The podcast hosts a lively, expert-led discussion on whether people are “climate assholes” through four real-world scenarios. In the first, a roommate's complaint over a fan is dismissed as overblown—fans use minimal energy and the critique reflects poor communication, not environmental negligence. In the second, a listener advocating for used baby gifts is deemed not the asshole, as it’s a socially acceptable and empowering suggestion that aligns with broader sustainability goals. In the office recycling case, the Redditor’s efforts to promote sustainability are praised, though the panel notes that passive-aggressive tactics and lack of community involvement reduce effectiveness—better results come from inclusive dialogue. Finally, a homeowner choosing a cheaper gas boiler over a costly heat pump is not judged as an environmental failure, as financial constraints are real and systemic change—like federal and state incentives—is needed to make green upgrades accessible. The episode strongly rejects moralistic blame, instead promoting empathy, practical solutions, and community-building as keys to meaningful climate action. It concludes with practical calls to action: checking energy use data and researching government incentives to support sustainable choices.
Welcome to How to Save a Planet.
This is the show about what we need to do to address climate change and how to make
those things happen.
Hello everyone, before we start today's episode, I have a disclaimer, so we usually keep
it pretty clean on the show, but that won't be the case this week.
Today, you're going to be using a bad word, pretty consistently throughout the show.
It's not the worst bad word, but we're going to be saying it a lot, so we wanted to give
you a warning.
If you have kids or you don't like cursing, you're going to give you a second before you tell
you what the bad word is, okay, ready?
It's asshole.
We're going to be saying asshole a lot today because on today's episode, we're playing
sort of a game, an internet game, a game called "Am I the asshole?"
And here to tell us more about that is how to save a planet producer, Janay Morris.
Hey Janay.
Hi Alex.
So explain "Am I the asshole?"
It's probably familiar to many of our listeners, but just in case.
It's a forum that's on this gigantic website called Reddit, and it's one of the
most popular threads out here.
So people will post different situations that are both complicated and just petty.
And they're trying to figure out whose fault it is and who exactly was the asshole in
that situation.
All right.
So why don't you give us an example of a typical Reddit "Am I the asshole" post?
So this is one that I just pulled from like the top front page, "Am I the asshole for
giving my steps on a 20-minute time limit to return my car before I phone the police?"
Right.
Okay.
Whoa.
Foning the police, huh?
And then people will vote, yes, you're the asshole or no, you're not the asshole.
It's basically this big debate on Reddit, right?
Yes.
Exactly.
Right.
So that's a typical post.
And your idea was sort of like, why don't we do this, but for climate questions, right?
Because the crux of a lot of these "Am I the asshole" is all about, you know, what's the proper
way to behave in a situation.
And of course, this comes up all the time in questions about climate and what our role
is and what's the proper way to behave, right?
People weigh their own personal choices about what to eat, what to buy, whether to travel
by airplane or not.
And if two different people in a given situation make different climate-related choices,
you can lead to sticky situations and cause people to wonder, "Am I the climate asshole?"
And so over the past few months, I've been collecting climate-related Am I the asshole
stories from both our listeners and just from people that I found on Reddit.
And today we're going to be hearing four stories that I collected.
Right.
And the way it usually works on Reddit, the users of Reddit vote.
That's hard to do on a podcast.
But in an Am I the asshole situation, a judgment must be rendered.
And so in lieu of a democratic decision, like on Reddit, with lots of people voting,
we have assembled a small climate tribunal, three climate experts to render the verdict.
And our first expert is a very special guest.
His name is Raleigh Williams.
He's a stand-up comedian who also happens to have a master's degree in climate science
and policy.
There's a channel on YouTube called Climate Town in which he breaks down climate concepts
with incredible clarity and humor.
Here's a clip from one of his videos.
Well, it's time to crack open a cold one and then pour a little out for the end of an
ear here at ExxonMobile.
That's right.
For 30 years, Exxon has been accused of funding disinformation campaigns and paying off
politicians and lying about climate change.
And for 30 years, they've had one response.
It wasn't me.
It's the classic shaggy defense.
And it's been incredibly effective.
And Jeanette, you've described him as a kind of climate-specific John Oliver.
Yes.
Wow.
That is extremely high praise.
Thank you very much, Jeanette.
Of course.
