2 Nuclear Attraction Building Techniques: CR & RCR (With Word for Word Templates)
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The podcast episode, hosted by Mark Sing of the "Unapologetic Man Podcast," focuses on solving a common male dating problem: running out of things to say to women. The host argues that this fear often prevents men from approaching women, but he offers a simple yet powerful technique to spike attraction instantly: cold reading (CR). Cold reading involves making intuitive, assumptive statements about a woman based on limited evidence, making her feel understood and impressed by the man's perceptiveness. He provides a core template—"one way of you is this way, the other way is that way"—with examples like describing a woman as sweet on the surface but tough deep down, or vice versa, depending on her initial attitude. A key feature is that if she disagrees, the man can use her pushback as confirmation of his read, making the technique nearly foolproof. The host also introduces reverse cold reading (RCR), a more advanced tactic where the man deliberately says something he knows is false—such as criticizing littering in front of an environmentally conscious hippie—to bait her into qualifying herself by explaining her values and personality. This shifts the dynamic to her selling herself, increasing attraction. The episode stresses relentless practice, even on strangers or friends, and integrating these techniques into conversations rather than overthinking placement. Ultimately, the host claims that combining CR, RCR, and other pillars of attraction can lead to phone numbers that stick and successful dates, while promoting his three-month coaching program for deeper psychological transformation.
Now one of the biggest problems I hear from guys is that they run out of things to talk about they don't know what to say It's one of the biggest reasons guys talk themselves out of actually approaching a woman because they always say to themselves What I don't know what to say. I don't know what to talk about. I don't know what she's gonna be into I am going to teach you one of the most important and simple seduction techniques to get girls immediately attracted to you It's so important that you hit attraction high points that you flip attraction hot switches inside her head And this is one technique to do it and girls love this because it makes you seem so intuitive The unapologetic man podcast What is up your champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the uniform Mike pop of the unapologetic man podcast I sincerely appreciate you and today boys. I am going to teach you one of the most important and simple seduction techniques to get girls immediately attracted to you honestly brother If you're not using this in every single conversation you have with women You are missing out on an incredible opportunity to spike attraction and what is that first conversation all about? It's about getting her Attracted enough to you to not only want to text you back But also go on a date with you. That's why it's the single most important element of your entire seduction that first conversation and if you yank a girl off the dating platforms It's that first date or perhaps the FaceTime call that you have before the first date But it's so important that you hit attraction high points that you flip Attraction hot switches inside her head and this is one technique to do it now one of the biggest problems I hear from guys is that they run out of things to talk about they don't know what to say It's one of the biggest reasons guys talk themselves out of actually approaching a woman because they always say to themselves what? I don't know what to say. I don't know what she's gonna be into Well, this is one of those attraction spikes that really it's quite simple I want you to get it down you could just rinse and repeat and I'm actually gonna talk about that in this episode But it's amazing how something that's so simple can actually attract a girl You literally see like the change in her eyes in real time So don't think that it needs to be super complicated. Don't think that you need to come up with this like amazing magical opener and like be hidden attraction hot switches the whole time honestly boys if you get in like two three four five of these As well as qualifying her which I'm also gonna talk about in this episode Usually you can get a phone number but not only a phone number but a phone number that sticks Which of course is the most important thing? So what is CR and RCR CR stands for cold reading RCR stands for reverse cold reading which is so gangster So powerful definitely stay tuned until the end because I'm saving RCR for the last part because this shit is so powerful So cold reading what is that it's basically Reading something about the girl that is cold meaning you don't have like a lot of information about her But you're just assuming something about her you're making statements about her You're saying a sumptive truce about her that perhaps you don't really have the evidence for but you have a little bit of evidence And you're gonna throw it out there and girls love this because it makes you seem so intuitive This was actually created by Barnum and Bailey the Barnum and Bailey circus like a super ripped guy walks into the fortune tellers tent Right, she's got the crystal ball and he's like super jacked up the dudes definitely on the gear Just getting through the door the guy had to like turn sideways just to get through so the fortune tellers She doesn't fucking really tell the fortune She just looks at the dude and knows what he's into and knows what he wants to hear So she's like oh checking my crystal ball. I can see that you were a Spartan in a past life And he's like I was she's like yeah, and you slaughtered