#53 Nem tudok hazudni… és te? - I can't lie... can you? - B1

Hello, I'm Csilla and this is the podcast of PlainHungary, the topic of today is "Hasugshag". I will talk about personal stories, about the subject of friendship, about when and why we are home, and why friendship is important, especially with us. If you would like to read the episode, learn new languages, understand the language, and surely speak Hungarian, check out the club. You can find the link in the bottom left corner of the podcast. I do not love you, and I really can't say "Hasugni", but I am happy about it. But I agree with the word "hazugshag". The word "hazugshag" is when we are a little home, because we don't want to hurt others. We don't want the other person to be sad, we don't want anyone to say anything wrong. So, I think it is okay to have this kind of friendship. For example, when we have to buy a ticket for someone, and you have to buy something, so that you don't hurt anyone. Or when someone asks you what has happened to your new fridge, and you say that it's okay, but it's not okay. But it's not impossible, really. If I have a good friend, then I will tell him the whole truth. That's his opinion, if he asks, but only nicely. If he is not a close friend, then I can't tell him that he is okay, but I don't think it's serious. Really, the real Hazugshag can also be useful in many cases. But I'm sorry, I can't use it. Because I don't know why, I always see my face as what I think. I don't have to say anything, people know what I think. So that's why I don't try with Hazugshag. I think it's easier to live with Hazugshag than with Hazugshag. We don't have to explain who we are. We also have a saying that Hazugshag is good for your memory, and that means that when you go home, you need good memories so that you don't have to say anything. I heard that a teacher didn't want to go to the clock, or she said that there is a clock, and therefore he said something to the students, whether it's good or bad. Well, for example, I never do it. I clean the other person, I also wait for this cleaning, and I never think about why I have to say a clock. But by the way, I don't usually say the clock without reason, I'm just stupid, or something very big, and luckily it's very rare. The years were probably two times that I didn't say a clock without reason. There are some words related to Hazugshag. One of them is more famous, that Hazug is a person who stays longer than the dog. So if someone stays longer, it's very rare. I thought about what things there are in life that the society, capitalism, or politics have against us, but they are not true in reality. One of them is that a good person is always kind, friendly and obedient, that he can't be angry, angry or angry, that he can't say a word, that he needs to get rid of the conflict. I think it's very important, that if something doesn't like it, if something doesn't like it, then we can say no. And to confront someone doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing. Maybe it's a good thing to be angry. Maybe we can be good at fighting, and at the end we can understand each other better. That's also in the people's minds of life, that if you work hard, then you will definitely be successful. This is not the case in Baromira. Of course, it's important to be honest and to be honest, but many times the connections, the luck, the family background count a lot. And it is also connected that only then can you have a good day, if you did a lot of things, if you were productive, if you had a lot of responsibilities. And the luck, the connections, the luck is equally important. And there is also a saying, that time is money. That's also what I think, that if you are not productive, if you don't make money, then you just wasted your time. I think that time is worth it for you, and you have to work hard. Besides, I think that the most people really live when they don't work. And the classic thing, that capitalism, advertising and the money, is that we buy more things every day, we will be happier than that. And yes, there are good things, you can be proud of them, but I am sure that the real happiness is not the business, but the connections, the family, friends, the social life. These are the things that make us happy and happy. It may be a good thing to buy something, but this happiness doesn't last long. But the family is also involved with a terrible incident, that they say that the family is poor, you have to stay together if you are not good, if you are poor. I really don't know how to describe this, but I didn't have a good relationship with my mother, and when I was 17 years old, many people said that well, then you are also my mother, or that even if you are poor, you still have to love me. I was very busy, but then I realized that this is not my fault, and it was a good thought to make up for it. And what I feel very strongly now, in politics, we are convinced that only we and they are there, one or the other side, and if someone likes the other political party, then we can no longer be friends. I don't think this is good at all, because we can't talk about it, and we can still be good friends that we believe in another political party. So I thought about these things, and I am curious what you think. Meanwhile, a personal story came into my mind, that a few years ago I saw in the picture a huge square, or it was not as big as me. I don't know why, but I liked it very much. We bought some food with my father, and I told him that I want to buy this food for myself. The food is a luxury. This is funny, because all kinds of food, pandas, dolphins or anything, we call all kinds of food. So, there was this huge food, and then there was a real food. And I decided to buy it. We are the minimalistic people with my father, we don't buy any type of food, but I felt the same way. Every kind of food needs a kind of food. My father saw that I decided to buy it, so he told me to buy it for myself. At the end of the shopping, we went to pay for the money, when we found something to eat, the security wanted to order. Ordering meant that he wanted to talk to us about something, that we didn't ask and we didn't want. He said that there is a place for security, and that a security guard can help us. I came to him, thinking that he would be our son's father, if he was soon going to be a father, and that's why we bought the food. Luckily, my father reacted quickly and that's when the food was ready. We took him out of the security, we didn't get any security. The food I think is very important, is that we never go home by ourselves. Let's go out and say that if we are afraid of something, or if someone has hurt us, or if we don't want to do anything anymore. These are very important to us, and not to do anything else. This was today's episode, I hope you liked it. In the comments, do you think home is a good thing, or what is the thing, that politics, society, capitalism, or the media say, but you don't believe it anymore. Thank you for sharing the podcast with your Hungarian friends. If you want to learn with me, come to the club. Bye!