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Teasing my dad, 46 male, while she was wearing one of my dresses. And then OP flees home, but ends up in the hands of a predator. And just a quick warning. I mean, you can probably already tell from that title, but this one is sad and tragic. But let's get into it. I know it sounds like something out of one of those really bad Netflix movies. But it's unfortunately for me true. I was over at a friend's house for most of the day yesterday. And I wasn't supposed to be coming home until later in the evening. This is super common for me right now. My friend has a pool and stuff. So I've been at her house a lot since school ended a few weeks ago. Mid afternoon, we decided to go and just drive around. Then wanted to go shopping. I didn't bring my money with me. I keep my savings in cash. In this little jar. So I don't spend it so impulsively. We decided to go about my house to grab some cash on the way to the mall. When we got there, my friend waited in the car because I was only going to be a couple of minutes. When I walked into my house, though, my parents were on the couch. I don't want to be too overly graphic about what was going on. But my mom was teasing my dad. And it was very clear. That they were about to have intimacy. They both froze when they saw me totally expected because they didn't plan on being interrupted at all. I was frozen, too. Then after a couple of seconds, I realized my mom was literally wearing one of my favorite dresses. Like, I wear it all the time, not even like it's really revealing or anything, just a normal summer dress. We were all looking at each other in shock for a few seconds. Before my mom just said, I'm so sorry, sweetie. I ran back out of the house and was crying by the time I made it to my friend's car. I started explaining to her what I'd just seen. And she was calming me down. But then my mother came out of the house after me, literally still wearing my dress. I told my friend to drive away before she got to the car. And we went back to her house. We didn't give her parents any details about what happened, just that I had some family drama. I've been friends with her since way back. So they told me I can sleep at their house for a couple of days until I figure things out. I barely slept last night at all. Every time I close my eyes, it's like I see it in my head. My mom's called me a bunch of times, but I only texted her back to let her know where I am and told her I need time before I'm ready to talk to them. She replied again, apologizing and wants me to come home today to talk to them. I don't think I can do that yet. Even typing this out, I've started shaking with nerves about it. What do I do now? I've never felt unsafe in my house before at all. But I also don't know if I'm comfortable being around my parents now that I know they're literally pretending she's me. I'm so grossed out. And I think I want to burn every piece of clothing I have ever owned. Edit, I really didn't want to write anything. I'm explicit about my parents on here. But since it's been suggested that they might not have been about to have intimacy a couple of times over messages and stuff, here goes. The top portion of the dress was pulled down, and they were doing stuff. If they weren't about to have intimacy, they were at least being intimate. Edit number two, I'm not upset at all that my parents were having intimacy. It's the fact that they were about to have intimacy. While my mom was wearing one of my favorite dresses, she and I never share clothes. And I've been trying to rationalize this some other way, but I don't see why she would have gone into my room and gotten that dress unless it was for what I interrupted them doing. And now let's get into some of the top comments. One user says, yeah, that's not okay at all. It's not about the intimacy. It's about being that. It's about being that disrespectful and frankly disgusting that they'd be okay to wear your clothes during that act. It could be she wanted to wear a nice dress and not pretend to be you for some weird fantasy. But why not go by her own? How messed up do you have to be for that? Either way, that is super effed up, and I'm not surprised you don't want to be around that. I'd explain that whether this was a fantasy of theirs or just them being so disgusting that they'd have to be around that. happily violate their own child's property in that matter. It's not healthy, normal, or ever okay, and you need time away from them. They cannot possibly expect you to understand their actions. Their actions weren't reasonable in the slightest. And another commenter says, first of all, I'd like to say that I'm very open-minded about intimacy. I am, in fact, an intimate worker. I am also a mother of a teenager. That being said, I would never, ever do that. I would feel so wrong. I'm sorry, OP. I don't even know what to say. I would feel betrayed and very uncomfortable if I were you. How is your relationship with your mom on the whole? And the OP responds and says, overall, she and I have a really good relationship. We're very open and honest with each other normally. Another user says, I can't believe the comments you're getting about this. The fact that your mother is using your dress to get screwed in is disturbing and completely out of line. This isn't just being upset your parents have a healthy, intimate life. It's that your mother has been using your clothing like this. Like, were they planning on washing your dad's own gunk off their teenage daughter's dress afterwards? WTF? You're just trying to be cool with it? I'd want to burn the dress and move out. And the OP respondent says, thank you for understanding. Yes, it isn't the fact that they were having intimacy at all that disturbed me. I'd be completely fine if she hadn't been wearing my literal favorite dress. And someone else replies and says, it's a major boundary violation. You're totally in the right to feel like you do. I wouldn't go so far to assume that you're not in the right to feel like you do. She was pretending to be you. I know people are sick, but the likelihood of that is low, as it's not normally that common. And it's probably just a dress she likes and might want to experience being young, which also carries some pretty heavy implications of envy. However, it is incredibly disrespectful of your own mother to use your clothing to seduce your dad and for your dad to go along with it. It shows complete disregard for your boundaries as a person, which your clothes are an extension of. Disgusting act on your parents' part. I am so sorry this has happened to you. And yeah, this is just nightmarish and super disturbing. But the OP comes back a few days later with an update and let's get into it. The OP says, all right, I promised to give an update on my situation. And honestly, Honestly, I feel like writing about things has been pretty helpful to me. So here it goes. Several people on my initial post advised that I should speak with a therapist before seeing or speaking with either of my parents. I called one I'd seen a few times in the past, and she was able to book me in for an emergency session. And she really helped me work through what I saw, as well as my worries, and constructing a list of questions to ask my mom when I spoke with her. I met with my mother over the weekend. We met at this park near our house in the afternoon, and sat away from everyone. My friend, who I'm staying with, and her boyfriend went with me for moral support, but they hung back and let me talk to my mother alone. I'm not going to go through our entire conversation because we talked for over an hour, but it was pretty much what I had feared. She was wrong. Roleplaying as me, when I walked in on her and dad. She wouldn't confirm how long it had been going on for, but gave me a list of several pieces of my clothing. Three dresses, then two of my sleep sets, which she had previously borrowed. She claims they were all cleaned thoroughly before returning them, and I have no reason to believe she wouldn't have cleaned them. But I'm never going to wear any of those things again, regardless. It was probably stupid of me, but I asked which one of them came up with the idea for her to roleplay as me. According to her, it was her own idea. I still really don't feel comfortable seeing or talking to my dad, and he hasn't reached out since I walked in on him either. So I guess he isn't comfortable talking to me about it either. My dad was at work when I spoke with her. I made sure of that because I wanted to be able to go by the house and get a few more of my things. She let me go there alone with my friends and get the things I needed, before going back to her place. I'm still working on where I go from here. I ended up having to fully explain the situation to my friend's parents. They were both extremely understanding and are willing to let me rent their spare bedroom for a few months while I figure something else out. I'm working on getting more hours at work too. So, yeah. That's pretty much all that's happened. I doubt I'll update beyond this, but I'm sincerely thankful to everybody who reached out and tried to help me. One user says, I think my soul just threw up a bit. This is the worst scenario I could think of reading your original post, and I only have well wishes for you, and that I hope you'll go on to heal from this far, far away. I hope you'll be able to heal from this far, far away. Someone else says, oh god, I'm so, so sorry that this is happening to you. I'm also very glad that your friend's parents are letting you stay for now. I hope you continue with therapy because this is a very hard reality to swallow and a tough situation to be in. Please, if you ever consider re-establishing continued contact with your parents, make it a necessity that they need to have been in therapy for their behavior for at least several months. Some fantasies are just too harmful to be left in the secrecy of the bedroom, especially since this one is out in the open and sheds a completely different and sick light on both of your parents' relationship with you. If possible, you should only talk to your parents in a safe environment with others around, preferably a family therapist. But if I were in your position, I'd need a lot of distance and security, as in getting financially independent, etc. from them, for myself, for a long time, before I could ever even think about re-establishing contact. Best of luck and healing. I hope you're doing as okay as you can be during this situation. Someone else just bluntly says, your parents are disgusting. Make some extra comments in an r slash ask reddit post. One person says, I know I'm probably going to end up with daddy issues because of this. I just really hope this isn't how they manifest. And someone responded and says, if I may ask, you said it was your mom's idea to dress up as such. Do you feel like your mom was lying? And the OP says, I suspect it. My father still hasn't reached out at all. Someone else says, feel like they used more clothes. And the OP responded and said, I got rid of everything I owned that was in any way, revealing, and I'm in the process of purchasing all new stuff because of this fear. The commenter also asks, do you feel more uncomfortable around your father than your mother? And the OP says, I don't know. I haven't been around him since. I suspect though, it would feel the same. And someone else asks, do you blame your father more than your mother? And the OP says, I blame them both equally. According to mom, they were both participating in actively. And the final question, do you feel this was any attempt of your mom to recapture possible youthful feeling? And the OP responds and says, possibly. It's been suggested by several women in her age group. Regardless of her initial motivation, I still feel like this was way over the line. And then the OP comes back one day later with a post titled acting out. And this post reads, yes, what I did last night would classify. Thankfully, I get to wake up, walk out the door and leave my mistake behind me. This isn't the sort of thing I want to do all the time, but I don't think a one night distraction is too damaging long term. And now let's get into some of the comments. One person says, how exactly did you act out? Not judging, just genuinely curious. By the way, please tell me you're going NC with your parents. My heart goes out to you. After reading your posts and the OP responds and says, I don't know why I was being so dramatically cryptic since this is an anonymous account anyways, LMAO, but I went on Tinder and hooked up last night. Not really my style. And I don't know why I even did it. Looking back, I already deleted the app. And then we don't