#151 Ik voel dat ik voor méér bedoeld ben maar ik blijf klein

Hey hello, very welcome to a new episode of my podcast. My name is Renske Menne and we are going to go back to this episode on something that is very important. If it is about the life of your fullest potential, or your dream life, and mindful. Because there is nothing without it, then gradually, gradually to something in the future. And that you then enjoy all the steps of being silent, of successors, the big and the small, then it makes no sense to live your fullest potential. And that also has a lot to do with a piece of self-development, self-awareness and ability to be who you are, and also to live your life in trust. That is also true of the baptism and trust has to do with self-confidence, trust has to do with self-love. Trust has to do with, well, of course, the hope in life, and yes, also knowing that the current moment, the moment we are now in, that it is the only thing that everyone has. That is the only thing that everyone has. So what all the differences are of all people in the world, one has this, the other has that, one does this, the other has that interest, the other does this, the other does that, but it is the only thing that we all have in common, is this moment, the only thing that we all have, and nobody has fixed the future and fixed it in that way. Of course, we have directions in our lives, there are expectations, but nobody has a 100% certain future and that makes us, despite all our differences, at the same time equal to each other. Well, today a podcast about a subject that is also, yes, of course essential in creating your dream life. It is very essential. Because maybe you are the one who feels very spoken to today, in the subject that you are going to give today. And that is, I feel that I am intended for more, but I stay small. I feel that I am intended for more, but I stay small. And maybe you feel very spoken to, because if you, look, if you feel that you are intended for more, that means that you are not yet your full potential for life. And that means that there are more persuasions, for example, that you still keep smaller, choices that you are not yet allowed to make, that you still keep smaller. And that can of course be from the beginning of that business, for example, or from making that big journey that you always want to make. Because then there are still elements in you, in your foundation, as it were, that you still, that you still keep here, and therefore not in the direction of letting your full potential go. And that is, I think, I do not think I am telling this to one listener, I think that I, well, I am not really allowed to present it, but I think that a large part of the listeners who are here in this podcast are looking for a sort of awareness, a spiritual growth in themselves, and there I am already working on that, and yes, I have certainly already put a stick there. And maybe you are still at the beginning, but you are at least interested in that, so you are interested and active in the work. And I think that most of the listeners here also feel that there is still more to take from me. There is more to take from me, and I also want it to be taken out instead of that voice that says, no, no, no, let me stay like this, but you stay with me at the old, here it is safe, it is exciting, it is scary to put those other steps, or what is it at all, but I feel more in me, but I do not dare to go there. And whether you say, but I want to say, it is a big time, so I think, oh, I do not know where I have to start, I feel that there is more, but I would not even know what, or maybe you already have a lot of what, but yes, there are glimpses that you keep up to not come there. And therefore you feel that you are being kept small. You stay small, but you want to step into your size. And only to realize this means that you are busy with that growth. And only what I already said about the medium listener, who is here at the podcast, is already working on it, so you are already in development. And yes, maybe if I ask you a question, because it is often not as difficult as we sometimes prove ourselves. If I ask you a question, okay, what is the first thing that comes up to you, what has not come out yet, you have come, but what you do want it to come out, and then you can now answer a given thought. Okay, do you have your answer? Okay, next question. What is it that has made you feel that you are not there yet, that you do not have this potential of yourself yet to live? And this is an interesting answer, so let's get to it. And this answer says so much, because this is exactly the instruction, which you can work on. This is exactly the instruction of the direction that you are allowed to work on yourself, to grow yourself, you can grow yourself. And I also know that the people who listen, the people who want to invest their time for themselves, also want to invest money for themselves, because you know that you can do it all by yourself, but that sometimes takes years and endless, and sometimes of course, I have also read a lot of books, that helps a lot. And at the same time, it also helps very much to be able to invest in it, to get yourself a step forward. But good, that's not what I'm talking about in the podcast, but I think that the people who I talk to realize that if I dare to invest, then I will grow and then I will come earlier where I want to be, so where you just heard your answer. And maybe the one you are against, maybe that's a bit of a fear, because you know what it is. Look, when it comes to, let's talk about business, and it comes about the implementation of that business, the going to do business, the door to do it, or the going to do it, especially, so that you realize that you are in the business, how much percent do you think that goes into the business to strategize? Well, then of course I can tell you right away, that's 20 percent. 