tons and tons of people and battle He's like oh, I did I can't believe it they buy into what they want to hear So a cold read is basically reading something about the girl in a cold manner where you don't have a ton of information But basically telling her what she wants to hear right so the basic cold read that I always use in honestly boys This is the only one you need don't over complicate it But what you have to do is practice it but the basic cold read is this one way of you is this way the other way of you is that way And the thing that I always use is the outside of you is really nice and tender and understanding and smiling But deep inside I can tell you're not to be fucked with or the opposite like if she's frame-tracking you a lot She's giving you a lot of challenges. You do the opposite the outside of you is really tough You're obviously not to be messed with but I bet deep inside you're one of the nicest people ever like if your friend was ever in a tough situation You would immediately go help her so again one side of her is this way the other side of her is that way So the basic one I like to use once again is as you're talking to her You see is she like generally really nice is she agreeable? Is she really cool or is she kind of challenging you? She's kind of got the bitch face going on She's kind of giving you a challenge because obviously she's hot and guys hit her on her all the time That's what you base your cold read on so you say this you say you know what as I'm talking to you I kind of get a feeling about you I kind of feel like you have this like whole tough girl thing going on right like you're not to be messed with You obviously have high standards you've been picked up so many times you're starting to grow handles But if you don't mind I kind of I kind of get a feeling about you I just feel like like behind all that you're probably one of the nicest people ever like if your friend was ever stuck on the Side of the freeway at 3 a.m. In the middle of the desert you'd like go drive out there to help her or if like your mom ever needed Help you drop everything to help her wouldn't you you're like actually like a really sweet person But this whole like tough girl thing is a little bit of a facade because you've been screwed over and like People let you down a lot so you have those walls up am I right? And almost every time boys they're gonna agree with it. They're gonna be like oh my god You're so intuitive now there is a reverse that you can do if she doesn't agree with you Which I'm gonna tell you in a second and this is actually why this is my favorite cold read one way of you is really nice The other way of you is kind of not to be fucked with okay guys just steal that there's a myriad of other ones right like Sometimes you could just lose yourself in the moment But other times you really think too much and you prevent yourself from doing what you really want to do It's like you could bullshit your way through this like a fucking Afghani camel salesman at the April camel Ronde voo down and Kuwait where they're all trading camels You're just bullshitting and you're just letting her know that you have a read on her one way of her is really nice The other way of her isn't okay if she's being really nice to you you say you know as I'm talking to you Honestly, you're like super friendly and in fact it's it's kind of surprising how nice you are But I just get a feeling like I kind of can just read people I just feel like deep inside you're not to be fucked with like if somebody Broke your best friend's heart right like some guy used your best friend She was really into him, but then he just blew her out the next day after using her for her sex When you saw that dude, I have a feeling he'd get a swift kick in the balls when he now if she disagrees with this And this is why it's pretty much my favorite cold read you guys She just fucking rinse and repeat this one if she disagrees with it You use that as evidence to prove what you just said So she's like no, that's not true and you'd be like see I told you you have this whole tough girl exterior thing or on the reverse You say see I told you you have this whole tough girl interior thing So even if she disagrees with it you use that as evidence to corroborate what you just said But ultimately boys something like probably 98% like literally 98 out of 100 chicks are gonna agree with this The two girls that won't are once again kind of bitchy. They're trying to frame check you They're trying to get a rise out of you and they just say see you just prove my point this whole tough girl thing going on Good job. Keep that up. It's working well for you. All right, so we understand cold reading is reading something about her that Perhaps you don't have a lot of evidence for or you just have a little bit of evidence for it and you're just throwing it out there reading her Some catch phrases. I like to use that you guys can steal are I can tell that I can see that or you strike me as the kind of person who okay? For example, you strike me as the kind of person who doesn't always come out to night clubs like this I feel like perhaps this really isn't your scene But you're coming out here to like accommodate your friends or you're coming out here for a bachelor party But it isn't really really who you are am I right see you just read something about her and you make statements Rather than questions, which is a huge seduction technique. You just like assume things and say things now again If they disagree with you. I always say see that's what I just said you have this whole like tough girl thing going on So as I told you boys when you use these attraction techniques You don't need like a million of them. You don't need to stack one after the other after the other You can have what are essentially and what most of you guys have typically done boring conversations Get to know you conversations. Do you like weather? Do you like breathing? How's your heart doing is it is it beating consistently like these fucking boring-ass questions that most guys have But if you throw in four or five six of these techniques that I teach and obviously I teach you a little bit in this podcast But I teach everything in my three-month coaching program You throw these in and you make sure to have frame control You make sure to tell stories you make sure to do the four pillars of attraction which I'm gonna talk about in a second Including Qualifying her and making her work for you. You could get phone numbers that really stick The problem is a lot of you guys go in and as I always say you go in the screen saver mode You don't know how to use these and you're afraid to work them in