Raleigh Williams.
Welcome to the show.
Thrilled to be here.
You guys are really setting me up for a failure here in the rest of this piece.
We're also joined by someone very familiar to listeners of the show.
Our own wonderful Kendra Pierre Lewis.
Hey, Kendra.
Hello, Alex.
I'm going to admit that I haven't built in bias and I'm fairly certain that I think
there are all the assholes already.
And our final panelist is me.
I know you normally start with the least exciting person and then build to the most exciting
person.
We did the opposite.
Okay.
So you've met us all.
Coming up after this short break, our judgments will rain down like fire for everyday
people wondering, am I the climate asshole?
We will tell them, yes or no, it's coming up after the break.
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Welcome back everyone.
The panel is ready and ready to judge.
Janay, tell us who we're going to be judging first.
We're going to start off with a redder by the name of Jack.
He's a government contractor in Washington, D.C. and he lives in an older row home where
there's four roommates.
The summers in D.C. can be really hot.
And so Jack bought a fan to help keep his room cool.
And this fan ended up causing a fight.
One of Jack's roommates had moved to the U.S. fairly recently from Germany and she didn't
like that he kept the fan on all the time in the summer, which really exasperated Jack.
I called him and here's how he described that fight with his roommate.
I was down in the kitchen and I had like run back down there to like grab something and
she had seen me in the kitchen and had seen that the fan was still on in my room when
I wasn't in my room.
Even though I was just gone for a moment but she sees me in the kitchen and is like telling
me like you know it's probably using up a lot of electricity.
It's really going to hurt our energy bill and we'll be paying for it and we're also in
an environmental crisis so these are things that you need to be really conscious about.
And I'm like listen a like I'm gone for a second.
I'm going back in two seconds and it's not like going to have a noticeable impact.
I literally just ran down here to grab some water before a meeting.
I don't have time for this conversation and be I take a lot of other steps to be conscious
about the environment too.
You know I'm consistently recycling.
I pretty much exclusively use public transit.
I don't Uber or anything and she just kind of framed it as in like you know it's not
really having an impact.
But what would have an impact is if you turned your like you know three watt fan that you
have in your room off.
Am I the asshole for wanting to use a box fan in the summer even though it uses extra
electricity?
Okay so Kendra we're going to start with you.
So I don't actually think he's the asshole because box fans use very little electricity
especially compared to an air conditioner.
I don't actually think he's the asshole in the scenario I kind of think the roommate
is.
Yeah.
Raleigh what do you think?
Okay.
I'm going to say they're kind of both the asshole here and here's here and I got some
real reasons.
First of all I mean it's not a three watt box fan.
We're probably talking about something like a 70 watt box fan but even at 70 watts it's
like one cent an hour to run that thing.
So obviously this dude is not really destroying the planet one cent an hour at a time but
do you remember the phrase he used when he walked it passed his roommate.
First of all obviously a lie he's not just like running to get the water and then running
back.
He's probably dawdling he's trying to make himself look better but it doesn't matter
because when you tell your roommate I don't have time for this conversation.
That's immediate asshole territory but the point is he was being a dick his roommate
was being a dick by trying to micromanage without actually doing any of the research.
Just kind of shooting from the hip they're both they're both being assholes.
He's definitely not an asshole to answer his question and am I the asshole for wanting
to use a box fan in the summer even though it uses electricity.
No.
I feel like this is one of these things where the argument that you should turn off your
box fan every second you're out of your room is an environmental argument that I find
wrong on many many counts one it's like it doesn't matter like every person on earth
could turn off the fan and it wouldn't get us out.
of this crisis. But second, it's like, I just think tactically, it's just the wrong
take. Like, I just think, like, this is the thing that will turn people against wanting
to do anything. If like, they think that what is required is, is like a fan monitor, like
sitting on your shoulder every day. I feel like that's just like such a icky, it just people
don't respond to that. So I think strategically that viewpoint of like, we're going to lecture
our way out of this crisis is just wrong. I don't think we're going to be able to do it
by like sort of lecturing our roommates about fan usage.
You're just saying that because you secretly have a fan on right now.
I don't have a fan. Also, it's hot in the summer. People need to cool themselves for crying
out loud, especially it's going to get hotter.
Gotcha. So is Jack the asshole in this situation? I say not the asshole.