hear a serious update from the OP for about three weeks. And during those three weeks, the OP posts three extremely detailed, and extremely graphic, like erotic posts where she basically outlines and writes down these intimate encounters she had. And like, I'm just not going to read it because it's so detailed and so graphic. Like I'm just not going to attempt to read it, but basically she posts these three, like kind of almost random posts of encounters she's had in those following three weeks. And, um, I guess I'll use a TLDR of the first one. OP has an impulsive and intense intimate encounter. And I'm just not going to read it because it's so detailed and so graphic. But with a man 10 years older than her that she just met at an indie race demonstrating both in the encounter and in her retelling of it that her hyper intimacy is becoming more of a problem and then she posts I think a few days later and basically OP has talked into getting bolder with her intimate fantasies by a quote really hot couple from the UK and she ends up pleasuring herself in a technically public but mostly hidden place in a park at night with plans to do it again during the day and then the third one is just so explicit I can't even begin to summarize it but you know these three posts were just super explicit and they kind of felt like out of nowhere from the first updates we got because this was a throwaway account from the OP and she was just updating us on her situation with her parents which was obviously gross and disgusting but these you know intimate encounters she had and then she wrote like really detailed like stories about them it just felt random to me and weird but we're not going to get into them like super detailed for obvious reasons but then the OP comes back three weeks later with a serious update titled yet another update and it reads as follows so my story ended up being shared on YouTube by some relatively big channels and I've gotten a bunch of messages asking if my situation has improved and for me to provide another update I didn't know if I was going to keep posting here after sharing some of the more explicit things I've done since moving out of the house but honestly I don't see the harm in it and sometimes the messages I get are really sweet so here it goes I suppose things have gotten both better and a bit worse for me since the last time I updated I checked back and the last time I posted an official update was almost three weeks ago but I swear it feels like it's been months I can't sleep really well because I just have nightmares about walking in on my parents role playing as me and I'm tired all the time I've been working with my therapist through this and she's gotten me onto some relaxation techniques that help ASMR is a surprisingly effective tool as far as my living situation goes I'll be moving into my own bedroom in an apartment with two of my co-workers at the beginning of September their roommate is moving out and they were able to give me a good price on rent think they took pity on me a little bit since they're both a bit older Living with my friend isn't working out the best. I mentioned in one of the other updates that her dad was pretty clearly eye-effing me whenever he was around. He's pushed things a decent bit further since, and started getting grabby with me when he can get me alone. I've developed this really bad like hyper intimacy thing for some reason since all the stuff happened with my parents. Yes, I am in therapy. Yes, I am working on it. But as a result of that, for some reason I do absolutely nothing to stop him when he grabs me. It's sick, but I know on some level, I like the attention. I've been avoiding being around the house as much as possible, because I know in the back of my head, I'm just not going to say no to him. September can't come fast enough in that regard. Work's been giving me plenty of extra hours, and I've been saving as much money as possible while also slowly buying myself a job. I've gotten a plan to get myself back up to a somewhat full wardrobe by Christmas or so. Sorry these posts have become so dirty. I mean, I know the first relationship advice post wasn't exactly a Disney movie, but I know it's gotten substantially more explicit since. To the people still trying to give advice, and offer their fresh perspective, thank you. I've actually been given some really good advice from random people on the internet. And now. Let's get into some of the top comments. One user says, I'm sorry things aren't going the way you wanted with your living situation. Your friend's dad is horrible. They may not mean much because I'm a stranger, but I'm proud that you're acknowledging everything happening and actively working on doing better for yourself. And the OP responds and says, Thank you for your kind words. Someone else says, Have you told your friend about their dad? And the OP responds and says, She and I talked about it early on. When I mentioned that I felt like her dad was looking at me a lot, she thought I was overblowing it. Because of what had just happened with my own parents. I'm not sure how to approach a discussion about this with her while I'm also still living in the house. Also not sure how to prove anything to her at the moment. And I don't feel like she would believe me. And someone responds and says, Sweetheart, Someone's going to walk in on him fondling you sooner or later. And you will be the one copping to the blame. Please tell your friend now that he is assaulting you and make sure you are never alone with him. No amount of attention is worth ruining your friendship. And someone else says, Can I ask why your parents are not helping you financially? This mess is their fault and they should at the very least be making this easier for you. And the OP responds and says, I don't really have an answer for that. I haven't asked. And it hasn't been offered. My mom completely stopped reaching out already. And dad never has. I think he's embarrassed. It's not like I've been trying to talk to them either. I was ignoring my mother when she reached out. And then the OP comes back 7 days later with an update titled, Bad Update. And let's get into it. The OP says, Every single time I post something on this account, I tell myself it's going to be the last post. That I'm not going to have a reason to post on here. Or I'll wake up from my bad dream or whatever. It hasn't happened yet. Aside from my therapist, I don't have anyone I can discuss my situation with. Random strangers on the internet have been an outlet for me. Messy but cleaner than dumping all of my money. All of this on anyone I actually know. I'm sure you can all tell where this is headed. Given the title and the trigger warning at the top, her dad had intimacy with me. He found out that I'm moving out of their house at the end of the month. And took the first opportunity he had to push things further than he had been going before. Where I live, employers are required to give 2 days off in a row each week. I've been taking extra shifts where I can, but corporate are cracking down on that right now. Despite the fact that we've been understaffed, and there weren't any available for me to take. The second day of that was 2 days ago. I spent most of the morning with my friend. But she had this family thing to go to with her mom and grandmother so, I was by myself after that. I mentioned in my last post I've been avoiding him when I'm able to find another place to be. And during the day I go for a lot of walks and stuff. But I can't be out of that house. I'm out of the house all the time. And I hadn't figured out what I was going to do yet. About a half an hour, just 30 minutes. That's how long it took for him to decide he wanted to come tease me again. I was in their den area, playing with their two cats, when he came downstairs. I knew immediately what he had in mind because he just had that look about him. His standard move is coming up behind me and grabbing my ass before reaching around to my chest. I guess he had made his decision to go further when he came down because he skipped that entirety. He just pulled my shirt off and started playing with my chest. I was moaning pretty quickly and he was aroused. He told me that he was sad to hear that I'm not going to be around the house much longer. He told me that I'm fun and that he likes having me there. Of course he does. I feel so bad for his friend. I feel so bad for his wife. He pushed his hand into my pants and started fondling me. That was the point where I went from deer in the headlights to active participant. I couldn't make myself say no. The whole thing turned me on and at the time I didn't care about anything else. I reached back and did some stuff to him. It was just the heat of the situation doing it to me. I've thought back and it's not like he's going to do it to me. It's not like he did anything special otherwise. From there he led me to their bedroom and then he had intimacy. My friend and her mom were gone until the evening. He and I spent pretty much the entire afternoon there having intimacy. What's weird about the whole thing is he's actually really sweet. Like he's nice to me and other than the fondling he asks for consent before he does anything to me. The big problem is I kept giving him consent. Every time he asked to switch positions or moved to one of the other rooms, I was screaming at myself mentally to turn him down, say no and leave. But every time I find myself nodding with a smile, making eyes at him and letting him do whatever he wants to me. My brain just loves making me do this stuff, I guess. It didn't end when they came home either. It's like the game is on or something for both of us. Whenever we can find time alone, we're all over each other. It's horrible. I went into his office last night when he was working and did some stuff while he was sitting downstairs watching TV. She's given me no reason to hurt her. In fact, his wife is one of the nicest people I've met and so supportive of me. None of that stopped me though. I went anyway because I was turned on and he was there. He did some other crazy stuff to me. But I don't have any idea what I'm going to do with my life moving forward or how I'm going to handle the situation. I'm sure I've thoroughly nuked my life. It's just a matter of time when it all goes off. If you actually read all this and you're not completely disgusted with my existence as a human being, then I thank you for your consideration. I know I'm not making it easy to view me as anything but a problem at this point. Thanks for listening to me vent. And then the OP comes back about two days later, with another update titled "I got evidence" and it reads as follows. I mentioned in a comment that I found somewhere else to stay last night as a way of removing myself from the situation with my friend's dad. I was able to find somewhere else to crash over the weekend, so I won't be going back there, at least not immediately. I got the evidence I need to tell his wife what's going on though. He actually thought it'd be a good idea to text me, probably thinks nothing will come of it, because I was so willing when we had intimacy. Currently working on a plan for getting the rest of my things from that house and telling her what happened. I know she's going to hate me. My friend is going to hate me. But it needs to be done. And I'm gonna. And now let's get into the top comments. One person says "Have you spoken to your dad about the role playing?" And the OP says "Dad hasn't reached out to speak with me at all. And someone else says "You are emotionally vulnerable near child." He is an adult. I assume he's at least in his 40s or 50s? Married man? Who has been making advances on his child's homeless friend? He is a predator. It doesn't matter how sweet he was. I assume he and his wife are the homeowners or at least pay the rent. You wanted to say no. But you felt like you couldn't. For all you knew, he could have kicked you out you out for saying no, he took advantage of your vulnerable and compromised position he made the conscious choice of cheating on his wife by coercing someone relying on his kindness for housing who is barely a legal adult to have intimacy with him should you have said no yeah probably but that doesn't mean he would have even stopped it doesn't mean you didn't feel pressured to say yes it doesn't mean you wanted it hank joined bj's wholesale club the day he became a father of 30 i coach football now coach hank saves up to 25 off grocery store prices 30 pounds of pasta three cases of protein bars 75 sports drinks and that's just pre-game he knows teamwork and bj's knows savings this is your home coach home of the save join for just $20 at bjs.com slash mesquite and save 10 cents per gallon