to get my commission. And so I felt the rumbling, felt the rumbling, and I was like, okay, I know this feeling. Like it's just a far, I haven't even farted in six days. This is totally fine. Like I'll be okay. - What were you wearing? Can I ask quickly? - Yeah, that was actually a big part of the story. I was wearing a long black skirt. - Oh. - Okay, great. - Some tiny women's underwear, and then yeah, just like this cute little shirt. It had to wear all black to work. Anyways, I'm going to walk around the back of my counter, and I got a second to breathe, and I was like, okay, I'll just let it go right here. So I let it go, and all of a sudden, I feel something running down here. - Ah! - Are you in the center of the store, or are you behind the counter? - My counter is in the center of the store, and then I kind of have this little loop behind my counter, where I can kind of hide from the rest of the people in the store, so that's kind of where I am, because I was like, okay, no one's in the back here. Let me just step to the side. - But it is a public part of the store. - The customer totally could have seen me, and it's a very busy Saturday. - Oh. - I was like, oh no, something's running down my leg. I was like, what did I take? So I go, run to the back of the store, where the bathroom is, assess the situation, and I'm just covered. - You're covered. - Diarrhea, all over my thumb, inside my skirt. - Whoa, in your shirt, 'cause it was tucked in. - In your skirt? - Skirt, and shirt, my shirt was tucked into my skirt. - Full wardrobe, took out the whole wardrobe. - Literally took out the whole wardrobe. I'm like panicking now. Thank God, no one's in the bathroom, the same time as I am. But I'm taking all the toilet paper, just like trying to get it off myself. I throw in my thong, because I'm like, there's no saving this thing, and I'm panicking. I'm like, what did I take? What do I do? I don't even know. I'm panicking, I'm not thinking. And I live right across the street at the time. Like literally, I could have walked home, but I obviously didn't for obvious reasons. I get out of the bathroom, I see my manager in passing, and I say, hey, I gotta go emergency, I'll be back. And she was like, everything okay. And I was like, I gotta go. So I just booked it out of the store. I sit in my car, can't believe that happened. I'm like crying. I'm like, oh my gosh, like what am I doing? And I look at the pill bottle, type in the name of the pill into Google. Sure enough, it's a laxative. Yeah, and I was not supposed to take it until I was at home or by a toilet. Yeah, yeah, not at work. Probably the one they give you for a colonoscopy cleanse. Like probably a powerful animal? Yeah. That's what my friend was saying. She was like, sounds very similar to what I had mine. I was like, okay, great. But anyways, I have to go back to work. I need this job. I can't just like not show back up. I don't know what I was thinking. I probably could have called, but it was a busy Saturday. So run home, I get changed. Don't think anything of it. And I'm like, I'm in the clear. That emptied me all out. I'll be fine. Oh, this is a two-parter. Maybe a four-parter, I don't know. Well, thankfully not a two-parter, but it's not the best situation I get back. I get back and it's still busy in the store. And I'm now in like full-heavy sweats just because nerves or whatever, maybe the laxative. I don't really know. But I'm by my counter and my counter was like packed before. There's not a soul to be seen, but the store is still busy. Yeah. I was like, oh my gosh, just 'cause I'm not here for a second. No one wanted to help me, like what's going on. And so I'm walking around the counter and I'm like, oh my gosh, like something smells really bad over here. I mean, yeah, yeah. Of course if your brand down your leg, it's gonna land somewhere. I honestly was like, no, the bad thing's already happened. There's no way I think you get worse. So I'm not thinking. We have kids all the time on our stores leaving stuff around the store, like food and all that. And I was like, oh, someone probably threw something away at my counter, so I like opened the counter doors and like nothing in there. Okay, so weird. I was like, man, like this is really really bad. So I go to walk around the corner where not a lot of people go and sure enough, all over the floor. All over the floor. Oh my god. I thought it was a tiny amount. Okay, a lot of things. I'm so glad I didn't ask earlier 'cause my first thought was, I wanted to know you getting on the floor, but I'm glad that was safe. But how the fuck did your manager and none of the other employees stumble upon this pile of harness when you had gone home, changed, cleaned up? That I don't know, but I'm assuming probably people in the store had to know 'cause there was no one by my counter. I'll get to the part later about what happened after that to give you more of an answer of people like me or not, but I frantically just used a bunch of makeup or mover and alcohol that they have in the makeup stores just cleaning it up, making sure no one would see me. Again, back of the counter. I'm like, no one's here anyways, like it's fine. Clean it up. No one knows it's me anyways, right? Except if anyone was in the store and noticed I changed, which I'd like literally just thinking about now. But anyways, I pick it up, throw it away, all is done. I'm like, okay, cool. I only have a couple more hours in my shift. The worst is over it's fine, it's okay. So that is my story. But a couple weeks later, my manager comes up to me and she was like, hey, is everything okay? And the reason she's asking me is 'cause my mom was actually in the hospital a few months before, dealing with a whole bunch of things medical-wise. And I was like, no, everything was fine. And she's like, Well, the day that you left, you know, you left in such a rush, such a hurry, and you came back in new clothes, and I was like, Yeah, no, everything's fine. I was fine. And she goes, well, you know, there's cameras. Well, the one she asked you, she could have done the right thing and been like, you know what? This is what happened. It's in order. There was like three great things to do before this. One, ignore it. But you're already dealt with it. She cleaned it up. This doesn't need to be addressed. I'm like, she's gonna start doing this all the time. What if a camera came? She's like, I just want to make sure this isn't become a routine of yours, right? And then, yeah, second would be to come right out with it. Like, so, hey, you know, I saw the cameras that you should all over the floor. Again, I don't even know why we're gonna talk about. Okay. Oh, sorry. So she says there's cameras. And what do you do? You just die? No, I literally was like, yeah, you know, I know there's cameras, and she was like, okay. And I was like, all right. And she's like, okay, have a good shift. Okay. So you never had to say it. She tried to do it and then she ran out of gum shit. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm like assuming, obviously, she says you know there's cameras she's seen. But like, till this day, I mean, unless she listened to this podcast, you know, I don't know. But we've never talked about it again. No one ever said anything. No one ever told me that they saw anything. I feel annoyed at her. You do. Yeah. She already went through the worst possible thing that could ever happen to anyone on earth. Yeah, I know I agree. This is a pointless thing to bring up. Yeah. Let's make a strong man case for her. Okay. She's a manager, corporate's tough. These tapes are there. They could be seen. Should someone above her become aware of this? And they say, hey, what did you say to Kayla about her defecating on the floor of our showroom? And she goes, I haven't said anything to her. And they're like, you don't think you need to talk to an employee who defecates in the store? No, because it's not something she does. It was clearly an accident. She came back right away. And most people wouldn't even come back. So I just really don't feel comfortable. We just have what we have a hazmat procedure for the safety of our customers and the other employees. So we probably should have disinfected. I know she used makeup. You're fired. The hazmat situation is crazy. Those employees were also bad employees because they should have been like, what's happening over there? No one's going over there. Go look and like, ah, oh, no, someone should over there. Someone's diaper blew up. Exactly. Some kid. Yeah. Always blame a kiss. Someone brought a dog in and we'd say no dogs. Yeah. Now, really quick, Kayla, I have just recently done the colonoscopy. And I wasn't backed up for six days. And even given that, I had like nine or 10 rounds of quite active. And like, well, there's still more. So I'm shocked. That was the only explosion. That was the only one at work that day. Okay. I went home after and I was miserable. The pain only got worse because I just had so much more and more coming out. I had the other job. Like I said, but I called in that day. Oh, good. Funny enough, my best friend went through the same thing at the same time as I did. She doesn't have such a crazy story, but we were at a restaurant the next day and her story happened. Oh my. Wow. It bonded us for life. It was a good story afterwards. But man, like it took me a long time to like admit that that happens. I really like when it happens to girls. It makes me like those girls so much more. I like a girl who's had an accident like this more than one that hasn't. Well, all things are equal. Like, Dynical Twins won has had this experience. I want that one. My dad would have been proud. Yeah, like you're a survivor. What makes this one uniquely cruel is that you still had a whole shift to get through. Most of these stories we hear people have gone to back to their hotel or wherever. And you had to keep plan. That's why you should be given in a medal, not be put on blast. Yeah, I love that you just doubled down. You're like, yeah, and that was a great. It was kind of a fuck you. You want to play this game of chicken. I'm going to make you say I shit. I'm not going to say shit. Yeah, I know there are cameras. We all know that. Here's now what I think may have happened. Corporate got the complaint from a customer that there was human feces on the ground. The manager was asked to account for this. I don't know. I didn't see any go through the tapes. Oh my god. It was Kayla. Maybe customers complain like they're shit on the floor of your store. And it came to her. She had to review the tapes. Otherwise, she wouldn't have even known. If it's not that she didn't see it in action, someone would have told her to watch the tapes. Basically, what she wanted to get to was like, hey, when you shit on the floor, you got to tell me because customers complained. And then I got called. And then she panicked when you stonewold. Interesting. That's also very plausible. I know, but my guess would be that the customer would go to someone in the store. They're not going to wait till they get home and call the corporate. They're going to go. So I'm like, hey, there's something going on back there. I would agree with you, Mark. I mean, where we live, the complaints we got in our store were like crazy. But weeks later, the reason I think we can rule out someone flagged a manager in the store is the manager would have dealt with the shit on the ground. So the manager couldn't have known real time. But I just think it's weird that they would call corporate kind of asking someone up front. Like, hey, but some boozy people, they lived to call that number. It's on speed. They're horny. New perspective of this whole story. I would have never thought someone called corporate. I would love to get a hold of the manager and ask her a recollection and just say, like, walk us through this. And what was your game plan when you brought up the cameras? I have some questions. Yeah. If you are an armchair, if luck is on our side and you are the manager, and this sounds familiar to you, call us. Please call us. But know that I'm going to have some tough questions. Yeah. And you're not going to back down when you she doubled down. Yeah, exactly. Well, Kayla, I'm sorry that happened to you, but it's still a very cute story. Thank you. Can I give a couple shout outs before I go? Of course. Well, I just wanted to shout out my two best friends who actually told me about this podcast, which are Alia and Justin. They've been day one arm cherries. I started probably during COVID. You guys actually have saved me a lot. I'm two months postpartum, and I was deep in the trenches here for actually quite a long time. So your guys' podcast gets me through today. So I appreciate