No. I think he's not the asshole for the fan thing. What is he the asshole for?
For, if you have a bad attitude, he sounded like he was rolling his eyes a little bit in
that email. I was bad to roll your eyes at people. If I was running into the kitchen at the
last minute for a meeting and I'm giving a surprise lecture, you're probably lucky
the only thing I see is you don't have time for this. I mean, I do not believe his account
of the events though. I mean, I don't think that's really what happened. I think he probably
was taking his sweet time. He was probably playing a couple of games of college duty on
the way, leaving the freezer door open. Anyway, all right. So I think, but in terms of the
question of the fan, Nero unanimous, he's not the asshole. Not the asshole. Not the asshole.
So this next one comes to us from one of our listeners via email. Sarah C wrote to us
with the subject line, am I the a whole baby shower? I'll read her email. She says quote,
we're having a baby soon. And as I was putting together the registry, I wanted to note that
most of the things I was adding could be bought second hand. I was primarily worried about
the older generation buying big plastic toys, which for some reason, they love to do online
marketplaces are replete with toys. There's simply no excuse to buy them new. Same thing
with clothes. My husband said that this wasn't really the time to demand eco consciousness
since people were buying us gifts. And I can see his point. But if not now, then when? Am I
the asshole for making this a part of my baby shower experience? Her husband's got a
bad attitude in this story. There's always somebody with a bad attitude. He doesn't want
to be the German roommate in the previous story. He doesn't want to be the proverbial German
roommate. Here's how I think her and her husband are worried about are we going to be
too pushy with our whatever friends and relatives, if we are sort of suggesting to them by it
used, is that like, are we going to be forcing our politics on people or whatever? And like,
is that going to be perceived as rude or something? And I would argue that when it's a baby
registry, first of all, no, because I think it's fine to suggest something. And then if
people want to ignore your suggestion, they can. So I think it's fine to remind people
that try buying used things. I think that's a good message to get on the world. It doesn't
push me at all to do it. And second of all, like, when you have a baby registry, like,
it's your rules, you know, you're literally telling people what to buy for you. So you're
like, it's the one time in life where you're like, here's exactly what I want. Here's
how much it costs by it for me. And so if you're allowed to do that, then I think you could
certainly go one step further and be like, and by the way, by it used, that's better.
Yeah, I agree with Alex because like we live in society where there's this expectation
of what you will buy for people and the expectations you're going to buy X Y and Z brand new. And
she's essentially giving people permission to buy it used and saving the money. Or if
there's someone who had a kid recently and have that thing and no longer need it, she's
giving them permission to give it to her. I don't even know this person. I might, I might
give her a baby gift. I got so much leftover crap. And actually though, this is something
that we talk about a lot. You know, how do you make your personal actions go beyond just
you? How do you make them? I remember we had this previous guest on the show, Dr. Catherine
Wilkinson, who coined this term, make your actions ripple. And you don't make your actions
ripple by lecturing people about fan usage. But in a situation like this, where you sort
of have social license to tell people what to do, it's actually a good place to suggest
taking this action. Like here's an action that I take and it would be lovely if you all
took it as well. This is a scenario where you're actually allowed to say that and in fact,
it might end up sort of moving beyond you to a larger group of people, which is always
what we want to sort of take it beyond the individual and make it as collective as we
can. And you know, not only is it good for the planet, I think actually a lot of people
would welcome the chance to not have to buy a new expensive gift every time somebody has
a baby and instead buy something cheaper and used. I think a lot of people want to break
free of the baby shower expectations arms race.
From my point of view, I think she would be a real trend setter. It's the same thing
with like diamond rings for engagements. You know, it's like obviously everyone wants
to stop buying diamond rings that cost like the, the, a tenth of your house. But I'm
not going to be the first one to stop doing that. You know, no one wants to take the
bullet for the engagement ring thing. But everyone wants it gone. So is Sarah the asshole,
not the asshole. No, not the asshole. Absolutely not. She seems great actually. I'd want her
as a friend. We're unanimous so far. All right, everyone, it is time for a quick break.
When we come back, the judging will continue. Yes, it will. We have our last two scenarios.
One involving that cauldron of seeding resentment and outrage, the office recycling bin, and
another that attempts to put a price on being an asshole. That's all coming up.
