[MUSIC] >> The Biology Coach podcast, brace yourselves for a very special episode. >> Indeed. >> [LAUGH] >> Wait a minute, girls, guys, gays and days. So if you're on the internet specifically TikTok, but this may have reached other social media. I don't know. >> You've probably heard about Alpha Dom. >> Alpha Dom, as the dominant. >> Not as a dominant. >> It's Donald. >> Right, Alpha Dom, right. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> What if his name is Dominic or something? >> It might be, and that's what I thought it was at first. I thought it was Dominic. >> I don't think so. >> And then I saw some of his videos. Did you see the video where he had the two, he claims that there are two women tied up with the zip ties? >> No. >> Jesus Christ. >> Wow. >> It's just so much. >> I've been, well, yeah, we're getting a little ahead of ourselves. >> Right, okay. >> But we'll get back. >> So back. >> All right. So Mr. Alpha, surname Dom. >> [LAUGH] >> He posted something on TikTok regarding rejection. >> Yeah. >> And it didn't, Sarah, I don't think it went the way he had hoped. That's my opinion. But we're going, we're going to play it for everybody. Well, you can tell us how you think it went. >> Let's go on a journey together. And just, just see, just see. You do not have to accept her rejection. I'm a freshman dating coach and I teach guys how to understand the female mind. Now, if you're one of the people that haven't applied anything in my course or my videos or anything like that, this video is not for you. This is an advanced technique. This is for the people that have the course, have my videos, fucking are applying it, seeing results. And eventually I'm going to put this in the course. I just don't have the time right now, so I'm releasing it now. Don't have to accept her rejection. Now, here's an example, a stalker or girl, and she said, "Oh, you know, I'm not really interested." And I instead of just going, "Okay, I'm just turning it around way." I did that, so why would you not be interested in the best? Absolutely the best. And she's like, "Oh, you how?" I'm like, "Well, you'd have to come over in my house to find out." And you'd also have to be okay with kink and you'd also have to be okay with my mastery of ropes and the fact that I have multiple women. Actually, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe you wouldn't be the best for me. And now I did turn around at the end, but I could have left that part out and still got her to start bantering back and forth, and she did. She started going back and forth with me, and I started building a traction in that, because now I had sidesteped her fucking rejection. Granted, keep in mind, I'd enforce it and say, "No, no, you're no." I just laid into her a little fucking game, and she's playing with me a little bit or just kind of disengaging, and I gave her a little bit of fun. You want to know what I did with her later? That's a track plan. I don't know, but I'm hoping-- He isn't the car. Maybe he's radio's on. Yeah, maybe he something went on. Oh, okay. Wow, where we start? There's certainly something on pack here. There's a lot to unpack here. So he's-- How about a lot? What? I don't know about a lot. But-- Yeah, so obviously this set TikTok a fire, a blaze, Sarah, and everybody and their mothers were responding. But there was one really good one that I would like to-- Okay. Is it yours? No, no. No. A cheaty. So I'm sure everybody remembers Ethan Lawless for last week. Would you believe, Sarah, that Ethan has a response for Alpha Dom? I would. And what you believe-- Hey, guys. I'm going to let you in on a little secret. Ooh, let me guess, let me guess, let me guess. Is it that you could potentially be the next mass shooter? Seems that a reoccurring issue amongst mass shooters is that they are lonely virgin boys who can't talk to women. You line right up snugging that fucking category. Or is it that you really are just a predator? Hey, guys. No, no. Let's get that really off. Let's get Ethan cleaned up. Left no crumbs. Yeah. No. So I think this is kind of a visual joke as well because one would need to see Alpha Dom too. I think that adds a layer of ink. OK, I am not going to pretend that his appearance isn't part of this. Right. It certainly is. I would like to make an effort to describe him accurately. I mean, I think, you know, describing him as a potential mass shooter certainly paints a picture. But let's objectively, you know, as if the police needed to make a sketch. Let's try to describe them. I'll go first. Oh, OK. He has a long face. Very long. Yeah. But it's long. What else? OK. I'm going to focus on something I have no business focusing on. OK. Although I did spend a good deal of money to fix them. Ah. It's teeth. Well, then why are you saying you have no business focusing on it? Because you know, my teeth are perfect. Right. Because my teeth aren't perfect. But however, I have a very hard time that there are a lot of women out there that will overlook the teeth. Because the teeth are jacked. They're like, it's like a shark mouth. They're kind of stained. That's stained, but like they're not white teeth. And you know, this is a guy who looks like he either never got braces or never wore his retainer because one of his teeth is like jetting out. I have a very hard time. And look, there's so much else to criticize about this guy. I would just got a describe of this. Right. But