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#497 - Get Past ANY Gatekeeper with This Proven Cold Call Script

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#497 - Get Past ANY Gatekeeper with This Proven Cold Call Script

Cold calling is increasingly ineffective due to low reply rates and gatekeeper resistance, requiring a shift toward relationship-based, warm outreach. The approach emphasizes acting like an "important person" rather than a sales prospect—using confidence, urgency, and minimal information to bypass gatekeepers. Sam McKenna’s success with LinkedIn-based social selling proves that leveraging network data and warm introductions leads to better access than cold calls. A three-step "triple bypass" method—first asking to be connected (slide-by), then providing context (e.g., a recent event or article), and finally using social proof (e.g., working with similar firms)—builds credibility without pitching. Key to success is maintaining a confident, controlled tone, ending each interaction with a question to assert control. If gatekeepers persistently block, alternative strategies like calling mobile numbers, contacting during off-hours, or switching to email, LinkedIn, or referrals should be used. Ultimately, the most efficient path is to avoid unproductive gatekeepers altogether and focus on network-driven, warm introductions, which dramatically improve conversion rates and reduce wasted effort.

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Sellers cold outpound socks for both you and your prospect. It takes an insane amount of effort. Reply rates are in the tank and you are fishing in the same pond as everybody else. I literally wrote a book on cold calling, but Sam McKenna, who's the CEO of #SamSales, completely changed my mind about what I thought social-selling and great outbound prospecting is. Sam literally has broken 13 national sales records. She was recruited by LinkedIn because she was so good at LinkedIn sales navigator and she built her business from scratch into a multi-million dollar business using exactly what she teaches in her social-selling course that she built in partnership with 30MPC. Go to 30MPC.com/Sam and her new course teaches you how to use relationship data and your network's network to get warm introductions into your dream accounts that would never answer your cold call, respond to your cold email, or open the gift that you sent to their office. If you go to 30MPC.com/Sam, we are giving away all of Sam's favorite LinkedIn sales now, reports, alerts, and scripts that you can use to break into more accounts with less effort. Most salespeople have been lied to about how to actually get past gatekeepers. If you are still trying to be friend gatekeepers or sell the value of your product to them, you're just begging to get shut down. So in this video, I'm going to teach you how you should be acting so that they assume you should get put through to their boss. And then I'm going to teach you an exact three-step script what to say that you get you passed even the toughest ones. Frankly, there are still some unpassible gatekeepers, and I'll teach you what to do if you can't get passed a really, really tough one. So let's dive into this thing. So in order to understand how to actually get past the gatekeeper, you've got to understand that they actually have two jobs. Job number one is the one that we experience as salespeople all the time, which is to close the gate on strangers. Their job is to not let salespeople and strangers through. Job number two, however, is the opposite of that, which is to open the gate and put through important people who do belong. And so the strategy I'm going to talk through is you're going to act in a way and you're going to say things that make it seem like you're in category number two to the point that they don't question you and they just put you through. One big caveat on all of this is you should never lie to the gatekeeper. Being in sales might work in the short term, in the long term, it is 100% going to bite you in the ass. And so the three rules of the gatekeeper are never lie to them. Never try to pitch them and also don't try to befriend them. Your job is to make them do their job, which is to open the gate and get you to where you're looking to go. And so you have to make them think that you are someone who were important who they should not be getting in the way of the analogy that I'll frequently use when I'm teaching this to salespeople is I live pretty close to downtown LA. And there's a ton of massive high rise buildings down there. If the owner of one of those massive high rise buildings went to go visit one of his properties, he would not walk in and timidly approach the front desk with his ID card. He would just walk right into the elevator. But if he did get stopped by the door man, he wouldn't stammer and sweat and start explaining his entire life story in the full itinerary for his visit. He would literally just say, I'm the owner of the building. And if the door man still pressed him, fine, he would show his ID, but that's only when he gets pushed. He's not proactively showing up and like explaining his full life story. Today's show is brought to you by Proposify, the Proposal Management Software Design to make every deal a closed deal. When you send a proposal to a prospect, include a video of yourself walking through the proposal because it's going to be shared with stakeholders beyond just your champion, you want to make it easy for those other people to digest and you want to be able to control the narrative with your presentation and bonus, Proposify Data shows that when buyers watch the video, it increases your chances of winning by over three acts. So do not let your proposals become a disappointing plot twist, get our Proposal Success Guide free in the show notes. Today's show is brought to you by Responsive, which helps sales teams respond to RFPs, security questionnaires, and buyer requests faster so deals don't die at the last mile. One great way to drive your deals faster is to run parallel processes instead of linear processes. For example, in vendor review, work with your buyer to kick off legal security and