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Talking about love now. Is this love does not behave itself unseemingly? Seek it not her own. It's not easily proof of her anger. If you are truly walking in love, I don't care what your background is. You will not be easily angered. There are people who get angry very easily. Very easily. Brought how now? It's me. I'm 10 years older than you. I am pleased don't think that because me, on a very good day, would you be angry easily offended. You see, offense is a product of judging things from the lens of your own perception of yourself. When you judge things from a faulty perception, things will be interpreted from the lens of your own limitation. Offense. There will be occasion for offense in every relationship. From a marriage relationship, a business relationship, ministerial relationship, you must make up your mind as a choice. That the blessings that I seek to receive from the relationships God is bringing in my life is greater than any offense. Offense destroys. You see, when you are offended, one of the many ways you act is speech. And every time you speak with a heart of offense, usually, the whole spirit is not in charge of that conversation. You will talk in the flesh. You can make it mens that you can always draw again. Many people have lost precious relationships because if they were elite to temperors, they would have regained it. Many people have lost business opportunities because of that. Offense. It's an advice. It's an encouragement. The Bible says one of the signs that characterise the end of this is that many shall be offended. Let me tell you, you are not a true human being. If you wake up and in 24 hours, there is no reason for offense, especially if you are a leader. People do things that should get me offended every day. I do things that should get people offended every day. An example is what I'm teaching now. Are we together now? There are things that get people offended. You must make up your mind that I will not be offended. How many men of God get offended and they can't reach? They get offended at home. They come and climb the stage and you know that that preaching is a lashing down of something that happened between them and their wives and their children. The kind of examples they are giving are not relevant to any other member or less their family. So you know that this is a, this guy is just talking to his wife or the neighbor or the worker using the puppet. Offense makes you small. Offense makes you cheap. Offense reduces your worth. Let me tell you something about offense. Most of those who offend you, they know they offended you. The goal is that their joy is in your reaction. Most of those who offend, offend intentionally. But when you grow up with it, you demonstrate that you are living at a higher level of living. After this service now, on your way home, an angry driver, an angry woman, something will happen that will offend you. Or you must make up your mind as a satan you are a liar. I already see your hand. I will not be offended. Say in the name of Jesus, I reject offense. His God speaking to us, how do we maintain relationships? Practice forgiveness. March 11 was 25. Then efficient 432. Please give it to us. Mark 1125. I don't know one relationship, including the one of you and God that can thrive without forgiveness. It's not God you are forgiving. God is forgiving you all the time. Because there are people who are really angry with God. Okay, forgive me. God, let's get back into the relationship. And when he stands praying, most prayer warriors, mystics, let me tell you why there is a hardship in people's prayer lives. And when he stands praying, what is the rule? Forgive. Come on. If you have not against any, that your father in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. It's amazing how we pile up people in our hearts. Some of us have physical books. Like police reports, when you write this, she starts saying embarrassment, some laugh in that way. Pastor Alpha shouted at me the other day when he was preaching and you write everything. Protocol department. Their own stars, stars, stars. They offended me. Oshas, I was falling before everybody and they were watching me. I injured myself and you write it down. When you leave everything as a father, don't you know that I'm human and God says really? It's like a small child that begs you for something then you give him a say give a 10 million views. That's exactly what we do. You can never live in this life without forgiveness. What is forgiveness? Forgiveness is giving. It is giving pardon and messy forgiveness. A disposition where you are ready to let go even before the offense happens. Forgiveness. Forgiveness is a dimension of giving. If you are not a forgiver, you are not a giver. Not forgiv it is one way of manifesting greed. It's not just refusing seed forgiveness. But let me balance very quickly. You don't forgive just to make peace. Forgiv into make peace is one of the benefits of forgiveness. But the primary purpose of forgiveness is to release you so you can move forward because there are times the people you forgive are still not ready to receive it. Let me be very honest and let me balance. Forgiveness is only useful when there is repentance, a willingness to turn away. Forgiveness is useless to the person you are forgiving if there is no repentance. It is useful to you. Let me show you what offense does. Can I use someone to please come? Watch this. This is what offense does. I want to move forward but I think some is standing my way and so I'm trying to push him. Will I move forward holding him? I'm trying to hold some. I can move forward myself. This is what forgiveness is. He can be there not even deserving it but I'm releasing him so that I can move forward. I can leave him and he's troubled there. If he accepts that he is wrong and turns then we make peace and we can walk together. If he refuses I still forgive so that I can move forward. Let me tell you the most wounded in the refusal to forgive is the offender or the offender. The person who was offender is the one who is most wounded. It is painful that the person who who offendered is not even aware and plans to do it again because it was a product of mindset. So your assignment is to have a disposition where you forgive. As a leader, people will offend you every day. People will do wrong things every day. You must forgive. Say, "Let go everyone." 