All miracles happen when you surrender.

Good morning. Welcome to today's podcast. Happy to be back from Toronto from Los Angeles. Really, really phenomenal trip. Really, really. I think I need to spend a good year in LA to chip away my Persian brothers and sisters. Why you? So this class is the Llewishman, York City, New York City, New York City. I'm going to be the NGDAL East Rail Success, you know, Shabba, NGDAL. Shabba, NGDAL. I'm going to be the Shabba, NGDAL. Shabba, NGDAL. Shabba. It's also sponsored in Rachel Brown. And you could tell you who to be more like a Gittel. We have that one remaining event from the long, long tour. And the remaining event is going to be in South Beach. It's going to be in Lincoln Road, Kabad, young professionals on Sunday night. All right. So as we are, it's funny, traveling today is like going to Uman. You know, TSA lines, waiting lines, two hours, it's a thing. That's what it is to go like to Uman. Whatever you guys see in TSA, that's a taste of my Uman trips where nothing's guaranteed, right? You have to show up to the airport three hours before. I mean, crazy stuff. I think we need Mashiach. I think that's the only part right now. Everything else is just secondary. First pray you should say, I need Mashiach. Second, pray for whatever you want in life. Today's energy that we need to work on is definitely the energy of, because today's the month of Scorpio, how are you handling transitions? You're going to have a lot of transitions as life can show you. How are you handling them? Are you resisting them? Are you being reborn? So that's one thing you want to contemplate today on. Handling transitions, re-burthing, you know, things falling apart and rebuilding them again. And that's the energy of today. That's what we should focus on today. And that's the story of our lives. It's the moon. The moon is in the nothing, the next thing you know, it's full, etc. Today we're going to talk, we're going to clarify a little bit on how to become I'm going to take a scrape book from Passport to Kabbalah by Robert Pinson. And we're going to really, really talk about this concept called "Ian. Ian." It's hard to say when you're talking from a lot of people, but let's really understand what "Ian" means. "Ian" means nothingness. We want to go to nothingness. That's when we completely surrender. That's where you completely, it's just like for example, let's say, you know, a person wants to make a watch into gold. Right? For example, it's just a melted gold and then it has to be then. Once it's melted, it goes to nothing, then it could be anything can come out of it. So that's the same thing. Before we go into in our lives, we have to really, really work on connecting to Ian, really, really completely dismantling what we know, how we know, not resisting and really, really go to the place of no nothingness. And that's where miracles can happen. Until we get there, it's very hard for that to happen. And this is where you'll understand it a little bit more. So he says there's really three steps to get miracles in life. And these are speaking, visualizing and surrendering. These three aspects have to be there. You have to speak about where you're going through. Then you have to have to speak it out. You'll get to a place where you visualize it. And then you'll get to a place of surrendering. Surrendering is always the hardest part because that's the place of Ian. That's the place where we think surrender. We think we need to change the form or we need to change the timing of it. Surrendering means I'm in potential. I don't know what's going to happen. I'm excited for this new reality coming. That's pretty much. We really, really are focusing on that. So what is he saying? The first step, Rev. Francis is giving voice and articulating what you want. God gives you, God gives us a very famous verse. Any color is a very tonal hymn, "I will give you according to your desire." Remember, desire could work positively or desire could work also negatively. So that's why we always have to monitor the desires. We said that the word "ratson" is "sinore." The word "ratson" itself, "desire" means "vessel." It means "pipeline." The beginning free. Nothing happens in life. Nothing happens until people gave voice to it. That's why I ask people, "Tell me what do you want? What do you want?" That's the first question. That's why indecision, it's really difficult today. If you have indecision, it's hard to get anywhere. Because first of all, you're not even giving voice and you're not planting the seed. That's why it's very, very important to have certainty. And it's okay to fail on the way or to learn on the way. Decision is the worst decision. Because then you can't visualize it and you can't take action. And you can't let it go. What do you let it go? That's why when you have a lot of questions, the inner work is fear. The inner work is fear. It's letting go the worst case scenario. Like if I asked you today, "What would you do if you couldn't fail?" You would tell me, "I would do this. I would do this. I would do this. I would do this." So you