for six months open soon limited time offer new members only bj's home of the save i want to hire a private investigator some folks saying the best abc tuesdays tv's hottest pi is back you sure you're ready to take on a serial killer it's like a dozen more likely explanations other than serial killer all right maybe not a dozen in florida crime has no off season i just heard you were shot at today with a rocket launcher you well missed rj decker tuesdays 10 9 central on abc next day on hulu it doesn't make you a bad person and someone else says dude do you have any safe family or friends that would let you stay with them while you get back on your feet or is there a shelter near where you live maybe staying with an all-female roommates you're going through a hyper intimate phase been there and i know how it feels but if you haven't mentioned it to your therapist or if you have that phase is going to be the equal to being addicted to drugs as hard as it is to try not to give into it because it's not going to feel good once you have sobered up later your friend and her mom might be angry at you but the one to blame here is the grown-ass man going after his daughter's friends after a traumatic event also even if he reaches out to you please don't trust him at all he's only being sweet and nice so he can get what he wants and once you're hooked on him he's going to show his true colors please be careful and try to stay safe i would also recommend leaving your things with someone else before telling your friend and her mom anything as they probably won't let you back in for your things and then the op comes back a few days later with an update titled accountability and this reads as follows all right so i'm going to try to hold myself to account as best i can here my friend's dad reached out to me and said hey i'm late last night as i mentioned before and with the advice of some redditors i had intimate texts with him just enough to get incriminating screenshots and then told him i was going to bed i'm back at my friend's house now he isn't home i told her i stayed with a friend and she didn't really question it much i really don't have much here at all so i've got it all packed up and i'm going to get out of the house before i tell her what happened i'm going to let her tell her mother or give her the option to be there when i do her mom knows me but i feel like it might be better coming from someone who hasn't had intimacy with her husband my roommates to be from work got back to me already too they told their other roommate enough about my situation that she's fine with me crashing on the couch for the rest of the month and stacking my stuff in the basement until she moves out i am so lucky to have people who are willing to give me a place to stay and i'm going to let her tell her mother or give her the option so quick i haven't slept almost at all i've just been awake thinking about everything think i got a couple of hours but i'm mostly surviving on coffee right now now i want to talk a little bit about my own guilt regarding what happened i do think i was pressured into the situation but i don't think that absolves me of all the responsibility like some people have suggested once it started i was an enthusiastic participant and i wanted to be a part of it and i wanted to be a part of it and i wanted to be a part of it i went back for more eagerly even having intimate texts with him last night was kind of hot for me it's messed up but that's where i'm at right now mentally i'll make a tinder at some point to try to find something ongoing stable and not completely destructive this whole thing terrifies me now because my friend and her family are the ones who have been keeping the secret from people i know socially pretty good chance now that all my friends are going to find out the whole story now i think i could live with just being shamed but people knowing the whole thing seems scarier honestly it's a good argument for me stopping these posts i don't know i feel connected to writing it out somehow it helps me work through things mentally in a way i don't think journaling alone would do your guys's input has been so helpful you have no idea even the people giving me crap it really does help anyway that's what's going through my brain today i guess this is my crappy life journal now and now let's get into some of the top comments one user says oh man i wish i could just give you a hug and i want to assure you that your friend's dad is disgusting and a predator even if he doesn't know the specific reason for your need for shelter away from your parents he knows you have one and that makes you incredibly vulnerable but it sounds like he has at least a rough idea of what happened and that makes him even more of a sack of crap as a guest in his house and his daughter's friend his job is to protect you not wear down your boundaries which are understandably messed up right now until you have intimacy with him you've experienced a profound intimate violation and abandonment from the two people in the world your parents who are supposed to protect you it is no surprise that you would act out intimately this is an incredibly common response to trauma and it's not a surprise that while you didn't invite or instigate the activity with your friend's father you found yourself participating in and even enjoying it intimacy fulfills a lot of basic human needs and you are a young woman who currently has very few of her basic needs being met when i was 19 i started a intimate relationship with a man 34 years older than me he had known me since i was 17 i beat myself up about that relationship for years when i even allowed myself to think about it i convinced myself that somehow i was the one taking advantage of him it wasn't until i heard some of the conversations around the me too explosion that i fully interrogated and understood the fact that i was manipulated and exploited it also took being close to 40 to understand just how gross it was for a 52 year old man to want to have intimacy with a 19 year old he knew had a history of abuse our situations are not quite the same but they're close enough in essentials i understand the need to hold yourself accountable i understand wanting to make amends for what you think you did wrong but i also think you're making the same mistake i did which is giving yourself credit for more agency than you actually have i don't think you need to confess anything to your friend or her mother i know you won't believe me for another 20 years or so but this isn't your transgression this isn't garden variety and fidelity between equals this is exploitation and the moral weight of it falls squarely on the shoulders of the person with power that's not you i think you should focus on getting somewhere safe and catching your breath i think you should put some distance between your friend and you which will likely be hurtful to her but this is a matter of survival for you i think you should try to surround yourself with people who won't aid you in self-sabotage i think you should find a hobby that will help give you a sense of pride and an escape i'm completely serious about this i do cross-stitching because it takes zero talent but you're young if i was 18 again i would take up running if you do feel the need to tell his family then i would beg you not to tell your friend but her mother let her parents decide how much of their mess they want to sift down to their child maybe they'll do the right thing and at least try to keep her out of it i'd also really encourage you to wait for six months and spend that time working with your therapist on how and why you would confess but mostly i really want you to wait because i'm afraid that you'll be met with a lot of abuse and shame that you won't deserve because they'll be too hurt to have any kind of perspective i think you need to build up some resources and safety for yourself before you try to blow yourself up when you're still reeling from what your parents did i'm sorry for writing you a novel you didn't ask for but this internet stranger wants you to know you're not alone in what you're going through and someone else says sweetheart please understand that this fully adult man took advantage of you a teenager while you were extraordinarily vulnerable that is not a good man no matter how sweetie was at the time. I know you must be confused, and honestly, this entire situation is much too much for anyone to deal with, much less someone your age. Please know that, although some of the commenters on your other posts are trying to pile onto your guilt and shame, not all of us see it that way, and we're hoping for the best. You are a remarkably strong young woman who's been through so much in such a short period of time. I'm glad to hear you're going to begin out of your friend's place. Hopefully, you'll have some stability in your new apartment. And then the OP comes back about two weeks later with an update titled, Probably My Final Update, and it reads as follows. Hi. So, my situation has calmed down a little bit now. I've been crashing on the couch of my new apartment this past week, and honestly, things have been pretty good. I'm putting that right at the top, so if all you're looking for is to know that I'm safe, and I think that I'm going to be okay, you have it here. Stuff still got kind of messy as I was leaving my friend's house. I've definitely burned bridges there, but there's nothing I can do about that now. I still ended up sleeping in my friend's house for a couple more days after deciding I was going to figure out a way to tell her and or her mom about what happened between her, me, and her dad. It was two nights, and he found an excuse to have intimacy with me the second one. It wasn't sweet or even caring. It just felt mechanical at that point. He came to my bedroom, flipped me over, took me onto the bed, and I didn't do a single thing to stop it. I never asked him not to. I was still entirely frozen. I'm disgusted with myself. He left immediately after because his wife was in their room, I cried a lot, and started writing a letter to my friend and her mom. I talked with my therapist about everything. We've gone over everything during two sessions, and I'm in a lot better mental state now, as far as knowing I'm not necessarily a horrible person for not being able to turn down someone who had power over me. My therapist didn't think it was a good idea for me to tell my friend what happened though. That should be left up to her parents to inform her. So my letter ended up just being to her mom. I'm not going to put the text of it on here because it gives a lot of details that I haven't gone into specifics about, but I gave her the letter on Thursday. I just went over when I knew she'd be around and told her that I needed to talk to her. I sat there while she read the letter I wrote, shaking the whole time. I just wanted to get up and run. My therapist told me her reaction might not be what I expected it to be, and she was correct there. She didn't cry. She didn't yell. She just asked me to show her the text messages on my phone. I don't think she really believed me until then because after she saw the messages, she called me a effing bad word and told me to never come back to her house or around her family. I don't think she's told my friend anything because she's still reaching out to make sure that I'm alright after moving out of her place and not really telling her what was going on with me. I'm completely blowing her off. It feels fake to maintain a friendship with her now given what's happened, but I also don't know if that's cruel of me, and I should give her an explanation of some sort. As far as the stuff with my parents goes, they literally haven't said a single thing to me since I told my mom to stay away. I kind of expected something, but they are respecting my request by not reaching out. I think that's everything I have to update people on. Living with a bunch of other adults is kind of weird. I'm not used to cooking for myself on a nightly basis. It's an adjustment, but I'll get there. Thank you for everyone for your help since I posted my original situation. And then the final comment by the OP on the situation she landed in at her friend's house. The OP said, I don't think something profound needs to be said. It's a horrible situation, and I'm glad that it's finally ending. This has been the longest few weeks of my entire life. One person says, you were very brave to stay there while she read the letter. It'll take her time to process just how disgusting her husband has been, preying on a traumatized teenager while she was in the next room. Please just concentrate on you for now. Someone else says, thank you for the update. I'm glad you