this plays into, I wouldn't bring it up if it didn't play into. Right. I think he's utterly full of shit. Right. Right. I just don't believe women are playing our getting past the teeth. But yeah. OK. And here's the other thing. And I see a lot of people making fun of this. And I think it's, I think it's lame. And I think it's low. And it's to make fun of his speech impediment. That's something he can't control and listen teeth to not everybody has the money. It's expensive. So you know, it might not be that he doesn't want to fix his teeth, but might not be in a financial position. That's why he's trying to sell these courses. Right. Sell these materials. Actually, who knows? But I just want to say to the people out there, because I've seen a couple videos where you're making fun of his, like he has a bit of a list. That's weak. Don't do that. It just makes you a shitty person. And completely, there are certainly other things. Right. It just, it completely invalidates your argument. And frankly, it makes him a victim. And I don't want to see that happen. Right. All right. So, I mean, this guy has just been getting it all over the internet, all over the app. And he, what he's saying is, like he's not saying force her. And he's saying, you know, if she says no, then just respond and say, like, why would you want me? Like, I'm awesome. I want to, I'm sorry. I want to add another physical detail, because I do feel that it's relevant. Okay. Okay. It's, it's get another thing that he can't really control. But he has this, I don't know how else to say it, but this, this little beard. Yeah. That's a little beard. The cat on X looked like he's 16. Yeah. I'm like, the shit he's spewing, he sounds like he's 16. Right. I'm really curious to know how old he is. I mean, I, I'm going to go 20s, early 20s. Yeah. Um, and there's a specific reason I say that as well. Um, I don't know. I want to show. But maybe I'm getting ahead of myself. I'm like, could you imagine we could try, we could try. Yeah, let's put them. Um, I will, I will extend the invitation to Elf Don. Uh, so a lot of the responses are just like, everyone's trying to be snarky and everyone trying to be, you know, everyone's trying to want, like, be funny in the next person. I mean, you mentioned people making fun of his, his, his list, but a lot of people are asking him, like, where, where do you think you found the story? That's the spectrum. That's, that's not cool either. That's not cool either. It's just gross. Don't do that. There's so many.
other things. So many other things. Right. Like little beard. Right. You know, and I wouldn't even say don't even make fun of his teeth because that tune like he might not be able to fix them. But I do want to play this one guy's response because I thought it was really amazing. And so, uh, user name is Damian D_02. But I wasn't trying to start an argument with you, but if you want to have a conversation, let's have it. I watched the rest of your videos and they sucked. But I'm going to tell you why. Let's forget that you're pushing out the same class A personality snake-o-wool horseshit that men like yourself have been propagating out to the young impressionable men for years trying to convince them that they can get the woman of their dreams by psychologically manipulating her. We know that's what you're doing. That's that's a given. Your name is Alpha Dom on TikTok. We're way past that. Right. My problem is actually the same point that you've been making and all your latest videos trying to defend yourself is that people watch the first few seconds of the video and they judge the rest of the video based on this first few seconds based on that hook. Right. That is an inherent fact of social media. Everyone does. So, if these people who are getting but hurt the vassher video are doing that. What do you think the impressionable young men that you're marketing to are doing? When they hear the words, you don't have to accept a woman's rejection. And the points in the rest of your video were shitty too. You basically said the exact same thing. Men, young adult men, these teen to early 20s guys are like sponges. Right. They're learning how to be young adult men. They're learning how to be respectful men, the functional members of society. They're soaking up everything you're saying and they're filing away these ideologies and these schemas in their head and they're going to grow off of that. This is their foundation. They're going to build off that is not accepting a woman's rejection, the kind of foundation you want a man to have. These. So, if there's like another minute and a half, but I loved that. It's a really valid point. I'm glad that someone took the time to make it. Right. Like, listen, anybody can make a video making front of this alpha-dom dude because there's a lot in the letter. But I appreciated that this guy, a guy and not a woman, not, you know, a woman doing the emotional labor. I appreciated that this guy took the time. Right. Because that's what we need more of. Is men telling other men knock it off? Yeah, I mean why? I appreciated the nuance as well. Right. Like, he doesn't just say like, oh, this is a shitty point of view. Which it is. And he says that, right. But he doesn't just say that. Right. He also points out, you know, that in terms of media consumption, what he's posting is especially dangerous and irresponsible, given people shortened