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Okay, welcome back. We're here again with Raleigh Williams. Hello, Raleigh. Hello, Alex. It's
great to be here with the host of this podcast. Alex Bloomberg. Kendra Pierre Lewis. I'm still
here in Queens, the best borrow. And how to say a planet producer, Janay Morris, who has
been introducing us to a bunch of listeners who have the same question. What's their question,
that's right. So far, we've heard two. And our crack panel has rendered two very swift
and unanimous judgments. And we're about to hear from two more. So Janay, who's next?
So this next scenario comes to us from a Reddit user. And they're asking, am I the asshole
for encouraging environmental responsibility in my office? And what are everybody's responses
to that title?
Yes, maybe I don't know something about the way it's phrased. Yeah, I think if you, if
by encouraging, she means like sort of cantankerizing around the office, slapping people in the
face. And yes, it's something about the way that's phrased is like, making me nervous.
But I'm saying no, if all she's doing is, you know, asking for better 401k options and
hiding the current machine. All right. Well, let's see. I'll be the one reading this one
for you guys. So listen up. Am I the asshole for encouraging environmental responsibility
in my office? There are about 500 people in this office. And I started here about a month
and a half ago. Everything is going pretty well except for one nagging problem, single
use, everything. I'm talking Styrofoam cups, Java jackets, plastic utensils, canned water,
you get the picture. I see people walking around with those wax coated paper cups for coffee,
water, juice, whatever. Due to their mixed nature, these can't be recycled. Get every day
I see them piling up in their recycling bin. Yesterday, I took it upon myself to tape
some simple paper signs on the cup area. They say, "Can
Consider bringing your own reusable mug to the office.
Our reliance on single use items creates a necessary garbage and furthers are dependents
on plastic.
However, when I came in today, the signs upstairs where the HR people sit were all taken down.
So I printed out more.
Again, taken down within two hours.
The HR people are responsible for ordering all of the kitchen crap, so I suspected them.
I would gladly talk with HR about this, but I feel like since they're the ones ordering
this stuff, they're biased.
I'm not sure where this reluctance is coming from.
As a San Francisco Bay Area, we should be held to a higher standard of sustainability,
especially as a mid to large company.
You'll be hard pressed to find this much single use garbage at any other office around
here.
So, am I the asshole for being concerned about our office sustainability?
How should I resolve this?
Alright, lots of juicy details in here, but one quick note before we get to judging.
We did look into this and it looks like these kind of wax-lined cups can actually go into
the recycling bin in San Francisco where this poster is from, but that isn't true everywhere.
It depends on where you live.
Some places take them, some don't.
Anyway, judges, what do you have to say?
Kendra, let's start with you.
Not the A-hole.
They're a handful of signs selling people maybe use a cup.
I mean, I think she should talk to HR, but realistically she's not yelling at anyone.
She's not hectoring anyone.
She's just giving people information they may not have.
Okay.
Raleigh?
I got to say, my asshole meter kind of tingled a little bit in a couple of different places
in this story, including, you know, "Oh, I took it upon myself to print off some simple
signs that had 600 words each on them."
She wasn't yelling at anybody, but that doesn't really sound to me like the way to make
change happen.
It sort of sounds like the way somebody would like, "I think I know best, and I'm going
to do. "
It sounds a little bit like the German roommate from Scene 1.
I just agree, Raleigh, I think because she specified that the cups were turning up with
a recycling bin.
So many people put things that can't be recycled in places they can be recycled.
And this to me is no different than putting up a recycling fire that actually tells you
what goes in each container.
The only difference is that nobody ever reads those fires, and they're too complicated.
This is like a streamlined version of that fire.
What I'm suspecting is that everybody in the office might be wish-cycling.
Wish-cycling?
Or like aspirational cycling?
It's putting things in recycling bins that can't be recycled, and people do it partly
out of ignorance.
But also, I think, because if you put all of that in a garbage can, it makes you, you're
acknowledging where it's going.
And so go ahead and stick it in the recycling bin because it makes you feel better like
it's going to get taken care of, but it won't, and it actually just increases recycling
costs and has a whole other trickled-on-effective issues.
I personally have seen the same sort of thing happen, but I would say she's not the asshole,
but she's not really nailing it, printing out signs feels like a little passive aggressive
to me.