were able to talk it out with your therapist. Just remember that you don't owe the break and keep yourself happy and sane. And finally, someone else says, hey, you are a strong person. You've been through enough to break many people, which is how I know that. Thanks for the update. Be well. And this ended up not being the OP's last update. Well, it kind of was like the last serious update, but the OP comes back two months later with a post titled, I've been working as a topless maid for extra cash. And it reads, I've done three appointments so far. They all pay really well. It's cleaning nice condos for people. The guys just sit there and watch. There's no touching or anything, but I do make a show of cleaning the area immediately around them. I was surprised to learn it's actual cleaning work though, LOL. I did someone's kitchen last week and the oven was a pain. And this is the last post we have ever received from the OP. And man, what a heartbreaking and just honestly depressing Reddit thread. The OP just had her life ruined by her parents doing some weird and disgusting stuff that she walked in on. And then she ended up moving to her friend's house and her friend's dad ended up preying on her. And then now, a few months later, she's doing topless maid work, which I mean, it just seems like it escalated very fast. And it's just not what I expected at all in this Reddit thread. But I hope that the OP is just doing better now. And what are your guys' thoughts on this whole thread? I mean, I'm really curious to see what you guys think. But yeah, anyways, on to the next one. I found my personal explicit photos on my brother's PC. About two months ago, my brother passed away. It has devastated my family. And we have slowly been putting ourselves back together. My mom has finally got to the point where she is comfortable going through his belongings that got sent to us from his flat. And she gave me his PC, among other bits to take a look at and see if I could do anything with it. I know a fair bit about computers, so I thought I would set it up to see what still worked. It booted up fine. And to my surprise, he didn't have a computer. Out of a sort of morbid curiosity, I opened the browser. I thought I could maybe see some of the last things he was looking at towards the end. And I saw a link to his Google photos in his favorites bar. I thought this was an amazing chance to get back some of the photos we might have never seen. Get some photos of his friends and adventures he's been on over the years. On the side, I saw his albums, and one of them had my name on it. In this album, was a ton of my personal explicit photos, videos, and screenshots of some of my Instagram posts and stories. I didn't go through it for long, but it was a massive amount. I have no idea how he got a hold of them or why the hell he'd been collecting them. I used to be in a long distance relationship with my ex who loved sending him pictures and videos, but there's no way he would have sent them to my brother. Now, I don't know what to do, which is why I'm posting it here, I guess. I can't tell anyone. I now feel so different about him, and I don't understand why he would have done this. Was he attracted to me? Did he get off to these? Or was it just some sort of compulsion he had? I'm a mix of disgusted and devastated, and I just don't know how to move on from it. I keep feeling like I need to go back and look how far this collection goes, but I shouldn't. One person says, Did you know your long distance boyfriend in real life? Did you leave your phone unattended with your brother? What is your age gap? And the OP responds and says, Yeah, I knew my ex. We just only got to see each other every other weekend because of his work. I never left my phone unattended that I knew of, but we lived in the same house until I was 18 and moved out, so there's no way of knowing. I only intended to see him every special occasion at my parents' place for the last few years, really. There's a two-year age gap. I'm the eldest. Another commenter says, That is a lot to process. Is there anyone you can talk to outside the situation? A therapist? And the OP responds and says, Thank you for the kind words. Yeah, I would love to open up to someone, but I don't have that many friends and those I don't know. I don't know how to talk to them. I do knew him pretty well, so wouldn't want to discuss it with them i just can't get the image out of my head of him pleasuring himself to pictures he was never meant to see it's a lot and someone else says uh you should probably check his social media slash browser history in case he shared the photos my condolences also you should probably talk to a psychologist and another commenter says i'm really sorry that's mortifying on the highest level to be honest there's a chance he was selling or posting them online or catfishing guys with them privately and if he has so many i think the only methods that come to mind is that your ex really had sent them or your brother could access your accounts his emails history bookmarks etc would be the best place to look as far as i'm aware including other device bookmarks linked you to the same account photo metadata not sure if reverse image would work unless he was sharing anything publicly i'm sure you don't want to look into it any further and i don't blame you but i am worried for you wishing you all the best if you don't feel able to talk to someone you know about this i would suggest you seek a counselor therapist etc soon and someone else says okay i'm a little versed in things like this so i'll be honest with you guys i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but this is the right thing to do but i'm not sure if this is the right thing to do but this is the right thing to do but this is the right thing to do but He literally told you he loved you. You chose to brush this off. You shouldn't have because it was a red flag. He loves you and he wants to get into your pants big time. He's being your friend because he thinks he can get into your pants that way. You're not being overdramatic, just oblivious to what this guy is doing. And the OP responds and says, I only brushed it off because I thought it was a silly drunk comment and he was literally right on top of me. So I didn't want to make the whole thing even more awkward by mentioning it. Maybe I've been oblivious, but I just didn't think anyone would say that when they were having intimacy with someone they didn't really know. One other user says the obvious hindsight answer is, but seriously, I think due to having intimacy and the fact he said he loves you probably means he's had a crush or adult equivalent on you for a while. Then the intimacy happened. And he's probably been hit by the love bug slash stalker bug, et cetera. If he is a normal human being, it will subside. If he isn't, which you've hinted is a possibility, I would at the very least let a friend or someone know the situation just to be on the safe side and then play it by ear. Hopefully it all dies down for you though. And the OP responds and says, yes. Hindsight is a great thing, but I have deleted them on Facebook now and hope it'll all just subside. I have told a couple of friends about it anyway. So if things get worse, they know, but honestly, I don't think he's that crazy. Another user says, just tell him that you aren't interested and you would like it if he would stop waiting around for you. And the OP responds and says, I did tell him I wasn't interested, but yeah. I guess I will just have to be a bit more assertive and tell him not to wait around for me. And another user says, Tammy regularly hauls stuff to her kids at college. Home of the save. Join for just $20 at BJ's.com. Slash mesquite and save 10 cents per gallon for six months. Open soon. Limited time offer. New members only. BJ's, home of the save. I want to hire a private investigator. Some folks say I'm the best. ABC Tuesdays, TV's hottest PI is back. You sure you're ready to take on a serial killer? It's like a dozen more likely explanations other than serial killer. All right, maybe not a dozen. In Florida, crime has no off season. I just heard you were shot at today. It's a rocket launcher. Well missed. RJ Decker, Tuesdays, 10, 9 central on ABC. Next day on Hulu. When the OP stops responding after heeding the advice on here, I'll assume the guy murdered her. And another person says, you really do not have to be his friend. And the OP responds and says, I really was happy to be his friend, but I just found him a bit overwhelming because I felt like I couldn't leave my home without having to see him and talk to him. And his presence on Facebook was pretty annoying. I do agree, though. I don't have to be his friend. And I quite like the way you worded how to break it off. So thanks. And then we get an update four days later. It reads as follows. So I'm going to begin with the typical thanks for the advice. And for those who kept telling me, yes, I have learned my lesson about having intimacy with someone who I don't really know. I don't really know and can't really avoid. Anyway, on to the update of this situation. The first thing I did was delete and block him from Facebook. But that's the easy bit because I was still going to have to talk to him in person. I coincidentally ran into him on Monday. The first thing he said to me was, have you deleted your Facebook or something? Because I can't find you anymore. So I went for it and gave a long speech about how he's a nice guy. And I thought, well, I'm going to have to talk to him in person. I thought we could be friends, but I feel like I'm leading him on by hanging out together as I'm not really interested. He replied that he really does just want to be friends and that it would be more awkward now if we're not. I just said something like, I don't want to give you the wrong impression. So I think it's best for now if we're not. And then I just quickly left before we could say anything else. I felt like a bit of a bitch saying it, but I guess it needed to be said and I'm glad I did it because he was overwhelming me slightly. So far it worked and I haven't actually seen him since, but it has only been like two days. However, last night I got a rambling long letter through my door. It came quite late, so I'm almost hoping he was drunk or something when he delivered it because I think it's kind of weird and also vaguely insulting. I think I will type it out as it's difficult. To explain the tone of the letter. So here it is. And now let's read the letter. It reads, dear so-and-so, whatever her name was. You didn't give me much chance to speak the other night and there is more I wanted to say, though this might actually be an easier way for me to explain my thoughts and feelings. I know we had only talked a few times before our trist, but I feel like there was an obvious connection between us. I'm sure you must have felt it, too, or I don't think you would have come home with me that night. I'm not the type of guy who sleeps with girls. I don't really know, but I was extremely attracted to you. And when it appeared you reciprocated my feelings, I couldn't help myself. When you told me you weren't interested in anything romantic, I understood, even if it was not what I wanted to hear. I don't know anything about your personal life, part of the reason why I am not usually interested in one-night stands, and so, of course, I realize why you might not be interested in me. However, I think it is strange you don't want to at least be friends. We shared a very intimate moment with each other and you can't pretend it never happened. It therefore seems only logical that we become friends. It only makes it more awkward if we aren't. I just want to say, if you feel embarrassed or worried that I think of you as, um, promiscuous, don't be. I don't judge you. That would be a terrible double standard. Though be careful because some men may see your behavior as promiscuous, especially if you refuse to talk to them after. Just like when a guy doesn't call a girl after they sleep together, he is seen as an asshole. Really, the point of me saying all of this is just to repeat that I understand you are not interested in me. You are not interested in a relationship with me, and I respect that. However, I am just going to say it, I really like you. You are a fun, smart, and a beautiful girl, and I would love to get to know you more. I don't think you can deny that we get along very well before that night, and I don't think what happened should change anything. Don't think you are leading me on. I am a grown guy, and I know that no means can handle just being friends with you. But I respect what you said to me, even if it hurt a little, and will keep my distance from you