You're like, oh, I don't really feel like a cold read is gonna fit right here. So I'm gonna skip it. Boys, push it in there. Just fucking pig dog that shit. Just be like, fuck it. It doesn't fit. We're talking about the ballet right now and how she was out the ballet. And I'm gonna say, I have a feeling about you. You're this way and that way. Yes, boys, push it in there. You need to practice this shit. And as I always tell my clients, what you need to do is rep out these techniques. And cold reading is literally the first technique I teach my boys to rep out upon the myriad of other techniques I give them throughout their three month tenure with me. But this one is so simple. It's one I'm sharing on the podcast because it's so simple and attraction comes because of it. You wrap it out. You do it on every single girl. I don't care if you're fucking talking to a grandma at the bingo parlor. If you guys ever heard of bingo arm when they say bingo and they hold up their bingo card and then they're fucking tricep flaps in the breeze. Yeah, we don't want to girlfriend with bingo arm. But even if you are talking to a grandma who's got that bingo arm, do a cold read honor. Be like, you know what, grandma with the bingo arm? You're really nice. You know, you bake me that pie. You're super sweet. Your cane is golden crusted so I can tell you've been successful in life because you're so sweet. But I can tell grandma, you're not to be fucked with. Like if somebody messed with your best friend, Eunice, and stole her bulk pack of Coloscopy bags. Is that what you say? Coloscopy bags? I know you'd hit that asshole over the head with your cane. Wouldn't you? You don't take any shit. Do you grandma? Oh, no, I don't. So basic, boys. So practice that shit. Practice it on your mom. Practice it on your sister. Practice it on your cousin, your friends. You could even do this to dudes. One way of use this way. The other way of use that way. Now, when it comes to guys, we immediately read through the shit. We'll be like, bro, what the fuck are you talking about, right? But girls eat this up. Cold reading. Say something about her that you assume to be true and watch the attraction rise. And again, if they fight you on it, this is part of the reason I like to say party you is not to be fucked with because you say, see, you just proved my point. You're not to be fucked with. Now we're going to get into our CR. Our CR is reverse cold reading to bait qualification. This is so gangster. This is so powerful. You should literally be using this on every single girl that you meet. Before we get into that, I have a quick question. Question for you. Are you so horny you'd fuck a snake if you could hold it straight? Have you ever gone to Walmart and bought up a pile of a power drill and a tub of Vaseline? Is your dick so dry it's going to audition for the next movie of Dune? 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But the end of it is to bait qualification. Now what is qualification? qualification is her selling herself to you. Part of the four pillars of attraction is pillar number four, which is qualification, asking her questions such as what's good about you beyond your looks. What would your best friend say is the coolest thing about you? Do you know why you're awesome? And she's like, no, why? And you'd be like, it's a question dumb dumb. Get her to sell herself to you. Like why are you awesome? Like what's great about you beyond your looks? I mean, there's tons of pretty girls here in Denver, right? Like I see him all the time. What's different about you? Now, obviously you can only do this once she's attracted. And it's the same thing with RCR. You want to do this when she has a little bit of attraction. Now, you go in, you use the techniques that I give you. You can see she's leaning in asking you personal questions, touching you, laughing at jokes that aren't funny, playing with their hair, all these signs of attraction. Now you're able to do again, what's called qualification. Or in this context, we're going to do RCR. Now stick with me. I know some of you guys are a little thickheaded. I know you have the attention span of a small monkey on cocaine, but stick with me because this shit's super powerful. All right. So what you want to do is you want to read something about her that you know is not true. Okay. I want to repeat that because I just want to get this in your guys' heads. You see something about her that you know is not true. Now in my coach and I like to use the example of a hippie, a soap dodger, a tree hug. A girl whose moth is so thick that when you take down her panties, it goes and you get launched off the bed because that fucking moth is so thick. She doesn't shave her armpits. She doesn't shave her legs. She has fucking cereal boxes for shoes and her backpack is made of an old pizza box. Okay. She's a hippie. Now as some of you guys know, oftentimes kind of like younger girls get