detention spans, right. And how we choose to identify the main point of something like a video. TikTok video. And I'm so glad he made that point because I guess, I don't know. I guess I'm not consuming media the way everyone else is or like, maybe I'm coming at it. I don't want to say like more thoughtful or more analytically, but I guess I guess all I'm trying to say is that I saw Alpha Dom earlier this week organically. He crossed my feed. I was not outraged. But that is only because I took the time to watch the whole video and a couple others. And you weren't outraged? No, not outraged. I don't like him. Right. I don't think he is a cool guy. I am somewhat skeptical that he is a dating coach. I just I don't hate all of his message, I don't want to hit some of it. Okay. Now give me an example of one you don't hate. Well, I sent you a couple texts last night when we were like, you know, warming up to talking about this guy. Landing this episode. He has it's one of his pen videos. He has a video that's like real attractions, switches, and women that will always beat out looks and money. And I thought a lot of these are valid. Let me let me I'm just going to read them as they come up here. Let's see. So number one, be unpredictable. Women are fascinated by men that they can't control. Okay. Like see there you see like we're we're veering into MRA info weirdness. But like but like basically this is saying be your own person. Don't be a doormat. Like don't don't info dump. Right. Don't reveal all of yourself to so like people like a bit of mystery. I can't disagree with that. Okay. That's that's point one. Here's some more challenge in a world full of sims. Where's that one? Uh this is number two in that same video in a world full of sims. This is the easiest and fastest game changer. Agreed. Like I'm not I'm not I'm not out here like men make sure you play hard to get or women will think you're slutty. That's that's not what I'm taking away from this. And I again I can see how this person is a menace to society. But if you can you know if you can comment this with some media literacy. I think a lot of it is not really inherently objectionable. So in a world full of sims this is the easiest game changer. But then here it turns. Being indifferent in a playful way makes her go hmm he's different. But see that no no see you know what it turns right that is where it turns because what you're actually saying is what this actually is is by being indifferent you'll you'll make her insecure. Exactly right. Well so you see what I'm saying about like I don't disagree with all of it. Right okay here's another point on that same video be thoughtful. Give subtle clues that she's on your mind from time to time. And that's it. I can't disagree with any of that. Right I can't disagree with that either. That's not shit. Right okay here's another one. Humor. If I have to tell you why this works just be celibate. That's what I can't disagree that wouldn't like men who are funny. Yeah I can't disagree with it. Okay listen to this one. Be intelligent and creative. All her with the depth of your mind and ideas and fantasies that take her to a new reality. I don't know what the fuck you're saying there and at the end. What's again it takes a term. But I can't disagree with that woman like intelligence creativity. Right agreed. Romantic imagination and perception. All women have a social mask locked to their face just like men. Learn how to see her true self and get past the mask. Look at the world and at her with depth. That's not terrible. No it's not. Don't what you're doing. Right listen to this it goes on. Be a guru. If you are an expert in something especially something interesting to women like psychology BDSM or body language. You will never run out of conversation options. Once again this takes a term. I don't know how you assume that all women are interested in psychology. BDSM and or body language. But he's not fucking wrong because psychology body language. Think about true crime. I'm just I'm just I'm trying again I'm trying to be critical but fair. Right right but Dom sir please understand why we're interested in psychology and body language. Understand what the problem is and you'll get to other with women. Right I think he does and that's that's the issue because he's well he's gonna prove that to me because I don't think he does. Well okay listen to that. All right yeah enthusiastic positive and happy. Nothing turns her off like a killjoy. Life should spark and crackle around you most of the time. Show her the joy you're this crazy thing called wife.
When she's happy and you are not do not drag her down No notes Am it am it Now now again to be critical about fair of course this like you can make that toxic for sure Then don't cry Yeah, you can make it toxic, but it doesn't have to be right is the thing right Okay, this one this this what controversial Kristen. I can't let's talk with you about it. All right. It's dominance This drives women nuts according to alpha dumb most women crave a dominant Thoughts no, I mean that is such an antiquated belief right like No, I don't think we want to fucking equal. We want someone who sees us as an equal Like listen if you want to be and I'm not talking sexually because that's a totally different realm It is that's what I'm talking about as in terms of a partner a companion like No, I don't want someone yeah, what is he saying like