you guys. Congrats. Thank you. And my husband who also listens Brad, who couldn't be here. He's the IT guy. I hope I did this right. You did great. And I like Brad, because Brad was getting involved with your bowels back in college. He's like, I'm going to have to get an enema for you. He's a good man. He's got my back for sure. Yeah. And your backside. Well, Kayla, lovely meeting you. Have a great day. Nice to meet you guys. Thanks so much. Take care. When I hear these stories, I have to say like PTSD, well, yeah, PTSD, but also I'm really grateful I was alone that you were alone. Yeah. Yeah. In public is really. I can't handle that. Yeah. I can't even handle like tripping in front of people. I can't imagine with those people when I had to go on the PCH. Exactly. Because I just was unwilling to go on my pants. I know. That's so strange. You think? Like don't get it on your clothes. Of course, but then at some point you're just like, I know, I think the more polite thing to do would have been to just go on my pants, but I was just like, Oh, we got to pull. Get out. I'm coming out. I got to pull my pants down. I know. And there's a gutter that might be most people's instinct. It's just mine. I was like, I guess people had to have thought I was homeless. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Let's talk to Josh. Josh. Hello. Hi. How are you? Good. Good. This is wild. Oh, it's not even gotten wild. Yeah. Josh, where are you? I am in Southern California. We'll leave it a little bit vague. Oh, no. Okay. Interesting because we just got out of the phone with someone in Orange County. And I got to say, we don't talk to a lot of Californians. It seems to be that this prompt is very California heavy. Yeah. Just considering we're 10% of the population. They're not 10% of our callers. This story doesn't take place in California, though. I have had plenty of these in California. Okay. Okay. I know, Josh. Me too. Me too. Okay. So walk us through this episode. I after college was looking at different career paths and joined a teaching fellowship program to become a teacher. So that summer, we were on a college campus on the East Coast and they get y'all together and it's intensive training. You're going through pedagogy and how to learn how to make sure the students don't overrun your classroom in the first year and all of that good stuff. And then you actually do some summer school teaching as well. So they throw you to the wolves and they let those summer student kids really take the brunt of all of your terrible teaching at the beginnings. Can I ask, was this a rural setting or a city setting for the school you were going to teach in one of the big cities in our city school? Yeah. Yeah. Which was similar to the environment that we were going to end up teaching in for most of us as well. So they tried to mirror that. The first couple of weeks you're there, you're really kind of on campus doing some of these classes and then summer school starts up and they essentially assign you a school and then you get bussed from the campus to your school every day. So you're up early, you're there before the students get there. There's some prep work that goes into it and then you get to teach a half day of school and really get that practice. I'm so sorry. I'm getting mired in the details, but these are students who had to take summer school, right? So this isn't the cream of the crop. That's right. Yeah, and then my troubled kids had to go to, you're not teaching to get into a talented program. Overachievers. No, it's like kids who fucked off and got to me. the attention to summer school at least in my town. That's all I think it's a lot of that for high school. This was an elementary school. So I think it's also kids who are just maybe a little bit behind when we meet some of that extra practice. We don't need to dive into ed policy, but really a strong proponent of your round schooling for students because of that summer learning loss that happens. - Oh wow, that's good. - That's part of a Malcolm Gladwell book, The Gap. Because, oh, I know. - No, go ahead. Socioeconomically, there isn't a huge disadvantage when you start school. And if you end the school, it doesn't really matter your socioeconomic status. You guys will both get the same amount. It's the summertime that the kids from poor families fall dramatically behind. 'Cause the parents can't oversee any activities. There's no reading happening. - Yeah, make sense. - So that's where they're falling behind it. If you end the school endlessly, that gap, what is that right? - Exactly. And if you think about just the other advantages of like living in a house with air conditioning over the summer or having parents home to read to you when they're not working all summer long. - Even food. - Yeah, the food. - Food scarcity, yeah. - Exactly. But yes, you don't have those hop readers in your class when you're teaching summer school. - Right, okay. - You're on the bus 636-45 in the morning and then it's maybe a 15 minute bus ride to school. That morning, everyone's excited. First day of teaching, you get on the bus, you have your little bagged lunch and pretty early into the bus ride. I know that things are not feeling great. You know, you're okay. It's nerves. First day of school, butterflies. - That's your explanation. Do you think go to like my breakfast or my dinner or I drank too much? You don't have any explanations yet. - No explanations yet. I'm young. So the stomach's spouted good as it can be at that point. - Right. - Five more minutes in and you're really starting to think, all right, I gotta come up with a plan here. What are we gonna do when we get to this building? I've never been to before and how are we gonna go find a bathroom quick? So my mom was in schools for 30 years and I know in the office there's usually an adult bathroom. So we're gonna get there. We're gonna go straight to the office, find that bathroom. We're gonna be okay. So we're pulling up to the school. Things are starting to get a little worse and I'm like, do I need to start like pushing my way to the front of the bus here? Like where are we gonna do? - Use the emergency exit door. - Yeah, take a while to get off the bus sometime. I see the building, we're like, okay, all right, we're gonna make it and then we kind of pull around to the side of the school. So we're not, as it turns out, going in the front entrance, we're gonna go in the staff entrance, which is kind of around to the side, not to disrupt whatever's happening in the front. The plan is to get everyone together, kind of do a tour of the school and then settle into our classrooms. And I see the door. I don't know what's on the other side of that door, but I know I need to be on the other side of that door as quickly as possible. So the door's open. I kind of just make a run for it. Whatever people wanna think at this point, it's better than what's gonna happen. - Yeah. - We're in the school and I'm looking around and I say, okay, we come across the boy's bathroom. Is it an adult bathroom? No. But there are no students in the school. I feel okay about that. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. What is the policy in general? Teachers aren't supposed to use those bathrooms or they can't. - I certainly did in my years teaching, but like after hours, I think it's pretty frowned upon to use the student bathroom while students are around. - That's a good pause. - Okay, yeah. - I never thought about that. - I trust the women. - Yeah, that's probably right. (laughing) - Okay, so we're approaching. We see the boy's bathroom. There's no students there and I'm like 15 steps away and that's it, really. - Oh, we didn't get it. - Didn't quite make it. - Oh, are you wearing khaki pants? - Khaki pants, of course. - Yes. - Classic teacher, uniform khaki pants, button down, tie. - Textbook. - Oh. (laughing) Thankfully, those boxer briefs are doing the Lord's work right now. - Oh, okay. - Oh, shoe. - We're not in great shape, but we're not in the war shape possible. - Okay. - Okay. I'm going to the stall which, as we've talked about, is like meant for a seven-year-old. - Oh, shit. - It is. - Solo to the ground. (laughing) - An under normal circumstances that maybe isn't the worst thing, but the toilet paper and paper towel situation at schools is not good. We're trying to do whatever I can in there to contain it. I gotta keep the pants clean. That's the ultimate goal here. There's no way for me to get back. I don't even really know where we are in this city. I had no change of clothes. So we're using the paper towel, the toilet paper, all of that. We kind of wad up the underwear. That's a lost cause. That goes right to the bottom of that trash can. - Sure, sure. - Throw a bunch more toilet paper and stuff on top to cover it up. - 'Cause you have manners. - Exactly. - Quick inspection, khaki's look okay. Go rejoin the group. Really, I'm not going to say anything to anyone at that point. We do the tour and really the rest of the day. I'm in front of the classroom for the very first time. I'm commando. - Can I ask really quickly, how long do you think the duration was of that whole project? 'Cause my hunch is, you're gone kind of a while. - My absence was noted for sure. They probably thought you were at heart sick from the bus ride. - That's right. - That would be a generous yeah. - That would be a great ride. That's what I would think. - Oh, he's got a sick tummy. - So then you're teaching for the next three hours and insanely self-conscious about my sitting over here and my trying to hide myself behind books and desks and I'm not really probably getting up and engaging as much as I should. It's just a weird feeling to not have underwear on in front of a classroom of children. - Yeah, that's it. - In khakis too, I'll add. 'Cause there's a lot of room for a lot of slip slappy and bouncy, general penis and vesicle blood. - Oh no, yeah, did you feel like I'm not a pervert, but like I'm behaving like one. - It really is a weird feeling. There's no secondary layer, thankfully, to the story. You get through the day. No one has said or noticed anything. And you really just learn a couple of lessons about what you pack in your backpack to make sure you're covered in these situations moving forward. - I know, none of us is ever gonna carry a second pair of pants with us. But probably if we have a bag, why not? Just have them in there. - I mean, I have so much stuff in my bag. Why wouldn't I just have an extra little hair? - Yeah, you'd set off some bare spray and some mouth straps and shit in root to get the pants. - I know. - Once you have your own classroom that's yours, you kind of have a place to stash some extra clothes. That's what we ended up doing for the rest of my teaching career. - Well, wonderful meeting you, Josh. Do you wanna give any shout outs? - I do, thank you for asking. My co-workers, Dan Yellen, Katelyn, are the first couple of people I found who were also arm cherries. So I appreciate them and obviously appreciate you guys. Thank you for that. - Yes. You guys too, this is super cool. Thank you so much. - All right, thank you. - You all too. - Hi guys, can you hear me okay? - Oh, beautifully is this quote, Rachel? - It is. - How did you choose the name Rachel? - Oh, it's so funny you asked that. That's like an alter ego between my boyfriend and I. - Oh. - Oh, I finally get to use it for real. - Does Rachel only come out in the evening? - Yeah, what's Rachel? - Or when drinking? - Rachel's fine, Rachel gets a little bit tipsy. She likes her wine. - Ooh. - Yeah, I had a hunch. That's when Rachel came out of the place. - She's like silly and crispy. Oh yeah. - Everyone should have a Rachel. - Well, I have an alter ego. Sonica. - Sonica. - Uh-huh, she drinks a lot of water. - Oh. - Yeah. - It's kind of the opposite. - Yeah, it's really wild when she comes out. It's rare. What? - I'm just gonna say if drinking is your like your main. (laughs) - What? Monica does not drink a lot of water. So I'm drinking a lot of water. So you know, Sonica's here. - I know, my point is if you drink alcohol the time, your alter ego can't be the girl who drinks wine. It's gotta be the one that drinks water. I just say that's a really funny rehearsal but you're naughty girl drinks water. (laughs) - I know, I'm funny. - Rachel, where are you in the country? - I was in Wisconsin. - Oh, beautiful. Okay, so walk us through your unfortunate evacuation. - This is such a bitter sweet experience. - Do you have to meet us in these circumstances? - Right, exactly. - Yeah, you'd rather be telling us about a first place trophy you got. - Well, I've never told this story. I've told this story from the depths of my brain. I've never written it out. I try not