for now. If you change your mind, and if you ever want to talk to me, or if you need anything, you know where I live, and I will always welcome you. That's what neighbors are for, right? And then the OP says, I do feel a bit bad because he obviously does like me, and has put a lot of emotional value on what happened between us, but I just don't feel like I can deal with someone as intense as him. Maybe it's just me, but I do think that his letter has confirmed that he is a bit odd. So, I'm glad I said what I said, and was upfront with him. I think he will leave me alone now. He has so far. Though I hope if we do see each other, we can be polite, and it won't be too awkward. But it probably won't be. One user says, And the OP responds and says, And someone else says, So basically, you're promiscuous. If you don't become his friend, I'd suggest being promiscuous. And the OP says, And someone else says, This guy is way too heavy. Way too attached after one night of intimacy. The whole letter is creepy. There was no need for him to write it. And the OP responds and says, And someone else responds and says, When I was your age, I might have written a letter like that if I were in his situation. He wants something, and he thinks words can make that thing happen. Once I was his age, I realized that words are unlikely to change someone's mind. They're only likely to seem creepy. He should know better. I don't think there's anything you can do now. now interacting with him more will only make him think he has a chance and someone else says he's a grown-ass man with the social grace of a middle schooler we have to be friends now because we shared an intimate moment this guy needs a dose of reality also op after that letter i would take some precaution it scares me a bit go with your gut feeling something tells me there's something not quite right with this guy and the op responds and says this is really what i find weird he's 30 years old and he doesn't seem to get that a one-night stand doesn't equal friends and that his persistence is making it worse and yeah totally i mean like like this guy's just weird i mean like he's just being persistent when the op is making it completely clear she wants respectfully nothing to do with him she's like i don't know what to do with him i don't know what to do with him i don't know what to do with him she's like hey this isn't gonna work out we don't need to be friends like if someone says that to you especially like like a one-night stand like why would you just keep going after them over and over and over and over again that is just creepy and there's obviously something wrong with this guy because anyone would be you know self-aware enough to be like maybe i shouldn't slide a letter underneath her door telling her why we need to be friends even though she just told me explicitly no if someone tells you no take it as a no don't try to complain or change their mind um that's just very weird and then the op comes back 11 days later and let's get into it it reads as follows i was hopeful there would be no more updates this because he managed to go for about a week without contacting me i hadn't seen or heard from him for a few days so i thought things were blowing over and he had got over it then yesterday i was getting some stuff out of my car and i suddenly hear his voice say hey do you need a hand of course we were going to see each other again at some point and i thought i was polite with him by just saying hey no i'm fine thanks i really didn't think this was rude and i really didn't need any help anyway but he seemed to get offended by it and started to get mad at me he said something like what's your problem i'm only trying to help you all i've ever done is be nice to you but you still act like a bitch oh my god bro just pack it up like leave her alone this is like so insane to me it's like if someone says it's like the op literally said um hey no i'm fine thanks that is not rude like unless she said in like a rude way but still you know what i mean like why would you not be like all right no problem like and then leave her like why would you go what's your problem i'm only trying to help you all i've ever done is help you all i've ever done is be nice to you but you act like a bitch like that's crazy to say but let's continue with what the op was saying the op says i think he said more but i was kind of shocked at how he reacted he stormed off before i could say anything but i don't even know what i would have said as i was a bit stunned and also totally embarrassed because there were people around who probably heard it all i was also a bit upset because i know that he is allowed to feel a lot of pain and i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do but i do think this outburst was uncalled for i have made my feeling clear to him now and i know the truth hurts sometimes but i don't think he has to take it out on me like this this morning i woke up to oh boy another letter this one is quite short and so i will type it out again the letter reads dear so-and-so i want to apologize for shouting at you earlier i let my anger get the best of me and i am sorry about that but i can't help but get frustrated at your behavior i get that you're not interested in me and that you don't want to be my friend even if i do find it strange you aware of my feelings on this so i won't repeat them however when someone is trying to help you it is good manners to accept it or at the very least be grateful god this is so weird again i'm sorry and i realize i need to think about the way i acted and i'll try not to do it again by the way this how adults deal with awkward situations they don't pretend they never happened hope you accept my apology and the little bit of advice i gave you oh my god that is so weird like this dude just needs to leave this girl alone like the poor op is just being like harassed by this guy like to be honest if i was the op here i'd be like all right cool i've asked this guy super nicely and i'm like i'm not gonna do it again i'm not gonna do it again i'm not gonna do it and respectfully multiple times to leave me the hell alone i would give it to the police to be honest i'd be like hey this guy is just kind of harassing me because that's what he's doing and um he was yelling at her in the parking lot embarrassing her in front of everybody at our apartment complex um like i would be close to just being like hey police um let's get this you know my track record going because this guy's obviously um a cause for concern or report it to help with anything but this guy is just a complete weirdo but the op continues their post and says maybe i should be grateful he apologized but i almost think this letter is worse because he is not even trying to hide the insults and is totally patronizing i don't know how to deal with him anymore he seems to have gotten over his love for me but now has some grudge against me if he really thinks all this about me i don't even know why he even wants to talk to me and be friends it must have been like a month since we had intimacy now anyway so i don't know why i can't accept it and move on i kind of want to talk to him again now but i get the feeling that is what he wants me to do should i just ignore him and hope he gets bored when he realizes i won't give him any attention or should i tell him again more assertively that i want him to leave me alone i'm so effing stressed about seeing him again because i don't want him to know what he's going to be like and now let's get into some of the top comments one person says it's time to move and the op responds and says i'm actually seriously considering this but i can't really afford to yes i'm thinking this would be the easiest thing to do my parents aren't really an option but i'm going to call my brother for obvious reasons i haven't told him anything about this but i'm going to tell him that i'm going to call my brother and i'm going to tell him that and i think he would help me out financially some people recommend the op to call the cops and the op says i did think about doing this but i just don't know what i would say i had intimacy with someone and now they've sent me a couple of letters even though i don't want them to i just don't think they will take it seriously or i think i'll call them to see what my options are however even if i can get a no contact order or whatever i don't think i'd want to live that close to him and i don't think i'd want to live that close to him and i don't think i'd want to live have to see him regularly and i totally understand what the op is saying like um i don't know what i would say to the cops and the way she frames it i think is the wrong way to frame it to the cops it's like of course the cops probably wouldn't do anything if you're like i got a few letters and this guy keeps talking to me like if i went to the cops i'd be like hey this guy keeps harassing me i've asked him multiple times to leave me alone and now he's you know yelled at me and i feel unsafe um like i feel like that's all you'd have to tell the cops um for them to take you more i'm not a cop i don't work in law but i feel like the police would definitely take that a lot more seriously if you frame it as i don't feel safe with this guy which i wouldn't feel safe with this guy leaving letters at my door and you know who knows if this guy wants to do anything creepier like wait at the op's door or do anything else crazy like that but then the op posts another update a few days later and let's get into it and it reads as follows i had requests to update on what happened to the cop i don't know what happened to the cop i don't know what happened to the cop so here it is hopefully it is the final one things have happened quite quickly since my last update i was still kind of undecided whether to write to him to tell him to leave me alone as this would give me proof if things went further or to just ignore him anyway i called my brother who i didn't initially want to tell about all of this but i thought i probably should tell someone in my family i don't know what to do with him i don't know what to do with him i don't know what to do with him he was totally adamant i shouldn't contact him and i should call the cops if he continues so i took his advice and decided to not communicate with my neighbor i sort of regret telling my brother now because he really did not help the situation i had been out on friday night and stayed over at my friend's house so i didn't get back until saturday morning i came back wearing what i had been out and so i was able to get back to my friend's house and i was able to get back to my neighbor it probably looked like i had spent the night with a guy so this may have made him a bit more angry he was in the hallway when i got back i'm totally sure he had been waiting for me and said to me i don't appreciate getting threatening messages from your brother i honestly had no idea what he was talking about so i said that and i found out that my brother had sent him some kind of threatening message telling him to leave me alone he then was saying stuff like this and i said i don't know what to do with him and i said i don't know what to do with like, "Why can't you just tell me this yourself?" why can't you at least talk to me? I just don't understand you. I responded with something like, I'm sorry about the messages. I don't know he sent them, but I've told you, I don't want to contact me yet. You keep sending me those letters. And I think he was just worried about me. This is when he got pretty angry and was saying stuff like, what are you worried about? And how he had been trying to be nice. Yeah, he actually said it. He pretty much just repeated what he said in the letters, but it was the real time he actually scared me a little. I didn't really know what to do, but then he called me a promiscuous woman to my face. And I was like, F this. I'm not listening to you anymore. Leave me alone. And went straight to my apartment. As I was walking away, he tried to backtrack and apologize, but I didn't want to give him any more attention. So I just ignored him. The first thing I did after this was talk to my brother again, because I was kind of annoyed at him for getting involved. And I wanted to find out exactly what he had said. So he got his Facebook from one of my friends and sent him this message. You need to leave my sister alone. You are creeping her out. If you don't, there will be consequences. So I guess it does sound a little threatening, but it is not as bad as I thought it might have been. Even though I was worried that my brother's message might have been seen as a threat to my sister, I decided that I was going to call the police. I waited until the next day