procurement review simultaneously instead of doing them one by one sequentially. We built a playbook with our friends at Responsive on different proposal accelerators that you can use to close deals faster, grab it in the show notes. You have to give the exact same energy when you're trying to get past a gatekeeper. You have to act like you own the place. The owner of the building would never try to sell the value of his visit or waste access time befriending the door man. He's important and he's on a mission and he is not to be interrupted. And that is the demeanor that you need to channel when you're trying to get past the gatekeeper. Don't get me wrong, the words matter and we're going to talk about those in a second. But if your energy is wrong here, you are going to get shut down literally everything that you say and the way that you sound should make them think damn I better get out of this person's way or else my boss is going to be pissed. And so with that energy channeled inside of you, let's actually talk about the words that you're going to say and the three parts script that should be matching that demeanor. So remember, the building owner is not explaining his life story or the full plan for his visit. He is sharing the minimum information needed to get where he's trying to go. And so we're going to take this same approach with this script here. The more information that you share with a gatekeeper, the more you draw attention to the fact that you don't really belong. And so the approach that we're going to use is called the triple bypass method where you're going to dose information to the gatekeeper bit by bit and only when they press you. And so you're going to get three tries in the triple bypass method. I'll go through them high level and then we'll break each one down and I'll actually give some voiceovers up them. So the first try is called the slide by when they answer, you're literally just going to ask to be put through and give nothing else. If that try doesn't work, you'll move on to the context. So if they stop you, you're going to share context for why you're calling nothing about your product or company. If that one doesn't work, instead of leaning on a pitch, again, you're going to lean on the social proof to explain what you do as opposed to a product pitch. So with that said, you've got three tries. Let's actually break each one down in depth. So the first try that you get in the triple bypass method is called the slide by all you're going to do is when the gatekeeper answers the phone, you're just going to ask to be put through. So gatekeeper answers and they go, hello, Mike Jones office. You're just going to say, hey, could you get me over to Mike? It's Nick. Hey, could you get me over to Emma? It's Nick. Hey, could you connect me with Dave? Who in here is, I'm not saying my last name, I'm not saying his last name, because if I actually know somebody, if I'm important, I don't need to say, hey, could you connect me with Mike Jones? It's Nick Sugelski. Mike and I know each other. When you send a proposal to a prospect, include a video of yourself walking through the proposal, because it's going to be shared with stakeholders beyond just your champion. You want to make it easy for those other people to digest and you want to be able to control the narrative with your presentation, and bonus Proposify data shows that when buyers watch the video, it increases your chances of winning by over three acts. So do not let your proposals become a disappointing plot twist. Get our proposal success guide free in the show notes. At least that's the vibe I'm trying to give off. I'm also not mentioning my company name. If I say, "Hey, this is Nick Siegelski with 30 minutes to president's club. Could you please connect me with Mike Jones?" That just screams and smells sales person and it's going to get you shut down. So when you use the slide by, you'll get through a decent amount. But if they push back and they say something like, "Well, what's this regarding?" That means that your first try, the slide by has failed, and you have to move now to try too, which is the context. So when you get push back after the slide by the biggest mistake sales people make is they'll start to reveal their company name or their product name or they might even start to try to sell the value of why they called. All of those are mistakes because at this point, the gatekeeper is on high alert for anything that smells like you don't belong. And so instead of sharing that information, which you're going to do is you're actually going to lean on the context of what Romp did you to call in the first place. So if I'm selling the law firms, I might say something like, "It's about the press release for the new office that just opened in Rochester. Could you let him know it's Nick?" Or if I'm selling the marketers, I might say something like, "Yeah, it's about the interview he just did on CNBC. Is Dave not in today?" And for a health benefits company that I work with that sells to multiple different franchises, they'll say something like, "I work with a couple other visiting angels franchises. Would you give them a heads up? It's Nick Sigelsky calling." And so you'll notice two things in my demeanor here. One, I'm trying to come across a little bit gruff and a little bit rushed. I basically want them thinking, "Ah, let me get out of this person's way. They know where they're going." And what I'm also doing is you'll notice all of those examples I gave ended with a question. A general rule in sales is that the person asking the questions is the person in control of the conversation. And when you're talking to a gatekeeper, you want to be in control, not them. So finish with a question every single time. Would you give her a heads up? It's Nick Sigelsky calling. Would you let him know it's Nick? Is he not in today? Those are statements you can use at the end of your answers to their questions. Now, the toughest gatekeepers are still going to push you for more even if you nailed those first two tries of the slide-by in the context. At this point, they're usually going to say something like, "I'm going to need to see if he's available. What