'I am holding in my hands. Holding people. Holding me your heart. I will never forgive my mother except Ahmadi, I have said my own. And you can never receive blessings. I will never forgive my father. For what my father has done. If I have a knife I will kill him by myself and say, "Daddy die. I am doing killing you." I will never forgive that person who raped me when I was four years old. I will never forgive that what they call it now. That brother who went out with me and broke and scattered my heart. Please forgive so that you can move forward. Forgiv so that you can move forward. Turn it into prayer in one minute. Lord I am tired of holding people. I release right now. I let go that boss in the name of Jesus. I release my husband. I release my wife. I release my coworker. I release my business partner. I release the man of God. I release my head of department. I release my escorts. I release the members in my department. I release Joshua Selman. Make sure you pray. I release everyone who has offended me. Because I want to move forward. I want to move forward. Hallelujah. He says, "And be kind one to another tender hearted. Forgivin one another even as God for Christ's sick. Forgive us. Very quickly. Ephesians chapter 4 verse 32. Okay. Ephesians 4 verse 32 is there. And then give us look chapter 6 verse 37. Look 6 37. Let's hurry up. Look 6 37. Look chapter 6 verse 37. He says, George not. And he shall not be George. In other words, every time you judge people, you ask scheduling seasons for yourself. Condemn not. And he shall not be condemned. Forgive. And he shall be forgiven. Make sure you practice this. How do I make quality relationships be tolerant? Forgiveness is different from tolerance. Forgiveness is somebody's shortcomings that he hopefully will adjust from it. Tolerance is somebody's personality or a default belief system that may not change. You have to incorporate it as part of that person's living. There are people I wish I would tell you everybody around you will change. There are people who will not change. So you switch from forgiveness to tolerance. You accommodate that limitation in their life. Factor it and build the system around it. It's God speaking to us. Yes. I have many friends, all kinds of friends. And just like me, they're very funny people. Everybody has all kinds of attributes. The same way I am to them too. But it takes tolerance. There are some things in me unfortunately may not change tolerance. You don't you can I like everybody around me to talk. But I don't talk. You don't need forgiveness. What do you need? Or you talk too much. I just ask you a question. Where is where is my trouser? Is it your own? I can ask you about what happened. Where is my trouser? Please tolerance. Your destiny help her may be a talkative. If you are tolerant to the talkative, then you receive the breakthrough. Everybody in your life cannot be you and cannot be like you. If everybody was like me, the world would be a terrible place. You would think the world would be a nice place. No. You don't want to know some of the boring aspects of my life. This world will be a sad place. You will only be studying and reading and sleeping water world. I am so happy for people who are not me. They are flavor. I benefit from the joy of them not be me. You must have a high degree of tolerance. Colossians chapter 3. Please help us 12 and 13. Colossians chapter 3 is called for parents. You must tolerate people. Put on dear for as the elect of God. Holy and below. Bowels of mercy. Piedness humbleness of mine. Meetness long suffering. 13. For bearing one another and for giving one another. If anyone have a quarterly gains any even as Christ forgave. So also doing for bearing one another. You have business partners. You need for parents. Are we together? You are in your office working. You need for parents in a ministry like this. Everybody cannot be you brothers and sisters. Lift your voice. Say it again in the name of Jesus. From today I declare that the spirit of offense will never find expression in my life. Lift your voice and begin to pray. Listen, pray, pray, shout out, sing. Say, pray, pray, shout out, sing. No I speak with tons of men and of angels and I have not loved. Is this I am nothing. No offense. No offense. No offense. In the name of the Lord Jesus. Every person who has offended me. I release them. Is painful but pray. Is painful but pray. Release your father. Release your mother. Pray. Pray. You make my word. Pray. I finally release my roommates. I release that pastor. I release that church. I release that ministry. 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'Is devilish to rejoice over the downfall of somebody you love.' 