have to really work on the questions. This is exactly why they got stuck in the Egypt. Because they had a lot of kushot. Kushot means questions. The questions were their questions with them and got. And this is why we need, or in the Ahmad's, something very powerful, and says it less than five, that sometimes the questions can just hold on to the mind and put so much weight on the mind. And when a person has so much of a brain fog, right? Let's pretend every single time I have questions, or if I have a brain fog, it's the same thing. So it's the same thing. And I'm not saying, "It's the same thing." It's the same thing. It's the same thing. It's the same thing. It's the same thing. So I'm saying, "It's the same thing." And I'm saying, "It's the same thing." So I'm saying, "It's the same thing." So I'm saying, "It's the same thing." And I'm saying, "It's the same thing." And I'm saying, "It's the same thing." And I'm saying, "It's the same thing." What are you recycling? Sometimes you're medics, you're just recycling the same thing. You need to clear the garbage out sometimes. And the clear the garbage out is through a loud voice. Just like if my classes were very calm, you probably wouldn't, but sometimes we have to throw in, you know, we have to throw in lines to shake you up. It's the same thing. We speak with force that clears up the mind. So when you say, "I want this," it's a very specific thing about what you want. Because the opposite of it. And where is the, what is in the past of the Hameed represents all of the things that are clogging up the mind. These are all fears, right? All these fears that we have today. There's tons of fears. All these fears, what they do is they clog up the mind and they make it, you make it, it weakens you. And then, and even if you meditate, your energy is not there. So we have to create thunder. Thunder is created when you speak with a loud voice. Now, your partner at heaven, at heaven, okay? People are speaking with the wrong voice at the wrong people today. That's happening, right? But in heaven, they're quiet, wrong strategy. With people calm down. With heaven, cry out. Just make that switch. That's really, really the thing. When we speak, when we talk about speaking things out, you have to speak out with voice. Not Persian style, quiet. Nobody can hear you. Speak, speak and speak it loud. That's why his bodhidud is so important because you have to physically, you have to let the voice out. And what it does is it clears the mind and it opens up the heart. Very, very, very important. Sometimes you can scream at the word, Romanachemus says in the lesson 12, sometimes you can scream the word, "Ah yeah! Ah yeah means where are you got? Where are you? Where's your place of glory?" This is very, very important that a person should speak loudly because otherwise everything is just stuck. It just gets stuck in the head and then the heart stuck and then there you go. And then it just becomes a root cycle. So it's very important. Once a week you have to have a loud prayer with your creator who said this, "Ruf Cook says, if you go a couple of days without a very strong prayer, your heart will start to callus and start building like a rock." That's what happens. Three, four days without a strong prayer, your moods forget it. You have no, your heart actually, imagine like your heart needs constant, constant emunah in order to revitalize it. But if it doesn't, it becomes hard like a rock. It becomes hard like a rock. And what's needed, you need to penetrate the voice and that creates that. That is something that I have personal experience that I've seen. Why am I in such a moth? I haven't had, I really haven't had a good prayer two, three days. That's why. I'll schedule it, create the speech, clear the mind, new vitality, New reality, period. The new vitality must come before the new reality. Everything in life is one thing. It's all energy. And if you're not clearing these things, automatically happens. The process today of becoming free did not begin until people started crying out. This is why they were stuck in 200 over 200 years because there was no movement. There was no movement on the people and the same thing in heaven. The above mirrors the below, the above mirrors the below when there's a sense of urgency below and heaven the same thing. The moment the people cried out, that became the initiation for the salvation. When did they cry out? When paro died and in the funeral they had a day off. And that's when they realized what are we doing here? So sometimes we need a day off in life to realize sometimes you need to take a vacation to realize what you're going through because you're so stuck into it. You're in a bad relationship. You're so in a toxic relationship. Sometimes you need to take a break to realize how bad this situation is to cry out to God to save yourself. So breaks are always needed in life because sometimes you're so in it that you think that's the familiar and that's the reality. And you don't deserve better. And this is exactly what what what what Godless represents. So you do deserve