to think about it. This is one of my defense circumstances. - This is a big deal. - I feel the privilege, thank you. - I can't even tell people that I'm on the podcast because then it's gonna be let out. So I will get started. This happened about 10 years ago now. So I was newly out of college. I was lucky enough to find a job right away up by where my boyfriend was calling Cory. That's where he grew up. So we passed from Southern Wisconsin and we moved all the way up to Central Wisconsin just a couple of months after graduation. But we were new to the area. Even though Cory was from the area, we don't have a lot of friends. So both of us were starting new jobs and we wanted to find some other couple to hang out with. - How do you do that? - Right, that's one of the hardest things as an adult. To find adult guns and couple friends. So luckily with that new job, I connected with a girl named Maddie. We'll call her. We have a lot in front of me. So we both kind of be outdoors because we were fishing, hunting, and we thought maybe we'd hang out outside work. And we finally reached the summer time and Maddie was telling me about how her and her group of friends were also couple. They were going to don't tube it. - Oh, I love tubing. Had you gone before? - As a child, I had been tubing on a little rock river, but this tubing was actually on a fox trip. It's those a little bit bigger of a river, a little bit different of the experience. (upbeat music) (upbeat music) - So we are invited. I was super pumped. So you guys are familiar with tubing. - Love it, but for people that are not familiar, you get a bunch of friends and a bunch of inner tubes and you get a second or third empty tube. You put a cool or in it. It's chock full of beer and you float down a river get hammered. Right? That's absolutely right. And it's about the most fun you can have drinking. It is really fun. Yeah. Until you go over a walk for me. Yeah, I wasn't going to bring it. Was that the first time you would go in? No, I used to go in hell and all the time. Okay. That was very low. Okay. Great. For this trip, it usually takes anywhere from two to four hours depending on how high the river is. On this day, the river was a little bit low. We were expecting a pretty long route. We're getting ready. We're very excited. That needs a size to draw with us. It's about an hour and 15 minutes away from where we live. I had a last minute thought. I hadn't eaten. Yes. And I was going to be on a river all day. I just really quick roll my stuff together. I grabbed a manning from the counter to make it clear. If this was a show or a movie, there'd be a close-up right now in a push-in on the mayonnaise on the counter. Yes, that's exactly right. So Corey, like I said, he's coming with he is a notorious midnight snacker. The man is allowed on the counter. I turned a Corey and said, "Hey, do you think this is okay to eat?" And he'd be very comfortable. And he said, "Yes, probably fine. It's also a container. It was still a little cool, but no problem. We're probably safe going to go." I whip up to sandwich, scarf it down, we hop in a car, and we get going to the river. Once we get to the river, we meet everyone. We hop in the school bus, so you have to drive up a river to float down. We got a cooler pool of goodies, so finally we make it to the river. I'm still feeling good. You know, it's a good ride. It's a good day. It's super hot. It's very sunny. We were about an hour and a half into the ride. And everyone was just hitting it off. We're having a good time. Have you had some beers at this point? Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, great, great. However, I started getting this feeling in my stomach. Something is not quite right. If you guys are familiar, it's not feeling that starts at the very top of your stomach, and it gets really bubbly, and then all of a sudden it's moving lower and lower into your intestines. You can feel it. All of a sudden. I'm sweating. Yeah. I'm sweating. I'm very quickly assessing the situation. Because I know one of two things is going to happen. I'm either going to push the feeling off. It's going to go away. I'm going to be fine. I'm going to keep it up. Or this feeling is going to keep on happening over and over. Right. So you more and more intense. Yes. Finally, don't have a show. Yes. And if I'm you okay, I'm really quickly. I'm going. Okay. So I could go. I'm going to veer off to the bank of the river. I'm going to pee in a bush, which would be weird because everyone's peeing in the river. So you kind of already outing yourself that you're really going to shit. But that's one option. Get off the river. Shit in the woods. Second is just pull your bathing suit aside. Let it rip. Yeah. But the problem there is you're in a current. And there is a good chance that that excrement will float on top. Oh no. Come into the group. So you got to consider that. Right. So then you're like, do I try to get my tube way out in front of everyone or way behind? This is all the modeling I'd be doing. Where are any of these thoughts crossing your mind? Absolutely. I was looking at the water. Yeah. Where's it kind of rocky and sunny. Yeah. Round and you'll be able to tell. I don't need flowing sense anywhere here. Right. So they're lighting. I'm wearing a black bikini. Okay. We love that. Great start. The river is lined with private properties. The trees are really and there's really nowhere I can go without getting caught for indecent exposure. And again, I don't want to call myself. And I'm stereotyping. But in Michigan, this is fine. At least in my friendship group, like if there was a gal on the trip and she had to shit, like this isn't a big deal. I feel like Wisconsin's similar now. Maybe your own people, you know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's basically a day. That's fair. Right. So I want to make a good friend impression. I don't want to be the girl that shipped her pants on like river. Well, unfortunately, I got to the point where I had feelings. So that's exactly what I did. I kind of saw it around. We were a few drinks deep at this point. I think your people probably thought I was a little tipsy. So I went to the side of the shore, laid in the rock, went under the branches of the trees like a trial. Oh, this is good. I made myself feel a little bit more comfortable. And I said, yeah, fish poop