we want exactly right what is it saying right Do we want men that take the lead yes and and we should because men Men are only as sincere as their options at the time so yeah, we want to make the effort. That's what we want to see That's we want to see I think this one quite a bit of thought Mm-hmm and I really I really tried to reflect on my own dating life, right? I really I you know, I thought about some men that I dumped and why I Thought about some men that I kept around too long and why I I'm just gonna say I don't think this point is unimportant Okay, all right, there's there's something to it and and again you can make it toxic pretty easily but That it's the word like dominant it is the word it yeah what they're really seeing as you want they want a man who's Traditionally masculine well that's I think yeah, that's the toxic version of it right right but right the more I thought about it And again, like I was making an attempt to be charitable. I don't know why I guess I've been a good mood this week can't explain it But like Truly There's something to this Oh, yeah, okay, yeah, all right. I'm not I'm not talking about sex. I'm not talking about gender roles, but I do think Here's what I landed on Dominance like if you're gonna if you're gonna think about this in a not toxic way Mm-hmm. I think an example of dominance might be something like More like confidence. Yeah subject mastery. Yes being an expert I mean kind of like what he was saying before like being an expert in something right um and I'm equating this somewhat with success Okay, all right right because I'm I'm I'm thinking and again, I'm doing like a really charitable Deep dive here, but I I am thinking of that like in some circumstances I would want the guy I'm saying to to be able to be dominant simply because He is the correct information. He's the best at xy or z um But to have the confidence to to say as much Mm-hmm. Okay That's the non toxic version of that I think okay Uh, can we move off this and because uh, I want a friend step to make fun of him about I got I got to do one more crystal. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. Cause the next one is education. Read books and learn new skills constantly. Okay, read. I see a lot. There's a note, there's a note, don't make sure there's some female authors in there. Well, sure, sure. You know, okay. All right. So, goddamn it, dumb. Let's say I want to buy this. I've been women. Oh, you got you got one. Well, I think so. It's it's the one where he says, you know, this is can't be used on like a two to a seven or something stupid. Hold on. I think it's this one. Oh, it's not this one. I know this one. No, it is this one is incredibly rampant. I'm not talking about women that are two through sevens. A very specific thing. I'm talking about eights and nights. First off, I want to say thank you for the pretty much respectful question. You weren't being like most of the comments I had to. So he's responding to a comment that says, why can't she just reject you? Why do you feel entitled to her? And why would you want to date someone who actively does not like you? Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Fair. Fair. And that's when he says, well, this doesn't apply to two to sevens, only eight and nines. All right. We just take out today. Let's answer this. Most guys and girls are going to be thinking I'm talking about just in general. It's not the case. So a lot of my content is in general, but this is a very specific thing. And I'm about to drop some God tier wisdom on you. Two through sevens don't do this as often. However, eights and nights, no such thing as tens, tens do not exist. We all imperfections. They don't exist. The eights and nines will do this very consistently. They will we out men by giving them a what's we call a soft rejection. Now they do this because they are aware that almost all the guys that they hang out with that they know, follow the whole culture of gotta be rich, gotta have good looks, gotta fucking, I have like a fucking gotta go to gym and get like all that stuff, right? The man may look the part, may look like the perfect fucking partner or me. But they know that most of them are not. And those women get so fucking tired and fed up with men like that that they create this soft rejection test to see how it works. Will the guy fucking for right once again, no notes. I see I'm the whole time I'm like son of a bitch. He's right son of a big. It's all right. He is right. And but I don't agree with what he's saying. They do it because they get hit on by everybody and they're like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So I know I'm good looking. Do you like me for more than that? Do you know what I mean? Well, he's also not answer the question. Right. He's simply not answer the question. Why can't you just accept rejection? Like this, this is not the answer to the question. Like answer to the question can be someone or just to attract it. I mean, I don't want his answer is because really attractive women typically give a soft rejection. He's answering the question. He's just doing it around about way. I mean, he is not. He's not answer the question of like, why do you feel entitled to her? Right. Right. Right. But he, but he, I mean, we know the answer. So that's fine. Right. But he justifies it by saying, well, you know, these women are hit on by guys all the time who have