better. You have a sense of you, but you have to speak it out. So you know what this can't be it. And that's where speech becomes it begins with bitterness, but it becomes with a raw desire for better in life. After you visualize after you work on getting rid of the voice and clarifying the mind, then the imaginations could start coming. Then the imagination and the visualization can take place. Because visualization is not taking place with the with the with the hard heart. It's not happening. The next stage is to visualize the reality you want to create yourself. Attempt to put it in detail image what I would it what you should focus on is being financially abundant. Being happily in a relationship. Being spiritually connected. Having energy to serve God. You know what that means being in great shape. So you know all of these things focus on the feeling of what it feels like right. We don't want to focus on the form at the time. But it's more importantly focused on the feeling of what that would look like. What would it be look like to to to to to be happily married right. What would it look like to to you know to be fulfilled in life. What would it be look like to have calm confidence. And then focus on that feeling right. That's why I always like a song. I think I gave you guys my my playlist right. My playlist. There's a good playlist with 15 18 songs very positive songs. Don't worry there's no J. Z or 99 problems and I need that stuff. It's it's the lift not the break. And this this playlist at least will keep you up. It doesn't you know it doesn't put you like a roller coaster up and down up and down. So it lifts the rule of music music. It's very good to link when you're going to when you want to visualize something like if I always tell people visualize the song when you're when you're going to. When you're when you're when you're walking down the aisle. Et cetera. Visualize the song visualize the song because emotion amplifies visualization music amplifies because music is a painkiller. So let you let you open up. Et cetera. So always always song is excellent. Even Robin Affleck says if you can't pray you know you should always I always do his brother do with music with music most of the times. And the third and the most important stage is to surrender and accept of what is and what will be the process of the paradox first you have to tell me what's bothering you're next thing you know you're imagining this. So it's a little bit like a paradox but yes it is that paradox you have to go into both worlds yes and I mean surrender yes is the reality. But you have to create a surrender to create new reality so you do have to create the reality we're always going to the reality to say this is where I'm accepting but I'm not accepting. But at the same time I'm surrendering you understand just like the same thing you can be happy and have a broken heart at the same time right just the same things you can be perfectly imperfect in life. So these two paradoxes in life are very important it's not one way or the other right so somebody asked me in a light you know how do we always become whole it's not it's not possible. You first you become broken and then after the brokenness comes a acceptance that this is what life is and you know I can accept both worlds right I could accept that could be in a perfect marriage but there's a lot of struggle in there right I can accept that you know working out is great but at the same time there's times where I'm going to be completely sore and etc. These two paradoxes work deep people can hold paradoxes you understand that's a good sign life where you can hold you can be in two worlds at the same time it's not one or the other that's where Robin happens is first when you have a broken heart joy follows joy follows versus set depression nothing follows afterwards that's the difference. And this is where the verse says I will lift my eyes to the mountain and ask me I in your voice read right I will lift my mind and ask me I am from where will it come from right because when we go me I in we go into we get the as we we get the help when you go to I in you get to this we also said the verse there is no muzzle aim muzzle in Israel right but what does that mean when I go to aim when I go to I in when I go to I in then I'm not affected by muzzle because I'm recreating myself I'm recreating myself and if you look at the word I in if you take the letter I in and you take the word one which is I in the 70 and all of is one. The vanishes I tell us what's the difference between 70 and one is 69 what is 69 is yeah going yeah going sadness like the all the sorrow is because we're two self centered and we don't want to surrender. You understand because you could spell or with an I in or you could spell or light with with an olive the big the gap of 69 is a person is not seeing everything for the best and surrendering to the ultimate goal that everything is one is the 69 that's the yeah going that's the that's the sorrow it's the self centeredness is not going is too much of the olive me and not going into the I in. See