in this water all the time. Yeah. Find this not clean water. I'm not dirty anything that isn't already ruined. So I let it. Here's the problem. You know the thing with the harnesses, it's floaty. Yeah. So I didn't really know. I didn't want to look. Yeah. Now just leave it. Right. So I splashed around. I got my tube came out. I don't want it to know inside of part of my tool. It's kind of playful too. Yeah. Oh, I'm so careful. I'm so Rachel. You're so Rachel. Right that. Yeah. I run. I wish I could say that the story ended there. I felt better. It was done. But I can't. So unfortunately, at this point, I was experiencing full blown food poisoning. I figured it had to be from that sandwich. Now I'm telling you, if I was at home, I would every 20 to 30 minutes be visiting the bathroom. Right. Right. Right. Did you have any compulsion to throw up? I think God, it sounds like you didn't have to throw up, though. Correct. So I evacuated. Yeah. Not one, but three times. Oh. Did you do your playful thing every time? Did you keep going back to the well? Did you alternate strategies? Honestly, I got to a point where it was so unfortunate. I was in the situation. Did you tell your boyfriend? I did, but he went through his own trauma during this trip. So I actually don't know if he remembers me. Telling him this. Oh, this sounds like always. He's charming. He'd jump off a bridge. Third degree sunburned full of blister. Oh, that couldn't sleep. Where sunscreen when you go to bed? Right. Also, don't have mayonnaise before. Talk about rough showing for the couple. You know, it's like a movie kind of. It's not the lead character. It's two folks who can meet a crew leave that are joining the trip. They're one shitsers of three times. They're like, I'm fucking blasted with sun. We did not make a good. But you didn't tell them, right? You didn't tell the friends. I don't think so. One part of the story that I want to share is this friend had what's called a stand by. It's an area where about 75 to 100 people gathering party and hang out and take a break. Right. A group decided to stop take a break. I unfortunately was not done with my situation. So I was way too close for friends. I'm not saying I looked at any one of you. I know what happened. Uh-huh. But I don't. Uh-huh. Okay. Uh-huh. Wow. Well, this is great. You never consider when you're out. You're swimming at one or two of the people are going through this. Were you worried about the sound? Not so much. Okay. That's good. Because you're submerged, right? Yeah. But it's still. You would be worried about the sun. Yeah. Did you ever see some floaters? I didn't. But like I said, I tried not to look. Yeah. Yeah. That's fast. You were just associated. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I probably. But the feeling of it felt like there probably wasn't much solid matter. Yeah. Rounds two and three were probably liquid. You know, Rachel, this is a highly successful story. I agree. I agree. If you have to be in this situation, underwater is a dream. A hundred percent. And no one even knew. Yeah. I got very lucky. What about the car ride back? I'd be worried. I had 45 more minutes left of the float after we left the sand bars. I'm not having an hour and 15 minutes drive home. Just sitting in the back and salt. Okay. But you were done of evacking. So that's good. Were you able to be joyful in between the rounds? Or were you a total dot on the floating trip? That's a great question. I wish I knew. Oh, like I said, I'm so dissociated. I want to say that I was cheerful. Rachel. I was great. I was super personable. You were probably just drunk and weird. But also you were shitting out the beer too. So like you couldn't stay drunk. The tipsiness and the intoxication was long gone after the second time. It happened. The adrenaline. Oh boy. Did you guys end up developing a good double date friendship with this group? Or was that one and done trip? That is one and done. We never saw these. I am wondering. Do they know? If they find out it's a part of it. So I have shrubbed it so far in my brain. It's going back in its little pocket. They were probably boring. To be honest, when you're on a tubing trip, everyone's pretty hammered. If you know, you're bringing it up. It's not like top discretion time. I think you'd be like, oh, fuck, there's food. But then it's easy to be like, yeah, what? Yeah, where did it come from? Where did it come from? Anything. And even if it's on you, you're like, it got on me. There's more on me. It's coming out of my body. Oh my god. It's so weird. It's got in me. No, I would not own that. If someone said there was food, I'd be like, oh my god. We should kill whoever did this again. Best case scenario for this really. Yeah, you kind of got lucky of all the places. Rachel, we hear a lot of these stories and you should tell people this. This is fine. People are not going to judge you or think you're gross. It's kind of an adorable story. You'd be surprised how many people have dealt with this. You have about 90%. Yeah, I'm going to say 99. Yeah, I can't be the only person who poops themselves on a lazy river. No, that river was full of other people. Yeah, I think I've gone. but intentionally, yeah, people aren't intentional. - Yeah, they're terrible. (laughing) - Well, it's lovely meeting you. - So nice to meet you. - Thank you guys, I appreciate it. And I just want to take to Michelle out to my friend, Michelle, for letting me borrow her internet and her closet today. - Oh, thanks Michelle. - Thanks Michelle. - And Monica, just a special shout out to you for all of your big sense energy. I'm helping you get through my 30s. - I really appreciate it. - That's so sweet. - So kind and so sweet. - Oh, that is really nice. Thank you so much. - Of course. - Bye. - I take you. - Here's Cara. - Cara, the hotel. - Cara, Cara. - Oh, I think so. - I was at Cara, the hotel the other day. Couple of arm cherries came up. - How long? Is it Cara or Cara, Cara, right? - It's Cara. - Cara. - Wob was right. Wobby, Wob was right. - Monica, I am a real follower to the most pain, so it just kills me that I couldn't make a fork, 'cause I'm out work. - You don't have to, you sound great. - I need you to release yourself of that. - And I immediately need to talk about the little kind of anime cartoons I see on the wall. - I think this is Mira from the demon. - Oh, K-pop. - Yes, I'm