company are you with?" And so at this point, you kind of have to reveal what you actually do. But instead of just telling them your company name or trying to pitch them at this point, instead, you're going to lean on social proof. as your last ditch effort. So I'll give you a couple examples here. So if I'm selling billing software to law firms, I might say something like we work with a few other Buffalo firms on their client insurer billing, it's banana billing. I actually sent them a note the other day, would you mind giving me a heads-up it's Nick? For the health insurance example I gave earlier, we might say something like we work with a few other homecares and PA on their ACA compliance and benefits. It's it's viable that I actually emailed them the other day, would you give them a heads-up it's Nick calling? Obviously these two examples assume that you sent that prospect to note the other day, but what I'm trying to do is lean on the fact that we work with people like them and briefly tease what we help those people with. And then again put the pressure on them to be like, "Hey, couldn't you give them a heads-up it's Nick?" Today's show is brought to you by Proposify the Proposal Management Software Design to make every deal a close deal. When you send a proposal to a prospect, include a video of yourself walking through the proposal because it's going to be shared with stakeholders beyond just your champion. You want to make it easy for those other people to digest and you want to be able to control the narrative with your presentation. And bonus, Proposify Data shows that when buyers watch the video, it increases your chances of winning by over three acts. Today's show is brought to you by Responsive, which help sales teams respond to RFPs, security questionnaires, and buyer requests faster so deals don't die at the last mile. Obviously, these ones assume that you have sent them a note at some point the other day that could have been three weeks ago, that could have been a month ago, that could have been yesterday, but I don't advocate for lying to the gatekeeper at all. And so if you still get shut down here at this point, it is okay to toss in the towel and just ask to leave a voicemail for your prospect. The unfortunate reality of gatekeepers is that a lot of them you're just never going to get passed. Gone data shows that a gatekeeper reduces the success of a cold call by 39%. Now, if you've gotten shut down by a gatekeeper one or two times, I don't recommend continuing to call that line and trying to get blood from a stone. You are frankly better off at this point if you've gotten shut down a couple times, avoiding that gatekeeper entirely. There's a couple different strategies that I would recommend to get around the gatekeeper as opposed to trying to go through them. The first is call mobile numbers. The gatekeepers not gonna answer their iPhone for them, so see if you can find another number for them. Number two would be call during off hours. The CIO that you're calling probably works longer hours than their gatekeeper. And so I would recommend trying calling earlier in the morning during the lunch hour or even after five o'clock sometimes. And then the last one would be try a different channel because frankly, the phone isn't right for every prospect. If you keep getting shut down, try email, try LinkedIn, try direct mail, try getting a referral, try visiting their office. I used to do drop-ins all the time when I sold for law firms. So if the phone isn't working, don't keep trying to get blood from a stone. You've got to respect the law of diminishing returns. So give this a shot on your next round of cold calls and watch how many more gatekeepers open that gate for you and wave you through. And if you want more cold calling best practices, we actually put together an entire 30 minutes to president's club course, cold calls to president's club that breaks down step by step what to do, what to say, and how to sound in every single scenario that you could cover on a cold call. What to say when you get hit with not interested, how to open your cold calls, how to pitch in a way that gets your buyer to sit up and say, you know what? I would like to learn more. What types of voicemails you should leave, etc, etc, etc. So there's a link in the description. Give that one a look. And thanks for watching my video. See you next time. When you send a proposal to a prospect, include a video of yourself walking through the proposal, because it's going to be shared with stakeholders beyond just your champion, you want to make it easy for those other people to digest, and you want to be able to control the narrative with your presentation. And bonus proposify data shows that when buyers watch the video, it increases your chances of winning by over three acts. Today's show is brought to you by Responsive, which helps sales teams respond to RFPs, security questionnaires, and buyer requests faster. So deals don't die at the last mile. We built a playbook with our friends at Responsive on different proposal accelerators that you can use to close deals faster. Grab it in the show notes.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Traditional cold calling is ineffective due to low reply rates and widespread competition, making it essential to use smarter, relationship-driven outreach.
  2. Sam McKenna’s success in social-selling demonstrates that leveraging network data and warm introductions can bypass gatekeepers who block cold calls.
  3. Gatekeepers have two roles
  4. The three-step "triple bypass" method—slide-by, context, and social proof—builds credibility without pitching, allowing sales reps to gain access with minimal information.
  5. Energy and tone are critical
  6. Never lie to gatekeepers or try to befriend them—only use truthful, context-based information to prove legitimacy and urgency.
  7. If a gatekeeper persists in blocking, shift tactics by calling mobile numbers, reaching out during off-hours, or using alternative channels like email or LinkedIn.
  8. The long-term strategy is to avoid persistent gatekeepers, as they reduce cold call success by 39%, and instead focus on warm, network-based outreach.