the difference not going into the surrender if you have if you need up surrendering there's a book called surrender. On Amazon by me and of all the titles that I've got to call my book because every at the end of the day it all goes back to surrender I mean everything at the end of the day he realized it goes back to surrender because the opposite of surrender is to control control is to fear and then when we're controlling then we can't we can't get to these things that's the problem without when you're controlling your fear you pretty much you have a garage with a you can only park a bike in there. Okay you have a huge 12 car garage and all you have space is for a bike luckily that's all you have there's no space for anything else to come in because you've already closed it because you want to control. So that's where this world is control control control control and that's where all the chaos is so shen wants us to realize. The more we have the more wisdom we have the more we can let go and the more we can like God and that's the key the more we know more we realize we don't know the more we're open to receive the more we give credit to the creator. The less we know the more we think we know the more closed off we are the more we think we know everything the more things go to the to sour so it's it's pretty much if you can change. If you can change in life it's you you're just going to you're going to get these issues and this is the difference between Hamid and Mata if you look at Hamid and Mata it's the difference is the hey. Mata represents I'm open I'm open I'm open to any possibility versus. It's closed off Hamid is closed off because it's self centered it rises you know you go rise this self esteem drops Mata is the opposite it's humble humility that's why Mata is the bread of faith. Zohar says when a person needs Mata it's a bread of faith you're eating a muna eating a muna Mata is what you're doing because it's it's it's there's no attachment. It's funny the word Mata also has the word Mata surrender right Mata has the word Mata three times for the right left and and center brain three times Mata is 135 Mata so it's also Mata surrender also when we ask the four questions Mata is the Mata what is this you know what we're always going back to Mata which is surrender surrender surrender surrender you want to see Mata is my license plates is Mata everything's Mata because we want non non attachment because as long as long as I have non attachment New realities can come you understand new realities can come most of the markets the singles market my people are very close minded to different things you know I told I went to LA I said guys you know you might have to try Shabbat one day what do you think is your Beverly Hills you accept from Shabbat you might have to try going to the mikfa to change it up you got crazy odds today you got 33% odds of succeeding marriages you think this is just you're going to just randomly going to rods today. You need, you need. something to hold you. You need to try different things and these things are not to hurt you. These things are to create an appetite, a spiritual appetite, which will decrease the physical appetite, which is the hungry ghost. And to the extent that we have a spiritual appetite, we decrease in the physical appetites, which is making us nuts today. What's making everybody crazy today, the physical appetites? That's what they don't have to handle anymore. It's only by giving, can you even survive in this world? So the same thing, spiritual altities are giving charity. You're cooling off the desires constant and you're seeking another, you're actually going in the other direction. So if you're going in the other direction, this other direction is satisfied. But if that direction becomes a satisfied, as long as Zohar tells you, the minute you will have one, you want two. The minute you have two, you want four. So you're already in your trapped in a hungry ghost. It's only when you go, the other direction, can you even handle those things. So today, if we don't have spirituality, what do you expect? What do you expect? Give a kid a candy and say, "Okay, I'm happy, I'm good." It wants two. That's the way God created the evil inclination. The minute you give it one, it wants to. It's the bottom line. Then that's the root of every, you think it addict says, "Oh, I'm okay now. I had my two odds." And the next thing you need is double to sustain what he had before. And it keeps on running and craving and craving until he crashes. But that's our reality today. So to the extent that we have spirituality and we have things, we were able to cool off this desire. Rabbi Nathin tells us, if you don't have, if it wasn't for charity, you couldn't survive because the burning lust for money is so bad. If you don't get charity, that's your air condition. Charity represents giving, giving raw. In fact, you're giving charity is allowing you, is like the fan in the computer. Okay, you have a computer? You have no fan. If it's not for the fan, you couldn't survive it because your souls are made for money. Our