a children's therapist, and so I have lots of crafty things. - Oh my gosh, good for you. - It does look fun and inviting already. - And then what's over your left shoulder on the wall? - It's like a collage of raccoons, dancing. - Oh, I like raccoons. Can you tell us what part of the country you're in? - Yeah, I am in Seattle. - Oh, okay, wonderful. - Okay, so you have an unauthorized EVAC story for us. - Sure do. - Oh, we're so excited. - It is in the Princess Louisa inlet in Canada at a camp. Are we familiar with Young Life at all? - No, and I also need to know, is that on the West Coast or the East Coast? - West Coast. - West Coast. - Okay, up by B.C. - Is Young Life the religious camp? - Yes. - Okay. - Tell me more, I don't know about it. - It's an evangelical nonprofit. That's a lot about taking kids who aren't Christians and trying to take them to these camps where they have these like spiritual experiences, and then they're like, "I wanna be a Christian now." I was a camper and I was a leader and a staff member. - Wow. - And now I am none of those things. - Sure, sure, sure. - Your life has taken a lot of turns. - Yes, the Emo team to Young Life staff to therapist pipeline is crazy. - And were your parents involved with that or did you initiate your involvement? - I grew up in the church. I mean, at the time, it was a great community. It really, I think, served a lot of purposes that I can still hold onto. And one of them was that, like, I had some really great times at camp and this is where that camp was. It's called Malibu, but it's not anything like Malibu, California, except that it is really beautiful, and this camp, you take one ferry, and then you drive for a while, and then you take this boat that just has campers on it. It's a three-hour, very slow boat ride to this, like, secluded camp that used to be where celebrities would go. They used to have, like, pictures of celebrities on the wall, but it's this beautiful camp that just shows up out and nowhere. There's an outer dock that you get dropped off at, and then there's, like, a half a mile walk into camp. - Wow. - It's Christian Summer Camp where there's lots of activities. It's kids that do young life all over the world that will come to this. You're also there with just a lot of different people, not just people from your area. - This sounds so fun. If we could take up the scripture, I would be in it. - Yeah, honestly, they do camp wonderfully, and it was a blast. And one of the activities that we do as a camp, in the evening, we sing songs, and they talk about Jesus and all that, and then we go back to our cabins and we do cabin time. I went to camp with some girls that I went to high school with, and at cabin time, it's like, what did you hear the speaker talk about? And you've been doing camp activities all day, and so you're super hungry and super tired by the time this cabin time comes. - It's for reflection, it sounds like. - Yeah, a lot of tears, a lot of, I've made out with boys. I shouldn't do that, I'm so sorry. It's also fantastic food. So we have had a lot of camp food, but at cabin time, we had a bunch of snacks, and one of those snacks was fiber one bars. - Oh. - I didn't have that reaction, 'cause I didn't know what they did. I just finished my sophomore year of high school. So this was in 2011. I was really hungry, so I had three of 'em, 'cause I didn't know what fiber did. - That was me in space cake and Amsterdam. I was like, it's just delicious. I didn't anticipate. - So I had the fiber one bars. We had the next day of camp, and our cabin activity for the day was going on a curry bay ride, the inner tubes that go behind boats, that's like shaped like a banana, but like in a hot dog bun sort of, you like sit on the banana, put your feet on hot dog bun. - Yeah, cool. - You've seen those, right? And like five or six people can ride on it. They're pretty long. - Yeah. The videos make it look really easy to stay on them. I was very disappointed by the amount of time I spent trying to get on that thing to the amount of time actually on it. So we did that for a few hours. That's not true, that was really dramatic. It was amazing, it did it for like an hour. - Yeah, yeah. - I also love the irony and the phallic nature of all the young, Christian girls riding this humongous, yellow dick around the world for an hour. - The forniness of the camp is crazy. - In reflexes, like I had impure thoughts on the banana today. - Yeah. - They set you up for it. And then they're like, how dare you? - Yeah. - Oh. - Though something about my swimsuit to know is I was wearing Spandex shorts in case something were to come off. So I just tried to keep myself secure. It's always on the last run, as we know. And so this was the last run before going back in. And we took a turn. Everyone falls off and we all had helmets on. And I hear like a thunk. And then I fall in the water. And water shoots right up my butt. - Oh wow. - Like a hose just straight up. And then my fiber one bar poops come. - Oh, no. - So you know like, minestrone soup. - Uh-huh, sure. So if you were to like dump that out into like a tub, already has water in it. - Oh no. - Oh. - But then you like sit in the tub with it. - Oh. - Oh. - This is horrible. - How did that happen? - Did you have your Spandex shorts come off or just somehow the water passed through the Spandex shorts and all the shit come out the pant legs? Or who knows? - It had to because there was some stuck in my shorts, but it had also all come out. And I'm just seeing it. - Oh. - Floating around me. - Ooh. - Ooh. - This is horrifying. - Yes. And I'm like, can my cabin mates see it? And we're in inlet and so I'm kind of pushing things around making sure people don't notice. At this point, my brain is just like, oh my God. That's my poop. And then I don't remember how we got back to the dock. Did I get back on the crebae? Did I get in the boat? I don't remember. But it dropped us back off at the outer dock. So I had to walk the half mile back to camp. - Ooh, a half mile in wet Spandex. - Wet poopy Spandex. - No shoes, and it's like a trail. The walk that you do when you're kind of like flexing. - Ooh. - God. - 'Cause you had to do more. - Oh yeah, there was definitely more. - Okay, so you're feeling pressure for another lap. - Yes, I was like, we are not done. - Yeah, and there's maybe some seawater up in there