80 percent is about how it goes to your head, 80 percent is mindset, 80 percent is completely from yourself, from your inner drive, it comes from, well that mindset is of course built on a foundation of self-confidence, of self-love, knowing that you can put something down, that you can give something to others, that you can also catch up with others, that you can catch up with orders, for example, of your clients. So, yes, strategy is certainly essential, without strategy you can't go anywhere, but the psychological part is so much bigger, because that's what it's all about, if you, for example, always had, in the beginning of this episode, if you always run, run, run, run, for example, because you think, oh, I still have to do that, then I can finally stand still, but that's an illusion that makes people realize themselves, and that means you're only in a burnout at work, and that really is something that you want to come up with, and if you're already in it, you want to come up with it again, but 80 percent is the psychology, is what is happening in your head on a day between you and me, and that comes back to the question of today, the subject of today, because you feel that there is more in me, there is more in me, but in some way you remain small, and there are so many strategies, and this is actually a very simple example, say someone wants to disappear, say you want to disappear, and then, if I ask you, are there strategies available? Well, yes, anyway, there are strategies available, the internet is full with only possibilities, all kinds of diets, all kinds of, well, you can see your schedule on a scale, on the way your diet is, and then it tells you exactly what you can eat and how you have to sport, and then it succeeds to disappear, and I always have to say that, I always think it's a bit, it doesn't really fit for me at all, to use an example of disappearing, but of course that's because I had a diet before, and I also know that disappearing is sometimes something that is not necessary at all in your ears, but I just want to use it as an example that you understand where I want to go, what I want to explain to you. Okay, so we have decided with each other now, if it doesn't work to disappear, it's not on the strategy, because there are thousands of them, it's so easy to install an app to find out what is going to disappear, so it's not on the strategy, strategies are endless, I have just talked about that 20-80%, but there is a reason why it doesn't work, for example, maybe your motivation is not strong enough, you think, well, it should actually be, but don't you actually think it's not important enough again? It's finally about knowing why you want to do something, because how stronger you know what you want to do, how stronger your reason is that what you want to do, what you want to realize, what you want to achieve, if you feel that way from your heart, why you want to do that, not from your head, that doesn't really matter to me, and of course you use your right brain to give processes that happen in your heart to context, but we really dive into the heart, if you know why you do that potential that is in you, that has not yet come out, why you want to let that come out, and you get that engine through it, because if you are very strong in front of you, this is why I want it, this is why I want to live that potential, there can be a lot of reasons, first of all, I think it gives you self-energy, it gives you self-interest, I think that is already very important, but then it is also important to realize what you can give with that potential that you have, that you will also bring something with it, maybe it is music or whatever it is, but you will bring something with it, and maybe it is also, if you want to make that big journey, maybe it is mainly for the fulfillment of yourself, to learn, to know from a world, to know cultures, to know new people, because you also don't make a record of it, and it doesn't have to go the other way, but you have to know why you want to do something, because if that why is not brighter, then you don't have enough engine to stay busy with it, because then maybe you have the engine on for a while, but then they take it back over again every day, and then that fire that was gone, it disappears all over again, but if you have that why, why do you want to get that full potential out of you, and maybe it is also good to think about what costs you, if it is not realized, if it is not realized, and if you can answer this question here, then you will always be brighter, and then you know, this is why I do it, and this is why it is not an option for me to not let go of it, and then you go looking for possibilities, and then you choose yourself to, for example, invest in someone who can help you in a program, if you buy a book, to start, and then you make hours for that, so you stand up earlier, those are the things you are going to do, and then you can, so that potential, whatever comes out, you can let go of it, but there are a few basis, I will not say principles, but there is a basis for need, let me put it that way, there is a basis that is necessary in yourself to be able to do it, and I like everyone very much, since that is my thing that I want to give people, to get that out of yourself, to get that out of yourself, because if you are going to get that out of yourself, you are more in your mind, then you start to shine more, the energy is going to flow, and then things are going to happen, so there is a reason, if you are not yet fully aware of the potential, why is that? And if you have those clear, then you can also work on it to get your full potential out of yourself, and again I say in my podcast, do not worry about it, it is work, you have to do it, but if you do the work, then you will be in that light, then you will be able to get full potential, then you will get full potential, and that is why I am here, that I want you to do that, I only like to see people in a power, in a power, in a light, in a power, it does not only mean testosterone power, but it can also be very soft, earthy power, but that is where I want to see you, I hope that you, that you light up, what you feel, with this podcast, to just put the engine on again, maybe you have a lot written with me during the questions I asked, because they are just, it is often, it is often not rocket science, it is, it is just the right question to get, to get the answers, and to create a focus, to get brighter, what it is, what the full potential is, and then it just does not hold anything against me anymore, I want to thank you for being here today, and yes, if you are interested, please let me know, I think it will be very nice to hear from you today, I would say a lot of success, and yes, life is a playground, we are here to play, to not take life too seriously, and also really to see that life is there to play and to practice and try things out, and they may only fail again, that is life. If you agree to do that, then it will only be much more fun, because then you grow and then you live, then you feel that you live, and then you also know that it is, it is a game, an investigation, we see how it works and how it, and of course you have a goal, but it does not have to be a single line, precisely considering the advantage, because it does not exist either. I'm going to end today's podcast again, I'm glad that you were there again, and I would like to talk to you again very quickly, thank you, bye! Would you still want to help me a lot by placing a review in Spotify or Apple Podcast, or share this episode with all your friends, where you think, yes, they also have something to share on your social media, it would all be super nice, it helps me to grow the visibility of podcasts and to be able to grow the podcast further, so thank you very much for that, and I will talk to you very much again in the next episode, bye!