into the hippie scene like girls in their early 20s and sometimes they're fucking hot, right? Like I've seen some straight soap dodgers that were some of the most bang in chicks I've ever seen. I went to school in Santa Cruz. I went to UC Santa Cruz and there's a bunch of hippies around. I was in the punk rock scene where they had lyrics like ask me about the poor little cow. I ate and asked me about the preaching hippies I hate. But some of those hippies were pretty bangin' and I've been with several of them. I will say the cleanliness was kind of a deal breaker, but you could tell she's a hippie. So you automatically know that she's into environmental rights. She doesn't like people who litter. She doesn't like perhaps like super trump followers, right? You can make assumptions about girls pretty easily. So what you would know about her is that she's into like the environment. So you're like, "All right, so what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna say I don't like the opposite of what she is to bait her to explain herself to me." So here's an example. You're with this hippie chick. Her dreadlops are floppin' in the breeze. You could smell the beow from under her armpit. She lifts up her arm to wave at her other hippie friend who they met at the hippie circle. She was playing the harp and the other one was playing the bongos. She waves at her friend and there's a literal bush underneath her arm. So you're like, "All right. I'm gonna say that I don't like people who litter. So I'm gonna tell a little story about that." So you'd be like, "Hey, you know what? I was actually driving to the club tonight." And this guy in front of me, he rolls down his window and he drops out a literal bag of McDonald's onto the street. I literally almost got back to my car and handed it back to him. I just, I don't like people who litter like that. Then what you do is you let it drop. Okay, you know she's gonna go in there and explain herself. She's gonna be like, "Well, I don't litter like that." Right? She's like, "I got a pizza box for a backpack and my skirt is made out of a cactus from the Sonora Desert." And you're like, "Oh, really? Like, you don't litter like that? Like what? You care about the environment. You care about animal rights and stuff." And he's like, "Oh, yeah, I'm this way." Then what you do is you reward that. Okay? Let her explain herself. Because what's happening here, boys? She's selling herself to you. If she's making the effort to sell herself to you, you need to reward that and you basically say that. You'd be like, "You know what? That's pretty cool." And you say that genuinely. You say, "You know what? That's pretty cool. I actually really respect that about you." Then what I like to do is I like to say a little joke afterward that says, "You just went up 20 points in my book. You're now at negative 50. Congratulations." And like you give her a fist bump. And she's like, "Shut up." And she hits you, which, playfully, if she hits you, is a sign of attraction. So let's review it. You see something about the girl and you say you don't like the opposite of what that is. Then at that time, you let that drop. And what you do in is you reverse cold reading, right? You're not saying you're this way. You're assuming she's the opposite of that way. And you say you don't like that aspect of people. You say that. You let a drop. You let her sell herself to you. And then you reward it by saying, "You know what? I really like that about you." And you say that genuinely, "Boys, this should be a moment of connection." Then you joke, "You just went up 20 points in my book. You're now at negative 7,300. Congratulations, fist bump." Okay. Another quick example. Because again, I know you guys are a little thickheaded. And in my coaching program, we go over this time and time again until you get it nailed down. And you could go in to set and rifle it off without any effort whatsoever. But I'm going to give you another example. So once again, you made a girl on the nightclub. You could just tell she's not like a nightclub girl. So what you say is
is, you know, as I'm in this nightclub, the music's cool and everything, but I don't know, I just don't really like club type girls who go out all the time and get drunk and inebriated and just kind of like are pissing away their lives. Like, I used to be that guy too. And that morning I woke up with the dildo in my butt, I realized that I should probably change my ways. I just really don't like people like that. And she's gonna be like, well, I'm not that way. It'd be like, oh really? Like, what do you like? And she's like, well, I'm a professional, you know, I usually don't come out to things like this, but I'm with the Bachelor at party right now, so I kind of didn't have a choice. And I'll be like, you know what, that's cool. I feel like you and I are similar in that way. Good job. I actually respect that about you. You just went up 10 points in my book. You're now a negative 30. Congratulations. And then she hits your arm away. Bam, huge spike of attraction. Now again, boys, the RCR, you do want she's attracted to you. You have a few little signs, like even simple signs, even a super subtle sign like she's still there talking to you, even though technically the conversation has kind of dropped and she could have walked away, that's a sign of attraction. So RCR is saved for when we have some attraction, but cold reading, you could drop in anytime, anywhere. It doesn't matter and you should work it into your conversations as much as possible. Master it by doing it over and over again. So it becomes an arrow in your quiver that you can pull out and throw into conversations to get attraction on command anytime you want to. And these are just a few small examples of the myriad of techniques that I teach