too. - Oh. - Yes. - A lot that needs to come back out. Put my towel tied around me, left my cabin mates. I was like, bye, I don't care. And I just did this clenched butt cheek waddle all the way back and also could still feel it dripping on my legs and chunkies like on my feet. - Ah, this is awful. And I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm like, I want to die. - Are there boys there too? - Are there boys there? - Yes. - Oh no, I somehow thought it was just all girls. - Boys were very attractive. - Oh. (laughing) - Instead of going back to my cabin and I had this whole half mile walk to plan. I went to the bathroom, that single person you lock the door and people have to knock to come and you know. And I strip off my swimsuit and I throw it in the sink and I sit, naked and wet on the toilet and just keep pooping, poop until it's done. I'm taking toilet paper and trying to dry off. And so then I have that soggy toilet paper everywhere. - Yeah. - I'm finally done pooping. There's no poop on my body. I go and I rinse out my swimsuit in the sink. I don't want to put my like poopy towel around me and I also don't want to walk in just the towel back to my cabin. So I put my wet swimsuit back on. That's still like a little bit poopy. But rinse off, go to my cabin, get ready to shower and then the girls go. We should just go to the pool now. And so I was like, yeah, you're right. (laughing) I was like, I think what would be better than taking a shower is the chlorine would just kill all the bacteria. So I just decided with my 15 year old logic to jump in the pool to clean off. - Well, in your defense, that was before they hung the signs up that said, if you have active diarrhea, do not swim, which are now ever present. But we didn't know then, it was a simpler time. - That's right. Now the girls who went to the camp with me will need to fact check me. But I talked to one of my friends who went with us last night and I was like, was it me? And I'm pretty sure that the thunk that I heard when I fell off, I thought it was someone else's helmet, but it ended up being Gabby's nose. - Ooh, what? - My friend remembers that she was on the curry bay with us that she broke her nose on that ride and Gabby was sitting behind me. - Oh, okay. - So I think that's why no one really noticed that I was having my poopy incident. because when Gabby fell off, she broke her nose. - Thank God for her broken nose. - Gabby. - But also percentage wise, there's six passengers. One broke their nose and one shipped her pants. - Shut up. - Exactly. - You know, I feel like a waiver need to be signed. - Maybe other things happened to that we don't know about. - And my friend who is on it with us, she also hurt her hip really bad. - Oh my God. - The same right. - This is an aster. - Yeah, you signed so many liability waivers. - Oh wow. - Where do you go? - Now that you guys care, but I think with the problem with those big floating bananas, is they're under and flated a lot. So it's like when one kid moves, it shoves air in back and then, you know, it's just a wild ride. It's such a heartwarming story. It sounds like it could be in meatballs, the camp movie. - Yeah. - Or what, how do American summer? It's got that joyful patina. - It does. - It makes me nostalgic for a camp I never even went to. - I was looking at pictures of when I was at the camp and I was trying to have compassion for 15-year-old me, but she was a horny struggling, oh my gosh. I was like taking pictures with these hot boys and posting them on Facebook and I'm like, they don't even know what happened. This is crazy. (laughing) It's just so hard to be a person. - Did you ever have any hookups at this Christian camp? - No, I wish. - But there were hookups happening, right? - Oh yeah, 'cause I also like went as a leader and a staff member and there was kids getting in trouble all the time for having sex. - Yeah. Well, you gotta tell people, leave room for Jesus between you, right? When they're dancing, at the dancing. - No, yeah, and then leave room for the Lord. - They're not really having sex. - They're soaking and that doesn't count. - I think that's specifically more important. - That's Norman. Well, no, I have a friend who was not Mormon. - She did some soaking. - She hadn't had sex yet and she's like, "But he put it in." I was like, "Wait, that counts." - Very liberal definition. - Yeah, exactly. She was very religious and so you find your ways. - The anal one's always a fun work around you. - That's a fun work around you. (laughing) - Yeah, that's a fun work around you. (laughing) - Yeah, why don't you just? - Well, thanks for doing the Lord's work and working with children. - Yeah. - I feel like you're the perfect person for this. - Yeah, I appreciate it. - This is delightful. - You have a great rest of your day. - You too, take care. - All right, bye. - All right, bye. - I just feel like if I was surrounded by a ministerini soup, I would panic. - Yeah. - I would probably do something really like evil. - Yeah, like, who did this? - Uh-huh, thank you. - No, it's not blaming. - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - Yeah, I mean the girl with the broken nose. - Yeah, exactly. Oh, she broke her nose and evacuated everywhere. - Gross. - She shit everywhere because her nose broke and she just let loose. - Yeah, he's disgusting. That wouldn't remind me of my mom's story of, somehow they hung out with friends in Florida when my mom and they were married and they were young and they had a boat. They took them water skiing, but there were alligators where they were water skiing. And so my mom was like in the process of trying to get up and she couldn't get all the way up but she refused to let go of the rope because she was so afraid to be in there with alligators that she just druged behind the boat for an incredibly long time and it gave her a huge enema and she had the same situation. - Yeah. - Happens to the best of us. - Sure does. - Oh, always a blessing. - It is. - Love you. - Do you want to sing a tune or something when you're with theme song? - Oh, okay, great. ♪ We don't have a thing ♪ ♪ So for this new show ♪ ♪ So here I go, go, go ♪ ♪ We're gonna ask some random questions ♪ ♪ And with the help of our cherries ♪ ♪ We'll get some suggestions ♪ ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ On a fire rindish, on a fire rindish, enjoy ♪