because I was tired and it had got a bit late after talking to my brother. I shouldn't have been surprised that I woke up to another letter. I think he loves having the last word. It's not very long, so I will type it out again. And the letter reads as follows. Dear so-and-so, I'm sorry for some of the things I said to you yesterday. I didn't mean to hurt you. I mean them, but the heat of the moment got to me. I did feel threatened by what your brother said to me. All I have tried to do is talk to the person I lived next door to after I had intimacy with them. You've made it pretty clear you are not interested in me, and I have accepted that. Then move on. If you've accepted that, then you don't need to send this message or this letter. This guy is actually a psychopath, but this letter continues and said, However, I've explained to you multiple times that I find it strange you don't want to talk, so I think you could be more understanding to my feelings instead of just labeling me as a creep. I think we need to talk like adults, in person, because I feel so frustrated that you don't understand what I've tried to say to you in my letters, and the only way to do it now is face to face. I won't let my anger get the better of me like it has previously, and surely you must see this as a better opportunity. I don't want to hurt you. I don't want to hurt your idea than getting your brother to send me messages. And then the OP says, There was no way I was going to talk to him in person again, as the last two times we spoke, he just got angry with me and called me horrible words. I wanted the whole situation over now, so I called the police. It was the non-emergency thing, and they were actually very helpful. I was prepared for them not to care. And they asked me to go to the station, and I had to show them all the stuff he sent me, the letters and Facebook messages, etc. They filed a report, and originally, they offered to call him, but when I told them I didn't have his number, they said they would go and talk to him. I just want to make this clear for those who responded to me before saying going to the cops was too far. This is not a restraining order. He has not been charged or anything. All I have done is file a police report, and we have both agreed to not contact each other, and if either one of us contacts each other, then it will go further. I was sort of expecting him to send another letter after this, but he hasn't. I know it's only been a couple of days, but I do feel better about the situation now. I'm going to stay here for now. I might talk to my landlord, but I don't think he would let me break my lease. If I feel like I don't want to stay, I think my brother would help me out with money. I do feel bad about what happened, and of course, I should have never had to go to the intimacy with him. The number one lesson I have learned is do not sleep with your neighbor, but if anyone reading this finds themselves in a similar situation, I guess my advice is trust your instinct and go talk to the cops before they can be helpful, and it doesn't mean they're going to start arresting people. Anyway, thanks for the advice. It was appreciated. One person says, Please be careful, OP. Really glad you contacted the police. But this dude keeps escalating. Do not be afraid to call the cops again at the slightest hint of trouble. And someone comments and replies to this and says, I really agree with this. Please be vigilant, OP. This guy sounds so insane. If he were a normal guy, getting a message like that from your brother, clearly indicating he made you uncomfortable. Enough to tell a family member he was creeping you out would make him embarrassed. But this nutcase writes yet another letter about his feelings that he probably wrote and rewrote multiple times. He is so frustrated you aren't understanding his letters. He seems so determined to push some level of familiarity with you, like he's entitled to being able to speak to you face to face about his feelings. Entitled after calling you bad words. What a POS. I'm so glad you went to the police. You did not overreact. Although I fear after they visit him, there will be another letter. At least if this happens, you will have more ammo. And another commenter says, I would also suggest saying something to your landlord about this. Perhaps let them know that you filed the police reports because this guy was harassing you. Would not hurt to have them simply be aware just in case you end up needing to break your lease over it. And someone else says, OP, please be prepared for escalation. I would highly recommend you get yourself some keychain pepper spray. When at home alone, keep a big can of hornet slash wasp spray always within reach. It has a 20 to 30 foot range and will hurt just as much as pepper spray in an attacker's eyes. Maybe consider sleeping with a knife under your pillow too, just in case. This may sound extreme, but I was in a similar situation once when a guy just wouldn't take no for an answer. And I never even slept with the dude. He broke into my apartment by cutting through the screen on a screened-in porch where I carelessly left the sliding glass door unlocked one night. When I tried to call 911, he grabbed my cell phone and threw it against a wall and broke it. He ripped my shirt. I jammed my fingers in his eyes long enough to scramble away and get a knife from the camera. I was so scared. I was so scared. I was so scared. I was so scared. And when I plunged that into his thigh, he left and I was able to call for help. I too thought I was just dealing with a socially awkward weirdo and not a effing psychopath. It was even more effed up and traumatizing because this friend confided in me that he had an STD. And during the attack, he kept saying he was going to make sure I had it too. So no one else would want to have intimacy with me and I would have no choice but to be with him. Oh my god, that is actually nightmarish. That is so scary. Things can go from zero to batshit in an instant. Keep your doors locked. Consider buying extra locks to add to your door. If you have a sliding glass door, get one of those metal bars you put down to keep the door from being able to be slid open until it's removed. Make sure your windows are locked. Always sleep with your cell phone within reach. For the longest time after the attack, you have to keep your doors locked. Keep your windows locked. So all I would ever have to do is hit one and send if I woke up to an intruder. Absolutely follow through and get that restraining order if he ever contacts you again. And then the OP comes back one and a half months later and let's get into it. And it reads as follows. What a mess this all turned into, but I really do think it is all over now. And so I thought I would do a quick final update. Initially, I was thinking I would just try to stick out living there until my lease ended. But on the encouragement of some of the replies on my last post, I decided to talk to my landlord. He was not really very understanding and was like, you shouldn't have slept with him, which I guess is true. But that's a crazy thing for a landlord to say. Like, why would that like, why would a landlord say that instead of like, I'm sorry, this guy's harassing you. And making your life a living hell? Like, why would you ever say you shouldn't have slept with him? Like, that's a crazy thing to say, in my opinion. But let's continue. The OP says he said there's nothing he can do now. But if I wanted to break the lease, I could, but would cost me two months rent as a termination fee. And I would have to give 60 days notice, though he did say to let him know if anything else happens. So I left it but I was living in like a constant anxiety of seeing him or that he would do something else. Then I talked to my brother again, he said that my neighbor had been messaging him saying stuff like how does it feel to know your little sister's a promiscuous person and other intimate stuff I wasn't really sure if I could go to the police again with this because he wasn't directly contacting me but I realized I didn't want to stay anymore my brother agreed to help me come up with the money so I thought that would be that and I could get away then maybe a couple of days later I ran into my neighbor it probably was just a coincidence it was going to happen at some point the weird thing was he was being super friendly and asked how I was etc and didn't mention any of the stuff that had happened I found it almost creepier than when he was being aggressive and I told him that he was supposed to be leaving me alone and I wanted him to stop contacting my brother he said something like I thought we had moved past all that this is when I seriously began to think there's something really wrong with him I just told him again to leave me alone then surprise he sent me another letter I can't find it right now but it basically said there was no need to contact the police before and I hope you aren't thinking about doing it again but the tone of it was kind of threatening I went to the police again and things got a lot more serious this time I got a temporary injunction against him then there was a hearing and I got a temporary injunction against him and I got a temporary injunction against him and I got a final injunction restraining order because of this I was able to break my lease without the termination fee with only 30 days notice I stayed with a friend for a couple of weeks but this week I've moved into a new place and finally feel like I can move on from all of this thanks for the advice on here it sure gave me the confidence to go to the cops and god I feel so bad for the op like her life was completely uprooted just from like a one night fling you know like I just this guy was a psychopath and he really should like be on a watch list or something because like he will probably do this to every other sort of you know romantic relationship he's in like whatever poor girl like is like oh well I kind of like this guy and they talk to him like he's going to become a stalker and leave letters at their house and show up at random places just so creepy and I hope the op was able to you know move away which it seems like the op was successfully able to move away from the police and I hope the op was able to you know move away from the police and move away but also just you know be left alone by this creepo for the rest of her life and um yeah I hope the op is doing better now a friend's husband almost certainly found her discord account and she's gone dark to clear some things up I am Canadian so I know nothing about the intricacies of the U.S. legal system Hank joined BJ's Wholesale Club the day he became a father of 30 I coach football now coach Hank saves up to 25% off grocery store prices 30 pounds of pasta three cases of protein bars 75 sports drinks and that's just pregame he knows teamwork and BJ's knows savings this is your home coach home of the save join for just twenty dollars at bjs.com slash mesquite and save 10 cents per gallon for six months open soon limited time offer new members only BJ's home of the save two of the same guys in our group are American and the other is Malaysian our friend she is stuck in an abusive relationship she can't leave because that means leaving her kids behind and she's not sure he wouldn't hurt the kids or not in her absence he will not let her work will not let her leave unless it's for grocery shopping will not let her use his car will not let her have her own money so she cannot save her money and she will not let her leave unless it's for grocery shopping up to buy a car if she is not constantly cleaning or cooking he will hurt her but is obsessed with presenting this affable family man image to others including his own family he even prevents her from eating her own food because she quote doesn't deserve it for not keeping the place 100 spotless 100 of the time so she spends most of her time hungry but sneaks bites when she knows he's going to eat the food she doesn't want to eat the food the pandemic made his job a work from home position and he took full advantage of it to keep her under his thumb he is always watching her almost always at home so he can prevent her from enjoying herself or force her to do chores it is always her fault when something bad happens the only time she can get some free time to herself is when he's sleeping which means she's often sleep deprived she has no support system no real life friends and her family is not an option because she is the eldest sibling and her parents had way too many kids literally a full house so she cannot count on them for help while he doesn't hurt the kids they have witnessed their dad abuse their mom their whole lives i've asked her