this, this, this and this. But what they're really looking for is this and by, by not taking no, you're showing them what they want, which is a guy who's confident and takes the lead and dominant and dead and at it all. Right. I mean, I, I especially appreciate this point coming from him because I do see how what he approaches women, their knee, jerk reaction might be, no, I'm sorry, I don't have any change. Okay. But I, I, okay, but I see where he's going with this and why he's why he's saying what he's saying. I did too. You know, I do too. God, do it. And you can, you can certainly make it toxic, right? But it turns out he's not actually saying like push and push and push and push and like force yourself on women. Not what he's saying. Right. Now he is saying try to make women believe that you're more interesting. Uh, and a better potential may, then you really are. Right. But he's also saying, do some self-improvement. Yes. But let's go back to his original, like, how he would respond to the rejection. Right. You know, why, why would you want me? I'm so great. And she says, well, why, how are you so great? Well, you know, you're right. You, you probably wouldn't want me. You know, I'm this and this. And, you know, I'm, you have to come over to my house. You have to come over to my apartment. Dude, that is, I don't care who it is. I don't care if you're, she's a two, as you say, or nine. Right. No woman, the minute woman hears that she's thinking, oh, this sounds like the beginning of a true crime podcast. And say, here, here's where Al Fadam actually. Actually fails, I think, as a, as an internet, uh, personally, he's not convincing anyone that he has charisma. Or that he is a good conversationalist. No one is convinced. No.
And frankly, I feel like a little bad for him because if he were just like 10 years older, he could have done this 10 years ago during the era of mystery with a capital M. Remember that guy? Pick up artists and whatnot. Because this is pickup artistry. That's all this is. It's all this is. We said it's just morphed. They've just they've just rebranded. Oh, it hasn't rebranded at all. It's not morphed at all. It has a couple new buzzwords, but buzzwords like high low value human beings and like alpha like it's got a couple new buzzwords which are all like alt-right adjacent don't look that once again you can make it toxic. Right. Doesn't have to be. And I and herein is the trest I think of alpha dumb because he's aiming for the lowest common denominator. Right. He's not actually trying to coach anybody. He's just regurgitating pickup artist bullshit. And he is deliberately using his words that are dog whistles because he's not discerning about his audience. He'll take whatever attention, whatever traffic, whatever you know, whatever profit he can get from this. Right. And that's my real critique of the sky is that it's disingenuous. Yeah, I agree. All right, we're going to watch another video now. Okay. Listen. As politically incorrect as this is going to sound of the over 100,000 women that I've had interactions with women strongly react both emotionally and sexually to masculine men. The more dominant assertive and aggressive I've been, the more what they get. However, I'm not saying you can clupper in the head and if I can bring her back to your cave to do things unconsciously, I'm saying there's still boundaries, but assertive aggressive male that's dominant, wins. There is no argument. We win. Listen, take aggressive out. That's where it takes a turn. No one's an aggressive man. Right. Sure. You show that you just don't understand women. However, son of a bitch, Dom. A point was we're going through these right now. No, no, no, we're going to find something that's really offensive and everyone every time I got a damn it. Dom. Yeah. That's all right. He's not he's not wrong. Were you expected in this crystal? Did you think I was going to win Dom over to you? I was not. I was not. But I want it. I want to throw this out there. How much of the response to him has to do with what he looks like. Yeah. And this is what I mean. And I've spoken about this at least with myself. How I didn't look I didn't look the part. And that people respond to people who look the part. They could be peddling the most so much nonsense and no fear because they're conventionally attractive. And they look like they have an aspirational life. Right. And that really is that that really is the key. Dom has really given us nothing here in terms of his lifestyle. We I have no clues about where he lives. I'm looking at him against a blank white wall right now. Right. He filmed a bunch of videos inside his car. Right. I know he has bad taste and clothes. Yeah. But like I don't know what kind of car he drives. I don't know. Yeah. I don't I have no idea. Again, I'm not convinced that he's charismatic or a good conversationalist or even like really understands much about women. But I do think he's making an effort to understand women, which is more than a lot of men are doing in the year of our Lord 2024. Would I date him? I would not. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. What I interview him for the pod. I would. I just got a message on Instagram from a woman saying, have you heard of this alpha Dom dating coach? Uh-huh. Oh my god. I'm coming back literally recording an episode about him now. Literally right now. Just wait for friend. I'm like really getting speculative now and given the sky quite a lot of thought. I admit here's another thing though. Uh-huh. What kind of person has a account ready of the number of women that they've interacted with over the course of the year. He's clearly just throwing a number out there. I'm sure. I'm sure. But that's what the point I'm trying to make here is. So a lot of his, I mean a lot of what he says is true. I hate to say. He says it's true. But but here's the thing. I would bet that he has some degree of successful woman. I would maybe some degree. I don't think he's a virgin. No, I don't think he's a virgin either. But I also don't believe that he has the success he's purporting to to have well strictly based on what he looks like. Sorry. Sorry, not sorry. Sorry, not sorry. I think that he might and here's why because his whole stick about dating coach for men and about how, uh, I mean, essentially it's it's just pick a bar history. He just literally with nothing new, like not even a new package. It's not even packaged. She just regurgitated, spit back into your mouth, baby bird. Here you go. Say I'm old, say I'm old meal. Um, that's the reason I do believe him. Like he might have had numerous uh hug up situationships, whatever, because he doesn't focus on relationships. No. He just teaches men how to as he says banter with women and like get them right. Right. I would hold on. I want to play another one. Okay. And this one at this point now we're like doing this blind. Okay. Okay, give me another. The cover says most dating coaches say build rapport with her. In reality, part of the reason I get so much is because I break rapport and let her attempt to build it with me. Uh, mind you, he's recording this and honestly looks like at sundown. Yeah. It he looks like he's lurking in a parking lot. Something does. Right. So let's see what Dom says here. Here's one of my biggest issues with other dating coaches is they always are trying to tell you a little rapport with her. If she says something, be attentive and listen, touch her every once in a while. If she does a body movement, replicate it. All that stuff is I've found in my over 100,000 interactions with women and over 1000 women that I've been with and six women currently I've found just doesn't add up to breaking rapport. Obviously when you break rapport, you're operating as a different human instead of mimicking and trying to get her validation and tension. You're showing that you're your own person. The only time a girl is going to match you and try to build rapport with you, which is I'm going to tell you the correct way it should be done is if you aren't trying to build rapport with her. When you act like your own person don't really give a shit. There's a reason why the whole the flower thing with he loves me. He loves me not. He loves me. He loves me not. If she knew for sure that he loved her that that that that whole analogy would not exist, you need to start thinking differently. If you continue to think the way most dating coaches and the way most guys try to teach you how to out of date, you're you're never going to see the results that I see. It's up to you whether you're going to actually apply it correctly or not. Okay, so now this one I think we can say this is a case of tapping into a woman's insecurity. Right, because that's really all this is. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's right. So this is toxic in my opinion. Yes, or or or or or or or is it here's what I mean. I'm muting you. Now listen, just hear me out. And I'm not trying to play devil's advocate. Like I really have to go this a lot of. So hear me out. Is this toxic or again, is this guy not talking about relationships. He's just talking about dating. And truly, is this is this not how to be good at dating? Well, this is kind of what we tell women, isn't it? How to be good at dating? Yeah, you know, like, yeah, don't act too interested, you know, be don't always be available. Yeah, play hard to get. Like, yeah, he's basically telling men play hard to get. Well, and the reason this the reason this works is because the person on the
receiving end of this feels that your time is valuable, right? Because you're not giving them all of it. True, but he's talking about rapport, building a rapport. No, he's talking about building a report, which isn't a word. So just in any case, but look, when I get the chance to criticize, I will. Especially if it has to do with English or spelling, he just, he just doesn't always miss his thing, right? Like he's, he's not bad in 1000, but like, I don't know sports. He's bad and pretty good. Whatever get off my case. Right. You know, it's, it's his presentation. And if his presentation was different, he'd be getting a completely different reaction, I think. But here's, here's what I wanted to, wanted to say earlier though about this. Is. I think that's part of his success, IRL with women because he looks non threatening. He's not threatening. Yes. Thank you. I'm threatening. I'm, I am getting a real strong vibe from this guy that he is like in IT. Like you pointed out, oh, looks like he's swimming from a parking lot at dusk. Like, yeah, I think he is. Which would it this way? He's not a friend of the house person. I just, I just think, I guess what I'm going with by saying like, Oh, he, I, I'm getting a real strong IT vibe here is, you know, he thinks he's better with people than he