I think potentially talking to HR directly, trying to create some kind of consensus might
be a more effective solution to her recycling woes and San Francisco's.
But Raleigh, to your point about the passive aggressive sign, I will say that I'll read
the sign, the first line of the sign verbatim.
It says, "Consider bringing your own reusable mug to the office, smiley face."
So there was a smiley face.
She was trying to be nice, at the very least.
I mean, a smiley face does not make a thing nice or not nice.
Raleigh doesn't like smiley faces.
It's not the presence of a smiley face that turns a passive aggressive note into an upbeat
fun one.
In fact, it can actually be a four-small supplier against your cause.
Smiley face is the emoji equivalent of no offense, but. Right, yeah.
Yeah, I think there's a big difference between whether or not it's effective and whether
or not she's an asshole.
I'm not arguing that it's going to be effective.
I just don't think it makes her an asshole.
I think there's a couple things at play here, which is kind of like Kendra, I know because
you've done episodes on recycling that I think you're seeing in her like a kindred spirit.
You know, I mean, leaving aside the fact that it seems like she's wrong on the particulars
of what isn't recycling in San Francisco, she isn't our heart.
And someone who just wants to make recycling work better, and you're like, "Yes, signs,
thank you."
It's also because full disclosure, I'm having my upstairs neighbor's death recycle properly.
It's like this whole issue, and I like don't want to call them out of it, but it's the
same thing.
It's their putting things in the recycling that don't belong there.
It's made me some simple signs will help them out, Kendra.
I thought about doing it.
I almost ordered, the Department of San tissue in New York will send you free signs.
And I came this close to ordering the free signs to put in the cans, but I chickened out
the last minute.
But you know what, Raleigh?
Inspired by this woman?
I'm doing it.
I'm getting the free signs.
I'm labeling the cans.
I'm educating my upstairs neighbor in the most terrible hospital.
I'll believe it when I see it.
Doing it right now.
I feel her pain, but I also think that like the point of like even writing this is like
makes me think that she's a little bit the asshole, but even the exercise of wondering
if I am the asshole is a little bit beside the point.
Do you want your office to stop using single use crap or not?
And if you want your office to stop using it, I think you have to sort of like admit to
yourself that the tactics you're using right now don't seem to be effective.
There's two lines in here that stand out to me like she's like, I would gladly talk
to HR about this, but I feel like since they're the ones ordering the stuff they're biased
and then I'm not sure where this reluctance is coming from.
Those are very answerable questions.
Just go and talk to them and find out like maybe they're not biased.
Maybe they also are like trying to figure out a solution.
Maybe they would love somebody to help them figure it out.
Maybe they wouldn't, but if you talk to them about why maybe they would change their
tune.
I just feel like there's a whole bunch of approaches that you could take, but they all
require not seeing HR as the enemy right off the bat at least before you talk to them.
Actually, she was right over there putting up the science section HR.
Maybe she could have just read them like the little script and brought them into the
fold.
It is possible that your office is run by an evil cabal of HR climate deniers, but I doubt
it.
And the thing is we know that taking action is much easier if you're part of a community,
right?
You're emotionally, you're not the only one doing it.
You have a group of people who are supporting you.
And it's also more effective, the more people that are involved, the easier it is to spread
the word, attract others to the cause, and changes like the one this Redditor is talking
about that involve, you know, sort of like a large scale change in behavior, right?
She wants to change the behavior of everyone in her office.
Those kinds of changes are almost impossible to achieve without building a consensus around
that change.
In other words, without building a community.
And so that's sort of, you know, where I would say she needs to start.
If she's putting up science and other people are taking them down, that's clearly not
a community.
If a whole bunch of people are putting up signs with her, then that is a community.
And that's how you know it's working.
I am going to admit I was only happing attention because I was passive aggressively ordering
the DS on my decals, which I've now ordered Raleigh, so I've done it.
I've done it.
Ordering is not putting them up, we'll see, I'm going to put your shirt on the Twitter.
I will.
So is this Redditor the asshole?
I'm not going to say she's the asshole now.
I think she's trying to do a good thing and I don't want her to stop.
I feel like maybe this tactic isn't necessarily working.
I don't think she's the asshole.
I'm maintaining my initial pronouncement and maintaining that she's not the asshole.