in my three-month coaching program. Obviously, I'm not going to give away my best gold on the podcast that's saved for my boys in the program. So if you want to learn more about that, apply. You and I are going to talk directly. We're going to email back and forth. And if it feels right for both of us, you're going to get on a free one-hour NLP Breakthrough session with my man Victor Lynch to see if we can 10X your results with women. Which is the guarantee that we give to our clients when they come into the coaching program. A 95% success rate. What is it that we've unlocked that you haven't discovered yet? Yeah, these techniques are great. And obviously I teach a boatload of them. I have a fucking vault that's stacked to the ceiling with more gold than you can use in a lifetime. But the real differentiating factor between me and every other dating coach out there is NLP. Neural, linguistic programming, pairing. NLP with my techniques. It's like killing an ant with a nuclear warhead. It's just no chance for these chicks. And that's why my guys get so much success. So if you're interested in talking to me more about that, apply at the link below. Gentlemen, I super appreciate you listening. I drop podcasts every Tuesday, and I will see you in the next episode. What is up, brother? I just wanted to thank you sincerely for watching this episode. If you've gotten any value whatsoever out of my content, the single best way to help me is to like, comment, subscribe, leave me a review. You have no idea how much that helps me. Also, if you're struggling with women and you want to talk to me personally about how I can help you achieve your goals with women, sign up for my three month coaching program below and you and I will talk. Join us in the unapologetic army.
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The speaker addresses men who struggle with knowing what to say to women, which often prevents them from approaching.
Introduces "cold reading" (CR) as a seduction technique
Provides a specific cold read pattern
Emphasizes that even if she disagrees with the cold read, you can use her disagreement as proof of your statement, making it a versatile tool.
Introduces "reverse cold reading" (RCR) to bait qualification, where you say something you know is false (e.g., disliking littering to a hippie) to get her to explain herself and sell her values to you.
Stresses practicing these techniques repeatedly, even on non-romantic targets, and integrating them into conversations rather than skipping them.
Mentions the four pillars of attraction, including qualification (her selling herself), and promotes a coaching program with a 95% success rate.
Summary:
The podcast episode, hosted by Mark Sing of the "Unapologetic Man Podcast," focuses on solving a common male dating problem: running out of things to say to women. The host argues that this fear often prevents men from approaching women, but he offers a simple yet powerful technique to spike attraction instantly: cold reading (CR). Cold reading involves making intuitive, assumptive statements about a woman based on limited evidence, making her feel understood and impressed by the man's perceptiveness.
He provides a core template—"one way of you is this way, the other way is that way"—with examples like describing a woman as sweet on the surface but tough deep down, or vice versa, depending on her initial attitude. A key feature is that if she disagrees, the man can use her pushback as confirmation of his read, making the technique nearly foolproof. The host also introduces reverse cold reading (RCR), a more advanced tactic where the man deliberately says something he knows is false—such as criticizing littering in front of an environmentally conscious hippie—to bait her into qualifying herself by explaining her values and personality.
This shifts the dynamic to her selling herself, increasing attraction. The episode stresses relentless practice, even on strangers or friends, and integrating these techniques into conversations rather than overthinking placement. Ultimately, the host claims that combining CR, RCR, and other pillars of attraction can lead to phone numbers that stick and successful dates, while promoting his three-month coaching program for deeper psychological transformation.
FAQs
Cold reading is a technique where you make assumptive statements about a woman based on limited information, making her feel understood and attracted. It involves telling her something she wants to hear, like 'one side of you is nice, but deep inside you're not to be messed with.'
Use a statement like 'The outside of you is really nice and tender, but deep inside I can tell you're not to be messed with,' or the reverse if she's challenging. Base it on her demeanor—if she's friendly, say the tough side is hidden; if she's tough, say the nice side is hidden.
Use her disagreement as evidence to prove your point. For example, if she says 'that's not true,' reply with 'See, I told you—you have this whole tough girl thing going on.' This reinforces the read and keeps the attraction.
Reverse cold reading is a technique where you say something you know is not true about her to bait her into explaining herself and qualifying herself to you. For example, telling a hippie girl you dislike littering to get her to talk about her environmental values.
Qualification is getting a woman to sell herself to you by asking questions like 'What's good about you beyond your looks?' or 'Why are you awesome?' It's a pillar of attraction and makes her invest in the interaction.
You don't need many—just 4 to 5 attraction techniques, including cold reads, can help you get a phone number that sticks. Use them sparingly and push them into the conversation even if they don't seem to fit.
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