Summary:

Cold calling is increasingly ineffective due to low reply rates and gatekeeper resistance, requiring a shift toward relationship-based, warm outreach. The approach emphasizes acting like an "important person" rather than a sales prospect—using confidence, urgency, and minimal information to bypass gatekeepers. Sam McKenna’s success with LinkedIn-based social selling proves that leveraging network data and warm introductions leads to better access than cold calls.

, working with similar firms)—builds credibility without pitching. Key to success is maintaining a confident, controlled tone, ending each interaction with a question to assert control. If gatekeepers persistently block, alternative strategies like calling mobile numbers, contacting during off-hours, or switching to email, LinkedIn, or referrals should be used.

Ultimately, the most efficient path is to avoid unproductive gatekeepers altogether and focus on network-driven, warm introductions, which dramatically improve conversion rates and reduce wasted effort.

FAQs

You should act like you're important and belong, using a confident, assertive energy that makes the gatekeeper think you're someone who should be given access without delay.

It's a three-step script where you share minimal information only when pressed. The first try is a simple 'connect me' request, the second adds context, and the third uses social proof to establish credibility.

Sharing your company or product name signals that you're a salesperson, which makes the gatekeeper suspicious. Instead, focus on context and social proof to appear legitimate and valuable.

You should provide relevant context, such as a recent event or connection, like 'It's about the press release for the new office that just opened in Rochester.'

You can ask to leave a voicemail for the prospect, as it's often impossible to get past very tough gatekeepers, and continued attempts may waste effort.

Try calling mobile numbers, reach out during off-hours, switch to email, LinkedIn, direct mail, or use a referral to bypass the gatekeeper entirely.

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