is. Right. Not, not the general lies about all IT people because some of them are women. But thinks is better with people than he is. Not, you know, not the snappiest dresser. But like clearly isn't poor, right? But just like, you know, you're not, you're not seeing any materialistic trappings on this guy. This guy, I don't want to call him an intellectual. I don't think he is. But, but this is the man who exists in the cerebral realm, yes, and also, I believe that he can afford to take women on dates. Yes, which is another big part of dating success, right? Right. Right. Like if you're simply at this point in the year of our Lord, party, 24, we went to plan a date and pay for it. Like a real date. That's going to get you some dates. It's going to get you some dates. Yeah, it is. It is. And it's going to, yeah, it. So I believe him. Kind of these dating six women. Well, I believe him kind of, like I said, I, I don't know what kind of person tallies, the total number of women they've ever spoken to. Someone trying to sell something. That's that's who. But I believe that he has dated is dating. I believe women in real life trust him. I don't think he, like leads with, oh, I'm a dating coach for men. I do this alpha dumb thing. Like I don't think he leads with the stick, you know, and that's why I believe him. Wait, okay. Let's try another one. Don't let me down. Wait, I've got one for you. I don't know. Look at my looks like at the text. Change. I know I know one that. All right, Sarah, you told me this is the one. This is this is one of the ones I want. All right, Dom, Dom, don't fucking let me down. Well, well, he's a man. Girls, I know I have a few of you watching my TikToks. And I need your help on this one because guys aren't going to believe it. If I just say it, I'm a professional dating coach and I teach you guys how to understand the female mind. Now, I'm going to say this and a lot of guys are going to have a hard time believing it, especially my haters. Women want sex as much if not more than men do. We need to help them understand that because what ends up happening is guys are way too fucking nervous to talk about sex or like anything like that. They're just like freaked out and awkward and weird. And that repulses you guys, girls. And they don't know that. In fact, when me, if a girl's acting shy about sex, I'll fucking start picking on her about it or joke about it. If you never had sex before, or you just shy when you talk about sex, things like that. And that builds attraction. They're not going to understand that or flip out my comments like they often do. This is a reason why most my haters or like 98% of them are male, but they need your help. Help me out here. Actually, I want to add a point. The only girls I've ever had that are really uncomfortable about that fucking male sex are ones that have never had it or are like to use that want to be triggered about everything. Okay. Well, and that's where he lost me. Yep. That's where he lost me. Yep. Because he wasn't wrong. He was not wrong until he said that he said he's her about it. Yeah. Because there could be that could be very triggering. And you don't know why she doesn't like it. Why is that? I'm just I'm just coming at this resemble. That's not going to be effective perspective. Yeah. Right. And make you look annoying and immature. Yeah. Yeah. Don't. Like it doesn't it doesn't allow for any. Any nuance of personality. Right. Like you have to, I don't know. You have to concede that there is a spectrum here of humanity. I'm like some people are comfortable talking about sex some aren't, but like you'll find out. If you need to know a promise and also understand that can be that can be religious. That could be you know, you just came from a family that didn't talk about that stuff. You know, there's a lot of things that play into that. Yeah. That doesn't mean they're, you know, triggered. You know, kind of know what you're saying. You're saying, oh my God. Like trauma. Yes, trauma. Yeah. Most of us do. I mean, quite possibly. Yeah. Very possibly very likely. Um, it like he's getting it. But what he's also making very clear, he doesn't really understand women. Right. He understands them on them on a very surface level. Yep. Just enough. Just enough. Just enough to pass. Just enough to date. Not enough to have a relationship. Exactly. And Sarah, that ends our analysis. I'm sorry. I got to say one more thing. Oh, God. That's the one more thing. I'm really not trying to like sway anybody, you know, hate if you want to hate. Right. Um, a one of the poor. I think it's in that same video where he has like a list of things that men should be doing for self-improvement. I think it's a same video. One of the last things there is like he says, you, you need to learn how to be good at sex. I know why you do this. Thank you, alpha dog. Right. No, no, no, no, it's again. Oh, God. All right. Follow us on Instagram @dataulgipod. Follow me on Instagram @thechristinamthechriestanm. Now you've got to start following us on Patreon, which is patreon.com/dataulgipoach, because we post a lot of bonus content. I don't know. And you don't want to miss it because and it's like full episodes. Uh, it's not just in the 10 minutes. What? Juicy nuggets. Juicy nuggets. Um, so go to patreon.com/dataulgipoach. You can be a $3 tier, uh, subscriber and they get the episodes early. 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