I'm going to say not the asshole with a small caveat that there are more.
More effective ways to inside this sort of change that you're looking to see.
So that brings us to our final listener, right?
Yes, yes, absolutely.
So this last one is from another listener in Vermont named Sequoia Young and she actually
sent in her voice memo, so you guys are going to get to hear her beautiful voice.
I bought my first home in January and within the first four months my natural gas combination
boiler started to break and it needs to be replaced, but do I replace my gas boiler with
another gas boiler and stay reliant on fossil fuels, which is really something I'm not interested
in and I know that it is our duty to do the right thing for the planet.
But it would be $10,000 to get a new boiler or if I convert to electric heat pumps to
heat my home, it is looking like $30,000 or more.
And my question is, am I an A-hole if I take the cheaper auction?
Is it worth going into debt for the planet?
Okay, so this listener wants to swap out her fossil fuel gas boiler for a much cleaner
and more efficient electric heat pump, but there's a big price difference, 10 grand for
gas, 30 grand for electric.
Raleigh, let's start with you.
Is she an asshole for not wanting to spend an additional $20,000 to replace a fossil
feel furnace. The question you're asking is, am I the asshole for not having them
money to buy something that I perceive is better for the climate, which spoiler alert,
you are right, that is better for the climate. No, I don't think you're the asshole for not
having the $20,000 lying around to buy yourself a heat pump. Don't, you know, risk putting
yourself out of your home just because you didn't want to have heat, you know, from a fossil
fuel. It's, it's about, you know, trying to be a little pragmatic. And if you can't afford
it you can't afford it, you know, so not the asshole. Yeah, I mean, I would agree. Like,
you don't know the money, you don't know the money. Yeah, I mean, I feel like you got to
get a second opinion on where you're getting your heat pump or gas boiler, maybe for
Mont, the price is a little high. Yeah, I second your thought about getting a second opinion,
just, you know, as somebody who's been doing some home, a lot of home renovation, like it's,
it's shocking how much quotes and stuff vary. And maybe you just got a person who is like,
particularly busy and they were just like throughout the highest thing they could think of just
because they didn't want another client. And maybe there's somebody else out there who will do it
for cheaper. But, you know, so, so it's definitely worth, you know, checking around. Yeah, I was going
to say they should check out the database of state incentives for renewables and and efficiency
website. And they should, you know, double check with either the installer they talked to,
we're finding a new heat pump installer to ask what rebates are available because it, it almost
sounds like that, that installer was just sort of like this is a sticker price and not really
necessarily walking them through what the end cost might actually be for them, you know, and sort
of figuring that out of the long term to really see if that cost difference is as stark as they
think it is. To what Raleigh said, not being independently wealthy so that you can afford to buy
the greenest thing does not make you the asshole, but it does point to the need for broader systems
change so that we can do these sorts of energy efficiency retrofits or these green retrofits
across the board. Like we can't expect everyone to have enough money to do them. And so,
as a country, we really should be thinking how can we make it so that people can make these
switches whether or not they have enough money in the bank to do it on their own. And to that end,
there was just this big piece of legislation that passed very recently the Installation Reduction
Act, which is money in it to do just that, right? To make it cheaper for people like Sequoia to
electrify their home heating systems with heat pumps. But it's definitely something that Sequoia
should look into. And IRA is just one pot of money for changing your house. There's also like
state and local programs that I think would be makes sense to look into as well.
Anyway, it's like, it's definitely worth looking around seeing what the incentives are. Look at
with the, do you want to say the name of that website again, Kendra? And we'll put it in the
show notes as well. It's google.com. I prefer Ask Jeaves myself. No, it's the database of state
incentives for renewables and efficiency. We'll just link it. It's too long. Yeah, we'll put a link
in the show notes and in our newsletter as well. But I guess we're saying make sure that you're
checking around. And then I would say keep it as a goal. Awesome. So is Sequoia the asshole? No,
not the asshole. Not the asshole. Sequoia is definitely not the asshole. Panel, thank you so much.
This was really, really fun. Thanks for coming. Thanks, Raleigh. Of course, it was delightful to
be able to judge people in a structured context. Great. Outside of the confines of my own mind,
Raleigh, if people want more Raleigh, where do they go? Yeah, look, I mean, your life seems to be
going well so far, listeners. You don't need a little vitamin, me in it. No problem. But if you
want to go to YouTube and type in climate town, you can see I think 14 or 15 videos that I've done.