souls are made to crave money because Kesef, Kisufim, come from the same place in heaven. So you automatically have this craving. But if you don't have a relationship with it where you're able to cool it off and have other things going on in your life, more money, more problems. As Biggie says, we'll have to. But if you give charity, you'll have at least, that's why wealth, so you just tell us, wealth adds many friends or wealth adds many enemies. So the prayer should be that you, God should give you the prayer that wealth should have many friends. What do you mean wealth has many friends? Because through wealth, you can give charity, you can create peace, you can create goodness, you can help out people. So you'll have many enemies, many friends. The same thing. If wealth goes to your head, you come arrogant, you'll have many enemies. So how do you know your hands and wealth well? If you have a lot of enemies or if you have a lot of friends, that's how you know your relationship with wealth is. And that's it. And that's that simple. That's what we always want to pray that the wealth should bring you to many friends. I should be able to do good things with it. I should clear the air in life, etc. So the last step is really, really to go into nothingness, right? In order to become a vehicle for reckless, you have to manifest your new reality for yourself, not a behavior, an identity change, an identity change. And this is set, this nullifies on one level, right? We're practicing, we're practicing, gays, the reality, but at the same time, we have to go backwards. So what does that practically mean? I'm going to give you, see, he brings that beautiful, beautiful six steps to what is, I mean, okay? What is the same, I mean? And he says there's six steps of what I am is. I am also, when I want to go, create, go into I am, let's say you want to you want to get into a different level of shape, okay? You have to get out of your comforts on. Any time that I am going out of my comforts on, I'm going into I am going into I am going into this place of newness. As long as I'm comfortable, there is no surrender. You want to get to a certain level of health shape. You have to go, it's a different training. You have to go, yeah, it's not, you know, go there three, three reps, grab a smoothie, talk to your friends and see you later. That's not comforts on. That's not getting how you comforts on. It's putting yourself, hiring a trainer, putting, having somebody challenge you, putting yourself in a different level. Oh, so breaking number one is breaking your comforts on. If a person can't talk to God and all of a sudden he starts talking to God, it's hard for him. Bray, he broke his comforts on. It's very easy guys to pick up a book and read. Anybody could read a book and read. But go talk to God without a book. Go give a speech without notes, okay? It's the same thing. Get out of your comfort zone. Your comfort zone could be not giving charity. You want a miracle? You want to go into surrender? Now it's different between. That's why your sage is tell us it's better to give 100 people one dollar than to give just a hundred dollars because you want to get into a habit. I'm a giver. This is me. I'm a giver. This is why I say just tell us a person that does something a hundred one times is much greater than person does a hundred times. It's because the one or one is makes you break your comfort zone. Break your comfort zone. Giving a little more charity than you normally would give. That breaks your comfort zones. So this is not just something of this is where a new reality means I break my comfort zones. I break my comfort zone. You wake up early one day. You start printing. These are all forms of new identities created. This is all new identity when I started waking up early because I saw Israel was at war, you know, 15 years ago. It seems like a whole everybody's at word life. That became my new reality because I broke my comfort zone. So just ask yourself before you are you are you before you want a miracle are you out of your comfort zone? And if the answer is no, we can't go to high. That's not high. That's not that doesn't represent. Also for persons very controlling for them to let go is a miracle also, you know, that calls in somebody who's very, very controlling and for them to finally go that's all. So surrendering our perception of the number one step of iron is surrendering our perception of reality to the will of Hashem, including what we think we need and how when we need it, surrendering, just surrendering how we needed when we needed, etc. You know, the Bolshem to every single night he went to sleep with without one dollar. Okay? Because you know God would take care of him and he was in the place of no nothingness of complete potential. There was times where you could see rabbis in the Holocaust where every moment was a miracle traveling out of the Holocaust to Shanghai. You know, sometimes they there was moments that they showed miracles happen that they gave the guy Burkathama Zon book and the German thought guy thought it was a