repeatedly to call 9-1-1 and she said she can't because if her husband ends up in jail which i doubt considering how abysmal the justice system is at punishing abusers she will not get alimony and child support i don't know about how the american legal system to say if that's true or not she's afraid if she calls 9-1-1 she will be out of a place to stay with two kids no car and no job she is also afraid she will not be able to get a job above minimum wage because of the gap in her resume i don't blame her for thinking this i can't physically travel to help her or even offer her a place to stay the most i've been able to do is donate money that she can stash away for the future at this point i only see the abuse stopping if her eldest steps in when he's older and big enough to physically overpower his dad and that's if he doesn't turn out to be like his dad my friend's husband also had an abusive father and look how that turned out today two concerning messages came from her discord account the first one reading as follows i'm sorry i need to tell you guys that i'm not a good father i'm not a good father i'm not a good father i'm not a good person i have lied because i'm addicted to video games and junk and i'm selfish and i've gone behind husband's back to get it all off of it i have lied about husband i have lied about everything i've ever said he is not a bad person he is an amazing person that never deserved to be talked badly about i did not deserve anything from any of you so i will send any money you've sent me back as soon as i can i'm going to stay long enough to make sure you all have seen this message and you know the truth that i am a terrible liar and then i will be deleting my discord and going to focus on making everything i can up to my husband and his family i don't want to be contacted i just want to be left alone to do the right thing for once i'm only responding to tell you to not speak about husband like that he did not do anything honestly i don't even care if you don't believe me because it doesn't matter just leave him out of it don't speak about him that way it's my fault and i won't have anyone talk badly about him any longer please tell me what i can do my other friends in our group chat are also trying to look into it what they can do but we thought about making a reddit post what increases our chances of helping her if you have any questions i will try to answer the best of my ability edit since people are concerned about me sending her money i've only sent her like 40 total update that's not much of an update we have not received a reply from her sister because she hasn't blocked the friend that messaged her either one domestic violence organization said we shouldn't call the cops at all but i don't think we have a choice not to cps has been called they took our report police too they are going to do a wellness check we even left a number for them to call back in case anything happens update two the cops said she's fine and that the kids are okay and oh my god this is such a scary situation i can't imagine like my friend on discord you know like i think she's an abusive relationship or i know she is an abusive relationship and then you get that message which is obviously written by the op's friend's abusive husband like this is a horrible situation and it seems like the cops didn't really do that good of a job checking because the op put okay and she's finding quotes and so i assume the cops didn't do a great job or not but now let's get into some of the top comments one person says i would call a domestic violence shelter that is in her area and ask them for recommendations about how to help the reason i'm suggesting this instead of calling the police for a welfare check is because if the police show up she'll likely not tell them anything and then he'll beat her for the police showing up the dv shelter in her area might have have some alternative solutions for you that can help her keep her safe or suggestions for how to help her make an escape plan if and when she is able to find a break in his surveillance they deal with this all the time they are the best to know what resources there are and the op responds and says we did they said there's not much they can do without a direct way to contact her they put her name and address on file though another user says consider contacting the cps equivalent in her area as well. They may put people in her path who can help her. I second to having a welfare check done, but who knows what she would feel comfortable saying to police or if she'd even have a chance to speak to them. With CPS, they should do their best to speak to each family member if your information meets report criteria. Good luck and love to you and your friend. This type of story is an all-too-common story that never fails to break my heart, but there is hope for her and anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation. And the OP responds and says, can they still involve themselves if we only have claims of abuse concerning their mother and not the actual kids themselves? Another commenter says, are you sure this is all actually happening and not a fake scenario made up by a bored person trying to get attention or a scammer? You sent them money? Honestly, this whole thing smacks of a storyline from a domestic thriller novel that I've read before. And the OP responds, it's not outside the realm of possibility, but I've also known her for over 10 years. That's a very long time to be keeping up a scam. The total I sent her was only about $40. And yeah, I don't think the scam theory holds any credibility, especially if the OP says they've known her for 10 years. Like, come on. I mean, no one's, you know, running the scam for 10 years to, you know, get 40 bucks. And another user says, I honestly wish you would have posted for, help while you still have the chance to speak to her. There are battered woman shelters that accommodate women with children who are in DV situations. If she really wanted out, she could have went to one and started the process of leaving him alone for good. I hope she figures that out soon. And if she already knows, I hope she has the strength to leave him. And the OP responds and says, she almost did get out once, was even going to go to a divorce lawyer. At that point, he hadn't escalated to physical abuse, but was emotionally and verbally. But then the pandemic happened and he coerced her into intimacy slash our word, though she never referred to it that way. And that's how their youngest was born. Man, this is such a bad situation. And finally, someone else says, if you call the cops, it may make things worse. A welfare check is nothing. They go to the house. If she is there and says she's okay, they will turn around and leave. She may then be held responsible for the, the welfare check equals further abuse slash punishment. I did that one time the cops went to their house, asked the woman if she was okay and felt safe where she was. Of course she said, yes, her abuser was right there. The cops never tried to speak to her alone. I don't know what I would do in this case. Maybe a better choice is to contact an abuse agency that deals with this all the time and see what they advise. I hope your friend is safe. And the OP responds and says, I know I thought about that, but I don't know who else has the tools to physically prevent him from hurting her stuck between a rock and a hard place. And then the OP comes back 17 laters with an update and let's get into it. The update reads. So after the police were absolutely useless, I remembered my friend told me that her husband made her check and deal with the mail because he felt it was too much of a chore. So initially, I was going to mail an anonymous letter with addresses and contact information of various local and national domestic violence organizations. And we also contacted the 911 emergency cell phone bank. And they said they'd made contact with a local organization in order to get a new phone to her. No idea if that's still a thing in progress right now. Her sister responded to us. She believed us. Apparently they had their own. Suspicions. He was treating her bad, but didn't know the extent of it. We told her we didn't think the cops separated her sister and her husband when doing the welfare check. And my friend's sister definitely thought the same. She's not fond of law enforcement either from the looks of it. So the sister forwarded her mom's contact information. We gave her the mom, a link to a drive with all these screenshots we took of my friend detailing the abuse. So. She can look at it anytime she wants. Unfortunately, that's when our friend contacted one of us through discord to yell at one of us first through a call. Then through chat, her family apparently were a bit more communicative as late. And with the welfare check, her husband was extra suspicious. She basically screamed to leave her alone, said she has a family that's relying on her and that she'll sue. If we keep contacting her family kept insisting that she was a liar, that her husband is a good man who did nothing wrong and that she was going to be better for her family. So he definitely threatened her with manipulative BS about homelessness and custody of the kids. And he is definitely the one behind the legal threat. My friend didn't even know what her legal options were when it came to custody and alimony. Why would she suddenly feel confident enough to sue? Anyway, we informed her mom about our friends, uh, outbursts. And she said she understood and she would take it from here. She thanked us for going out of her way to contact her family and that we did the right thing. It's possible our friendship with our maybe ex friend is irrevocably damaged. I know my two American friends have been really stressed out by this whole thing. Don't feel like talking to her anytime soon. And I don't blame them personally. I think it was fear for her kids talking with a side of brainwashing. My partner. The only way I can see us ever talking again is if she contacts us from a new account after months of being physically away from him. Hopefully her family can get through this. We've done all we can, and it couldn't have happened without your advice and suggestions. Thank you so much for the help. One person says, this is horrible. That poor woman is going to get killed. And someone responds and says he was absolutely threatening the kids to make her make that last call. Nobody 180s like that alone. I wish they'd listened to the shelter and hadn't gone to the police. Working with the family and local organizations has a much higher success rate and wouldn't have tipped off the husband. Even on the off chance they got a decent cop who actually wanted to help. They couldn't have done anything unless they'd caught an attack in progress or the friend was willing to talk. Which if the husband had her phone and the kids were no longer off limits, wasn't going to happen. And another person says, It's so impossible. I was in an abusive relationship for five years, and people trying to help made things so much worse. And I was so weak, I was so scared to get help without him too, so went out of my way to protect him. No one can really help. The police are not helpful in the most part because you don't want your partner to be arrested. They'll blame you for it when released. All you can do is be there, with no judgment, for when she's ready to escape. A big tool for them is isolation. If you fall out with everyone around you, then leaving becomes too scary, as you only have them. Perhaps play along and say, Look, don't worry about it, I'm pleased things aren't bad after all. In that case, let's go for a coffee for a nice catch up on the weekend. See if you can get her solo by faking ignorance. Also log everything. She'll need all the proof of situations she can get if this goes legal, so it isn't just. Just her word against his. She won't be doing this, log in. And someone replies and says, It sucks because I want to respect her need for privacy, but at the same time, I can't trust anything that is said on that account anymore because he has full access to it. I just hope that, amid the repeated lies, there were a lot, she saw my message telling her we will always love her and we're there if she needs to talk. And this was the last update we have ever received, from the OP on the situation. And I just really, really hope that the OP's friend was able to get out of the situation and also her kids. I mean, this is such a heartbreaking situation. Not only is the, you know, the friend being abused and just, you know, taking advantage of and all, every single other sort of horrible thing and beaten and possibly many other things. But who knows what's