'God is a god of judgment but is a god of love.' Are we together? No anger, no revenge. Some of us who know that there are people here planning after coinonya. They even go home. They want to brand someone while flogging out something. No. Revenge is for fools. It's vengeance is mine. Say it the Lord. It's not yours. Are we together? Are we together? I like you to pray. You are going to ask the Lord to baptize you with the fresh love for people. Not just people you know, people that you develop and in love and a sense of sympathy. That like Jesus you can look at people like sheep without a shepherd. Lift your voice and pray. Pray, Lord, compassion for people. Pass those prayers. People, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people. People, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people, people. [Music] Listen, please listen, we're praying. I want to speak to every leader here. Never use people. Love them and build people. Are we together? Don't use people and climb them like ladders to be relevant. It's demonic. I'm speaking to every pastor here and many who will be listening online. There are many pastors who are weekend. They climb members like ladders. Many pastors don't love their congregation. A good shepherd lays down his life for his sheep. Many husbands are selfish and self-centered to help with their family for as long as it does not affect them. Many wives are selfish and self-centered. The children will rather not go to school for you to buy a new lease. That's self-centeredness. Many relationships are self-centered because they have to do with people who are always thinking myself. That's an expert point. Not kill selfishness. And I want you to receive it. Brothers and sisters, you will step into levels of their 19 if you keep offense far from you. Don't hear this thing. I'm telling you and then should realize it. And don't let anybody tell you this is this is food for babes. You are joking. You are joking. When you rise in the spirit, you will find out that this is solid food. It can rob men of their dignity. It authorizes Satan to destroy men. I pray for you from the depth of my heart. That every spirit of unforgiveness and every spirit of revenge that is it till you apply a cancer and stop you from manifesting and becoming all that God has destined for you to be. A commander's spirit will live your life forever. In the name of Jesus Christ. Whatever offense has taken from you, some of you have lost relationships. Very good relationships that you may never get that kind again. I'm not talking of love relationships. Good will mean in full relationships with people just because of weakness is here and there. You must have lost opportunities. God brought valuable people into your life. But because of offense. Listen, I want you to learn tonight that it is not all about you. Are we together? Ladies, am I talking to you? You have to learn this. I don't know who are those preaching all these rubbish messages all around and making ladies feel it is all about you. No, it's not all about you. It is about you. But it's not all about you. Are we together? So that attitude that makes you live in a kingdom where everything must happen at your times. The moment your times are compromised, you are angry. You are living in an illusion. It's children that live in that world. Are we together? I pray for you. The grace to be selfless. To also consider the pain of others. To also consider how your decisions affect others. I release it upon you in the name of Jesus. I pray for you. Those are first why easy to begin to hate people. Just one little statement. You find out that you are struggling with hatred. It's like you are almost a sadist. You can't find joy in anything. The lifespan of your relationship with people is not more than two weeks. Something must come and you will fall to it. I separate you from that kind of life from today. In the name of Jesus. And I command healing for people here who have been so hot. I'm not denying the fact that when people offend you, it can be painful. Many of you have carried these rooms for years. Tonight in the name of Jesus, as I pray for you, that wound must heal right now. I don't know who I said what against you or about you or towards you. You so resent the person, the moment you see the person, there is this arousal of anger. Let it die tonight in the name of Jesus. I release upon you the courage to make peace. The courage to make peace. The courage to go out of your way and make peace. And I pray for you. The relationships you lost, I call them back into your life. The opportunities you lost, I call them back into your life. The anointings and the graces and the dimensions of prayer and work with God. You used to fellowship with that offense brought you down and you announced so canal. As if you never worked in that level of power. I command the restoration for you. Every prayer life that has died, you are a result of offense. The moment you go to pray, the devil brings memories of pain and you can pray. You are there three hours where you are not saying anything. Be free from it tonight. Closely related to the spirit of offense, there are many of us there is spirit upon us. If you don't go see if you cannot sleep, it's not that you don't want to get something in you. If you don't want to sleep, you cannot sleep. Are we together? There are some of us you want access to wealth. You want access to organizations and corporations, but your mouth, gossiping, bad biting. It's like you have the sense of sarcasm. You always see something wrong in everything. It's a bittersweet. Five minutes into your conversation, you are talking about somebody. What you are saying may be right, but do you not have anything better with your life? I like you to give one minute and see praying for you. Or I like you to pray and say, "Lord, this spirit of gossip, this spirit that makes me dash down my reputation." "Let it leave my life." "It has not profited me. Lift your voice and pray." God, stop trusting you with information about men's life. You use to operate in the prophetic, but everything you see you say. You don't know what is said, "Boo!" is not worthy of this spoken. Pray, our mouths have ensnared many of us. You are so in seeds of discord. Pray, "Boo!" You are cap- information that I hear. NGTV 20 people it must leave tonight. Alain Ulla. The last prayer point I'll pray for you before I make the altar call. It's that in the name of Jesus Christ the son of the living God.