passport. Okay? There's even day is a picture. I forgot that I think it's a closing program. I can't remember which rabbi was, but I heard it's in Krasor and he has a picture of a Burkathama Zon with the passport of a with a stamp from the German government. Okay? That's no nothingness. Yeah, I have to I have to get the book. When you are in complete complete surrender where you have no idea and you're living on to that point of no nothingness. But that's where potential happens. So sometimes as much as we want to avoid this moment of complete newness or complete, like we're trying to avoid these moments because we're, you know, we need certainty in life. But you have to get to a place of where you have so much uncertainty where you can get to a place of I.N. where miracles happen. You understand the problem? It's like a catch 22. I don't want to be there because I want to be so certain because we'll do anything to have certainty, right? But that's not where really miracles happen. You have to get to a place where you are uncertain where there's no you have no idea what's going to happen. Then the miracle can actually happen. But at the same time who wants to go to the one-yard line, you know, it's a it's a scary place because either you, you know, swim or sink. But as long as you are into that place where the sea is going to be flooded, it's right in front of you and you have no idea what's going to happen and you have complete surrender. That's where the miracles happen. But you have to get to that place and that's what we all do today is we spend every effort to avoid that place. You understand? Society's telling you get to that's why when we say the gift of rock bottom, right? When you see a person who covered it, that's it. I have nowhere else to go. I have no money. The drugs are not doing anything for me anymore. Nothing's nothing's working for me anymore. Then he surrenders. That's how that's how the 12 steps will W came because he got to a place where he, I think he prayed to God if you want to save me, show me and he took him from like a rehab center to the top of a mountain and his dream. And that's how it happened to a place of no nothingness. That's what I'm talking to you. So just think about the places we always, we always want to we will do anything for safety, but safety is not giving you miracles. So this is where you have to really, really, you know, really feel connected and really understand that sometimes you have to go to the edge and then that's where the miracle happens. And this is very, it's very, it's very intense energy, but I'm telling you that's why I'm telling you that's why I'm telling you that I'm telling That's why I've seen the most miracles in my life. It has not happened at comfort zones. I don't remember what the miracle I had at a comfort zone. It all happened there. So first you got to put yourself in there and then you got to let go. The second step of iron is letting go of any attachments to outcomes and results, despite our dreaming, aspiring, imagining and praying for those outcomes. Remember that line? Letting go of any attachments to results. If anything, if anything, you should let go of attachments to results on the worst case scenario. You get it? See how that works? In fear, what do we do? We're always attached to the worst case scenario. See how you're using it, but you're using it the opposite way. Where you should focus on, if this is what you want to happen, I also want it to happen. Why I like David Hawkins teaching so much is because it teaches you this concept of letting go and surrendering. So to the point where you're going to disappear, okay, so I'll surrender everything. Because as long as you surrender everything, nothing can affect you anymore. If this person is threatening you for the divorce, if this person is doing all these things, okay, go, that's it. You might have to lose. You get it? But as long as you say no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, then you can't surrender. Because all of a sudden you have the fear and then they'll use it over and over again and you understand? They'll use that card over and you'll over and you'll, but as long as you say no problem, the doors will open. That's it. That's it. The game's over. As long as you have these fallen fears for people or situations, the game's over, you're still a prisoner to that. But as long as you have a place of, I'm accepting whatever situation is for the best, now you're free. And that person no longer has any effect on you or situation. That's why fears, you have to let them go, et cetera. Surrendering, so that's a surrender, letting go of any attachment to the outcomes or results. Surrendering all of our attachments to the objects of the age, of reality, relating to the sense of the more again, the more attached we are to something. You know, this is why you can't, but you can't marry a stuck. You have to know how to lose well and you have to know how to win well. But sometimes we're so emotionally connected to one's stuck and we marry the stuck, right? And we lose our, you know what, with our stuck. I