And, Jenae, thank you as well for checking down all those listeners, getting their stories,
and locking us through this episode. Of course. Thanks for having me, y'all.
And that brings us to our patented "How to Save a Planet" calls to action. We tried to tailor
these calls to action to the various scenarios we heard from in today's episode.
So, call action number one. This relates to the first scenario, the one about the roommates who
got into the fight over fan usage. To better understand how much electricity the various
appliances in your home are using, you can go and check out energy.gov. They have a very handy
chart that helps you compare the amount of energy that your appliances are using. And we'll help
you make better choices about where you can save a lot by reducing usage and where it's not quite
as big an issue. It can also potentially help resolve disputes like the one we heard about in
today's episode. And then call to action number two. This relates to the last scenario we heard
from. If you're in the market for a new heat pump, there are lots and lots of links to research
affordable and climate-friendly options. And we are going to post a couple of these links
in our show notes and in our newsletter. Our newsletter, which you can subscribe to, by going
to howtosaveaplanet.show.
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Sound Design and Mixing by Hans Dale Shee, with original music by Peter Leonard and Emma Munger.
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Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The podcast explores climate-related "Am I the asshole?" scenarios, using real listener and Reddit stories to examine personal responsibility and behavior in environmental decisions.
In the roommate fan conflict, the panel unanimously concludes Jack is not the asshole, arguing that fans use minimal energy and that the roommate’s micromanagement reflects more flawed behavior.
Regarding the baby shower registry, Sarah is not the asshole—her suggestion to buy used items is seen as a reasonable, socially acceptable way to promote sustainability without coercion.
In the office recycling case, the Redditor is not the asshole despite passive-aggressive tactics; the panel emphasizes the need for community-building and dialogue over top-down messaging.
Sequoia’s decision to keep a gas boiler due to cost is not an environmental failure—she is not an asshole, but the episode highlights systemic barriers that make green upgrades inaccessible for most.
The panel consistently rejects the idea that personal choices are inherently "bad" or "wrong" and instead focuses on context, equity, and collective action.
All experts agree that climate action requires pragmatic, compassionate, and community-centered approaches rather than moral policing or guilt-based judgments.
The episode concludes with actionable calls to action, including energy use tracking and research into state incentives for green home upgrades.
Summary:
The podcast hosts a lively, expert-led discussion on whether people are “climate assholes” through four real-world scenarios. In the first, a roommate's complaint over a fan is dismissed as overblown—fans use minimal energy and the critique reflects poor communication, not environmental negligence. In the second, a listener advocating for used baby gifts is deemed not the asshole, as it’s a socially acceptable and empowering suggestion that aligns with broader sustainability goals.
In the office recycling case, the Redditor’s efforts to promote sustainability are praised, though the panel notes that passive-aggressive tactics and lack of community involvement reduce effectiveness—better results come from inclusive dialogue. Finally, a homeowner choosing a cheaper gas boiler over a costly heat pump is not judged as an environmental failure, as financial constraints are real and systemic change—like federal and state incentives—is needed to make green upgrades accessible. The episode strongly rejects moralistic blame, instead promoting empathy, practical solutions, and community-building as keys to meaningful climate action.
It concludes with practical calls to action: checking energy use data and researching government incentives to support sustainable choices.
FAQs
It's a popular online forum where users post scenarios and ask whether they or someone else acted improperly or unkindly, asking others to vote on who the 'asshole' is in the situation.
The hosts used the word to highlight how people often feel guilty or blame themselves over environmental choices, mirroring the tone of the Reddit community where such judgments are common.
The panel reviewed real-life scenarios involving personal environmental choices, such as using a fan in a room, suggesting used baby gifts, encouraging office recycling, and upgrading to electric heating systems.
No, the panel concluded that using a fan is not an asshole behavior, as it uses minimal energy and is a reasonable way to stay cool, especially in hot climates.
No, the panel said it's not an asshole—it's a positive and thoughtful suggestion that aligns with environmental values and gives people permission to make sustainable choices.
No, the panel found it not an asshole, though they noted that passive-aggressive or overly rigid tactics may not be effective—more collaboration and community building are recommended.
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