happening to those poor kids. I mean, this is really such a sad situation. And I'm really upset that we didn't get an update or some sort of closure. But we just have to hope the police were able to go and arrest this abuser or CPS was able to come and save them all. Or who knows. But for now, this is, yeah, we have no sort of closure on this. My daughter treats me like crap and worships her deadbeat dad. Throw away account because she knows my mane. My kid's dad. died 9 years ago, when my daughter was 13. She's now 22. She worships his memory and often treats me very poorly. I know I make a lot of mistakes, but he was an abusive drug addict who put us through hell. I was able to shield her from a lot of it, which I am thankful for, but it means she has very little understanding for all the awful stuff he did. I have never said a bad word about him, and I am glad that she will always have a perfect father instead of the deadbeat she would have eventually realized he was. It still sucks that I have to take the brunt of her anger and trauma because I'm here, an imperfect human, while he gets to be forever faultless. I'll always be there for her, imperfect but here still. I love her more than words can express. Some days are really hard. I think your daughter is old enough to know the truth. She is an adult. It might be the only thing that can save your relationship because she is living in a delusion that's making her angrier and angrier. Once kids know what their parents went through, they begin to see them as real people and not just parents. She might be angry at first, but she needs her one living parent, so she has to let go of the dead one. The false idea she has of him. In the OP response, it says, I don't disagree with you, but I can't get her there. She would just resent me more. I'm hopeful she'll get there on her own eventually. All I can really do right now is be here for her when she's ready. Another commenter says, You don't need to tell her. What's that going to do? People act like she'll automatically switch and start worshipping you and hating her dad. She says, She's still young, and give her time to figure it out. And the OP responds and says, Thank you. The situation is far more complex than I can put into a few paragraphs, especially if I want to keep it anonymous. Most days are better than yesterday. I was just feeling down and needed to vent about the unfairness of it all for a minute. Today has been much better. And another commenter says, How much does she even know? You might have done an extra good job, shielding her from the ugly truth. And the OP responds and says, She knows enough to put the pieces together once she's willing. She'll get there when she's ready. And then we don't get an update for around six months. But six months later, we get an update on the situation. I posted a few months ago about my daughter treating me terribly while nearly deifying her dead dad. Who was extremely abusive while he was alive. Over the next few weeks, she became more and more hostile to me. She would also tell me about extremely concerning decisions she was making and was starting to sound more and more unstable. She lives on her own, 30 minutes away near the state university, so it was very difficult for me to give her the little bit of help she would allow. Long story short, she ended up in an inpatient care where she was diagnosed with mild schizophrenia. She is now medicated and is doing so much better, though still struggling in many ways. Turns out, all of the hostility towards me was based on delusions she was having about me. Now that she is medicated, we are back to talking nearly every day. I love her so much, I am so scared for what the future will hold for her. This is such a scary diagnosis and it has not been all smooth sailing. But I'm also just glad to understand what was happening to her and to be able to get her the support and care she needs. To the people who declared I was clearly a terrible mother and they knew exactly why my daughter hated me, who demanded I tell her the truth immediately, please let this be a lesson to you. If I live, I will live. If I have listened to your advice, my daughter might very well be dead right now. Life is not a movie where there are always easy, obviously correct answers and nothing bad will ever happen if you just do the right way. When in doubt, choose to be kind. You don't know the whole story. You don't know the perfect solution. Life is not as easy as Reddit commenters make it seem. And now let's get into it. One user says, that is a scary diagnosis, but so happy she found help. Sending hugs. Another commenter says, as a psychologist, I want to assure you that considering the fact that it seems like she got her diagnosis fairly quickly after the first onset of symptoms and the meds are helping, she may be able to live a normal life if she sticks to taking her meds and meeting with her doctor and ideally, a psychologist to accept her diagnosis. Schizophrenia can cause brain damage during psychotic breaks. So I really hope that she keeps taking her medications. Hugs. And someone else says, I haven't left a comment on Reddit in a second, but this post is called to me. After a long time of being misdiagnosed, getting my diagnosis of schizoaffective was scary, but ultimately helpful. Make sure she is taking her medication. She is taking her medication daily and is going to her psychiatrist in therapy. Her support system is what is keeping her going through this life, which is progressive with age. Thank you for being in her life. I hope she knows how much you care and love her. And another commenter says, as I posted in the original post, there is a genetic possibility that the biological father may also have undiagnosed and untreated schizophrenia. And someone responds and says, about 50% of people with schizophrenia will also have a history of substance abuse, with men being more than twice as likely to have that. That plus paranoid delusions equals the late father. Or he could have just been a POS. Who knows? Regardless, predisposition towards drug abuse is hereditary and substance abuse disorder has a high comorbidity with other psychiatric conditions. If you are a parent whose child has a close biological family member with a history of. Home of the save. Join for just $20 at bjs.com slash mesquite and save $10. Cents per gallon for six months. Open soon. Limited time offer. New members only. BJ's. Home of the save. History of drug abuse. Please be upfront with them and stress the importance of mental health. And man, just such a sad Reddit thread. But I hope that the OP and the OP's daughter are doing better now. Neighbor is suing me because one of my horses nearly killed her kid. She's suing me for around $5,000 and for legal fees as well. Now, she let the kid climb into the paddock with my stallion, who is extremely aggressive and territorial. This woman has been told multiple times to not come onto our property or even touch our horses besides the stallion. Is there any way? I could make a counterclaim to it. I have footage of her letting her kid pet the stallion and some of our other animals. I could pay this off, but I don't want this on my record as I'm about to go and buy 10 or 15 more horses to fill in land at our farm. I just need to know how I can get this woman to stay off of our property immediately so that this does not happen again. One user says, this is like the classic my neighbor's kid snuck into my yard and drowned in my pool cases. Whether or not they have a claim comes down to their ability to prove negligence from your end or that your animal was extremely vicious. Did you have proper fencing? Did you have any signage? Was a horse you knew to be dangerous in an area too easily accessible? Have you previously allowed them to do this or similar? If they had no permission to enter your property and purposefully climbed over your fence, then it'd be hard for them to prove from their end. Your homeowner's insurance may actually have a personal liability clause in there that covers you against these types of suits, by the way. So definitely check there. If you don't already have liability insurance, you should 100% get it if you'll have many horses. As for your property, put up no trespassing signs and or a fence around the perimeter. If you see her coming on again, then call the police. any case you should get a lawyer to advise you on this and then the op replies and says i have fencing all around my property and the stallion is kept in a paddock with double fences just because of how mean he is we also have no trespassing signs and they aren't allowed near any of our animals let alone on our property and then we get an update a few weeks later and it reads so my insurance ended up taking care of it and i only had to pay around two thousand dollars for damage to my property now she was charged with child endangerment and abuse apparently they found out that she kept them out of school and was using them to get money from her husband the stallion is also fine he also gets lots of treats and the top comment reads well that plunged quickly and someone else replies and says yeah the courts can be a pretty long process but if you have enough data like op did then into the drain that neglectful mom goes and someone else says i'm a little surprised op isn't countersuing for the two thousand dollars they had to put out for the property damage also i didn't think property damage was mentioned in the original post and someone else says regardless of the amount of damage that was done to the family if there's animals i cannot imagine just letting myself go onto someone else's property and yeah that is basically all the op ever posted about this situation but i just wanted to include it because man did that escalate quickly and um i just hope the kid is doing all right because like the court said uh the mom was charged with child endangerment and abuse so i hope the op and his horses are doing better now and same with that poor kid and all right guys that wraps up two hours of some shocking reddit threads and these truly were shocking i mean each one of these posts was crazy and that first one with the op and walking in on her parents doing like the the tease thing in her clothes like i just couldn't believe that post like that was just crazy and insane to me and i mean just for the op to end up you know going to her friend's house and then being you know kind of abused by the op's friend's dad and just he was a predator as well like so scary so so scary and i hope that the op is doing better now and i hope that all of these ops are doing better now as well because like yeah today's video was pretty heavy and um just crazy and wild but um what did you guys think what reddit post did you find most interesting and um make sure to comment down below your thoughts i read every single comment so please comment down below i appreciate all the comments and also if you're still listening i mean this is the very end of the video so i assume you guys love the channel make sure to like the video and subscribe to the channel it really does help so so much the channel subscriber goal is 1 million subscribers before the end of the year so please subscribe and also if you'd like to get early access and ad free content to every single video on the channel go to my patreon five dollars a month to get early access to every single video and um also make sure to go follow me on instagram and follow me on spotify the support really does help so much and you guys are just the best thank you guys so much for the support thank you guys so much for watching and um this is snook and i'll see you next time bye i want to hire a private investigator some folks saying the best abc tuesdays tv's hottest pi is back sure you're ready to take on a serial killer it's like a dozen more likely explanations other than serial killer all right maybe not a dozen in florida crime has no off season i just heard you were shot at today with a rocket launcher well missed rj decker tuesdays 10 9 central on abc next day on hulu do you hear that that sound right that means that summer's officially here it means that grown adults just sprint into the street for a frozen dessert shaped like a cartoon but this summer mint mobile has a better tree every plan including unlimited is 15 a month and unlike ice cream it won't uh drip down your wrist or look nothing like the picture does anyone have any cash give it a try at mint mobile.com slash switch upfront payment of 45 for three months 90 for six months or 180 for 12 month plan required 15 per month equivalent taxes and fees extra new customer offer for initial plan term only greater than 50 gigabytes may slow when network is busy see terms