used to marry stocks. And I'm, you can't marry them because your so, some of the stock decisions are too emotional. You understand? You know, a guy wants to marry the stock of blockbuster. Okay, he's going to go down with blockbuster. Okay, sometimes you have to know how to lose well. In life, you need, you know, how to win well and you need to know how to lose well. Okay? We lost well. It's fine. But if you don't, if you get emotional with things, sometimes you get very emotional with people and you have to say, you know what, that's the end of that situation. I can't marry the stuck, I can't marry the, you're marrying the drama. You're marrying the chaos. Sometimes you have to say, you know what, it's, this is not, you marry to an artist, you got it, that's it. Cut your losses. So that's also important that it doesn't have to be fixed with the, with sometimes with that specific person. You have to know how to lose well sometimes. There I can't express to you how important that is. That's why you always should be focusing on the concept of being happily in love. Who knows who it's with? Focus on that versus I have to be in love with this person who's completely nothing, the only thing good for you is the Instagram pictures for you. That's it. It looks good, but it's horrible for you. So this is where you have to, we get caught up in this Hollywood, you know, Hollywood garbage. And we have to be this way, it doesn't have to be this way. That's not real surrender. I'm giving you the mic, there's a Mickey Mouse surrender and there's a real surrender. The real surrender means I have non attachments, non attachments to anything. The third step of surrendering, surrendering all the attachments to objects of Yash, we just said that. So the first ones are perception of reality of how, how it's going to happen. The second is the attachments to the outcomes and results. The third is surrendering all the attachments of objects of Yash, like we just said. The fourth is letting go of a personal and ego need in the service of higher cause, asking not what we can gain from life, but what we can contribute to life. Will you getting the situation be good for the world? Yes or no? Where is the only good for you, you go? You understand? That's why I always focus on, sometimes the reason why we don't receive is because at the end of the day, it'll do more worse than better for you. You got it? If you're very stressed out with a hot dog stand and you can't handle it, your life is busy all day long with hot dogs. You won't open up a restaurant. That will kill you. If you can't handle a hot dog stand, you will not get open up a restaurant. It will actually be worse for you. Unless you know how to handle the hot dog stand with calmness and peace, then you'll get the restaurant. But if you're stressed with selling hot dogs, you will continue to sell hot dogs. I'm just telling you an example. You apply it to whatever you want in your life. You have to master the lower thing if you want the better thing in life. But if you don't master the lower thing, you don't get it right. If you can't handle dating and you're constantly flipping out and getting the press of every text message, then you're not ready for marriage. You have to clear the unworthiness and the attachments. Otherwise it won't come. And the fifth level is living with mercy or nephish, living with self-sacrifice. And the sixth step of iron is pushing ourselves beyond our comfort zones, breaking our nature, and living beyond to the extent that we're becoming a living miracle. That's the sixth step and really, really connecting to this letter of iron. The iron means that the deck has just reshuffled. Remember, muzzle, muzzle, come from this energy of newness, new reality. That's why they say, if you want to change your luck, change your deeds, change your name, or change your location. Sometimes you've got to change your location. We're wet. We're too much in yash, which is yash's reality. And we're not enough in surrendering. Men are too much in iron. Women are too much in yash. They have a hard time going to iron. They're too much in. Kapoolistically, it's like Kachman Bina. Men are too much into. Everything's going to be great, positive, etc. But they're not sometimes. There's a lack of a little reality. Lack of planning. Women are very into the opposite. They're too much into the details and not enough into the essence. So men are into the essence, not into the details, women are more into the details, not into the essence. So this is where they both need help. Women need to let go. Men need to take a little more responsibility. And not be too optimistic. Have a plan. So this is where this is. It's like A in personality, F in personality. F in personality. Everything's great. Relax. Things are going to be okay. A in personality. Everything's wrong. Okay? So you have to know how to meet in the middle and not have too much to one and not have too much to the other. Then you have symmetry. Then you have deferred, you have dark, you have this. And then chef of color. God bless everybody. Have a great day.